I’m not sure if this will resonate with anyone else, but in my own world I find that when I’m engaging in ‘avoidant’ behaviors (I.e., avoiding real world shit) I’ll seek out tiktok. But, if I’m wanting connection or true entertainment, I find myself on UA-cam!! Also a great way to gauge my coping mechanisms w anxiety LOL! UA-cam girl always
Honestly couldn’t agree more! I go to TikTok for stress relief but I don’t feel the same depth I feel for youtubers I’ve “gotten to know” over the years (obviously only knowing what they’ve shared) but still the concept is there lol
Me too, whenever I’m overwhelmed mentally and avoiding or procrastinating, I’ll almost always go straight to tiktok until I feel nauseous from scrolling and then I’ll get off and do what I need to do.
what a fun video wherein you describe at length all the things you've already described at length before on many different occasions you ARE making a difference QUEEN!!!!!
But this is why us long form fans love it so much ... We get to listen to you describe such things AT LENGTH vs in a hurried fashion, repeatedly. Edit: To be clear, I will always vote for long form. I despise TikTok and rarely use IG unless I'm going there to look for something specific. The connection formed thru long form is key! (IMHO) 🖤
The point you made about platforms not protecting their original purpose is so so accurate. I find no fulfillment in short term content and with every app basically transitioning to showing us the same recycled garb of voiceovers, sound bytes, and 10 second clips, there is absolutely nothing driving me to each app as there is nothing that makes them stand apart. I’m so happy to hear this perspective from a content creator I respect so much.
I like when you title the video with what you're chatting about rather than just saying "chatty grwm." I would love more of this where you're discussing one specific issue or topic even unrelated to makeup and maybe you're just doing your makeup as you're talking.
I feel this sooo hard. Short form content doesn't feel good to me. You literally can't multi task with it and it doesn't feel like it inspires me to do things. I love long form content. I love just hearing people like you or Kristi talk about things you care about because that's usually what I care about.
YES to the multi-tasking 1000000 times. I love just playing content in the background of working around my house or doing computer work and now I feel have so many less options for that because every one does short form and I can't be swiping my phone while I type emails
I've been watching you for years and years, and I'm so proud of the woman you've become. You've shared your wins, your struggles, your unpopular opinions, and you've always kept it real with your audience. Your openess, honesty and willingness to be raw and vulnerable are what set you apart from other content creators. Watching you go from hot instagram influencer, to a mother, with a beautiful business, a relationship you've worked so hard on, and a mind that leads with wisdom and mental health. Your journey has been inspiring. I totally understand how you're feeling, and it's so fucking depressing when you feel like you have to do certain things, or be a certain away in order to progress your career. Or even just maintain it, in a job that I'm sure is already incredibly stressful. However, you are one of the only reasons I still come on to YT, and I know I'm not the only one 💙 you're going to find a path that suits you, and you're going to thrive because you are Samantha Ravndahl. .... I realize I just wrote a novel, but I'm pretty baked, and it just sounds like you needed it. 💙💙💙
Yes to all of this. TikTok drains me, it's too much, too fast - I find it over-stimulating. Long form content is actually relaxing to me. I will put a video on in the background while I clean, do my skincare, etc. Also, bc there are so many people on TikTok, and I'm not one of them, that can be isolating irl, too. Hard agree. 🤠
Long form content stans arise! I don't have a TikTok and I get bored with reels very quickly. I like following people I enjoy and enjoying what they create in a longer form. I think TT and short form content focus a lot on chasing trends and algorithm friendly media mainly to get views. Not all short form creators are like that but most are I feel.
I love long form content for baths, getting ready, eating, etc. Exactly like you said Tiktok and IG you have to be honed in and scrolling whereas when Sam posts a long video I can settle in with my meal or whatever I'm doing and relax. When the content keeps jumping, changing every 30 secs it can be a lot and over stimulating at times
Short form content is more time consuming to the viewer than long form, in my experience and observation of people around me. Everything you mentioned in this video resonates with me and it shows the depth of parasocial relationship. You mentioned events that I can actually remember. Talking to us about mental health, your personal growth and everything, I felt invested, rooting for you, etc. It all brought me feelings and growth as well. I still look for that and I can’t seem to get it with short form content, so I can invest my time in that. I will remain a UA-cam person who appreciate pictures and art on Instagram when she’s on the go, it’s the way it is. May we all ramble together 😅💜🤷♀️
Thank you! It’s unfortunate that we feel like we have to choose b/c there’s a place for both, but every platform ramming short form down our throats is so homogenous. Leaves no room for detail or a moment to breathe and absorb the info we’ve just received
My husband and I found out recently we are having a baby. We've been trying for a while but when we got our positive, I was happy conceptually... but I'm so miserable with morning sickness I wasn't "happy". I felt comforted remembering how some people just don't enjoy pregnancy. Watching the videos about Sam's pregnancy made me feel better. Because NOT everyone enjoys pregnancy, but that doesn't mean you aren't excited about your pregnancy.
The same for postpartum. You can eternally love your child, be grateful you have them, yet be fucking miserable and cry in the shower every day until you work through your shit, get help or work or whatever. It’s nice to know others are like you and motherhood isn’t perfect 24/7
I agree! I have no concept of time but it’s been a loooong time (probably close to the ten year mark) and Sam is one of those UA-camrs where I’m always elated to see more content from. It’s so organic and real and I love it.
This. Is. So. Accurate. I was just talking about this earlier today. I love long form content as I am alone most of the day. People like you keep me company while I am doing my day to day life and I can't get that if I am scrolling all the short form stuff. I hope you and my other faves will keep posting long form content. We live to see (hear) it. Thank you!
THIS!! The more I work from home, the more I scour UA-cam for long-form content because I like the sound of someone, ANYONE talking. These days I don’t even care what they are talking about, I just want them to talk and talk for a long time.
I hate that creators aren’t creating on UA-cam as much as before. I miss getting excited to see a weekly video upload. As a mother of 3 being able to watch and connect to a video while doing the dishes or cooking is a little “me time” I look forward to your videos and maybe one day you and Alyssa can do a virtual podcast because I miss it so much 😭
Your channel specifically is a big part of realizing UA-cam gives me so much connection and it's really the only social media I truly get anything from.
I am so happy you value this longer form content still so much. I know it may be pathetic as fuck (like truly so pathetic) but in talking about parasocial relationships, my most valuable "friendships" in my life are parasocial. I don't have any friends in real life. I have my family and I have people I went to high school with that I'll dm on instagram every once in a while. But you need connection outside of those environments. You need to feel truly connected. I know parasocial relationships will never match up to the real deal but for now it's what I have. In saying this, Sam you're one of my best friends whether you know it or want it lol. I value this long form content so much because it really does keep me from allowing the all consuming loneliness to sink in and I truly can't express how thankful I am for that. Sorry, this was rambly and honestly, maybe creepy or overstepping - I don't know. I just wanted you to know I value your long form content so much and I wanted to say thank you for making it.
I can totally understand the benefit of parasocial relationships and personally - as someone that has been doing this job for about 10 years - I do feel as though I have a reverse-parasocial relationship with you guys lmao. I am glad you feel that you are able to take something from me posting here on UA-cam and am honoured to be one of your long-distance, parasocial friends. thanks for the comment and for watching
This is one of the huge benefits of aocial media, like she mentioned. Everybody can find their people! They can find someone to relate to, to make them feel valuable and understood. It is important.
This almost made me cry, I’m the same way and worry about the same things. I don’t have friends where I’ve been living for the last decade. I moved a lot throughout my life and tbh social media is probably the only reason I was able to keep the friendships I do have in real life. But also I connect the most and feel seen and heard the most by people I don’t actually know except through social media.
Hearing you talk about Alyssa really touched my heart. I completely understand what you mean. My sister in law was that for me. She didn't live with me but she was at my house daily. She was absolutely my soul mate. I lost her in 2020. I wish she were only 5 hours away and I could call her or visit her. I agree with you that the more personal videos are necessary. We all deal with rough patches and sometimes we need to feel seen and heard.
I was browsing UA-cam trying to find a great, long form video for my self-care shower (was having many moments) and BOOM.. just like an angel, Sam notification popped up and saved me. 28 seconds after posted, clicked so damn fast. Halfway through, shower done.. so happy you posted. I completely agree with disliking the shortform content. I tried tiktok and it's not for me. I am still to this day an avid UA-cam viewer. Been a viewer of your videos since the getgo and also on my mom journey. I totally feel that parasocial relationship! You're rad as hell. Thank you so much for all your awesome content. ❤️
Listened to this entire vid during my workout this morning at 5am. Just know Sam, that there are those of us who will ALWAYS come watch your videos. We love the way your brain works and everything you said is spot on. I have never used tiktok and the only reason I downloaded it 5 months ago is to keep an eye on my 13 year old and his usage lol. This video reminded me I need to have a talk with him about being conscious about what he's consuming. The short form videos are only fueling poor social skills and lack of connection. Thanks for this chat beauty! (I call it a chat cuz even tho you couldn't hear me I had commentary and replies running thru my mind the whole time lol. That's the connection I love 😏🤟)
You’re definitely one of the more cerebral UA-camrs I watch. I have to say, I love the juxtaposition of talking about the greater purpose of connection and contributing to humanity while doing the rather ubiquitous GRWM video style. Makes me want to write some kind of dissertation on how the shallowness of makeup is hiding this deeper, richer content for those brave enough to explore it. Or some shit like that.
I miss having photos on Instagram. That was always my go to when I wanted to mindlessly scroll or couldn’t use sound… and now that’s gone. Most content these days is sound-dependent which loses a lot of accessibility.
you talking about your friendship with alyssa is so sweet and lovely and inspiring. I dont make videos but I write out long instagram captions bc I also must release my thoughts into the world or I'll explode. some of the beauty youtubers I still consistently watch are you, jessica braun, kitsnitch, and lauren mae. lauren has actually gotten me into fragrance recently. a whole new world I never would have considered venturing and it was because I loved the verbose way she would describe scents. tiktoks can supplement long form videos but they will never replace them in my book.
Yes to all of this. IG just has a community to it. Great friendships and relationships I’ve made. Also love your long form content. It’s where I found you, and continue to love watching it. 💕
Short form content drains energy and I don’t remember learning anything from a tik tok or reel. It doesn’t add any real value to audience life or creator’s life. It only benefits platforms.
From the creator perspective I feel like making short term content is exhausting. Not only when it comes to looking at trends, new transitions, etc. but also because people and the platform expect short term content more frequently. From the viewers perspective short term content makes me feel addicted to my phone and I don’t feel good after hours of consuming so much content. I feel like I can relax on UA-cam watching a 10+ minute video whereas I feel frustrated knowing I need to get off TikTok but can’t stop scrolling sometimes. There’s definitely similarities between long and short term content but I think the ability to connect and enjoy a longer video on UA-cam than 20 short videos on TikTok just sits better with me. Nonetheless, I love watching you on all platforms, Sam! ❤️
I am so in for long form content! I still watch everyday. If you post it your community will watch! We dont care what you post and talk about. We are here for you. I actually pumped my fist when I saw the notification that you posted. We love your realness and your honesty. you let us in and help us at the same time.
I think you would like the book Educated by Tara Westover. It's incredibly fascinating, with how she grew up in a religious cult and was never allowed to go to school. It's really well written, and very inspiring. Also - I completely agree, that humans need more connection. Real connection. Social media seem to be creating this lonely, depressing, dark place.
This seems so silly to say but this video had me on the brink of tears. I spend so much of my day aimlessly scrolling to find satisfaction but I don’t want to be. You put in to words so many things I didn’t know how to say and it makes me want to change how I’m doing things. I know this was about why you don’t like tiktok but the deeper part of what you are saying resonated with me so well. I need to change how I spend my valuable time and for some reason what you discussed made it click for me. Thank you Sam.
I completely resonated with everything you said and I am so excited to see more of your YT content. I love your chatty GRWMs and getting to hear about mental health and feeling like we’re all part of a little community- it’s very special
This was so perfect and exactly what I needed. I listened while my 2 month old napped on our stroller walk. I’m really excited for more from you Sam! When I’m cooking, cleaning, or driving to work once maternity leave ends😢
I personally am what I term, a "cusp" neither millennial nor gen z, yet invalidated by both. I'm nearly 24, which means I grew up with UA-cam. I watched Candy Johnson, Michelle Phan, and o.g. Jaclyn Hill, and I have been watching your content since the Batalash days. I know a lot of folks even a few years younger than myself, who haven't had that experience -- even long form content in retrospect at times feels fleeting. The biggest blow for myself and I know many others, was the loss of Jenna Marbles at the beginning of the pandemic. It genuinely did feel like an end of an era, where long form content creators one watched solely because of that parasocial connection built, would not be a sustainable form of creation anymore. Now it feels as though you have to do something or be something to create content on this platform, and I can tell you that I am 1,000 elated to hear that you are going to be producing more UA-cam content because you are one of the only creators I feel like I can turn to anymore who will be raw, honest, and just chat (or ramble rather). So grateful for you Sam!
Thank you for being honest, I’ve always admired that about you. I love watching long form content still, way more than short form. I know there may not be a lot of us left but we’re still here 😊
I relate so much to what you're saying! I created a TikTok account and lasted a day watching the platform. It felt like empty unremarkable content. You know how, there is fast food, full of sugar, fat and calories vs nutritious healthy food with proteins, vitamins, minerals, fiber? Well TikTok is fast content and I felt so dumb wasting my time watching it!
This video pleases me to no end. I’m 💯 ready for all the long rambling Sam content you put out. I’m a long form content person all the way for the same reasons you’ve described.
Thank you for putting into words so many thoughts and feelings I have had but didn’t articulate. I need long talking videos to watch while I get ready or decompress in the bath. Thank you for bringing it up!
I love your videos! I had no idea approachable was over I think I listened to nearly every episode. I haven’t used social media in 2 years and my life amazing, relationships are more meaningful and my mental health is better than ever. That said I agree the connection is so important. I’ve learned so much from you as someone a couple years behind in life and I would have never known in 2017 when I initially started following you how much your content has helped me grow and learn about myself. THANK YOU for still posting no matter how infrequently. If anything it’s more of a treat :) you might not have changed the world but you have changed my life.
Thank you so much for starting this conversation!! I love tiktok but I’m sad that not as many people post on UA-cam anymore. I love long form content and honestly I watch like 2-3 hour long podcasts the most. I love super long form content!
you’re always saying some real shyt sam. i appreciate it so much because it helps me identify my own feelings and thoughts too. unfortunately i got sick with covid and had a traumatic miscarriage toward the end of 2020. so i was just too depressed to keep up with content creation or even go on any social media. i basically only slept and played mario kart for months. i grew apart from my best friend who was a content creator , or she outgrew me and found other creators to fit in with. i feel alone and just upset/angry that this is how things unfolded but i’m trying to give it all another go. trying to feel less bad for myself and get more motivated. it’s so hard trying to come back to content creation when it seems like the whole social media world has changed and my tiktoks get 300 views while IG content that used to get tens of thousands of likes is lucky to hit 4-5k likes. it’s rough af out here and this video makes me feel less alone and i personally think your tiktoks have been great
I’ve managed to stay away from short form content so far… In my opinion, it (for the most part) feels mindless, addicting, and lacks any real value. I would love for you to come back to UA-cam more!! Let’s bring back Periscope!! 😉 That was the most meaningful connection I’ve ever experience in social media!!
I have literally watched you, Jamie and Allana since 2013, I swear! I love these rumbly videos and LOVED your podcast. Short format stuff is nice for funny cat videos every now and then buy it’s got nothing on YT
Totally agree with you! I enjoy UA-cam for playing in the background while I’m doing art, getting ready, cleaning. Short videos makes me feel like my brain cells are dying and I feel worse for it. I’ve been trying to get into TikTok recently and just got shadow banned because I said “packing Patreon orders” (I’m an artist). Now my videos are getting 0 views and it’s caused me to take a second look at it… is this really where I want to put my time? I’ve wanted to get back into UA-cam and this has helped me decide :)
You're the only one who I've stayed watching after all these years. All the way from batalash days. I could watch you talk about anything for a long time bc you're so cool, thoughtful, real.
I love the evolution your channel/you have shared with us. I’ve been watching since the Batalash days and no matter how much time passes between your uploads I always love watching your videos. It’s like we’ve grown up with you and you’ve helped us consider other important aspects of life. One of my favourite videos of yours is when you were talking about your vacation to Poland with your brother. I don’t know why but it struck a chord with me. Thanks for being here Sam ❤
I am listening to you while doing some mindless work at the moment so I absolutely get what you are saying. It actually helps me focus on tasks when I have a youtube video in the background. In that vein if you want to have a podcast on Spotify I will definitely listen to it while I walk my dog or vacuum :D
I resonate with this a lot. Listening to you on UA-cam and your previous podcast truly helped me grow my mindset and become a better person. I’m 30 now. I’m still in college and work as a teaching assistant in my degree program. There is… such a shift in the students I work with, who are typically around 18-20. And I think short form content is one of the myriad of reasons why there is such a large change. Students are having a much harder time with interacting with the real world. I could dive into that but it is kind of scary to see. Anyway it is one of the many reasons why my daughters aren’t allowed social media yet. I want to understand how to help them navigate it, particularly short form content.
I love and will continue to watch your long form content because I enjoy your personality and sense of humour. Whatever you want to chat about while doing your makeup I'll have fun listening to
It takes courage to speak out as you do Samantha, so openly and unapologetic; I wish more people would be as willing! This serves to remove the terrible stigma that accompanies mental health but we are getting there and you are a big part of this. I couldn't agree more with you in that Tik Tok isn't for me, it's fast and impersonal and a fair bit of it is rubbish. Kudos to you Samantha!!
I totally agree with you. I found you on UA-cam on my maternity leave when my son was about 2 weeks old. When I was feeling so isolated up with a baby at all hours of the night, I would binge videos of yours and it really did help me pass the time in early breastfeeding misery and not totally lose my shit. So, thanks for not giving up on the YT community. I’m still here 15 months later and will continue to be here because I appreciate your honesty and connection!
going through a loss of a friend like that is hard but having that person be YOUR person is a whole different cadence of pain😭 thinking of you and sending you alyssa happy vibez.
Honestly, same!! It takes away from the creativity and work that goes into longer forms of content like on UA-cam. It lacks connection and originality at times. :)
I love longer videos!! It feels like we are sitting down to chit chat! I can do other things while “hanging out” with you. Short form videos, like you said, don’t facilitate those relationships!
Short form is fun for dance, jokes and all zoning out but UA-cam, podcasts and books are were I feel community and less alone. I'm a long form speaker and have no one to talk to 95% of the time so I consume videos like this to feel less isolated and it's life changing to know that I'm not the only one that NEEDS to long process and discuss and I'm not weird or annoying I'm just different brained than others around me in my life. Including how this impacts your mental health is spot on how i feel. I also lost a friend to moving and while we talk it's been very depressing. I just related to everything you talked about very deeply. It's very relevant as we all struggle to find healthier balances in life, business, our 30s.. it's just... a lot. And I need less apps more connection not the other way around.
I love long form content! A couple months ago I deleted my Facebook and to be honest I’ve never felt better. Also, I can’t wait to read Jennette McCurdys book 🙌🏻📕
I’ve also deleted FB and IG, and was super excited to look up this book when she mentioned it! Not in the least because my mother is actually passed! Here’s hoping we both enjoy the book :)
I totally agree with everything you said. Your content, here and the podcast with alyssa helped me through a very difficult time I had. Now i'm doing so much better in my life and i wanted to thank you. Also, today is my birthday 😉 so thank you for the 37 minutes video. Love it 😍
You described exactly how I've been feeling about UA-cam and Audio books. I love that I can listen to them and gain knowledge and feel connected while still getting things done. I listened to this video while driving home and loved it! Thank you for posting longer videos here on your channel.
Love it. Miss you. Love you. And honestly ironically surprised at myself for watching and entire ~40 minute video for the first time in years after feeling like TikTok has fried my brain. I’m here for Sam’s return ❤️
I have just had time to sit down and fully appreciate this video 😅 I must say I completely agree and am sad that there is less long form content being posted on UA-cam. It’s definitely somewhere I go to at the end of my day to decompress and check in with creators that I enjoy watching. Hoping to see more content from you very soon ❤
Hello Sam! My name is Keidy and I’ve been watching your videos for years. I don’t think I’ve ever left a comment before but I felt like it was time that I did. You once posted a video where you spoke to us and told us to start believing in ourselves. In the description box you linked the song “don’t stop believing” I have gone back and watched that video and it does make me cry every time I hear that song now. Your long form content does make a difference and I’m so happy your still posting for us! Continue the great work and talking about important topics! I’ll always be watching! 😘😘😘
Almost 40 minutes but you talked what was going on in my mind for awhile. I was finally finding my niche on instagram when it all started to change. This changing has happened before, years ago, with other platforms, and it never works... usually, but this time first world people are not "fighting" it. They are adopting this "distract me all the time please" mode of life.. I don't understand facebook anymore, they completely lost me.. but instagram was "my precious" and now its just so vain.. idk.. thank you for speaking!! love
Jeanette’s book was so good - I read “Know My Name” by Chanel Miller and it was equally powerful (but from my memory it is more somber). She came forward as the Jane Doe in the Brock Turner case and this book is her story.
Same! I love the connection on UA-cam, and I also love watching\listening to a long video on UA-cam while I'm doing house chores, etc. I get that influencers can make the same money or even more money on Instagram or Tiktok with way less effort and time, but I will forever love longer content and the deeper conversations on UA-cam.
YES!!! I’m all about the connection, even to the point of parasocial relationships. 😀 I think there’s something to be said for short form content, but that not where I personally spend my free time. I watch shorts if someone I know sends me something specific, and I watch reels when they’re uploaded by an account I actually follow. I don’t scroll looking for random content…..except on UA-cam. I’m glad you said all this. I agree with so much. I really hope you can gain and sustain the career you want for yourself.
I'm just getting to the part talking about mental health and I totally feel this. I'm really struggling currently with self isolating and having a hard time doing basic survival and care tasks for myself. The pandemic really interrupted the progress I was making prior to 2020 and I'm still not able to get past my obstacles 2, almost 3, years later. I'm not 100% hopeless about it, but I do appreciate hearing others talk about their own issues and reminding me I'm not alone in the struggle. Being isolated is really bad about making me feel alone in my struggle 😅
I’ve always loved the connection you have with your followers. I remember when you used to periscope and talk politics, feelings, and relationships. They helped me through so much loneliness as a first time stay at home mom.
I find it so interesting that every content creator is being forced into this “ short form” content. I didn’t even put TikTok on my phone until May this year. I actually resented having to follow someone on it. I don’t feel it’s for me. I’m not interested in quick tiny snippets of anything. During the Pandemic. I personally, along with sadly millions of others. Has lost a parent. I have severe health issues. Thus wasn’t even able to be with my father whilst he was dying in another country. I have and will continue to look for longer content. I don’t subscribe to anyone’s channel willy nilly. Im very particular when it comes to whom I’m looking to inform me. Teach me. Educate me Etc. I do not know why Instagram and now UA-cam are pandering to a content that already exists. I find it so pathetically sad. There’s already a platform for that. As for brands. I know it’s all about the money. Sadly we’re all feeling the pain of higher inflation. Crime increasing, a possible recession! If I’m going to spend money. I’m not going to look to a short form content to help me make a decision. It’s going to be an honest review. From someone I trust on UA-cam. I completely understand what your saying Sam. The amount of people whom have complained that they are wasting their lives to their detriment on TikTok is actually going to become a problem. I’m quite sure it already is. People not sleeping as there addicted to scrolling. If it’s someone’s outlet. The. That’s fine. I know there’s also so much of a generational change with TikTok. It’s the brands pandering to the younger and younger generation’s. It’s fine for a few minutes. But to be completely honest. If it’s not for you. I know this is part of your job. Your income. So I can only imagine the pressure. At the same time I find it quite boring. Everyone doing the same thing. It’s just not for everyone. I just hope that UA-cam and Instagram can actually stop with there sad FOMO and just go back to what they were. So the world can be easier for everyone.
You are so well spoken, thank you. Completely agree! The short form content is ok for a video of a cute pet or something but I do enjoy/prefer long videos with a conversation. Looking at too many short content videos also hurts my eyes, it's too visually busy.
I’m the older generation (51) and I really hope they are wrong that short form content is the future. I love TikTok, Instagram and UA-cam but I love them each for what they are. If they all turn to short videos I’ll stop watching them eventually. I don’t watch TikTok nearly as much as I used to but if I’m in the mood for mindless fun I will watch it. But I watch UA-cam way more. I’m thankful most of the people I follow here haven’t given up on it and thankful many do NOT do shorts! Yes I wrote a lot 🤣 loved this video ❤️
Amen! I miss Alyssa too-I loved your/her podcast and looked forward to it every week. I hope it comes back. So you’re so on point! I needed to hear this today.
I'm in awe because you quite literally spoke the words that have been percolating in my brain for the last few months. As an illustrator who found so much joy in the small connections I was able to make through instagram, i'm left feeling the exact same way as you... disconnected and discouraged by short form content. It feels good to not be alone in those thoughts! Also... can I just say, I HATE being served content at random? I feel like not a lot of people talk about it, but my god, short form content feels way less personal because of it, and it makes me feel out of control lol
^I think tik tok is going to create a whole generation that has super short attention spans. It must do something to brains that aren't fully developed yet. I don't know if it's a real thing, but it's just a theory. I just stick to Insta and put off Tik tok. I especially hate the vids where people put on a vid that goes super super fast so people need to re-watch it a few times to read it. Or those beauty IG's that show at warp speed them doing their makeup..... to me it's pointless as it's not needed.
I’ve followed you for a while, haven’t commented much, but you have no idea how much and often I relate with you. To say I understand, is a huge understatement!! I kept wondering if the short content thing was just bc I’m not in my 20’s anymore, but it’s not, it’s the connection. I think when we’re older, the things we take in, we want to really take in and think about. When I was younger nothing mattered as much. Maybe that’s part of it. You’re beautiful, great content, and love your work!! Your old video on the subculture palette, I refer to often and there are many in lists for when I need inspo 🤍
I've tried to get into tiktok (not posting but watching) and I just can't do it. Especially when people are doing the same things like the thing that makes me want to scream at the moment is the little nose crinkle smile headshake.... I HATE it.
This is embarrassing but I've accidentally said "my friend said/did" when I'm actually referring to youtuber because for a split second I'm like friend or UA-cam? hahaha that will never happen with a TikTok-er for me!
I am 26 years old & I have personally never downloaded Tiktok because I knew how terrible it would be for my mental health. I find myself watching reels/shorts but I remind myself that I'm just wasting my time. I strongly agree with the connection in a longer youtube video vs. that short form content. I know deep in my soul that youtube will always be my safe haven. Drinking tea with breakfast, folding clothes or doing the dishes... UA-cam always has my back! Wishing you well in wherever your future takes you, Sam!! :D :D
Thank you for continuing to be you and be transparent and truthful about your mental health, it resonates so much with me and helps me feel a little less alone in my own battles.
And yet again you are bang on the money. The part with making watching the main activity as opposed to just watching as I’m doing something else (in case of this vide I’ve been coloring) really hit home for me. Being passive leads me to crave that sweet dopamine even moor. So here’s to long format! And I’m excited to see your face on here more frequently!
I feel very seen! I “watched” this video while doing laundry and cooking, nodding along and remembering Sam’s videos about mental health and how much they resonated. I shared several of them with people as a “look, this is what I experience,” or even “you might find this helpful for yourself.” Tbh, I also enjoyed all of the menstrual product videos while I was pregnant (i.e. not menstruating). Bring back the rambles!!
I absolutely love your face. I am a single woman with no children. I don't know if I ever will have children, but I was so engrossed with your videos on what birth was like and how it felt for you emotionally and physically after birth, and the fact that you spotlighted how Matt felt during the process. I appreciated the content you put out about mental health. I appreciated the connection, and it was helpful for me too to hear how your therapist was guiding you to cope, and the different thought processes and strategies they recommend. I should probably get my own therapist, but they're expensive. Bless the hearts or the therapists that make youtube content. I love the products I have bought from Auric. They're not my only products, but I use them frequently and if I were going to dial it back and behave like a normal beauty consumer that just buys what they use, Temper, Defiance and Selenite would definitely all be in my vanity. I reach for Defiance to use the powder shadow as a topper or to highlight my brow when I use other products so often. When I just want a quick easy look, or I'm traveling, I use these products. I love how genuine you are. That is what keeps me coming back. I do love the connection that I feel to you because you are so genuine, especially about topics that are embarrassing and difficult to talk about. I also really grew to love Alyssa through the podcast. I miss her posts on Approached. So many people focus on murder. It's interesting to hear instead about embezzlement, fraud, old bank / train robberies. Also, this comment may be all over the place. I restarted the video to finish commenting, but I am so tempted to buy I'm Glad My Mom Died. Jenette was on The Financial Diet and listening to her story was fascinating and so sad. I didn't even watch iCarly.
I started out in the makeup world watching your tutorials and always loved the detail and what I can learn from them! I found the transition over to short content so hard, no one wanted to see tutorials over 1 minute long, or a look that could take 7 hours might be done in a 30 second tiktok. And now that I am creating work for brands I love, I’m finding I’m losing my excitement for makeup again because I have to stick to this new form of content. Anyway Sam, I always appreciate your content 🥰 thank you for giving me such a great insight into the makeup world and I learned so much from you which has really leaned into my career working on counter and also being a freelance artist now
I’m not sure if this will resonate with anyone else, but in my own world I find that when I’m engaging in ‘avoidant’ behaviors (I.e., avoiding real world shit) I’ll seek out tiktok. But, if I’m wanting connection or true entertainment, I find myself on UA-cam!! Also a great way to gauge my coping mechanisms w anxiety LOL! UA-cam girl always
Honestly couldn’t agree more! I go to TikTok for stress relief but I don’t feel the same depth I feel for youtubers I’ve “gotten to know” over the years (obviously only knowing what they’ve shared) but still the concept is there lol
Big same
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Me too, whenever I’m overwhelmed mentally and avoiding or procrastinating, I’ll almost always go straight to tiktok until I feel nauseous from scrolling and then I’ll get off and do what I need to do.
Me too!
I love that the title is “I hate short form content” and you posted a 40 minute video. The Sam we know and love. Never change my friend!!
Totally agree!!!
what a fun video wherein you describe at length all the things you've already described at length before on many different occasions you ARE making a difference QUEEN!!!!!
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Me too, Sam, me too
@@samantharavndahl ha! that you are!
Third!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
But this is why us long form fans love it so much ... We get to listen to you describe such things AT LENGTH vs in a hurried fashion, repeatedly.
Edit: To be clear, I will always vote for long form. I despise TikTok and rarely use IG unless I'm going there to look for something specific. The connection formed thru long form is key! (IMHO) 🖤
The point you made about platforms not protecting their original purpose is so so accurate. I find no fulfillment in short term content and with every app basically transitioning to showing us the same recycled garb of voiceovers, sound bytes, and 10 second clips, there is absolutely nothing driving me to each app as there is nothing that makes them stand apart. I’m so happy to hear this perspective from a content creator I respect so much.
I like when you title the video with what you're chatting about rather than just saying "chatty grwm." I would love more of this where you're discussing one specific issue or topic even unrelated to makeup and maybe you're just doing your makeup as you're talking.
noted for future!!
I feel this sooo hard. Short form content doesn't feel good to me. You literally can't multi task with it and it doesn't feel like it inspires me to do things. I love long form content. I love just hearing people like you or Kristi talk about things you care about because that's usually what I care about.
YES to the multi-tasking 1000000 times. I love just playing content in the background of working around my house or doing computer work and now I feel have so many less options for that because every one does short form and I can't be swiping my phone while I type emails
I've been watching you for years and years, and I'm so proud of the woman you've become.
You've shared your wins, your struggles, your unpopular opinions, and you've always kept it real with your audience. Your openess, honesty and willingness to be raw and vulnerable are what set you apart from other content creators. Watching you go from hot instagram influencer, to a mother, with a beautiful business, a relationship you've worked so hard on, and a mind that leads with wisdom and mental health. Your journey has been inspiring.
I totally understand how you're feeling, and it's so fucking depressing when you feel like you have to do certain things, or be a certain away in order to progress your career. Or even just maintain it, in a job that I'm sure is already incredibly stressful.
However, you are one of the only reasons I still come on to YT, and I know I'm not the only one 💙 you're going to find a path that suits you, and you're going to thrive because you are Samantha Ravndahl.
.... I realize I just wrote a novel, but I'm pretty baked, and it just sounds like you needed it. 💙💙💙
😭😭 thank you for commenting. This is so unbelievably mind and I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it.
Yes! Couldn’t have put it any better!!
Yes to all of this. TikTok drains me, it's too much, too fast - I find it over-stimulating. Long form content is actually relaxing to me. I will put a video on in the background while I clean, do my skincare, etc.
Also, bc there are so many people on TikTok, and I'm not one of them, that can be isolating irl, too. Hard agree. 🤠
You hit it in the head, it is way over stimulating, I can't!
I agree so much!!!!!
Sam’s long videos are so relaxing into matter what she’s talking about. You’re totally right
Long form content stans arise!
I don't have a TikTok and I get bored with reels very quickly. I like following people I enjoy and enjoying what they create in a longer form. I think TT and short form content focus a lot on chasing trends and algorithm friendly media mainly to get views. Not all short form creators are like that but most are I feel.
That's a perfect description. Chasing trends and algorithms is also one of the many things I hate about short form content
Well said!
@@manonvo8615 couldn't agree more 👏
I love long form content for baths, getting ready, eating, etc. Exactly like you said Tiktok and IG you have to be honed in and scrolling whereas when Sam posts a long video I can settle in with my meal or whatever I'm doing and relax. When the content keeps jumping, changing every 30 secs it can be a lot and over stimulating at times
Yes! Are we twins? I’m the same!
I haven't even watched this. But YES. I HATE. SHORT. FORM. CONTENT.
Same
I second your same.
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Same. I never agreed with a video title more.
Short form content is more time consuming to the viewer than long form, in my experience and observation of people around me. Everything you mentioned in this video resonates with me and it shows the depth of parasocial relationship. You mentioned events that I can actually remember. Talking to us about mental health, your personal growth and everything, I felt invested, rooting for you, etc. It all brought me feelings and growth as well. I still look for that and I can’t seem to get it with short form content, so I can invest my time in that.
I will remain a UA-cam person who appreciate pictures and art on Instagram when she’s on the go, it’s the way it is.
May we all ramble together 😅💜🤷♀️
Thank you! It’s unfortunate that we feel like we have to choose b/c there’s a place for both, but every platform ramming short form down our throats is so homogenous. Leaves no room for detail or a moment to breathe and absorb the info we’ve just received
agreed! I would love for instagram, tiktok, and youtube to be their own entities again
@@samantharavndahl yes! Let each platform play to their strengths
My husband and I found out recently we are having a baby. We've been trying for a while but when we got our positive, I was happy conceptually... but I'm so miserable with morning sickness I wasn't "happy". I felt comforted remembering how some people just don't enjoy pregnancy. Watching the videos about Sam's pregnancy made me feel better. Because NOT everyone enjoys pregnancy, but that doesn't mean you aren't excited about your pregnancy.
The same for postpartum. You can eternally love your child, be grateful you have them, yet be fucking miserable and cry in the shower every day until you work through your shit, get help or work or whatever. It’s nice to know others are like you and motherhood isn’t perfect 24/7
I was miserable when pregnant constantly throwing up, with an abusive partner you just get threw it.
I’ve been watching you for around 10 years, and I’m so glad you’re still here ❤️ you make a difference to many of us that are lonely ourselves.
thank you for sticking around all this time
@@samantharavndahl I heard Jessica Simpsons book was amazing.
I agree! I have no concept of time but it’s been a loooong time (probably close to the ten year mark) and Sam is one of those UA-camrs where I’m always elated to see more content from. It’s so organic and real and I love it.
This. Is. So. Accurate. I was just talking about this earlier today. I love long form content as I am alone most of the day. People like you keep me company while I am doing my day to day life and I can't get that if I am scrolling all the short form stuff. I hope you and my other faves will keep posting long form content. We live to see (hear) it. Thank you!
THIS!! The more I work from home, the more I scour UA-cam for long-form content because I like the sound of someone, ANYONE talking. These days I don’t even care what they are talking about, I just want them to talk and talk for a long time.
I hate that creators aren’t creating on UA-cam as much as before. I miss getting excited to see a weekly video upload. As a mother of 3 being able to watch and connect to a video while doing the dishes or cooking is a little “me time” I look forward to your videos and maybe one day you and Alyssa can do a virtual podcast because I miss it so much 😭
Your channel specifically is a big part of realizing UA-cam gives me so much connection and it's really the only social media I truly get anything from.
I am so happy you value this longer form content still so much. I know it may be pathetic as fuck (like truly so pathetic) but in talking about parasocial relationships, my most valuable "friendships" in my life are parasocial. I don't have any friends in real life. I have my family and I have people I went to high school with that I'll dm on instagram every once in a while. But you need connection outside of those environments. You need to feel truly connected. I know parasocial relationships will never match up to the real deal but for now it's what I have. In saying this, Sam you're one of my best friends whether you know it or want it lol. I value this long form content so much because it really does keep me from allowing the all consuming loneliness to sink in and I truly can't express how thankful I am for that. Sorry, this was rambly and honestly, maybe creepy or overstepping - I don't know. I just wanted you to know I value your long form content so much and I wanted to say thank you for making it.
I can totally understand the benefit of parasocial relationships and personally - as someone that has been doing this job for about 10 years - I do feel as though I have a reverse-parasocial relationship with you guys lmao. I am glad you feel that you are able to take something from me posting here on UA-cam and am honoured to be one of your long-distance, parasocial friends. thanks for the comment and for watching
I relate to this so much
@@KaylasPlants I’m glad I’m not alone!
This is one of the huge benefits of aocial media, like she mentioned. Everybody can find their people! They can find someone to relate to, to make them feel valuable and understood. It is important.
This almost made me cry, I’m the same way and worry about the same things. I don’t have friends where I’ve been living for the last decade. I moved a lot throughout my life and tbh social media is probably the only reason I was able to keep the friendships I do have in real life. But also I connect the most and feel seen and heard the most by people I don’t actually know except through social media.
Hearing you talk about Alyssa really touched my heart. I completely understand what you mean. My sister in law was that for me. She didn't live with me but she was at my house daily. She was absolutely my soul mate. I lost her in 2020. I wish she were only 5 hours away and I could call her or visit her.
I agree with you that the more personal videos are necessary. We all deal with rough patches and sometimes we need to feel seen and heard.
I'm so sorry for your loss and can only imagine how hard that's been for you. sending hugs
I was browsing UA-cam trying to find a great, long form video for my self-care shower (was having many moments) and BOOM.. just like an angel, Sam notification popped up and saved me. 28 seconds after posted, clicked so damn fast. Halfway through, shower done.. so happy you posted. I completely agree with disliking the shortform content. I tried tiktok and it's not for me. I am still to this day an avid UA-cam viewer. Been a viewer of your videos since the getgo and also on my mom journey. I totally feel that parasocial relationship! You're rad as hell. Thank you so much for all your awesome content. ❤️
our brains connected from afar
i also showered to this video lmao
Putting my makeup on while listening to this at the moment 🙌🏼
Hey! I watched this in my shower today, too! Though like 3 hours after you haha
Should have showered in this moment:-( but no time dey shampoo kinda day
Listened to this entire vid during my workout this morning at 5am. Just know Sam, that there are those of us who will ALWAYS come watch your videos. We love the way your brain works and everything you said is spot on. I have never used tiktok and the only reason I downloaded it 5 months ago is to keep an eye on my 13 year old and his usage lol. This video reminded me I need to have a talk with him about being conscious about what he's consuming. The short form videos are only fueling poor social skills and lack of connection.
Thanks for this chat beauty! (I call it a chat cuz even tho you couldn't hear me I had commentary and replies running thru my mind the whole time lol. That's the connection I love 😏🤟)
You’re definitely one of the more cerebral UA-camrs I watch. I have to say, I love the juxtaposition of talking about the greater purpose of connection and contributing to humanity while doing the rather ubiquitous GRWM video style. Makes me want to write some kind of dissertation on how the shallowness of makeup is hiding this deeper, richer content for those brave enough to explore it. Or some shit like that.
I miss having photos on Instagram. That was always my go to when I wanted to mindlessly scroll or couldn’t use sound… and now that’s gone. Most content these days is sound-dependent which loses a lot of accessibility.
you talking about your friendship with alyssa is so sweet and lovely and inspiring. I dont make videos but I write out long instagram captions bc I also must release my thoughts into the world or I'll explode. some of the beauty youtubers I still consistently watch are you, jessica braun, kitsnitch, and lauren mae. lauren has actually gotten me into fragrance recently. a whole new world I never would have considered venturing and it was because I loved the verbose way she would describe scents. tiktoks can supplement long form videos but they will never replace them in my book.
This is why you need to bring the podcast back!! I would especially love it now to hear you talk about mom topics as a new mom myself!!
Yes to all of this. IG just has a community to it. Great friendships and relationships I’ve made. Also love your long form content. It’s where I found you, and continue to love watching it. 💕
I adore you Kelsey!!
I love Instagram still phots and stories. And I love UA-cam
I feel the EXACT SAME WAY about not saying something that’s on my mind. Literally it’s just sitting there waiting to come out. You’re a gem.
Short form content drains energy and I don’t remember learning anything from a tik tok or reel. It doesn’t add any real value to audience life or creator’s life. It only benefits platforms.
In the kindest way possible, you don’t have to like it, but I’ve learned a lot from tiktok. Its awful for creators though. No doubt
From the creator perspective I feel like making short term content is exhausting. Not only when it comes to looking at trends, new transitions, etc. but also because people and the platform expect short term content more frequently.
From the viewers perspective short term content makes me feel addicted to my phone and I don’t feel good after hours of consuming so much content. I feel like I can relax on UA-cam watching a 10+ minute video whereas I feel frustrated knowing I need to get off TikTok but can’t stop scrolling sometimes.
There’s definitely similarities between long and short term content but I think the ability to connect and enjoy a longer video on UA-cam than 20 short videos on TikTok just sits better with me. Nonetheless, I love watching you on all platforms, Sam! ❤️
I am so in for long form content! I still watch everyday. If you post it your community will watch! We dont care what you post and talk about. We are here for you. I actually pumped my fist when I saw the notification that you posted. We love your realness and your honesty. you let us in and help us at the same time.
This video is so important.
I think you would like the book Educated by Tara Westover. It's incredibly fascinating, with how she grew up in a religious cult and was never allowed to go to school. It's really well written, and very inspiring. Also - I completely agree, that humans need more connection. Real connection. Social media seem to be creating this lonely, depressing, dark place.
This seems so silly to say but this video had me on the brink of tears. I spend so much of my day aimlessly scrolling to find satisfaction but I don’t want to be. You put in to words so many things I didn’t know how to say and it makes me want to change how I’m doing things. I know this was about why you don’t like tiktok but the deeper part of what you are saying resonated with me so well. I need to change how I spend my valuable time and for some reason what you discussed made it click for me. Thank you Sam.
I completely resonated with everything you said and I am so excited to see more of your YT content. I love your chatty GRWMs and getting to hear about mental health and feeling like we’re all part of a little community- it’s very special
This was so perfect and exactly what I needed. I listened while my 2 month old napped on our stroller walk. I’m really excited for more from you Sam! When I’m cooking, cleaning, or driving to work once maternity leave ends😢
I have never heard someone say EXACTLY how I feel about this before. Thanks for putting all my thoughts into actual words.
I personally am what I term, a "cusp" neither millennial nor gen z, yet invalidated by both. I'm nearly 24, which means I grew up with UA-cam. I watched Candy Johnson, Michelle Phan, and o.g. Jaclyn Hill, and I have been watching your content since the Batalash days. I know a lot of folks even a few years younger than myself, who haven't had that experience -- even long form content in retrospect at times feels fleeting. The biggest blow for myself and I know many others, was the loss of Jenna Marbles at the beginning of the pandemic. It genuinely did feel like an end of an era, where long form content creators one watched solely because of that parasocial connection built, would not be a sustainable form of creation anymore. Now it feels as though you have to do something or be something to create content on this platform, and I can tell you that I am 1,000 elated to hear that you are going to be producing more UA-cam content because you are one of the only creators I feel like I can turn to anymore who will be raw, honest, and just chat (or ramble rather). So grateful for you Sam!
Thank you for being honest, I’ve always admired that about you. I love watching long form content still, way more than short form. I know there may not be a lot of us left but we’re still here 😊
honestly brought me to tears when you started talking about alyssa and loneliness. thank you for sharing sam
I relate so much to what you're saying! I created a TikTok account and lasted a day watching the platform. It felt like empty unremarkable content. You know how, there is fast food, full of sugar, fat and calories vs nutritious healthy food with proteins, vitamins, minerals, fiber? Well TikTok is fast content and I felt so dumb wasting my time watching it!
This video pleases me to no end. I’m 💯 ready for all the long rambling Sam content you put out. I’m a long form content person all the way for the same reasons you’ve described.
Thank you for being eloquent enough to talk about these things, these things need to be heard!! 😭👏
Thank you for putting into words so many thoughts and feelings I have had but didn’t articulate. I need long talking videos to watch while I get ready or decompress in the bath. Thank you for bringing it up!
This! Same here
I love your videos! I had no idea approachable was over I think I listened to nearly every episode. I haven’t used social media in 2 years and my life amazing, relationships are more meaningful and my mental health is better than ever. That said I agree the connection is so important. I’ve learned so much from you as someone a couple years behind in life and I would have never known in 2017 when I initially started following you how much your content has helped me grow and learn about myself. THANK YOU for still posting no matter how infrequently. If anything it’s more of a treat :) you might not have changed the world but you have changed my life.
Thank you so much for starting this conversation!! I love tiktok but I’m sad that not as many people post on UA-cam anymore. I love long form content and honestly I watch like 2-3 hour long podcasts the most. I love super long form content!
you’re always saying some real shyt sam. i appreciate it so much because it helps me identify my own feelings and thoughts too. unfortunately i got sick with covid and had a traumatic miscarriage toward the end of 2020. so i was just too depressed to keep up with content creation or even go on any social media. i basically only slept and played mario kart for months. i grew apart from my best friend who was a content creator , or she outgrew me and found other creators to fit in with. i feel alone and just upset/angry that this is how things unfolded but i’m trying to give it all another go. trying to feel less bad for myself and get more motivated. it’s so hard trying to come back to content creation when it seems like the whole social media world has changed and my tiktoks get 300 views while IG content that used to get tens of thousands of likes is lucky to hit 4-5k likes. it’s rough af out here and this video makes me feel less alone and i personally think your tiktoks have been great
I’ve managed to stay away from short form content so far… In my opinion, it (for the most part) feels mindless, addicting, and lacks any real value. I would love for you to come back to UA-cam more!! Let’s bring back Periscope!! 😉 That was the most meaningful connection I’ve ever experience in social media!!
I have literally watched you, Jamie and Allana since 2013, I swear! I love these rumbly videos and LOVED your podcast. Short format stuff is nice for funny cat videos every now and then buy it’s got nothing on YT
Totally agree with you! I enjoy UA-cam for playing in the background while I’m doing art, getting ready, cleaning. Short videos makes me feel like my brain cells are dying and I feel worse for it. I’ve been trying to get into TikTok recently and just got shadow banned because I said “packing Patreon orders” (I’m an artist). Now my videos are getting 0 views and it’s caused me to take a second look at it… is this really where I want to put my time? I’ve wanted to get back into UA-cam and this has helped me decide :)
You're the only one who I've stayed watching after all these years. All the way from batalash days. I could watch you talk about anything for a long time bc you're so cool, thoughtful, real.
This is so articulately put. I love this. Thank you for putting into words exactly how I felt.
I love the evolution your channel/you have shared with us. I’ve been watching since the Batalash days and no matter how much time passes between your uploads I always love watching your videos. It’s like we’ve grown up with you and you’ve helped us consider other important aspects of life.
One of my favourite videos of yours is when you were talking about your vacation to Poland with your brother. I don’t know why but it struck a chord with me.
Thanks for being here Sam ❤
Sam's UA-cam channel 4eva! I love these ramble videos. You're always spot on.
I am listening to you while doing some mindless work at the moment so I absolutely get what you are saying. It actually helps me focus on tasks when I have a youtube video in the background. In that vein if you want to have a podcast on Spotify I will definitely listen to it while I walk my dog or vacuum :D
I resonate with this a lot. Listening to you on UA-cam and your previous podcast truly helped me grow my mindset and become a better person.
I’m 30 now. I’m still in college and work as a teaching assistant in my degree program. There is… such a shift in the students I work with, who are typically around 18-20. And I think short form content is one of the myriad of reasons why there is such a large change. Students are having a much harder time with interacting with the real world. I could dive into that but it is kind of scary to see.
Anyway it is one of the many reasons why my daughters aren’t allowed social media yet. I want to understand how to help them navigate it, particularly short form content.
I love and will continue to watch your long form content because I enjoy your personality and sense of humour. Whatever you want to chat about while doing your makeup I'll have fun listening to
For years I've loved your rambling videos, please never stop xx
It takes courage to speak out as you do Samantha, so openly and unapologetic; I wish more people would be as willing! This serves to remove the terrible stigma that accompanies mental health but we are getting there and you are a big part of this. I couldn't agree more with you in that Tik Tok isn't for me, it's fast and impersonal and a fair bit of it is rubbish. Kudos to you Samantha!!
💯 agree!!
I totally agree with you. I found you on UA-cam on my maternity leave when my son was about 2 weeks old. When I was feeling so isolated up with a baby at all hours of the night, I would binge videos of yours and it really did help me pass the time in early breastfeeding misery and not totally lose my shit. So, thanks for not giving up on the YT community. I’m still here 15 months later and will continue to be here because I appreciate your honesty and connection!
i’m so tired of watching people smile and point at text boxes while they have a voiceover
going through a loss of a friend like that is hard but having that person be YOUR person is a whole different cadence of pain😭 thinking of you and sending you alyssa happy vibez.
Honestly, same!! It takes away from the creativity and work that goes into longer forms of content like on UA-cam. It lacks connection and originality at times. :)
I feel like you put into words everything I’ve been struggling with, with making short form content for IG and TikTok.
I love longer videos!! It feels like we are sitting down to chit chat! I can do other things while “hanging out” with you. Short form videos, like you said, don’t facilitate those relationships!
Short form is fun for dance, jokes and all zoning out but UA-cam, podcasts and books are were I feel community and less alone. I'm a long form speaker and have no one to talk to 95% of the time so I consume videos like this to feel less isolated and it's life changing to know that I'm not the only one that NEEDS to long process and discuss and I'm not weird or annoying I'm just different brained than others around me in my life. Including how this impacts your mental health is spot on how i feel. I also lost a friend to moving and while we talk it's been very depressing. I just related to everything you talked about very deeply. It's very relevant as we all struggle to find healthier balances in life, business, our 30s.. it's just... a lot. And I need less apps more connection not the other way around.
I love long form content! A couple months ago I deleted my Facebook and to be honest I’ve never felt better. Also, I can’t wait to read Jennette McCurdys book 🙌🏻📕
I’ve also deleted FB and IG, and was super excited to look up this book when she mentioned it! Not in the least because my mother is actually passed! Here’s hoping we both enjoy the book :)
I love this video so much. I relate to it so much. Maybe because I'm 28, but thank you for making it.
I totally agree with everything you said. Your content, here and the podcast with alyssa helped me through a very difficult time I had. Now i'm doing so much better in my life and i wanted to thank you. Also, today is my birthday 😉 so thank you for the 37 minutes video. Love it 😍
You described exactly how I've been feeling about UA-cam and Audio books. I love that I can listen to them and gain knowledge and feel connected while still getting things done. I listened to this video while driving home and loved it! Thank you for posting longer videos here on your channel.
Love it. Miss you. Love you. And honestly ironically surprised at myself for watching and entire ~40 minute video for the first time in years after feeling like TikTok has fried my brain. I’m here for Sam’s return ❤️
I have just had time to sit down and fully appreciate this video 😅
I must say I completely agree and am sad that there is less long form content being posted on UA-cam. It’s definitely somewhere I go to at the end of my day to decompress and check in with creators that I enjoy watching. Hoping to see more content from you very soon ❤
Hello Sam! My name is Keidy and I’ve been watching your videos for years. I don’t think I’ve ever left a comment before but I felt like it was time that I did. You once posted a video where you spoke to us and told us to start believing in ourselves. In the description box you linked the song “don’t stop believing” I have gone back and watched that video and it does make me cry every time I hear that song now. Your long form content does make a difference and I’m so happy your still posting for us! Continue the great work and talking about important topics! I’ll always be watching! 😘😘😘
Almost 40 minutes but you talked what was going on in my mind for awhile. I was finally finding my niche on instagram when it all started to change. This changing has happened before, years ago, with other platforms, and it never works... usually, but this time first world people are not "fighting" it. They are adopting this "distract me all the time please" mode of life.. I don't understand facebook anymore, they completely lost me.. but instagram was "my precious" and now its just so vain.. idk.. thank you for speaking!! love
Jeanette’s book was so good - I read “Know My Name” by Chanel Miller and it was equally powerful (but from my memory it is more somber). She came forward as the Jane Doe in the Brock Turner case and this book is her story.
Same! I love the connection on UA-cam, and I also love watching\listening to a long video on UA-cam while I'm doing house chores, etc.
I get that influencers can make the same money or even more money on Instagram or Tiktok with way less effort and time, but I will forever love longer content and the deeper conversations on UA-cam.
YES!!! I’m all about the connection, even to the point of parasocial relationships. 😀 I think there’s something to be said for short form content, but that not where I personally spend my free time. I watch shorts if someone I know sends me something specific, and I watch reels when they’re uploaded by an account I actually follow. I don’t scroll looking for random content…..except on UA-cam. I’m glad you said all this. I agree with so much. I really hope you can gain and sustain the career you want for yourself.
I'm just getting to the part talking about mental health and I totally feel this. I'm really struggling currently with self isolating and having a hard time doing basic survival and care tasks for myself. The pandemic really interrupted the progress I was making prior to 2020 and I'm still not able to get past my obstacles 2, almost 3, years later. I'm not 100% hopeless about it, but I do appreciate hearing others talk about their own issues and reminding me I'm not alone in the struggle. Being isolated is really bad about making me feel alone in my struggle 😅
Pardon me, but where is your description box?
I’ve always loved the connection you have with your followers. I remember when you used to periscope and talk politics, feelings, and relationships. They helped me through so much loneliness as a first time stay at home mom.
I find it so interesting that every content creator is being forced into this “ short form” content.
I didn’t even put TikTok on my phone until May this year. I actually resented having to follow someone on it.
I don’t feel it’s for me. I’m not interested in quick tiny snippets of anything.
During the Pandemic. I personally, along with sadly millions of others. Has lost a parent. I have severe health issues. Thus wasn’t even able to be with my father whilst he was dying in another country.
I have and will continue to look for longer content. I don’t subscribe to anyone’s channel willy nilly. Im very particular when it comes to whom I’m looking to inform me. Teach me. Educate me Etc.
I do not know why Instagram and now UA-cam are pandering to a content that already exists.
I find it so pathetically sad. There’s already a platform for that.
As for brands. I know it’s all about the money. Sadly we’re all feeling the pain of higher inflation. Crime increasing, a possible recession!
If I’m going to spend money. I’m not going to look to a short form content to help me make a decision. It’s going to be an honest review. From someone I trust on UA-cam.
I completely understand what your saying Sam. The amount of people whom have complained that they are wasting their lives to their detriment on TikTok is actually going to become a problem. I’m quite sure it already is. People not sleeping as there addicted to scrolling.
If it’s someone’s outlet. The. That’s fine.
I know there’s also so much of a generational change with TikTok.
It’s the brands pandering to the younger and younger generation’s.
It’s fine for a few minutes. But to be completely honest. If it’s not for you. I know this is part of your job. Your income. So I can only imagine the pressure.
At the same time I find it quite boring. Everyone doing the same thing.
It’s just not for everyone. I just hope that UA-cam and Instagram can actually stop with there sad FOMO and just go back to what they were. So the world can be easier for everyone.
You are so well spoken, thank you. Completely agree! The short form content is ok for a video of a cute pet or something but I do enjoy/prefer long videos with a conversation. Looking at too many short content videos also hurts my eyes, it's too visually busy.
I’m the older generation (51) and I really hope they are wrong that short form content is the future. I love TikTok, Instagram and UA-cam but I love them each for what they are. If they all turn to short videos I’ll stop watching them eventually. I don’t watch TikTok nearly as much as I used to but if I’m in the mood for mindless fun I will watch it. But I watch UA-cam way more. I’m thankful most of the people I follow here haven’t given up on it and thankful many do NOT do shorts! Yes I wrote a lot 🤣 loved this video ❤️
Amen! I miss Alyssa too-I loved your/her podcast and looked forward to it every week. I hope it comes back. So you’re so on point! I needed to hear this today.
Did you change your camera/lighting setup? It's... Different. Lol my audio visual knowledge isn't deep enough to describe it.
I'm in awe because you quite literally spoke the words that have been percolating in my brain for the last few months. As an illustrator who found so much joy in the small connections I was able to make through instagram, i'm left feeling the exact same way as you... disconnected and discouraged by short form content. It feels good to not be alone in those thoughts!
Also... can I just say, I HATE being served content at random? I feel like not a lot of people talk about it, but my god, short form content feels way less personal because of it, and it makes me feel out of control lol
^I think tik tok is going to create a whole generation that has super short attention spans. It must do something to brains that aren't fully developed yet. I don't know if it's a real thing, but it's just a theory. I just stick to Insta and put off Tik tok. I especially hate the vids where people put on a vid that goes super super fast so people need to re-watch it a few times to read it. Or those beauty IG's that show at warp speed them doing their makeup..... to me it's pointless as it's not needed.
I’ve followed you for a while, haven’t commented much, but you have no idea how much and often I relate with you. To say I understand, is a huge understatement!! I kept wondering if the short content thing was just bc I’m not in my 20’s anymore, but it’s not, it’s the connection. I think when we’re older, the things we take in, we want to really take in and think about. When I was younger nothing mattered as much. Maybe that’s part of it.
You’re beautiful, great content, and love your work!! Your old video on the subculture palette, I refer to often and there are many in lists for when I need inspo 🤍
You could post a 3 hour video and I would watch it. 😅
I've tried to get into tiktok (not posting but watching) and I just can't do it. Especially when people are doing the same things like the thing that makes me want to scream at the moment is the little nose crinkle smile headshake.... I HATE it.
This is embarrassing but I've accidentally said "my friend said/did" when I'm actually referring to youtuber because for a split second I'm like friend or UA-cam? hahaha that will never happen with a TikTok-er for me!
I am 26 years old & I have personally never downloaded Tiktok because I knew how terrible it would be for my mental health. I find myself watching reels/shorts but I remind myself that I'm just wasting my time. I strongly agree with the connection in a longer youtube video vs. that short form content. I know deep in my soul that youtube will always be my safe haven. Drinking tea with breakfast, folding clothes or doing the dishes... UA-cam always has my back! Wishing you well in wherever your future takes you, Sam!! :D :D
Honestly I cannot stand TikTok at all. Love that ur on UA-cam Sam!! ❤️😘💋
I absolutely love your videos and get so excited when you post. I love listening to you talk and your stories and perspective!
Thank you for continuing to be you and be transparent and truthful about your mental health, it resonates so much with me and helps me feel a little less alone in my own battles.
And yet again you are bang on the money. The part with making watching the main activity as opposed to just watching as I’m doing something else (in case of this vide I’ve been coloring) really hit home for me. Being passive leads me to crave that sweet dopamine even moor. So here’s to long format! And I’m excited to see your face on here more frequently!
I feel very seen! I “watched” this video while doing laundry and cooking, nodding along and remembering Sam’s videos about mental health and how much they resonated. I shared several of them with people as a “look, this is what I experience,” or even “you might find this helpful for yourself.” Tbh, I also enjoyed all of the menstrual product videos while I was pregnant (i.e. not menstruating). Bring back the rambles!!
I absolutely love your face.
I am a single woman with no children. I don't know if I ever will have children, but I was so engrossed with your videos on what birth was like and how it felt for you emotionally and physically after birth, and the fact that you spotlighted how Matt felt during the process.
I appreciated the content you put out about mental health. I appreciated the connection, and it was helpful for me too to hear how your therapist was guiding you to cope, and the different thought processes and strategies they recommend. I should probably get my own therapist, but they're expensive. Bless the hearts or the therapists that make youtube content.
I love the products I have bought from Auric. They're not my only products, but I use them frequently and if I were going to dial it back and behave like a normal beauty consumer that just buys what they use, Temper, Defiance and Selenite would definitely all be in my vanity. I reach for Defiance to use the powder shadow as a topper or to highlight my brow when I use other products so often. When I just want a quick easy look, or I'm traveling, I use these products.
I love how genuine you are. That is what keeps me coming back. I do love the connection that I feel to you because you are so genuine, especially about topics that are embarrassing and difficult to talk about.
I also really grew to love Alyssa through the podcast. I miss her posts on Approached. So many people focus on murder. It's interesting to hear instead about embezzlement, fraud, old bank / train robberies.
Also, this comment may be all over the place. I restarted the video to finish commenting, but I am so tempted to buy I'm Glad My Mom Died. Jenette was on The Financial Diet and listening to her story was fascinating and so sad. I didn't even watch iCarly.
I started out in the makeup world watching your tutorials and always loved the detail and what I can learn from them! I found the transition over to short content so hard, no one wanted to see tutorials over 1 minute long, or a look that could take 7 hours might be done in a 30 second tiktok. And now that I am creating work for brands I love, I’m finding I’m losing my excitement for makeup again because I have to stick to this new form of content. Anyway Sam, I always appreciate your content 🥰 thank you for giving me such a great insight into the makeup world and I learned so much from you which has really leaned into my career working on counter and also being a freelance artist now
You always seem so genuine, love when you share your stream of thoughts, you hit home with many points in this video! Appreciate you 🌻