I went to an abusive boarding school like she did from 15-18 yrs old. Im 34 now and it still bothers me. I also didnt talk to my parents about how bad it was there for a while. Thankfully the school I went to has been shut down so no one else will suffer there. Thank you Paris for being brave and opening up and letting others know they are not alone. I wish you healing and happiness.
Gosh I just feel horrible you went through that, I was a bratty teen and so was my older sister but I'm so thankful my mom, although not the best mom ever, did the best she could and raised us at home in a loving house. I just can't imagine being raised like that, I'm so sorry you went through that.
It's not that Paris is questioning her choice in a husband. She's struggling with trusting anyone period and how that will affect her relationship. Her issues are definitely parent related.
@@AA-qb7ni I'm fine now but i went through alot inorder to be mental stable and finding peace in my life. Waaah it was difficult to start from the scratch and for Paris it will take time to heal the trauma
Obviously, the continuing vacations. "running away" ,,, excessively spending $$$$$$ on things, clothes probably never worn, men, strange friends 🤔 etc etc.THIS accounts for how the so called abuse made her. Very possible. Looking for satisfaction in all the wrong places. Did ph or sister nh attend university AND graduate?? Should have.
Paris is a spoiled brat. The school probably gave her some fetching up. She can't be trusted. Clubbing and drinking her life away. Now she has children. Dogs were more her style. Kids grow up. Then what? She never grew up. Never had to. Take responsibility, Ms. Hilton.
It breaks my heart how her parents organised for people to basically kidnap her and did nothing to help her - poor girl must be petrified to sleep. And the fact that they don’t take ownership and apologise for the nightmare they have given her to permanently live with makes me so frustrated and angry for her. She is still being silenced because she doesn’t talk to her parents about it. Probably because they will blame her. Awful. Just terrible parenting on their part. They could have managed that intervention completely differently.
How could you not develop serious trauma experiencing something like that. Imagine being kidnapped and thinking your parents are complicit... not knowing where you're going and what's gonna happen to you. And then add on the abuse she suffered at these schools. Her parents fucked her up so bad. Her entire career, her entire public persona was created out of the need to get that love, affection and attention externally because her parents denied it unless she conformed. And as long as Paris can't break free from that power her parents still hold over her she will continue to struggle. Paris is infantilized to this day you can see it by the way her mother is taking over the wedding planning completely disregarding Paris' wishes.
Ok but to be honest she was an out of control rich teenager with the resources to completely go off the rails. I don’t agree with what her parents did, but I think they were just trying to help her and I think her parents were only doing what was in the best interest for her. I don’t think her parents knew, exactly how terrible it was, and if they did I don’t think they believed her at the time, because she was known for lying. Things are different now, we take what kids say more seriously now, even if they are lying, but in those times it was just hard to believe those prestigious centers were abusive; given how much they cost.
Right? Idk if her parents were trying to help her. But there are a lot of complacent parents like that out there & it’s crazy how money does nothing for abuse & makes it worse giving abusers more control… No matter what socioeconomic class we’re all from, it just gives toxicity more power based on the person. Terrifying… A lot of these organizations are there for money as well.
+esmee_c “out of control” I think she was just being the average teenager. But of course, she has “Hilton” as a last name and her mother Kathy is desperate to keep a pristine image of her family. So she was an average teenager with greater pressures to act a certain way.
Wow, this therapist is amazing. In this video Paris and her therapist really helped me personally see things in a different way by applying his advice to my own trauma. Good for her for doing this and allowing it to be filmed. Would also love the therapists info to see how much he charges for Zoom sessions!
His name is Peter Crone ….he’s freaking awesome! Although yes I think direct sessions with him go up into the tens of thousands as someone else mentioned (you can checkout his website for more info). There’s a lot of free content and wisdom from him though across UA-cam as he often features as a guest on different people’s podcasts 🙏🏻💐
You're a groundbreaker, Paris. Bless you for being so brave and speaking up and out about your experiences and these hard topics. You are helping many including me be more brave. Prayers always with you. I relate on many levels. Always be gentle on yourself
She doesn't bring it up to her parentss because she doesn't trust her parents to protect her feelings about it. And resentment is easier than confirming the worst from the people that were supposed to protect you and care for you.
I can't imagine being dragged out of my bed in the middle of the night and the people who are supposed to protect me do nothing. What was she doing that it had to be so Extreme? The fact that she forgave them shows just how Strong she is. Wow. Praying that all her nightmares go away.
Watching Paris Hilton open up about mental health has truly opened my eyes. It has made me realize maybe if I went to see a therapist and just have someone to talk to and listen to me, it could help me so much. I struggle like Paris, so much potential but still scared, just because of trauma. I’m only 23, but I wish I had this knowledge earlier on in life. Having mental illnesses makes my life feel like it’s rotten.
I adore Paris' strength and courage. The world of fame is cruel and turbulant but despite what everyones assumed about her over the years shes shown how headstrong, independent and smart she is. Paris4ever 💕
You never know what beautiful people go through... I'm so sorry she had to go through that. If I could ever say anything to her it would be "You are LOVED!"
Paris, you sweet woman, I know how hard that was to open up....this is your new begining ....you want to get help to overcome the abuse you dealt with, the best thing I have found is thanking them for teach you what NOT TO DO in your own life. You are so beautiful go out there my dear and reach for the sky you are Blessed. you will find your way for sure
Totally agree with you! I think also that Paris still thinks that she went there because she deserved it,because she was "wild child" (paraphrasing her mother's words). Kathy said once that sending her in that school was the only chance they had as parents to "save her". And maybe deep down Paris don't want to talk about this with her parents because they would tell her"but you were so out of control we needed to do this"..
Dear Paris! I have followed your life story now for quite a while and have noticed how much you simply love nature and the peace and tranquility it brings. Your life in the fast lane has no space for that. Why I say this, is because I am a lover of nature in it’s purest form… you are such a lovely person… try and make more time for being in nature… cancel some of those “plastic world” events that exhaust you! Go for long sunset walks with Carter, and camel rides in the desert and come and visit one of the beautiful wildlife reserves in Southern Africa… and bring the doggies! God bless🌹
Her real voice is mature and engaging. It makes one interested in hearing what she wants to say. That altered voice does not do her justice and really represents her as immature, childish and unintelligible. I by some of what I have seen she is and intelligent woman with much to give. Perhaps take your trauma and sit with people who otherwise would not see the limelight (social media, public views). Without cameras and all the entourage. Who had been through such trauma.
Parents, from the beginning… employ discipline, boundaries & a lot of love & your time. Letting them have everything & do what they want is dangerous & can lead down a very dark road. Also, shut down any facility that abuses anyone. Hard lessons are ok. Terrifying children & abusing them MUST STOP. Now!!!🙏🇺🇸
I think her mother was too occupied with high society to be able to manage her child’s troubles. Therefore she got sent away by however means necessary. I doubt her father has a backbone than to stand up to The Almighty Kathy Hilton. I watched one of these episodes where Kathy was legit serious about taking back a wedding gift because they weren’t using it the right way. The sheer panic on Paris face explained so much. It was quite evident that Kathy and her control over Paris is a major trigger to her anxiety and depression. Paris needs to learn to set boundaries with her mother. BIGTIME!
(╯︵╰,) My heart is breaking to hear her talk about this and even now the vulnerable little girl.... I just want to hug her. One thing I do know is that she's going to break through and be happy and fabulous ♡
It's so much easier to feel for Paris when she uses her natural voice...... When she's just herself..... I think this is just an 'adult'Paris....I think I'd like her. I can't imagine a parent sending their child to a 'correction' camp. I would be terrified. That is emotional abuse in itself. Thank goodness she's healing this. I really feel for her.
Her parents are narcissists ... and sadly the abuse Paris endured means she probably has huge emotional struggles in all her intimate relationships. She has a lot to deal with and it's all her parents' fault.
You are an amazing and beautiful woman and so brave!!! I’m so sorry that you are an abuse survivor like me, but it wasn’t our fault and nothing can stop us now!!! Fierce Force of truth and love! My respect for you has increased 100% Thanks for sharing your story!!!
I think the reason why she waited until she was 40 to get married was because I think she didn’t wanna grow up and settle down. Probably because part of her childhood was taken due to her parents sending her to that abusive boarding school and them just being really really strict while growing up. But go Paris!
I think Paris was also 5150d or ‘formed’ at some point in addition to being sent to those schools. There’s more stigma/shame in a psych hold, but I think that goes to why she may still not feel safe. She could be formed again. Plus she saw what happened to Britney.
She talking about kinds the reform school girls there is a 80ds movies on the abuse that goes on in these types of schools of course it is called reform school girls watch it and it like what she talking about crazy I feel bad for her man dam nobody deserves this I hope she find peace from it God bless her and the people here
I have a shirt just like Paris has on.... I hope she got married for all the right reasons,and not because it's due to time running out.... You gotta marry the right person,I just don't believe Pais loves him like I love my ex boyfriend!!.... She's an amazing woman,and I believe I would make Paris a better Wifey,if she likes girls,she needs to be in love,not just loved.
Therapy should be private, how much genuine healing can be done when something like this is made public?Good for her for getting help, I pray she finds healing. But it’s a shame such an important moment was made public, she deserves privacy.
I disagree. This is a clip not a full hour long session. Do you see her holding back? She is being very open and vulnerable as if camera isn’t there. Therapy should be private if therapist & his client agree to it. She is showing her journey to heal from trauma which many people suffer from and don’t know how to do it or think therapy can work. They definitely have sessions off-camera and he checks-in because he’s a damn good therapist. Can everyone do this or should do this? Hell no. And from what I see, they are being very responsible with how it’s shown.
I was at a girls boarding school in Africa, Zambia. Though it's one of the best schools and I had a good life their, I saw the life their and other girls tramautise each other. So much goes in at boarding school. As much as it helped, I wouldn't like to send my kids their.
im sorry but every parent who does this kind of things should be in jail... her parents contributed for her life trauma is just disgusting. we love u P.
You can have all the money in the world but still feel so empty inside. Paris the only one that can truly heal you and fill you with the emptiness you have is God. He loves you and wants to show himself in your life.
As much as I like people normalizing therapy, I have to agree. Therapy should be private so that you can build up your self preservation skills. Also, predatory people hunt for those that they think are weak.
I do not watch this whole video but just parts. Should be happy to move on with her new husband but seems not yet. I have some thoughts but prefer not say about it.
I don't know how you can every speak to your mother!!! She should be in prison for what she put you through as well as those sick sick sick abusive people!? Where are they?? In prison??
Why recording therapy sessions that are supposed to be intimate experience??She just deprived herself of that. And the therapist is soooo much in his head. Actually not therapist, more counsellor. For watching exquisite therapy sessions watch "Gloria"with Fritz Perls and Carl Rogers.
Wow, yeah, unfortunately, I can image some. I went thru my own period of such trauma. I realized many years later after watching an Oprah episode that the reason that I was still experiencing this trauma from time to time was that I was still in the presence of my abusers. It"s like holding your breath every time they walk in the room waiting for them to leave so you can exhale. Even though, I was virtually over it and survived anyway by the grace of God, I did learn from it the heartaches of what a broken world can sometimes look like. So try not to take it personal even though it was. That's developing a thick skin. So my intellect now understood, however the residue of the abuse and trauma I experienced showed itself in the immature habits of it"s behavior to survive. That is why it was hard to separate. You have to overcome the bad habits of those child like manifestations of your abuse. How awful baby. But your good now. Your grown and survived and did it. The people in your life that may trigger your memory, if not able to get away from them in your life does have to be addressed like it finally is, but then you now have permission to let it go in terms of your own self justice finally being somewhat served. Your true justice will only be in Jesus Christ, but you have your freedom now. Your on the right track baby keep going. Let go and let God. Refuse to entertain any more thoughts as they may appear from time to time and soon you'll see a new beautiful life unfolding in front of you. Love you Paris. Be brave. Enjoy this beautiful life ahead of you now. And if ever u need to make a turn. Use your tongue as your utter and glide your turn as you've been doing so gracefully all along here. You have permission to say no. And don't look back. XO
Surely her parents must have known, the rich have the resources to know things the average wouldn't, and if they really didn't know the parental instincts should have kicked in when who ever suggested kidnapping her while asleep in her room that's trauma for life...
This therapist is effectively re-traumatizing her. Asking someone to talk about traumatic content is actually incredibly re-traumatizing and unethical. Him bringing up the moment she was kidnapped is the opposite of trauma informed care and so disappointing.
Also just asking “are you safe?” and trying to convince a person they’re safe now completely ignores how the nervous system is affected by trauma. Of course Paris, a multi millionaire, is physically safe, but when the nervous system is traumatized you can’t just snap into a feeling of safety or convince your brain you are. Ugh this is so frustrating to watch.
I don’t agree. Therapy is a safe place to voice your hurt and fears without judgment. To go through something so hard you need to at least talk about it at some point and say “ this happened to me, it hurt me, it may not have been fair, and it still haunts me”. He gives her a voice where before she had to feel the fear and wasn’t allowed to say anything. All these years she has probably never talked about it. In young trauma you think “ well thank God it’s over , I’ll be okay” and that is what she said. Later the trauma and memories resurface or you are able to see how it has affected your life. She needs to examine it and feel it safely in order to accept it and learn that she can examine it and overcome it. That bad things happen and people find ways to be resilient, which is much easier with help. One of the factors that determines levels of resilience is having one place of support. He is letting her know he understands how what happened was so traumatic. It has probably been white washed all these years by her family. Finally she has someone that sees the injury and wants to help. It’s like a child showing you here boo boo and liking wearing a bandage. They can see the damage, get empathy and see how the bandage helps them heal and be strong. I can’t imagine keeping that bottled up and thinking it was her fault.
@The Bath Tree he's going too fast, I agree she needs to confront the issue with provo and her parents, he has some very valid points but he's taking her through everything too quickly jumping on issues he already spotted in the documentary and trying solve them, it's very one sided its all coming from him
Watch the full therapy session TONIGHT on Paris in Love on E!
I went to an abusive boarding school like she did from 15-18 yrs old. Im 34 now and it still bothers me. I also didnt talk to my parents about how bad it was there for a while. Thankfully the school I went to has been shut down so no one else will suffer there. Thank you Paris for being brave and opening up and letting others know they are not alone. I wish you healing and happiness.
Gosh I just feel horrible you went through that, I was a bratty teen and so was my older sister but I'm so thankful my mom, although not the best mom ever, did the best she could and raised us at home in a loving house. I just can't imagine being raised like that, I'm so sorry you went through that.
I did too. It was in Florida first, and the second one was in Mexico. I’m still not okay over it. I hope you’re doing better.
I did too from 14-18 I am 41 and I still wake up screaming and I am still traumatized
I'm glad she has a comfort doggo with her while recalling all of this.
It's not that Paris is questioning her choice in a husband. She's struggling with trusting anyone period and how that will affect her relationship. Her issues are definitely parent related.
She has been through so much trauma. I hope she heals from it and finds happiness ❤❤ She's amazing.
Yah and my story is worse 😢
@@artisthusnatalal3099 I hope you're okay 🥺
@@AA-qb7ni I'm fine now but i went through alot inorder to be mental stable and finding peace in my life. Waaah it was difficult to start from the scratch and for Paris it will take time to heal the trauma
Paris really is a sweetheart and a beautiful woman!
She really is so kind!
I feel bad that she feels the need to always say yes and please everyone. She deserves to do what she wants.
Notice how her voice changed when she started opening up. She's traumatized. 🥺
Obviously, the continuing vacations. "running away" ,,, excessively spending $$$$$$ on things, clothes probably never worn, men, strange friends 🤔 etc etc.THIS accounts for how the so called abuse made her. Very possible. Looking for satisfaction in all the wrong places.
Did ph or sister nh attend university AND graduate?? Should have.
Yes. Could very well be.
Paris is a spoiled brat. The school probably gave her some fetching up. She can't be trusted. Clubbing and drinking her life away. Now she has children. Dogs were more her style. Kids grow up. Then what? She never grew up. Never had to. Take responsibility, Ms. Hilton.
It breaks my heart how her parents organised for people to basically kidnap her and did nothing to help her - poor girl must be petrified to sleep. And the fact that they don’t take ownership and apologise for the nightmare they have given her to permanently live with makes me so frustrated and angry for her. She is still being silenced because she doesn’t talk to her parents about it. Probably because they will blame her. Awful. Just terrible parenting on their part. They could have managed that intervention completely differently.
How could you not develop serious trauma experiencing something like that. Imagine being kidnapped and thinking your parents are complicit... not knowing where you're going and what's gonna happen to you. And then add on the abuse she suffered at these schools. Her parents fucked her up so bad. Her entire career, her entire public persona was created out of the need to get that love, affection and attention externally because her parents denied it unless she conformed. And as long as Paris can't break free from that power her parents still hold over her she will continue to struggle. Paris is infantilized to this day you can see it by the way her mother is taking over the wedding planning completely disregarding Paris' wishes.
Ok but to be honest she was an out of control rich teenager with the resources to completely go off the rails. I don’t agree with what her parents did, but I think they were just trying to help her and I think her parents were only doing what was in the best interest for her. I don’t think her parents knew, exactly how terrible it was, and if they did I don’t think they believed her at the time, because she was known for lying. Things are different now, we take what kids say more seriously now, even if they are lying, but in those times it was just hard to believe those prestigious centers were abusive; given how much they cost.
Also shes afraid to speak up to them or to say no to them because she believes itll happen again
Right? Idk if her parents were trying to help her. But there are a lot of complacent parents like that out there & it’s crazy how money does nothing for abuse & makes it worse giving abusers more control… No matter what socioeconomic class we’re all from, it just gives toxicity more power based on the person. Terrifying… A lot of these organizations are there for money as well.
+esmee_c “out of control” I think she was just being the average teenager. But of course, she has “Hilton” as a last name and her mother Kathy is desperate to keep a pristine image of her family. So she was an average teenager with greater pressures to act a certain way.
I feel bad for ever judging her.
@Tina Marie judge not lest ye be judged
Right? I think a lot of people feel this way.
Wow, this therapist is amazing. In this video Paris and her therapist really helped me personally see things in a different way by applying his advice to my own trauma. Good for her for doing this and allowing it to be filmed. Would also love the therapists info to see how much he charges for Zoom sessions!
agree !!
He's a celeb "mind architect" and is pretty expensive..his sessions can go up to $10,000 for a few
His name is Peter Crone ….he’s freaking awesome! Although yes I think direct sessions with him go up into the tens of thousands as someone else mentioned (you can checkout his website for more info). There’s a lot of free content and wisdom from him though across UA-cam as he often features as a guest on different people’s podcasts 🙏🏻💐
I have so much respect for Paris knowing this now.. she is a strong women! She’ll be an amazing mother ! 😊💐💞
You're a groundbreaker, Paris. Bless you for being so brave and speaking up and out about your experiences and these hard topics. You are helping many including me be more brave. Prayers always with you. I relate on many levels. Always be gentle on yourself
She doesn't bring it up to her parentss because she doesn't trust her parents to protect her feelings about it. And resentment is easier than confirming the worst from the people that were supposed to protect you and care for you.
Super proud of her transparency and wish her her all thee abundance of self expression he seems like a great listener
I can't imagine being dragged out of my bed in the middle of the night and the people who are supposed to protect me do nothing. What was she doing that it had to be so Extreme? The fact that she forgave them shows just how Strong she is. Wow. Praying that all her nightmares go away.
I love paris she is so sweet and a very smart woman im so proud of how she has grown to be a exceptional person.
I think she's as dumb as a brick , but that's just my opinion .
Watching Paris Hilton open up about mental health has truly opened my eyes. It has made me realize maybe if I went to see a therapist and just have someone to talk to and listen to me, it could help me so much. I struggle like Paris, so much potential but still scared, just because of trauma. I’m only 23, but I wish I had this knowledge earlier on in life. Having mental illnesses makes my life feel like it’s rotten.
Paris proved 2 everyone - that she hustled her way 2 the top! Get over the past you can't change it!
I adore Paris' strength and courage. The world of fame is cruel and turbulant but despite what everyones assumed about her over the years shes shown how headstrong, independent and smart she is. Paris4ever 💕
She has the sweetest disposition 🌱
You never know what beautiful people go through... I'm so sorry she had to go through that. If I could ever say anything to her it would be "You are LOVED!"
...I love it..so honest about the stuff that actually matters..grandma loved her well
Wow…she’s such a good person for forgiving her parents. I hold grudges. My mother would never see me again nor would I forgive her.
same here
Paris, you sweet woman, I know how hard that was to open up....this is your new begining ....you want to get help to overcome the abuse you dealt with, the best thing I have found is thanking them for teach you what NOT TO DO in your own life. You are so beautiful go out there my dear and reach for the sky you are Blessed. you will find your way for sure
This therapist is really good...
Paris…you are afraid to hurt your mom’s feelings…she may leave you. She may reject you…
You got this 💗
Totally agree with you! I think also that Paris still thinks that she went there because she deserved it,because she was "wild child" (paraphrasing her mother's words). Kathy said once that sending her in that school was the only chance they had as parents to "save her". And maybe deep down Paris don't want to talk about this with her parents because they would tell her"but you were so out of control we needed to do this"..
Peter is the BEST.
I hope her mother apologizes and Paris continues to see Peter, this beauty is still traumatized and it WILL impact her relationship
Paris you're gonna be ok.. You are super strong. Special. Doing this work now is so important to gain thehe happiness you spoke of.
Dear Paris! I have followed your life story now for quite a while and have noticed how much you simply love nature and the peace and tranquility it brings. Your life in the fast lane has no space for that. Why I say this, is because I am a lover of nature in it’s purest form… you are such a lovely person… try and make more time for being in nature… cancel some of those “plastic world” events that exhaust you! Go for long sunset walks with Carter, and camel rides in the desert and come and visit one of the beautiful wildlife reserves in Southern Africa… and bring the doggies! God bless🌹
She breaks my heart!
Her real voice is mature and engaging. It makes one interested in hearing what she wants to say. That altered voice does not do her justice and really represents her as immature, childish and unintelligible. I by some of what I have seen she is and intelligent woman with much to give.
Perhaps take your trauma and sit with people who otherwise would not see the limelight (social media, public views).
Without cameras and all the entourage. Who had been through such trauma.
I can totally relate to how she feels and describes how she feels at the end of this conversation
Paris the world populations love u. U have the most love from us!
Umm this guy is good I feel like I went through therapy
Right!
Is that real...sometimes rating is more important than life...i dont know..
Right!
@@cinthyacalderon6235, def this real, I’ve been to numerous therapist & this man is really good! He’s seeing Paris Hilton, they can afford the Best
Love u Paris, always Have ❣️ stay strong girl. ❣️
Parents, from the beginning… employ discipline, boundaries & a lot of love & your time. Letting them have everything & do what they want is dangerous & can lead down a very dark road. Also, shut down any facility that abuses anyone. Hard lessons are ok. Terrifying children & abusing them MUST STOP. Now!!!🙏🇺🇸
I love this Authenticity!
I think her mother was too occupied with high society to be able to manage her child’s troubles. Therefore she got sent away by however means necessary. I doubt her father has a backbone than to stand up to The Almighty Kathy Hilton. I watched one of these episodes where Kathy was legit serious about taking back a wedding gift because they weren’t using it the right way. The sheer panic on Paris face explained so much. It was quite evident that Kathy and her control over Paris is a major trigger to her anxiety and depression. Paris needs to learn to set boundaries with her mother. BIGTIME!
(╯︵╰,) My heart is breaking to hear her talk about this and even now the vulnerable little girl....
I just want to hug her.
One thing I do know is that she's going to break through and be happy and fabulous ♡
Aww Paris I love you stay strong ❤️🩹
i hope she’s having therapy off camera too
I actually feel like I can relate to what she is saying ...
It's so much easier to feel for Paris when she uses her natural voice...... When she's just herself..... I think this is just an 'adult'Paris....I think I'd like her. I can't imagine a parent sending their child to a 'correction' camp. I would be terrified. That is emotional abuse in itself. Thank goodness she's healing this. I really feel for her.
Her parents are narcissists ... and sadly the abuse Paris endured means she probably has huge emotional struggles in all her intimate relationships. She has a lot to deal with and it's all her parents' fault.
You are an amazing and beautiful woman and so brave!!! I’m so sorry that you are an abuse survivor like me, but it wasn’t our fault and nothing can stop us now!!! Fierce Force of truth and love! My respect for you has increased 100% Thanks for sharing your story!!!
Your strong...P❤ you got this👊
I think the reason why she waited until she was 40 to get married was because I think she didn’t wanna grow up and settle down. Probably because part of her childhood was taken due to her parents sending her to that abusive boarding school and them just being really really strict while growing up. But go Paris!
I ❤ Paris Hilton!!!!
She wants to grow up and be a woman! Not a little girl! Change is hard. Not impossible.
I agree
Poor girl. What an awful life, truly. Money… but a very sad experience. I hope she can heal.
The worst part about those interventions is that the "advice" came from other parents, or someone that heard about it😠
Now I know why she always has her dogs , they help her and bring her comfort :(
You can't feel "healed" if you don't go thru the step by step process of the trauma.
What does that even mean?
@@pvoss3073 Go to Counseling. You will figure it out
I think Paris was also 5150d or ‘formed’ at some point in addition to being sent to those schools. There’s more stigma/shame in a psych hold, but I think that goes to why she may still not feel safe. She could be formed again.
Plus she saw what happened to Britney.
The best healing would be a baby!👼
She talking about kinds the reform school girls there is a 80ds movies on the abuse that goes on in these types of schools of course it is called reform school girls watch it and it like what she talking about crazy I feel bad for her man dam nobody deserves this I hope she find peace from it God bless her and the people here
OMG!!! 😭
I feel like paris talks in her baby voice when she doesn't feel safe, doesn't trust someone .. she is kinda talking halfway there here
I do feel it's hard to talk to my father. He just doesn't care and understand
Paris, your one wonderful women❤️❤️
I'm curious- do her parents also get charged with any form of assault for allowing others to abuse and kidnap their child?
I have a shirt just like Paris has on....
I hope she got married for all the right reasons,and not because it's due to time running out....
You gotta marry the right person,I just don't believe Pais loves him like I love my ex boyfriend!!....
She's an amazing woman,and I believe I would make Paris a better Wifey,if she likes girls,she needs to be in love,not just loved.
💜💜💜
Therapist is saying yep way too much - just listen
😢❤❤❤
New drinking game......take a shot everytime the therapist says "yeah"
This is so sad 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Paris ! Jesus loves you , He died on the cross for you , God created you and He longs To set you free , you have to forgive whoever has wronged you 🙏
Therapy should be private, how much genuine healing can be done when something like this is made public?Good for her for getting help, I pray she finds healing. But it’s a shame such an important moment was made public, she deserves privacy.
I disagree. This is a clip not a full hour long session. Do you see her holding back? She is being very open and vulnerable as if camera isn’t there. Therapy should be private if therapist & his client agree to it. She is showing her journey to heal from trauma which many people suffer from and don’t know how to do it or think therapy can work. They definitely have sessions off-camera and he checks-in because he’s a damn good therapist. Can everyone do this or should do this? Hell no. And from what I see, they are being very responsible with how it’s shown.
I was at a girls boarding school in Africa, Zambia. Though it's one of the best schools and I had a good life their, I saw the life their and other girls tramautise each other. So much goes in at boarding school. As much as it helped, I wouldn't like to send my kids their.
im sorry but every parent who does this kind of things should be in jail... her parents contributed for her life trauma is just disgusting. we love u P.
Mulanya hanya Jalan-Jalan ke Amerika akhirnya dapat Jodoh Orang Amerika Paris Hilton.
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I am so heartbroken. I want to do something We are in Miami FLorida. How can we help make some noise and end these torture chambers?
There must be a way ♥️
You can have all the money in the world but still feel so empty inside. Paris the only one that can truly heal you and fill you with the emptiness you have is God. He loves you and wants to show himself in your life.
How come she has a different therapist every time and why is this on tv?
Therapy cannot be so public….This has become entertainment
As much as I like people normalizing therapy, I have to agree. Therapy should be private so that you can build up your self preservation skills. Also, predatory people hunt for those that they think are weak.
Jesus is her healer
Nobody has a perfect that’s for sure
He charges for just replying yeah 😳😖
Does anyone know the name of this therapist?
Horrible parents you have paris.i wont never do this to my girls.we are here to protect our children.may god protect you
I feel bad for Paris but this therapist liked yeah'd her like 5 million times before giving her any advice
it's like her parents wanted to discipline her abusively but were rich enough to hire someone to be the bad guys for them
I do not watch this whole video but just parts. Should be happy to move on with her new husband but seems not yet. I have some thoughts but prefer not say about it.
I don't know if I can believe this she's had such a privileged life that she's just not believable.
I don't know how you can every speak to your mother!!! She should be in prison for what she put you through as well as those sick sick sick abusive people!? Where are they?? In prison??
Why recording therapy sessions that are supposed to be intimate experience??She just deprived herself of that. And the therapist is soooo much in his head. Actually not therapist, more counsellor. For watching exquisite therapy sessions watch "Gloria"with Fritz Perls and Carl Rogers.
Whta happened that night???!! When she was being taken away and her parents saw and did nothing? I don't know this story guys
She needs to love and forgive herself.
Wow, yeah, unfortunately, I can image some. I went thru my own period of such trauma. I realized many years later after watching an Oprah episode that the reason that I was still experiencing this trauma from time to time was that I was still in the presence of my abusers. It"s like holding your breath every time they walk in the room waiting for them to leave so you can exhale. Even though, I was virtually over it and survived anyway by the grace of God, I did learn from it the heartaches of what a broken world can sometimes look like. So try not to take it personal even though it was. That's developing a thick skin. So my intellect now understood, however the residue of the abuse and trauma I experienced showed itself in the immature habits of it"s behavior to survive. That is why it was hard to separate. You have to overcome the bad habits of those child like manifestations of your abuse. How awful baby. But your good now. Your grown and survived and did it. The people in your life that may trigger your memory, if not able to get away from them in your life does have to be addressed like it finally is, but then you now have permission to let it go in terms of your own self justice finally being somewhat served. Your true justice will only be in Jesus Christ, but you have your freedom now. Your on the right track baby keep going. Let go and let God. Refuse to entertain any more thoughts as they may appear from time to time and soon you'll see a new beautiful life unfolding in front of you. Love you Paris. Be brave. Enjoy this beautiful life ahead of you now. And if ever u need to make a turn. Use your tongue as your utter and glide your turn as you've been doing so gracefully all along here. You have permission to say no. And don't look back. XO
Wearing a butterfly dress 🤨…abusé . My ultra much
And necklace but I just told my mind that I'm overthinking things
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Surely her parents must have known, the rich have the resources to know things the average wouldn't, and if they really didn't know the parental instincts should have kicked in when who ever suggested kidnapping her while asleep in her room that's trauma for life...
So he is a Therapist? Agreeing with the patient isn't therapy it is just reinforcing the patient having a horrific experience. he is terrible
Butterfly effect.. every lie will be revealed
Do not believe her at all. Made up drama. Nicky doesn't have these issues. Why this one? Seems to everyone, ph is spoiled. Has been all her life.
Nicky wasn’t sent away
We live in a fallen world ☺️
This therapist is effectively re-traumatizing her. Asking someone to talk about traumatic content is actually incredibly re-traumatizing and unethical. Him bringing up the moment she was kidnapped is the opposite of trauma informed care and so disappointing.
Also just asking “are you safe?” and trying to convince a person they’re safe now completely ignores how the nervous system is affected by trauma. Of course Paris, a multi millionaire, is physically safe, but when the nervous system is traumatized you can’t just snap into a feeling of safety or convince your brain you are. Ugh this is so frustrating to watch.
I don’t agree. Therapy is a safe place to voice your hurt and fears without judgment. To go through something so hard you need to at least talk about it at some point and say “ this happened to me, it hurt me, it may not have been fair, and it still haunts me”. He gives her a voice where before she had to feel the fear and wasn’t allowed to say anything. All these years she has probably never talked about it. In young trauma you think “ well thank God it’s over , I’ll be okay” and that is what she said. Later the trauma and memories resurface or you are able to see how it has affected your life. She needs to examine it and feel it safely in order to accept it and learn that she can examine it and overcome it. That bad things happen and people find ways to be resilient, which is much easier with help. One of the factors that determines levels of resilience is having one place of support. He is letting her know he understands how what happened was so traumatic. It has probably been white washed all these years by her family. Finally she has someone that sees the injury and wants to help. It’s like a child showing you here boo boo and liking wearing a bandage. They can see the damage, get empathy and see how the bandage helps them heal and be strong. I can’t imagine keeping that bottled up and thinking it was her fault.
@The Bath Tree he's going too fast, I agree she needs to confront the issue with provo and her parents, he has some very valid points but he's taking her through everything too quickly jumping on issues he already spotted in the documentary and trying solve them, it's very one sided its all coming from him