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That far i once dreamed about smale clips and photos that actually was my future for about 6 or seven years like changing work school home city friends tests and more
Yes !!! But the Dr.’s and my family call it a mental health issue/illness such as schizophrenia or major depressive disorder. Take your pick, it’s a simple label given to me from the simple minded. I’m not crazy. I’m simply misunderstood. But it is what it is…
I thought I was weird, slow, creepy. I was fine in crowded places until I just felt like I needed to be alone. I always found myself turning my head so people didn’t thought I was weird for staring at then and I sometimes felt like I could stare into people’s soul with just one look. I always was in tuned with others feelings despite not having that many people I would considered my friends. There were people that without me knowing then that much seemed to be toxic and to me it would felt like they carry and aura that would make me wary of then, and I was still able to see a good side to that person. I would do things like felt oblige to tip waiters and waitress and would feel inclined to tip then even if they were bad to me in the hopes that it would encourage then. I would apologized to everyone often it felt like a crutch system I had, heck I apologized to my first car for giving him it to many bumps and then thank it. Honestly I felt sooo weird and misplaced in society I thought that there was something wrong with me or my head. And then I find all this INFJ material and everything begins to make sense. The list just goes on! I feel confused right now, but I sure am glad that I have answers to so many questions. This videos of INFJs have been a true blessing.😢🙂
I was the weird kid in the family and at school. I’ve overheard family members comment, “You know how Deb is, she’s different.” As an adult at work, I’ve had bosses and coworkers tell or call me; Spock (which I feel is a compliment), a chameleon, a witch (another compliment), spooky, creepy, and even “you are not of this world”. When I was about 20 years old, I had a 40 something year old male boss tell me that I frightened him. I think it was my INFJ stare coupled with the Mona Lisa smile that put him off. But I was the first person that the managers would contact to take on a project because they knew it would be completed on time if not early, with improvements. I’ve had strangers in grocery stores stop me and tell me their life stories. We KNOW stuff and that is okay. Thanks for these videos. I know I am not alone in this. We have a purpose.
I liked what you wrote, different is good, unique and individual, like just how we all were meant to be before herd mentality kicked in. Love & light intuitive one ♡
1) Can instantly tell when something isn't right. 2) They can sense when somebody needs help. 3) They can feel when someone is on the verge of a mental burnout. 4) They know when something aligns with their purpose. 5) They can feel anger from a miles away. 6) They can easily make big decisions without any outside reasoning. 7) They know when someone's mind has changed. 8) They can't accept concepts without assessing them. 9) They can find deeper meaning in dreams and patterns. 10) They receive out of the blue insights. YW :)
Me too. It made me cry when I first read the description of INFJs after taking the test. I have to remind myself that my chances of meeting another INFJ is just about one in one hundred . I feel a bit lonely. As for the sixth sense, heaven only knows where that comes from but it’s real. Does anyone else have to , sometimes, hide their sixth sense about someone, I do.
For 50 years I thought I had ptsd. Have had burnout more times than I can count. The more I study and read about being INFJ, the more at peace my life becomes. Understanding and learning control has been the most enlightening event in my life.
I am just realizing the same thing the more I study and understand myself. Sadly, though, I also realized I've had CPTSD most of my life, one humanity caused trauma after another beginning in childhood.
@@catsmeow3478 I am an INFJ retired therapist. I discovered that PTSD, phobias and other fear-based disorders can be quickly cured with the help of several treatment modalities that are not recognized by the mainstream psychiatric community, which focuses on drugs to treat symptoms, but do not eliminate the cause. If you would look up Emotional Freedom Techniques, EMDR, or NLP you will find many testimonials from people who have benefitted from these methods. I know how hard it is to believe that such seemingly intractable problems can be fixed so quickly, but it is true. After I learned some of these, this was all I wanted to use because it was a pleasure to help people so well and in such a stress-free manner. You will be glad that you did this, if you choose to. Find a counselor with experience in using one or more of these and you will feel like a new person. It never failed me.
@@handleguy thanks for your reply. In my study of non-traditional modalities over the last decade, I have learned about those techniques as well. I never did mainstream anything except some marital and personal counseling, which was very helpful. I understand the mainstream profession doesn’t have the answers. EFT and a little NLP and havening have been helpful. Healing is well underway and I’m doing much better. Best to you.
@@catsmeow3478 You study non-traditional modalities? I also have experience with Quantum Touch and also the Bonnie Prudden technique: Myotherapy. These are physical healing techniques, and they have been helpful for myself and family members. I haven't used them clinically as I have used EFT and the eye movement method. I'm glad to hear that you are doing well now. My specialty was addictions treatment. EFT was excellent in curing every type of addiction that came in my door. Relationship problems related to childhood experiences with addicted care givers also responded well. People with that history stopped self-sabotage of there current relationships with the same treatment of locating the triggering events that caused the individual to repeat the familiar patterns experienced as a child. It is done the same way I located substance using triggers for addicts. I haven't heard of anyone else doing that particular thing, so I thought I'd pass that on. If your studies of different modalities are available on line, I'd be interested in reading the info. I don't practice treatment any more, but I'm still interested.
I have so many stories of when my INFJ spidey-senses kicked in but I ignored them because I thought there was no way I could possibly know that about someone. It kinda ties into that thing where INFJ’s naturally attract narcissists and people with issues. Basically, our senses tell us something is wrong, but we try to look past it and give people a chance because we want to see the best in them. Then we find out we were right all along, but now we’ve got ✨trauma✨to show for it. …..my life is a living contradiction 😭.
Island - I'm chairman of Narc Trauma Club your not alone. We give chance after chance hoping we got it wrong or give benefit of the doubt. Only when you have been dehumanised and depleted do you recognise something was very off from the beginning but silenced your gutfeeling/intuition? I hope your healing- please read a book called the body keeps the score.
I know what you mean, I used to have this co worker I used to drool over. Drop dead muscular body builder macho dude , but I always felt he was suppressing his feminine side. Turns out that guy now likes to wear dresses secretly. .. well not that secret.
This happened to me so often too. It's probably how it has to be when you're an INFJ, at least until you know you're one and what it means. For me things shifted since i know i'm an INFJ (which is about 3 months now) and i started reconsidering some of my relationships and who i let into my life. Once you learn to trust you inner feelings life gets much easier
10/10 as an INFJ, and I'm tired of the situations where I just *feel* something isn't right - about the person, about the atmosphere - and am not able to explain it to others without looking ridiculously weird. I feel like my strongest power is to say if a person in front of me is hiding, or having bad intentions, without even realising it. It never failed me in my whole life, and even if I don't want to, it's working 24/7 no matter what I'm thinking of at the moment. It's not about the thoughts - it's about this inner feeling that guides me, and guides me away from bad and fishy people in general. So the most valuable thing from others is trust - just trusting in my feeling, my inner compass, without needing to explain why "this person is bad" and for that I would be most thankful. Because most of the time not only I want to save myself from such people, but my loved ones as well. And I'm really grateful for being INFJ because of it, as well for many other things (that, actually, were in this video too). Great video that helped me, as an INFJ, learn more clearly about myself, and even find some validation with "they cannot explain but they feel it for sure"! Thank you a bunch! ❤️
People have called me pessimist,narrow minded n judgemental in the past bcoz of my lack of ability to explain why this/that particular person or situation is not right. It was starting to get to me...Glad I saw this
So interesting how alike we all are. And yet people can't help but try to convince ourselves we aren't. Number 10 made me think even more than I already was because I distinctly recall telling someone years ago, that I believe decisions are made in an instant. Not quickly, but suddenly. You're thinking, thinking, thinking, trying to decide. But in a moment, the decision comes, seemingly unrelated to all the thinking you were doing, and that's when you make your move. It didn't make sense to them.
The reason I am able to catch something that is falling so fast is because I know it's going to fall before it does. Thank you for your amazingly interesting & helpful videos. They're great!
I also make amazing catches all the time we study our surroundings and subconsciously pick up on possibilities of something dropping. Then react when it happens almost surprise ourselves.
Ahhh... I like being different but very good to know there are others like me amongst the universe! I always use to be surprised thinking it was a lucky catch. Then I noticed the pattern of MY reaction split seconds before THE action. No luck involved actually, it just comes from within. :)
Oh my Gosh, how did you do this? I mean trust in yourself and walk away from the job which I know is not what I’m suppose to be. In fact didn’t now I haven been diagnosed as COMPLEX PTSD with dissociation. It is something I would. Not wish on anyone. I work at a manger if a Michael’s and the constant theft and being in Portland, Or and other life events have Me in the darkest place I’ve exes been. I would love to hear how you did this if you want to share. Also GOOD FOR YOU!’
I sometimes know when someone needs help before they do. I can definitely sense /feel when something is wrong or off. Some videos talk about why the INFJ attracts or is a target of narcissists, but I think we aren't appealing to narcissists except for them using our respect for them to get other narcissistic supply. I pretty much know what subconscious meanings my dreams have. As for making decisions without being able to explain how I got there, well, that's how it is most of the time. Last, people's feelings tell you more about them than logic or thinking does. 90% of communication is body language and tone; which is all feelings. Only 10%of communication is what words we choose and the order we put them in; which is important or a lot with complex things like humans, but feeling tells you 9 times more. All of us! We INFJs just have more conscious access to that aspect because of our Intuition and feeling functions, that's all.
maybe cause they are attracted to us like a moth to a flame,and one thing they do is they like to put ppl in a box and they can't seem to figure us out.Also they gravitate toward the weaker energy's,like power ,control,fear ,jealousy etc.
Really likes this explanation. Bravo... Sometimes I know what I mean but find it difficult to articulate to others, even then I'm not sure they really understand... Probably true that I'm still muddling to understand myself so why would anyone understand my ramblings... Maybe someone may understand here¿
@@99.9percent9 Yes, knowing what you mean, but thinking it would be impossible to articulate. I understand that. I found that if I just give it (speaking/ articulating) what I mean to say when I think; "This is going to be impossible", that most of the time I actually can articulate it, and not only that, I sometimes articulate it in a few words or sentences. When I think and/or feel this, I tell myself "screw it, just give it a shot", and it usually works out. I think it has something to do with just letting go of the "this will be impossible" thinking, and just giving it a try. It has helped me a lot here and there, but noticeably.
Yes I am a INFJ and everyone around me really hates it and I just love it because when they try to lie to me it doesn’t work. I’m usually already way ahead of them
INFJ here, in describing the way we react to and realize our time is not being spent in alignment with our purpose, "completely dissatisfied & out of place" is perfect. It's an intense feeling that is impossible to ignore and often hits us in the face while having a pleasant time with our co-workers.
Yes, this is all spot on & very true. As a young child practicing piano, I would stop mid song and ask my mom if she has heard from her friend Wanda lately. Right when I asked the phone rang & it was Wanda. This went on for years, mostly premonitions. Unfortunately, it happened recently when my dad passed, and then my mom 11 months later. It was frightening to say the least, nothing I could do to stop the outcome. I felt the outcome a few hours before the end. In most situations it can serve as a warning for protection or safety.
This was an emotional experience. To have my 'Me', my soul persona exposed and laid out before me in the most matter-of-factly and direct way. I feel so more connected..not so alone. Thanks for these videos.
So I’ve taken the test several times, and have tested as INFJ each time. Ummm, yes. No, I’m not special but for some reason, I have always felt other’s feelings even if we’re not in the same building. I took two years to decide if I believe in Jesus, I was raised Christian, I literally read through the Bible twice, would sit and pray in my room for hours until I finally had an encounter with Jesus. I remember always feeling there was a God, but exactly who was God, I truly needed to know for certain. Yes, I am a believer, but it’s so true that I never accept much at face value. Especially these days. Definitely get “burn out” and require removing myself from situations, even if they are fun invites just so that I can recharge. Very interesting video.
I understand exactly what you said about the empathy. I would wake up in a good mood and suddenly feel like anxiety or sad and couldn't understand why. I would go to neighbors and he would be having a bad day. All my life I could walk in a room and immediately know if the room chill, uneasy etc. Definitely spiritually attuned and not trying to convert but Christianity Islam Judaism are almost one in the same and are distortions of The Law of One. Food for thought how can we truly have free will but be punished for not worshiping? Have a great day.
Are we the only ones who take the test multiple times? I'm also a "believer" who had to examine the facts. The faith to believe that the universe came from nothing for no reason is beyond me. For me there needed to be a cause external to the creation, hence a creator. Then to the micro scale believing that the information contained in our DNA sprang forth from random processes is unbelievable. Stephen Meyers book Signature in the Cell does a very good job of explaining that it is statistically impossible for the complexity of the information contained in DNA to spring from nothing for no reason. When I read the Bible and find a Creator God who is inviting me to an intimate relationship. John 17:21-23 (ESV): that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, 23 I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me. I used the word "believer" in quotes because these ideas are more like facts than a belief system for me.
Seriously, my friends call me “lucky charm” or “Angel’s words”. I’m a male INFJ, and sometimes it’s being one is so tiring😔 It feels like people can talk to you almost anything, but you can’t open up easily to anyone… it suck being an INFJ sometimes. Hope all of you my INFJ brothers and sisters are doing well.
Very true points. I used to work in a competitive business environment where I struggled with many colleagues who have serious internal conflicts and walk around faking themselves with a thick mask. It was impossible to not picking up their vibes in the office. I remember how much a young colleague tried to fit in but I could feel deep inside he was not happy at all. One year after I left the job I learnt he took his own life.
I happen to be an INFJ, and I work in Customer Service for a major wireless company. Even over the phone, I can tell if the caller is telling the truth or not. I can "sense" that there's more to the story than what's being told. I can also sense if the caller is sincere in pleading their case. In 14 years no one has come to me and said I made the wrong decision about the actions I've taken based on the scenarios I'm presented with.
A young woman, unknown to me, came to visit a housemate. We locked eyes in an unwavering gaze, not a stare, for about 3,4 minutes. No words were spoke. I went of to work, came home later and house mate confided that this young lady had the opinion that I was so intelligent, that I was almost insane. Sounds about right
Being a psychiatrist & INFJ , I have completed the sentence of a client before they actually said it. I have had sixth sense when a client is going through something horrible & when my loved ones became flying monkeys of a narcissist. Cutting the cord meditation has helped me to stop worrying over patients I can't help.
You're absolutely right about geting insight and answers ,they come to me out of nowhere.from somewhere, we are taking in so much into our subconscious on a daily basis , I do believe what we have stored always comes out when we need it, and I always trust it to give me solutions, it kicks into action , it becomes better as you get older, you're.able to see patterns and what's what,.love your Videos 👍👍👍👍👍🤗🤗
Bam, I just 'know' what I need to know. This presentation fits me to a tee. Some people think patterns are BS, if that's true, why does law enforcement use it so much to fight crime? Patterns are a way of life for me, it's as natural as spring water.
I recall a time when I was preparing to walk in to my new class of students and had a giant knot in my stomach once I reached the school. I began to pick up on their collective nerves and the feeling of overwhelm was so strong when I entered the room that my heart began racing, my stomach was tight and I couldn't get a full inhale of breath. I looked out into the sea of nervous eyes and led everyone through a grounding, meditative breathing exercise until everyone settled. If I hadn't;t I don't think I would've been able to teach. I also seem to know someone I'm speaking with is going to cry before they do. My throat will tingle and I'll hold my breath and feel their pain. My curse and superpowers I guess. Every video is have watched makes me smirk because i am textbook INFJ-T
The INFJ role within "The tribe" is to promote harmony and protect the tribe by detecting and deflecting potential future problems. Which is why we can detect when something is not harmonious or is even likely to become unharmonious, whether that be a persons emotions, whether someone is lying or a situation is "off". We are walking, breathing discordance and dissonance detectors. One of the best roles in modern life for an INFJ is that where they can ensure others are in the best place for them to shine personally and professionaly.
I once met an old friend. And right in the beginning of that meeting I got an intuitive feeling that our friendship had come to the end. And later it appeared that this really was the case.
That's wild! I hear you. I've called out a few relationships revolved in adultery over the years. The first time I had a hunch that my friends mom was cheating on his dad. This was in high school. I was contemplating telling my friend but thought it would have been awkward and accusatory without strong evidence. His mom and dad divorced within a couple months after that. One other happened a couple years ago. I was staying at my friend and his wives place, while travelling around the province. I woke up in the early morning with ONE SINGLE thought. SHES CHEATING. Like I woke up before my alarm with that thought. It felt so put of place and bizzare. Turns out it was happening, and they separated within a couple weeks.
I recently learned, again, that some people don't want help & are to the point of burnout. I have always seen through bs. This friend would hide behind bs. I use humor to help people heal & show different angles. He got upset that I made light of a similar situation that happened to me. I can absorb & reflect others' feelings and emotions. I absorbed his feelings for several weeks, then accidentally reflected them back when he opened up about his problem . I was almost on emotional overload from him and his anger exploded. I am a magnet to people who need help, but really need to have better boundaries, I suppose...
Tons of truth here from my perspective/experience. You were SPITTIN from 07:16 - 07:44 🔥🔥🔥.....and I literally LOL'D at 07:23, ABSOLUTELY IMPOSSIBLE for a mature/aligned INFJ. 😂💯
Yes, all of them. I wasn't 100% sure I was an INFJ but this confirms that I am. I can't imagine navigating through life without these skills. I would be lost.
I’m definitely an INFJ and judging by all these comments I don’t think this personality is as rare as they may think. There seems to be a lot of us out there which l got to say, it feels quite comforting considering l felt very misunderstood and lonely all my life
Yes I thought that initially until I realised thousands of people are reading this so to find a hundred replies makes sense. I wonder also if any INFJs hate being right. I do. Odd isn’t it
I am an INFJ. I see many of these in me. There was a time when a family was in crisis. The pain was causing them to turn on each other rather than lean on each other. I was able to help them see the light at the end of the tunnel and forgive each other for pain they were causing each other and move on with hope
I am an INFJ. Before studying about the MBTI, I always wonder about my personality and something about my mind. When I was only 25yrs. I resigned from one of the biggest companies in my country.(oil &gas industry with really high salary) It seems that in the deep of my heart. Money is not the important thing that I should find out for. When I was 23 yrs, the fisrt year of my working, one of my neighbors said to my mother that she was afraid of me. Back to college and classroom, I usually was in the front 1,2,3) and mostly was the person who received the highest score in many subjects. That was not I was smarter than my friends (because they also were intelligent and have high IQ especially INTP, INTJ I think). But the way I did was that I observed my teacher characters and of course I could read their minds. It kinds of I could guess and predicted what answers that would satisfy and also correct for each one (not only correct, but should fit to the teacher's styles as well.) So, I wrote my answers that similar to what they expected. Just my experiences and example, about the other special abilities I have are the same as the other INFJ, we can predict and see the future, we can read other people's minds, and more
hello. im Mickalis a most definitly INFJ, ive been studing this topic for many years as well as other physic, topics. your reasoning about my personaility trait is very good i must say. im inpressed! thankzz for your honesty. friend Mickalis
1. They can easily tell when something isn't right. 2. They can sense when someone needs help. 3. They can feel when someone is on the verge of a breakdown. 4. They know when something aligns with their purpose. 5. They can feel anger brewing from a mile away. 6. They can easily make decisions with no significant outside reasoning. 7. They know when someone's mind has changed. 8. They can't accept concepts without assessing them. 9. They can find meaning in symbols and dreams. 10. They receive 'out of the blue' insights.
I subscribed to this channel, because I thought this was very accurate. I think that the person who made the insights for this video may be INFJ as well because the thoughts were not just very accurate but very deep as in 'how would he know unless he is one, or he interviewed one with thorough investigation AND the right questions BUT how did he know what questions to ask... and that's the thing. The video is 'telling us' more than 'asking us'. I'm not sure if any part of the video was wrong. Very accurate, very good. If you're INFJ and reading this, feelings are tangible. Feelings are literal. Emotions and thoughts have to be tangible or you wouldn't be able to channel them and control them. We are in tune with emotions/ energy motions / vibrations. They do exist and we gauge and predict the trajectory of them like DNA or a seed predicts outcome. The trajectory is unstoppable. The future has already happened in a finite sense and the bigger part will just catch up with it, fulfill and realize itself. I'm tickled with and when I here the word 'choice'. Choice exists, but I think that some or many people think that, that can thwart truth or variables. Personally I think choice exists to experiment and also it's there to prove that no matter what you do, go ahead, you can't change the outcome of the DNA out come of what we are and will be. We can't choose our way out of that.
The intuition is so strong you can feel it even via internet lmfao. I even open these type of things to few friends and they thought I was overthinking and my ideas abt that person is too far-fetched. But later came, and I was surprisingly accurately right abt everything. 💀
Just found out I am INFJ this week, and yes, 10/10 everything this video said is me. all My best friend said I am the weird one, never understand how my brain work. and I thought I was just observant with others feeing down, tire or something going on while most people maybe simply don’t pay attention enough but apparently is actually an INFJ thing huh. Glad I found a community in all of you fellow INFJs. 👽👾👻
100% I do get tired of always knowing when someone is lying, or feeling others hidden frustration or anger and such. I block this or work to ignore it if I can't do anything to fix it. I shared this before. But I walked into a mall once and made eye contact with a man on a bench . I instantly saw my death in his eyes. In the same moment I knew I couldn't let him know I was onto him. So I walked down the mall turned the corner and hid in a store. He cane walking by. I git my car keys out and hidden in my hand , practicing in my mind how I would unlock the car door, get in quick and slam and lock the car . I knew I could not look around when I left the store. That I had to walk calm but quick back down the mall hallway, and back towards the exit and to my car. I did so , then key in lock in car slam and lock. Looked up to see him right at the car door reaching. We made eye contact, his eyes said yes I was going to kill you, and then he tilted his head with respect. He was ordinary in every way, it was in the middle of an ordinary day . I have zero doubt he would have killed me. I don't know how he was able to be inches away from me without me hearing him. I know if I hadn't listened to my inner voice, and looked around , or let on I was worried he would have gotten me. I have never seen my death in anyone else's eyes before or since and this was 30 years ago. I've also ended up helping people in bizarre circumstances, that others feared were a setup. A lady approached me eating lunch alone in NYC , in broken English asked me to serve divorce papers to her husband in an apartment a few blocks away . Then go and get notarized . I did so because I believed her , even this would make me late back to work. When it was done , and notarized , she took off a beautiful hand made necklace and forced me to take it as a thank you. Once going to dinner with friends, we noticed a crazy looking lady going up to people In the parking lot. When we finished dinner and came out she was still there. She came up to us and begged for a ride home , she claimed she was legally blind but could see some. She had missed the buss and was stranded. All my friends said no. I said yes. I believed her. My friends said I was crazy. .thus was before cell phones. We were in the city and she lived in a near by small town. Ended up it was also my small town , and ended up she lived only a mile from me as I found out while driving her. I trust my intuitions 100% and so do my family and true friends. Its hard being an INFJ , but there are also huge benefits. I've been amazed to find this channel , and I feel less misunderstood
Relatablee. Sometimes i do scare of myself on how i can predict things before it happened. Still remember on how i avoid this group of people cause i can sense negative vibes within them and years later my instinct proven as they show their true colours and cause problems to my family.
we are more spiritually inclined, it is our primary compass... the truth is your friend. I wont do a business deal if i dont feel right about it, and i always pray over my future decisions. most of all, its a blessing to be able to read people so well, and a blessing to be able to happily be at ease by my myself and nature
About the noticing of patterns this video touched on so much--- I noticed that at 7:07 a christian cross was shown in a negative light as the narrator talked about the infj being able to see thru "stories they have been told as a child". I then counted five scenes where people were doing yoga postures while the narrator spoke of strong intuitive qualities of the infj. If this video were void of that and the rest of the subliminal messaging in the form of visual ques coupled with narration--- or just stripped down to the narration--- it would be great. The words are true--- but are subliminally weaponized as they are overlaid with the visual sequences. Thanks for the spoken words but no thanks for the visual presentation... which I interpret as a series of almost clever manipulations encapsulated in a pill that feeds the ego/ pride of the INFJ or viewer.
Nice I noticed the exact same thing at the 7:07 mark too, by coincidence, they happen to take shot a Christianity? I don't think so. How about the Ouija board at the 7:59 mark? Excellent analysis of this video, and why I will not be watching this channel ever again, classic door slam!!!
@@thehighlanders607 Thanks Gnosticism/ New Age/ Kabbalah idealogical fragments are scattered throughout the whole Jungian/ MBTI personality thing... once you know/ see--- you cant unknow/ see... All I can say is: take what you can and leave the rest... trying to find info for self- improvement in this "science" while squaring what you find to your Christian core is almost like bobbing for apples in a dirty toilet... *smh* God bless
@@swamplight79 bobbing for apples in a dirty toilet…. So true. So many people seem to go for eating the turds too..they seem enjoy it and expect others to be delighted in eating it as well. I’m very fatigued by all the shit sandwiches others put together and offer to me to eat. …even from so-called ‘religious leaders’. More than half have NO idea what they are saying or believing in. They parrot and punch. It is the same in the new age venues too. In fact, much of that has been taken in by churches. If you find a pure stream, protect it with your life. I felt the same ‘off’ pangs of manipulation with the ‘’stories they have been told as a child’’ coupled with the imagery. This is the same type of ‘’shit sandwich’’ I am referring to. They think we should be thankful they ‘fed’ us even with a little poopie sprinkled in.
I don't think the purpose of the videos are solely aimed to repair our egos. They can be weaponized towards the infj as well I wouldn't believe this is all written by an infj unless they left it in unfinished thoughts. Not an infj trait. We think till it can't be wrong or misused. Others may not worry like that. But I enjoy the insight it gets me thinking deep
Hola. I didn't awaken till I was past 50, and it changed everything about me and my world. I often wish I'd have awakened earlier in life, but I know my world had to be destroyed a few times before I could truly be the empath I was destined to be. The "feelings" I would get, which always turned out to be correct, the spot-on character judgement abilities, being targeted and played by narcs, putting myself out to help others. Those four letters. It all makes sense now. I've lost friends over knowing too much, but those folks were close to getting ghosted (closer to how I remove myself from the lives of others than door slamming) anyway. It's a tough, emotional life, but the off-the-hook intuition is worth every issue. . . . Just recently, I've decided I need to distance myself from my 20 year close friendship with my next door neighbor. I've been making the unreturned effort now days, and she "forgot" my birthday last week. We're both Leos, so that's kind of a big flag. God Bless and Take Care councelors, advocates and healers. ~Keep on Keepin' on. Majik
"They can feel anger from miles away" That's why I don't like any form of resentful energy or people raising their voice when it's so not needed, the energy from that goes through my veins and can immediately earn an annoyed response from me, because it agitates me. The other option is tears spring to my eyes and I turn quiet, but that depends on factors.
Wow before I took a personality test I just thought a lot of these things were happening to me purely because of the “law of attraction” because I’m constantly heavily thinking but when you talked about #9 & #10 it made SOOOOO much sense because that’s exactly how things happen to me for some odd reason I’ll think of something heavily & then boom I’ll get confirmation through books or while I’m out driving ect. So I’m big on entrepreneurship and I’m always watching podcast and business videos constantly trying to expand my knowledge & I remember this one time I was listening to a podcast and just thinking of how badly I really want to be a multi millionaire & accomplish all of my goals & as I’m listening the guy in the podcast says something about cars & I’m at a red light , I kid you not boom I see a Lamborghini Gallardo Superleggera on the other side of the street so I’m like wow okay then as I continue listening the podcast says something about running & yo no bs I see someone jogging getting his exercise so I’m like yo okay wtf. 10 seconds later the podcast says something about a bike …. YO I then see someone riding a bike down the street and I’m just amazed at what all is happening. A little more into the podcast he say something about a Range Rover …. I turn my head to the right & guess what’s there ??? A freaking Range Rover. All of this happened within a span of 5-10 mins & I instantly thought okay this is confirmation that if I continue to work hard and remain discipline I can get to that other side of life and obtain everything I ever wanted. Soooo many of these types of coincidences happen to me All the time but I see it as confirmation that I’m on the the right path. Crazy how I always thought nobody understood me and how different I was & once I did the test and realized I was a advocate or INFJ things just started to click like aha moments. Man the thought of being a motivational speaker and writing my own book , being a multi millionaire starting my business in saving the ocean. All these things are definitely possible and if you have goals and are reading this. You CAN do it seriously you just gotta put in the work & get off your ass. Especially if you’re an INFJ you’re alone in your room, deep in your thoughts all day anyways might as well put your time to use. At least that’s what I’m doing since the age of 15 & one fucking day ima prove a lot of ppl wrong. & so can you! Thanks for the video 💯👌🏾
I was looking for a roommate and sitting in living with a guy talking. He said he liked making guns. He did the woodwork for the handles. Then he pulls one out to show me one. I never felt any threat until of course this stranger pulled his gun out! I didnt get up to look at it but I stayed interested in what he was saying about his craft all the while wondering if I should be worried and decided I didnt need to worry because he was oblivious to any affect him showing me his gun would maybe have…..however I was glad he put it back away. That being said I have had tons of flashes of something happening far away that proved to be true. Even have had a car make me tell a friend to check oil ( which was seriously low) so many. In sales I was good because of intuition. I chose a place to buy sight unseen based on a feeling. Made the offer while driving down the freeway. Still here! Safest town ive ever lived in
Before I learned that I have this personality type it was a struggle to be an odd one and I just don't fit in. Now I don't need to feel that way anymore. I know what I am capable of and now I accept me wholehearted for being me like never before.
# 4 jumps out at me so strong. It took me seven years to see where my life is being g aligned, although other persons were giving me advice on different career paths, I didn't see it their way and some even pulled their selves from me. Oh well, their lost, lol. I follow my own drum beat.
When someone often asks me, "How did you know?" , I am incredulous. How did they not know? All the signs and patterns were there in the open for everyone to see. Been there, done that, seen that.
He said coo coo? 😂. One of my ex bosses (I like him) put that nick on my when he released that I can't pay attention too much when there is not difficult things to do, and I keep myself into my inner world ignoring whatever happens around 😂.
I will be accept something after assessing it from any angles. Even for religion matters, for example, as a Muslim, my childhood oftentimes told with folklore that some intellectuals have doubted. But after I think and learned those things deeply, I can believe that The Essence of God is true, but for explaining it so hard because its complexities.
I didn't realise me, until I divulged, 15 years with a overt narcassist and I did research on personalities as I knew there was a problem, I've 3 babies with this man, when I discovered who and what his condition was , after the breakup I was gobsmacked !!!! Only recently have I researched me lol xxxx
I love this video and appreciate 🙏🏽the effort you put all these magic unique pieces of quality but in the future. Plz do it without music 🎶 l couldn’t concentrate. Thanks
I know these aspects all too well, added with a few other aspects such as a second layer of pattern orientated thinking and a degree of tactic based conscious thought and I have ended up doing things that have surprised myself let alone being the natural support for my close friends, a small consideration, hide nothing and those who read you can be surprised because the more their reading you, the more their thinking like you when reading you ^.^
Add number 11: long before finding out my infj status I discovered an intriguing power. If I lost or misplaced something, and had no idea where, I simply needed to walk around all the places I had been in since losing track of the item and I would become aware of the item when passing within 3 to 5 feet of the missing item. It helps reduce the amount of time spent searching as I instinctively know when I am searching where it isn't
I can relate so well with that. And the times the Item has been misplaced by someone else it drivers me crazy because my radar takes me back to the last place I had the Item.
When I lose things, I don’t freak out because I “KNOW” it will turn up, usually in a spot that I’d never put it, and I don’t when…just always know it will turn up. 💯
Yes a weird awareness of where it is not actually remembering what I had done with it. Just call for the item through action and room scanning. Room scanning is not enough to find a lost item. It will remain lost if you don't call or recall.
yes. even to the point of actual events that would only be described as 'psychic'. I once nearly snatched up the phone to answer it, then stopped and stared and waited 2 seconds, then snatched it up and said "hello Quentin"(my cousin). the phone on my side hadn't rang, and my cousin said that he didn't hear it ring in his receiver either, but that I had answered the phone in between the moment that he pushed the last digit and the time the phone would ring in his ear, and before it could ring on my end either. I had two witnesses at the time, my mom and dad, who didn't believe that anyone was on the phone at all, I had to let them both talk to my cousin before they would believe it. they were speechless.
I am the "he told you so" person at our office. I don't do the "I told you so" but other people always point out when my ignored warnings come to pass.
I feel all the same things your talking about but sometimes I get ahead of myself and say things people have figured out yet and I get disregarded alit because of this
it's frightening and I never ignore it anymore. No one understands. I discussed it a few times and people think I'm nuts. I once saw a person on the side of the road and thought, something bad is going to happen. Not two minutes later, I saw them hit by a car and killed.
I had a huge crush on a woman, and I knew she liked me too. The next logical step is to ask her out, right? Well I knew something was up with her. Turns out she already has a man, but she isn't happy with him. My gut feeling was right. Perhaps she wanted me to ask her out. I value myself a hell of a lot more than to hold on for a woman who is literally in bed with a man. I wouldn't even look at her until she's been single for at least 6 months. The fact she is entertaining other men while still with someone made me realise she isn't worth it. Trust your gut feeling. Just because someone likes and you like them doesn't always mean you should go for it.
I have a similar situation, super strong eye contact and choosing signals.....but she is away 5 nights a week, just feels like something I off... either she hates her parents and can't be around her mother, or she has a girlfriend or boyfriend. Always having blue or now a green streak in her hair. On the flip side she looks like she ain't had a good fkkk in years
@@cv6176 the one I liked is with an older man, and now the age difference is now being felt as he is old and fat. I'm the same age and I am very fit for my age. I got the impression she was also starved for attention. But there's no way I will act selfishly with someone in a relationship, it's disgusting behaviour and if that's how it started the same thing will likely happen to you too, or that worry would always be there. Trust your gut, good luck
@@aodh5966 its female nature to have a new guy lined before they leave the other guy. She may need him for resources but may desire you for sxx. Im 47 fit and on seemen retention for a year. This girl is 21, seems shy, but I could be wrong Maybe we are both overthinking it.. ill keep retaining and hold my power for a girl that works for my attention for now
@@cv6176 bro I don't need to tell you, that age difference is crazy. You were older than her even when she was born. I wouldn't go for someone on that big an age gap you're just asking for trouble. I cannot imagine a 41 year old woman would have strong feeling for a 66 year old man. It may work now and for a while but the age difference would catch up with you and you'd end up alone and possibly owing her money and half your stuff. Stay within a tighter age group if I were you. I am 37 and wouldn't go any younger than 30
I'm loving your vids. I have a small syntax fetish to communicate, however. UNIQUE is a finite word. It means there is only one. Nothing can be very or quite or really unique. We have no other word for this singular linguistic location, so despite being happy with linguistic drift, this one leaves us with nowhere to go.
I grew up with a deep bias against "women's intuition". Both my brother and I learned that we could solve problems by Not Thinking about them. These days I'm used to "The sudden, instantaneous cessation of stupidity" that serves me for inspiration.
Of course I got all of them, too. Being an INFJ sure rules and rocks, though sometimes it can be difficult as well. But if you are an adult INFJ, or even a Sigma-INFJ, you know your way around the world and people. Basically you have "Do not even try to mess with me" spelled on your forehead - and it understandably frightens other Types.
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Yes 😅
That far i once dreamed about smale clips and photos that actually was my future for about 6 or seven years like changing work school home city friends tests and more
I've never watched any MBTI Personality video, that speaks so highly about INFJs! I've loved it! ☺
Yes !!! But the Dr.’s and my family call it a mental health issue/illness such as schizophrenia or major depressive disorder. Take your pick, it’s a simple label given to me from the simple minded. I’m not crazy. I’m simply misunderstood. But it is what it is…
I thought I was weird, slow, creepy. I was fine in crowded places until I just felt like I needed to be alone. I always found myself turning my head so people didn’t thought I was weird for staring at then and I sometimes felt like I could stare into people’s soul with just one look. I always was in tuned with others feelings despite not having that many people I would considered my friends. There were people that without me knowing then that much seemed to be toxic and to me it would felt like they carry and aura that would make me wary of then, and I was still able to see a good side to that person. I would do things like felt oblige to tip waiters and waitress and would feel inclined to tip then even if they were bad to me in the hopes that it would encourage then. I would apologized to everyone often it felt like a crutch system I had, heck I apologized to my first car for giving him it to many bumps and then thank it. Honestly I felt sooo weird and misplaced in society I thought that there was something wrong with me or my head. And then I find all this INFJ material and everything begins to make sense. The list just goes on! I feel confused right now, but I sure am glad that I have answers to so many questions. This videos of INFJs have been a true blessing.😢🙂
I was the weird kid in the family and at school. I’ve overheard family members comment, “You know how Deb is, she’s different.” As an adult at work, I’ve had bosses and coworkers tell or call me; Spock (which I feel is a compliment), a chameleon, a witch (another compliment), spooky, creepy, and even “you are not of this world”. When I was about 20 years old, I had a 40 something year old male boss tell me that I frightened him. I think it was my INFJ stare coupled with the Mona Lisa smile that put him off. But I was the first person that the managers would contact to take on a project because they knew it would be completed on time if not early, with improvements. I’ve had strangers in grocery stores stop me and tell me their life stories. We KNOW stuff and that is okay. Thanks for these videos. I know I am not alone in this. We have a purpose.
You are not alone. I can relate to everything you spoke of.
Wow 😮 I’ve had experiences like this. Heck, I could have written it 🤯 ❤️🤗
I can relate to really well!
I liked what you wrote, different is good, unique and individual, like just how we all were meant to be before herd mentality kicked in.
Love & light intuitive one ♡
Funny you talk about Mona Lisa smile, few people told me I looked like her... very strange..Thanks for sharing your story 🙏😌
1) Can instantly tell when something isn't right.
2) They can sense when somebody needs help.
3) They can feel when someone is on the verge of a mental burnout.
4) They know when something aligns with their purpose.
5) They can feel anger from a miles away.
6) They can easily make big decisions without any outside reasoning.
7) They know when someone's mind has changed.
8) They can't accept concepts without assessing them.
9) They can find deeper meaning in dreams and patterns.
10) They receive out of the blue insights.
YW :)
Thank You!! 🙂
Yes. I'd feel blinded, if I didn't know these things or have these instincts.
And that ain't maybe, thank you.
Thank you for the time saving 👍🏼
Thankya Chris
I'm an INFJ and honestly, all of this is so true it even frightens me some times.
Me too I thought I was the only person that knew about the stuff that I was going to, obviously not now
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nah i swear we have powers highkey.
Me too. It made me cry when I first read the description of INFJs after taking the test. I have to remind myself that my chances of meeting another INFJ is just about one in one hundred . I feel a bit lonely. As for the sixth sense, heaven only knows where that comes from but it’s real. Does anyone else have to , sometimes, hide their sixth sense about someone, I do.
@@Sjb2077 Yes, more than often so as to not freak people out.
For 50 years I thought I had ptsd. Have had burnout more times than I can count. The more I study and read about being INFJ, the more at peace my life becomes. Understanding and learning control has been the most enlightening event in my life.
I hope that happens to me. The more I learn about this, the more hopeless and odd I feel.
I am just realizing the same thing the more I study and understand myself. Sadly, though, I also realized I've had CPTSD most of my life, one humanity caused trauma after another beginning in childhood.
@@catsmeow3478 I am an INFJ retired therapist. I discovered that PTSD, phobias and other fear-based disorders can be quickly cured with the help of several treatment modalities that are not recognized by the mainstream psychiatric community, which focuses on drugs to treat symptoms, but do not eliminate the cause. If you would look up Emotional Freedom Techniques, EMDR, or NLP you will find many testimonials from people who have benefitted from these methods. I know how hard it is to believe that such seemingly intractable problems can be fixed so quickly, but it is true. After I learned some of these, this was all I wanted to use because it was a pleasure to help people so well and in such a stress-free manner. You will be glad that you did this, if you choose to.
Find a counselor with experience in using one or more of these and you will feel like a new person. It never failed me.
@@handleguy thanks for your reply. In my study of non-traditional modalities over the last decade, I have learned about those techniques as well. I never did mainstream anything except some marital and personal counseling, which was very helpful. I understand the mainstream profession doesn’t have the answers. EFT and a little NLP and havening have been helpful. Healing is well underway and I’m doing much better. Best to you.
@@catsmeow3478 You study non-traditional modalities? I also have experience with Quantum Touch and also the Bonnie Prudden technique: Myotherapy. These are physical healing techniques, and they have been helpful for myself and family members. I haven't used them clinically as I have used EFT and the eye movement method. I'm glad to hear that you are doing well now. My specialty was addictions treatment. EFT was excellent in curing every type of addiction that came in my door.
Relationship problems related to childhood experiences with addicted care givers also responded well. People with that history stopped self-sabotage of there current relationships with the same treatment of locating the triggering events that caused the individual to repeat the familiar patterns experienced as a child. It is done the same way I located substance using triggers for addicts.
I haven't heard of anyone else doing that particular thing, so I thought I'd pass that on. If your studies of different modalities are available on line, I'd be interested in reading the info. I don't practice treatment any more, but I'm still interested.
I have so many stories of when my INFJ spidey-senses kicked in but I ignored them because I thought there was no way I could possibly know that about someone. It kinda ties into that thing where INFJ’s naturally attract narcissists and people with issues.
Basically, our senses tell us something is wrong, but we try to look past it and give people a chance because we want to see the best in them. Then we find out we were right all along, but now we’ve got ✨trauma✨to show for it.
…..my life is a living contradiction 😭.
So true that your comment brought literal tears of laughter to my eyes! ❤️ ✌🏼
In my case the wanna be manipulator person irritates me the most. This type keep tempting me to door slam them from my life ugh...
Island - I'm chairman of Narc Trauma Club your not alone.
We give chance after chance hoping we got it wrong or give benefit of the doubt.
Only when you have been dehumanised and depleted do you recognise something was very off from the beginning but silenced your gutfeeling/intuition?
I hope your healing- please read a book called the body keeps the score.
I know what you mean, I used to have this co worker I used to drool over. Drop dead muscular body builder macho dude , but I always felt he was suppressing his feminine side. Turns out that guy now likes to wear dresses secretly. .. well not that secret.
This happened to me so often too. It's probably how it has to be when you're an INFJ, at least until you know you're one and what it means.
For me things shifted since i know i'm an INFJ (which is about 3 months now) and i started reconsidering some of my relationships and who i let into my life.
Once you learn to trust you inner feelings life gets much easier
10/10 as an INFJ, and I'm tired of the situations where I just *feel* something isn't right - about the person, about the atmosphere - and am not able to explain it to others without looking ridiculously weird. I feel like my strongest power is to say if a person in front of me is hiding, or having bad intentions, without even realising it. It never failed me in my whole life, and even if I don't want to, it's working 24/7 no matter what I'm thinking of at the moment. It's not about the thoughts - it's about this inner feeling that guides me, and guides me away from bad and fishy people in general. So the most valuable thing from others is trust - just trusting in my feeling, my inner compass, without needing to explain why "this person is bad" and for that I would be most thankful. Because most of the time not only I want to save myself from such people, but my loved ones as well.
And I'm really grateful for being INFJ because of it, as well for many other things (that, actually, were in this video too). Great video that helped me, as an INFJ, learn more clearly about myself, and even find some validation with "they cannot explain but they feel it for sure"! Thank you a bunch! ❤️
Well said my friend.. thank you for sharing your insights and kind feedback! 💙
People have called me pessimist,narrow minded n judgemental in the past bcoz of my lack of ability to explain why this/that particular person or situation is not right. It was starting to get to me...Glad I saw this
💯. I can instantly pick up on this, long before anyone else recognizes the problem. I'm right 99% of the time (well, probably 100% but ya never know).
Well, nothing is perfect, mates ;)
I think we feel energy and can interpret it.
So interesting how alike we all are. And yet people can't help but try to convince ourselves we aren't.
Number 10 made me think even more than I already was because I distinctly recall telling someone years ago, that I believe decisions are made in an instant. Not quickly, but suddenly. You're thinking, thinking, thinking, trying to decide. But in a moment, the decision comes, seemingly unrelated to all the thinking you were doing, and that's when you make your move. It didn't make sense to them.
The reason I am able to catch something that is falling so fast is because I know it's going to fall before it does. Thank you for your amazingly interesting & helpful videos. They're great!
Yes, premonitions! That's what I have too.
The same happens with my pen a lot. When I was in school at time of face-to-face classes....
I also make amazing catches all the time we study our surroundings and subconsciously pick up on possibilities of something dropping.
Then react when it happens almost surprise ourselves.
Ahhh... I like being different but very good to know there are others like me amongst the universe! I always use to be surprised thinking it was a lucky catch. Then I noticed the pattern of MY reaction split seconds before THE action. No luck involved actually, it just comes from within. :)
I am an INFJ...and have stepped out of my 9 to 5 type job and stepped into my mediumship full time...I am my own boss now and it feels good...👍
Wonderful!
@@PSYCH-O Thank you for your videos...I like sharing this info so others get to see me on another point of view...if that makes sense...
Oh my Gosh, how did you do this? I mean trust in yourself and walk away from the job which I know is not what I’m suppose to be. In fact didn’t now I haven been diagnosed as COMPLEX PTSD with dissociation. It is something I would. Not wish on anyone. I work at a manger if a Michael’s and the constant theft and being in Portland,
Or and other life events have
Me in the darkest place I’ve exes been. I would love to hear how you did this if you want to share. Also GOOD FOR YOU!’
Wow that’s great. I’m currently trying to do the same. I don’t know what to jump into next.
I sometimes know when someone needs help before they do. I can definitely sense /feel when something is wrong or off. Some videos talk about why the INFJ attracts or is a target of narcissists, but I think we aren't appealing to narcissists except for them using our respect for them to get other narcissistic supply. I pretty much know what subconscious meanings my dreams have. As for making decisions without being able to explain how I got there, well, that's how it is most of the time. Last, people's feelings tell you more about them than logic or thinking does. 90% of communication is body language and tone; which is all feelings. Only 10%of communication is what words we choose and the order we put them in; which is important or a lot with complex things like humans, but feeling tells you 9 times more. All of us! We INFJs just have more conscious access to that aspect because of our Intuition and feeling functions, that's all.
maybe cause they are attracted to us like a moth to a flame,and one thing they do is they like to put ppl in a box and they can't seem to figure us out.Also they gravitate toward the weaker energy's,like power ,control,fear ,jealousy etc.
Really likes this explanation. Bravo...
Sometimes I know what I mean but find it difficult to articulate to others, even then I'm not sure they really understand...
Probably true that I'm still muddling to understand myself so why would anyone understand my ramblings...
Maybe someone may understand here¿
@@99.9percent9 Yes, knowing what you mean, but thinking it would be impossible to articulate. I understand that. I found that if I just give it (speaking/ articulating) what I mean to say when I think; "This is going to be impossible", that most of the time I actually can articulate it, and not only that, I sometimes articulate it in a few words or sentences. When I think and/or feel this, I tell myself "screw it, just give it a shot", and it usually works out. I think it has something to do with just letting go of the "this will be impossible" thinking, and just giving it a try. It has helped me a lot here and there, but noticeably.
Yes I am a INFJ and everyone around me really hates it and I just love it because when they try to lie to me it doesn’t work.
I’m usually already way ahead of them
INFJ here, in describing the way we react to and realize our time is not being spent in alignment with our purpose, "completely dissatisfied & out of place" is perfect. It's an intense feeling that is impossible to ignore and often hits us in the face while having a pleasant time with our co-workers.
Yes, this is all spot on & very true. As a young child practicing piano, I would stop mid song and ask my mom if she has heard from her friend Wanda lately. Right when I asked the phone rang & it was Wanda. This went on for years, mostly premonitions. Unfortunately, it happened recently when my dad passed, and then my mom 11 months later. It was frightening to say the least, nothing I could do to stop the outcome. I felt the outcome a few hours before the end. In most situations it can serve as a warning for protection or safety.
This was an emotional experience. To have my 'Me', my soul persona exposed and laid out before me in the most matter-of-factly and direct way. I feel so more connected..not so alone. Thanks for these videos.
We love that for you - and we're so glad to have helped! Thank you for supporting, my friend! 🙌
So I’ve taken the test several times, and have tested as INFJ each time. Ummm, yes. No, I’m not special but for some reason, I have always felt other’s feelings even if we’re not in the same building. I took two years to decide if I believe in Jesus, I was raised Christian, I literally read through the Bible twice, would sit and pray in my room for hours until I finally had an encounter with Jesus. I remember always feeling there was a God, but exactly who was God, I truly needed to know for certain.
Yes, I am a believer, but it’s so true that I never accept much at face value. Especially these days.
Definitely get “burn out” and require removing myself from situations, even if they are fun invites just so that I can recharge.
Very interesting video.
Definability sounds INFJ-relatable to me! Thanks for watching, my fellow INFJ!
What if you grew up in another country?
I understand exactly what you said about the empathy. I would wake up in a good mood and suddenly feel like anxiety or sad and couldn't understand why. I would go to neighbors and he would be having a bad day. All my life I could walk in a room and immediately know if the room chill, uneasy etc. Definitely spiritually attuned and not trying to convert but Christianity Islam Judaism are almost one in the same and are distortions of The Law of One. Food for thought how can we truly have free will but be punished for not worshiping? Have a great day.
Are we the only ones who take the test multiple times? I'm also a "believer" who had to examine the facts. The faith to believe that the universe came from nothing for no reason is beyond me. For me there needed to be a cause external to the creation, hence a creator. Then to the micro scale believing that the information contained in our DNA sprang forth from random processes is unbelievable. Stephen Meyers book Signature in the Cell does a very good job of explaining that it is statistically impossible for the complexity of the information contained in DNA to spring from nothing for no reason. When I read the Bible and find a Creator God who is inviting me to an intimate relationship.
John 17:21-23 (ESV): that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 The glory that you have given me I have given to them, that they may be one even as we are one, 23 I in them and you in me, that they may become perfectly one, so that the world may know that you sent me and loved them even as you loved me.
I used the word "believer" in quotes because these ideas are more like facts than a belief system for me.
@@hogan247 then the J would be silent or sound like an H😜
Seriously, my friends call me “lucky charm” or “Angel’s words”. I’m a male INFJ, and sometimes it’s being one is so tiring😔
It feels like people can talk to you almost anything, but you can’t open up easily to anyone… it suck being an INFJ sometimes.
Hope all of you my INFJ brothers and sisters are doing well.
Very true points. I used to work in a competitive business environment where I struggled with many colleagues who have serious internal conflicts and walk around faking themselves with a thick mask. It was impossible to not picking up their vibes in the office. I remember how much a young colleague tried to fit in but I could feel deep inside he was not happy at all. One year after I left the job I learnt he took his own life.
Wow.. yup, that's the power of it. 🙌
I worked security in a shopping centre loved the job, but picked up several times people that passed were suicidal it’s tough that way
I happen to be an INFJ, and I work in Customer Service for a major wireless company. Even over the phone, I can tell if the caller is telling the truth or not. I can "sense" that there's more to the story than what's being told. I can also sense if the caller is sincere in pleading their case. In 14 years no one has come to me and said I made the wrong decision about the actions I've taken based on the scenarios I'm presented with.
A young woman, unknown to me, came to visit a housemate.
We locked eyes in an unwavering gaze, not a stare, for about 3,4 minutes. No words were spoke. I went of to work, came home later and house mate confided that this young lady had the opinion that I was so intelligent, that I was almost insane.
Sounds about right
Wow! Thanks for sharing 🙌
Being a psychiatrist & INFJ , I have completed the sentence of a client before they actually said it. I have had sixth sense when a client is going through something horrible & when my loved ones became flying monkeys of a narcissist. Cutting the cord meditation has helped me to stop worrying over patients I can't help.
Oh God that pain is not yours to release though. Think of them. There may not be many left to offer a solution
You're absolutely right about geting insight and answers ,they come to me out of nowhere.from somewhere, we are taking in so much into our subconscious on a daily basis , I do believe what we have stored always comes out when we need it, and I always trust it to give me solutions, it kicks into action , it becomes better as you get older, you're.able to see patterns and what's what,.love your Videos 👍👍👍👍👍🤗🤗
So true, we are like a fine wine...better with age😏
Thank you my friend - we know you've been watching for a while! 💙
Bam, I just 'know' what I need to know. This presentation fits me to a tee. Some people think patterns are BS, if that's true, why does law enforcement use it so much to fight crime? Patterns are a way of life for me, it's as natural as spring water.
I have reached the point where I can tell if something is off just by the words the person use and I'm loving this Introverted Intuition.
Thanks for more INFJ information and representation 💪
Thank YOU for your comment, my friend! 💙
I experienced so many insights today that even I was blown away! I literally had to take a seat. LOL 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I recall a time when I was preparing to walk in to my new class of students and had a giant knot in my stomach once I reached the school. I began to pick up on their collective nerves and the feeling of overwhelm was so strong when I entered the room that my heart began racing, my stomach was tight and I couldn't get a full inhale of breath. I looked out into the sea of nervous eyes and led everyone through a grounding, meditative breathing exercise until everyone settled. If I hadn't;t I don't think I would've been able to teach. I also seem to know someone I'm speaking with is going to cry before they do. My throat will tingle and I'll hold my breath and feel their pain. My curse and superpowers I guess. Every video is have watched makes me smirk because i am textbook INFJ-T
The interesting thing about it is that at least half of these traits were the dominant factors in my life as a child, over 65 years ago.
The INFJ role within "The tribe" is to promote harmony and protect the tribe by detecting and deflecting potential future problems. Which is why we can detect when something is not harmonious or is even likely to become unharmonious, whether that be a persons emotions, whether someone is lying or a situation is "off". We are walking, breathing discordance and dissonance detectors.
One of the best roles in modern life for an INFJ is that where they can ensure others are in the best place for them to shine personally and professionaly.
Like this ^ agree.
I once met an old friend. And right in the beginning of that meeting I got an intuitive feeling that our friendship had come to the end. And later it appeared that this really was the case.
Yup, sometimes it's not always good news 😓
I feel you...
That's wild! I hear you. I've called out a few relationships revolved in adultery over the years. The first time I had a hunch that my friends mom was cheating on his dad. This was in high school. I was contemplating telling my friend but thought it would have been awkward and accusatory without strong evidence. His mom and dad divorced within a couple months after that. One other happened a couple years ago. I was staying at my friend and his wives place, while travelling around the province. I woke up in the early morning with ONE SINGLE thought. SHES CHEATING. Like I woke up before my alarm with that thought. It felt so put of place and bizzare. Turns out it was happening, and they separated within a couple weeks.
As INFJ i find mirrors really helpful to get insight in myself. Kinda like reading others.
20 yrs unhappy as a mechanic. Now a preschool teacher I am happy to go to "work" every day! 🥰 half the pay twice as happy😎
Watching these videos makes me feel much less like a lone weirdo freak and more like I'm part of an exclusive club lol Thank you.
I recently learned, again, that some people don't want help & are to the point of burnout. I have always seen through bs. This friend would hide behind bs. I use humor to help people heal & show different angles. He got upset that I made light of a similar situation that happened to me. I can absorb & reflect others' feelings and emotions. I absorbed his feelings for several weeks, then accidentally reflected them back when he opened up about his problem . I was almost on emotional overload from him and his anger exploded.
I am a magnet to people who need help, but really need to have better boundaries, I suppose...
Sorry but maybe there was another way to help him.
Maybe he was grateful you tried and you sound on the side of resentful. Do you know?
Tons of truth here from my perspective/experience. You were SPITTIN from 07:16 - 07:44 🔥🔥🔥.....and I literally LOL'D at 07:23, ABSOLUTELY IMPOSSIBLE for a mature/aligned INFJ. 😂💯
I gonna go ahead and assume you didnt get vaxed?:)
Yes, all of them. I wasn't 100% sure I was an INFJ but this confirms that I am. I can't imagine navigating through life without these skills. I would be lost.
I am an INFJ
These are good
There are times when people think that I am stubborn. I actually just need time to make sure of the issue at hand
When something isn't right, my heart so sudden feel heavy . Honestly I don't like this feeling , and I can feel what will happen next
I don’t feel like I am watching this video, it feels like this video is seeing through me . All, literally all of them are true about me.
My insights and answers like to hit me right as I'm drifting off to sleep.
I’m definitely an INFJ and judging by all these comments I don’t think this personality is as rare as they may think. There seems to be a lot of us out there which l got to say, it feels quite comforting considering l felt very misunderstood and lonely all my life
Yes I thought that initially until I realised thousands of people are reading this so to find a hundred replies makes sense. I wonder also if any INFJs hate being right. I do. Odd isn’t it
Yes, I completely relate to all of that. It speaks volumes to me.
INFJ are like walking crystal balls sometimes. lol
Love that analogy, we may just have to steal is for future videos 🤣
I am an INFJ.
I see many of these in me.
There was a time when a family was in crisis. The pain was causing them to turn on each other rather than lean on each other. I was able to help them see the light at the end of the tunnel and forgive each other for pain they were causing each other and move on with hope
I am an INFJ. Before studying about the MBTI, I always wonder about my personality and something about my mind.
When I was only 25yrs. I resigned from one of the biggest companies in my country.(oil &gas industry with really high salary) It seems that in the deep of my heart. Money is not the important thing that I should find out for.
When I was 23 yrs, the fisrt year of my working, one of my neighbors said to my mother that she was afraid of me.
Back to college and classroom, I usually was in the front 1,2,3) and mostly was the person who received the highest score in many subjects. That was not I was smarter than my friends (because they also were intelligent and have high IQ especially INTP, INTJ I think). But the way I did was that I observed my teacher characters and of course I could read their minds. It kinds of I could guess and predicted what answers that would satisfy and also correct for each one (not only correct, but should fit to the teacher's styles as well.) So, I wrote my answers that similar to what they expected.
Just my experiences and example, about the other special abilities I have are the same as the other INFJ, we can predict and see the future, we can read other people's minds, and more
hello. im Mickalis a most definitly INFJ, ive been studing this topic for many years as well as other physic, topics. your reasoning about my personaility trait is very good i must say. im inpressed! thankzz for your honesty. friend Mickalis
1. They can easily tell when something isn't right. 2. They can sense when someone needs help. 3. They can feel when someone is on the verge of a breakdown. 4. They know when something aligns with their purpose. 5. They can feel anger brewing from a mile away. 6. They can easily make decisions with no significant outside reasoning. 7. They know when someone's mind has changed. 8. They can't accept concepts without assessing them. 9. They can find meaning in symbols and dreams. 10. They receive 'out of the blue' insights.
Most of the time I get that "aha" moment of clarity, and it makes sense since I am an INFJ!
I subscribed to this channel, because I thought this was very accurate. I think that the person who made the insights for this video may be INFJ as well because the thoughts were not just very accurate but very deep as in 'how would he know unless he is one, or he interviewed one with thorough investigation AND the right questions BUT how did he know what questions to ask... and that's the thing. The video is 'telling us' more than 'asking us'.
I'm not sure if any part of the video was wrong. Very accurate, very good.
If you're INFJ and reading this, feelings are tangible. Feelings are literal. Emotions and thoughts have to be tangible or you wouldn't be able to channel them and control them.
We are in tune with emotions/ energy motions / vibrations. They do exist and we gauge and predict the trajectory of them like DNA or a seed predicts outcome.
The trajectory is unstoppable. The future has already happened in a finite sense and the bigger part will just catch up with it, fulfill and realize itself.
I'm tickled with and when I here the word 'choice'. Choice exists, but I think that some or many people think that, that can thwart truth or variables.
Personally I think choice exists to experiment and also it's there to prove that no matter what you do, go ahead, you can't change the outcome of the DNA out come of what we are and will be. We can't choose our way out of that.
Choice may be squandered however. So to judge on the choice that could have been. Is that the choice you could have or theirs'?
The intuition is so strong you can feel it even via internet lmfao. I even open these type of things to few friends and they thought I was overthinking and my ideas abt that person is too far-fetched. But later came, and I was surprisingly accurately right abt everything. 💀
Just found out I am INFJ this week, and yes, 10/10 everything this video said is me. all My best friend said I am the weird one, never understand how my brain work. and I thought I was just observant with others feeing down, tire or something going on while most people maybe simply don’t pay attention enough but apparently is actually an INFJ thing huh. Glad I found a community in all of you fellow INFJs. 👽👾👻
100% I do get tired of always knowing when someone is lying, or feeling others hidden frustration or anger and such. I block this or work to ignore it if I can't do anything to fix it.
I shared this before. But I walked into a mall once and made eye contact with a man on a bench . I instantly saw my death in his eyes. In the same moment I knew I couldn't let him know I was onto him. So I walked down the mall turned the corner and hid in a store. He cane walking by. I git my car keys out and hidden in my hand , practicing in my mind how I would unlock the car door, get in quick and slam and lock the car . I knew I could not look around when I left the store. That I had to walk calm but quick back down the mall hallway, and back towards the exit and to my car. I did so , then key in lock in car slam and lock. Looked up to see him right at the car door reaching. We made eye contact, his eyes said yes I was going to kill you, and then he tilted his head with respect. He was ordinary in every way, it was in the middle of an ordinary day . I have zero doubt he would have killed me. I don't know how he was able to be inches away from me without me hearing him. I know if I hadn't listened to my inner voice, and looked around , or let on I was worried he would have gotten me. I have never seen my death in anyone else's eyes before or since and this was 30 years ago.
I've also ended up helping people in bizarre circumstances, that others feared were a setup. A lady approached me eating lunch alone in NYC , in broken English asked me to serve divorce papers to her husband in an apartment a few blocks away . Then go and get notarized . I did so because I believed her , even this would make me late back to work. When it was done , and notarized , she took off a beautiful hand made necklace and forced me to take it as a thank you.
Once going to dinner with friends, we noticed a crazy looking lady going up to people In the parking lot. When we finished dinner and came out she was still there. She came up to us and begged for a ride home , she claimed she was legally blind but could see some. She had missed the buss and was stranded. All my friends said no. I said yes. I believed her. My friends said I was crazy. .thus was before cell phones. We were in the city and she lived in a near by small town. Ended up it was also my small town , and ended up she lived only a mile from me as I found out while driving her.
I trust my intuitions 100% and so do my family and true friends.
Its hard being an INFJ , but there are also huge benefits.
I've been amazed to find this channel , and I feel less misunderstood
Relatablee. Sometimes i do scare of myself on how i can predict things before it happened. Still remember on how i avoid this group of people cause i can sense negative vibes within them and years later my instinct proven as they show their true colours and cause problems to my family.
Accurate again haha. Ps. I like how he pronounces 'person'. 😁😆. Great content to see as an INFJ
Ikr! This channel is so underrated 🙌
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we are more spiritually inclined, it is our primary compass... the truth is your friend. I wont do a business deal if i dont feel right about it, and i always pray over my future decisions. most of all, its a blessing to be able to read people so well, and a blessing to be able to happily be at ease by my myself and nature
These are so correct I sit here nodding or saying YES outloud to myself so often.
About the noticing of patterns this video touched on so much---
I noticed that at 7:07 a christian cross was shown in a negative light as the narrator talked about the infj being able to see thru "stories they have been told as a child".
I then counted five scenes where people were doing yoga postures while the narrator spoke of strong intuitive qualities of the infj.
If this video were void of that and the rest of the subliminal messaging in the form of visual ques coupled with narration--- or just stripped down to the narration--- it would be great.
The words are true--- but are subliminally weaponized as they are overlaid with the visual sequences.
Thanks for the spoken words but no thanks for the visual presentation... which I interpret as a series of almost clever manipulations encapsulated in a pill that feeds the ego/ pride of the INFJ or viewer.
Nice I noticed the exact same thing at the 7:07 mark too, by coincidence, they happen to take shot a Christianity? I don't think so. How about the Ouija board at the 7:59 mark? Excellent analysis of this video, and why I will not be watching this channel ever again, classic door slam!!!
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Thanks
Gnosticism/ New Age/ Kabbalah idealogical fragments are scattered throughout the whole Jungian/ MBTI personality thing... once you know/ see--- you cant unknow/ see...
All I can say is: take what you can and leave the rest... trying to find info for self- improvement in this "science" while squaring what you find to your Christian core is almost like bobbing for apples in a dirty toilet...
*smh*
God bless
@@swamplight79 Yes, I agree with your statement, also your bobbing for apples comment is funny.
@@swamplight79 bobbing for apples in a dirty toilet…. So true. So many people seem to go for eating the turds too..they seem enjoy it and expect others to be delighted in eating it as well. I’m very fatigued by all the shit sandwiches others put together and offer to me to eat. …even from so-called ‘religious leaders’. More than half have NO idea what they are saying or believing in. They parrot and punch. It is the same in the new age venues too. In fact, much of that has been taken in by churches. If you find a pure stream, protect it with your life.
I felt the same ‘off’ pangs of manipulation with the ‘’stories they have been told as a child’’ coupled with the imagery. This is the same type of ‘’shit sandwich’’ I am referring to. They think we should be thankful they ‘fed’ us even with a little poopie sprinkled in.
I don't think the purpose of the videos are solely aimed to repair our egos. They can be weaponized towards the infj as well
I wouldn't believe this is all written by an infj unless they left it in unfinished thoughts. Not an infj trait. We think till it can't be wrong or misused. Others may not worry like that. But I enjoy the insight it gets me thinking deep
I have always seemed to have an uncanny ability to read people or sense what they are feeling or thinking..
Yes and thank you! Great video
Thank you for watching! 🙏
Hola. I didn't awaken till I was past 50, and it changed everything about me and my world. I often wish I'd have awakened earlier in life, but I know my world had to be destroyed a few times before I could truly be the empath I was destined to be. The "feelings" I would get, which always turned out to be correct, the spot-on character judgement abilities, being targeted and played by narcs, putting myself out to help others. Those four letters. It all makes sense now. I've lost friends over knowing too much, but those folks were close to getting ghosted (closer to how I remove myself from the lives of others than door slamming) anyway. It's a tough, emotional life, but the off-the-hook intuition is worth every issue. . . . Just recently, I've decided I need to distance myself from my 20 year close friendship with my next door neighbor. I've been making the unreturned effort now days, and she "forgot" my birthday last week. We're both Leos, so that's kind of a big flag. God Bless and Take Care councelors, advocates and healers. ~Keep on Keepin' on.
Majik
Thanks some of those points were either new or confirmation to me .
We're so glad you were able to gain some new insight!
"They can feel anger from miles away"
That's why I don't like any form of resentful energy or people raising their voice when it's so not needed, the energy from that goes through my veins and can immediately earn an annoyed response from me, because it agitates me. The other option is tears spring to my eyes and I turn quiet, but that depends on factors.
Omg, it's trippy how accurate this is, damn!💯💫✌️💞
Wow before I took a personality test I just thought a lot of these things were happening to me purely because of the “law of attraction” because I’m constantly heavily thinking but when you talked about #9 & #10 it made SOOOOO much sense because that’s exactly how things happen to me for some odd reason I’ll think of something heavily & then boom I’ll get confirmation through books or while I’m out driving ect.
So I’m big on entrepreneurship and I’m always watching podcast and business videos constantly trying to expand my knowledge & I remember this one time I was listening to a podcast and just thinking of how badly I really want to be a multi millionaire & accomplish all of my goals & as I’m listening the guy in the podcast says something about cars & I’m at a red light , I kid you not boom I see a Lamborghini Gallardo Superleggera on the other side of the street so I’m like wow okay then as I continue listening the podcast says something about running & yo no bs I see someone jogging getting his exercise so I’m like yo okay wtf. 10 seconds later the podcast says something about a bike …. YO I then see someone riding a bike down the street and I’m just amazed at what all is happening. A little more into the podcast he say something about a Range Rover …. I turn my head to the right & guess what’s there ??? A freaking Range Rover. All of this happened within a span of 5-10 mins & I instantly thought okay this is confirmation that if I continue to work hard and remain discipline I can get to that other side of life and obtain everything I ever wanted. Soooo many of these types of coincidences happen to me All the time but I see it as confirmation that I’m on the the right path. Crazy how I always thought nobody understood me and how different I was & once I did the test and realized I was a advocate or INFJ things just started to click like aha moments.
Man the thought of being a motivational speaker and writing my own book , being a multi millionaire starting my business in saving the ocean. All these things are definitely possible and if you have goals and are reading this. You CAN do it seriously you just gotta put in the work & get off your ass. Especially if you’re an INFJ you’re alone in your room, deep in your thoughts all day anyways might as well put your time to use. At least that’s what I’m doing since the age of 15 & one fucking day ima prove a lot of ppl wrong. & so can you!
Thanks for the video 💯👌🏾
I was looking for a roommate and sitting in living with a guy talking. He said he liked making guns. He did the woodwork for the handles. Then he pulls one out to show me one. I never felt any threat until of course this stranger pulled his gun out! I didnt get up to look at it but I stayed interested in what he was saying about his craft all the while wondering if I should be worried and decided I didnt need to worry because he was oblivious to any affect him showing me his gun would maybe have…..however I was glad he put it back away. That being said I have had tons of flashes of something happening far away that proved to be true. Even have had a car make me tell a friend to check oil ( which was seriously low) so many. In sales I was good because of intuition. I chose a place to buy sight unseen based on a feeling. Made the offer while driving down the freeway. Still here! Safest town ive ever lived in
Before I learned that I have this personality type it was a struggle to be an odd one and I just don't fit in. Now I don't need to feel that way anymore. I know what I am capable of and now I accept me wholehearted for being me like never before.
# 4 jumps out at me so strong. It took me seven years to see where my life is being g aligned, although other persons were giving me advice on different career paths, I didn't see it their way and some even pulled their selves from me. Oh well, their lost, lol. I follow my own drum beat.
When someone often asks me, "How did you know?" , I am incredulous. How did they not know? All the signs and patterns were there in the open for everyone to see. Been there, done that, seen that.
I love the sarcasm of this channel! Subscribed!!
We appreciate it - thank you!
It's nice to feel understood thanks man.
He said coo coo? 😂. One of my ex bosses (I like him) put that nick on my when he released that I can't pay attention too much when there is not difficult things to do, and I keep myself into my inner world ignoring whatever happens around 😂.
Haha yup.. head in the clouds and feet on the ground 😂
All 10.... This gives me alot more clarity...
I will be accept something after assessing it from any angles. Even for religion matters, for example, as a Muslim, my childhood oftentimes told with folklore that some intellectuals have doubted. But after I think and learned those things deeply, I can believe that The Essence of God is true, but for explaining it so hard because its complexities.
This actually gave me a stamp of knowing , thankyou xx
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I didn't realise me, until I divulged, 15 years with a overt narcassist and I did research on personalities as I knew there was a problem, I've 3 babies with this man, when I discovered who and what his condition was , after the breakup I was gobsmacked !!!!
Only recently have I researched me lol xxxx
Agree with this completely!
Bravo, bravo mates!, YOU My Friends have got it better than all my past Psychologists . . keep up the awesome good work, Blessings! . . 😎
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Yes! Read energy extremely well
Well done very clear inside to the INFJ you
I love this video and appreciate 🙏🏽the effort you put all these magic unique pieces of quality but in the future. Plz do it without music 🎶 l couldn’t concentrate. Thanks
I know these aspects all too well, added with a few other aspects such as a second layer of pattern orientated thinking and a degree of tactic based conscious thought and I have ended up doing things that have surprised myself let alone being the natural support for my close friends, a small consideration, hide nothing and those who read you can be surprised because the more their reading you, the more their thinking like you when reading you ^.^
Add number 11: long before finding out my infj status I discovered an intriguing power. If I lost or misplaced something, and had no idea where, I simply needed to walk around all the places I had been in since losing track of the item and I would become aware of the item when passing within 3 to 5 feet of the missing item. It helps reduce the amount of time spent searching as I instinctively know when I am searching where it isn't
I can relate so well with that. And the times the Item has been misplaced by someone else it drivers me crazy because my radar takes me back to the last place I had the Item.
When I lose things, I don’t freak out because I “KNOW” it will turn up, usually in a spot that I’d never put it, and I don’t when…just always know it will turn up. 💯
Yes a weird awareness of where it is not actually remembering what I had done with it. Just call for the item through action and room scanning. Room scanning is not enough to find a lost item. It will remain lost if you don't call or recall.
yes. even to the point of actual events that would only be described as 'psychic'. I once nearly snatched up the phone to answer it, then stopped and stared and waited 2 seconds, then snatched it up and said "hello Quentin"(my cousin). the phone on my side hadn't rang, and my cousin said that he didn't hear it ring in his receiver either, but that I had answered the phone in between the moment that he pushed the last digit and the time the phone would ring in his ear, and before it could ring on my end either. I had two witnesses at the time, my mom and dad, who didn't believe that anyone was on the phone at all, I had to let them both talk to my cousin before they would believe it. they were speechless.
I am the "he told you so" person at our office. I don't do the "I told you so" but other people always point out when my ignored warnings come to pass.
I feel all the same things your talking about but sometimes I get ahead of myself and say things people have figured out yet and I get disregarded alit because of this
So very accurate ... thank you ....
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it's frightening and I never ignore it anymore. No one understands. I discussed it a few times and people think I'm nuts. I once saw a person on the side of the road and thought, something bad is going to happen. Not two minutes later, I saw them hit by a car and killed.
I am an INFJ and often taken advantage because I am drawn to people who needs help.
Yes a very common INFJ struggle - it's no easy gift to be highly empathetic.
I am and agree 100%.
I had a huge crush on a woman, and I knew she liked me too. The next logical step is to ask her out, right? Well I knew something was up with her. Turns out she already has a man, but she isn't happy with him. My gut feeling was right. Perhaps she wanted me to ask her out. I value myself a hell of a lot more than to hold on for a woman who is literally in bed with a man. I wouldn't even look at her until she's been single for at least 6 months. The fact she is entertaining other men while still with someone made me realise she isn't worth it. Trust your gut feeling. Just because someone likes and you like them doesn't always mean you should go for it.
I have a similar situation, super strong eye contact and choosing signals.....but she is away 5 nights a week, just feels like something I off... either she hates her parents and can't be around her mother, or she has a girlfriend or boyfriend. Always having blue or now a green streak in her hair. On the flip side she looks like she ain't had a good fkkk in years
@@cv6176 the one I liked is with an older man, and now the age difference is now being felt as he is old and fat. I'm the same age and I am very fit for my age. I got the impression she was also starved for attention. But there's no way I will act selfishly with someone in a relationship, it's disgusting behaviour and if that's how it started the same thing will likely happen to you too, or that worry would always be there. Trust your gut, good luck
@@aodh5966 its female nature to have a new guy lined before they leave the other guy. She may need him for resources but may desire you for sxx.
Im 47 fit and on seemen retention for a year.
This girl is 21, seems shy, but I could be wrong
Maybe we are both overthinking it.. ill keep retaining and hold my power for a girl that works for my attention for now
Most women leave someone for someone else because many women hate being single. So your rule with make it harder for you to find someone.
@@cv6176 bro I don't need to tell you, that age difference is crazy. You were older than her even when she was born. I wouldn't go for someone on that big an age gap you're just asking for trouble. I cannot imagine a 41 year old woman would have strong feeling for a 66 year old man. It may work now and for a while but the age difference would catch up with you and you'd end up alone and possibly owing her money and half your stuff. Stay within a tighter age group if I were you. I am 37 and wouldn't go any younger than 30
I'm loving your vids. I have a small syntax fetish to communicate, however. UNIQUE is a finite word. It means there is only one. Nothing can be very or quite or really unique. We have no other word for this singular linguistic location, so despite being happy with linguistic drift, this one leaves us with nowhere to go.
That's definitely a deep analysis of the term unique.. i've never considered that! Thanks for sharing - very INFJ of you! 😂
Oh, such an INFJ aren’t you! 👍🏻🤣
Unique and hypocrite are both very finite.
They don't exist perpetually...
I learned that about hypocrite very early.
@@rileyvaldis7657 I never thought of that one. Also pregnant.
My whole family and all my friends have learned to listen to me when I have a "vibe".
we can feel the intentions of others and if they are trying to hurt us
Yes I do have them instincts
I grew up with a deep bias against "women's intuition". Both my brother and I learned that we could solve problems by Not Thinking about them. These days I'm used to "The sudden, instantaneous cessation of stupidity" that serves me for inspiration.
I literally love how you call us psycho HHAHAHAHHAHA
This was spot-on!
Thanks for watching! 🙏
It’s so weird knowing there are more people like me out there
Of course I got all of them, too. Being an INFJ sure rules and rocks, though sometimes it can be difficult as well. But if you are an adult INFJ, or even a Sigma-INFJ, you know your way around the world and people. Basically you have "Do not even try to mess with me" spelled on your forehead - and it understandably frightens other Types.
This sums up my life