Yeah makes sense because someone who’s interested in you will make time for you and prioritize you! 👏🏻 also not you saying you’re a chismoso, you’re real for that 😂
If a guy asked me on a second date and I wasn’t interested I’d be honest and tell him that. Not a big deal. I wish guys could just say that to a girl they aren’t interested in for whatever reason. Just say I’m not interested in a relationship or whatever the reason is! Tactfully!
So I was in a similar situation where someone who I THOUGHT I was dating at the time, turned out he was lying to me. At one point he told me that he had to travel across the states for firefighter training.... FIREFIGHTING TRAINING. So I grew the courage and told him flat-out that this wouldn't work because he was not being faithful/truthful to me. If you're going to be a firefighter for your state and county, you'd be doing the training for YOUR state/county... Let me tell you, when I called him out on it, he was extremely pissed lol. And then a couple weeks later, he was crawling back to me. 🙄😂 Now I'm happily married ( 8 years this month, May ) to a medically retired EMT/Firefighter and I have to say... I'm proud of my Lt.
I don't lie. Post first date I tell him, "I don't think we're romantically compatible." or "Thank you for the invitation, but I'm not interested in dating right now." - - - Why waste time? Just be honest. I'm not for everyone and everyone is not for me and that is OKAY. 🤷
What we say to curve a guy? In my own personal experience over the last few years, telling a guy who hits on me that I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months, a year and a half, and most recently two years, they STILL try to get my phone number OR give me theirs! There's no deterring a creep. He'll just keep at it till you get your manager. 😮💨 And/Or if we get firm about it, we're the b*tch...🤬
If I went out on a date with a guy and decided I wasn’t interested, I would tell him I wasn’t feeling it. No one deserves to have their time wasted pining after the wrong person. Also, there is no harm in blocking someone’s number if they don’t know when to 🤐. As if being non responsive isn’t clue enough. If I was interested in a guy who wasn’t interested in me, if he told me why he wasn’t feeling it, maybe it will sting but at least I can move on. The least you can do when you turn someone down is tell them why especially if there are relationship skills they need to work on so they don’t keep making the same mistakes for the billionth time. Try to have the kindest delivery possible with that information. “It’s not my problem” may be your attitude but, you just made it someone else’s problem. PS on an unrelated note…here’s in an interesting twist in my life. I’ve been discovering my talent for songwriting.
No we don't like toxic! Maybe girls who like drama like toxic, but WOMEN don't. I appreciate your unfiltered uncensured honesty You're cute but do you really want to put yourself out there as a boy? Or a man? I'd encourage you to consider evolving your handle. You could probably get away with something like Prince charming. ☺️
When I curve a guy, I say no thank you in a super cheerful voice. If you say it after they ask you out with a clueless smile, they just stop talking to you. And EVERYTIME you see them after that they can barely look at you... I've been doing this since high school, and currently, if you're trying to get rid of an older man, it fucks with their heads, since it'll be the first time someone has rejected them like that.
I can definitely say that guy's lies as a 20 year old man I found out about the truth after my dad lie my entire life and I am very pissed at him so with guys I have trouble distinguish lies from truth
So what happened was... I was trying to make plans with a guy to go see him this weekend normal conversation btw like hey hope you're having a good day. No response. Two days later ghosted and unadded on Snapchat haha😅😂 eyyy ! It's whatever. Like thanks for the conversation and gassing me up on how beautiful I was. 😅
@@aracelisantos9271 haha 😅 you're probably right about that. It only been like two weeks conversation was great but I guess great can also get you nowhere🤷♀️
it depends (im in highschool) Sometime I pretend I ain't here anything or I may egg them on or just all together if they are with me and around my friends my friend would say something and I would friend zone them or date because I'm bored (sounds hoey but tbh I dont do anything crazy in a relationship)
It could appear that you have a "ministry" of helping us ladies with relationship advice from your male perspective via your videos. You comment on issues that also affect godly women who have relationships with Christian men -- because Christian guys are similar to secular guys -- with exceptions of course. Your advice could help me potentially write a relationship article from a male perspective for ladies -- because I only know my female perspective. Anyway, thanks for sharing your wisdom with us ladies.
thank you for the "busy" tip i blocked my situationship 😍😍
THIS IS Y PEOPLE HAVE TRUST ISSUES! LYING RUINS RELATIONSHIPS! And it feels terrible when u find out or know the truth. 😭
Yeah makes sense because someone who’s interested in you will make time for you and prioritize you! 👏🏻 also not you saying you’re a chismoso, you’re real for that 😂
Yes! Olivia you are stating facts!
If a guy asked me on a second date and I wasn’t interested I’d be honest and tell him that. Not a big deal. I wish guys could just say that to a girl they aren’t interested in for whatever reason. Just say I’m not interested in a relationship or whatever the reason is! Tactfully!
So I was in a similar situation where someone who I THOUGHT I was dating at the time, turned out he was lying to me. At one point he told me that he had to travel across the states for firefighter training.... FIREFIGHTING TRAINING.
So I grew the courage and told him flat-out that this wouldn't work because he was not being faithful/truthful to me. If you're going to be a firefighter for your state and county, you'd be doing the training for YOUR state/county... Let me tell you, when I called him out on it, he was extremely pissed lol. And then a couple weeks later, he was crawling back to me. 🙄😂 Now I'm happily married ( 8 years this month, May ) to a medically retired EMT/Firefighter and I have to say... I'm proud of my Lt.
His eyes are so dreamy😊😍😍😍😍
I don't lie. Post first date I tell him, "I don't think we're romantically compatible." or "Thank you for the invitation, but I'm not interested in dating right now." - - - Why waste time? Just be honest. I'm not for everyone and everyone is not for me and that is OKAY. 🤷
It’s either work or guys play sick, even if it’s just platonic🤥 I give up.
What we say to curve a guy?
In my own personal experience over the last few years, telling a guy who hits on me that I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months, a year and a half, and most recently two years, they STILL try to get my phone number OR give me theirs! There's no deterring a creep. He'll just keep at it till you get your manager. 😮💨 And/Or if we get firm about it, we're the b*tch...🤬
It’s amazing how he literally gives new info every single video!! I literally love him so much!!!
If I went out on a date with a guy and decided I wasn’t interested, I would tell him I wasn’t feeling it. No one deserves to have their time wasted pining after the wrong person. Also, there is no harm in blocking someone’s number if they don’t know when to 🤐. As if being non responsive isn’t clue enough. If I was interested in a guy who wasn’t interested in me, if he told me why he wasn’t feeling it, maybe it will sting but at least I can move on. The least you can do when you turn someone down is tell them why especially if there are relationship skills they need to work on so they don’t keep making the same mistakes for the billionth time. Try to have the kindest delivery possible with that information. “It’s not my problem” may be your attitude but, you just made it someone else’s problem.
PS on an unrelated note…here’s in an interesting twist in my life. I’ve been discovering my talent for songwriting.
The last guy who I wasn’t feeling, I told him. “Hey, I had a nice time, but I don’t think we’re that compatible.”
I don’t say anything because I don’t get asked on dates
I don't know what others say but I'm straight forward and say not intersected😊
No we don't like toxic! Maybe girls who like drama like toxic, but WOMEN don't.
I appreciate your unfiltered uncensured honesty
You're cute but do you really want to put yourself out there as a boy? Or a man?
I'd encourage you to consider evolving your handle. You could probably get away with something like Prince charming. ☺️
Thanks for the honesty. Glad I get it from someone😂😂
My red flag 🚩 is that I'm brutally honest. I'm so honest it sounds rude. I just straight up tell the guy that I'm not interested
1:07 I did fall for tat 😭
I am a “mature” woman 😅 and I LOVE your videos! You give good advice while being so entertaining! And, of course, you are smoking hot! 🔥😍❤️
we say ' oh sorry now seeing your text' 9 times outta 10 we be lying
Lmbo you got me with the talking like the show Rick and Morty 😂❤
The best way to curb a guy is stop talking to him and go get busy with someone else 😉 and wait and see if that guy comes back 😂
I just told him I'm not interested
You know, nowadays i cant tell if a guy is genuinely busy or just not into me. Then i keep trying with guys who arent into me
I just want something real and forever (I'm later in life - 58). I want real and I want to give real.
"There are good guys out there" .... WHERE???😅
I honestly just either say straight up "it turns out I don't like you that way" or "I forgot about you" 😅
high five from Morocco 😂😂
We say the same thing. I will let you know is a common answer. 😅😅😅
When I curve a guy, I say no thank you in a super cheerful voice. If you say it after they ask you out with a clueless smile, they just stop talking to you. And EVERYTIME you see them after that they can barely look at you... I've been doing this since high school, and currently, if you're trying to get rid of an older man, it fucks with their heads, since it'll be the first time someone has rejected them like that.
Love the Morty impression 😂
I can definitely say that guy's lies as a 20 year old man I found out about the truth after my dad lie my entire life and I am very pissed at him so with guys I have trouble distinguish lies from truth
Bro exposes the girls now the guys😂😂
I got myself an amazing nice guy ❤️
I got ghosted by a guy who wasn't interested. 😭
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Thanks ❤
Waiting for part twooooooo
FIRST I SUBBED AND LEFT A THUMBS UPPPP
My friends and I say "not a good fit" 😂
So what happened was... I was trying to make plans with a guy to go see him this weekend normal conversation btw like hey hope you're having a good day. No response. Two days later ghosted and unadded on Snapchat haha😅😂 eyyy ! It's whatever. Like thanks for the conversation and gassing me up on how beautiful I was. 😅
You dodged a bullet. May you find someone who values you and your time.
@@aracelisantos9271 haha 😅 you're probably right about that. It only been like two weeks conversation was great but I guess great can also get you nowhere🤷♀️
We say sorry i have a family event
Hi pretty boi
I just go ghost
This guy is repulsively in love with himself
New sub! 😀
it depends (im in highschool) Sometime I pretend I ain't here anything or I may egg them on or just all together if they are with me and around my friends my friend would say something and I would friend zone them or date because I'm bored (sounds hoey but tbh I dont do anything crazy in a relationship)
I'm a girl, but I do all these and the guy doesn't 😂
when guys say they're okay are they really ok cause i feel like y'all be lying😑
you have beautiful eyes 🥹
Why the fuck is his eyes red?!?
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I'm just curious, where has he admitted this because I can't find it lol @VincentRedden355
hell nooool
I think guys do lie a lot but I can say women do as well as my stepmom emotionally abused me and lied to me
Make longer videos! 🙂
Nope, I really like nice guys. Nice boys can be naughty boys too.
Hey Adrian
is this a filter or he has red iris color ?
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The next interesting content you record collab me , FaceTime duo whatever
My step mom Sylvia cheated on my dad with a guy named I think Thomas and my father cheated on 6 different b*****s
Lol
Why you guys do that ,that is not right 😢
I stop talking and if they keep talking i will say sorry but your a sweet guy but i am not interested sorry
Heyyyy
It could appear that you have a "ministry" of helping us ladies with relationship advice from your male perspective via your videos. You comment on issues that also affect godly women who have relationships with Christian men -- because Christian guys are similar to secular guys -- with exceptions of course. Your advice could help me potentially write a relationship article from a male perspective for ladies -- because I only know my female perspective. Anyway, thanks for sharing your wisdom with us ladies.
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I’m not interested
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Your sub count is lying and here's why...
bruh i shouldn't do this but i just ghost him
Heyyyy pin?
You're just so bored dude
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I just tell you I didn't like you 😅
1:53 ik, there are good guys... they're just not as appealing bc of the Daddy Issues 🥲👍
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narp ur not firsttttt lol someone else isssss