@@mahaswetadas9634 I would say it may be the producer of the show who suggests the Indian mother to cook her version of baby food in order for the Korean viewer to understand the Indian culture side to make the show more interesting. There are no wrong or right in this context and she is not representing India PERIOD but her own childhood experience through her own family.
@@lifenature4413 Yes. I'm sure she is a great woman. Unfortunately on video flying chappal is not allowed and deemed too violent for the audience. You, sir on the other hand deserve one from your mother.
@@TheAcizgirl we dont even speak same language here i live in north india i cant live and eat in east west or south india there culthure is too different. india is not like korea we comes in different culthures
@@TheAcizgirl well not all states in India follow this !!!! U may perhaps be a flight attendant ... but just to educate u we have many states in India .. n each state is diversified..
That's the best. Sugar is really not good. Giving fruits is much healthier, in my country we promote breastfeeding. Cows milk from a year, but also later.
I'm Punjabi and most men in my family are pretty much like this. It's slowly changing through. The men are given too much power, even a son over his mother. And she does everything for him out of 'love'. But actually she fears him and wants to keep him happy.
Very true. I'm Punjabi myself and totally agree with you. My wife is Gujarati though, so I now do a lot of things around the home, but yeah my Punjabi friend don't do as much. Infact they make fun of me whenever they call me and I'm doing some house chores. They are always like, "Teri voti ki kardi?"
thank you for saying this. Unfortunately my dad is just like this and my mom does everything for him. He even prefers his mother. It hurts my heart even though I love him very much. But unfortunately my mother too does this to my dad by siding with her mother. The entire system is messed up. I love our culture but i hate our culture sometimes.
Im married to an Indian man and he is nothing like this! He helps out in everything, he is respectful, very hands-on, appreciative, and genuinely cares about his family and I. We make such a good team together. What I love about my husband is he helps to facilitate conversations between me and my in-laws since we are of different culture. Also, my in-laws are the best parents i can ever ask for. I hope this family can sort out their differences. All the best.
Hindustani man don't cook and most Indian women don't work. So man does the earning and women only cook. It has been like that in Hindustan for 5000 yrs.
I see both the women trying really hard to mash together with each other, despite having strong personalities they're working with each other. The man- he's a real piece of work...
Exactly..when her mom made food for daughter in law she should be respectful and when daughter inlaw made food that time mom shouldn't be interfere there..actually korean baby food is quite good for health because we shouldn't gave them which are sweet sometime indigestion occur too..everyone should try but the son is so chilled ugh
He's an idiot. I'm sure he already cheats on her with an online woman. I've also think that his mum didn't discipline well to know his limits and responsibilities. Maybe that why he could not find a wife in India
I hate to say this but I see a divorce coming. My dad is Indian and he isn't like that. In fact none of my Indian relatives are like that. They literally cook and make the best food ever whenever they come and stay over with us. They're so helpful too.
@@raniafathallah5205 yeah but the way he said Indian Husband don't do chores it's absolutely wrong may be his mother taught him tht guys don't do this stuff but in real they are many Indian Gentlemen who do everything in their houses they help their mums and wives
I've never seen any mom in my family put that much sugar and custard powder in baby food. We usually feed them the rice broth that the daughter-in-law made. That mother-son duo seem to live in their own universe.
I feel deeply disguted! The way mother-in -law intervene in every aspects of their private life makes me sick! I wonder what caused her to marry to this useless guy who apparently failed to manage the relationship between wife and mother!
I bet the baby didn't look like that 3 months ago. So much milk and sugar is unnecessary...and she ate what her Korean mother made her just fine. The baby is beautiful, the weight on her is a consequence of sugar and milk overload though
He is such a useless guy. While his mother and wife struggle, he just roams around without a care in the world. Asking his mum to get him water while he lay down lazily 🙄
@@Mira-gu6we Not sure how accurate it is to generalize entire Indian men. I am sure there are many great husband and father out there in India. But definitely not this guy
@@nb6292 a simple check of the survey done on average time men in different countries spend on house chores should dispel your doubts. There are SOME men who do their 50 50 share in India, the vast majority of Indian men profit of free domestic labor from female family.
Hahaha I guess this guy is kind slow learner and a mama's boy..He is immature.What a bad impression to present himself as he is a totally opposite of most India man.
An old housemate of mine was Indian, she worked very hard in University and moved to the UK to work in the blood labs in a hospital. Her mother, father and younger brother still lived in India and in her own words she became very ‘western’ living in the UK and started to dislike the way her parents treated her compared to her brother. Like seen in this video she said boys could ‘do no wrong’ in India and her little brother was treated like a prince by their parents. He was so spoiled he didn’t even know how to make a cup of tea for himself and still lazed about at home despite finishing school. He technically didn’t need to get a job because their father was a retired pilot and had a very large pension so they lived very comfortably yet despite this my housemate was fully expected to send them a portion of her salary every single month. When she got a work promotion her father’s first words were, “Now you can send us more money.” When she would go home for a visit she would be sent a very long demand list of ‘gifts’ to bring with her for the family, like perfumes, jewellery, clothes, shoes, sunglasses and make up all designer or a certain brand. Her brother had a tantrum when she refused to buy him a PS4 (the latest one at the time) and a Switch and she had to put up with her parents scolding her about it the whole time she was home. We’ve mostly lost touch now but before we did she had a huge fight with her family for refusing to meet a man they were eager for her to marry. From what I see on social media she’s still happily lives in the UK, is dating an English man and rarely goes home at all now.
@@lexusnexus6858 There is nothing like Hindu family in here, Muslims woman's are way too much opressed and Catholic Christians Don't even let their daughters out of house
@@sociallyinept33 you are talking about hindu girls who marry at 20s. Stupid check the reality now a days HINDU people follows christian lifestyle. All the development and liberalization is from west. So btch when get time from prn search some fact.
I am an indian mom of 2 boys i and husband shares equal responsibility raising them, we also teach our boys to become independent fill their own water bottle, keep back their stuff in place this are basic life skills
Filling water in bottle is not basic skill dear... The boys look big enough.. Give them household chores too... Atleast our generation mom's should break the cycle....
He doesn’t help around the house, he’s patriarchal and thinks women should clean after him, he doesn’t even work hard enough and does everything late, what does he do? I don’t know what she saw in him but bless her she must be having a hard time with him and his mother in law...
Her eyes were opened kinda of late.probably under strong delusion poor thing😓,my sympathies.to be expected two diverse cultures,how not to be shocked and in conflict all the time!?
He's just a giant man child. His mom doted on him and never taught him to do anything. The wife deserves better. If you're gonna get a younger man don't get a lazy, immature, P.O.S like this one.
I'm with Jeongmi here. Even when babies are on formula, they can't drink cow's milk yet. It's also not healthy to add sugar to their food. It's hard to change the ways of the older generation so we must carefully educate them, have a conversation with them. They can be very stubborn but they mean well. ❤
The traditional Indians have very unhealthy diets and habits. Loads of sugary sweets are indulged in from a young age and they all end up with diabetes and rotten teeth. It's the uneducated class who continue with this style of cooking, old fashioned values towards men and women etc
@@peaceangel-rl2hf this is extremely rude. Every place has different culture and this video is awfully stereotyped in a way that makes the culture in India seem unhealthy. just look at the comments and see how wrong you are. It's just wrong to have the mindset that you have.
I'm 19 so I think that my parents are the older generation. But my mom breastfeeded me and so did my grandma and great Grandma to their kids . I think it's really peculiar to feed such a small baby anything other than breast milk.
The Korean daughter in law is correct about feeding milk after 15 months in Korea. The reason is that Indian cows produce A2 milk which is easily digestible. Hence, if you don't have A2 its better not to feed milk it becomes difficult to digest.
I love it when information like this is provided. It clears up so much on both sides and I feel like if everyone listened to the facts, then personal feelings and drama would at least be reduced! The number of times I've had fights with my foreign husband, or him with me, and it turns out that we genuinely didn't know what the thing was and understood it was something else......
The main problem here is the guy’s mother. She raised him that way. Until she decides to give him that reality check we all got as children, he will remain a man child for the rest of his life. Eventually, his wife will lose her patience and file for divorce. He is well aware of his habits. And sadly, boys who have not matured yet (like him) move on to the next woman without hesitation. If he decides to turn into an adult, his entire life will be a joke filled with divorces and child support.
No, It's not like that I am an Indian and My father always helps my mother in washing clothes and my brother he does all the cleaning. Not all Indians are like that. You can't blame all of us because of only one man. And The way they showed that Indian women do the house chores all the time. It's definitely not like that My mother is a beautician as well as homemaker. Hope you will understand 🌼
@@dollytan1729 no, I’m not shocked. For this is the way of the world due to patriarchy and matriarchy practices for thousands of years. Enlightenment has begun in the last 20 years, though it will easily take another 150 years for it to permeate generational changes.
As an Indian I need to say this, If I ever asked my mom to do my chores she'll kick me out of the house that very second; and in my family ( including my extended family ) the chores are equally divided between a married couple.
As a mom, i would've been pissed if someone disregarded the way I needed to feed my child. And it's wrong to give processed sugar or cow milk to babies. It's not digestible
@@Marriiaa___ Tbh I'm not expert so I dont know what issues it can cause so I cant comment but if you turned out fine that's great but I would opt to go with doctor recommendations on these things.
“I don’t know how it’s in Korea but in India when our children asks us to bring them water or food we bring it to them” Apparently I’ve not been raised in the Desi Culture all this time 😂 I swear I would have gotten a good slap on my face if I ever asked my parents to bring me food and water while I slacked off on the couch
@@divyanisarathey1242 where do you see the daughter i law being rude ? The old woman was trying to feed sugar to the baby as "baby food", which is extremely unhealthy for a baby. And the guy she married to was a worthless man because of whom the mess was created
@@moonandstardust1855 agreed, the man was not good, but come on, the old lady has prepared entire food for the daughter In law, least she could say is a thank you. Acting like everything she prepares is "not good" is very rude. I know the sugar is not good fir the baby, that can be told nicely, grandma only wants good fir the kid. She should be happy her mother in law is so sweet, doesn't even once try to bond with her
@@divyanisarathey1242 A child is the mother's and father's responsibility,never the grandmother. I don't understand why in indian culture mothers in law want to dictate their daughters in law lifes.Even to the point of breaking the marriage.
Sorry to say that but this indian family doesn't show the modern portrayal of Indian families now a days... Women and men both work for their family and do the household chores as well..and handles their baby as well. I feel so soorry that Koreans will think negative after seeing these kind of Indian men and family.
True especially nowadays we also don't give cow milk until babies turn atleast a year old and ofcourse no sugar. Things have changed a lot they are just showing the traditional ways which our grandma follows 😂
Most indian family is still a patriarchy. Women are still made to do house chores. Only in a very few modern educated Indian family can we see equality among the genders
@@petronash22 exactly, why they sugarsocating? 😂😂 It’s sad reality for majority Indian families. Not all have western mindset and aren’t modern, especially older people.
We Indian dont giv our children this much sugar.This is so wrong and we dnt giv other milk for a six month old baby.And mother is right milk only after 15months..
Not only east Asian but 70% of worlds population is lactose intolerant And here in India we cannot live without Milk and Milk products Atleast everyday 2 big glasses of Milk and 1 glass lassi are required 😂😂with curd
omg..this guy is just disgracing all indian men..not every indian husband is like this..some people who are pampered by their mothers to this extent end up acting this way..what a disgrace
@@beany1944 yes I agree with you but not all mothers of India My mother is 7th pass but she knows value of education she always encouraging me Always support me
Indian Punjabi mother -in-law to be precise & looks like she belongs to a rural region basically....India is so diverse & all cultures are completely different from each other. India & Indian is such a broad term to explain the entire nation tbh🤞🏻
That's bullshit when this man said Indian men doesn't do house hold chores. I am Indian & I have watched both my father & father-in-law help my both mothers with the household work. My husband helps me too. Even my 4 & a half yr old son follows his father and tries to help me. It's all his mother's fault for raising him like that. Mostly North Indian & West Indian families bring up their male kids like this. Luckily the North-Eastern parts of India are different. Here girl child r valued more and boys r trained to help in household chores just like the girls. Proud to be a North-Eastern Indian. And also giving fruit custard to a 6 month old... I don't know where in India people do that. I have raised 2 kids on home made food, but never used so much sugar & milk for baby food. 🙄🤦♀️
If a kid sees his dad helping his mom at home, when he grows up he will help his wife. But sadly there are families where the dads don't help because they were pampered by their moms, and who later on make sure the sons don't help their wives and let the daughter in law do the whole work. These kind of men feel that it's only wives duty to look after the house, take care of kids, duty shopping chores and all.
@@sunshinegold2262 😂..maybe in it area.....but as far as I have known ...south INDIAN men are like this guy too....they also make women do all the house chores while they enjoy watching sports
My husband and I are from the same country only different regions and we face some difficulties. I can only imagine how much harder it is for couples from completely different countries to try to adapt to each others cultures.
As someone married to an Indian man- my husband is nothing like that. We share the chores.. and now that I’m pregnant he does most of the chores. My mother in law is also lovely. I don’t have the food issue as I love my MILs food and Indian food in general but I wouldn’t serve the baby food that she made for the baby. I don’t think my MIL would either!
This man and his mother are very very narrow minded . They are destroying the reputation of India. He needs to respect his wife . He is using her to bring his family.
It is a difference in culture. Both cultures are highly misogynistic, so please instead of bashing the man and his mother understand they are an international couple. And if he or rather if they wanted to they would and they are trying.
The point is this man is not flexibly coming to same ground with his wife . All he does is goffing around. Why does his mother only supporting him ? For instance-Why does not his mother ever gives a glass of water to her bahu? Why she insists her bahu drinking only one beer can whereas her son is partying on every weekend? Instead of treating her bahu as same level as her son , she is competiting with her. The next point is why is he not taking responsibility of a parent ? Just because he is younger than her. He should have known marrying someone comes with a commitment. The only conclusion that that comes he is not respecting his wife enough to even get bothered by his duties towards his family and showing that he needs her for bringing his whole family to korea.
@@marlyndacosta1044 l am indian women and l know how most men here are u may be from some big city. anyway what he said is true most indian men don't do housold chored
@@sameerakannamkotte69 I feel either you are talking about the previous generation or "less educated" ones Not just my husband but most of my friends and colleagues also do house chores
@Yukti Chakraborty A lot of Indians are actually like that, you can put on your rosy colored glasses and think that India isn't like that but the truth won't change.
I'm Punjabi myself and can totally relate to this. Punjabi mom's feel that kitchen is their responsibility. They don't let son's help out around the kitchen. That glass of water part is so so true. I'm myself opposite though so I get mad at my mom so many times whenever I visit her because she wants to do everything for me. I'm like, "I'm not a kid anymore, I can take the food myself. I can do my laundry myself. No wonder I see so many other men who don't know how to do basic stuff around the home. If you don't do it, they will eventually start doing themselves. Please stop mom". Then she gets sad that I don't let her do things for me. I'm like, "you're getting old, I don't need you do all these things for me. Please rest"
@@dreadfulbodyguard7288 Because the division of labour is unfair. You get free in 6-8 hours. They never get free. Never have an off. Not a single holiday. Ever.
That husband sucks, his mom is at fault for doing everything for him, and they don’t even take into consideration the korean moms opinion, but also korean mom is disrespectful when she isn’t grateful for the food the Indian mother in law makes.... this whole family is just 🤦♀️ I hope they work it out.
So wrong she eat the food and said thank you. The grandmother also talk to the mother about the baby food. What are you seeing. Yes the husband is lazy
I completely agree with this opinion! And at the same time, with the wife if she showed some appreciation for the mum's cooking for her, that would peace her, and she'd more like be able to come into agreement how to look after her own daughter. Sugar is very bad, not only for babies, but to anyone.
Not all Indians make baby food like that... India is a multi cultural country with diverse difference in language and lifestyle. And not all Indians make their wife do all the household chores .So now you see how vast the country is right!
Exactly, some of us Indians from different regions are seeing the food and baby food for the first time along with the Koreans lol. Can't generalize India.
True but there still a lot still do. The old ways of doing things. Considering its a very populated country it still hasn’t change much on gender equality.
It doesn't feels like real love it seems that he married her just to get something She seems to be very kind and lovely one but he didn't ( it's my opinion)
There are also Indian guys who help around the house, don't have the stereotype that Indian guys don't do house chores and there might be non Indian guys who doesn't do household chores
Perhaps that guy is making decent money. South koreans are generally racist towards Indians and most probably woman married the guy for financial stability. Most Indian make decent money in host country (by that country's standard).
I hate this Man 😠, in what era he think he is .He should help his wife and stop ordering her . This episode made it more clear that he used her only for citizenship , Poor Lady I really feel bad for her 😔.
I got the same hunch. Marriage is a form of partnership. Both should help each other not only economically, but also domestically. I hope she wakes up soon!
Accurate But it doesn't mean that he is not going to do the same if he married an Indian.Indian son are raised this way.My hubby is yet to come home,i stay with his parents rn.I shall know it soon how he is going to be when he'll be home but sure he is not lazy like this man.Thank God i believe in my hubby 😂😂 Not all Indian men are like this.My hubby didn't even wash his clothes when he was home(his dad/mom washed it for him) but he isn't lazy like this man 😑 Am soooo lucky to have him. Conclusion not all Indian men are the same e.g. my hubby 😂😂😂😂
It's still current era in india ...all the people who are bragging that they do all work .... Only 1 to 2 % of total population does... Taking out trash ,buying vegetables,cooking on weekends is not how domestic chores equally divided...... Domestic chores equally division means : cooking one time ( either lunch or dinner ), equally taking care of baby when it's born... Like feeding it with bottle ,making baby food.. letting wife also rest .... Equally spending time to raise baby ..... mostly indian houses have maids for floor and utensils cleaning ....clothes are washed in washing machine .....
Omg,I am a South Indian shocked seeing that custard milk Baby food!!the Korean baby food is what we feed for a South Indian baby!!How come baby digest such a hard food?!mom in laws are worst nightmares for sure🤪
@@Sonukumawat23 sorry, only talking about all people I know, every single one of then the same, teaching no manner to their sons. You and others not like this are not included, so please don't worry about this comment. Keep up your good work and be happy.
That is also not the mothers falut .. the men don't pay much attention to their wives during early married life and when she becomes a mother she 200% attached herself to the child and her life starts revolving around the child till adult and when the child find his/her love they feel like they are loosing them ... The mental preparedness is lacking here to give the child his own space when he is adult .. this spoon feeding will do nothing but spoil the child personal relationships only .. we all need to learn give each other that space and still love each other ❤️
"The baby food " this is making me go crazy! the mom is totally right ! no sugar , , no salt , no cow milk or any processed milk before 15 months.. this is what doctor tells us here in Nepal. Even my parents tried to feed baby formula with sugar but I made them gain "right"knowledge . they did put sugar because back then they didnot had that knowledge.
I mean I was supporting the Indian mother until she putted sugar in there this is a baby what the hell but since the father is giving consent the Korean grandmother can’t do much
As an Indian it broke my heart too , as we don,t feed sugar to babies and even too infants , to babies after 6 months we give them rice broth , mashed fruits , boiled lentil broth and that drink which the mother in law was preparing is given to the mother of the baby ,and not to the baby , that too without sugar , and also almonds are added in it for great strength for mother
This is the second time he was being condescending to his wife. In the first part he shut her down after she suggested getting a round basket instead of rectangular. And in this part he replied rudely again when she simply asked if Indians always eat dinner late. I felt sorry for her as she came home around 7pm and had to wait so long for dinner. Appreciate the mother in law still for cooking but slight consideration in terms of timing could have been improved. Yet the Korean woman didn't get rude or demand her own culture's food to be made. All this time the guy didn't even once offer to hold the baby. Again in first part she was holding the baby for so long in the market even though he as a man is stronger. I have a feeling apart from the obvious citizenship aspect, he also thought an older lady to be ideal so that she would mother him like his own mother still clearly does. He also tends to use her age and physique against her to put her down as his attitude shows towards her whenever she's expressed she is getting hungry. When the mother in law said the man works and provides, I'm sure the Korean lady is actually the main breadwinner and works harder and longer. So why is she not included in being seen as deserving of servitude. On top of that she's doing all motherly duties as soon as she's home as well as house chores. The Korean woman is so respectful and adjusting well to this madness that doesn't make sense to me despite being from that part of the world. If only the mother in law would let her son grow up would he realise and learn to respect women equally. I don't know but the guy seems suspiciously abusive, selfish and immature as well as egoistic and easily offended. Respect goes both ways if he thinks his wife should be respectful towards him same goes to him, treat her kindly too.
@Annita Ekverg I am a woman, I am sorry to hear about your experience. I just assumed about this situation because I can tell he thinks he is a hero and just wanted to keep someone who can be kept easy under his control if they have something that goes against them and use it to their advantage by reminding them they did a favour. Of course not all men are like that, some respect a woman older than them and prefer them as they maybe emotionally mature and more understanding.
@Annita Ekverg but generally the Netherlands is a nice place to live in so he might just liked older woman and wasn’t looking for a visa but that doesn’t excuse how he treated you
@Annita Ekverg i understand your situation, it's really painful when people use "love" as weapon to exploit others. I hope that you are doing good now. I hope you can slowly move on from all those past wounds.
I am an Indian. He is truly depicting Indian men's in a complete wrong way. Even my dad helps my mom more than I do as a daughter .He washes dishes,does laundry, helps my mom in every possible way ,since they both are working parents they try to divide as much chores as possible even with us . I'm super proud of my dad after watching this. He is much older than this guy up there still he is much responsible, faster, hardworking and most important he loves us. I feel sad for her she deserves much better .
it's embarrassing to watch them as an indian . and while K-DOC you are at deleting comments why don't you go back and fix the English subtitles for previous indian restaurant episode where they talk about the pay ? misinterpretation much ?
its so annoying how they keep saying this is how we do it in India this and that .. like hello yall are not in India nomore stop saying that and try to respect the mom -_-
@@rojamillerover no . But if you're gonna use that logic. Then should the Korean mom forget her culture and just accept the ways of the mother in law ? No . But at the end of the day the mom works and provides for her home so the mother in law should be respectful and try to compromise and not try to force the mama to do things her way. Wife is boss and should be boss. Not the mother
@@anithraelango4040 coming back after an year to say that no they don't. Doctor say complete no no for babies below age 1. So i don't know where they give sugar!
I don't agree with this. The conflict between the mother in law and daughter in law is due to that worthless man in between . And a lot of Indian husbands, sons or other men in the family helps the women in the house to do chores and all. It was before ages that women was entrusted with the house chores now it's different. Both men and women helps each other in taking care of their family.
My first bf/love is Indian, he's 20 and I was 18. We were in the same international university here in Thailand. He's 100x more responsible than that guy! He cooks, cleans, does laundry, iron, intelligent, and most of the time productive. We live in the same out dorm building, and even other Indian guys from the campus were so impressed by him. I've met other Indian guys too who aren't lazy like that! Well India is a huge country, it probably depends where they are from too.
It is just plain rude and controlling when someone cooks something for their child for someone else to come at the same moment and make something different not to mention how unhealthy it is.
It’s a combination of a man taught that he never has to work and a mother that never made him work a day in his life. How embarrassing, I’m glad at least in this day and age people are raising their sons and daughters the same
Don't think this has anything to do with him being Indian. You can tell this guy's mom was a helicopter parent that heavily restricted his freedom as a kid and didn't give him the opportunity to do things for himself. I've come across people like this guy from several other cultures as well(including relatives in my own family), unfortunately crappy parenting habits are pretty universal.
@@november132 I've seen this in families where both parents work as well or families that have a stay at home dad. It's something deeply engrained in these cultures. I'm not sure if it's a control thing or parents subconsciously being afraid their kid will become 'too' independent and not need them, which is basically the same theory behind most helicopter parents.
@@nikicarrie4071 Pretty sure the whole preferring sons to daughters thing applies to most countries in Asia, not just India. Not because they like sons 'better', but because they expect to use them for financial support when they get older. In other words, most of them treat their kids as a financial investment, hence the mental torture during their school years to get good grades. This is changing now as more women become career focused and people these days mooch off their daughters too, lol.
I read somewhere that fresh cow/goat milk has a lot of proteins that the baby body can’t handle which is why mothers should only feed their babies breast milk or baby’s powdered milk, and in each baby’s powder milk it written it’s suitable for which age.
Mothers doing chores for their grown up children & wives doing chores for their husband is not applicable in every house in India. Nowadays women work too & times have changed.
You're right but not completely. Even though a lot of women work, they are still expected to do the chores , often without any contribution from their husbands. If you have a progressive family then its very good but you should know that this isn't very common
@@SM-xd2xv "If you have a progressive family" -- you mean "western" family. Ironically, the "men and women should do the exact same things" ideology is probably why people in the west aren't getting married anymore. How's that for "progress"?
When Indian couples have a child, who's doing the housework and who's providing the income? And what exactly is wrong with couples where there's a division of labor?
I'm an Indian and I DO NOT APPROVE a child of such age to be given refined sugar at all. We don't feed such things to our children in India. I don't know about this woman What the Hell!!
I'm from Indonesia when I saw this I was a little surprised. why does he feel that all the work should be done by his wife. I am also married to a citizen of another country. my husband is an Egyptian citizen and he always helps with my work... cultural differences are really difficult to adapt. and not all of them adapt quickly.
@@bear2008 mana ada. Di indo jelas2 bagi tugas rumah tangga antara istri dan suami. Tuh yg soal buang sampah itu di indo jelas bagian suami. Dan byk juga suami2 indo yg ikut masak. Dan di indo gak ada yg kurang ajar nyuruh ibunya ngambilin air minum buat dia
He is from poor narrow-minded Indian family. Now a days men at home share household works. My dad, father in law, my husband, my uncle, brothers all do all household works.
Never have I ever encountered a man like this. My dad is never like this. He’s even the one who cooks for us and do the house chores with us sometimes. Why did the mother-in-law let his son become like this? 😩
her baby, her rules. As long as baby is happy and healthy, mother in law should not interfere. Dad needs to grow a pair, step in and say, thank you but no , to his mom. He needs to back up his wife. He also needs to pick up after himself. He shouldn't need his mommy at his age.
My husband is also indian when we first stay together he wants me to take all he wants but i tell to him u "u have legs and hands right?" When he sais YES I HAVE i said "then used it"
this is indeed Punjabi culture, not Indian I've to say. usually in the North, men attitude is like this. let the women do all the work and a man's pride should never go down. but i think this behaviour should chamge now that she's not a housewife, but a working independent women. take care!
Yeah what you mean by that ..even i am punjabi and I don't see this kind of attitude at my home ..not every person are same ..like this I had even seen many hindu family where they asking women to do all the work ..stop talking about punjabi culture without knowing anything seriously...
I feel sad for her... His mom is babying that grown ass man !!! And feeding the poor baby unhealthy food 🥺 I'm indian and I do not agree with his mom or him for that matter.
Well don't you dare blame our culture,.cause that's not even the point here. You are acting like they don't have spoilt brats in your country! I bet you are one of them too. It's the husbands and his mother's fault. Not of the whole Indian nation or any community kay? Educate yourself and please think before you speak
@@peachgroove well you should watch your tone as well, everyone has the right to put forward their opinion. I'm Indian too and it's definitely a cultural problem to some extent, in many families this kind of behavior is supported
@@skinguru241 if you are indian then I don't need to tell you what is happening here right. I am a true hindu and I won't stand here and listen to my culture getting blamed for some mother who didn't know that babies grow and still babies her (idk how old her son is ) son.he was surely treated like a king when he wasn't and am pretty sure not everyone does that. I have a twin brother and things are pretty fair in my household. so I was not trying to be rude and telling them to not have an opinion.i was simply defending my culture against these uneducated fools who think India is uncultured just because we eat with hands.
@@peachgroove remember that Indians too think that westerners are uncultured because they wear revealing clothes or kiss in public, it's cultural difference. I don't think the original Commentator defamed anyone, the second Commentator said that it would be better for foreigners to not marry indians, she's afraid of the cultural conflict, I don't see anyone defaming India
It's common my ex bf was also very disrespectful towards women and he used to think very lowly of women . And when I used to ask him about why he doesn't believe in helping women then he used to say his mom taught him that if he ever tried helping women then he would end up becoming their slave or something.😶 Some indian families really sucks because they actually install lowly behavior towards women in their son's brain
@@yenchu1237 but she did get into a relationship with him. And there's a good chance she will find another guy just like her ex. It's just how it works.
Mother-in-law: "We believe mother's should take care of our children who work hard to provide for the family". Lady... your son is neither working hard nor is he providing for his family. I feel the Korean mother provides more financial support.
The frustration this women has is what every other wife in India shares. Majority of Indian husbands are like him. Not respecting the household chores wife does. Not helping out. And then lashing out their wives.
my cousin is a indian man living in korea and his wife is korean. We made her feel very comfortable when meeting the family likewise so did she. Both families do have certain things that are different however we have managed to adapt to them. However my cousin was born and brought up in hong kong so he has a lot of east asian traits within him in terms of taste buds, and some general formalities so it works out really well for them
I agree but since his wife loves him I don't think it will happen If I would have been in her place I would have divorced that man right away I mean who will love to live with the man who is very narrow minded
Definitely he is not representing Indian men at all he is lazy person in general and no decipline either.the timing are odd.and we don't feed kids with too much sugar like that infact chocolates with introduce in very late age and limit them also .
One of the laziest husband i have seen in UA-cam. Well I'm Indian too but i do lots and lots of chores and help my mom and sister and even i never let my mom and sister wash my clothes.
Wow, as an Indian mom, I'd stand with the Korean mom here. Every mom has the right to feed her child healthy. Gosh, admire her smile
You are so right!We new age Moms are probably all like Jeongmi.And its true..cow milk is a complete no no for kids below 15 months.
@@mahaswetadas9634 I would say it may be the producer of the show who suggests the Indian mother to cook her version of baby food in order for the Korean viewer to understand the Indian culture side to make the show more interesting. There are no wrong or right in this context and she is not representing India PERIOD but her own childhood experience through her own family.
@@kklum6998 thats possible.we really cannot sit here and be judgemental about any one side.
As an Indian I should say this Indian Mother is spoiling the name of India.shame
@@lifenature4413 Yes. I'm sure she is a great woman. Unfortunately on video flying chappal is not allowed and deemed too violent for the audience. You, sir on the other hand deserve one from your mother.
Even as an Indian we don’t give sugar to children..... only natural forms from fruits. Maybe it depends on the state culture.
Not true. I work as a service crew. There were instances where the mother requested for sugar. She then mixes the milk with sugar and feed her infant.
@@TheAcizgirl we dont even speak same language here i live in north india i cant live and eat in east west or south india there culthure is too different. india is not like korea we comes in different culthures
@@TheAcizgirl well not all states in India follow this !!!! U may perhaps be a flight attendant ... but just to educate u we have many states in India .. n each state is diversified..
Ya.. we don't feed so much sugar.. it's unhealthy.. for sweet we add jaggery..
That's the best. Sugar is really not good. Giving fruits is much healthier, in my country we promote breastfeeding. Cows milk from a year, but also later.
All conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law happen because of the worthlessness of the man between them
It's because of the mother in law's insecurities, trying to prove her worth in front of dil.....
Well said!
Idr
*Rightly said* .
Though sometimes it's the Female ego that damages things between two women.
Not really. Women have insecurities - whether mother or wife or even sister.
I'm Punjabi and most men in my family are pretty much like this. It's slowly changing through. The men are given too much power, even a son over his mother. And she does everything for him out of 'love'. But actually she fears him and wants to keep him happy.
Very true. I'm Punjabi myself and totally agree with you. My wife is Gujarati though, so I now do a lot of things around the home, but yeah my Punjabi friend don't do as much. Infact they make fun of me whenever they call me and I'm doing some house chores. They are always like, "Teri voti ki kardi?"
thats cap. south asian men have zero power
thank you for saying this. Unfortunately my dad is just like this and my mom does everything for him. He even prefers his mother. It hurts my heart even though I love him very much. But unfortunately my mother too does this to my dad by siding with her mother. The entire system is messed up. I love our culture but i hate our culture sometimes.
That's how you raise a true narcissist sadly..
@@jessicathomas4541 ㆍ
Im married to an Indian man and he is nothing like this! He helps out in everything, he is respectful, very hands-on, appreciative, and genuinely cares about his family and I. We make such a good team together. What I love about my husband is he helps to facilitate conversations between me and my in-laws since we are of different culture. Also, my in-laws are the best parents i can ever ask for. I hope this family can sort out their differences. All the best.
U korean ?
Shut up.
just make sure he doesnt have any acid on hand when hes mad. lol
Hindustani man don't cook and most Indian women don't work. So man does the earning and women only cook. It has been like that in Hindustan for 5000 yrs.
Indians are a combination of Asian/Dravidian/Caucasian/African tribal race.
Culture & peoples always differ.
I see both the women trying really hard to mash together with each other, despite having strong personalities they're working with each other.
The man- he's a real piece of work...
The man is straight up trash
Exactly..when her mom made food for daughter in law she should be respectful and when daughter inlaw made food that time mom shouldn't be interfere there..actually korean baby food is quite good for health because we shouldn't gave them which are sweet sometime indigestion occur too..everyone should try but the son is so chilled ugh
He's an idiot. I'm sure he already cheats on her with an online woman. I've also think that his mum didn't discipline well to know his limits and responsibilities. Maybe that why he could not find a wife in India
80% Indian men are like this.
I hate to say this but I see a divorce coming. My dad is Indian and he isn't like that. In fact none of my Indian relatives are like that. They literally cook and make the best food ever whenever they come and stay over with us. They're so helpful too.
Tbh I feel like we can't jusge their relationship from a video on a show and an edited video at that.
@@raniafathallah5205 yeah but the way he said Indian Husband don't do chores it's absolutely wrong may be his mother taught him tht guys don't do this stuff but in real they are many Indian Gentlemen who do everything in their houses they help their mums and wives
u r lucky u hv good parents and relatives
I also live in India and here 99% men are like him. I am an indian woman I have seen men around me like this only. Indian men needs to be taught
Ikr! My dad loves cooking so whenever he is free from work he cooks amazing dishes(better than mummy 😁)
I've never seen any mom in my family put that much sugar and custard powder in baby food. We usually feed them the rice broth that the daughter-in-law made. That mother-son duo seem to live in their own universe.
Ya exactly when I was a baby my mom used to feed me chicken broth with rice
exactly 😂😂😂
Too much sugar is not good for babies
I feel deeply disguted! The way mother-in -law intervene in every aspects of their private life makes me sick! I wonder what caused her to marry to this useless guy who apparently failed to manage the relationship between wife and mother!
The banana already has enough sugar, theres no way!
Not going to lie, the amount of sugar the mother in law added in to her "baby food" was frightening 😳😳
yup i wouldn't want my child to be eating it as well
Welcome to India and indian sweets. 😂
@@danecca6635 🤣🤣
@@danecca6635 bina chini Or doodh k bache bade hi ni hote yha🤣🤣
I bet the baby didn't look like that 3 months ago. So much milk and sugar is unnecessary...and she ate what her Korean mother made her just fine. The baby is beautiful, the weight on her is a consequence of sugar and milk overload though
He is such a useless guy. While his mother and wife struggle, he just roams around without a care in the world. Asking his mum to get him water while he lay down lazily 🙄
So true
Typical indian guy.
@@Mira-gu6we Not sure how accurate it is to generalize entire Indian men.
I am sure there are many great husband and father out there in India.
But definitely not this guy
He's useful somehow I guess _bistar mein_
@@nb6292 a simple check of the survey done on average time men in different countries spend on house chores should dispel your doubts. There are SOME men who do their 50 50 share in India, the vast majority of Indian men profit of free domestic labor from female family.
Dude, Indians aren't slow.. U r an exception..
EDIT: mommy i'm famous..! 😂😂 thanks for 1.1k likes.. Zindagi me paheli baar Itne likes mile h..
Everyone knows he’s lazy
Dat man is lazy n d daughter in law rude
Exactly..
Hahaha I guess this guy is kind slow learner and a mama's boy..He is immature.What a bad impression to present himself as he is a totally opposite of most India man.
Yeah... juz look at indians wen dey dance. They're nvr slow 😄
An old housemate of mine was Indian, she worked very hard in University and moved to the UK to work in the blood labs in a hospital. Her mother, father and younger brother still lived in India and in her own words she became very ‘western’ living in the UK and started to dislike the way her parents treated her compared to her brother.
Like seen in this video she said boys could ‘do no wrong’ in India and her little brother was treated like a prince by their parents. He was so spoiled he didn’t even know how to make a cup of tea for himself and still lazed about at home despite finishing school. He technically didn’t need to get a job because their father was a retired pilot and had a very large pension so they lived very comfortably yet despite this my housemate was fully expected to send them a portion of her salary every single month.
When she got a work promotion her father’s first words were, “Now you can send us more money.” When she would go home for a visit she would be sent a very long demand list of ‘gifts’ to bring with her for the family, like perfumes, jewellery, clothes, shoes, sunglasses and make up all designer or a certain brand. Her brother had a tantrum when she refused to buy him a PS4 (the latest one at the time) and a Switch and she had to put up with her parents scolding her about it the whole time she was home.
We’ve mostly lost touch now but before we did she had a huge fight with her family for refusing to meet a man they were eager for her to marry. From what I see on social media she’s still happily lives in the UK, is dating an English man and rarely goes home at all now.
Its mostly by hindu family.
good for her -- she's too good for that exploitative sexist family of origin
@@lexusnexus6858 There is nothing like Hindu family in here, Muslims woman's are way too much opressed and Catholic Christians Don't even let their daughters out of house
@@sociallyinept33 you are talking about hindu girls who marry at 20s. Stupid check the reality now a days HINDU people follows christian lifestyle. All the development and liberalization is from west. So btch when get time from prn search some fact.
@@lexusnexus6858 must be abrahmic religion, they have special HATE for anything non abrahmic.
I am an indian mom of 2 boys i and husband shares equal responsibility raising them, we also teach our boys to become independent fill their own water bottle, keep back their stuff in place this are basic life skills
Good on you! 👍
Too many stereotypes being perpetuated here and wrongly so
@@k-doc467 0ННЙЙЙНЙЙЙЖЦЫЖУУ3
Filling water in bottle is not basic skill dear... The boys look big enough.. Give them household chores too... Atleast our generation mom's should break the cycle....
@@trufan100 0l
He doesn’t help around the house, he’s patriarchal and thinks women should clean after him, he doesn’t even work hard enough and does everything late, what does he do? I don’t know what she saw in him but bless her she must be having a hard time with him and his mother in law...
Her eyes were opened kinda of late.probably under strong delusion poor thing😓,my sympathies.to be expected two diverse cultures,how not to be shocked and in conflict all the time!?
Must be because before they become a family the woman is desperate to find a husband 'handsome' like that😄 without knowing there are ulterior motives
He's just a giant man child. His mom doted on him and never taught him to do anything. The wife deserves better. If you're gonna get a younger man don't get a lazy, immature, P.O.S like this one.
@@dollytan1729 yup
The mother and father trained him to be this way.
I'm with Jeongmi here. Even when babies are on formula, they can't drink cow's milk yet. It's also not healthy to add sugar to their food. It's hard to change the ways of the older generation so we must carefully educate them, have a conversation with them. They can be very stubborn but they mean well. ❤
Agree. And also the baby looks healthy and chubby, she doesn't need all the extra sugars
The traditional Indians have very unhealthy diets and habits. Loads of sugary sweets are indulged in from a young age and they all end up with diabetes and rotten teeth. It's the uneducated class who continue with this style of cooking, old fashioned values towards men and women etc
@@peaceangel-rl2hf this is extremely rude. Every place has different culture and this video is awfully stereotyped in a way that makes the culture in India seem unhealthy. just look at the comments and see how wrong you are. It's just wrong to have the mindset that you have.
@@peaceangel-rl2hf you are entitled to your own opinion but surely you did not have to state it in such a disrespectful and uneducated fashion...
I'm 19 so I think that my parents are the older generation. But my mom breastfeeded me and so did my grandma and great Grandma to their kids . I think it's really peculiar to feed such a small baby anything other than breast milk.
I can see that his mother has probably spoiled him most of his life seeing how he expects the chores to just do themselves
The Korean daughter in law is correct about feeding milk after 15 months in Korea. The reason is that Indian cows produce A2 milk which is easily digestible. Hence, if you don't have A2 its better not to feed milk it becomes difficult to digest.
Thanks for explaining. :)
True. My mom also does not feed sugar until they are one year.
^^ thank youuu!!
I love it when information like this is provided. It clears up so much on both sides and I feel like if everyone listened to the facts, then personal feelings and drama would at least be reduced! The number of times I've had fights with my foreign husband, or him with me, and it turns out that we genuinely didn't know what the thing was and understood it was something else......
The main problem here is the guy’s mother. She raised him that way. Until she decides to give him that reality check we all got as children, he will remain a man child for the rest of his life. Eventually, his wife will lose her patience and file for divorce. He is well aware of his habits. And sadly, boys who have not matured yet (like him) move on to the next woman without hesitation. If he decides to turn into an adult, his entire life will be a joke filled with divorces and child support.
But that IS their culture. Almost every Indian man I have met is like him. (The industry I work in has many)
No, It's not like that I am an Indian and My father always helps my mother in washing clothes and my brother he does all the cleaning. Not all Indians are like that. You can't blame all of us because of only one man. And The way they showed that Indian women do the house chores all the time. It's definitely not like that My mother is a beautician as well as homemaker. Hope you will understand 🌼
@@adazzlingworld3374 Welcome to reality!a dazzling world😂😂😂 😜are u culture shocked yet?
@@dollytan1729 no, I’m not shocked. For this is the way of the world due to patriarchy and matriarchy practices for thousands of years. Enlightenment has begun in the last 20 years, though it will easily take another 150 years for it to permeate generational changes.
@@adazzlingworld3374 I think yes but only some people like mostly from rural parts
As an Indian I need to say this, If I ever asked my mom to do my chores she'll kick me out of the house that very second; and in my family ( including my extended family ) the chores are equally divided between a married couple.
Thank god!! She makes him into a horrible son!
Moms of India treat their sons like kings... if it was the daughter instead it would have been another story . Of course there are exceptions.
What part of India are you from?
@@marieindia8116 I'm from Himachal Pradesh, It's up north
True!!!! Brown parents would happily kick their children out. We are not spoilt at all.
This is why you should think twice or more before you marry someone from different culture and ethnicity
I can't imagine to ask my mom a glass of water. A flying chapal will come if I ever ask and I personally never asked because it's just disrespectful.
Me too
What is a chapal?
That’s hilarious
same😂
@@sophiahaxton8369 it’s a sandal so like shoes
As a mom, i would've been pissed if someone disregarded the way I needed to feed my child. And it's wrong to give processed sugar or cow milk to babies. It's not digestible
It also causes cancer where the sugars cant be broken down properly
@@DarkAngel2512 just saying I was fed cow’s milk when I was a baby and ngl I was a healthy baby
@@Marriiaa___ Tbh I'm not expert so I dont know what issues it can cause so I cant comment but if you turned out fine that's great but I would opt to go with doctor recommendations on these things.
@@DarkAngel2512 I agree with that. A doctor’s opinion should be prioritised when it comes to feeding babies.
@@shivadizayin milk secreted from the mother’s mammary gland to be specific? I’m no doctor lmao just a bio student 💀
“I don’t know how it’s in Korea but in India when our children asks us to bring them water or food we bring it to them”
Apparently I’ve not been raised in the Desi Culture all this time 😂
I swear I would have gotten a good slap on my face if I ever asked my parents to bring me food and water while I slacked off on the couch
There come a flying chappal or rolling pin 😅
Ikr
Exactly he is acting like an idiot creating false perspective of Indians.
I am an India and i should do my part and work trust me its not like this.
My parents are from turkey and ı am from sydney but defınıtely ın turkey you would get a smack for talkıng lıke thıs and ı am süre ın ındıa
I got anxiety when she fed the baby food with so much of sugar
I feel very sad for the woman for marrying such a toxic, conceited man.
that's the best she could do, it seems.
I feel very sad for the poor grandmother. Tge daughter in law is very rude
@@divyanisarathey1242 where do you see the daughter i law being rude ? The old woman was trying to feed sugar to the baby as "baby food", which is extremely unhealthy for a baby. And the guy she married to was a worthless man because of whom the mess was created
@@moonandstardust1855 agreed, the man was not good, but come on, the old lady has prepared entire food for the daughter In law, least she could say is a thank you. Acting like everything she prepares is "not good" is very rude. I know the sugar is not good fir the baby, that can be told nicely, grandma only wants good fir the kid. She should be happy her mother in law is so sweet, doesn't even once try to bond with her
@@divyanisarathey1242 A child is the mother's and father's responsibility,never the grandmother.
I don't understand why in indian culture mothers in law want to dictate their daughters in law lifes.Even to the point of breaking the marriage.
Sorry to say that but this indian family doesn't show the modern portrayal of Indian families now a days... Women and men both work for their family and do the household chores as well..and handles their baby as well. I feel so soorry that Koreans will think negative after seeing these kind of Indian men and family.
True especially nowadays we also don't give cow milk until babies turn atleast a year old and ofcourse no sugar. Things have changed a lot they are just showing the traditional ways which our grandma follows 😂
Most indian family is still a patriarchy. Women are still made to do house chores.
Only in a very few modern educated Indian family can we see equality among the genders
@@petronash22 exactly, why they sugarsocating? 😂😂 It’s sad reality for majority Indian families. Not all have western mindset and aren’t modern, especially older people.
True
Stop lying
We Indian dont giv our children this much sugar.This is so wrong and we dnt giv other milk for a six month old baby.And mother is right milk only after 15months..
Here in Haryana we starts giving Milk to 6 Months old children
First 6 months only mother Milk , then after 6 Months Milk of cows and buffalo
That depends on state to state, from which state you are bro
Yes but not that much sugar that she added
East Asian kids are bit intolerant to lactose, that's why they start milk a little later
Not only east Asian but 70% of worlds population is lactose intolerant
And here in India we cannot live without Milk and Milk products
Atleast everyday 2 big glasses of Milk and 1 glass lassi are required 😂😂with curd
At first I thought those were two mother in laws and was wondering where this guy's wife was.......
omg..this guy is just disgracing all indian men..not every indian husband is like this..some people who are pampered by their mothers to this extent end up acting this way..what a disgrace
Most r like this. I have seen plenty. Its too bad they make us all look bad. India already doesn't have good image among other asian countries.
Believe me it's all over the world. Mother's spoiling the sons, they became lazy bums.
@@beany1944 thats so true.
Most of them are like this only including my father and my brother.
@@beany1944 yes I agree with you but not all mothers of India
My mother is 7th pass but she knows value of education she always encouraging me
Always support me
Indian Punjabi mother -in-law to be precise & looks like she belongs to a rural region basically....India is so diverse & all cultures are completely different from each other. India & Indian is such a broad term to explain the entire nation tbh🤞🏻
Underrated comment
@@eocm3659 ok
Punjabi girls are so beautiful why go out for korean girls.
@@funnyclouds17 haha yeah I agree but everyone has different preferences
@@eocm3659 hmm seriously than you dont know aanything about India and Indians .😏
That's bullshit when this man said Indian men doesn't do house hold chores. I am Indian & I have watched both my father & father-in-law help my both mothers with the household work. My husband helps me too. Even my 4 & a half yr old son follows his father and tries to help me.
It's all his mother's fault for raising him like that.
Mostly North Indian & West Indian families bring up their male kids like this. Luckily the North-Eastern parts of India are different. Here girl child r valued more and boys r trained to help in household chores just like the girls. Proud to be a North-Eastern Indian.
And also giving fruit custard to a 6 month old... I don't know where in India people do that. I have raised 2 kids on home made food, but never used so much sugar & milk for baby food. 🙄🤦♀️
Lazy fellow he is
We punjabi guys have that problem we never do work in home 🏠
The birth of female child is celebrated in South india too. And here too men help women with household chores.
If a kid sees his dad helping his mom at home, when he grows up he will help his wife. But sadly there are families where the dads don't help because they were pampered by their moms, and who later on make sure the sons don't help their wives and let the daughter in law do the whole work. These kind of men feel that it's only wives duty to look after the house, take care of kids, duty shopping chores and all.
@@sunshinegold2262 😂..maybe in it area.....but as far as I have known ...south INDIAN men are like this guy too....they also make women do all the house chores while they enjoy watching sports
My husband and I are from the same country only different regions and we face some difficulties. I can only imagine how much harder it is for couples from completely different countries to try to adapt to each others cultures.
As someone married to an Indian man- my husband is nothing like that. We share the chores.. and now that I’m pregnant he does most of the chores. My mother in law is also lovely. I don’t have the food issue as I love my MILs food and Indian food in general but I wouldn’t serve the baby food that she made for the baby. I don’t think my MIL would either!
That is what you called a real man and not mamas boy.
Well said. Lots of love to your family, may God bless your hearts for ever with happiness.
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You should of been in this show
True...Iam an Indian and have never seen someone serving custard to a 6 months old in India..this is just insane /maybe staged!
This man and his mother are very very narrow minded . They are destroying the reputation of India. He needs to respect his wife . He is using her to bring his family.
Oh you really think so🙄
It is a difference in culture. Both cultures are highly misogynistic, so please instead of bashing the man and his mother understand they are an international couple. And if he or rather if they wanted to they would and they are trying.
The point is this man is not flexibly coming to same ground with his wife . All he does is goffing around. Why does his mother only supporting him ? For instance-Why does not his mother ever gives a glass of water to her bahu? Why she insists her bahu drinking only one beer can whereas her son is partying on every weekend? Instead of treating her bahu as same level as her son , she is competiting with her.
The next point is why is he not taking responsibility of a parent ? Just because he is younger than her. He should have known marrying someone comes with a commitment.
The only conclusion that that comes he is not respecting his wife enough to even get bothered by his duties towards his family and showing that he needs her for bringing his whole family to korea.
@Mercy this has nothing to do with culture.
@@thebucketlist4261 All of them are being narrowminded... And mind you they are trying and mind you the mother is at fault for how he is.
If the Husband wasn’t such a creep this situation would be almost hilarious. Forgot to add that the baby is just adorable.
There are conflicts between culture because they do things different. But I love the level of respect they have for each other.
Him: Indian men don't do house chores
Me: *shows it to my boyfriend who's cooking for both of us*
Him: 🤣😡🤣😡🤣😡🤣😡
Most indian men don't do
@@sameerakannamkotte69 bold of you to assume that in 500million+ males most are like this joker
@@sameerakannamkotte69 have u been with most of them? You seem experienced woman !!
@@marlyndacosta1044 l am indian women and l know how most men here are u may be from some big city. anyway what he said is true most indian men don't do housold chored
@@sameerakannamkotte69 I feel either you are talking about the previous generation or "less educated" ones
Not just my husband but most of my friends and colleagues also do house chores
He isn’t mature enough to be in a marriage or a relationship or being a father ...his mom is to be blamed for his bad behaviour.
Wife and mother seem happy.
The fact that hurts me is many Koreans are watching this and thinking that's how people in India are NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO we are very different
True
💔
Right
Yep..
First of all this lazy ass man is ruing Indians reputation and saying shit about our culture... I'm hurted man this guy ugh
@@Pjthekiddddd The fact is that this is how our country is overall. So people won’t look at exceptions but rather the general rule.
@Yukti Chakraborty A lot of Indians are actually like that, you can put on your rosy colored glasses and think that India isn't like that but the truth won't change.
I'm Punjabi myself and can totally relate to this. Punjabi mom's feel that kitchen is their responsibility. They don't let son's help out around the kitchen. That glass of water part is so so true. I'm myself opposite though so I get mad at my mom so many times whenever I visit her because she wants to do everything for me. I'm like, "I'm not a kid anymore, I can take the food myself. I can do my laundry myself. No wonder I see so many other men who don't know how to do basic stuff around the home. If you don't do it, they will eventually start doing themselves. Please stop mom". Then she gets sad that I don't let her do things for me. I'm like, "you're getting old, I don't need you do all these things for me. Please rest"
@@Dawning390 Why is it not healthy? It's simple division of labor.
@@dreadfulbodyguard7288 Because the division of labour is unfair.
You get free in 6-8 hours.
They never get free. Never have an off.
Not a single holiday. Ever.
@@dOVERanalyst You have such delusions. I wish I could be as blind as you are, simpleton.
Sorry but not all Punjabi families are like yours.
@@RPKD88lol this is the situation of whole north India tf you talking
That husband sucks, his mom is at fault for doing everything for him, and they don’t even take into consideration the korean moms opinion, but also korean mom is disrespectful when she isn’t grateful for the food the Indian mother in law makes.... this whole family is just 🤦♀️ I hope they work it out.
Would you add so much sugar into a food which you want to feed your baby to? I'd be like her too!
So wrong she eat the food and said thank you. The grandmother also talk to the mother about the baby food. What are you seeing. Yes the husband is lazy
I completely agree with this opinion! And at the same time, with the wife if she showed some appreciation for the mum's cooking for her, that would peace her, and she'd more like be able to come into agreement how to look after her own daughter. Sugar is very bad, not only for babies, but to anyone.
Yeah cow milk after their born? 😕
We are not compatible with cow milk! That spell hazard
Not all Indians make baby food like that... India is a multi cultural country with diverse difference in language and lifestyle. And not all Indians make their wife do all the household chores .So now you see how vast the country is right!
Exactly, some of us Indians from different regions are seeing the food and baby food for the first time along with the Koreans lol. Can't generalize India.
100% agree.
No salt and sugar till 1 year old
True but there still a lot still do. The old ways of doing things. Considering its a very populated country it still hasn’t change much on gender equality.
Is it custard there for baby😨
Saying “not all” is just downplaying the fact that overall, India hasn’t changed much in gender equality. It really doesn’t mean anything.
It doesn't feels like real love it seems that he married her just to get something
She seems to be very kind and lovely one but he didn't ( it's my opinion)
Looks like he got with her because she reminds him of a motherly figure basically make life easier for himself. Can the mother in law leave lol
@@lyndalinda23 no for citizenship 😂😂😂😂
@@nehasht2 and relocation !!!!!
@@gathsfamily2866 true
So true
There are also Indian guys who help around the house, don't have the stereotype that Indian guys don't do house chores and there might be non Indian guys who doesn't do household chores
Such a nice woman. That guy doesn’t deserve a woman like her.
Perhaps that guy is making decent money. South koreans are generally racist towards Indians and most probably woman married the guy for financial stability. Most Indian make decent money in host country (by that country's standard).
I hate this Man 😠, in what era he think he is .He should help his wife and stop ordering her . This episode made it more clear that he used her only for citizenship , Poor Lady I really feel bad for her 😔.
I got the same hunch. Marriage is a form of partnership. Both should help each other not only economically, but also domestically. I hope she wakes up soon!
Accurate
But it doesn't mean that he is not going to do the same if he married an Indian.Indian son are raised this way.My hubby is yet to come home,i stay with his parents rn.I shall know it soon how he is going to be when he'll be home but sure he is not lazy like this man.Thank God i believe in my hubby 😂😂
Not all Indian men are like this.My hubby didn't even wash his clothes when he was home(his dad/mom washed it for him) but he isn't lazy like this man 😑
Am soooo lucky to have him. Conclusion not all Indian men are the same e.g. my hubby 😂😂😂😂
It's still current era in india ...all the people who are bragging that they do all work .... Only 1 to 2 % of total population does... Taking out trash ,buying vegetables,cooking on weekends is not how domestic chores equally divided...... Domestic chores equally division means : cooking one time ( either lunch or dinner ), equally taking care of baby when it's born... Like feeding it with bottle ,making baby food.. letting wife also rest .... Equally spending time to raise baby ..... mostly indian houses have maids for floor and utensils cleaning ....clothes are washed in washing machine .....
That's what I felt too. My hunch was telling me that this guy got married to this Korean lady for citizenship.
I wouldn't marry her, even if I get 🇩🇪 citizenship.....
Omg,I am a South Indian shocked seeing that custard milk Baby food!!the Korean baby food is what we feed for a South Indian baby!!How come baby digest such a hard food?!mom in laws are worst nightmares for sure🤪
Only Mani's family does that in India🤣
It’s not a daily thing.
It’s a treat
Noooo....she's right...from six months of age baby needs all extranutrition....along with mother's milk... I'm a doctor from south india
@@vasavijagarapu so adding this much of sugar is the extra nutrition for the baby !!!!!!
@@vasavijagarapu sugar and salt are harmful to the body and she added like 4 spoons of sugar plus the sugar in the fruits 👁️👄👁️
He married her clearly for the passport
💯
We Indians don't give sugar to children. She may exception.
Some yes, I even once met a woman who use to give glucose to her baby 🤨 and she was educated for sure 🤷🏻♀️
agreed, im Indian and serving custard to an 18-months-old baby is giving me a cultural shock
Purely mother's fault. She has made him like this, it's because the mums from India can not detach themselves from their sons.
Bro you can't generalize 1.3 billion people because of this man. I am a boy and literally I do clean home on daily basis and help my mother.
@@Sonukumawat23 sorry, only talking about all people I know, every single one of then the same, teaching no manner to their sons. You and others not like this are not included, so please don't worry about this comment. Keep up your good work and be happy.
@@974pk 👍👍
That is also not the mothers falut .. the men don't pay much attention to their wives during early married life and when she becomes a mother she 200% attached herself to the child and her life starts revolving around the child till adult and when the child find his/her love they feel like they are loosing them ... The mental preparedness is lacking here to give the child his own space when he is adult .. this spoon feeding will do nothing but spoil the child personal relationships only .. we all need to learn give each other that space and still love each other ❤️
Thattt is sooo true I have brothers who are so spoilt that they can’t even cook that much food or clean after themselves 🙄🙄🙄🙄
"The baby food " this is making me go crazy! the mom is totally right ! no sugar , , no salt , no cow milk or any processed milk before 15 months.. this is what doctor tells us here in Nepal. Even my parents tried to feed baby formula with sugar but I made them gain "right"knowledge . they did put sugar because back then they didnot had that knowledge.
I mean I was supporting the Indian mother until she putted sugar in there this is a baby what the hell but since the father is giving consent the Korean grandmother can’t do much
@@luciliacatumbela9014 😂😂😂that is not Korean grandmother that's the baby's mother not grandma
@@rachanarai7452 are you serious?💀
@@luciliacatumbela9014 yes
@@luciliacatumbela9014 read the video title
As a German mother that Indian baby food almost made my heart stop 😅
As an Indian it broke my heart too , as we don,t feed sugar to babies and even too infants , to babies after 6 months we give them rice broth , mashed fruits , boiled lentil broth and that drink which the mother in law was preparing is given to the mother of the baby ,and not to the baby , that too without sugar , and also almonds are added in it for great strength for mother
This is the second time he was being condescending to his wife. In the first part he shut her down after she suggested getting a round basket instead of rectangular. And in this part he replied rudely again when she simply asked if Indians always eat dinner late. I felt sorry for her as she came home around 7pm and had to wait so long for dinner. Appreciate the mother in law still for cooking but slight consideration in terms of timing could have been improved. Yet the Korean woman didn't get rude or demand her own culture's food to be made. All this time the guy didn't even once offer to hold the baby. Again in first part she was holding the baby for so long in the market even though he as a man is stronger.
I have a feeling apart from the obvious citizenship aspect, he also thought an older lady to be ideal so that she would mother him like his own mother still clearly does. He also tends to use her age and physique against her to put her down as his attitude shows towards her whenever she's expressed she is getting hungry. When the mother in law said the man works and provides, I'm sure the Korean lady is actually the main breadwinner and works harder and longer. So why is she not included in being seen as deserving of servitude. On top of that she's doing all motherly duties as soon as she's home as well as house chores. The Korean woman is so respectful and adjusting well to this madness that doesn't make sense to me despite being from that part of the world. If only the mother in law would let her son grow up would he realise and learn to respect women equally. I don't know but the guy seems suspiciously abusive, selfish and immature as well as egoistic and easily offended. Respect goes both ways if he thinks his wife should be respectful towards him same goes to him, treat her kindly too.
Exactly!!!
@Annita Ekverg I am a woman, I am sorry to hear about your experience. I just assumed about this situation because I can tell he thinks he is a hero and just wanted to keep someone who can be kept easy under his control if they have something that goes against them and use it to their advantage by reminding them they did a favour. Of course not all men are like that, some respect a woman older than them and prefer them as they maybe emotionally mature and more understanding.
@Annita Ekverg but generally the Netherlands is a nice place to live in so he might just liked older woman and wasn’t looking for a visa but that doesn’t excuse how he treated you
@Annita Ekverg i understand your situation, it's really painful when people use "love" as weapon to exploit others. I hope that you are doing good now. I hope you can slowly move on from all those past wounds.
I am an Indian. He is truly depicting Indian men's in a complete wrong way. Even my dad helps my mom more than I do as a daughter .He washes dishes,does laundry, helps my mom in every possible way ,since they both are working parents they try to divide as much chores as possible even with us . I'm super proud of my dad after watching this. He is much older than this guy up there still he is much responsible, faster, hardworking and most important he loves us. I feel sad for her she deserves much better .
This made me think about DIVORCE , and how great to have a way out of a marriage.
OMG .. he's a grown up man .. and he behave like a child .. helping your wife with house chores is part of marriage life
it's embarrassing to watch them as an indian . and while K-DOC you are at deleting comments why don't you go back and fix the English subtitles for previous indian restaurant episode where they talk about the pay ? misinterpretation much ?
its so annoying how they keep saying this is how we do it in India this and that .. like hello yall are not in India nomore stop saying that and try to respect the mom -_-
As an indian I can confirm its not even the "indian way" they are just making lame excuses
It seems that in that household,respect only cuts one way-mil’s way or the highway!😂😂😂
So because they are not in India anymore, they should change their culture?
@@rojamillerover no . But if you're gonna use that logic. Then should the Korean mom forget her culture and just accept the ways of the mother in law ? No . But at the end of the day the mom works and provides for her home so the mother in law should be respectful and try to compromise and not try to force the mama to do things her way. Wife is boss and should be boss. Not the mother
I totally agree with Korean wife. The husband must help in all household chores along with helping in rearing children.
Watch a man how he treats his mother and that's the way he treats his wife, no wonder he prefer older wife than him because he's acts like a child.
No one puts sugar in baby food. Why is this great lady showing the wrong stuff?
It’s done in India though
@@anithraelango4040 not much little only we should add..but she add too much of sugar..
@@supriya623 ohhh ok I get it
@@anithraelango4040 coming back after an year to say that no they don't. Doctor say complete no no for babies below age 1. So i don't know where they give sugar!
I don't agree with this. The conflict between the mother in law and daughter in law is due to that worthless man in between .
And a lot of Indian husbands, sons or other men in the family helps the women in the house to do chores and all. It was before ages that women was entrusted with the house chores now it's different. Both men and women helps each other in taking care of their family.
It is
common in Punjabi family 😐. Especially that mother in law seeing her I feel like most mother around me are like this .😔
My first bf/love is Indian, he's 20 and I was 18. We were in the same international university here in Thailand. He's 100x more responsible than that guy! He cooks, cleans, does laundry, iron, intelligent, and most of the time productive. We live in the same out dorm building, and even other Indian guys from the campus were so impressed by him. I've met other Indian guys too who aren't lazy like that! Well India is a huge country, it probably depends where they are from too.
I must appreciate the efforts make by the mother-in-law law.
It is just plain rude and controlling when someone cooks something for their child for someone else to come at the same moment and make something different not to mention how unhealthy it is.
Yeah, it was so rude of her in-law. I was like wtf? His mom should back off.
It’s a combination of a man taught that he never has to work and a mother that never made him work a day in his life. How embarrassing, I’m glad at least in this day and age people are raising their sons and daughters the same
The way I would have kicked this man out of the house if he was my husband
DID THE KOREAN MOM LEAVE THE HUSBAND ALREADY?? I HOPE SHE DID BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!!
Don't think this has anything to do with him being Indian.
You can tell this guy's mom was a helicopter parent that heavily restricted his freedom as a kid and didn't give him the opportunity to do things for himself.
I've come across people like this guy from several other cultures as well(including relatives in my own family), unfortunately crappy parenting habits are pretty universal.
Actually it's part of Indian culture for the women to do literally everything. Watch some Indian tv shows and docos and see for yourself.
@@november132 I've seen this in families where both parents work as well or families that have a stay at home dad. It's something deeply engrained in these cultures. I'm not sure if it's a control thing or parents subconsciously being afraid their kid will become 'too' independent and not need them, which is basically the same theory behind most helicopter parents.
Indian parents are like that. They treat women very bad. They all want sons not daughters
@@nikicarrie4071 Pretty sure the whole preferring sons to daughters thing applies to most countries in Asia, not just India. Not because they like sons 'better', but because they expect to use them for financial support when they get older. In other words, most of them treat their kids as a financial investment, hence the mental torture during their school years to get good grades. This is changing now as more women become career focused and people these days mooch off their daughters too, lol.
@@ibendover4817 not really its still the same and the fact is they want sons. The reason is irrelevant
I read somewhere that fresh cow/goat milk has a lot of proteins that the baby body can’t handle which is why mothers should only feed their babies breast milk or baby’s powdered milk, and in each baby’s powder milk it written it’s suitable for which age.
true.my half indian half chinese baby is completelly allergic to both. only camel milk is hypoallergenic
Mothers doing chores for their grown up children & wives doing chores for their husband is not applicable in every house in India. Nowadays women work too & times have changed.
I feel like all of his excuses for his own laziness is “Indians don’t do it this way” lol I’ve lived in India before
@@myvisualdiares yeah you're absolutely right!
You're right but not completely. Even though a lot of women work, they are still expected to do the chores , often without any contribution from their husbands. If you have a progressive family then its very good but you should know that this isn't very common
@@SM-xd2xv "If you have a progressive family" -- you mean "western" family. Ironically, the "men and women should do the exact same things" ideology is probably why people in the west aren't getting married anymore. How's that for "progress"?
When Indian couples have a child, who's doing the housework and who's providing the income? And what exactly is wrong with couples where there's a division of labor?
I'm an Indian and I DO NOT APPROVE a child of such age to be given refined sugar at all. We don't feed such things to our children in India. I don't know about this woman What the Hell!!
I swear, there are millions of good, hard working, loyal, loving Indian guys out there. Sad, to see the lady chose the worse one, a chance of 0.01%.
How you knoe
It's the opposite millions of men like this 0.01% r not. Stop capping you know this is how most parents in India raise their sons.
🧢🧢🧢
I thought the Korean lady is his mother in law then I realized she’s actually his wife. Lol
Ya she looks bit old than her age
Same here
an 아줌마😂😂
Me too😁
@@samiyajhandu1705 Yes but she's nice but the husband she should have stay away from
He’s only here for the citizenship
I know a broken marriage when I see one.
I'm from Indonesia when I saw this I was a little surprised. why does he feel that all the work should be done by his wife. I am also married to a citizen of another country. my husband is an Egyptian citizen and he always helps with my work... cultural differences are really difficult to adapt. and not all of them adapt quickly.
It's not about cultural differences. He is just a shitty man.
Sama aja di indonesia juga mbak.. sistem partiarki.. ga ada bedanya "all the work should beone by his wife"
@@bear2008 mana ada. Di indo jelas2 bagi tugas rumah tangga antara istri dan suami. Tuh yg soal buang sampah itu di indo jelas bagian suami. Dan byk juga suami2 indo yg ikut masak. Dan di indo gak ada yg kurang ajar nyuruh ibunya ngambilin air minum buat dia
My ex is a mamma's boy and spoiled by his mother like most Punjabi guys. His current girlfriend spoon feeds him sometimes...lol..that's so toxic !!!
My Ex was also like this. Spoiled by his mother.
I agree not all men
You dodged a bullet girl.
Ex for a reason.
@Sampa Norein you clearly are spolit
And you wanted him to leave his mother and live with you separately.😂😂😂 Wake up!
He is from poor narrow-minded Indian family. Now a days men at home share household works. My dad, father in law, my husband, my uncle, brothers all do all household works.
We are Sikhs not indian
The guy is horrible husband and spoiled by his mother. He does nothing. I'm feeling so bad for jeongmi. I hope she kick him out of her life
Never have I ever encountered a man like this. My dad is never like this. He’s even the one who cooks for us and do the house chores with us sometimes. Why did the mother-in-law let his son become like this? 😩
it is known as a different culture
He's a grown man, tf do you mean "let"?
What a mess 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
And its on national TV 🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
I am Indian mom ..
Even I didnt gave outside milk and even suger to my kids till 1year.
This Mom in law is dominating
Punjabis are dominating.
her baby, her rules. As long as baby is happy and healthy, mother in law should not interfere. Dad needs to grow a pair, step in and say, thank you but no , to his mom. He needs to back up his wife. He also needs to pick up after himself. He shouldn't need his mommy at his age.
My husband is also indian when we first stay together he wants me to take all he wants but i tell to him u "u have legs and hands right?" When he sais YES I HAVE i said "then used it"
Then did you see any flying chapal in the air ?😅
@@DanishAli-cg1lb not yet😂 only jyoti😂😂😂
this is indeed Punjabi culture, not Indian I've to say. usually in the North, men attitude is like this. let the women do all the work and a man's pride should never go down. but i think this behaviour should chamge now that she's not a housewife, but a working independent women. take care!
omg 100%
Well please don't stereotype Punjabis... he must be from a village, people living in cities or towns in Punjab aren't like this at all.....
i am from village from punjab not every one is like this
Yeah what you mean by that ..even i am punjabi and I don't see this kind of attitude at my home ..not every person are same ..like this I had even seen many hindu family where they asking women to do all the work ..stop talking about punjabi culture without knowing anything seriously...
video is 4yrs old check on kbs tv
I feel sad for her... His mom is babying that grown ass man !!! And feeding the poor baby unhealthy food 🥺 I'm indian and I do not agree with his mom or him for that matter.
Exactly and I believe she made a mistake marrying into this culture.
Well don't you dare blame our culture,.cause that's not even the point here. You are acting like they don't have spoilt brats in your country! I bet you are one of them too. It's the husbands and his mother's fault. Not of the whole Indian nation or any community kay? Educate yourself and please think before you speak
@@peachgroove well you should watch your tone as well, everyone has the right to put forward their opinion. I'm Indian too and it's definitely a cultural problem to some extent, in many families this kind of behavior is supported
@@skinguru241 if you are indian then I don't need to tell you what is happening here right. I am a true hindu and I won't stand here and listen to my culture getting blamed for some mother who didn't know that babies grow and still babies her (idk how old her son is ) son.he was surely treated like a king when he wasn't and am pretty sure not everyone does that. I have a twin brother and things are pretty fair in my household. so I was not trying to be rude and telling them to not have an opinion.i was simply defending my culture against these uneducated fools who think India is uncultured just because we eat with hands.
@@peachgroove remember that Indians too think that westerners are uncultured because they wear revealing clothes or kiss in public, it's cultural difference. I don't think the original Commentator defamed anyone, the second Commentator said that it would be better for foreigners to not marry indians, she's afraid of the cultural conflict, I don't see anyone defaming India
Not surprised. As an indian, most Indian men are like him.
It's common my ex bf was also very disrespectful towards women and he used to think very lowly of women . And when I used to ask him about why he doesn't believe in helping women then he used to say his mom taught him that if he ever tried helping women then he would end up becoming their slave or something.😶
Some indian families really sucks because they actually install lowly behavior towards women in their son's brain
YESsss vERY TRUE... 100 percent
But girls like you are attracted to those kind of men.
@@dametocosita4994 Not for long since he is already her EX lol
@@yenchu1237 but she did get into a relationship with him. And there's a good chance she will find another guy just like her ex. It's just how it works.
True
That's a big lie and an exception. My husband is a national award winning artist and yet he manages to do more household chores than I do.
Mother-in-law: "We believe mother's should take care of our children who work hard to provide for the family".
Lady... your son is neither working hard nor is he providing for his family.
I feel the Korean mother provides more financial support.
This. He’s dead weight.
Unlikely. Indians are unlikely to move abroad unless they are making decent money in host country.
The frustration this women has is what every other wife in India shares. Majority of Indian husbands are like him. Not respecting the household chores wife does. Not helping out. And then lashing out their wives.
The husband is definitely using her for citizenship, there is no chemistry between them. He’s giving me gay vibes too.
I know I see no love at all just a lazy loser
Yeah thats true..😂😂😂
These comments must be coming from women with happiness in their marriage.🙄
He have a baby.
He have a baby you gay 🙄
if they didn't have such language gap I think she would have a great relationship with her mother in law, they both seem so sweet.
HUSBANDS LISTEN!!! u cannnot have 2 queens in 1 roof!! 😅
I am also an indian from Uttar Pradesh basically from Awadh region and this doesn't happen here i think it depends on state to state.
my cousin is a indian man living in korea and his wife is korean. We made her feel very comfortable when meeting the family likewise so did she. Both families do have certain things that are different however we have managed to adapt to them. However my cousin was born and brought up in hong kong so he has a lot of east asian traits within him in terms of taste buds, and some general formalities so it works out really well for them
Please divorce this kind of man.
For whose sake?Baby?
I agree but since his wife loves him I don't think it will happen
If I would have been in her place I would have divorced that man right away I mean who will love to live with the man who is very narrow minded
Definitely he is not representing Indian men at all he is lazy person in general and no decipline either.the timing are odd.and we don't feed kids with too much sugar like that infact chocolates with introduce in very late age and limit them also .
Yes korean daughter in law is making the right food for baby...we also make the same from rice ...
Correct in India 50 year old remains boy for his mother 😂😂😂😂
One of the laziest husband i have seen in UA-cam. Well I'm Indian too but i do lots and lots of chores and help my mom and sister and even i never let my mom and sister wash my clothes.