It is so refreshing to see a young handsome man give such intelligent advice to people. It is so needed in this day and age. Oh yeah, thanks for making me laugh so hard that I'm crying daily. Laughing so hard that I don't even need to do my sit-ups LOL.😂
I love that a young good looking man is actually out here talking about respecting women & also being vulnerable himself about what he needs out of a relationship (and a lot of other men are too afraid to be vulnerable in our society because of some archaic notion that men are supposed to be tough & not express their emotions). I really hope he means what he says & he's not just doing it for views/likes. He seems genuine though, so ty so much for putting these videos out there!!
Totally agree...I'm sorry to hear you previously didn't have your love language understood - I had that with my ex but we talked it through as communication is key. Sadly, he passed away almost 2 years ago (April) xx
My love language is touch too, and I rarely have recieved touch in my life; It's okay I'm not gonna die but I feel like I'm starving in a dry desert throughout a period of famine...that's how it feels.
It’s ALL about communication! No games, just good ol’ fashioned honesty, kindness, respect for yourself and the other. It’s also helpful to not take everything too seriously. Some things definitely warrant it, but there is nothing quite like laughing or smiling so much that at the end of the night your face hurts. 😊
I grew up in a family where affection was not shown but does that make me weird for wanting physical touch? My love languages are quality time/physical touch.
When it comes to physical touch, you really need to know where the person is coming from. I always did as my parents said, and I was raised very repressed in regards to romantic relationships. Some parents are like, "just wear protection, and please just don't do it around us." My mom made me feel super ashamed of ever thinking about adult content. I love my mom, but I'm honestly a little messed up (in a non dangerous way)...lol... On top of that, the media be blowing stories up about sexual harassment, so doing little things as a guy, makes you feel vulnerable. I also believe that it should be a general consensus that guys want it more, therefore in the dating process, women should be the ones expressing a desire to move forward (especially because they're the smaller/weaker partner normally). No matter who you are: you shouldn't want to make any physical contact period, if the other person genuinely doesn't want it. So ladies, don't say no, if you deep down just want to test his drive or something. Say no, if you don't want it, or if you're testing his ability to respect you. Just to emphasize, stop saying no when you really mean yes; you're going to end up with a complete asshole...
Exactly, it’s so important to understand both your own love language and your partners if you want the relationship to last. One thing I’d add is that sometimes people have multiple love languages! For example, mine is both Touch and Quality Time, which I figured out after a lot of introspection. So yeah, just keep that in mind.
Well said, I’ll definitely keep this in mind for the future! I know since my love language is gift giving/words of affirmation, I’d love if my future boyfriend used that to show me he cares enough for me 🥰 you give great advice!
These are all so true. Communication is the #1 thing in relationships. You need to understand the way your partner lives and show them love in a way they're familiar with, and vice versa.
Never though about reassuring through the way the person enjoys being loved. And like trying to get to know which way each of you shows your love really does give some space to think, and see if there is anything that needs to be compromised , before anything happens. But it really did click in my mind. Great advice by all means
Also remeber you can have more than one love language. How you express love may not be the same as how you receive love. And love languages can change.
My love languages are quality time, words of affirmation (on occasion) and physical touch. My way of showing love is gift giving and quality time tho. I dated a guy and he never gave me compliments other than calling me 'cute' and I was so self conscious all the time bc of it. I would constantly send paragraphs of why I was attracted to him and wanted to be with him, but that fizzled out bc I wasn't receiving the same attention. It was so unhealthy (on both sides) and we've been broken up for two months. I'm still feeling it bro. Got any "getting back into dating"/"feel good" tips?
I feel like if I get into a relationship and I’m not touched by my partner because they don’t understand I will feel like something is wrong with me and I will be sad
I have a question. I’ve been wanting to get into a relationship recently, but I don’t really…like sex. I’m asexual. I don’t want to have sex. It makes me feel gross. I’ve had trouble with finding someone who is willing to not have sex and be in a relationship with me. I could try letting them have sex with other people, but that idea makes me feel as though I’m not good enough, and I don’t need my self-esteem to get any lower. What do I do?
Even if you don’t understand their love language ask them about it, it shows you care and you’re making an effort to make them feel appreciated! 😊
Yess for sure
It is so refreshing to see a young handsome man give such intelligent advice to people. It is so needed in this day and age. Oh yeah, thanks for making me laugh so hard that I'm crying daily. Laughing so hard that I don't even need to do my sit-ups LOL.😂
Yes....indeed ...he is the funniest I saw out here on youtube....
I think everyone should watch this before getting into a relationship 😭❤ Its so true!!! ❤
Exactly!!! For sure
I love that a young good looking man is actually out here talking about respecting women & also being vulnerable himself about what he needs out of a relationship (and a lot of other men are too afraid to be vulnerable in our society because of some archaic notion that men are supposed to be tough & not express their emotions). I really hope he means what he says & he's not just doing it for views/likes. He seems genuine though, so ty so much for putting these videos out there!!
Totally agree...I'm sorry to hear you previously didn't have your love language understood - I had that with my ex but we talked it through as communication is key. Sadly, he passed away almost 2 years ago (April) xx
My love language is touch too, and I rarely have recieved touch in my life; It's okay I'm not gonna die but I feel like I'm starving in a dry desert throughout a period of famine...that's how it feels.
It’s ALL about communication! No games, just good ol’ fashioned honesty, kindness, respect for yourself and the other. It’s also helpful to not take everything too seriously. Some things definitely warrant it, but there is nothing quite like laughing or smiling so much that at the end of the night your face hurts. 😊
I grew up in a family where affection was not shown but does that make me weird for wanting physical touch? My love languages are quality time/physical touch.
When it comes to physical touch, you really need to know where the person is coming from. I always did as my parents said, and I was raised very repressed in regards to romantic relationships.
Some parents are like, "just wear protection, and please just don't do it around us."
My mom made me feel super ashamed of ever thinking about adult content. I love my mom, but I'm honestly a little messed up (in a non dangerous way)...lol...
On top of that, the media be blowing stories up about sexual harassment, so doing little things as a guy, makes you feel vulnerable.
I also believe that it should be a general consensus that guys want it more, therefore in the dating process, women should be the ones expressing a desire to move forward (especially because they're the smaller/weaker partner normally).
No matter who you are: you shouldn't want to make any physical contact period, if the other person genuinely doesn't want it.
So ladies, don't say no, if you deep down just want to test his drive or something. Say no, if you don't want it, or if you're testing his ability to respect you.
Just to emphasize, stop saying no when you really mean yes; you're going to end up with a complete asshole...
Exactly, it’s so important to understand both your own love language and your partners if you want the relationship to last.
One thing I’d add is that sometimes people have multiple love languages! For example, mine is both Touch and Quality Time, which I figured out after a lot of introspection. So yeah, just keep that in mind.
Loving the topics that you touch......❤
Indeed ....true.....
Well said, I’ll definitely keep this in mind for the future! I know since my love language is gift giving/words of affirmation, I’d love if my future boyfriend used that to show me he cares enough for me 🥰 you give great advice!
These are all so true. Communication is the #1 thing in relationships. You need to understand the way your partner lives and show them love in a way they're familiar with, and vice versa.
Never though about reassuring through the way the person enjoys being loved. And like trying to get to know which way each of you shows your love really does give some space to think, and see if there is anything that needs to be compromised , before anything happens. But it really did click in my mind. Great advice by all means
Great advice!!! Thank you 😊
Relationships isn't one size fits all.Each one is unique cause every person is unique.Which is why communication is important.
Well you get to know the person and then you will know what their love language is. Mine is touch so expect lots of hugs.😊
The advice you give is so valuable
I have been journaling the advice and I'm grateful for it ❤
Who would not want to hug you? When you are so adorable?
Also remeber you can have more than one love language. How you express love may not be the same as how you receive love. And love languages can change.
Adrian your eyes are so pretty! I love you man!
Thank you so much! I really appreciate knowing this.
Love your videos Adrian it makes me feel confident about myself and understand more about relationships etc.
My love languages are quality time, words of affirmation (on occasion) and physical touch. My way of showing love is gift giving and quality time tho. I dated a guy and he never gave me compliments other than calling me 'cute' and I was so self conscious all the time bc of it. I would constantly send paragraphs of why I was attracted to him and wanted to be with him, but that fizzled out bc I wasn't receiving the same attention. It was so unhealthy (on both sides) and we've been broken up for two months. I'm still feeling it bro. Got any "getting back into dating"/"feel good" tips?
Also I love your videos they make me feel kinda known ig
You are so gorgeous!!!
I’m on break ,I need this Advice lol ..
Omg i luv ur vids 😭
Thank you 😊 😊😊
Man I need to work on my love language then 😩
Okay😊
Hay you look good 🙈and l love your video 💗
I feel like if I get into a relationship and I’m not touched by my partner because they don’t understand I will feel like something is wrong with me and I will be sad
Here to stop that one kid from saying “first” but I am fr first.
I have a question. I’ve been wanting to get into a relationship recently, but I don’t really…like sex. I’m asexual. I don’t want to have sex. It makes me feel gross. I’ve had trouble with finding someone who is willing to not have sex and be in a relationship with me. I could try letting them have sex with other people, but that idea makes me feel as though I’m not good enough, and I don’t need my self-esteem to get any lower. What do I do?
Can my kids have your eyes???😊😊😊
I just got ghosted 😍😍😍
Hey adrian
How does a girl know her love language??😢😢😢
Ok why do boys ghost after he said he loves me and he said you and only you and he said he’s my man and now it’s been over 13 hours no responses
First of all why does he have red eyes bro👨⚖️ also he's not handsome sorry not being mean or somat it's just that he really not it .
First