You are right, but for every woman who suffers from men, they must had had a man who really suffer to have them but yet they turn them down only to focus on the one who never stressed himself to get them. Later the man they ignore to date a man that is suffering them will now an had i know issue. Many girls go see true love like this, na man wey go dey monitor their salary/income Dem go dey run after. May God make her happy
Chaii so painful...same happened to me after seeing him through school he still took my money to process paper with a claim is both of us but traveled with his new wife that I got to know on Facebook 🤣 2021 he came to plead that a prophet told him to come apologize to me so his wife can give birth 🤣🤣 I have to forgive him because my husband said I should.. after all God has blessed us so much...some men and women that are suffering today could be due to their wickedness to innocent people in the pass...my sister you will find true love go back to God in prayer... it's well
@@seunfaturiyele6790 yes oo it wasn't easy at all I was almost packing back to village but God came through for me through him...he couldn't even believe me when I told him all my story he felt I was lieing until the year the guy called, though I didn't know he was the one calling, when I got to know I put it on loud speaker for him to hear .he almost got angry at a point but he held himself at the end I just have to forgive because of the innocent woman and the Way his wife was crying... it's well my brother I just feel like sometimes God allow us to pass through somethings for a reason..
Painful! You should not lose your sense of intuition all because of love. The guy is obviously a crook. Women find it hard to see through men like that, just because of the promise of marriage, until they learn the hard and painful way. Anybody can promise you anything and fail with pride. Get sense! I have learned not to play husband duty to a woman I am not married to, and I do not demand wife duty from the woman who is yet to be my wife.
She was laughing because, as she narrates the story, it also sounded so foolish and gullible to her, how she kept giving him money every time he came asking, all in the name of promised marriage. She must have loved him, but yet didn't see though his real intent. He didn't pay back, not even in part, all of the money she gave him. Rather, he kept coming for more. This clearly showed that his purpose of coming back to her was for her money, and the promise of marriage and trip to his father/family was the right bait. Such a kind and beautiful lady! Don't worry, I pray you will get your money back. But just take it that God delivered you from a wicked guy and a marriage that would have doomed your life, your light, and your shine. A better man awaits you.
I have not finished watching but I'm already shedding tears for this innocent lady. This lady has been used by both the callous man and his family. May God fortify her.
This is the best of all the cases on this platform. In this clime, we don't like testing some of our laws, especially when it comes to cases of relationship; many Nigerians don't know that "Promise to marry" is a good ground to teach some liars lessons hence the reason why hearts are being broken and toiling with people's emotions means nothing. Kudos to this lady and her adviser whom I believe is a lawyer as this matter will open up a lot of consciousness to relationships. Can't wait to see the next episode.
Omo.... Fr though, the next guy that would date her wld go through alot Not because she would treat him badly, but because the next relationship after toxic ones are usually d most painful
And that is how the woman who married Mathew just inherited curses and evil upon her destiny ad a result of affiliation with Mathew. Mathew, thesame Holy Spirit you lied against will ensure you know no peace and suffer
Her greatest pain stems from the fact that he's moved on! Mathew is a looser. Thank God he delivered you from that guys life If you ended up marrying him would have been more pain for you. Everything works for good... I wish you the very best moving foward
This lady has been through a lot I just feel for her I pray she finds a truelove Mathew wasted her time, break her heart and scam her of her money with fake love Oga mathew you’re a very wicked man you better pay her back her money
This lady is kind hearted, God will surely give her, a good husband. that crook does not deserve her, after paying this lady back, he deserves jail with hard labour.
Women , women , women . Stop 🛑 giving money to a man . Most time it’s not Love . They are just using you . A man is to provide in all religions/ traditions . A woman duties is help( contribute to the sustainability of the marriage not necessarily money ) in the home and love him in return not giving him money . One may have to in some cases but use your head . Matthew if this is true .God can’t bless you or your journey to anywhere .
Hmmmm it's not a crime a woman to assist the Reason God creates women is to assist dear husband but what the young man did is totally wrong I'm a man I won't support evil
@@ujuosimiri8181 . Uju , am talking from experiences with my parents marriage, uncle and so . I maintain donot give them money is not a woman duties . Contribute to their progress with your security. Buy a land and make sure it Mr Olu and Mrs Ola Oye . Build and make sure you name is written fully in Capital letter. In case, the devil uses him as mostly claimed you won’t suffer .Read Proverb 31 and understand it please .
As a man, I agree. Why would a man consistently be collecting money from a woman? .. It is a scam. Any serious man would be ashamed to collect money from the woman he loves. Particularly in this case that he is not paying back each time
@@ujuosimiri8181 is the mathew her husband? Make una continue giving boyfriend instead of building yourselves. He bought car with her money where as she trekks
I feel for this lady! God!!!!! When you’re in love with a someone who has no motive rather than scamming you of your money! Took advantage of her love for him😒🤦🏼♀️
In a previous episode that the guy gave his crush a loan and you said he was a mumu. Why won't it also apply to her. That guy was one time, this lady gave money multiple times even after not paying. She's the real mumu. Don't blame love and being taken advantage
I'm not to blame her because she believed in true love but it so unfortunate that the guy played smartness with her love. And I pray the court should let JUSTICE PREVAIL.
Some men just don't know the day of their visitation! God blessed the young man with a lady who would've made his life sweetness and butter but he couldn't think straight because he's full of dubious character. Her kindness get comma sha!
Wow...what a lady with such a pure heart. How is she ever going to trust another man again? It is bad guys like this that make all of us look bad. We will hear what he has to say sha
Some people go use wife do girl friend and use girl friend do wife. If what she is saying is truth he most reap it.there is nemesis in what ever we do whether good or bad.
She’s so so kindhearted lady who wishes a good future for whoever is her true husband but, here we are, the foolishness of the so called future husband betrayed the trust the lady has for every next man comes her way.
He's a King where ever he is, but he should pay up all the money he's owing asap!😂 Only women have the courage to up with cases like this, as a man how you one tell court say woman swindle you still no con marry you last last 😂😭😂😭
Please help me with money....Me too have things I need to do with money.....My no no is those guy that claim to be spiritual....yet they take advantage of you....Ladies open ur eye....they are everywhere
Something similar to this happened to me you know some people might think she was foolish in the relationship but that was not what I really eat because you know when you're in a relationship you will want to make it work but some so-called smart people I want to take advantage of it forgetting that there is every word for everything all the life we have lived we will account for it one day I just hope they will not be too late when the time come
Very sad when some people are desperate in getting married. The guy deceived her into getting married to her not knowing the guy is 419. Ladies please be a careful of men with sweet tongue 👅. Some men are looking for ladies who will take of them.
Will u call that desperation after seven years of being in a relationship? The person introduce u to all his family members... Well I won't say much on this
The way I ran from a particular relationship like this? When I noticed that he was always complaining about money and how I should borrow him to start business.
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I am so sorry my dear, love is an emotion that cannot be trusted. Love is a like a double edge sword, the sweet site of love no word can express its good taste,emotional beauty and feelings of it. Love negative site, the taste is worst than a poison it’s emotional feelings is suicidal, and if you eventually survive it the feelings will never be the same.
Very sad.I find it very difficult to understand why ladies believe lies that are very obvious. Anyways, you are very lucky that you haven't gotten a child with him,you would have been the one to raise that child alone.Be strong and open your eyes, a man that deserves you would come as long as you are industrious. Use legal means and take all the money you have given that BANDIT. In your next relationship, make sure you do not sell on credit.Best of luck.
@ Smile 4me . It’s never Love but stupidity. You both are planning to relocate and you are financially responsible for it and your name isn’t mentioned in the applications . You see it with your Korokoro eyes 👀 and you still continue with MUGU 101 . Naa juju he use ?.
that's how one useless guy almost did this to me... I ran for my life wo, it's good to assist your man oo, and when you are assisting, make sure it is something you can forget about..so that if there's a crash, you won't feel bad like this..
Wow 😯 Hmmmmm red flag 🚩 women we always ignore them.my dear sister you are a good woman God will send the men that will honor you.Good Luck sister ❤️❤️
The lady was vulnerable because the young man was having carnal knowledge of her... That's how play boy behaves... And she was so naive. She won't say what happened between them.
Oh my goodness me this is very sad and wickedness...Please when will young ladies of our society will learn their lessons? When someone borrowed money from and he/she have not been able to you back, he/she came up again asking for another one you still went ahead and gave the money what makes you think that he/she is going to pay you back in peace? Please beautiful women of our society try and learn when you are an ATM to a man or a true lover...This is very sad indeed.
For goodness sake, when will these young ladies get wise and begin to see beyond their noses. You keep on spending your money on a guy who can’t even spend a dime on you and you cannot understand he is a scam, too bad
Its not love that made her give him People who do this are often people pleasers and have been brainwashed into believing that a woman should question a man. So called NICE girl syndrome
Oh my God!This kind Mathew not a good guy ooo.A good lady like this is a good wife material and he misses it already.He must pay all the money back with interest.He used the lady throughout the relationship
That guy never loved her from day one,the guy only sow that she is a kindhearted Peron that he can easily brain washed after the six months relationship,and also sow her as a lady that has the financial resources of him getting to the level he want to get,that is why the guy came back with that proposal of taking the relationship to another level of marriage.
That Matthew can never know peace in life, until he refund this lady money back, and ask for God and the lady forgiveness. That's lesson for desperate lady.
Although i hv not heard from the guy but deep down my heart i believe this lady is saying the truth, just that the irony of life good ladies always end up in with wrong guys,the guy is a scammer,he pinned the girl down with marriage and duped her off all her savings after which the holy spirit told him they don't hv future together chai,i believe justice funmi will make the guy to pay every kobo he collected from this lady,some men are devil in human form
The man is a wicked man, a scammer and a thief. He should at least refund the money since she's not good for marriage. May God punish all those guys who intentionally takes advantage of women and those who also waste their time, they will never know peace in Jesus name, Amen! Except they repent.
I don’t want to call this girl a mugu she’s so much in love with the guy that she doesn’t even know the difference between her right and left hand what girl
The defendant wasnt present in the court according to your statement , you gave money to somebody first time , second time, third time, no returned and you kept giving and giving lady Can,t you see the hand writing on the wall ? ( be wise )This man is a deceitful person even if you dont work for the money you dont trew it away like this you just see somebody fisicaly and start loving him put all your trust in him you dont even care to Examine him internaly and know his heart ? be aware if get maried to this kind of person he will ruined your life ( be wise ) we in diaspora love watching the Justice Court programe is teaching many lessons how to handle things especialy in that nigeria
@ John Dera . Women know how to save if they are well brought up . Mere looking at her ; Does she look like someone that has 2.3M ?. No, cos she was saving for raining days . She made a lot of mistakes but God will have mercy on her beautiful soul and give her a very good husband that will wipe her tears away .
She did not just jump on him giving out money she has been in relationshi with him and have spent one week with his parents when they traveled to Ibadan. What's else would a lady need to be convinced of proposed future marriage we can't really blame her for the guys deceit which am. Sure his parents not approve and happy about
@@victorezeagu1893 u are very wrong sir, not all ladies are desperate for marriage, the relationship lasted for seven years, will you call that desperation?
She didn't just meet the guy, they have been together for seven years since 2014, families were involved and their marriage was supposed to be last year July when she find out that the guy got married to another lady that same July they were supposed to go for their marriage introduction. Well the things we do for ❤️, there's more to the case, but all she's fighting for is her hard earn money
Dis is heart breaking .and Dis is a wife material ok. Dis is the kind girl I like to marry. But am far from her. Pls judge fumi asaolu help her to recover her money 💰 🙏
thank God almighty that this wasn't my case o, alot of ladies help some men to stand on their feet but most of them were betrayed. this mostly happen to innocent, naive ladies. now the nxt man will suffer even if he has good intentions. when she speaks tomorrow that she will never give a man her money we will all call her wicked, without knowing her story. that's why I will never judge anyone because I don't know their story. now people will call her stupid, and today people call me lucky. Life!!!
I really feel for the poor lady🤦🤦,.. the guy should be brought to book if these stories are all true!! For me, it's not about the money alone, she's been blackmailed emotionally.
If this is true Mathew had played her emotionally and took advantage of her love, she only explained the monetary aspects neglecting the other room aspect😄😄 Matthew Na 419 if all what she said is right
IF EVERYTHING THIS INNOCENT& GULLIBLE LADY SAID IS THE TRUTH , GUY CALLED BASSEY WILL NEVER MAKE HEAD WAY IN THIS LIFE UNTIL SHE APPEASES THE SPIRIT OF THIS HUMBLE LADY
Doesn't the good book tell us that we shall know them by their fruit? The man clearly displayed dishonesty, lack of transparency and disregard for the lady, no character.
I pray the Court will help you recover your funds from the man. I believe you have learned your lessons. Please get up and shake off the dust from this ungodly relationship that crashed and purpose to do things right. Seek God's face and allow Him choose for you.
@ Oluwakrmi Ajibade . It’s a church relationship cos his pastor knew about it . How are we sure if they were sexual . So what’s it ungodly then . One just need to open your eyes when dealing with other especially the church goers cos some people hid under the umbrella to do Havocs .
@@adebayoolubunmi2201 it's ungodly. Guys like that also demand sex. Forget his talk about God. I experienced such too from a guy from church.. But i didn't let him scam me to the extent he scammed this girl. I knew how cunning he was so I wasn't giving in to all his frivolous demands.
@@BeckEddie I got you dear but some aren’t even going to church but won’t allow a guy that they’re not married to touch them . Most in the church are glorified Olosho but will pretend .
@@adebayoolubunmi2201 there are a few people of integrity in the church but most guys I've seen in church are just after sex. It's like the devil sent them to church. That's why it's not about church but about a personal relationship with God. The people the devil used against me the most were from the church. In the case of this girl, did you hear where she said the guy woke her up in the middle of the night to tell his dream? That means they were sleeping together. There's no way a guy who has no shame to be scamming a lady won't also demand sex. My own ex that acted that way was always begging for sex but I already knew he was a con man so I avoided it. He even promised to get me an engagement ring if I would give him sex. I was surprised at that trash he spewed from his mouth. Am I hungry for ring from a useless fellow!! I didn't even want the relationship from the start. He enforced it and begged for it promising marriage. Meanwhile he had no job or place of his own. I told him it wasn't possible. He quickly ran to my pastor and my dad to ask for permission to court me. Lying that he was running an online business. At first I was helping him financially. When I realised it was a pattern to Rob me of my money, I stopped. He was always bombarding me with love and calling me everyday. At the end, he got another lady pregnant.. Lol.. I was so happy when he finally confessed cos I now had a good reason to tell him it's over. I used to tell him it was over so many times but he kept holding on until that pregnancy came up. I was so relieved.
@@BeckEddie . She said in the morning not at the middle of the night . And she went from her own house ( listen again please) With my experience , you could sleep in a man house and not have sex with him even though is very very risky . Her visiting his family in Ibadan doesn’t mean she was having sex in his family house. You’re a wise girl , continue to be very careful with all these jobless guys in church ; They donot know God .They are just scams . God bless . 💕
Kind-hearted ladies always meet the wrong guys. She's a lady who can support a husband to progress just that she met a wrong guy.
Exactly good women always meet the wrong guys I just pity her I went through same thing
@@ayobamianike7457 .Anike, how are you doing now ?. God bless.
The thing is vice verser, good guys do meet bad ladies too.
You are right, but for every woman who suffers from men, they must had had a man who really suffer to have them but yet they turn them down only to focus on the one who never stressed himself to get them. Later the man they ignore to date a man that is suffering them will now an had i know issue. Many girls go see true love like this, na man wey go dey monitor their salary/income Dem go dey run after. May God make her happy
Exactly my dear
She is talking and laughing but deep down is pains , regret and sorrow
😭😡🤬
You are absolutely right
Shit is really painful
@@mytimehascome4378 b4 E go sweet, 2.3 and 2 yrs down
She feels stupid and used. Sad
You are a kind hearted young lady, he doesn't deserve a good girl like you.
You can tell that she’s a reserved girl. I pray she gets all her heart desires…
Amen
Chaii so painful...same happened to me after seeing him through school he still took my money to process paper with a claim is both of us but traveled with his new wife that I got to know on Facebook 🤣 2021 he came to plead that a prophet told him to come apologize to me so his wife can give birth 🤣🤣 I have to forgive him because my husband said I should.. after all God has blessed us so much...some men and women that are suffering today could be due to their wickedness to innocent people in the pass...my sister you will find true love go back to God in prayer... it's well
I'm so happy your story tuned out good. You're with a better man now...
@ Nwanyieze. Thank God for you and thank you for your words of Encouragement. God bless.
@@seunfaturiyele6790 yes oo it wasn't easy at all I was almost packing back to village but God came through for me through him...he couldn't even believe me when I told him all my story he felt I was lieing until the year the guy called, though I didn't know he was the one calling, when I got to know I put it on loud speaker for him to hear .he almost got angry at a point but he held himself at the end I just have to forgive because of the innocent woman and the Way his wife was crying... it's well my brother I just feel like sometimes God allow us to pass through somethings for a reason..
@@adebayoolubunmi2201 thanks...you welcome remain strong
He has to pay your money back
"Never do wife duties at girlfriend price " judge Lynn Toler.
Same as boyfriend
@@victorezeagu1893😂😂😂. You are right
The hearts of men is desperately wicked indeed
Painful! You should not lose your sense of intuition all because of love. The guy is obviously a crook. Women find it hard to see through men like that, just because of the promise of marriage, until they learn the hard and painful way. Anybody can promise you anything and fail with pride. Get sense!
I have learned not to play husband duty to a woman I am not married to, and I do not demand wife duty from the woman who is yet to be my wife.
Correct 👏💯👍🏽
Good for you thx for sharing 👍🏾
Wish all men were like you
Amen, thank u for ur prayers sir
Some pple are naturally trusting “empaths” it’s unfortunate, not fair
She was laughing because, as she narrates the story, it also sounded so foolish and gullible to her, how she kept giving him money every time he came asking, all in the name of promised marriage. She must have loved him, but yet didn't see though his real intent.
He didn't pay back, not even in part, all of the money she gave him. Rather, he kept coming for more. This clearly showed that his purpose of coming back to her was for her money, and the promise of marriage and trip to his father/family was the right bait.
Such a kind and beautiful lady! Don't worry, I pray you will get your money back. But just take it that God delivered you from a wicked guy and a marriage that would have doomed your life, your light, and your shine.
A better man awaits you.
It's the "such a kind and beautiful lady" for me
ITS EITHER SHE WAS IN LOVE THEN OR SHE IS WAS HYPNOTIZED WITH VODOO BY THE GUY
The guy open office for her head and she wasn’t smart enough to catch it smh
There is no office or smartness in that, he is just a fool. The girl showed her kindness, caring and trust that's all.
He took her calmness and good heart for granted
I have not finished watching but I'm already shedding tears for this innocent lady. This lady has been used by both the callous man and his family.
May God fortify her.
Amen! 🙏
Shes a kind lady,the guy just took advantage of her.I pray she finds truelove.
Amen
She will find it difficult to love again
Please l looking the next episode I want to see the end
I don't know how to get lt
This is the best of all the cases on this platform. In this clime, we don't like testing some of our laws, especially when it comes to cases of relationship; many Nigerians don't know that "Promise to marry" is a good ground to teach some liars lessons hence the reason why hearts are being broken and toiling with people's emotions means nothing. Kudos to this lady and her adviser whom I believe is a lawyer as this matter will open up a lot of consciousness to relationships. Can't wait to see the next episode.
This is impressive! This would be the first Nigerian case for breach of promise to marry that I know.
The guy just spoilt market for the next true guy but he will definitely meet his match. The way people use religion to lie is alarming
I am telling you. This is sad
Most especially in Nigeria, almost everything attached to religion and millions of myopic Nigerians falls for it
Omo.... Fr though, the next guy that would date her wld go through alot
Not because she would treat him badly, but because the next relationship after toxic ones are usually d most painful
And that is how the woman who married Mathew just inherited curses and evil upon her destiny ad a result of affiliation with Mathew. Mathew, thesame Holy Spirit you lied against will ensure you know no peace and suffer
Never lend money to an individual you are not a bank except with a collateral. It never ends well.
Her greatest pain stems from the fact that he's moved on!
Mathew is a looser.
Thank God he delivered you from that guys life
If you ended up marrying him would have been more pain for you. Everything works for good...
I wish you the very best moving foward
That guy is very wicked and the lady was just blind with love....nawa ooooo
This lady has been through a lot I just feel for her I pray she finds a truelove
Mathew wasted her time, break her heart and scam her of her money with fake love
Oga mathew you’re a very wicked man you better pay her back her money
I pray she finds true love after this experience. Someone who will love and cherish her for her kindness and selflessness.
She is a beautiful soul.
This lady is kind hearted, God will surely give her, a good husband. that crook does not deserve her, after paying this lady back, he deserves jail with hard labour.
I must watch the end of these o. The guy must be brought to justice, don't just pend this like all other cases where the defendant is absent.
This lady's was so kind hearted but the irresponsible guy took her for granted... he'll surely pay for his deceit...
Women , women , women . Stop 🛑 giving money to a man . Most time it’s not Love . They are just using you . A man is to provide in all religions/ traditions . A woman duties is help( contribute to the sustainability of the marriage not necessarily money ) in the home and love him in return not giving him money . One may have to in some cases but use your head . Matthew if this is true .God can’t bless you or your journey to anywhere .
Hmmmm it's not a crime a woman to assist the Reason God creates women is to assist dear husband but what the young man did is totally wrong I'm a man I won't support evil
@@ujuosimiri8181 . Uju , am talking from experiences with my parents marriage, uncle and so . I maintain donot give them money is not a woman duties . Contribute to their progress with your security. Buy a land and make sure it Mr Olu and Mrs Ola Oye . Build and make sure you name is written fully in Capital letter. In case, the devil uses him as mostly claimed you won’t suffer .Read Proverb 31 and understand it please .
As a man, I agree. Why would a man consistently be collecting money from a woman? .. It is a scam.
Any serious man would be ashamed to collect money from the woman he loves. Particularly in this case that he is not paying back each time
@@ujuosimiri8181 is the mathew her husband? Make una continue giving boyfriend instead of building yourselves. He bought car with her money where as she trekks
I feel for this lady! God!!!!! When you’re in love with a someone who has no motive rather than scamming you of your money! Took advantage of her love for him😒🤦🏼♀️
In a previous episode that the guy gave his crush a loan and you said he was a mumu. Why won't it also apply to her. That guy was one time, this lady gave money multiple times even after not paying. She's the real mumu. Don't blame love and being taken advantage
I'm not to blame her because she believed in true love but it so unfortunate that the guy played smartness with her love. And I pray the court should let JUSTICE PREVAIL.
Some men just don't know the day of their visitation!
God blessed the young man with a lady who would've made his life sweetness and butter but he couldn't think straight because he's full of dubious character.
Her kindness get comma sha!
The lady is so kind and does not deserve such💔….
Looking at the lady she's just a nice good woman, the wicked guy just took advantage of her good heart 😭
Mathew alone spoke with the pastor and holy spirit. Wow some men can lie
What a beautiful soul. May she find true love.
Wow...what a lady with such a pure heart. How is she ever going to trust another man again? It is bad guys like this that make all of us look bad. We will hear what he has to say sha
@ Chibuike . Holy Spirit will speak 🗣 for him . 😜
@@adebayoolubunmi2201 😂😂 Chaiii
The guy is a scam....simpu. A lot of great ladies are out there.
The strangest things happen because of love. Sorry to say but the papa na scam too!
The father is most likely a part of the scam
This is really sad. She did it all for love, and he took her for granted. You don't know what you have till it's gone.
We no go jam agbako🚶♀️🚶♀️ we will wait in next adjournment 🤐🤔
I trust Judge Funmi. All money will be recovered if the whole story she narrated happens to be truth.
I hope so
The guy didn't show up. He's guilty.
I feel for this lovely and kind lady. You deserve a better person than that wolf in sheep's clothing.
This is sooo painful….some men are so wicked
Some people go use wife do girl friend and use girl friend do wife. If what she is saying is truth he most reap it.there is nemesis in what ever we do whether good or bad.
The guy is a fraudster and so heartless, while the girl is vulnerable.
May God help her to recover her money.
She’s so so kindhearted lady who wishes a good future for whoever is her true husband but, here we are, the foolishness of the so called future husband betrayed the trust the lady has for every next man comes her way.
She's a kind lady
Truth
She is just a kind hearted lady. Who just falls into the hand of a woff is just turned her into an ATM
She was Bassey's ATM machine.Let's wait until the guy comes to tell us his own side of the story.
The things we do for love ❤️
Na wa oh! Some guys just dey comfortable dey wine and dine with evil spirit. See correct babe here. That evil guy must pay!
He's a King where ever he is, but he should pay up all the money he's owing asap!😂 Only women have the courage to up with cases like this, as a man how you one tell court say woman swindle you still no con marry you last last 😂😭😂😭
He' a king?
You people are amazing 🤦🏽♀️
When will these young girls stop allowing themselves to be USED?
Once a guy startes asking you for money , that's your cue to RUN!!!!
Please help me with money....Me too have things I need to do with money.....My no no is those guy that claim to be spiritual....yet they take advantage of you....Ladies open ur eye....they are everywhere
Something similar to this happened to me you know some people might think she was foolish in the relationship but that was not what I really eat because you know when you're in a relationship you will want to make it work but some so-called smart people I want to take advantage of it forgetting that there is every word for everything all the life we have lived we will account for it one day I just hope they will not be too late when the time come
May God see us through ma, some people say she was desperate after seven good years of being in a relationship....
Love makes people do stupid things.... sigh 😞😞
that one no be love oh....hehehehehe
Please where can I see this type of lady to marry? What a wonderful and kindhearted lady.
So that you can reap her again abi
This guys I don't understand how do they even come up with the idea to borrow money from their girlfriend am just so ashamed chaiiii
Very sad when some people are desperate in getting married. The guy deceived her into getting married to her not knowing the guy is 419. Ladies please be a careful of men with sweet tongue 👅. Some men are looking for ladies who will take of them.
Will u call that desperation after seven years of being in a relationship? The person introduce u to all his family members... Well I won't say much on this
What is desperate here why are you like this? Haba
Matthew is a player who sold her a dream and she bought in. Any man that finesses a woman should be praised is not easy.
The way I ran from a particular relationship like this? When I noticed that he was always complaining about money and how I should borrow him to start business.
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So therefore, with that being said and all protocol duly observed, I hereby declare vawulence and maximum emotional dàmage
I am so sorry my dear, love is an emotion that cannot be trusted. Love is a like a double edge sword, the sweet site of love no word can express its good taste,emotional beauty and feelings of it. Love negative site, the taste is worst than a poison it’s emotional feelings is suicidal, and if you eventually survive it the feelings will never be the same.
Very sad.I find it very difficult to understand why ladies believe lies that are very obvious. Anyways, you are very lucky that you haven't gotten a child with him,you would have been the one to raise that child alone.Be strong and open your eyes, a man that deserves you would come as long as you are industrious. Use legal means and take all the money you have given that BANDIT.
In your next relationship, make sure you do not sell on credit.Best of luck.
Love is blind bro..
The word 'bandit' got me😂
The things women do for Love.
@ Smile 4me . It’s never Love but stupidity. You both are planning to relocate and you are financially responsible for it and your name isn’t mentioned in the applications . You see it with your Korokoro eyes 👀 and you still continue with MUGU 101 . Naa juju he use ?.
Do you think the lady will give him such amount of money if she didn't love him
@@BlessedUchendu hmmmmmmm
that's how one useless guy almost did this to me... I ran for my life
wo, it's good to assist your man oo, and when you are assisting, make sure it is something you can forget about..so that if there's a crash, you won't feel bad like this..
This why I love juge Judy...she would have thrown u out of her court room... so stupid 🙄
She has a kind soul.
I hope you meet a very good and caring husband. I pray that God Almighty will give you joy in every way.
Wow 😯 Hmmmmm red flag 🚩 women we always ignore them.my dear sister you are a good woman God will send the men that will honor you.Good Luck sister ❤️❤️
The lady was vulnerable because the young man was having carnal knowledge of her... That's how play boy behaves... And she was so naive. She won't say what happened between them.
Oh my goodness me this is very sad and wickedness...Please when will young ladies of our society will learn their lessons? When someone borrowed money from and he/she have not been able to you back, he/she came up again asking for another one you still went ahead and gave the money what makes you think that he/she is going to pay you back in peace? Please beautiful women of our society try and learn when you are an ATM to a man or a true lover...This is very sad indeed.
Prove of Lending money to the man will be another issue........my sister
For goodness sake, when will these young ladies get wise and begin to see beyond their noses. You keep on spending your money on a guy who can’t even spend a dime on you and you cannot understand he is a scam, too bad
Its not love that made her give him
People who do this are often people pleasers and have been brainwashed into believing that a woman should question a man.
So called NICE girl syndrome
I respect ur opinion ma, but it wasn't brainwashed or people pleaser as u say
Bold of you to generalize this crap. No prior insight to her background/ experiences. Just this one story and voila. Do better ma!
Oh my God!This kind Mathew not a good guy ooo.A good lady like this is a good wife material and he misses it already.He must pay all the money back with interest.He used the lady throughout the relationship
oh my goodness !!!
after scamming you the second time , you still went ahead with this guy. smh
I hope the court can help you . Goodluck
That guy never loved her from day one,the guy only sow that she is a kindhearted Peron that he can easily brain washed after the six months relationship,and also sow her as a lady that has the financial resources of him getting to the level he want to get,that is why the guy came back with that proposal of taking the relationship to another level of marriage.
Six years actually not six months,, sometimes we learn in a hard way.....
@@prominentjames1754 their first relationship was six months before six years.
@@izzytony3473 . You are chatting with Promise herself. Let just surround her with love 💕 now cos she need to find her bearing after the mess.
Please justice ⚖️ court bring the wicked guy quickly ooo ika
That Matthew can never know peace in life, until he refund this lady money back, and ask for God and the lady forgiveness.
That's lesson for desperate lady.
Yara lati gboro but lora lati fesi. Don’t be myopic.. There are always 3 sides of every story, her side, his side and the truth.
@@TruthIsBitter9ja if you are mathew or knows him tell him to come to court and defend himself
please i need to see how this matter was handled. it's almost a year now
That guy is a 419 guy, he should refound all your money
Although i hv not heard from the guy but deep down my heart i believe this lady is saying the truth, just that the irony of life good ladies always end up in with wrong guys,the guy is a scammer,he pinned the girl down with marriage and duped her off all her savings after which the holy spirit told him they don't hv future together chai,i believe justice funmi will make the guy to pay every kobo he collected from this lady,some men are devil in human form
He ran away from Lagos
The man is a wicked man, a scammer and a thief. He should at least refund the money since she's not good for marriage. May God punish all those guys who intentionally takes advantage of women and those who also waste their time, they will never know peace in Jesus name, Amen! Except they repent.
Amen
Amen but vice versa
AMEN!!!
May God do the same to women that takes advantage of men also in Jesus name
Iseeee
I don’t want to call this girl a mugu she’s so much in love with the guy that she doesn’t even know the difference between her right and left hand what girl
There are always 3 sides to a story her side, his side and the truth.
Na them
The defendant wasnt present in the court according to your statement , you gave money to somebody first time , second time, third time, no returned and you kept giving and giving lady Can,t you see the hand writing on the wall ? ( be wise )This man is a deceitful person even if you dont work for the money you dont trew it away like this you just see somebody fisicaly and start loving him put all your trust in him you dont even care to Examine him internaly and know his heart ? be aware if get maried to this kind of person he will ruined your life ( be wise ) we in diaspora love watching the Justice Court programe is teaching many lessons how to handle things especialy in that nigeria
@ John Dera . Women know how to save if they are well brought up . Mere looking at her ; Does she look like someone that has 2.3M ?. No, cos she was saving for raining days . She made a lot of mistakes but God will have mercy on her beautiful soul and give her a very good husband that will wipe her tears away .
She did not just jump on him giving out money she has been in relationshi with him and have spent one week with his parents when they traveled to Ibadan. What's else would a lady need to be convinced of proposed future marriage we can't really blame her for the guys deceit which am. Sure his parents not approve and happy about
Didn't you hear about marriage. Once you promise a lady marriage she can do anything
@@victorezeagu1893 u are very wrong sir, not all ladies are desperate for marriage, the relationship lasted for seven years, will you call that desperation?
She didn't just meet the guy, they have been together for seven years since 2014, families were involved and their marriage was supposed to be last year July when she find out that the guy got married to another lady that same July they were supposed to go for their marriage introduction. Well the things we do for ❤️, there's more to the case, but all she's fighting for is her hard earn money
Those kind of men will post online that naija girls like to ask for bone straight hair. Whereas na their type de dupe girlfriends upandan.
Dis is heart breaking .and Dis is a wife material ok. Dis is the kind girl I like to marry. But am far from her. Pls judge fumi asaolu help her to recover her money 💰 🙏
The guy ran away from his Lagos base....
The heart of man is desperately wicked 😡😡
Hmmm, I won't say anything
Let's wait for when Brother Matthew appears before the court to give his account of what ensued.
Hmmm ... And this guy will think he is "smart". Painful!
Thunder fires the dream.
Everyone one in the court where just smiling.... Judge Funmi too smile
Some men get mind oo what's this 😭😭love isn't a crime and is good to support ya partner ahhh
really sorry for this lady.....so hurt...she's just smiling to hold her sef from bursting to tears
thank God almighty that this wasn't my case o, alot of ladies help some men to stand on their feet but most of them were betrayed. this mostly happen to innocent, naive ladies. now the nxt man will suffer even if he has good intentions. when she speaks tomorrow that she will never give a man her money we will all call her wicked, without knowing her story. that's why I will never judge anyone because I don't know their story. now people will call her stupid, and today people call me lucky. Life!!!
Even the judge is smiling. What a love
Her laugh breaks my heart😢
I'm sure she's just reasoning how not wise her decision s were
I really feel for the poor lady🤦🤦,.. the guy should be brought to book if these stories are all true!!
For me, it's not about the money alone, she's been blackmailed emotionally.
The guy is a wicked guy!
If this is true Mathew had played her emotionally and took advantage of her love, she only explained the monetary aspects neglecting the other room aspect😄😄 Matthew Na 419 if all what she said is right
Very wicked and heartless guy, nemesis will deal with him😔😔😔😔😔
Fear Akwa Ibom men....Its very unfortunate but i pray she recovers all.
Amen, thank u 🙏
IF EVERYTHING THIS INNOCENT& GULLIBLE LADY SAID IS THE TRUTH ,
GUY CALLED BASSEY WILL NEVER MAKE HEAD WAY IN THIS LIFE UNTIL SHE APPEASES THE SPIRIT OF THIS HUMBLE LADY
he doesn't deserve you
God will punish him
Doesn't the good book tell us that we shall know them by their fruit? The man clearly displayed dishonesty, lack of transparency and disregard for the lady, no character.
I pray the Court will help you recover your funds from the man. I believe you have learned your lessons. Please get up and shake off the dust from this ungodly relationship that crashed and purpose to do things right. Seek God's face and allow Him choose for you.
@ Oluwakrmi Ajibade . It’s a church relationship cos his pastor knew about it . How are we sure if they were sexual . So what’s it ungodly then . One just need to open your eyes when dealing with other especially the church goers cos some people hid under the umbrella to do Havocs .
@@adebayoolubunmi2201 it's ungodly. Guys like that also demand sex. Forget his talk about God. I experienced such too from a guy from church.. But i didn't let him scam me to the extent he scammed this girl. I knew how cunning he was so I wasn't giving in to all his frivolous demands.
@@BeckEddie I got you dear but some aren’t even going to church but won’t allow a guy that they’re not married to touch them . Most in the church are glorified Olosho but will pretend .
@@adebayoolubunmi2201 there are a few people of integrity in the church but most guys I've seen in church are just after sex. It's like the devil sent them to church. That's why it's not about church but about a personal relationship with God. The people the devil used against me the most were from the church. In the case of this girl, did you hear where she said the guy woke her up in the middle of the night to tell his dream? That means they were sleeping together. There's no way a guy who has no shame to be scamming a lady won't also demand sex. My own ex that acted that way was always begging for sex but I already knew he was a con man so I avoided it. He even promised to get me an engagement ring if I would give him sex. I was surprised at that trash he spewed from his mouth. Am I hungry for ring from a useless fellow!! I didn't even want the relationship from the start. He enforced it and begged for it promising marriage. Meanwhile he had no job or place of his own. I told him it wasn't possible. He quickly ran to my pastor and my dad to ask for permission to court me. Lying that he was running an online business. At first I was helping him financially. When I realised it was a pattern to Rob me of my money, I stopped. He was always bombarding me with love and calling me everyday. At the end, he got another lady pregnant.. Lol.. I was so happy when he finally confessed cos I now had a good reason to tell him it's over. I used to tell him it was over so many times but he kept holding on until that pregnancy came up. I was so relieved.
@@BeckEddie . She said in the morning not at the middle of the night . And she went from her own house ( listen again please) With my experience , you could sleep in a man house and not have sex with him even though is very very risky . Her visiting his family in Ibadan doesn’t mean she was having sex in his family house. You’re a wise girl , continue to be very careful with all these jobless guys in church ; They donot know God .They are just scams . God bless . 💕