SHARON OOJA WEDDING SCANDAL: WHAT'S THE PROBLEM WITH MARRYING A DIVORCEE? | GLORY ELIJAH
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- SHARON OOJA WEDDING SCANDAL: WHAT'S THE PROBLEM WITH MARRYING A DIVORCEE? | GLORY ELIJAH
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My friend met her husband and they married within a month and they have been happily married for over 25 years. Meanwhile there are people who get married after dating for years and get a divorce within 6 months.
Your friend's husband isn't a multiple time divorcee within a short period of time tho
@@kaysmellsgood actually he was a divorcee go figure
@@Dabusbaby lol Sharon's husband has been married and divorced 3 times in a space of 5yrs with a child from one ma, that is different...women like to give so much grace to men, the same grace that won't be given to you as a woman... imagine it was Sharon in that position nothing we won't have heard. Even a woman having a child out of wedlock and a single mum ( no shade and kudos to single mums cos it could happen to anyone) in an African setting most men won't want to go for her or marry her, talk more of a multiple times divorcee with a child.
It worked out for your friend doesn't mean it will work for everyone.There's nothing wrong in taking more time to get to know a potential partner, it could save you a lot heart break..a man being in a rush to marry you in one month esp a divorcee should raise an eyebrow, like why the rush?
Also long lasting marriage doesn't mean happy marriage.
@@kaysmellsgood your last sentence should be pinned.
@@kaysmellsgood lol how many times have you married? So if he was married 3 times that makes a bad husband? I cam tell you for a fact my ex husband is no his 3rd marriage and he is now happy with his wife and kids. Just because a man or woman has been married before doesn't mean there always be an issue. I think we put too much importance and signing of a document and not emotions that come with 2 human beings. Sharon made her choice and she will deal with consequences if they ever arises. We have no proof that he married 3 or 4 times just want tale mongers who come on the internet and yab but we all believe that is the gospel truth.
What intrigues me here is that d guy truly values marriage as after being divorced several times he still wants to settle down,i pray this time around it will be forever,i wish them conjugal bliss.
All I see is a very happy bride and about doing due diligence I would like to believe they both asked proper questions and family also questioned the man before giving their consents and she seems to have good friends around her that will give her proper advice. For me I prefer a man who has never been divorced because with my knowledge of the word of God a divorcee is not allowed to marry again except your partner is dead. I would have preferred she married a man was has never been married but to each his own. She is happy that’s all that matters.
Aaaaw how I wish I was able to talk to the last speaker on scripture and have her explain it to us to who disagreed with her because I went to the Bible and none of what she said was there,talking about the lady that said David married a divorcee.
But overall the live was good, at the end of the day I always say count the cost. Those that say they don’t see an issue have counted theirs and those that see an issue have also counted theirs.
As one of the speakers on the live, I want to revert some of what I had said in conviction of the Holy Spirit as I said things freely didn’t trend carefully when speaking about the Holy Spirit to make a point. In nerves and excitement with the conversation especially with the religious part of the conversation, I misspoke because Jesus is the standard when making decisions in life. Thank you for the platform, @Glory.
Like my pastor will always say both ppl have to hear from God , she make you guys fast for 27 day for God to speak to you both .
For Marrying a divorced man i agreed with the first lady dat spoke. Is people choice when it comes to marriage as long as they are adult and they told each other the truth from day one. For me i can only accept a man dat is once divorced not 2 to 4 or has never be married before . Cos if Ugo didn't tell Sharon everything then Sharon have a problem there. So to me before 2 people want to marry is good to bring out everything out so all will know what has happened or what is going on before jumping into marriage. I like when one knows all about someone and still chose the person is a good thing to see dat in someone flaws the person can still find someone that accept them d way they are. So to Ugo i hope u opened up to Sharon everything before engaging her now marrying her. Cos if he has not told her everything and find ways to fix what is causing him to marry and divorce then is a problem, cos is possible he will still do d same thing again. I'm not saying change can't happened. Yes change is possible when d actual person want to change.or Will i say God arrest the person to change. Well i wish he treat Sharon well and work on himself to avoid another divorce
The various conversations are very enlightening and interesting
Im just here admiring the white couch😂 so gorgeous ❤
I miss this live viedo i was so busy with my daughter at the hospital. But thank God she is doing well now. Glory to answer ur question on how long can people wait after meeting someone to be engaged to marry especially someone dat portrait herself with religious morals. I love Sharon her movies, but i was surprise when she said that she meet the guy Ugo for 2month then got engaged d next month ie 3month for me is too short to accept to be engaged to marry at least 6 months to get to know the person well. Thou nowadays one can be with someone for years but still not know d people. Take Paul Okoye for example. Him and his ex wife Anita knew each other for years before getting married but untill it end up in divorce. I have also seen people knew each other for 3month and then got married and they are still happily married for like about 12yrs now. But for a man dat has been divorced for like twice before marrying Sharon after knowing each other for 2months wow to me is not enough. Is a red flag. Well hope that Sharon made a good decision for herself is her choice but if she was my friend or sister i will tell her to think about it well before accepting marriage..but is this my sincere advise for any sister or friend. Sharon i don't against her marriage. I like her alot. She looks like a sweet soul. i wish her d best but she need to have it back in her mind if the man is a divorce twice is a red flag dat she need to be very careful cos there is reasons why his pervious marraiges didnt work. She need to find out dat maybe that why i said she would have waited for like 6 months to get to know d guy a little bit before accepting marriage not 2 to 3 month. This is my opinion. Well Sharon i wish u happiest and all d best in her marriage. For me It locks like the man Ugo is not take time alone to resolve what is actually the issues dat he keep getting married and divorce cos if that is not fix there is a possibility he will continue like dat. And even if he is not the reason why his pervious marraiges didn't work but he is not taking time to heal well before jumping to another marraige with another person. Hope he don't so that with Sharon cos she looks like a nice sweet lady from her personality i see on social media and she show cases. Wish her all d best.
I also agree with d 2nd lady that spoke. She said Sharon showed more love than the husband Ugo. I see dat. And i agree is from the things she alredy knew about d man dat made her feel like she have to do more, show more love to win his heart or people point of view. To me young lady shouldn't be doing dat. I didn't say a woman shouldn't show love to husband but for dat short time she said she have known d man to me is not enough for her to be showing too much love to the man than man himself cos most men dat was married are experienced in it and if they are d main reaosn why their pervious marraiges didn't work and they see a woman showing them too much love i have a problem with it. Cos to me they always take advantage of that love the woman showed them. For me let dat man that have been in marraiges before show more love to d woman than the other way round. Even in a man dat was never married. Men need to show more love to woman then let d woman recriopacte that love back to them. This is my opinion. i also saw that in Sharon she was d one loving d man more in d traditional marriage but in the white church marriage it looks like they told he that people are already talking dat he wasn't showing love to Sharon. Well i hope he treat her well.
What of if dat is how she has been, I mean if d way u see she behave is her personality, men don't show love dnt for get dat.
Glory I'm with u 💯👌😍. I don't have d strength to fight for someone love. I'm not emotionally strong to fight for love. I'm dat lady, dat want a man to chase me not me chasing d man. I'm never a chaser. To accept marrying a widower i don't have dat strength cos i have to feel in in the lense of his late loved wife love no i have no strength for dat.
The speaker 'Blessed' that said she would rather marry a widower than a divorcee does not realise that some bad marriages can make a spouse sick to the point that they stop living.
Truth is when women stop looking at marriage like the golden heaven this whole thing will end. These Gen Z coming will change this narrative I can just see it happening. I feel marriage as we have known it and seen it is soon going to change drastically.
We have all made poor choices when it comes to relationships, above all let's listen to learn and check within. Love makes the wise foolish.
Is this story true that he is divorced 4 times within 5 years? Please any true Lawyer that handles divorce cases in the house to confirm if such is really possible?
I too, Glory have never heard of a serial divorced man or woman within back to back of years!!
Also is it true there is something called a groom replacement? I saw a video that a person mentioned she hopes that's what he did in those wedding pictures that perharps that's what Sharon's husband was in those pictures and not truly his wedding days, but was doing those as jobs. Is it possible?
Where there evidences of court papers showing the four divorces by the man?
Pictures could be lies you know, as there are photoshopped photos that people fake nowadays.
I hope they are truly happy with each other and it was all wrong assumptions by the media, and they will need to apologize profusely to both the married couple and social media users,if the stories of multiple divorces are lies and misleads, as that wedding was just too glamorous, she looked so happy and in love and it will be really sad if that marriage doesn't work out, as this is her first time married as I don't know them in person nor even their lime light of their line of profession, and never heard she was married before.
I wish her well, as I see love written all over her, from her body language shown in her that interview video and her wedding video, she looked very happy to be married finally after a terrible heartbreak.
I think she lied about the timeline of their relationship. She didn't want to be called a homewrecker. She wanted to cover her tracks, otherwise, it was not even necessary to mention 'we dated for 2 months, the third month, we were engaged'
If she had not mentioned this, l think the whole thing could have not being this messy.
Why people find pleasure by always put their relationshio on sociak media. Especially when your married.
Oh please don't remind us of the days of Kpokpogri 😂😂😂
Nothing wrong at all
Nothing wrong in getting married to a serial "community bingo"? Married to 4 wives in a span of 5 years? dey play.
@@iyaibeji9050 Do you have proof? It is the social media proof you are using to assume. Lol 4 wives? How old is he that he would have gone through 4 marriages. Dey play