that’s the absolute best thing you could do ❤ life is so freaking hard sometimes and I can’t imagine what you’re going through…but God is so good and he’s the only one who’s opinion truly matters
I’m sure I mentioned it in a comment before, but I get really insecure about my hair when it comes to guys. Most girls can’t relate to this, but I have a medical condition and often wear a wig. Complete strangers have commented about it to me before and it makes me insecure, especially when it comes to people I’m interested in
No offense but wigs are really good now... Also most guys dont care. I wear wigs too. Try rpghair they have some good ones. I couldnt resist commenting because i work with people that have thin hair and alopecia
Honestly you’re are doing the greatest job making us feel comfortable because my confidence just goes up when I watch you. Btw, the couch is AWESOME 👏😱!
Hey adrian! I just wanted to let you know that, honestly you are the most amazing, honest, safe and awesome person that i have heard and seen, i have dealt with acne since i was 12 and i have always been SO insecure about it and you took that away in one day! Thank you so much❤😊
I just started following him recently and he is actually making me feel better about myself and I have been dealing with like being awkward around guys and he is amazing
Your videos and UA-cam shorts keep popping up in my feed and it makes me feel much better. I'm still trying to be okay with my hip dips and thighs. I used to be insecure about my tummy and arms, but I've worked on making myself better on the outside and inside so I'm much better now. Sorry got a little off track BUT thank you for your videos! ❤
More videos about advice for people who haven't been in a relationship before, please! I'm 24, and I'm starting to begin that season. I just watched that video.
Well said and it’s good to see you’re using this as a safe space. Although I don’t have acne, I struggle with image issues as an adult. I surround myself with people who accept me as I am. I just need to accept myself as I am.
I just want to say that you have helped me through some really tough times when it comes to being bullied in school you have brought up my confidence by 1000 percent and I just want to say thank you
I didn’t struggle with acne but I went through puberty really early and because my friends and the other girls in my grade were not going through it, it caused a whole lot of self esteem issues and insecurities which led to me having a binge eating disorder and I ended up overweight for most of my life which caused more low self esteem issues and severe depression from it but im finally taking control of my life to be the best and healthiest version of myself.
Love your channel and thank you for the last video it has rly inspired me to try and be less anxious and more free and I'm noticing more dudes wanting to approach so thank you so so much 😊
as someone who is so uncomfortable with their acne. this made me so happy. i am struggling sm rn and idk what to do. there’s this guy that i love sm but it’s long distance and i told him that i can’t be with him rn for my own good and that i don’t want to end up hurting him and he said that i already did hurt him and idk what i did. im just struggling so much. i’ve never had suicidal thoughts but today ive had the thought of ending it all. i’m sorry.
Hey it will go away! When you in and it looks bad you can not imagine it to go away...but it will slowly...and i did microneedling because i had scares, my face was full of these litlle holes. But now nobody sees anything...and people with acne skin usally have longer youthful skin! So think about that sometimes.
What about bruises and scars? I have a lot of bruises and scars and I'm very insecuritie about them. I js need to know. ALSO, YOURE AWSOME AND TYSM FOR YOUR VIDEOS!!!!
I'm 4'9", I have acne, and people pick on me for my height (most are my friends and siblings, but one person, in particular, called me a midget over and over again, as well as a gnome). The thing that sucks the most is that I can't really change my height. I also have pretty low self-confidence and struggle with both anxiety and social anxiety, as well as being introverted. I only say this in hopes that someone relates and because it's a safe space. I hope you have a beautiful day/night
I'm constantly insecure about my belly rolls, and my arm fat. I hate that I feel this way because ik its not that bad but its just hard when I feel fat
I'm really inscure about like alot, even my laugh i fake my laugh around people because i've been called weird and annoying, i dunno i think its self esteem stuff tbh but thanks i love your videos they genuinly cheer me up
hey i know you’ve already talked about being on the thicker side but could you talk about being skinny also being an insecurity? and the visible bloating and things that come with being skinny? i’ve been struggling to gain weight for a while and it’s honestly an insecurity of mine that’s often overlooked since so many people think they want to be skinny. thank you ❤
When I had acne. . . oh my gosh. . .going to be real here. Picture it. . . Braces on the teeth, SCORCHING case of acne, homely. . . UGH! I didn’t have anything to work with, and a face that looked like a “meat lovers pizza.” Had to have a physical to go to college. Family doc answering every question on the form-looks at my face and says, “Honey, I’ve been your doctor most of your life! Why didn’t you say something? You can’t see the scars under my beard-I KNOW this is awful for you. Let’s fix it.” Meds cleared it right up! First week on campus, walking to class. Two guys stop, I smiled, walked on by. One says “Dayyum! Did you see that blonde?” I’m kinda looking around for some rich sorority chick. . . IT WAS ME!!! Thought I had died and gone to Heaven!
Thank you Adrian for creating a safe space.😊So What do you do when a guy's actions and words match but they don't actually like you and they pretended to like you just for their entertainment? How will i ever know for sure that a guy has good intentions?
Kind of a rant thing, idk: (for context I am in my second year of highschool) I have had a couple of crushes since the start of highschool but they all either proved they weren't interested or got girlfriends. Then I had this crush on this one guy and I mean it was serious - probably my first serious serious crush. But we were friends so I didn't say anything cause I didn't wanna make things weird. Later he confessed he liked me back and I mean I was crazy excited cause no one has ever liked me before. He was really sweet and stuff but then more time I spent with him the more he asked for money and or me to do stuff for him and by the end of a month it felt like he was using me. I just ignored it though and was grateful enough to be in a relationship. Then a week or so later he blammed me when he stole something from one of our teachers and put it in my bag - I got expelled. when I confronted him he broke up with me and called me a loud mouth, ugly, weird, and stupid. I shouldn't care about it but I always feel like I am way too loud and talk to much and to know someone thought the same just makes me really anxious.
I think it’d be interesting to hear about the insecurities guys have but don’t talk about much. (: Also, were you in a David Alvareezy video a few months ago?
Hey, you are really making me feel better about myself, and making me more confident. You are very inspiring, and I have a question that I'm hoping you can answer. Do boys care if a girl is depressed? I was really wondering that, and like I said before, I hope you can answer it.
I dunno if I’m alone in this, but being a single mom and having the insecurity of instantly feeling unattractive because of all the judgement in society towards single moms. Also, the toe twinkle on the couch gave me life! 😆
Heyyyyyy i have been scoping your videos but never heard your name....i am a fan of your delighted videos❤❤ but anyways a "social problem" i have been under going is how tight my jeans have become due to womanhood so that makes me a lil self aware but gaining confidence because i am bootyful😂❤❤ and your encouragement and kindness helps😊😊
My stepmom has been making me mad lately (lately being past few months) like today she asked me to do my chores and I sat there for a few minutes after she said that because I feel (comment if u agree) that it means go start it within the next 5-6 minutes then she was like “Am I talking to a wall?” And I’m like “No.” then she was like “Then why rn’t u going?” Then I was like “I will I’m just gonna sit here 4 a minute.” Then she said “Why r u ignoring me?” And I like just started being able to control my anger and like nobody and when I say nobody I mean nobody knew that I was struggling with my anger management so I’m sitting there trying not to get myself into trouble so I said “I am not ignoring u like I said I’m was just gonna sit here a minute.” But then I started to lose my temper so I left. And I’m still pissed but it’s whatever now. P.S. pretty boy u r changing my life for the better love u.🙂
My boyfriend broke up with me because he thought I had horrible acne and I was too flat to be seen with him He's right I have acne and I'm flat but he didn't have to do me like that
I have a question for you... what if I'm not comfortable with myself... how is my partner supposed to deal with it... no matter how many times they tell me, I'm pretty and other stuff... I still feel ugly... do you know how to deal with that?
I dated a guy last year for three months, we both had a lot of fun. But when I told him about my chronic health issues, he dumped me. I was just wondering if chronic health issues are deal breakers.
hey yall! Since this is a safe space just wanted to say I found out recently that my crush likes someone else at school. The night I am typing this he brought her to my youth group and I think they might start dating. Life is hurting rn, and I keep trying to tell myself we can still be friends but it’s not the same. But, I did get his number tho, so maybe I still got a chance!
I feel bad for venting but I really need to rn…So the guy that I’m in a situation ship with we uhm…we did the deed and me and him where fine until I said that my period was late and I was scared that he might have gotten me pregnant..he has been acting a little weird and then today he was acting really really weird and so I tolled my friend and in girl code if something is off you secretly call them and follow them (ps I’m also in school- but not when writing this) and he is trying to be friends with the girl the threatened me (even though he doesn’t know about that) and my friend asked about me and he said “I don’t have the heart to tell them that I don’t want to hang out anymore” and that hurt so much because I gave him everything I did everything for him and he does this…I did what ever he asked whenever he asked…I love him…I showed him every part of me…and the reason he doesn’t want to hang out with me is because of my personality that I changed several times for HIM…so that he would like me…
I just started dating my now bf, but I was really worried ( and still am) about what he’s gonna think my body. I’m a taller girl 5’9, with thick thighs, stretch marks and a little bit of a tummy. I’m worried he’s not going to love me when he sees my body. Any advice?(from anyone)
Right now I feel very insecure about stretch marks I have them all over my body and I have them on my arms and I have acne I that way no one really notices what should I do
I am struggling with my weight. I've always been skinny and suddenly I've a double chin and none of my jeans fit? Like idk what to do man, it's debilitating to look at my pictures from eight months back. I used to be skinny. It's all cause I started working eight months back and it was a desk job.
Dude, my grandmother and mother call me average looking. I mean, I considered myself pretty, but now I just think that I'm ugly just because I have almond eyes and circle face shape with a bit flat nose and a bit chubby cheeks
I feel real insecure about my body I've has to two kids and nothing went back the way it was before my butts bigger and wider and my thighs are a little bigger and I have a little pouch but my husband's say I look great but I do not feel that way
Thanks now I don't care about my acne and also please make video about fat girl cause I am fat and I don't like that can you help me like that umm please
I love how he makes us girls feel better about ourselves so thank you 🫶
sameeeeee its so comforting!
Anyone who gives you a hard time about one of your insecurities doesn’t deserve you!!! And that couch is nice:))
His eyes are an unnatural shade of red and I didn't think that shit was possible.
Whiskey eyes
"I bought a big ass couch" quote of the year ❤😂
Acne is annoying, but it’s a part of life! Thank you for validating it 👏🏻 I love that this is a safe space! Also congrats on the new couch :)
I am dealing with depression and with people belittling me .............but I keep taking it to God .
that’s the absolute best thing you could do ❤ life is so freaking hard sometimes and I can’t imagine what you’re going through…but God is so good and he’s the only one who’s opinion truly matters
@@bestfriends4ever495 THANK YOU 😊
That is the best you can do keep it going I will pray for you🫶🏻
@@Roni_Red thank you
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
If anyone is ever feeling insecure, watch this channel, and you'll feel better immediately. Thanks for making the awesome videos
Your enthusiasm about that couch is sweet. 😁
I’m sure I mentioned it in a comment before, but I get really insecure about my hair when it comes to guys. Most girls can’t relate to this, but I have a medical condition and often wear a wig. Complete strangers have commented about it to me before and it makes me insecure, especially when it comes to people I’m interested in
No offense but wigs are really good now... Also most guys dont care. I wear wigs too. Try rpghair they have some good ones. I couldnt resist commenting because i work with people that have thin hair and alopecia
You are intimidatingly handsome and so genuinely sweet! I love your encouragement and positive messages! You rock! 😁 🪨 🎸 🤘
Oh my goodness 😂he is so funny, sweet and smart. He really puts a different aspect to things and it’s refreshing
the clip when he's just sitting on the couch after saying "there's so much room for activities" then proceeds to sit on the couch and do nothing
You're the best guy this world could ever ask for end of discussion.
I love re-watching these videos when I feel super insecure, it makes me feel a lot better. Thank you ❤
Honestly you’re are doing the greatest job making us feel comfortable because my confidence just goes up when I watch you. Btw, the couch is AWESOME 👏😱!
Man he is so underrated. You will grow mwah. Trust.
Hey adrian! I just wanted to let you know that, honestly you are the most amazing, honest, safe and awesome person that i have heard and seen, i have dealt with acne since i was 12 and i have always been SO insecure about it and you took that away in one day! Thank you so much❤😊
I just started following him recently and he is actually making me feel better about myself and I have been dealing with like being awkward around guys and he is amazing
Thank youuu so much
I like your enthusiasm and your sense of humor it's refreshing to see. Thanks for sharing your energy. 🤗
I'm in high school and it sucks. the list of insecurities I have is like forever long....so thank you for eliminating them one at time
I love watching your videos thank you for making people feel so good about them selves 🩷
How is he so perfect and funny
Your videos and UA-cam shorts keep popping up in my feed and it makes me feel much better. I'm still trying to be okay with my hip dips and thighs. I used to be insecure about my tummy and arms, but I've worked on making myself better on the outside and inside so I'm much better now. Sorry got a little off track BUT thank you for your videos! ❤
More videos about advice for people who haven't been in a relationship before, please! I'm 24, and I'm starting to begin that season. I just watched that video.
U alone on the sofa and enjoying the space was everything 😂
OMG when he talks with his lovely heart makes me feel safe. Bye
Well said and it’s good to see you’re using this as a safe space. Although I don’t have acne, I struggle with image issues as an adult. I surround myself with people who accept me as I am. I just need to accept myself as I am.
I just want to say that you have helped me through some really tough times when it comes to being bullied in school you have brought up my confidence by 1000 percent and I just want to say thank you
I didn’t struggle with acne but I went through puberty really early and because my friends and the other girls in my grade were not going through it, it caused a whole lot of self esteem issues and insecurities which led to me having a binge eating disorder and I ended up overweight for most of my life which caused more low self esteem issues and severe depression from it but im finally taking control of my life to be the best and healthiest version of myself.
Love your channel and thank you for the last video it has rly inspired me to try and be less anxious and more free and I'm noticing more dudes wanting to approach so thank you so so much 😊
“Acne is just sprinkles toppings you can just blow off and the paprika” -one wize man once said
as someone who is so uncomfortable with their acne. this made me so happy. i am struggling sm rn and idk what to do. there’s this guy that i love sm but it’s long distance and i told him that i can’t be with him rn for my own good and that i don’t want to end up hurting him and he said that i already did hurt him and idk what i did. im just struggling so much. i’ve never had suicidal thoughts but today ive had the thought of ending it all. i’m sorry.
Hey it will go away! When you in and it looks bad you can not imagine it to go away...but it will slowly...and i did microneedling because i had scares, my face was full of these litlle holes. But now nobody sees anything...and people with acne skin usally have longer youthful skin! So think about that sometimes.
Thanks to I'm starting to worry a little about my insecurities (thick thighs, belly and stuff) ❤
What about bruises and scars? I have a lot of bruises and scars and I'm very insecuritie about them. I js need to know.
ALSO, YOURE AWSOME AND TYSM FOR YOUR VIDEOS!!!!
I'm 4'9", I have acne, and people pick on me for my height (most are my friends and siblings, but one person, in particular, called me a midget over and over again, as well as a gnome). The thing that sucks the most is that I can't really change my height. I also have pretty low self-confidence and struggle with both anxiety and social anxiety, as well as being introverted. I only say this in hopes that someone relates and because it's a safe space. I hope you have a beautiful day/night
this man is one of the only men who i would trust with my drink. i’ll let that speak for itself
U make me love my self thank u so much
I'm constantly insecure about my belly rolls, and my arm fat. I hate that I feel this way because ik its not that bad but its just hard when I feel fat
Everyone should think that way:) By the way your eyes are so pretty (are they really red?)
Man whatttt he is the best, I need a man like him, NEW PRAYER REQUEST lol
Heyyy! I love youuu…..did I say that out loud?
Thank you for your positivity....
You are soo funny....😊
He has such beautiful eyes
I'm really inscure about like alot, even my laugh i fake my laugh around people because i've been called weird and annoying, i dunno i think its self esteem stuff tbh but thanks i love your videos they genuinly cheer me up
I overthink too much... and worry hes gonna change up ahah
Im dealing with depression and sh and anxiety and stuff and im pretty insecure but your vids make me feel so much better love you so much❤
hey i know you’ve already talked about being on the thicker side but could you talk about being skinny also being an insecurity? and the visible bloating and things that come with being skinny? i’ve been struggling to gain weight for a while and it’s honestly an insecurity of mine that’s often overlooked since so many people think they want to be skinny. thank you ❤
When I had acne. . . oh my gosh. . .going to be real here. Picture it. . . Braces on the teeth, SCORCHING case of acne, homely. . . UGH! I didn’t have anything to work with, and a face that looked like a “meat lovers pizza.” Had to have a physical to go to college. Family doc answering every question on the form-looks at my face and says, “Honey, I’ve been your doctor most of your life! Why didn’t you say something? You can’t see the scars under my beard-I KNOW this is awful for you. Let’s fix it.” Meds cleared it right up! First week on campus, walking to class. Two guys stop, I smiled, walked on by. One says “Dayyum! Did you see that blonde?” I’m kinda looking around for some rich sorority chick. . . IT WAS ME!!! Thought I had died and gone to Heaven!
Thank you Adrian for creating a safe space.😊So What do you do when a guy's actions and words match but they don't actually like you and they pretended to like you just for their entertainment? How will i ever know for sure that a guy has good intentions?
You sound so very natural and goofy😊
Paprika! 😂
Your literally my favorite youtuber thanks for making these things normalizedd!! Also random question do you watch anime?If so which i need ideas
Also do guys care about eyebrows or fat?
ALLLLSOOOOO how do you become a youtuber i would like to but dont know how
What about over bites or teeth that aren’t perfectly straight
I enjoy hearing your voice 😍
Kind of a rant thing, idk: (for context I am in my second year of highschool) I have had a couple of crushes since the start of highschool but they all either proved they weren't interested or got girlfriends. Then I had this crush on this one guy and I mean it was serious - probably my first serious serious crush. But we were friends so I didn't say anything cause I didn't wanna make things weird. Later he confessed he liked me back and I mean I was crazy excited cause no one has ever liked me before. He was really sweet and stuff but then more time I spent with him the more he asked for money and or me to do stuff for him and by the end of a month it felt like he was using me. I just ignored it though and was grateful enough to be in a relationship. Then a week or so later he blammed me when he stole something from one of our teachers and put it in my bag - I got expelled. when I confronted him he broke up with me and called me a loud mouth, ugly, weird, and stupid. I shouldn't care about it but I always feel like I am way too loud and talk to much and to know someone thought the same just makes me really anxious.
Thank you for posting! it makes my day every time
i love what you are all about
I think it’d be interesting to hear about the insecurities guys have but don’t talk about much. (:
Also, were you in a David Alvareezy video a few months ago?
You are so sweet and cute❤😊
Hey, you are really making me feel better about myself, and making me more confident. You are very inspiring, and I have a question that I'm hoping you can answer. Do boys care if a girl is depressed? I was really wondering that, and like I said before, I hope you can answer it.
omg you are so pretty😍😍
Man your eyes are so pretty HOW.
I dunno if I’m alone in this, but being a single mom and having the insecurity of instantly feeling unattractive because of all the judgement in society towards single moms. Also, the toe twinkle on the couch gave me life! 😆
Heyyyyyy i have been scoping your videos but never heard your name....i am a fan of your delighted videos❤❤ but anyways a "social problem" i have been under going is how tight my jeans have become due to womanhood so that makes me a lil self aware but gaining confidence because i am bootyful😂❤❤ and your encouragement and kindness helps😊😊
My goodness I can't help but say how handsome you are!!💅🏻🤭 your lucious locks are sooo soft!!!!
My stepmom has been making me mad lately (lately being past few months) like today she asked me to do my chores and I sat there for a few minutes after she said that because I feel (comment if u agree) that it means go start it within the next 5-6 minutes then she was like “Am I talking to a wall?” And I’m like “No.” then she was like “Then why rn’t u going?” Then I was like “I will I’m just gonna sit here 4 a minute.” Then she said “Why r u ignoring me?” And I like just started being able to control my anger and like nobody and when I say nobody I mean nobody knew that I was struggling with my anger management so I’m sitting there trying not to get myself into trouble so I said “I am not ignoring u like I said I’m was just gonna sit here a minute.” But then I started to lose my temper so I left. And I’m still pissed but it’s whatever now. P.S. pretty boy u r changing my life for the better love u.🙂
My boyfriend broke up with me because he thought I had horrible acne and I was too flat to be seen with him
He's right I have acne and I'm flat but he didn't have to do me like that
I have a question for you... what if I'm not comfortable with myself... how is my partner supposed to deal with it... no matter how many times they tell me, I'm pretty and other stuff... I still feel ugly... do you know how to deal with that?
Waiting for the day you talk about having to deal with a big nose a small lips 🥺 cuz people still make fun of me for it to this day.
I dated a guy last year for three months, we both had a lot of fun. But when I told him about my chronic health issues, he dumped me. I was just wondering if chronic health issues are deal breakers.
hey yall! Since this is a safe space just wanted to say I found out recently that my crush likes someone else at school. The night I am typing this he brought her to my youth group and I think they might start dating. Life is hurting rn, and I keep trying to tell myself we can still be friends but it’s not the same. But, I did get his number tho, so maybe I still got a chance!
Plz do thick tights!
I feel bad for venting but I really need to rn…So the guy that I’m in a situation ship with we uhm…we did the deed and me and him where fine until I said that my period was late and I was scared that he might have gotten me pregnant..he has been acting a little weird and then today he was acting really really weird and so I tolled my friend and in girl code if something is off you secretly call them and follow them (ps I’m also in school- but not when writing this) and he is trying to be friends with the girl the threatened me (even though he doesn’t know about that) and my friend asked about me and he said “I don’t have the heart to tell them that I don’t want to hang out anymore” and that hurt so much because I gave him everything I did everything for him and he does this…I did what ever he asked whenever he asked…I love him…I showed him every part of me…and the reason he doesn’t want to hang out with me is because of my personality that I changed several times for HIM…so that he would like me…
I just started dating my now bf, but I was really worried ( and still am) about what he’s gonna think my body. I’m a taller girl 5’9, with thick thighs, stretch marks and a little bit of a tummy. I’m worried he’s not going to love me when he sees my body. Any advice?(from anyone)
Thank you❤
You're indeed a very handsome man Adrian. Thank you for your content ❤
How about hip dips? Can you make a video about that?
alr make a vid on how to get a guy through texts cause i like him ahhghhgh
Acne clears but the acne scars 😔😢
Right now I feel very insecure about stretch marks I have them all over my body and I have them on my arms and I have acne I that way no one really notices what should I do
You are so sweet and thoughtful ❤ maybe your name could be sweet boi or sweet one 🤗by the way nice couch ☺️
I am struggling with my weight. I've always been skinny and suddenly I've a double chin and none of my jeans fit? Like idk what to do man, it's debilitating to look at my pictures from eight months back. I used to be skinny. It's all cause I started working eight months back and it was a desk job.
what about dark under eye circles?
Are his eyes really red they look beautiful ❤
What are your thoughts on how much makeup women wear?
Dude, my grandmother and mother call me average looking. I mean, I considered myself pretty, but now I just think that I'm ugly just because I have almond eyes and circle face shape with a bit flat nose and a bit chubby cheeks
I feel real insecure about my body I've has to two kids and nothing went back the way it was before my butts bigger and wider and my thighs are a little bigger and I have a little pouch but my husband's say I look great but I do not feel that way
❤😂
I’m dealing with big nose that has acne on it and it has only on it…… would guys liked if they’re under 18
Thank you so much you are so helpful and funny. I really need this. And your eyes are beautiful.
Am very very insecure about the hyperpigmentation on my body... you know in private part... is it a turn off for the guys...?
what about forehead or nose and thank you ❤
First omg ❤love you and your videos ❤❤✨🤭💖
What do people think about the opposite of a charcuterie board?
People who would ridicule someone with acne in this year is so... 🤢
Love your vids lol
Thanks now I don't care about my acne and also please make video about fat girl cause I am fat and I don't like that can you help me like that umm please
Do guys care about really dark hyperpigmentation down there? I'm really insecure about it
I just I hope I can find love agin and the some with my ex boyfriend I hope he finds love to