I Won't Be Your Caretaker: Imani Bax v Benjamin Morgan
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- Опубліковано 13 січ 2025
- Imani says she’s spent the past 5 years with her boyfriend blending their families and being his caregiver all without a ring. She wants more of a commitment or she’s ready to walk away.
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Never let a man tell you more than once he dont want you.
#JudgeLynnToler#TheGOAT
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Words to live by‼️
So true
She looks so drained…This man isn’t for you sis.
Wish I could get with her do not understand why good get with mess men and take care of others women children let the family take care of them
Wow. He mentioned immaturity,but his actions show how immature he is...smh
Cause he doesn't really want to get married that's just an excuse
@@syndib7377exactly
He probably want a to be married, just not to her.
My sentiments as well! He’s the one who is immature, inconsiderate and needs to go to his parents house
Right ,
He wants you around as a caretaker medically & financially so his Mom will hv a break. He does NOT want you, so send him & his kids back to his Mom's!
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I agree
He would not he have gotten into my house.
Rejection is Protection!!! That’s all I’ll say. Girl needs to see the flags God is presenting her.
now , I needed to read this put this way...uh !
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Speaking the Truth
Thank you for that
Aameen ❤️❤️❤️
THIS MAN IS NOT YOUR DAMN BEST FRIEND! FRIENDS DO NOT USE YOU 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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In that order
Yes they do. Friends use you just like your enemies.
@@josweetlove1537pick better friends, because absolutely not.
Facts.
I never even cooked my husband a meal before we got married. This level of commitment to a boyfriend is wild.
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How do you expect to get married if a dude doesn’t know you can cook? Lmao sounds like you found the right simp 😭💀
Too many people do everything for their partner (cook, clean, have kids, etc.) and then don't understand why they won't get married. Look at the logic of incentives. What incentive do they have to marry you at that point? They already have everything they want. On top of that, they can hold the hope of marriage over your head.
@@ollieanntan4478 That logic is the reason so many BW women are single & bitter wondering where they went wrong….
@@kingrambo519men see women cook and clean for themselves. That’s how they know
He’s all about himself. He literally stated he wants her to stay because she makes him feel better, makes him love himself. What does she get out of this? He laid down and made 9 children. None of the women he laid with are “ good enough “ to marry. He wants his mommy in charge when it comes to medical decisions. But wants to use women for benefits. He doesn’t love this woman. He loves what she’s doing to make his life easier. He doesn’t want to marry her, have children with her, or make her happy. He wants to use her up.
that is what " The Queen Maker" Princella is tryng to make clear to women, The male biological and nature is to drain a woman, make babies- spread his seed , abuse and use women.
Most women are not marriage material because they are not raised to be wives but breeders
I wonder what he'll do when she leaves🤔🤔🤔
You couldn't have said it any better. No wonder he has so many kids. With his medical problem and those extra kids that are not hers and with what she is doing for him? He's selfish. If she should move on which she should he will be a Jerk. He must be planning for his Mom to out lived him.
1000% agree with OP. Ladies, watch out for polite narcs. Cheating is very likely which is why he was MIA in Vegas for 4 days. He will have zero remorse discarding her like trash if/when he's healthier OR when he finds her replacement, whichever comes first.
I hate hearing stories about how women be fully committed to men who clearly aren’t committed to just pay $50 for a marriage certificate 😢
That’s there fault don’t blame men blame the woman who stay
And hate to hear them begging for a ring.
This makes me very sad.
Marriage is a serious commitment and responsible/accountable men understand this. Not saying he’s one of them, but it’s a lot that goes into marrying a woman.
@@bryantrice803- yep…
She is a placeholder until he meets he one he wants. She is giving him everything and will end up with nothing.
Him taking about she isn’t mature while he’s running around with 9 kids and has a woman taking care of him.
Make it make sense.
Lmfaoooo
Right
Hahahahaahha that’s the first thing I thought when I heard 9 kids. Holy Toledo! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
It don’t make sense other than saying he’s a grifter. Nine kids now he wants to be responsible. Yeah ok
that part. How broken and stupid can females get over a male, and one who is sick, 9 kids needing a nurse.
@@patrickmiller1834more responsible than her for wanting a child by someone who had a serious life changing medical issue AND they already had *14 KIDS* total. that's crazy. she started talking about it, he immediately had a vasectomy, she's mad about that but they struggle w/finances. he absolutely is the more mature one in this case. insanity thinking
Chaotic people love to get into unsustainable relationships. The number of kids alone could be seen as a red flag. Then she wants to add 1 more. Ridiculous.
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That's because in most cases they were raised that way. They feel comfortable with it even if it hurts them. I hope she breaks the cycle.
Exactly!! Wild that she wants more kids and they already got combined 13 kids smh just crazy!!
I think both of them are a bit much. She gets with a guy with 9 kids? She has 4 and wanted more. He gets a vasectomy and doesn’t tell you? Say thank God, no more children and, move on period!
Leach, Leach, Leach, 9 children? 4 of your own? Really??? Do you really want to take care of this man, your children and his??? This is wayyyyyy too much ma’am!! You’re going to burn out sooner or later because she’s taking on to much responsibility too soon. He’s not taking his health seriously. Wise up girl!!!
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No.. a Pookie that knows how to work sympathy. She chose him (imo) because he doesn’t provide pressure to make her better. She can easily live up to his standards… he got 9 kids. But she can do waaaaaaaaaay better than this. Y’all sisters, don’t let her go out like this…
Please leave him alone and find someone worthy of you
Honey this ain't none but the truth
“You’re a doormat, a loved doormat, but a doormat nonetheless” I love how the judge is calml yet brutal 😂
He had the AUDACITY to lead with her not being mature enough for marriage 🙄🤦🏽♀️🤡
This man making up every excuse in the book despite his illness . Like ma’am he’s not in to you move on !!
LADIES PLEASE STOP PUTTING YOUR OWN LIFE ON HOLD FOR A MAN. SHE'S WASTED 5 YEARS OF HER LIFE. FYI - IT DON'T TAKE NO MAN 5 YEARS TO MAKE THAT MOVE. GIRL - HE'S JUST NOT INTO YOU. DIDN'T JUDGE TOLER, TELL EVERYBODY - DON'T LET NO ONE TELL YOU THAT THEY DON'T WANT YOU MORE THAN ONCE. HE'S BEEN TELLING HER FOR 5 YEARS. STOP DOING WIFEY DUTIES AT A GIRLFRIEND PAY. I MISS JUDGE TOLER SO MUCH. ❤
He's the immature one. The only immature thing she's doing is, waiting for him.
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He just told her everything, and she still says she doesn't know where to go from here? He doesn't want to commit to get. He wants her to take care of him and continue to string her along. Sad.... Doormat
Some women have that mentality, “ it’s better to have a piece of a man than no man at all.”
It's really unfortunate!!!
True n soon as he gets better he will leave her, cus her services will no longer be needed 😔
@@kainatforever2292 No lies told💔
Sister you don't need a ring, you need some boxes and track shoes..pack up and run..ASAP
It never ceases to amaze me how a man can be broken down and still expect a woman to be perfect before they will fully commit. I can't believe that he had the sheer audacity to call this woman immature after she has committed herself to not only caring for him while he's ill, but also caring for his children . Some women are so hooked on getting married and getting a ring, that they'll take any old piece of man and try to make him a husband. She really is a doormat and needs to run as fast as she can!!! He is clearly using her. The sad part about it is that once she leaves there will be another woman who will gladly take her place and do the same thing that she's been doing. I don't think that she's really going to leave him
I think you got the roles reversed men are EXPECTED to suffer in silence & fix everything when broken a woman can easily coddle in the corner crying and nobody will say anything to her might even feel sorry for her but nobody ever feels sorry for a man, whole life could be falling apart and if we shed ONE tear we’re a bitch or sassy or trying to be the woman in a relationship or whatever feminine shit y’all wanna say that day lmao
Did she say she would have took a Walmart ring?? And she stood outside the courthouse waiting for 2 hours to get a $50 certificate of marriage? Good lord! This woman is desperate as hell🤦🏾♀️ she's desperate for marriage from a man who only sees her as a nurse 🤦🏾♀️ embarrassing
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And he prefers his mother to make life altering decisions.....Beyond Desperate
😂😂😂😂😂😂yesssssss
Not to mention he has 9 kids and no job! I bet the child support he has to pay is atleast 100k. She definitely has no self love to deal with this loser
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I'm sorry....when she got to the point of wanting a baby with him, she's crazy as hell! And hell is crazy!!
He was using her for taking care of him and his kids
Thought the same thing
Actually she chose to stay time and time again.
She keeps staying, but he encourages it. Both are wrong.
Forget that unappreciative dude, dead legs and all. She doesn't owe him anything. He owes her for her free labor.
That was a sad situation. His disappearing is a major red flag. He has nine kids, he is probably visiting their mothers while she is taking care of him and his children. I hope she meets a man who will love her and care for her because she deserves that.
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She won’t until she learns to truly love herself 1st💯
Well said
My sister had CIPD. He clearly doesn't understand his condition. It is a rare dibilitating, degenerative disease. She better do some research on the disease to understand what she and all those children are facing because he clearly doesn't.
She needs to leave and take her 4 children with her. Let he and his mother figure it out. She is a friend indeed to him, but never a friend of him.
@@bryanbeeman5256 WELL said!
girl leave him with his nine kids. He WOULD NOT take care of you if you were sick.
Why do we attach ourselves to little boys like this?! Omg why!? Ladies WE have to do better in our choices. He don’t want you sis-he needs you as his momma!
She’s not mature, but she’s holding down the fort doing it all. I really hate when a man can do fatherhood but not marriage. She can be mad about the vasectomy and yes he should’ve told her about it. However, she is putting herself in further debt as if between them they don’t have 13 children and that’s a lot.
Sweetheart if you have to beg a man to marry you , it's not going to work ! Run and go on with your life . Soul ties are real !
He’s playing with her because He knows she’s going to be there regardless taking her for granted. She needs to leave.
She can't possibly be shocked that he doesn't want to marry her when his actions have BEEN demonstrating that he doesn't want to marry her.
He just uses her so that she will be be an unpaid Nanny/Cook/ Maid/ Nurse. She probably pays all the bills too.
Actions speak louder than words. His actions were obvious that he has no intentions of committing to her / marrying her.
Ms. Imani should have broken up with him the moment he took the "secret trip" to Vegas! because he has NINE children (several who live with them) and wasn't comunicating with her for DAYS. SO he not only neglected his girlfriend, but he neglected a house FULL of children too. He's very inconsiderate and selfish.
It's one thing to take care of somebody and be with somebody that don't show you the same attention back but damn if homeboy don't even care about his own health he won't even go to physical therapy that says a lot about him
Lynn Toler said never make a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you.
I am so glad that she picked herself and her kids over that mess because she deserves so much better. She don’t deserve to be his doormat. if he wants a doormat then he need to go get a woman that’s dumb enough to put up with that💯
None of us “deserve” anything. We earn it. Second, if we do not want to be treated like a doormat, get up off the floor… Judge Star
SO MANY RED FLAGS WITH THIS GUY! Again I say, RUN!!!
How many times does he have to say he don’t want you. Girl I would be out the door
So what, he is going to burden his Mom with all them kids and his failing health.😢 Girl please please wake up.
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Right
Let that happen then. Worry about yourself.
Shes not mature enough for marriage, but ur making excuses and getting secret vasectomies..🤦🏽♀️..sis RUN!🚩🚩
He is stringing her along for him and his children. He has no problem leaving her high and dry
14 kids he’s basically paralyzed and you want more kids ain’t about to be nothing but more problems. Everybody wants ownership of another individual he’s ain’t going anywhere just live life.
This episode hit home for me. Thank you Jesus for a new year and a renewed mind
Can we get more episodes per day?!! I love DC and would like to binge watch but I can’t! 😭
Y’all forgot Nurse and baby sitter girl run!!
the fact that he said he wants his mother to make medical decisions for him should show you that you're just an option for him, NOT A PRIORITY 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Ask any man what pimpin your mind is. If a guy tells you that he he is going to do something and over and over again doesn’t … he’s pimpin your mind.
The wrap was great as usual! You know damn well she ain’t going no where
He is correct, she's immature. She puts him before her. He don't wanna say it like that, yet he's showing her she's choosing wrong
The nurse, the babysitter, the cook, the everything and he wants to be choosy. Be his caretaker and get that social security check… while in a relationship elsewhere!
Don't let a man tell you twice;
That he don't want you!
She is just a nurse sleeping with a patient, nothing else. He is using his illness to keep her with him. He does not want her, he wants help.
and when he disappears for days at a time, who is left taking care of his kids?
The lady he said isn't mature 🙄🤦🏽♀️
Ms. Bax, you are his nurse! He does not want a serious, committed relationship with you. Hear him! He's showing and telling you what he wants.
Huh? Commitment and last name in exchange for a lifetime of stress and headache heart ache 🤔 okay gurl.
That woman needs to be ashamed of herself. 14 children already and she wants more? Lord have mercy, your relationship is busted, your man is too, your self esteem is on the ground, he won’t even meet you at the courthouse to pay for a 50 dollar certificate. He needs to go like right away with all his children. It’s not fair. It’s a blessing he’s not marrying you ma’am. Too much baggage, that this man can’t sustain.
She doesn't need to be ashamed. She needs to be alarmed. She needs to VALUE herself more. She needed TO RUN!!!!
She has 4kids, he has 9. Where did you get 14 from?
@@lavidaloca2344 fine 13
Yes, she should be embarrassed....Desperate at its BEST😂
@@lavidaloca2344 The judge mistakely said 14
Why she want this man child!?
Like the elders say, Be careful for a person to fall in love with your hand and not your heart
He wants her to settle for his presence. Hell, the garbage is present and I'm sure she wants to throw that out. This situation is just too familiar.
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It’s 7.8 billion ppl in this world, a man with 9 kids won’t be one 😂
Wow even in this condition a man will mistreat you 🤦🏾♀️.
Man this is the kind of woman that should be/deserves to be a wife that men are looking for, its like he is using her to take care of him and his children because there is nobody else around for him.
Lies a woman who had 4 kids, is not married and wants a man with 9 kids who mistreats her IS NOT a PRIZE
She is NOT wise whatsoever ever maybe you want an unwise woman 🙄who is desperate 😂
I agree. His mother will get all the benefits and obviously her children doesn't get anything. She could better take care of her four children much better than a spoil male child and HIS nine kids. Why are YOUR children not more important to YOU??? Why are Your children not benefitting from this so called family. You could better educate and prepare them for life and college. STOP thinking about YOURSELF and needs. YOU made these babies, make sure their lives are better. Stop being spoil as he is and you are too. Give your babies a BETTER life and teach them not to allow anyone to use them. That is not LOVE.
This apart of the problem in our community woman who get with a man that is not looking for what you looking for and stay longer than they need to and it’s ruins you for the next man we see this all the time most men are worth a damn but some like this aren’t and I blame no one but her she saw this years ago and decided to stay and now this a situation where you know it’s not gone end well
I feel like he loves her and wants her AROUND, however, he doesn't want to get married. He's 32 with 9 kids and she's 32 with 4 kids. I feel like he thinks she will be there to support HIM no matter what but eventually she will get tired of being used. Cliffnotes: Used tires go bald...
He loves what she can do for him, he has live for her, but he don’t love her. Love don’t treat people this way. When you love someone… you want to put a smile on their face… this ain’t that…
I agree with @bryanbeeman5256. He loves what she can do for him, but he doesn't love her. He's quite happy for her (and her children) to be excluded from visiting him if he's dying.
This lady need to walk away. He is the one who is not mature. He does not want to marry you. They do not need anymore kids. She is being used. He doesn’t even take his health serious.
Such a sweet young lady.
They need to break up. He has her looking so rough for her age. He will leave her anyway soon as his health improves.
He's just going to volunteer his mom. Mom raised you. You're supposed to leave the nest and create a family. This is why I'd leave as soon as my boyfriend got sick. A wife is there during sickness and health. Be used otherwise for what you can do.
One thing some women won't do is listen. When man tells you something in reference to the relationship, please listen. He doesn't want to marry her. He just wants her as a caregiver, and she's to blind to see it. Whatever way she could have him and be his wife, she doesn't care. She has 4 kids, he has nine. That's a lot of kids!! The overall sad part about this, is that she's not going anywhere. She has lost her self confidence, and lost not knowing her worth, so she will continue to sell herself short dealing with this selfish man.
I pray that she finds someone to love her unconditionally.
The fact that he thinks he has "options" is comical.
She doesn’t want magic words she wants you to tell her the truth. But obviously it isn’t in you.
HE IS USING HER!!! HE HAS HER AS HIS AIDE!!
He is right about not wanting anymore kids, the man is not committed to you, you have to take care of him but you want a baby.
Attachments take from u, while connections pour into u, know the difference
A secret vasectomy! Children not good right now, sir they would never come again 😂
Secret vasectomy, secret trip to Vegas 🙄🙄🙄 he sneaky af
Learn to walk away and be done with the relationship.
This hurt my feelings to see a woman so willing to be used despite being told the truth that marriage is not in her future! Complete De-Lu-Lu! Wake up ma’am! You’re better than what you’re choosing to deal with!
Girlllllll HE DON'T WANT YOU!!!!! GONE ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS!!!! OMG... LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!! WOWWWWWWWWW
A ring does not guarantee commitment.... And you definitely don't need any more kids because you don't know what the future holds 😢😢😢😢😢
Sorry judge, he’s not real husband material at all!
can’t do wifely duties on a girlfriend level
This man said his mother would take care of him 😂😂😂😂 🤣🤣🤣
Many men are concerned about marrying the wrong person and do sometimes see if there is a bigger, better deal coming. We ask as many questions as women should. We are definitely apprehensive if we hear conversations or see behaviors that cause us to pause. If we’re signing up, it’s until death… that’s the commitment.. and commitment is sticking with the obligation regardless of our mood or feelings have changed. Just because your feelings change doesn’t mean the obligation does.
Very true. However, it doesn't seem like he had any intention on being truthful and upstanding with her BEFORE he became sick. He just doesn't respect, like nor love Imani the way he claims to. It's his loss and he definitely will know/feel the repercussions of his actions someday.
My heart goes out to Miss Bax. She made a big mistake by taking in wife responsibility with out being his wife. I hope she sticks to her decision to walk away
Heavy on ask your momma!
Oh my goodness he looks like Scar from the Lion King.
13 kids to share in blend plus his chronic health issues and he got the nerve to stand there talking about she not mature enough for marriage but it's been taken care of your ass oh hell nah 2.999 and he got the nerve to not even be taken care of himself like he should
I hope she is being honest with herself and is able to walk away. I hate when a person takes advantage of another. 💔
Her: i feel like a fool
Me : No, you are a fool. How can you date someone with 9 children. That was her first mistake.
It's the begging for me..Bless her heart😢
GIRL RUN 🏃….
Heal this Man oh God
Girl. He is not your husband, let his mama be his caretaker or a nursing home. Why would you even want a ring from a male whose health is declining. Wait....you're trying to have a baby through poverty and an already full house. Where is your mother??????????????
Is it just me, or does he look like Scar from The lion king 🦁? 😂😂😂
My daughter recovered completely from Jullian Barre Syndrome, thank God. His woman has her hands full with the kids alone and to add his care on top of that, she is the MVP.
He makes sense
He is using her and that friendship for five years …red flag
Its sad to say but she definitely ain't going anywhere
His ego is way too high if your woman is telling you she'll take a ring from Walmart she is there for you to love you not the damn ring that's a real one and she's beautiful she can get any man she want and it's hard to find women like us we damn near rare breed