Heartbreak Hotel: "Esmy" Valdez v Jordan Sherman

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  • @NaomyP
    @NaomyP 10 місяців тому +64

    Trauma bonding at its finest, they don't need to be together and why on hell do they want to bring a child in this toxicity? gaslighting at its finest

  • @jasmineelise424
    @jasmineelise424 10 місяців тому +45

    she’s setting such a poor example for her daughter😢.

  • @JazzyJeffRealTalk
    @JazzyJeffRealTalk 10 місяців тому +90

    Her: I know for a fact he’s cheating, and he called me a slut.
    Also her: I love him and I want to marry him!
    WHAT?!? 🤨😂

  • @tareva_
    @tareva_ 10 місяців тому +57

    “He’s a nightmare” but outta the same mouth “I want to have his babies”… make it make sense. Why bring an innocent child into a nightmare??

  • @helgapataki4156
    @helgapataki4156 10 місяців тому +123

    He's a joke, he's trying his best to break your spirit so you'll only look to him for validation. Girl MOVE TF ON!

    • @t.c.5456
      @t.c.5456 10 місяців тому +2

      Yesss

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

    • @helgapataki4156
      @helgapataki4156 10 місяців тому

      @@t.c.5456 ❤️

  • @SheniceSays214
    @SheniceSays214 10 місяців тому +76

    Nothing irks me more than a man who is proud to do fatherhood, but not marriage. Not understanding that a marriage you can get out of, but fatherhood is for life and permanent. Fatherhood to him is about tying her down and trapping her.

    • @NephelyDeBussy
      @NephelyDeBussy 10 місяців тому

      Her daughter is star-struck and secretely in love with her stepfather. Well, she can have him!
      Ms Valdez's low self-esteem and desire to be with a trendy white man at all cost, is the reason she's unable to decide what's right for her : DUMP THE SMUG SMILING CHEATER!!!

    • @SheniceSays214
      @SheniceSays214 9 місяців тому +4

      This is what happens when a dude knows that she loves him more than she loves herself. Trust me, he will use it against you.

  • @kimh7978
    @kimh7978 6 місяців тому +11

    Why is this woman wasting the court's time? Regardless of what she says, she's not going to leave him.

  • @MH_Prof
    @MH_Prof 10 місяців тому +79

    That “tough love” statement…I dated a person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder and he lived and died by that statement. He felt God put him on earth to show others tough love. I used to ask him who was in place to give tough love to him, because he was not perfect. He would just give me a blank stare. Beware of people who feel like they do no wrong and have the need to keep everyone else in line.

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

    • @MH_Prof
      @MH_Prof 10 місяців тому +4

      @@grassh0pper Didn’t realize I was required to comment on both of them. I commented on him because of the comparison I wanted to make to a man I dated. Just because I didn’t speak on her doesn’t mean I didn’t see faults with her as well.

    • @kerry-annwilliams2915
      @kerry-annwilliams2915 10 місяців тому

      I ohh so want to tag him with this 😢😢 i felt n live EVERYTHING YOU WROTE

  • @jackieo8672
    @jackieo8672 6 місяців тому +7

    She doesn’t deserve to Mentor Women!!! Allowing him to treat her like this. What nontoxic behavior will she teach others.

  • @Lee345Je
    @Lee345Je 10 місяців тому +46

    Have 0 children with this man and WAIT until a good, kind, caring, MATURE, loyal one comes along. ❤

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +2

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @Lee345Je
      @Lee345Je 10 місяців тому +4

      @@grassh0pper Oooo ok. Pray for her then.

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 10 місяців тому

      Amen

  • @farhiahaji7946
    @farhiahaji7946 10 місяців тому +71

    This woman is desperate for him and he knows I feel sorry for her 😢

    • @jessicasmith6470
      @jessicasmith6470 10 місяців тому +7

      I do agree. She is very desperate with low self esteem.

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      ​@@jessicasmith6470What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 10 місяців тому

      ​@@grassh0pperwe saw your first comment 😂😂😂😂

    • @marcusmelancon3426
      @marcusmelancon3426 4 місяці тому

      I think it’s trauma bonding like she said in the beginning their trauma is what connected them so she doesn’t want to let him go because he’s the one person who understands her but he’s causing her more trauma and I think he’s breaking her down so she depends on him for love and affection

  • @erinjohnson4273
    @erinjohnson4273 10 місяців тому +18

    They don't need to be together. She was wrong for slashing his painting, and he doesn't trust her

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 10 місяців тому +19

    THESE TWO ARE VERY TOXIC AND PROBLEMATIC.

  • @arayaklove
    @arayaklove 10 місяців тому +84

    Now she got her daughter thinking a dusty is a good man. Terrible.

    • @reddqueen9722
      @reddqueen9722 10 місяців тому +6

      exactly i was thinking the same thing

    • @josannefrank
      @josannefrank 10 місяців тому +1

      Well said😂

  • @shemeka340
    @shemeka340 10 місяців тому +67

    Her: “what does girls bending over have to do with him selling his art?”
    Him:” they might be buying a painting 🖼️”
    Judge Star: “Well you’re not talking to people’s behinds are you??”
    Me: LOLOL 😂

  • @angielyons980
    @angielyons980 10 місяців тому +13

    Please so not being an innocent child into this toxic relationship. She needs therapy and he needs to grow up. I hope her daughter does not continue to believe this is healthy.

  • @LoveAngel333
    @LoveAngel333 10 місяців тому +41

    "I wouldn't usually date women like you" Me: Well you let me help you not date one like me now GOODBYE and GOOD NIGHT He would be dumped

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @jmars8828
      @jmars8828 10 місяців тому +2

      Low self esteem

    • @LoveAngel333
      @LoveAngel333 10 місяців тому +5

      @@grassh0pper are you okay? You may need to get some therapy.

    • @dshannasanders964
      @dshannasanders964 9 місяців тому +1

      Yeah it may have hurt but I would have bounced.

    • @samiazidane5041
      @samiazidane5041 4 місяці тому

      100%

  • @DJ-vj4vi
    @DJ-vj4vi 10 місяців тому +20

    Lets be honest she is just as crazy as he is because she assaulted a grown man that could have physically taken her out.

  • @elledesignsart
    @elledesignsart 10 місяців тому +178

    I understand that he's lacking but why gloss over the fact that she assaulted him and vandalized his property in public. Let's address that bullshit. She seems to be receiving all the grace but where's HER accountability.

    • @ambersandifer7401
      @ambersandifer7401 10 місяців тому +20

      Exactly!! That wasn't okay at all!

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 місяців тому +15

      She grew up in foster care. That excuses all behaviors past and present. Haven’t you been keeping up?

    • @zulu3274
      @zulu3274 10 місяців тому +13

      😊 just the usual bias during most of the cases nothing new to see here...

    • @josweetlove1537
      @josweetlove1537 10 місяців тому +7

      Judge Star always advocates for the women encouraging their bad behavior and spoilt/childish antics.

    • @confusions2534
      @confusions2534 10 місяців тому +2

      @@bryanbeeman5256really so just bcos you grew up in a foster home you have no accountability?

  • @amayagriffin1531
    @amayagriffin1531 10 місяців тому +24

    F trust they don’t even respect each other you can see it in both of their actions

  • @34Nails
    @34Nails 10 місяців тому +69

    He’s accusing her of doing what he’s doing💯

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +1

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

    • @rennaeh6682
      @rennaeh6682 10 місяців тому +4

      @@grassh0pperwhy are you repeating the same sentence on every comment? Dude, let things go! You can’t force others to understand your pov.

    • @keyiarich3900
      @keyiarich3900 10 місяців тому +2

      Exactly, that's exactly why he didn't want to see her phone.

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 10 місяців тому +17

    “Do you see who’s name is back there???” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Judge Star

  • @Spexsavvy
    @Spexsavvy 5 місяців тому +1

    As a former foster child myself we often get into relationships that reenact the same roles we had in our abusive childhoods in an attempt to subconsciously right what went wrong.
    She needs intense therapy to continue her healing.

  • @julianiwhite
    @julianiwhite 10 місяців тому +4

    Going solely on appearance she looks out of his league so him trying to breakdown her confidence is typical smh

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 10 місяців тому +56

    He was insensitive,crass, projecting, rude and gaslit her .. CONSTANTLY.

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 місяців тому

      Unfortunately, that’s the kind of man she attracts.

    • @TB-fk4qm
      @TB-fk4qm 10 місяців тому +2

      💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

    • @ebbyf294
      @ebbyf294 10 місяців тому +6

      Facts. He's an insecure man and knows she's out of his league, so he's trying to make her feel less than what she's worth so she won't leave him

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      ​@@TB-fk4qmWhat about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

  • @Trishdagr81
    @Trishdagr81 10 місяців тому +9

    Trauma Bonds are dangerous! That’s all this is!

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 10 місяців тому +7

    These are two wounded souls.They both need healing. Hurt people hurt people. Counseling, therapy something!

  • @paralegalkc
    @paralegalkc 9 місяців тому +5

    It hurt to hear how his jokes hurt her feelings and how he still thought it was funny. My ex would do that. I was the joke of many jokes now he’s begging to come back no thanks

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings 10 місяців тому +22

    DOUBLE STANDARDS! CLEARLY DOUBLE STANDARDS!! He probably embarrassed her in front of her friends but she attacked him in front of potential clients ready to pay bid bucks for his arts. Her despicable behavior is disgusting. Judge star asked the right question…why are they together?!?

  • @StephSteph5
    @StephSteph5 10 місяців тому +13

    We need to hear both sides of the explanations without them being interrupted

  • @sybilwhite1259
    @sybilwhite1259 4 місяці тому +3

    They need to diffinetly leave each other alone!!!

  • @anonymousreview1049
    @anonymousreview1049 10 місяців тому +8

    They are far from the peaceful shores of a mature relationship. They both need to get individual help for themselves. Let it go for now.

  • @keyeviondavis9647
    @keyeviondavis9647 10 місяців тому +30

    Eminem should have stayed in his lane, he doesn't deserve her, there is nothing attractive about being insecure 😮😮

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +2

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

  • @ShanetteLewis
    @ShanetteLewis 10 місяців тому +14

    how in the world does monkey ears have the audacity to say something like that! she’s gorgeous and he’s not attractive at all… he’s trying to make her insecure to keep her! disgusting to say “put a baby in her”🤮

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +1

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @Remember_Eden
      @Remember_Eden 10 місяців тому

      You sound like a bully.

  • @robbbietheim2096
    @robbbietheim2096 10 місяців тому +48

    Knew Judge Star was not gone let him off the hook on that weight loss issue after what she went through in her own battle congrats to both of you lovely ladies ❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +1

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

    • @robbbietheim2096
      @robbbietheim2096 10 місяців тому +3

      Is that the normal though, or was it a one time thing, he more was responsible for creating, we were not there, but I assure you if it was as bad as you think it was, then why is he still there

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 місяців тому +3

      If someone would grab any part of my anatomy and say “ I usually don’t date women like you”. I would have been gone.
      Dont insinuate I’m not up to your standards and tell me you “ liove me” later. That’s not love

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      @@emilyfeagin2673 fu*k your feelings
      And this is what I mean. Women just don't see other women doing wrong things ever. You cannot see a whole each other accountable. You're forgetting that she is toxic. She assaulted him and sabotage a business transaction. That's grounds to kick her to the curb. She's toxic and she's going to end up with more toxic men because she deserves to be with one unless she gets help

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +1

      @@robbbietheim2096 One time too many, you wouldn't say that if the man had slapped the woman

  • @wordplay6665
    @wordplay6665 10 місяців тому +33

    He’s insecure because he knows she looks good and will get attention. Her low self esteem is keeping her there. My boyfriend wasn’t happy about my girls trip to Mexico either 🤷🏽‍♀️ had a ball😂

    • @qmartina81
      @qmartina81 10 місяців тому +3

      And the fact that she said he doesnt want to go with her speaks volume. If you wont do it, dont get jealous if she is having fun with other people.

  • @ANGELAKCLAY
    @ANGELAKCLAY 10 місяців тому +25

    RUN! ❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏻

    • @sharondriastradford2907
      @sharondriastradford2907 10 місяців тому +5

      Run! To the nearest exit!!! She needs to leave him ALONE!!!

    • @ANGELAKCLAY
      @ANGELAKCLAY 10 місяців тому +1

      @@sharondriastradford2907 I know Right! ❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏻

  • @silvainatkins5550
    @silvainatkins5550 10 місяців тому +19

    Trauma bonded relationship. She definitely needs therapy and work on herself.

  • @Kendallslovejoy
    @Kendallslovejoy 10 місяців тому +30

    They both toxic.

  • @radfayknelanger7349
    @radfayknelanger7349 10 місяців тому +5

    I don’t think she’s all innocent either. They both need to grow up and I think they need to move on. It’s too much damage there.

  • @thesweetlifeofgbaee
    @thesweetlifeofgbaee 10 місяців тому +8

    pulled her body in front of people in public. weirdo. He knows he has to keep belittling her to keep her

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 місяців тому

      I would have dumped him on the spot. Talk about rude.
      Then in private , he talks about having children? Oh heck no

  • @desmondlester1790
    @desmondlester1790 10 місяців тому +3

    These are the guys they stay with and never leave.

  • @maryharrison3291
    @maryharrison3291 10 місяців тому +11

    She can do so much better than him.

    • @WilliamDavis-j5m
      @WilliamDavis-j5m 10 місяців тому +1

      no she can't. that's why she wants to have babies with him despite all that

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

  • @VictoriaBelton
    @VictoriaBelton 10 місяців тому +8

    He is a mess. Girl leave him.

  • @pdonwarrior453
    @pdonwarrior453 10 місяців тому +9

    Both individuals have been through trauma and are adding to each others pain. I would advise them to end the engagement and become friends or at least get individual counselling

  • @Killercakes24
    @Killercakes24 10 місяців тому +10

    Damn i usually don't defend women who hit someone..but .c'mon she saw her mother being killed.. she is so broken ..she needs serious therapy!!!!!!!

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 місяців тому +1

      She said if she’s crazy, he made her that way/.. nah, she was crazy way before that.

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @Muffinsz
      @Muffinsz 10 місяців тому +1

      It’s still no excuse to put your hands on someone

  • @tearapowell3780
    @tearapowell3780 10 місяців тому +4

    Trauma bond
    We hope that ppl who relate will know and not do us the same but reality is they broken and broken ppl break. Once you heal go get somebody healed! Thank you for this reminder for myself! Thank you for sharing

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 10 місяців тому +3

    After a tough upbringing and a SERIES of TRAUMATIC RELATIONSHIPS…. What does that mean?!!?

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 місяців тому

      She’s been abused since her arrival on the planet.
      Her step father murdered her mother and killed himself. In front of her
      Can you imagine carrying that burden your whole life? How could you heal

  • @34Nails
    @34Nails 10 місяців тому +9

    My boyfriend can look at my phone anytime he want to because I have nothing to hide and I damn sure don’t have any fear of him finding out that I’m cheating💯

    • @agadonk
      @agadonk 10 місяців тому +1

      But he don't need to be checking it like your dad.

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      ​@@agadonkWhat about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @agadonk
      @agadonk 10 місяців тому +1

      @grassh0pper lol you know I was talking about the commentor, not the video. You tried dear. Take a nap.

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 10 місяців тому

      ​@@grassh0ppercan he please hush 🤫🤭🤐😶🤥

    • @34Nails
      @34Nails 9 місяців тому

      @@agadonk in reality he don’t check my phone but he can anytime he wants to💯

  • @Can-1981
    @Can-1981 10 місяців тому +1

    I don't like how the judge downplayed his art value & didn't address her assault & vandalism. Where's Judge Toler😤

  • @ANGELAKCLAY
    @ANGELAKCLAY 10 місяців тому +11

    Miss' Tell that Little Boy Bye! ❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏻

  • @carolynthompson1895
    @carolynthompson1895 10 місяців тому +1

    Toxic on so many levels. They are not good for each other.

  • @34Nails
    @34Nails 10 місяців тому +8

    He only needs another phone so he could cheat without getting caught and he didn’t think that she would find out or see the other phone. That was the purpose of it. He wants to be a dog💯

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +1

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 місяців тому +1

      Exactly. You don’t need a seperate phone for a business in most cases

  • @evonjohnson4078
    @evonjohnson4078 10 місяців тому +3

    Is that a red dress she is wearing? The flags are red but she can not see it. How could want to have his children after a behavior like that? Really insensitive for a man in love to his girl.

  • @omgmazin
    @omgmazin 10 місяців тому +6

    She has past traumatic experiences that may never be resolved, you have to be careful because a person's past reveal themselves, sometimes with catastrophic results, the first 5 minutes was really about her past experiences, 🤔

  • @dukeyoungsworkout513
    @dukeyoungsworkout513 10 місяців тому +3

    Dam the judge not giving him a chance from jump. She started off playing the victim and using her past trauma for a reason to why her relationship isn't going right. That's low.

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому +1

      Read the comments, apparently every single woman fell for that. This is what we mean when we say women don't see men suffering.

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 місяців тому

      grassh0pper
      Women do see men suffering. But sometimes it’s something only you can fix
      Men have to take responsibility for their physical and mental health as well as their behavior

    • @dukeyoungsworkout513
      @dukeyoungsworkout513 10 місяців тому

      @emilyfeagin2673 come on now? This case was clearly one-sided from the beginning. She was the one who physically assaulted him, and she didn't bother to go in on her for her behavior. It was completely dismissed. She played victim the whole show. Being the mediator you have to get on both. If not, one will feel more important than the other as if they do no wrong. And that's just what happened in this case.

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      @@emilyfeagin2673 You have to be a fool, I guess you don't live in reality do you? Men deal with this on their own. It is women who for some weird reason cannot hold themselves accountable. She literally started the video by saying "he made me crazy." That's how most women think and feel. they never hold themselves accountable it's always somebody else who makes them crazy. You are saying men should take responsibility but yet you never said that she needs to take responsibility, she is damaged and yet you never mentioned it, why? This video clearly shows it. why aren't you holding that woman to the same standards

  • @zoespeaks7404
    @zoespeaks7404 10 місяців тому +8

    How do we brush over the fact that she assaulted him? If it were the other way around ..

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      Exactly 💯

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 місяців тому

      He assaults her with his words and actions.
      Constantly
      What she did wasn’t right. But do I understand why she did it? Oh yeah

    • @zoespeaks7404
      @zoespeaks7404 10 місяців тому +1

      @@emilyfeagin2673 So you understand why she physically assaulted him? Is there every grounds for assault? Is there ever a reason to understand it? She should LEAVE if he assaults with his words, not HIT the man and then destroy is painting. Accountability is a real thing, no one’s tying her to his leg.

  • @lynettewashington6443
    @lynettewashington6443 10 місяців тому +2

    The judge didn’t gloss over what she did.

  • @michaeldavidbattle
    @michaeldavidbattle 10 місяців тому +15

    He's not attractive

  • @JaySunshine-gq9jh
    @JaySunshine-gq9jh 10 місяців тому +6

    He has a lot more growing up to do. To mature into a man, he is too immature, she needs a man not a boy who doesn't respect her and takes her as a joke and embarrass her in public

    • @bryanbeeman5256
      @bryanbeeman5256 10 місяців тому +5

      No… she needs therapy… and more therapy…

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      This is what we mean, when we say women don't see men in pain

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 10 місяців тому

      grassh0pper
      There is a story by melody Beatty in a book called “ co department no more”
      A woman goes to a mountain top to learn everything she can. But every day someone comes and hits her with a stick.
      Finally one day she put her hand up to stop the blows
      Then the wise soul tells her “ you have learned the lesson. You will never know everything there is to know. And only you can stop the pain
      I can see you are in pain. And it breaks my heart because I think you are young as well
      But only you can address the issues that are causing you pain. If you are suffering get the help you need. It’s out there.
      You have the internet at your disposal search for help. Then reach out
      It’s difficult and it’s scary. But you owe it to yourself
      I wish you well

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 10 місяців тому +11

    No family structure, grew up in foster care, a lot of violence in her life… and I’m sure she went through that phase that women keep talking about when they’re younger and want to be out in the streets. She needs to find someone that’s been through similar situations as she.

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      No she doesn't that's how toxic relationships are made.
      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put his hands on him

  • @keshiaPckns
    @keshiaPckns 10 місяців тому +1

    She should RUN! He is a dog whisperer, gaslighter, narcissist!!! He is using all her trauma against her! 😢😢

  • @dre23404
    @dre23404 10 місяців тому +3

    Damn did Star just skip over the abuse she did to him

  • @henryashmeal8724
    @henryashmeal8724 10 місяців тому +2

    I believe that this court should also give them the lie detector test, because counselling alone is not enough they need to have an avenue where someone can say enough is enough and have the evidence to show

  • @KWin-ik5cl
    @KWin-ik5cl 10 місяців тому +1

    If you feel this way, how come you don’t leave. What else does he have to do for you to realize he ain’t it?

  • @elledesignsart
    @elledesignsart 10 місяців тому +11

    Judge Star....looking fantastic is that fushia. 😊

  • @marieperez3796
    @marieperez3796 6 місяців тому

    Absolutely that’s what trust mean , so important in a relationship. No privacy.

  • @VictoriaBelton
    @VictoriaBelton 10 місяців тому +3

    Run girl run

  • @Sarahlee358
    @Sarahlee358 5 місяців тому

    My question is.. if you come hollering how awful he is on divorce court, why are you with him?!

  • @thePhoenixQueen
    @thePhoenixQueen 10 місяців тому +5

    I'm so glad she took those earrings off. They were a bit much.

  • @mayasilliman1465
    @mayasilliman1465 7 місяців тому +1

    Walk away lady or be a doormat!.

  • @vickypogue1167
    @vickypogue1167 10 місяців тому +3

    There Daughter iS Smarter than They iS!! She Can Teach Them!! If they only Listen!!

  • @Purplegirl-pi1jo
    @Purplegirl-pi1jo 6 місяців тому

    Why in the world are they trying to bring a innocent child in this toxic relationship!
    And her daughter thinks this messy relationship is good shows that she does not have a good role model,
    And would except this type of behavior from a man!!!

  • @nightrain55
    @nightrain55 10 місяців тому +3

    Did the judge gloss over her out control actions at the art show

  • @barbiebarbie8849
    @barbiebarbie8849 10 місяців тому +3

    she got surgery talk bout she work hard … yes after the surgery 🚩⚠️☠️ they dnt need kidsss

  • @ninadavis5517
    @ninadavis5517 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm trying to figure out WHY she is there? He's disrespectful, belittling and rude. There is nothing to redeem. You can feel love for someone but respect and love yourself MORE...WHY in heck do people want to make babies with people they won't marry you???

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other accountable? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

  • @rodcliffneal1849
    @rodcliffneal1849 10 місяців тому +2

    She is as guilty as he is, judge was very one sided on this episode, she need to do better and not side with the woman automatically

  • @Fran-px1oh
    @Fran-px1oh 10 місяців тому

    What do men get out of hurting women? What do men get out of mistreating a woman? I just can't figure it out.

  • @lauriewelker4466
    @lauriewelker4466 10 місяців тому

    Look, I get she has valid complaints, but seriously?!? Nothing about her actions at his art show? That was inexcusable!!!

  • @lillianwilliams5510
    @lillianwilliams5510 10 місяців тому

    Judge is recently angry all the time.
    She rarely advises the couple to get counseling.

  • @ashasundas1406
    @ashasundas1406 8 місяців тому +1

    They need to go separate ways
    period 💯

  • @SweetestNya
    @SweetestNya 10 місяців тому +2

    Whew judge got them Tina legs! 😂❤❤❤ Go girl!!

    • @jmars8828
      @jmars8828 10 місяців тому

      Unnatural 😊

  • @tenaloving5155
    @tenaloving5155 10 місяців тому +1

    Why is she trying to have a child with this man

  • @LIVEINPEACE2023
    @LIVEINPEACE2023 10 місяців тому +2

    The witness was a waste of time.😮

  • @All_Things_Shay
    @All_Things_Shay 10 місяців тому +1

    Why do toxic couples always want a damn baby. This makes me so mad, why are yall trying to have a child just to traumatize them. Lawwwwd🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @WilliamDavis-j5m
    @WilliamDavis-j5m 10 місяців тому +2

    He's insecure and so is she. He has issues and to be fair there's no way that a man should be with a woman who's willing to sabotage his work. He needs to leave her alone and be alone. They both need to work on themselves. He has a lot more growing to do and she's too fixed on being locked down by someone who shouldn't be right now

  • @annaprice7276
    @annaprice7276 9 місяців тому

    Why does the " Cheatee" always want to save the relationship? Obviously seeking something in another person but want to keep your mate tied down to you WTF

  • @TooReal_
    @TooReal_ 10 місяців тому +2

    Her voice is ANNOYING

  • @amenahking7863
    @amenahking7863 10 місяців тому +1

    So we just gone skate past the condoms in the car like that didn't happen??

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other accountable? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

  • @ghostchronicles2950
    @ghostchronicles2950 6 місяців тому

    I see 3 people disrespectful in this case. The judge , plaintiff, and the defendant.

  • @mimboyce6643
    @mimboyce6643 4 місяці тому

    He thinks he owns her. She should stand on her own two feet and stop taking from him

  • @FLAWLESS_PEACH
    @FLAWLESS_PEACH 10 місяців тому +1

    I could have sworn she was wearing long ear rings in the beginning.

  • @dennwilliams3342
    @dennwilliams3342 4 місяці тому +1

    She’s instafamous , is this for clout???

  • @benevans7208
    @benevans7208 8 місяців тому

    Isn't she supposed to help them stay together and teach both sides how to treat one another

  • @josweetlove1537
    @josweetlove1537 10 місяців тому +3

    I cannot watch these shows for very long. The clear bias of Judge Star is disgusting. The men are always at fault like if the women are always perfect angels. The husband must cater to the woman's every whim or else Star beats them into submission. I am no advocate for men at all times but you must be fair and listen to both sides before you comment Star.

  • @rasun316
    @rasun316 10 місяців тому +2

    ...by the first commercial im totally convinced he's cheating

    • @grassh0pper
      @grassh0pper 10 місяців тому

      What about her? Do you see how you women can't hold each other accountable? She's toxic. She takes no accountability she's violent she put her hands on him

  • @AubraHenderson
    @AubraHenderson 10 місяців тому +1

    HÉ IS CHEATING HAS SOMETHING TO HIDE

  • @shirleyrussell7089
    @shirleyrussell7089 7 місяців тому

    NARSASISTIC Man.. Narcissist use your past trauma against you.

  • @t.b.blazenb.p.-wb6hc
    @t.b.blazenb.p.-wb6hc 10 місяців тому +2

    Yes, teach them Judge Starr Jones fore they do not have an understanding of how to treat one another as well as boundaries w/others. PeacePeace✨

  • @DominiqueCecil
    @DominiqueCecil 10 місяців тому +1

    Yeah neither of them are innocent