First Time LEAVING My Baby *36 hours away*

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  • Опубліковано 2 жов 2022
  • My anxiety was extremely high for this trip... thanks for helping make it better @calebandabby @DELLAVLOGS
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    #leaving #baby #mom

КОМЕНТАРІ • 615

  • @oliviaperriera2583
    @oliviaperriera2583 Рік тому +622

    Abby had me actually laughing out loud in this vlog!!!!

    • @MattandAbby
      @MattandAbby  Рік тому +156

      Right?! Abby’s a hoot! She’s freaking hilarious

    • @peaxchcolla2964
      @peaxchcolla2964 Рік тому +8

      Ik I was wheezing 😂

    • @iioxii417
      @iioxii417 Рік тому +5

    • @braceletastic12
      @braceletastic12 Рік тому +3

      ME TOO 😂😂

    • @chloecrawford7226
      @chloecrawford7226 Рік тому +9

      Mat and abby if you guys see this your one of my favourite youtubers EVER you guys make me laugh and keep me for than entertained thank you for making such nice content that makes people so happy 😊

  • @AaryaGhuge
    @AaryaGhuge Рік тому +299

    Abby saying “my boys” is sooooo sweet ✨

  • @ashleywilliscannon3177
    @ashleywilliscannon3177 Рік тому +126

    I remember bawling the day I took my daughter home from the hospital because I realized HOW MUCH MY MOM LOVES ME… and they don’t prepare you for the amount of love you have! Abby, you’re doing a FANTASTIC JOB! Glad you got a little “mommy break” and that Griffin was so happy to see you. He ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY KNOWS WHO YOU ARE, and HE LOVES HIS MAMMA!!! ❤

    • @alejandrahernandez3112
      @alejandrahernandez3112 Рік тому +6

      I am the eldest, and my mom told me that when she had me she called her mother to tell her that she loved her so much because she too realized the immensity of a mother’s love.

    • @jasmincass573
      @jasmincass573 Рік тому +2

      I was the opposite I cried because I knew I was going home by myself with no help.

    • @jasmincass573
      @jasmincass573 Рік тому

      I guess it's different when your mom is still alive

    • @ashleywilliscannon3177
      @ashleywilliscannon3177 Рік тому +1

      @@jasmincass573 I’m so sorry that you didn’t have that opportunity to share with your mom… but I believe she’s an Angel watching over you and your baby.

  • @trillix9864
    @trillix9864 Рік тому +58

    The fact that I’m just a 14 year old kid and I feel so much excitement, sadness and joy watching u guys on UA-cam is great cause I feel like I’m being brought into ur life and thinking that not to long ago my mom was going through the same thing while I was a baby makes me so much more determined to make my mom and dad proud of what I become in the future, I hope I take care of my kids and support my wife like u guys do to each other and yeah I love u guys and I hope ur life keeps on going beautifully to where u guys can look back at it and proudly say “I wouldn’t do anything differently”

    • @aurum496
      @aurum496 Рік тому +2

      The sweetest comment 🥺💗u growing up a nice person!

    • @gacha_cookie2659
      @gacha_cookie2659 Рік тому +1

      Oh my yep

  • @gracekennedy4100
    @gracekennedy4100 Рік тому +326

    I am a parent and this was so hard when my little one was young. I know the feeling of guilt but know my daughter is 15 and know I only think of the next time slot I can have time alone! ❤️

    • @dal8228
      @dal8228 Рік тому +1

      @Shaun The Good Doctor I’ll

    • @llogue6032
      @llogue6032 Рік тому +1

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @jasmincass573
      @jasmincass573 Рік тому +1

      Well she is old enough to stay at home where you can have time to yourself. With a 2 year old I can't even get a pedicure

  • @jobdiaz8844
    @jobdiaz8844 Рік тому +239

    I never thought being a parent would evolve in so much emotion. But after watching these recent blogs, I feel like it’s just so humbling to see how parents adjust and feel when they have kids. Me watching these actually makes me considered to want to be a dad in the future. Btw Matt, you got this!!!

    • @mr.mrs.j7599
      @mr.mrs.j7599 Рік тому +13

      So many people have been having kids older, I think it discourages young people to start having sooner. These two are a breath of fresh air! That you can be young and find love AND *be mature and have kids. I think they should go into what made them feel ready for marriage "so young" (why they felt mature/ what their parents taught them ect.) and make a video about it.
      Not that they are "so young" it used to be the norm. But I think the modern mentality that you're supposed to be young and live it up in your 20s have messed things up for the past 20 years (or 30).

    • @jobdiaz8844
      @jobdiaz8844 Рік тому +5

      @@mr.mrs.j7599 I just for me feel like everyone has their time when they are ready. For me I’m not atm because I haven’t found someone yet but when I do, the time will come. 🙏🏼

    • @BeerKillenRedneck
      @BeerKillenRedneck Рік тому +1

      🙄🤦‍♂️

    • @jasmincass573
      @jasmincass573 Рік тому +1

      It's taking me 2 years to adjust and I don't know when it's going to happen. Being a social butterfly to a homebody is depressing

  • @maddyjohnson8829
    @maddyjohnson8829 Рік тому +128

    Matt's smile and constant affection when she got home is so sweet!!!

  • @ssbekind
    @ssbekind Рік тому +66

    Hand scrub with hydrogen peroxide and warm water scrub with soap and let air dry. Pretty much any stain will come out, especially if you catch the stain right away
    On a different note I absolutely love you guys! You're amazing people who love to spread fun and are truly kind! You're amazing parents and Griffin is absolutely adorable!!

  • @sallyfahrlander6342
    @sallyfahrlander6342 Рік тому +17

    I love your channel!! Thank you both for genuine and high quality content!

  • @ashleywilliscannon3177
    @ashleywilliscannon3177 Рік тому +13

    My daughter turns 18 in three months, and I STILL feel like this when she leaves for more than one or two nights! (It was worse when he dad left us when she was only four… and got visitation every other weekend. I used to act all happy with her when he picked her up and then legit BAWL the ENTIRE WEEKEND while she was at his house!) Abby, you’re doing a FANTASTIC JOB!!! (Also: I used to have just as much milk production as you do, she nursed until she was a year old) ❤

  • @teaganvantonder5795
    @teaganvantonder5795 Рік тому +11

    I love watching you guys. I literally went back and watched all the pregnancy videos right from finding out you were pregnant. I am 22 and want a baby with my husband. You are so relatable and so genuine. I LOVE YOU GUYS!!

  • @sofia101
    @sofia101 Рік тому +42

    matt's massive smile when abby came home 🥺

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves6375 Рік тому +31

    Matt thank you so much for all your hard work editing!! I really appreciate it. Love your vlogs. Best family channel.

  • @R3AALITY
    @R3AALITY Рік тому +24

    This was a very emotional video,and I'm glad you showed us this. It's something every parent goes through!

  • @addiebrown7883
    @addiebrown7883 Рік тому +6

    Your feelings are so valid. I feel that way for leaving my kids to go to the store. Breaks my heart. Your a wonderful momma! 💕

  • @Jitmommy33
    @Jitmommy33 Рік тому +10

    The babies do remember your pheromones. When he was smiling at you right when you got home I loved that.

  • @ellienichols671
    @ellienichols671 Рік тому +14

    I love y’all so much, I’ve followed y’all nearly since the beginning, I love how much you care abt leaving griffin it’s so sweet, y’all are the best parents love y’all!!!!!! ❤

  • @kaylee7852
    @kaylee7852 Рік тому +33

    I love you guys hope griffin is as adorable and healthy as can be!!❤

    • @hopeg02
      @hopeg02 Рік тому +3

      Dude you putting my entire name caught me off guard I feel famous 😂😂😂 my name is hope griffin

  • @ot5stan
    @ot5stan Рік тому +4

    Abby is soo funny omg. I'm glad she's so positive and upbeat despite being sad about leaving griffin. She's a great example of how mother's can retain their own identity and personality while also being an amazing momma. She's got balance totally figured out. Loved the vlog, more like it plss!!

  • @PositiveBluebird
    @PositiveBluebird Рік тому +12

    it will be okay Abby I promise. keep up the great work Matt and best wishes for a speedy recovery! 💕🥰💕

  • @amandamills6181
    @amandamills6181 Рік тому +2

    Griffin absolutely knew you!! That smile & intense gaze were pure love! The marathon nursing session backs up my argument!

  • @kenneditompkins3609
    @kenneditompkins3609 Рік тому +14

    Happy 3 months Baby Griffin!!!!!

  • @brogthefrog1560
    @brogthefrog1560 Рік тому +7

    i love y’all!!! you are such great parents and love griffin so much!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @hadynbrookman8590
    @hadynbrookman8590 Рік тому +4

    I love your videos so much! I love the way Matt holds griffin!! Matt was soo sweet when Abby was sad!❤️💕

  • @Kelly.Morrison
    @Kelly.Morrison Рік тому +33

    Good job momma! 👏 proud of you!

  • @PANTYDROPPER-mf9et
    @PANTYDROPPER-mf9et Рік тому +2

    cute. just too freaking cute.❤❤❤this was a great lil vlog! the ending was adorable...you guys genuinely seem so loving and happy to see each other.

  • @crystalmasters8582
    @crystalmasters8582 Рік тому +4

    Oh Abbs it sucks every time. You’ve gone through so much, enjoying your little alone moments is so great.

  • @jenl5988
    @jenl5988 Рік тому +1

    Awwww! His 'welcome home mama!' smiles were so sweet!!!

  • @carolinemanning2554
    @carolinemanning2554 Рік тому +2

    You guys are so amazing!!! And Abby you are such a fighter!! Girl you are so amazing and insperational and I love that about you well I mean I love a lot of things about you lol. Keep up the excellent work! I can't wait to see what God has in store fr your beautiful family!!. Love you guys!

  • @taylorwalp1535
    @taylorwalp1535 Рік тому +1

    This was such a sweet & fun vlog ti watch! I really enjoy seeing Abby's point of view as a young mother, wife, friend, and just woman in general! Love ya'll!

  • @mynameisyou69
    @mynameisyou69 Рік тому +16

    awe he’s adorable

  • @kelseylopez5580
    @kelseylopez5580 Рік тому +18

    You are such a good mom Abby!💕

  • @drewboi107
    @drewboi107 Рік тому +6

    I love you guys so much! You never ever fail to make my day! :)

  • @JayyandAbby
    @JayyandAbby Рік тому +31

    I KNOW ITS HARD TO LEAVE THAT SWEET BABY ❤

  • @korinakemm2185
    @korinakemm2185 Рік тому +2

    The way griffin looked at Abby when she returned made my heart melt! Glad you got some girl time! Can't wait to see the vlog with griffin & dad time (:

  • @Ur_fav_Carol
    @Ur_fav_Carol Рік тому +3

    So cute❤ love y’all some much your amazing parents!

  • @AaryaGhuge
    @AaryaGhuge Рік тому +9

    “I make memories where I go, not always positive ”
    - Abby
    2022

  • @ishjoshi4576
    @ishjoshi4576 Рік тому +5

    My comfort channel...no one like you guys... watching your videos just makes my heart smile❤️❤️ you are doing a great job...we love our Lil dudeeee❤️

  • @AaryaGhuge
    @AaryaGhuge Рік тому +5

    Love abbys chaotic energy in this vlog!

  • @marydzibela5626
    @marydzibela5626 Рік тому +1

    Literally this my all time favorite vlog. I love watching Abby just being her! Please more Abby vlogs

  • @marienorris3093
    @marienorris3093 Рік тому +1

    Genuinely loved this vlog and how happy Abby was! ❤

  • @Haileyxtie
    @Haileyxtie Рік тому +2

    Awww so Griffin is so cute and hope you are recovering well Abby!

  • @Madilicious
    @Madilicious Рік тому +1

    The sweetest vlog. Such good friends and an adorable family ❤️❤️

  • @sportsforlife2235
    @sportsforlife2235 Рік тому +8

    Love you guys!! Hope griffin is doing well!!😊

  • @blueberrycheetah3967
    @blueberrycheetah3967 Рік тому +4

    You all are so precious I hope all goes well you guys ❤❤❤

  • @selinamattocks
    @selinamattocks Рік тому +15

    You look so stunning for not long having a baby. Its only natural to miss your baby specially since its your first time leaving him. Your fantastic parents x

  • @tylerandkylie
    @tylerandkylie Рік тому +12

    ✨My Wife and I have thought about this with expecting our first! You guys are great, love the videos! ✨

  • @biancabarone5817
    @biancabarone5817 Рік тому +2

    your vlogs are fire, good job and griffin is so cute

  • @1012345MB
    @1012345MB Рік тому

    The way griffin looked at Abby when she got home 🥺❤️❤️ my actual heart exploded. That’s love

  • @marielpindar6312
    @marielpindar6312 Рік тому

    Awwe Matt hyping Abby up at the beginning 🥹💕 Matt is so nice to Abby! I love this! Abby I’m having a baby in a few months and I’m already nervous about this so thank you for this video!

  • @Kali64296
    @Kali64296 Рік тому +2

    You guys are so amazing love you ❤️ you are amazing parents and doing a great job

  • @MarkK395
    @MarkK395 Рік тому +4

    You missing your boys so much is a sign of being a great parent! This whole vlog was hilarious!

  • @iamshae1175
    @iamshae1175 Рік тому +2

    I’m soooo proud of you Abby . I know that pain all too well. I didn’t spend the night away from my son until he was over 1 😅 he was breast fed as well. It’s something about that connection that makes your stomach hurt when you’re away too long

  • @amberj3941
    @amberj3941 Рік тому

    This video actually gave me baby fever. Something about griffin smiling at you Abby was so perfect. That moment is priceless.

  • @ryanrobinson7178
    @ryanrobinson7178 Рік тому +1

    Y'all are the sweetest parents, y'all remind me of my hubby and I 22yrs ago with our first born. So cute , I adore you both. .
    #bigfan #loveyourfamily 🧡
    Sending love from northern California 💙

  • @marissamarie6531
    @marissamarie6531 Рік тому

    Loves this longer blog! Yayyy

  • @TheRashidies
    @TheRashidies Рік тому +1

    Abby you are SO ADORABLE! As a mum of 4 kids, this was the wholesome vlog that made me laugh and just brighten up my day! THANK YOU!

  • @kylee9733
    @kylee9733 Рік тому +3

    matt and abby i love y’all so much ❤

  • @abyz1467
    @abyz1467 Рік тому +3

    Such a cute baby. Happy for you guys.

  • @shipse1
    @shipse1 Рік тому +1

    Love the video! About TSA checking breast milk, I remember Shawn Johnson posting a video about traveling with breast milk, and she said they’re not required to test it, or even open it, if you don’t want them to.

  • @Kayleeis2kool
    @Kayleeis2kool Рік тому +2

    You guys are the best parents in the world!

  • @janai5074
    @janai5074 Рік тому +10

    Abby, welcome to baby brain ☺️ I swear my babies are up 85% of my brain cells and power. Ive never been so forgetful 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

  • @martinam7806
    @martinam7806 Рік тому +2

    We are starting to try for baby with my husband this month. The good thing is I am not on any contraception for many years, but we already know it might not go smoothly. Videos like this give me so much hope and joy that one day I will have this feelings and being a mom ❤❤❤

  • @learnarabicwithhiba856
    @learnarabicwithhiba856 Рік тому +2

    The way Griffin smiles when seeing his mama, my heart jus dropped

  • @ryanpierce7037
    @ryanpierce7037 Рік тому +4

    I love how much you love your baby😢❤

  • @okmein7725
    @okmein7725 Рік тому

    You did so great!!!!! You are amazing!! Glad you went and had fun

  • @kadenceaustin8896
    @kadenceaustin8896 Рік тому

    I love you guys so much! Griffin is so lucky to have you guys as his parents! ❤️

  • @brookecouillard8856
    @brookecouillard8856 Рік тому +17

    I love LOVE LOVE watching you guys!! That sweet baby is the cutest ❤I hope you have fun! I’m a mom of 3 girls, a break is always great! Haha 😆

  • @erin6320
    @erin6320 Рік тому

    I love abby, matt and baby griffin! Theyre so cute and genuine

  • @delilah7957
    @delilah7957 Рік тому +2

    Excited for Matt’s vlog😂

  • @rahelfausch8256
    @rahelfausch8256 11 місяців тому +1

    The way you're comforting your wife everytime she cries touches my heart deeply and brings me to tears. My husband mostly gets angry and is disgusted when i cry so I have to do it silently when I'm alone.
    You have such a beautiful relationship, may God bless you!!!

    • @uggsandnlechoppa
      @uggsandnlechoppa 7 місяців тому

      L husband, you should get a man who understands that feelings are just another part of life and that it is 100% okay to have them.

    • @rahelfausch8256
      @rahelfausch8256 7 місяців тому

      @@uggsandnlechoppa In the beginning of our relationship it was very hard for me, but then I learned how he grew up and it explained a lot to me. But nevertheless I miss his comfort during tough times.

  • @amandawalls2495
    @amandawalls2495 Рік тому +2

    This is so sweet and that mom brain is REAL!! LOL The one that made you forget your ID and throw your phone away... it's so real. I regularly left my keys in the door on the outside, lost $100 cash about three seconds after my husband handed it to me and left my phone in the bathroom at a store where it was stolen lol you are doing perfect just laughing your way through it together!! ❤

  • @briannatasto2734
    @briannatasto2734 Рік тому

    I went back to work this week and have cried everyday. You are so lucky Matt is so supportive.

  • @kayleegasangwa3870
    @kayleegasangwa3870 3 місяці тому

    My favorite video of y’all’s!

  • @laurelmakula2835
    @laurelmakula2835 Рік тому +1

    The look on Griffin’s face when you came home is priceless. My kids had fun when I left them with Daddy for a couple of days. He did fun stuff with them! Wait a couple of years.

  • @bellaangus1213
    @bellaangus1213 Рік тому

    Abby ~ you’re a amazing Mom!
    So happy you’re with Bella and Abby.

  • @presley6456
    @presley6456 Рік тому +1

    Hey I love y’all’s videos I hope griffin does ok when you’re gone y’all are great parents and I just love y’all’s videos

  • @taylorharris3522
    @taylorharris3522 Рік тому +2

    Aww I’m so sorry it will be okay I promise abby and Matt!!

  • @kennedymckenna676
    @kennedymckenna676 Рік тому +1

    i would love to see you guys do more content with della vlogs! You guys are awesome!

  • @i.love.sza.
    @i.love.sza. Рік тому +4

    OMG MATT IN HIS DAD OUTFIT❤️

  • @chocolateoreo6489
    @chocolateoreo6489 Рік тому

    You guys are so sweet and I love you💜 your such a great family

  • @yotube236
    @yotube236 Рік тому +1

    Wow I'm early !!! Ily guys so much and love Griffin you guys are such à cute family 😍😍😍

  • @abbykorolek7429
    @abbykorolek7429 Рік тому +3

    Griffins growing up so fast! You guys are such good parents love you guys ❤
    Ps. You guys are my fav utubers!

  • @Ash15beaks
    @Ash15beaks Рік тому

    Love you guys and your teamwork ❤

  • @devinbornstein
    @devinbornstein Рік тому

    That book you were reading is amazing! There’s another too, five chimneys, amazing!

  • @LiVnReal
    @LiVnReal Рік тому

    I’m glad you got to do this so early. I know it’s hard but your mental will thank you in the long run.

  • @emmatacc_
    @emmatacc_ Рік тому

    this is very brave of you Abby! I know it’s hard, but you’re stronger than you think!❤

  • @Harsh-kf2ll
    @Harsh-kf2ll Рік тому

    we need more abby vlogs ... istg she is hilarious

  • @bakgametsimack3131
    @bakgametsimack3131 Рік тому +1

    The way Abby got herself prepared for that dance...cracks me up. Watched it so many times😂😂😂

  • @beccaholland3602
    @beccaholland3602 Рік тому

    Love that book! What a tear jerker!!!

  • @sapnaworks
    @sapnaworks Рік тому

    Abby I love your vlog! It was so cute and authentic :)

  • @carebear1155
    @carebear1155 Рік тому

    Not going to lie. Abby you are so funny and I could totally see us being bffs in the real world. Love your energy, positivity and love for your family and life. ♥️♥️

  • @kellyviolette4184
    @kellyviolette4184 Рік тому

    Abby you are adorable. You are such a good mother.

  • @SolsticeBeautyByJessica
    @SolsticeBeautyByJessica Рік тому

    You guys are amazing parents!!!!

  • @breebrat56
    @breebrat56 Рік тому

    Matt had on the classic “ DAD outfit! “ 😂❤ the one everyone sees on their dad! 😂❤

  • @SH_lovely
    @SH_lovely Рік тому

    Awee abby it's okay! I love y'all's channel!!!!

  • @sheilascoyne861
    @sheilascoyne861 Рік тому

    Abby ya nailed it, leaving is hard. Have fun and enjoy ladies❤❤❤ 🙏

  • @kusumsingh8096
    @kusumsingh8096 Рік тому +4

    Your family slays!

  • @jills2744
    @jills2744 Рік тому +1

    I love Brooklyn and Bailey so much! Looks like fun!

  • @viviennekent
    @viviennekent Рік тому +29

    First and I love how vulnerable you are being with this whole pregnancy and raising griffin it’s so great seeing how raw and real you are being I am a mom and I am 13 it’s greta to see another mom being real and not trying to sugar coat it love you ❤❤