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  • Paris Hilton opens up to a mind architect about her worst nightmare while Kathy Hilton attends her first therapy session. Emotions run high on Paris in Love!
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    Fashion icon, entrepreneur and global phenom Paris Hilton prepares to add a new title to her collection: bride. Finding love with Carter Reum, a successful venture capitalist, has brought Paris into the next phase of her life as she hopes to walk down the aisle with the man of her dreams. From bridal dress shopping and choosing the venue to designing her dream destination wedding and participating in her bachelorette party, Paris discovers that the road to the altar has a few unexpected twists and turns along the way. With the help of her family and friends, the former “Simple Life” songstress hopes to find her own “happily ever after.”
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  • @eentertainment
    @eentertainment  2 роки тому +76

    So nice to see Paris & Kathy on a healing journey😌

  • @sarahcampbell8071
    @sarahcampbell8071 6 місяців тому +44

    I love how Carter is so tuned in to Paris he knows when shes not saying how she feels or what shes thinking

    • @berry6467
      @berry6467 2 місяці тому +2

      Because he wants her the Hilton name association. He’ll do anything to secure and elevate his legacy while abandoning his other daughter.

    • @sarahcampbell8071
      @sarahcampbell8071 2 місяці тому +1

      @berry6467 no he loves her.

    • @samanthacartwright3407
      @samanthacartwright3407 Місяць тому

      @@sarahcampbell8071no he doesn’t he’s a controlling freak

  • @TTSantiago821
    @TTSantiago821 2 роки тому +203

    That hellium Balloon voice is a clear sign of how she disassociates at times.

    • @silvietee7447
      @silvietee7447 7 місяців тому +5

      And she struggles to keep it consistent.

    • @Sugaree0310
      @Sugaree0310 7 місяців тому +14

      She’s admitted it’s not her real voice. That hers persona

    • @hayley8715
      @hayley8715 7 місяців тому +6

      Her Mum does baby talk sometimes too.

    • @jeanc9868
      @jeanc9868 7 місяців тому +2

      She does it because she's shy usually I think

    • @Narges1802
      @Narges1802 4 місяці тому

      Its a very girly/feminine way to speak to your man sometimes

  • @wally6914
    @wally6914 2 роки тому +249

    Kathy's therapist almost made me cry. She's so in tuned. Me and my family need therapy like this. We are a mess

    • @issapg9002
      @issapg9002 2 роки тому +15

      Any therapy can help you, give it a try. You deserve to heal. ❣

    • @bleh3039
      @bleh3039 2 роки тому +14

      Honey that’s every family, no family is perfect

    • @md8388
      @md8388 2 роки тому +4

      💯

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 2 роки тому +15

      Be careful who you go to. Some therapy is very harmful if the person doing it is sick themselves. They can cause huge setbacks. Remember they are there for you. If you don't like them, don't go back. Trust yourself.

    • @elizabethwilk9615
      @elizabethwilk9615 2 роки тому +9

      A therapist messed up my friends son more. He was doing some drugs and the therapist said: you are mom is too controlling - smoking pit is ok. Well he move on from pot and stop listening to his mom with that reaffirmation then had a psychotic attack and went missing - fortunately his mom found him in a park and put him in rehab. I don’t trust a lot of therapist - do research and ask questions.

  • @user-mr4cs3do5j
    @user-mr4cs3do5j 7 місяців тому +42

    Kathy’s therapy is kinda breaking the therapist code by telling her everything and being the only one talking instead of allowing Kathy to make her own breakthroughs and understand her emotions and actions on her own

    • @Serenityblu23
      @Serenityblu23 7 місяців тому +1

      I would love a therapist like that. All mine did was tell me about her own problems.

    • @laurenjackson2810
      @laurenjackson2810 6 місяців тому +6

      Yeah idk if it’s the editing, but it’s like Kathy said one word & the therapist went on & on & on lol. But more so she was telling Kathy how to feel which isn’t okay. She gave me more Life Coach vibes & way less therapist.

    • @jcyensen1236
      @jcyensen1236 5 місяців тому +2

      Kathy even controls who the therapist is. I hope Paris keeps that therapist she had and has her own therapy session without Kathy also.

  • @tesshowdieshell6553
    @tesshowdieshell6553 2 роки тому +115

    Carter and Paris are so freaking cute together. So glad she is happy and growing.

  • @erikavaleries
    @erikavaleries 2 роки тому +261

    Baby voice happens to many traumatized women, not just Paris. Especially survivors of sexual abuse

    • @liverbirdxoxo1984
      @liverbirdxoxo1984 Рік тому +21

      Was looking for this comment.... mine started about age 7! I started to want
      To regress to a safer time... still do from time to time, I tend to stammer these days...

    • @treatmefavourably9825
      @treatmefavourably9825 Рік тому +2

      @@liverbirdxoxo1984 Good luck.

    • @thebrunetteinroom7
      @thebrunetteinroom7 Рік тому +6

      😂😂😂😂😂it’s aging women trying to sound younger. Give me a break! LIES. I know plenty of women who lived that, none of them do this!!!! It’s narcissism

    • @sez187
      @sez187 Рік тому +1

      Yesss.

    • @user-nf9xm7is3m
      @user-nf9xm7is3m Рік тому +27

      @@thebrunetteinroom7 you know what is truly narcissistic? Dismissing what could be coping menchaisms of trauma as just narcissist. That's the thing about narcs, everyone else is one...

  • @jn8922
    @jn8922 2 роки тому +95

    Kathy reminds me of my friend's mother when we were in high school. She looked down on me and my family but let me tell you something, the things her daughter did, I never did - my friend made very bad choices. I love my friend but her mother thinking she was this upper class strict disciplinarian is what messed up her kids so badly. Its so unfair that parents get to say it was the past, I did my best but those issues are embedded into the very fabric of their kid's personality. You can work on your issues and heal for sure but you can't erase your memories.

    • @spookytyster4712
      @spookytyster4712 2 роки тому +7

      Same story with my best friend from high school. Sammmme thing. Funny how things turn out .

    • @felisahenderson3879
      @felisahenderson3879 Рік тому

      Oh man some kids over e exaggerate...and sometimes you should deal with it and move on a look how they said Kathy mom was

    • @felisahenderson3879
      @felisahenderson3879 Рік тому

      And sometimes a mom being the over protective is to save the lives of the kids and it's ok it's just we expect our kids to be as strong as we are or stronger and it's not the case all the time

  • @Nailsnailsnailsallday
    @Nailsnailsnailsallday 2 роки тому +282

    I love Paris voice It goes from helium balloon to her real voice

    • @CCassiiBOO
      @CCassiiBOO 2 роки тому +2

      😭

    • @thestumpavarieteeshow
      @thestumpavarieteeshow 2 роки тому +12

      Yuppp lol. Let alone her husband's "helium" voice that changes as well lol. Sorry, this is so fake of a relationship. The bachelor Bachelorette party was the nail on the coffin. He def wanted some of the holla hoop men that were their 😆 🤣 😂

    • @ASMRBYAMALIA
      @ASMRBYAMALIA 2 роки тому +2

      @@thestumpavarieteeshow he’s not gay

    • @MissAliciaH
      @MissAliciaH 2 роки тому +2

      all in one breath

    • @md8388
      @md8388 2 роки тому

      😭😭😭

  • @cassiephillips9011
    @cassiephillips9011 Рік тому +75

    I love that she’s constantly wearing butterflies 🦋,it’s almost like her saying she’s been in a metaphorically changing place and now she’s this spiritually, beautiful,truly happy butterfly !True love is a pure ,powerful ,healing force that can teach us so much about ourselves good and bad!!!!

    • @planetruther
      @planetruther Рік тому +12

      Nope. It's the monarch butterfly. Look it up in connection with MK Ultra

    • @thebrunetteinroom7
      @thebrunetteinroom7 Рік тому +1

      Lol. You guys are all nuts. They aren’t that deep. Shallow as sht.

    • @lrlavalais2068
      @lrlavalais2068 Рік тому

      You've got a long way to go if you think that the butterfly represents something else. Not only that, Paris is not even a real woman and neither is his brother Nikki Hilton who is was his handler at one time, and now it's the so called husband who is also inverted. Don't be fooled by these CHARACTERS.The deception is just as deep as the rabbit hole.

    • @alishaostrowski5250
      @alishaostrowski5250 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@planetrutherwow 😮 thank u for saying what I wanted too

    • @SowingSeedsWithChristy
      @SowingSeedsWithChristy 7 місяців тому +1

      And yet there are lots of MK things without butterflies so her choice to wear them can still carry significance. Just saying. 🦋

  • @dianacuevas3986
    @dianacuevas3986 Рік тому +39

    I really feel for Paris and her mom. Takes a lot of courage to come clean and work through trauma. I hope that she heals herself and her family.

  • @caffein1110
    @caffein1110 2 роки тому +54

    I give a shout out to Paris and her mom for saving people who could be held miserable in the horrible school facilities. Paris looks bomb as always.

  • @annalam6626
    @annalam6626 2 роки тому +99

    Kathy didn't hear anything the therapist said. She was listening but she didn't take it to heart you can just see it in her face. And at the end when she says I feel I am that, you know she doesn't see that she was part of the problem

    • @jn8922
      @jn8922 2 роки тому +11

      It might just be the botox though

    • @Rontlc3317
      @Rontlc3317 Рік тому +1

      @@jn8922 I doubt it

    • @olgamelo5227
      @olgamelo5227 Рік тому +9

      My feelings entirely.The face of a cold, manipulative narcisist

    • @scrappymom7881
      @scrappymom7881 10 місяців тому +6

      I don't fully agree. You can tell she really loves her daughters, and she wants to fix the trauma, but there's a good chance that everything she is hearing and preparing herself for is very foreign to how she has thought and believed her whole life. Changing a mind set, changing how you cope with things, changing how you show people love and support doesn't happen over night or during a single conversation. My guess is that she's simply taking in what the therapist is saying, trying to figure out how much makes sense right now and how much she has to still think about to figure out how she feels about it all. To me, the look on her face wasn't a blank stare of "whatever, I'm going to continue doing things my way", it was more of a deep, mental processing with the intent to continue processing on her own later.

    • @janettripper3132
      @janettripper3132 10 місяців тому +5

      Sometimes I’m like .. Is there some type of old, old contract or legal thing that swindled Paris and makes it so she can’t disown this broad.

  • @janettripper3132
    @janettripper3132 10 місяців тому +36

    Yeah. It was so hard for Kathy that night that she then only spent 15 minutes with her daughter for 18 months and didn’t care that she had withered down in body from malnourishment and was crying and begging to be brought home. It’s ridiculous when Kathy still gets domineering with Paris. I would just disown these narcissistic parents. Paris is so forgiving of them. Kathy is showing zero emotion in the session. She’s an ice queen.

    • @chrissis1944
      @chrissis1944 7 місяців тому +4

      She probably still believe it was the best thing to do 😭😭😭

    • @EgoNextDoor
      @EgoNextDoor 6 місяців тому +3

      100%. After 30y of abuse, I decided to disown my parents. Hardest yet best decision I’ve ever made.

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@chrissis1944 Kathy has said she made the best decision with Paris, and she stands by it to this day.

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab 2 місяці тому +2

      Paris is still in line to inherit a ton of Hilton stocks, cash, real estate, and other property, which she will never jeopardize. Though I have nowhere near the Hilton wealth in my family, but I have a grandparent who rules others with money, property, and the threat of disinheritance for those who don't kiss the ring. He has a manipulative, gatekeeper grandchild from whom he gets input, and who will malign and impugn others to get my grandparent to favor her in his decision-making. Several months ago, for my own peace of mind and strength, I had no option but to cut them loose. Though I haven't been able to make a complete break because other family members are involved, I went Gray Rock. Either simply speaking or keeping conversations at the surface level is the best choice for me.

  • @sodaniel1
    @sodaniel1 Рік тому +21

    Kathy is cold…. Paris is a Warm Star 🌟 Shine and Sparkle Paris! Be fun and enjoy the rest of your life

    • @Iman8856
      @Iman8856 Рік тому

      I think she just has a hard time showing emotion

  • @ObservingtheMatrix
    @ObservingtheMatrix 2 роки тому +30

    I always knew Paris was gonna come out on top! Such a real one!

  • @gemma1874
    @gemma1874 8 місяців тому +18

    Carter is amazing. Very very supportive

    • @susanking8409
      @susanking8409 8 місяців тому +4

      Such a good listener.

    • @mieshonwalker8635
      @mieshonwalker8635 7 місяців тому

      He's a deadbeat. Ask about his first kid.

    • @gemma1874
      @gemma1874 7 місяців тому

      @@susanking8409 so true

  • @marytapioca
    @marytapioca 2 роки тому +62

    Paris, "your trauma contributed to who you are." That's so true. Some people are as pretty, but you have that heartache damage that shines through your eyes, and that's absolutely beautiful.

    • @user-nf9xm7is3m
      @user-nf9xm7is3m Рік тому +2

      How could heartbreak and damage be beautiful? In my mind it's the opposite.

  • @sj8175
    @sj8175 2 роки тому +194

    Paris and kathy will never heal. That lain and distrust will always be there. I just want to hug Paris and tell her she is enough

    • @KarlaLoves1D
      @KarlaLoves1D 2 роки тому +12

      Aww, this makes me sad. I hope they do. They can afford the best therapists, psychiatrists, etc. That being said, everyone has family issues. I really hope they can work past it and move on. Speaking from my own experience, I find it hard to forgive people who hurt you, but it needs to be done in order to move on.

    • @elizabethwilk9615
      @elizabethwilk9615 2 роки тому +7

      I don’t agree they have a great relationship

    • @sj8175
      @sj8175 2 роки тому

      @@elizabethwilk9615 their relationship is just more of them covering it up. Put yourself in Paris' shoes. Her mother let people drag her from her home not once but to multiple facilities and camps just to control her for living in any way that did not fit into her mother's tea party and dresses life style. She survived and succeeded despite her mother . Even her wedding was being made to be about Kathy by Kathy. Behaviors have not changed and no there is no healing there

    • @mirjanapucarevic2105
      @mirjanapucarevic2105 2 роки тому +8

      I think her mother doesn't get it she seemed cold,not aware of ...

    • @ASMRBYAMALIA
      @ASMRBYAMALIA 2 роки тому +3

      Why u gottta be so negative? I can see that kathys trying so that’s a start.

  • @shannenspence3318
    @shannenspence3318 2 роки тому +30

    I like Paris so much more now...She is just 'normal' now.....No more little voice.....no more 'posing' for a camera.... Just HERSELF. I admire her for talking through all of this trauma. It's not easy talking about deep emotional trauma,and if she can heal that,more power to Paris.

    • @susanking8409
      @susanking8409 8 місяців тому +3

      I just finished her book. I could barely stand reading about her struggles, so I have no idea how she survived that.

  • @sez187
    @sez187 Рік тому +10

    Peter is THE BEST!
    😍❤
    I hear the traumatized little girl in her voice 🥺😥 so proud of her for getting help.

  • @ADDAuntDawnDisorder
    @ADDAuntDawnDisorder 2 роки тому +18

    Relationships with moms & sisters can be really hard sometimes.❤️🙏

  • @mynameisnotme1866
    @mynameisnotme1866 2 роки тому +25

    I love Paris for her strength to show her traumas from childhood and her experience and hidden suffering . And to expose that , and not only the perfect superficial side of her . Made me be a fan , after seen her documentary ……

  • @ADDAuntDawnDisorder
    @ADDAuntDawnDisorder 2 роки тому +34

    Being taken is an extremely traumatic, horrifying & helpless experience that can take a lifetime to get over. Seeing your parents being “ok” with that must be devastating. Sadly, I do believe that they were convinced this was the only way to save their daughter. Alcohol & drug treatment centers teach family members about codependent, enabling & manipulation issues. It is hard all the way around, but shoot … getting over being taken must be VERY difficult. Not a good situation.❤️🙏

    • @travelseatsyellowlab
      @travelseatsyellowlab 2 місяці тому

      Rick and Kathy could've managed their daughter at home had they simply spent more time with her. Instead, they were too busy socializing and jet setting, so as a result, their daughter got lost, figuratively. By the time they were attuned to the issues, they were so great that serious intervention became necessary.

  • @lulularoar7157
    @lulularoar7157 2 роки тому +66

    As a therapist, I do like to let my clients talk and allow space for their own realisations .... Kathy got off lightly there ...

    • @frozenwarning
      @frozenwarning 2 роки тому +10

      And she’s got quite a poker face!

    • @elizabethwilk9615
      @elizabethwilk9615 2 роки тому +1

      Don’t agree. She was confronted with her daughter raising hell and in danger and trusted this school that also betrayed her

    • @bethkeithley7920
      @bethkeithley7920 2 роки тому +15

      I got the feeling Kathy was stonewalling a bit. I think the therapist felt pressured to fill the space as Kathy was pretty non-responsive. It's edited do who knows tho. 🤷‍♀️

    • @Kp.adventure.traveler
      @Kp.adventure.traveler 2 роки тому +4

      Also too much talking by the therapist. It's their job to *listen* and guide, not blab on. What a shame.

    • @KB-nr3ls
      @KB-nr3ls 2 роки тому +5

      @@Kp.adventure.traveler go look up the word "stonewalling" and then re-read Beth Keithly's response above. Kathy Hilton was basically avoiding talking about the problem, so yes, because Kathy wouldn't participate, while taping the therapist seems to be talking a lot but only to give Kathy a break. If this was a private therapy session, the therapist most likely would have talked less and not filled in the silent space as a method of gently urging Kathy to be more reflective and self-disclosing. Kathy has probably practiced stonewalling techniques most of her life and gotten away with them because money lends itself to unconfronted power.

  • @samanthasmiles9112
    @samanthasmiles9112 2 роки тому +25

    Kathy's therapist needs to stop talking. As a therapist, your supposed to let the person discover their own truths while guiding them.

    • @KB-nr3ls
      @KB-nr3ls 2 роки тому +5

      Kathy Hilton needs to start talking, insteading of stonewalling the therapist. The therapist was letting Kathy off the hook. In real life without a camera present, maybe Kathy would have talked more. If the session had taken place in the therapist's office, the therapist would not have filled in the silent spaces, and probably would have gently urged Kathy to self-disclose more by asking her much deeper secondary questions--that in the therapist's opinion were too pointed/private/embarrassing to ask a client on a "reality" T.V. show. Kathy Hilton needs to get real and let down her guard--but if that happens at all--it is not going to be a breakthrough that is filmed for all the world to see.

  • @jvalentino6466
    @jvalentino6466 Рік тому +7

    I can tell her mom is a sweep under a rug type. And paris not being vocal n confrontational i feel like she just keeps it to herself and agrees all her life

  • @ruthyaya
    @ruthyaya 2 роки тому +83

    Kathy's very traumatized and closed off. She's not ready and deeply afraid (as a result defensive) to hear the truth and admit and own her own mistakes and harm she caused for her family.

  • @jillmccandless403
    @jillmccandless403 Рік тому +6

    I love it! " you don't give yourself enough credit..." "the past doesn't define you it just becomes a part of what makes you strong" (I'm paraphrasing) 🧡

  • @dananicole3969
    @dananicole3969 2 роки тому +26

    Kathy hilton seems like a cold fish too me,paris seems much warmer personality than her mom.

  • @pearlgirl5643
    @pearlgirl5643 7 місяців тому +5

    Money can’t shield you from narcissistic abuse - nothing can but learning about this blight on humanity! KNOW YOUR RIGHTS THEY’RE FREE AND YOU SHOULD BE TOO!

  • @sherrycorless14
    @sherrycorless14 2 роки тому +81

    Paris- Something that I recently learned from my own traumatic experience is, that instead of looking at it like “why did this happen to me?” I Look at it like, “this happened for me.” I hope I’m making sense…
    But looking at like
    “this happened for me,” allowed me to understand that yes I was a victim, but this doesn’t define who I am. And that God wants me to experience things for whatever reason in the future. I hope this helps you and I wish you the best in your future endeavors.
    Much love for you!

    • @cereal_qilla
      @cereal_qilla 2 роки тому +2

      Thank you

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 2 роки тому +1

      When we're on the Otherside we chose what we're going to go through. We chose our parents too. No one is punished. This is absolutely for our Souls learning. We grow from contrast.
      We are on a stage for all the souls on the Otherside to watch and learn from as well. Everything is on display. Nothing is hidden. Just do your best and keep trying. Your spirit guide is always available ✨️ learn to trust, they really do love and care for you.

  • @lovedbymyfatherwhoisinheav8485
    @lovedbymyfatherwhoisinheav8485 2 роки тому +160

    Not in just this episode, but every single one I've watched, I say this...Kathy Hilton is the most unlikeable person I've ever seen in my life! I'm sorry, Paris, I know she's your mom, but, MAN, bless your heart!

    • @ericag5346
      @ericag5346 2 роки тому +30

      If I had to guess I think Kathy is narcissistic and it's hard to be around people that act that way and have those traits but we should try to love everyone including their faults.

    • @lovedbymyfatherwhoisinheav8485
      @lovedbymyfatherwhoisinheav8485 2 роки тому +9

      @@ericag5346 You're right. I do love how she is in her daughter's life, which shows she truly does love and cares deeply about her, and that says a lot. That was a very unloving thing for me to say and kudos to MY kids for putting up with me!

    • @MichaeljWatanabe
      @MichaeljWatanabe 2 роки тому

      Agreed

    • @felisahenderson3879
      @felisahenderson3879 Рік тому +3

      I just love her

    • @pacificpearl7165
      @pacificpearl7165 Рік тому +7

      You should watch her documentary if you haven’t already, it’s insane how much Kathy put her through.

  • @JosannaMonik
    @JosannaMonik 6 місяців тому +2

    Family dynamics can be fascinating. We tend to balance each other out.

  • @theironann5109
    @theironann5109 Рік тому +4

    That therapist spoke more than Kathy. I want her money back 😂

  • @lindax0879
    @lindax0879 2 роки тому +22

    I love Paris two voices .

  • @sherried4219
    @sherried4219 Рік тому +6

    wow Paris, you are still gorgeous ,i almost didnt recognize you, i love the new look and your voice . you have grown up nicely , and bless you for coming forward and if one person gets something from this ,its worth it . bless you

  • @Laura22_new
    @Laura22_new 2 роки тому +31

    You guys? OF COURSE she uses a baby voice. She wants to revert to a baby, a little girl, when she was ACTUALLY protected by her parents. When she was a teenager and started to grow up (and get a bit rebellious and not be a perfect little girl) her parents literally paid people to drag her away in a dangerous situation in the middle of the night, and her parents stood by and did nothing. Granted, they thought they were getting her into an effective “scared straight/tough love” program. But the reality is: Paris did not know what was going on and was violently dragged away while her parents looked on and did not help her. Scarred for life. Her baby voice is a coping mechanism that protects her. And later on, after her abusive and traumatic experience, the baby voice gained her popularity and money…her own money, which equaled security. Do you get it yet?

    • @thebrunetteinroom7
      @thebrunetteinroom7 Рік тому

      😂😂😂it’s what happens when vain shallow women get old. They try to stay young. It’s also very manipulative.

    • @Laura22_new
      @Laura22_new Рік тому +7

      @@thebrunetteinroom7 After she was literally abused, why wouldn’t she try to manipulate (aka control) her surroundings? Of course she lost trust in parents, etc.

  • @bigang869
    @bigang869 2 роки тому +16

    I love paris. Ive always loved her!

  • @rileyreese3991
    @rileyreese3991 11 місяців тому +7

    Her mother is totally not owning the responsibility that ultimately caused the trauma for Paris. Her mother is rejecting that. Also that therapy session for Paris, ugh, it wan't fully there. Paris is truly a warrior goddess at this point. But she can't let the mother to control her, Paris doesn't even realise shes a phoenix, shes above her mother and all the others. The therapist should have stayed with her and allowed to feel all the pain, and go deeper to the fact that she feels like her mom is controlling. Yes she is and she is even controlling Paris trauma and healing narrative now just to save her own skin. I wish for deepest healing and strength for Paris, and also if that means she cuts off all communication with her family for some time and calls them out for the BS, she can do it.

  • @iletaitunefois11
    @iletaitunefois11 Рік тому +38

    Wearing monarch butterflies when going through therapy... I just hope she is okay

    • @shay3223
      @shay3223 Рік тому +9

      Yasss...you noticed too!

    • @leeannasloan2292
      @leeannasloan2292 Рік тому +7

      First thing I noticed. I wonder if she was programmed at some point and all the stress is coming out of that programming.

    • @planetruther
      @planetruther Рік тому +3

      🎯 BINGO

    • @thebrunetteinroom7
      @thebrunetteinroom7 Рік тому +2

      @@leeannasloan2292 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @lrlavalais2068
      @lrlavalais2068 Рік тому +1

      Wow, his voice go from man to baby. Deep, deep mind control, trying to break free.

  • @frozenwarning
    @frozenwarning 2 роки тому +12

    Awe Paris’ man is so sweet

  • @delilahgreen5946
    @delilahgreen5946 Рік тому +9

    Kathy's Therapist did more talking than listening honestly.

  • @olgamelo5227
    @olgamelo5227 Рік тому +16

    I watched Paris documentary and while I could not love her more for her strength, have immense empathy for what she went though and profound admiration for the human being she is. I don't feel the same about her mother. In that documentary I saw a cold, manipulative, narcissistic woman. Ok she was in front of the cameras then and still is in this video but is wearing a mask . All I can see is an emotionless, cold Narcissists lacking in empathy and accountability for what she did to Paris and the abandonment she subjected her to when they put her in that Hell of a school. The reason Paris rebelled as a child in the first place was probably due to the fact that she wanted to get away from the controlling, manipulative, rigid, cold and narcissist mother. Lets not even talk about the father as I haven't seen any of his interviews. I assume he is an enabler, just let Paris mother do what she pleased. They will never accept responsibility for what they did to Paris, the scapegoat. Kathy's certainly did not love Paris as she did "love" Nicky or lets put this way, Kathy projected her shadow in Paris or unconsciously felt jealousy and animosity towards Paris. Nothing that Paris did was right, on the contrary, her light, enormous creativity and determination was a treat to her mediocre mother. So they locked her up to break her spirit! I understand we're trauma bonded and try to forgive our abusers but Narcissists rarely change. I just want to give Paris a big hug and say you;re not alone.

    • @pearlgirl5643
      @pearlgirl5643 7 місяців тому +1

      From one narc abuse survivor to another, I see you👁️ Well done!❤

    • @T.020
      @T.020 6 місяців тому

      Do you think there is still hope? That kathy eventually realized what she did to her first Born? And truly change for the better?

    • @pearlgirl5643
      @pearlgirl5643 6 місяців тому

      @@T.020 I come from a family of narcissists and if I had her money, I would take it now and run! She’s still being scapegoated by jealous family, and that “nice” husband is going to stifle her until she has enough and leaves!

  • @erikavaleries
    @erikavaleries 2 роки тому +6

    Paris, you are wonderful!!!

  • @Miliconsz
    @Miliconsz 2 роки тому +8

    They are so sweet❤

  • @nickypirzadeh5076
    @nickypirzadeh5076 5 місяців тому

    We’re not all fortunate like Paris and her husband 😢😢so lovely I hope we all get the love we want and need in this universe 😢

  • @ceciliagutierrez230
    @ceciliagutierrez230 2 роки тому +21

    Kathy is a real sick human and she doesn't see it. Poor Paris.

  • @SowingSeedsWithChristy
    @SowingSeedsWithChristy 7 місяців тому +2

    Congrats Kathy, on being willing to face and deal with what happened to Paris and why she acted out and how it related to legacy parenting, through no fault of your own or your own mother. Sh*t happens in all families. ❤

  • @ninasaudade6649
    @ninasaudade6649 Рік тому +2

    The voice changes kill me 😆

  • @Joejoyoyoyo
    @Joejoyoyoyo 11 днів тому

    These therapy sessions are the most interesting part of pil to me 😊❤

  • @melodyp9079
    @melodyp9079 Рік тому +2

    The fact is no likes confrontation. But sometimes you have to protect yourself

  • @teannabell9945
    @teannabell9945 2 роки тому +4

    congratulations Paris!

  • @adwoamk8918
    @adwoamk8918 Рік тому +5

    I feel awful saying this, but I don't think Paris and Carter are going to last, she is having second thoughts the whole way through this thing. I don't know if she is behaving differently because of the cameras but something isn't right she reacts to Carter in the same way as she does her mum, seeing her with her ex- Chris she seemed so happy and enamored completely different from Carter.

  • @princess_sprightly
    @princess_sprightly 2 роки тому +4

    I love Paris and Carter

  • @juliehealingleaf6211
    @juliehealingleaf6211 2 роки тому +2

    He'll I feel I can't control anything I'm glad they were strong enough to control their life

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 2 роки тому +6

    What are those cat eye sunglasses Paris is wearing at lunch?

  • @la381
    @la381 2 роки тому +25

    Kathy is delusional. Omg. She feels like she IS THAT SAFE PERSON??!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 10:37.

  • @barbriley583
    @barbriley583 2 роки тому +12

    Kathy has made her whole family nuts…

  • @Klikka1
    @Klikka1 Рік тому +22

    I think Kathy is a narcissist, and the therapy is just a show she is making for Paris and also for audience. She is not able to feel empathy.

    • @foreverSbu
      @foreverSbu 6 місяців тому

      You are harsh. Kathy has hidden trauma. There's something that goes deep, very deep and far back with Kathy. They don't address it and so that's why they talk around in circles today.

  • @ribhe133
    @ribhe133 Рік тому +8

    I don't think a therapist should explain to you exactly what your situation is like, that guy is doing with Paris, a therapist should only guide you to become aware of your situation by yourself. Otherwise, it becomes unethical because a patient has no way of knowing if what their therapist is saying is true or if they're just being manipulated.

    • @askfroogle
      @askfroogle Рік тому +1

      My therapist does the same and I find it helpful. I never feel like they’re putting words in mouth and I would say something if I felt it didn’t match what I was thinking or how I was feeling.

  • @eddefalcon6429
    @eddefalcon6429 Рік тому

    Paris he gave you puppy eyes…he ❤❤❤❤you Paris,🤣🤣😂🥳🚀🚀🚀🚀

  • @lookinbad2day64
    @lookinbad2day64 2 роки тому +9

    I just realized that Paris short hair is a wig

  • @jacquelinemartin9124
    @jacquelinemartin9124 Рік тому

    Love Paris ❤

  • @luiscs2823
    @luiscs2823 2 роки тому +14

    Carter has the voice of an old man 👴

  • @8gagee
    @8gagee 2 роки тому

    Kathy looks wonderful, here!

  • @n.f.w.withjen7421
    @n.f.w.withjen7421 Рік тому +2

    I’ve never been to therapy where the therapist talk so much.

  • @oanapuciu
    @oanapuciu 2 роки тому +19

    The kids that come into rich families don't always have the best options.. somehow are trapped in a vicious circle. Her mom so controlling now she "supports" Paris... pff. Fear is more powerful than Love she said as explanation to what she had done to her teen... many children are being abused by their parents in the name of beings scared of loosing the kid.. producing more harm than well. NO fear is not stronger than LOVE! Look at what fear did! And she is nor the only one! She was lucky to have a platform and develop into this business person she is now, but most of victims of abuse don't have opportunities to get some sort of retribution or be somebody that could show up in the world without the burden on the back that you are not good enough... unfortunate what happened to Paris.. hope this has a ripple effect and we learn something out of this! And stop domestic abuse once and for all!

  • @HajSa371
    @HajSa371 7 місяців тому

    Good Therapist ❤

  • @cheryll747
    @cheryll747 2 роки тому +9

    Proof U can have a billion & still not be satisfied! I think there alot of toxic things about this family, Kathies older sisters don't get along either!!

  • @Kika1623
    @Kika1623 6 місяців тому

    I like the male therapist. He is great. Paris seems to speak in a normal voice around him. Her husband goes into baby talking too.

  • @williamblake7
    @williamblake7 9 місяців тому +1

    In Paris’s life, who strangles the most? Paris.

  • @mariakent8689
    @mariakent8689 2 роки тому +14

    She is a little bit messed up in the head but she is a sweetheart, indeed! I hope she finds peace in her new life with this wonderful guy she married!

  • @olgamelo5227
    @olgamelo5227 Рік тому +5

    Carter is an amazing partner. I'm so glad Paris found someone so supportive. My only advice to him is that he should not put his hand on her shoulder like that when she is triggered or expressing her emotions. For trauma survivors it feels we're being strangled. I watched Paris documentary and what she went though spoke to my heart. After that I went to watch her wedding video. The first thing I noticed is that the dress Paris wore was to please her mother. Children of Narcissistic and controlling mothers become a people pleaser an unable to say no. You still have quite along way to heal Paris, so all of us.

    • @texan903
      @texan903 Рік тому +2

      Paris and Carter are close enough that she wouldn't have had a problem telling him that she didn't want his hand on her shoulder.

  • @tatianag.k.3226
    @tatianag.k.3226 7 місяців тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love Kathy, she doesn't believe a word what the therapist is telling her. I'm pretty sure she knows better, and the therapist is not telling her anything new. Really not a good therapist

  • @jeanc9868
    @jeanc9868 7 місяців тому

    She needs to feel SAFE & secure!

  • @myaathwal4015
    @myaathwal4015 2 роки тому +1

    Love Peter !

  • @forevermarcia
    @forevermarcia Місяць тому

    I know it's probably for show but the way he rubs her and is focused on her, wow. What a man!

  • @truebelieverthasit6265
    @truebelieverthasit6265 2 роки тому +7

    omg tjats soo wierd how she goes in and out of that voice..

  • @modelevette2148
    @modelevette2148 2 роки тому

    Yup

  • @EE-qn4ks
    @EE-qn4ks Рік тому +1

    He loves her. You can see it.

  • @jacquipotgieter5821
    @jacquipotgieter5821 6 місяців тому +1

    You can have all the money in the world and still be broken.

  • @jen_ivypixie81
    @jen_ivypixie81 Місяць тому +1

    It's a trauma response. I do the same thing. I hate confertation. I have dealt with abuse.

  • @tenealsimpson4893
    @tenealsimpson4893 Рік тому +7

    They don't know the meaning of stress give me a break 🤣😂

  • @eddefalcon6429
    @eddefalcon6429 Рік тому +2

    Paris, you are so my baby sister Emilie. My Mother used to spend HOURS making Emilie’s hair look like Shirley Temple. I guess that is why Emilie is the way she is🤣🤣🤣😂😂👏🥳🥳🚀🚀🚀🚀

  • @ThatsTheWayItGoes
    @ThatsTheWayItGoes 2 роки тому +4

    The therapist was too arrogant with Kathy. She did all the talking!

    • @KB-nr3ls
      @KB-nr3ls 2 роки тому +1

      Because Kathy wouldn't talk--she was stonewalling the therapist. If in a private session that wasn't being filmed for TV, the therapist wouldn't have let Kathy off the hook. Instead the therapist would not have rescued Kathy and "filled in" the silence spaces.

    • @ThatsTheWayItGoes
      @ThatsTheWayItGoes 2 роки тому +1

      @@KB-nr3ls The role of a therapist does not and should not change just because the client acts a certain way or the setting is different. The role of the therapist is not to adjust their behavior simply because the client was not talkative. Perhaps Kathy was not talkative because the therapist was commandeering the whole situation.
      I disagree with your opinion about the therapist/client dynamic. I also disagree with any notion that it is incumbent upon the therapist to “fill the silence” simply because a client was not speaking to the therapist’s desire.

  • @savagesfortruth
    @savagesfortruth 4 місяці тому

    My mom went to a program like this in the 1970- 200’s and it honestly broke my mom spirit and every one around her wanted her to just get over her stay at this type of place and she told me the horror stories of this type of abuse and not having anyone understand what your going through

  • @katjaxxx7353
    @katjaxxx7353 7 місяців тому +3

    Kathy is very controlling - it's hard - I had similar experience

  • @williamblake7
    @williamblake7 9 місяців тому +1

    Joan Chong is like Isabella Rossellini and Paris Hilton. She married a florist.

  • @pearlgirl5643
    @pearlgirl5643 7 місяців тому +1

    Where did they find these enabling therapists? Controlling people aren’t usually truly trying to “protect” anyone but their ego!

  • @Greeneggsandham123
    @Greeneggsandham123 2 роки тому +18

    I don’t know how Paris forgave her parents. I would not have been that forgiving. Paris was never a drunk or into drugs, she just embarrassed her parents and they had her kidnapped and sent to that horrible camp. God knows al what happened to her.

    • @jvalentino6466
      @jvalentino6466 Рік тому +4

      I can tell her mom is a sweep under a rug type. And paris not being vocal n confrontational i feel like she just keeps it to herself and agrees all her life

    • @TheRose087
      @TheRose087 7 місяців тому +4

      She did go through a period of drugs and drink

  • @HaywoodJablomi_420
    @HaywoodJablomi_420 7 місяців тому +2

    I dont like the vibe I get from Carter after watching the show. I got a controlling, manipulative vibe from him and I really hope it wasnt his idea to keep the baby a secret from her whole family.
    I feel like her kids are going to be raised by nannies. She didnt take any time off from work after Phoneix was born and Carter never asked her to, he kept pushing her to work and thats so weird.
    She treats her baby like hes a new puppy, it's like "is he changed and fed? Oh good Ill hold him now." And all she ever did was hold him up to mirrors...she never changed him or fed him, she just wanted to hold him like an accessory.
    Carter is probably going to retire soon so he can focus all of his energy on pushing Paris to work more so he doesn't have to. Even with him being home all the time this season he still had the nanny feeding the baby and changing him...whats the point of being parents if you arent going to do any of the hard parts that make you a parent!?
    Her two kids are going to be raised fully by nannies. Its already happening. That is so sad and i dont like it at all. Im sure the reason she feels so insecure about being a mom is because shes not doing any of the mom parts, she holds him ...thats it. He mind as well belong to someone else and she is just there to play with him snd hold him after his real mom (the nanny) has changed his diaper and fed him.

  • @judyisapunk7928
    @judyisapunk7928 6 місяців тому +2

    Kathy absorbed none of that. She is shaking her head but it’s making zero impact on her. She reminds me of my mother during our family therapy sessions. Both her and my mother have obvious cluster B disorders

    • @angelsunlight
      @angelsunlight 6 місяців тому

      I feel the same way about my mom

  • @robashsandhu8583
    @robashsandhu8583 2 роки тому

    1:30 omg gorgeous 😍

  • @jeanc9868
    @jeanc9868 7 місяців тому

    I can see how Paris is truly such a baby

  • @RWRogers
    @RWRogers 2 роки тому +5

    You guys keep posting the same clips over and over. It’s not new. Lol

  • @mscarolynnigro
    @mscarolynnigro 2 роки тому +4

    I like Kathy's therapist .

  • @lovesonmyside2184
    @lovesonmyside2184 7 місяців тому

    The Whole Family needs Deliverance

  • @planetruther
    @planetruther Рік тому +1

    Monarch butterfly shirt

    • @thebrunetteinroom7
      @thebrunetteinroom7 Рік тому

      Yes, loads of people have it. It’s a trend. My gran has it too

  • @pearlgirl5643
    @pearlgirl5643 7 місяців тому +1

    Everyone in this family was content to just ride coattails until Paris made the name hot again, and that’s why she was picked to be the family scapegoat, at least Barron doesn’t seem like a narcissist