This Mom Isn’t Making Assumptions About Her Child’s Gender
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2020
- Kyl Myers did not assign her child, Zoomer, a gender at birth. She is raising the 4-year-old child gender neutral and wants to allow the opportunity for them to explore the gender spectrum at their own pace without any restrictions.
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The fact that they named their kid Zoomer Coyote is definitely a crime
I guess Wiley was taken...
@@f2f.photography LOLOLOL
Can't be any worse than Frank Zappa who named one of his kids, 'Moon Unit'. Or Michael Jackson who named his last born, 'Blanket'. (rolls eyeballs)
@@deirdrepasko9965 and who thinks Michael was normal? He was so filthy rich and famous we get it at least. She’s a regular married woman confusing her baby
I thought Zoomer alone was already a dog's name.... this is awkward.
When you have no problems you create them
Bingo
Why is this being promoted as some kind of good thing?
It's to feed the loonies.
It's like from birth the parents stick a "Hi, I'm Zoomer kick me" on the back of his shirt.... what are the chances of this kid growing up happy...?
Exactly, and she looks like a girl to me.
Their pronouns are they/them until theyve told you they aren’t, you are forcing a child thats not even yours a binary gender and binary pronouns for no reason
@@lightneons its a waste of time arguing with these people
@@lightneons the kid ain’t even in elementary and the parents are already forcing politics on the kid. He ain’t old enough to make thorough decisions. Asking a kid what gender you want to be is like asking a kid for help on rocket science
@@akshaykamasamudram6983 they* You Don't Get To Parent And Decide For A Kid That Isn't Yours, And Literally It Has Nothing To Do With Politics, And Gender Isn't Rocket Science 💀
Shouldn’t parents be teaching their children and providing the guidance?
That’s exactly what the mother is doing
Yes. Language isn’t genetic either that doesn’t mean you let your child make up their own language or pick one.
@@mrb152 that’s an excellent comparison.
@@lightneons no she’s not. The kid is leading his own life, and he’s is still a baby!
@@ltmltm4945 yes she is, and she is teaching THEM how to find themselves and not let others force THEM to be someone THEY might not wanna be, if the child wants to be a boy or girl THEY can be
Parents: " We want you to pick your own gender."
The kid:" I hate my name, can i choose my name?"
Parents: " No. That's the name we gave you "
These parents are fluff.
This is why anxiety and metal health problems are at an all time high.
If their parents are allowing them to choose their own pronouns I’m pretty sure that they’ll allow them to pick out their own name.
Well kid, on top of that name, you'll have plenty to work out in therapy over the next 45 yrs of your life. Thanks Mom and partner Dad.
Down the 21st Century wormhole we go. Has anyone built a time machine yet? I want to get the hell out of here!!! 1955 is looking REAL NICE these days ...
Man, to even invent something for teleportation, the device would have to be able to know the EXACT formula to calculate the exact Location-Equation relative to spacetime for where you would want what you would be teleporting to end up in the universe in the present... lest a miscalculation could teleport what you're teleporting to any random location across the entire expanding universe. And time travel would require knowledge of the exact Location-Equation of where you wanted to end up, on Earth, at a height safe enough for survival, for where Earth was or will be, depending on whether the intention were to be traveling to the past or future... and then would probably still most likely miss, if there were any glitch at all in the space, or time calculations. If the device worked by sending matter to a specific point it could not end up within matter, even gasses would probably cause spontaneous combustion from matter de-atomizing and re-atomizing at a specific point. If it opened up a wormhole, it would probably have to either be done in space to space format, or in exactly equivalent pressures, or else a pressurized atmosphere having a wormhole directly to space would cause violent reactions to the vacuum of space trying to equalize the pressure when it would be opened. And that would be a one way trip if the device didn't go with it, so best bet would be to have an enclosed saucer-type craft to do it with. And those move by creating gravitational fields around their crafts to pull it without damaging the craft or affecting the gravitational field generated inside of the craft...
Ah, yes. Polio, lynchings, and mutually assured destruction! Those were the days.
@@Soy_Preinaugural - How the hell are you even alive then?
Ahh yes, when people were murdered for not loving the "right gender", where women were told that they were only good for working at home and being mothers. 1955 was very messed up.
@@tamika3856 For fuck's sake, stop believing this horseshit the left keeps spoon-feeding everyone!! THINK FOR YOURSELF! Your statement is 100% false. My great grandmother fled Russian controlled Lithuania in the early 20th Century to come to America. She raised my grandmother here, who raised my mom here. My grandmother was an elevator operator, worked in several stores, then landed a good job at Paul Revere Insurance where she retired from. Mom was a schoolteacher her entire life. Working at home and being mothers was a CHOICE! Something that used to be allowed in a free America ...
Omg can you imagine the bullying in school ? I haven’t decide if I’m a boy or girl yet. Could you imagine if you were a gender neutral kid in Russian schools? Why create an environment where there are high probabilities of your kid being bullied and confused ?
Kids have a right to choose their gender, you aren’t creating a bad environment, you’re giving them space to decide their gender, and to learn how to experience and express themselves by not labeling them in a binary gender the second they’re born
@@lightneonsI disagree that they don't have that right. Kids cannot pick something like that because they are kids. You don’t put something that heavy on children. They don’t know anything about that. All you’re doing is robbing them of what would have been a carefree childhood with a huge burden like that. Why do we protect our kids from adult decisions and other stuff ? So why not here with such an immense and complicated issue ?
@@The_Primary_Axiom you are giving them a chance to experiment with gender identity and who they wanna be, nobody told the kid they had to be genderless, the mother chose to not give her child gender stereotypes based off their assigned gender or force pronouns, if the kid had any problems they would tell their mother what they wanted, if your child came out as anything but a binary gender, it is your job as a parent to love and accept them unconditionally, and try to understand despite what you were taught by your own parents, all the mother is doing is teaching their child they can be whatever they wanna be identity wise.
@@lightneons I can’t say a word on here without my comment being deleted so I’m done.
@@The_Primary_Axiom probably for good reason, good bye stranger!
I feel bad for the kid!
I do too, no child deserves a bunch of adults getting angry over not forcing a child to have a gender thats binary
@@lightneons here’s to the end of humanity. Invitro doctors about to make a bundle from these non-binary people with very binary reproductive systems 😂
@Dope Cat The world will be messed up not just their kid. Big pharma keeps winning because of idiots that support this drivel.
@@lightneons gender is binary. male and female.
@@relaxingsounds1386 There's More Than Male And Female Biologically 💀 Intersex Exists
So zoomer was born a boy and on his own decided to want to be a boy…. Shocking…..
and what if he wanted to be a girl..
@@mixthemfincredible he couldn't be, because he's a boy.
this country is in the shitter how is this even real
I’m a mother of 3 kiddos. I have to say this is by far the most ridiculous and foolish thing I have ever heard of. I’m just curious, aren’t you tired? Don’t you have hobbies? I’m certainly not interested in coaching my child on gender and holding my breath on what will they be.. and i am certain I will develop stronger and more confident people in the process of not confusing my kiddos over their gender! I also don’t let my kids choose to control anything, because that creates self entitlement and self centered people. I am the parent, and it is MY job to direct them. Children are busy trying to figure out how to put on their socks, or learn how to read, or learn how to pour their own milk... do you really think they need the pressure of choosing their own gender? Come on, why would you put this responsibility on your precious kiddo? Sex and gender are one and the same, and I don’t need to be “educated” further than that simple statement. Why not just tell them their sex and move on? It’s our job to create that stable foundation and allowing the decency of knowing their own gender when they ask is the correct parenting strategy. Also FYI I have 2 girls and a boy.. they have been distinctly different from the very beginning without me telling them their gender. No one had to tell my son to roar like a lion alllllll day... or tell my daughter to pretend she was a mommy at 2 years old! No one! They taught themselves!
I want my kids to be focused on so many important things in life, and wondering what gender they are for their whole life is not a burden you should put on a child to ease your own selfish desires.
PERIOD QUEEN YOU TELL EM
I Totally agree!
This is just crazy we should teach girls to be proud of being a girl and they can be strong. And the boys that they should also be proud and can be sensitive creatures
It isn’t about gender roles, it’s about gender identity and not forcing children to be someone they might not be
@@lightneons They were forced to be anatomically who they are because biology said so. Guess we can change our ethnicity, height, and birthday too. Gotcha
@@lightneons so you get your entire philosophical background from Tik Tok. Nice.
Why can't you just tell them what they are & use the proper scientific pronouns then just let them play with and wear whatever they want?!
pronouns arent scientific lmao
@@caramelcopcat Yes they are. He=male, She=female. The end.
We’re literally making up problems since we have food and shelter
These people are nuts. This is child abuse.
This is why UA-cam removed dislikes.
I learned a long time ago that some people are just bore with their lives and look for ways to get attention.
I’ve always felt Chinese on the inside. Now the world will finally accept me now that I accept my truth!
trans-racialism and transgenderism are 2 different things
@@mixthemfincredible Yup they;re both BS and we dont celebrate trans racialism because it's surgically difficult to pull off. When science helps people change ethnic looks easier it will grow also.
@@mixthemfincredible neither of those things exist.
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This woman really needs help of a professional to understand the real world!!!
Her husband, I'm sorry pArTnEr, is by far the weakest man I've ever seen. Wtf is this world coming to???
poor kid is going to end up killing himself by 30. Statistically it's like 50/50, probably more with a mom like that
Uhm... She looks like she's reading from a script
Very interesting experiment. I wonder the conclusion. Does the child's identity match the reproductive organs?
What would you say the identity of the child is because I figured it's gender neutral which means to have genitals to match means whatever and unless you're sleeping with the child you don't need to know what's between their legs unless you're a pervert ok. I think you've misunderstood the point just about everybody in this comment section has misunderstood the point It's not about what's between your legs it's about what's between your ears thoughts feelings emotions I think humanity can do better at understanding each other. people tend to think themselves different than animals except they don't your genital comment shows they don't. Animals are not 100% heterosexual they don't seem to have ideas about gender they have sexes that boil down to parts gender is a whole different thing that's a human thing projected onto things.
In the State of Nature you might say something like a woman stays at home and looks after the kids and a man goes out and Hunt in this same scenario the man not wearing trousers or a hat woman is not wearing a dress or skirt they both probably wearing the same items of clothing. and in reality their jobs are actually quite similar if the stereotype is to believed women almost certainly invented art and just about every leisure time activity so women invented the throwing spear women invented better ways of knapping Flint women invented beer lol. Toilet paper is that gendered about the front door to the house preferred seat in the kitchen what setting on the oven is female which gender is female is it the female one how can you describe female without using gendered things it's all absurd nonsense. Different cultures do different things that's one way you know it's all bulshit sometimes drastically different things you think of this as an experiment ok so is everything else though.
Yes he does
@@ridanann Say no to drugs
@@jeffschlueter1660 say no to intellectual dishonesty and intellectual laziness you read something your feeble mind can't comprehend so you think it's drugs. you sound like a religious person Who have no idea about the world beyond their religion except there's loads in that stupid book that doesn't fit with reality and it's missing a hell of a lot of reality if you think something being beyond your worldview is drugs I'm amazed you're using a computer because that's a sin go ask the Amish you devil worshipping satanic electricity user.
@@ridanann "That stupid book" as you call it is more real than anything in your life I can guarantee. And the last time I checked, the Amish aren't the authority on what constitutes sin.
Read a story about this fool.. moved to Australia.. you’re DAUGHTER from birth just came out as a BOY??! At 4 years old??! I call bullshit. stop messing this kid up now before you ruin HER life.
Horrible parenting.
Follow the science, except when it comes to biology
Actually science confirms that transgender is actually biological, many trans women have femine features to the brain
@@lightneons This is fine, but when you then prescribe this 'parenting technique' to every child, it is going to be really fucking confusing for them. Children are not capable of comprehending what this actually means. It is only with the rise of the internet that these new "pronouns" appear all over the place, whilst trans people decades into the past, generally speaking, would only identify as the opposite gender to which they were assigned with. Gender has been synonymous with sex for millennia, and to now make up new ones and call them biological facts is just ludicrous.
@@AdiPad- Pronouns have existed years before 4chan (assuming that's what you refer to) especially neo pronouns, which were in cultures hundreds of years ago, and as a trans person gender doesn't have to have biological factors, you just have to respect someones identity, and if the child is raised being taught about it they're not gonna be confused because they'll be learning about it
And Nonbinary people existed in the 1900s too
@@lightneons Some people are born with one leg. It's not normal. They can live a fruitful life and should be treated well etc etc. But let's not start treating a child born with two legs as a one legged child. These parents would not encourage their child to learn to walk. They would provide crutches and a motorised wheel chair and "let the child choose". What will they choose? Struggling to walk or cruising around on "the fun fun rolly machine"?
A parents job is to teach help support guide and TELL, because 10yo kids know nothing let alone 3 or 4 or 5y olds.
This woke liberal snobbery has got to stop. You think you know better than most and you just don't. You have rewired your brain (I do believe with good intentions) but that deliver horrible outcomes for humanity.
Stop overly sexualizing and purposely confusing young children. It should be considered SA.
This woman is seriously nuts
Can't imagine fcking up my kid by design.
I am sorry but adults are mess up yes we should let our kids be but if they were born with what •••• I am going to treat them accordingly
I'm not going to tell anyone how to raise their child. But to me and how I was raised is your a girl or a boy. These parents are planting seeds into their kids head for no reason. Let them be kids. If a little boy plays witha doll doesn't mean he going to be gay or he wants to be a girl right now. People need to let kids be kids and when they get old enough to understand different things then explain it to them. I think people have strayed far from God. But this is just my opinion. Like I said people are going to do whatever they want with their kids.
Stop putting people in boxes be a parent that cares
It's not the child's decision, the parents are forcing the child to be this way, and what if they don't want to be raised like that? You don't know what the baby wants. I mean, it's a baby, it can barely speak as it is my God, I will literally take their child away from them. don't brazen with stereotypes just don't freaking race, gender all together, gender is a part of life we all identify as something
Isnt transgenderism supposed to be the individual's choice? What if they DON'T want to be gender neutral? Doesn't that defeat the whole purpose?
How did you explain to him the difference between he and she? He is for boy and she is for girl? And you’re not a “mom”, you people call it birthing person.
Them* and some girls use other pronouns then she/he vice versa for boys, and it's simple, use context, for God sakes this was taught in 2nd grade 😐
Sweet Jesus. Talk about using your kid as a tool.
Used him as a tool and lo and behold he will likely be a tool...
SICK
This is idiotic. They're making the assumption that gender isn't sex but is some mysterious inner identity.
Your gender is not assigned, is observed.
Jesus, WFT. This lady is wackadoo. Poor kid. Poor emasculated husband.
He's a boy, stop the cringe. The parents are both so harmful to a child, shameful, DCF should be involved for abusive behavior..SJW
They actually never said what the child is. So how do you know that? I agree that this is all child abuse for sure I just don’t recall them ever even saying what zoomer actually is?
There "THEY" go making shit up like "THEY" always do.🙄
What if the child is abducted?? I'm sure they would have to use genitalia to help in the description...🤷🏿♀️
Child abuse
Now here's an (it?) who desires acquiring more followers and "likes" over wanting to be a good mother.
This is abuse.
XX/XY all the rest are just confusing
are intersex people "confusing?"
So you’re gonna ignore basic science? Theres more than genitals equals gender identity and pronouns, get over it its 2021
Science gave us aerosols and inner combustion engines and here we are now trying to save our planet.
It’s the name for me. I like hippie, but not going ALL THE WAY where at some point the child will get picked on at school.
There are no "hippies" anymore, just some senior citizens who never matured.
@@norandmurr1432 we call them the "peter pan" generation...or... "I don't wanna grow up, I'm a toys-r-us kid, lalala that I can play with!"
@@Wattster47 As far as the "Peter Pan generation", millenials have the old hippies beat by a mile. There's a lot more of them, for one thing.
@@norandmurr1432 news flash. Hippies had children who are also hippies, who had children that are being raised as hippies.
@@deirdrepasko9965 The only remaining hippies are the ones that took their core beliefs and left to live off grid or in a planned community of their own making. Some of them and their descendants still live that life. The rest of them are just lefties. Mom here sure isn't one of them.
GOD created... don't try to change 💯
This is surely the devil's idea.
It’s goin to get worse
Oookkkkkkaaaaayyyyy
🤣🤣🤣
Not everyone should have kids, this should be a crime..
She keeps on saying "we", when what she really means is "I, and my spineless, passive, beta male partner".
Lots of therapy.
ahahahah this is comedy gold. hahahahah zoomer hahahahahaha wtf. zoomer coyote hahahahah good thats just gold.
“Maybe it would have had a different outcome if we lived in the woods off the grid”…. Sounds like a plan to me!
Zoomer will hate you for what you did to him.. you are a parent with twisted mind
What...the FUCK???
Zoomer lol
Is this a joke, real, or for money?
Got no right to enforce this nonsense on a child !
Okay I'm a Bible followers so of course I believe that men have male anatomy and women have female anatomy however, if I was not available follower and I believed in what this woman believes the only problem I would have is when that child because an adult has male anatomy meets a girl they like and tells them that they are a girl that wants to hang out with them and do girl things. To me that's very confusing and I have a hard time dismissing the whole gender thing in general. It's also because I don't believe in same gender relationships though if I did then it would make more sense to me
Where ther world is going...
Let's make NPS, narcissistic parent syndrome, a thing
That poor kid
She's a girl, sorry. Jesus. 🤦🏽♀️
I think it’s interesting how she thinks the name Zoomer is gender neutral. I think this is a girl too but 20 some years ago, our daughter was given a male kitten and we named him Zoomer because it felt like a boy name
Coming from a Black woman you should know better, don’t you know especially what Black trans women have gone through?
@@ina1815 What does race have to do w/ it? You have your opinion, & I have mine.
🤦🏾♀️
I have free range children, they chose everything they wanted to do, wanted to wear, wanted to eat…. I let them decide always, unless it was something that could hurt them or someone or something else… They were always aware of their gender, but we never pushed them to let’s say a ‘boy toy aisle’ or ‘girl aisle’ - they decide everything my eldest is 18, my youngest 5, they know ‘who’ they are and they definitely ‘know’ what they want! I believe truth is everything, and birth gender is truth… I let my kids have Easter bunny and Santa but everything else was truth! Truth is, you are born with genitalia and they have key facets that have very different reproductive differences? Example- A boy will never carry a baby - he has no womb??? Being a great parent involves as less confusion as possible, I feel this makes more confusion??? Simple is best, one step at a time xo 😘
Hahaha truth always except at Easter and Christmas then it's all about the lies. Hahaha
I just became an aunt to an androgynous baby. If you don't know what that means look it up.
This world is so cruel starting with these comments, wow!..
This mother definitely calls her husband her "partner" and cheats on him constantly.
Source?
@@ceerd2094 ua-cam.com/video/dQw4w9WgXcQ/v-deo.html
She is insufferable. Poor child on so many levels
I think a human is a male or a female, depending on their genitals and chromosomes. And I believe that should be told to children, so they are aware of who they are. Said that, I don't think we should try to push certain "male" or "female" attitudes, roles, clothes, toys... onto children. I think it is a good idea to let them dress, play and do whatever they want, but I think not telling them their sex it is going to bring a lot of problems, as we humans identify ourselves with our name, age, sex, place of origin... So why not telling the children his/her age and not just his/her sex? I think this will create a lot of identity problems and makes no sense. However, it is their kid, and we are free to raised our kids however we want, so let's see how this turns out. But definitely I would not experience like this with my kids. Greetings
Food for thought. Have you read her book?
This lady is a sick person and should be stripped of her parental rights. God help that child to grow up in such a warped sense of living. I grew up Catholic and I'm not very religious at this point but I have to believe that the devil has his hands in a lot of things, in the year 2021.
Damn... kids gonna get bullied so hard.
Holy insanity batman. this poor kid
I think that reading her book would give you a better understanding of what her purpose in keeping their genitals separate from their life experiences. She comes from the position that when a baby is born sometimes people limit risky and muddy games and nurturing activities just because they are identified as one of the binary sexes. Kyl wants to offer all choices of life, fun, activities, and colors to all children. That it shouldn’t be based on their genitals. I raised a boy and a girl. My son’s favorite color was pink and liked cabbage patch dolls. My husband was very uncomfortable with that. He thought back in the 80’s that my son would become gay if he was allowed to play with dolls. My daughter of course was directed into ballet and art classes. My son was directed into baseball and karate and more aggressive sports. These are just a small slice of how we might limit children’s experiences which impact their ability to become a well developed human being. The book is worth while reading.
At the very least she’s brave, but I understand all the mean comments... I have a 4 year old daughter and obviously we let her know she’s a girl, but we let her choose what she likes what she want to wear .... and she for the longest time has said she’s a boy . She identifies as a girl now but she does enjoy more of the boy things in life... and I am happy with how she’s living her life..
If he says he's a boy he is, forcing your child to be a girl is the opposite of what a parent is, as a parent it's your job to accept and love your child unconditionally as any gender.
@@lightneons You have to give kids some guidance, you can't let them choose everything. You reinforce the gender of the child until he or she is old enough to choose for themselves, usually in their teenage years. Honestly, this lady's son is going to be a weirdo.
@@lightneons nooo if she is born a girl you let her know SHES A GIRL. You correct them. Why put delusional thoughts in your kids head? So when she goes through puberty and has a period and all you going to sit there and still say she’s a boy? Making children social experiments should be straight up abuse. There’s two genders. Boy or girl and your born one or the other. 0.03 percent of the worlds population is intersex so though that happens rarely other than your one or the other. Abuse. Straight up child abuse. Kids going to have therapy for years to come.
@@lightneons if a kid says they’re a cat or dog do u let them still think they are? Many kids “feel like boys or girls” because of the stuff associated but if parents tell them it’s ok to be a girl but ALSO like trucks and trousers and “boy activities” then that’s what should happen. How does a kid “feel like a different gender” ?!
@@mimoaj90 it's Not just about gender roles, it's how your gender alone feels, if the child wants to be a different gender? Great! You love them unconditionally and if they want to, help them transition.
Gender creative parenting is so misunderstood. This is a really great interview.
But is it really? Is it?
@@brandi_with_an_i the answer is yes, it is.
I love this! Having the courage to give your little person the ability to tell you and guide you as to who they are is powerful! Well done parents!
Yea until one of the “gender neutral” kids are in school and are confused as hell wether they are a boy or a girl. God could you imagine the bullying. Paving a way for anxiety and depression for that kid. Nothing wrong with identifying as a transgender when you get to the age. But why create and environment where you now produce transgender kids? Why create an environment where there are high probabilities of your kid being bullied and confused ?
You are sick in the Head!! Get some help!
Nutbag!
right there with you, I agree!
As an actual Little Person I find your comment to be very offensive. #bebetter