You can fall in love and get married at whatever age God decides to bring you your spouse. Sorry but you Christian "dating coaches" making women in their 30s feel like leftovers is toxic
The reality is that there simply aren’t enough college educated successful men for all the women who want them. Being educated and financially successful makes these men very desirable to women including younger women. These men desire younger more fertile women. Women’s fecundity decreases significantly after 35. There is not someone for everyone. Marrying and having a family with a well educated man who can afford an upper middle class lifestyle is musical chairs. The music slows at 35 and stops at 38 it’s over and done. There aren’t a lot of high value men looking to wife up and MAKE BABIES with 37+ women.
Having been married for over 10 years before she passed, and now being back in the dating world for almost 3 years; this couple is pretty much spot on. 😎
I'm actually just heartbroken. I'm not dating because I've surrendered it to God. The man that I will marry is such a big deal that truly God is the only one that can pick him for me. But I'm single. Lonely. I'm doing the work but I feel so rejected, abandoned, overlooked and worthless..yes because no one has chosen me
One woman don't meet the thousand man in het village or city. One women is also not pursued by all the single man in her church. I find no real good advice in not one youtube video for women i their thirties who are maybe desperate to marry and have kids.
The reality is that there simply aren’t enough college educated successful men for all the women who want them. Being educated and financially successful makes these men very desirable to women including younger women. These men desire younger more fertile women. Women’s fecundity decreases significantly after 35. There is not someone for everyone. Marrying and having a family with a well educated man who can afford an upper middle class lifestyle is musical chairs. The music slows at 35 and stops at 38.it’s over and done. There aren’t a lot of high value men looking to wife up and MAKE BABIES with 37+ women.
Great content. Y'all kept it real with the needs of women and men. I'll add this: Men want women to approach them. If you see/know a man you like, ask him out; the chances are in your favor. There are many reasonable answers as to why a suitable, handsome man (who is even possibly interested in you) hasn't approached you yet. Bridge the gap, ask him out.
How is that even related to family unit? There are cultures around the world where people do not change last names after marriage and those families are very valid, just like fmailies where people have same last name.
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You can fall in love and get married at whatever age God decides to bring you your spouse. Sorry but you Christian "dating coaches" making women in their 30s feel like leftovers is toxic
Well said. God works in mysterious ways. We must never set boundaries for God
The reality is that there simply aren’t enough college educated successful men for all the women who want them. Being educated and financially successful makes these men very desirable to women including younger women. These men desire younger more fertile women. Women’s fecundity decreases significantly after 35. There is not someone for everyone. Marrying and having a family with a well educated man who can afford an upper middle class lifestyle is musical chairs. The music slows at 35 and stops at 38 it’s over and done. There aren’t a lot of high value men looking to wife up and MAKE BABIES with 37+ women.
Having been married for over 10 years before she passed, and now being back in the dating world for almost 3 years; this couple is pretty much spot on. 😎
I'm so sorry to hear. Thanks for sharing, and good luck on your dating journey ❤
This shouldn't be just for women in their 30s 😂
Never set boundaries for God. He works in mysterious ways
I'm actually just heartbroken. I'm not dating because I've surrendered it to God. The man that I will marry is such a big deal that truly God is the only one that can pick him for me. But I'm single. Lonely. I'm doing the work but I feel so rejected, abandoned, overlooked and worthless..yes because no one has chosen me
One woman don't meet the thousand man in het village or city. One women is also not pursued by all the single man in her church. I find no real good advice in not one youtube video for women i their thirties who are maybe desperate to marry and have kids.
The reality is that there simply aren’t enough college educated successful men for all the women who want them. Being educated and financially successful makes these men very desirable to women including younger women. These men desire younger more fertile women. Women’s fecundity decreases significantly after 35. There is not someone for everyone. Marrying and having a family with a well educated man who can afford an upper middle class lifestyle is musical chairs. The music slows at 35 and stops at 38.it’s over and done. There aren’t a lot of high value men looking to wife up and MAKE BABIES with 37+ women.
Hi Kelley, may I ask why you decided on not taking Matt's last name?
Women should look for a man in their 20’s. That’s when they are in their prime. If they wait they have younger women to compete with.
Great content. Y'all kept it real with the needs of women and men. I'll add this: Men want women to approach them. If you see/know a man you like, ask him out; the chances are in your favor. There are many reasonable answers as to why a suitable, handsome man (who is even possibly interested in you) hasn't approached you yet. Bridge the gap, ask him out.
9 non negotiable 😅. Good luck
Super tangible advice! This is excellent. Thanks 😊
You’re welcome Whitney :)
Soooo, You're giving advice; but, YOU couldn't find a woman of your kind: Black.
That's rhetorical.
This video makes me want to stay at home in my sweatpants and order myself a pizza
You're married with different last names? Still no family unit here.
Same last name
@@mattandkelley 0:30 Sure
@@perspectiveman6440 Oh, thanks for that. We don't edit our videos. It's a typo
How is that even related to family unit? There are cultures around the world where people do not change last names after marriage and those families are very valid, just like fmailies where people have same last name.
Ooof, no judgement here then!