Jordan Peterson: The Power of Gossip and the Cost of Reputation Damage
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- Опубліковано 28 жов 2024
- Dr. Jordan Peterson discusses the impact of gossip on individuals and how easily it can damage someone's reputation. He shares his own experiences with selecting podcast guests and the challenges of overcoming the negative halo effect caused by rumors. Join Dr. Peterson as he delves into the complexities of human interactions and the consequences of assuming 'where there's smoke, there's fire.
Someone spread a (false) vicious rumor about me at my workplace very recently. Peterson is right: the cost to the person gossiped about is really, really high.
Lemme guess... nobody bothered to even ask you about it.
😢 aww now who problem is that. Should you care? Don't think so
@@hxhdfjifzirstc894 people should start double checking on the gossip
I had my reputation publicly destroyed
A lawyer can't enact "anti slander" legal action in this case? They will go after potential money...
Same, and all because of a random motherf*cker
Me too but after years I’m learning that the power is truly in your hands. It’s not what happens to you it’s how you react.
Sometimes it affects your life so much that you become unsafe to the point you’re attacked out in public.
The Gossip on steroids , is the covert workplace bully and community social bully .
Peterson.
I agree with you on this one. It’s human nature. I’ve given up on people. At individual level maybe I don’t feel instantly nauseated, but the bloody mobs (i.e. two or more)… Oh, man, that is DISGUSTING 🤮
That last part is all true even if you judge people in your head all the time, bad things will come your way. @EYRM9
I am in depression because of losing a potential relationship destroyed by a woman gossiped at work only coz she was jealous and unhappy in her relationship. I am heartbroken. The person I liked has left the workplace and I have to deal with all of the gossip, talks and reputation damage myself. M just so hurt and I am a 100 percent confident fearless woman but my emotions have been fractured by this woman. She is insecure and will die that way but it’s just so hurtful to see her and her gang everyday at work. I wanna quit my job but I won’t coz I am strong. But on somedays m exhausted since I can’t trust anyone and have no one to share what she did with me. It’s devastating!! M hurt and on somedays m done being strong!
Hey, how are you doing? Have things gotten better?
She did you a favor ✌🏽 God works in mysterious ways
I think you're great for facing the trouble makers, but if it's stressing you out in an unhealthy way, it might be better to move on , if you can.
Sometimes, leaving is winning. That is what I did! Looking back over the years, the benefits have been enormous (to my career, status, etc). !! And without you to ostracize on a daily basis, these people will have nothing to live for!! They will lose ALL of their power! Make sure you have your ducks in a row before you resign. Give them no more than two weeks notice upon leaving. Write your exit interview.
I am a young guy in school . About a year ago, I offended someone and they spread a rumor that I was addicted to porn and that I was a pedophile. Because of this rumor, I have had my reputation impact it to a horrible degree. I don’t even know how to come back from that type of thing now all the girls at school avoid me and think that I look at them. I don’t even know what to do anymore. If I’m trying to defend myself, everyone assumes it’s just a lie. And the rumors just keep on building up. 😢
A similar situation is happening with me. But I don't even know what the rumors are about.
Anyway, I hope you are doing well.
Pray for help
I’ve too had my reputation destroyed to the point where it could have ruined my life. If you are in high school or below, I would recommend perhaps reporting this to a teacher or a guidance counselor so that you all can get the bottom of things.
Use this opportunity to grow. My situation has thought me to not be so naive and trusting of others as everyone does not have your best intentions at heart.
As a 30 year old who's been lied about, I have decided to take my slanderers to court. Am not listening to anyone who keeps saying silence is golden, especially when I can't find the gold in the silence.
Hello👋 Jordan thanks a lot to bring this subject alive as defamation have almost killed me if not "the let them theory am hanging to,as iam avoided wherever I go.Iam an HSP but laballed & framed with mental health I dont have in a world where the stigma of mental health is so big so am facing it all,all dark side of what human is..
Avoided everywhere you go i relate but i cant get used to this
as a guy i also have to fight my gossiping tendincys
seems when i feel unhappy w myself is when there is the most tendency to talk smack
Pathetic.
Very insightful and very useful, Pastor Tim. Thank you and God Bless your ministry.
Gossip...and gossipers need to be frowned upon because they are alive, probably healthy and live for vengeance because it is they who are no longer in danger and are totally fine. They are not dead. Theybhave wounds that are not real. They give excuses to really bad behavior, nurture it, feed off undeserved sympathy and remove justice all together.Definite justice removers. They are schemers. Live to hate. And don't like justice...it totally jives with their inward evil.
Feel this for sure
I wouldn't take it personally it could be you or someone else the reason why they do this is because they're miserable and usually misery loves company, they can't stand to look in the mirror. A person who truly loves themselves [ not in a conceided or narcissistic way ] would never do that !
I’ve experienced both sides. It’s stupid horrible don’t do it.
I don't think there has been any force more destructive than the gossip that was spoken about me most of which was completely untrue and the parts that were were grossly exaggerated. Many religions compare gossiping to killing someone because you're killing their reputation. It's a horrible thing to do.
If you have ever gossiped about someone you owe it to them to do the exact opposite and say just as many positive things about them in public.
Spreading faleshoods is like sowing thistles amoungst the wheat seed. Yet if the gossip is true then the damge can not be repaired and the thistles seeds grow into mighty trees.
@EYRM9 ok, thank you for the verses. I will contemplate the truth in your verses, please.
1982 "THE PLAGUE DOGS" is a cartoon about many things!!! But one of those things is gossip and indifference and caring and of course after all of it !! comes death!!! Death as a welcoming escape from the gossip!!
I regret my gossiping.
I told a tradesman i didn’t want him working on my house anymore and now he’s posting lies about me on the community Facebook page 😔
Jordan is not the victim of gossip, he filed a lawsuit against his peers in the case of Peterson v. College of Psychologists of Ontario, 2023 ONSC 4685 DIVISIONAL COURT FILE NO.: 714/22 DATE: 20230823. He also practices defamation of children when he made the video against the GAG order of the Montana Supreme Court involving the Montana Kolstadt family court case. And to boot, the US Supreme Court just affirmed it in a case identical in Indiana be reusing to even hear the case for certiorari.
I’m sure you would do everything thing for him but he new he is a tool of something you don’t understand 😊
Lets see the ENTIRE story of Jordan Peterson. His bad conduct in courts in the case of Case 1 Sordi v. Sordi, 2009 CanLII 80104 (ON SC) he defamed a parent in court. In the case 2 R. v. Pearce, 2012 MBQB 22 (CanLII) he tried to free a murderer. Then in the case Peterson v. College of Psychologists of Ontario, 2023 ONSC 4685, he tried to avoid taking responsibility. He also tried to interfere in a family court case in Montana, the Kolstadt case, where there was a GAG order, he unprofessionally diagnosed a minor without interviews or assessments, and tried to defend unfit parents.
The irony
I have learned something from reading Plato. The important thing to take when interacting with anyone is the beneficial ideas they might have for me regardless of who the person is or might be. So, take what you can learn because it might be true regardless of whether the person is someone you like or dislike.
@@ymaaw3735 But Plato was the one that also promoted the elimination of BIASES. Which Jordan champions BIAS in everything he says. Still, Plato’s goal was, in essence, to help people see through their own biases and flawed assumptions-things that are just as pervasive today as they were in Ancient Greece. Although he lived more than two thousand years ago, his work reflects an understanding of many cognitive biases and heuristics that have been coined by modern-day behavioral scientists. Again, Jordan has ACTED on bias and done so for selfish purposes.
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That’s happened to you.
Thus, Trump's convictions
Whole cultures were built on gossip because they had no written records eg moaris Australian Aboriginals so you don’t take their stories seriously