I totally agree about developing yourself primarily, simply to boost your self worth. Its kind of a game changer to realise that all this time I've been good enough. And a relief. Thanks man for your solid words and work
I like how this also applies to women alike on rejection. A key takeaway being- Value should not be dependent on another but the work I've done on developing self.
I follow you bc I align with your perspective on what a value based male, sounds like, talks like, and acts like. I share your videos with my 17 year old and 20 year old sons to hear it from a male perspective. When they can authentically love themselves, they can love another person. Yes, gentlemen women will most likely think twice when they hear a man playfully say, “are you sure 😉 ? It shows you love yourself, do not need a women to make you whole, and are confident that what is right for you will happen organically. Confidence is also sexy and we all want to spent time with confident, sexy people. Thanks! ❤️🙏🏽✅😂👏🏽☮️✨🔥🤩
Thanks for the video. The only women worth a man's time are female MRAs. A woman can be scoped out on a coffee date, by asking her, "What do you think of the double standard under law, where woman can refuse parenthood, but men can't?". If you get rolled eyes or an exasperated sigh, don't walk away from her, run away from her. This way, the man can be in charge, and reject women that are potentially dangerous to him
Or that if we are both drunk im automatically a rappest. Or if we are married and you cheat on me and get pregnant im responsible for the kid even though every one knows im not the father calls the state feels it's ok to ruin a mans life as long as its good for a woman and child. Or better yet she cheats you devorce her and you loose the house the kids the dog the car and lot of the time you still have to pay your half of the bills dispite not being alowed thare. Plus alimony and child suport. She cheated but gets to keep the life she was acustome too menwile your living in a cockroach infested appartment working 2 jobs to suport her her new bf in the life you where kicked out off.
I think you tried to help here. But you can do all the building value and self improvement you can stand ( years of it). It comes down to are you good enough in her eyes. Can't negotiate attraction. I am over age 60 and it was tough back then and harder now. The dating apps proved that. 😊
There could be a ton of reasons why a woman rejects a guy. She could have found someone else, she's not into you, she has different preferences, she doesn't vision herself being with a guy like you.. not tall enough, wrong ethnicity.. there could a ton of reasons. The main reason is that she is not interested, and if you and her don't even know each other, then it's not personal.
I have built myself for the past 6 years as a carpenter, for the past 10 years as a body builder. But I still struggle with women. I literally came from nothing, my family didn’t have money, I was abandoned when I was 16. And I am a lot better off now then where I started. I guess what I’m looking for is true love, to have my own legacy, I deserve that. And I understand that as a man, having kids shouldn’t be your main goal, but I lit my fire, and burned as bright as I possibly could, still isn’t good enough for a woman to come up to me. These women talk to every guy in the gym but me, but yet will constantly stare or give me choosing signals. I’ve only done one cold approach at the gym and I failed miserably. I’ve decided it’s not in my nature to chase, that if she really wants me she will come up to me. Being handsome doesn’t help. And being jacked makes it doubly as hard, even with men in the work place. I’m intimidating, people are insecure. And I’m working on it, trying to be more friendly, open, charismatic. It’s still not enough. And I just wish I was born normal
Whenever I feel myself getting triggered someone, I step back and ask myself “Which one of my bills does this person’s opinion about me pay? If the answer is zero I come to the realization that their opinions about aren’t a factor in my life and ultimately are none my business. My 2 cents.
Let me know in the comments below what you thought. I'd love to hear your perspective.
Men growing up with you as a mentor rn is a blessing 🙌🏾.
Thank you Donald. I appreciate the kind words.
I totally agree about developing yourself primarily, simply to boost your self worth. Its kind of a game changer to realise that all this time I've been good enough. And a relief. Thanks man for your solid words and work
I like how this also applies to women alike on rejection. A key takeaway being- Value should not be dependent on another but the work I've done on developing self.
I follow you bc I align with your perspective on what a value based male, sounds like, talks like, and acts like. I share your videos with my 17 year old and 20 year old sons to hear it from a male perspective. When they can authentically love themselves, they can love another person. Yes, gentlemen women will most likely think twice when they hear a man playfully say, “are you sure 😉 ? It shows you love yourself, do not need a women to make you whole, and are confident that what is right for you will happen organically. Confidence is also sexy and we all want to spent time with confident, sexy people. Thanks! ❤️🙏🏽✅😂👏🏽☮️✨🔥🤩
Thanks for the video. The only women worth a man's time are female MRAs. A woman can be scoped out on a coffee date, by asking her, "What do you think of the double standard under law, where woman can refuse parenthood, but men can't?". If you get rolled eyes or an exasperated sigh, don't walk away from her, run away from her. This way, the man can be in charge, and reject women that are potentially dangerous to him
Or that if we are both drunk im automatically a rappest. Or if we are married and you cheat on me and get pregnant im responsible for the kid even though every one knows im not the father calls the state feels it's ok to ruin a mans life as long as its good for a woman and child. Or better yet she cheats you devorce her and you loose the house the kids the dog the car and lot of the time you still have to pay your half of the bills dispite not being alowed thare. Plus alimony and child suport. She cheated but gets to keep the life she was acustome too menwile your living in a cockroach infested appartment working 2 jobs to suport her her new bf in the life you where kicked out off.
Love these talks...felt like a big brother addressing me from his experiences❤️🫂
Another solid one my guy!
Anytime, appreciate you digging in
I think you tried to help here. But you can do all the building value and self improvement you can stand ( years of it). It comes down to are you good enough in her eyes. Can't negotiate attraction.
I am over age 60 and it was tough back then and harder now. The dating apps proved that.
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Just discovered this channel and am loving it men
There could be a ton of reasons why a woman rejects a guy. She could have found someone else, she's not into you, she has different preferences, she doesn't vision herself being with a guy like you.. not tall enough, wrong ethnicity.. there could a ton of reasons. The main reason is that she is not interested, and if you and her don't even know each other, then it's not personal.
I have built myself for the past 6 years as a carpenter, for the past 10 years as a body builder. But I still struggle with women. I literally came from nothing, my family didn’t have money, I was abandoned when I was 16. And I am a lot better off now then where I started. I guess what I’m looking for is true love, to have my own legacy, I deserve that. And I understand that as a man, having kids shouldn’t be your main goal, but I lit my fire, and burned as bright as I possibly could, still isn’t good enough for a woman to come up to me. These women talk to every guy in the gym but me, but yet will constantly stare or give me choosing signals. I’ve only done one cold approach at the gym and I failed miserably. I’ve decided it’s not in my nature to chase, that if she really wants me she will come up to me. Being handsome doesn’t help. And being jacked makes it doubly as hard, even with men in the work place. I’m intimidating, people are insecure. And I’m working on it, trying to be more friendly, open, charismatic. It’s still not enough. And I just wish I was born normal
Nobody is normal
Whenever I feel myself getting triggered someone, I step back and ask myself “Which one of my bills does this person’s opinion about me pay? If the answer is zero I come to the realization that their opinions about aren’t a factor in my life and ultimately are none my business. My 2 cents.
When she rejected you act as if nothing happened
Or just celebrate get in your head you are born healthy and you do not have celebral paulsy
Thank you.
No wonder my girlfriend broke up with me. Ive been negelecting myself for so long.
Its all about looks
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