Fear of Embarrassment Will Keep You Trapped as shown in MLP
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- Опубліковано 2 гру 2023
- We've all come to a point in our lives where we feel like the things we like are not valid to like anymore, making us feel embarrassed to share the things we love. But in the MLP FIM episode Read it and Weep, Rainbow Dash shows us that that doesn't have to be the case.
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honestly i can relate to this- as someone who likes making object characters and watches some object shows, i always felt worried that someone would think of me differently because of the bad side of that community. but after a while, i just stopped caring, and showed that side of myself to the world. and people tend to not care
have you considered making object head characters?
If you like object characters I think you will be like about this show called BFDI
Every brony had this experience
I’m one who had it.
Real,i like your pony life character btw
I had never thought of Read it and Weep as an allegory, but after the first line of the video it becomes so obvious
I hade that problem. With MLP FIM, fittingly and funnily enough. Before accepting it (or even knowing it properly), I kept seeing the ponies and I kept on wanting to watch it, but being a male, I kept thinking that it isn’t supposed to sit with me. I tried to avoid it, but no matter what, I kept going back to it, like a magnet (maybe it’s because of the art-style?). Eventually I gave up avoiding it and ended up embracing it. It… actually helps me embrace what is considered ‘girly’ to others. Now I am no longer afraid.
Well done bro,I'm exactly like you,but I still struggle to show it,only my female friends know and my family kinda sees it as a joke
It's so relatable to me. I used to really be afraid that my new friends in high school will laugh at me when they found out that I love MLP and other cartoons.
But they didn't. Maybe they don't understand it 100% but they accepted that and don't seem to have any problem with that
He's back!
This episode is a perfect metaphor for watching/reading...embarrassing stuff. Like an entertaining kids show about talking horses...
Some people might make fun of you. But the ones who really care won't. Not everyone will like what you like. But real friends will still be happy for you
Yeah, I love how in the end, when RD admitted that she loved the book, Twilight didn´t mock her or say "I told you so", but was like "Hey, I have the whole series. You can borrow it whenever you want.", and the two started sharing their love for Daring Do adventures.
And we see RD later being more secure in being seen reading - we can see her sometimes after hard work relax with a book in her... hooves.
Man, I just experienced something like that. For the majority of my high school years, I spent my time with people who didn’t care about me at all. At the beginning of this school year, I made a new friend who was genuine to me. I opened up a lot, including about my love for Yo-Kai Watch, and despite being a senior in high school with a slight obsession with a kid’s series about cartoon ghosts, I’ve made friends with people across all the grades from sixth to senior, and people… like me. It’s kind of foreign to me, but it makes me so incredibly happy and I hope people are more open about these sort of things to let people realize that, yeah, people like these things!
Story of my life. It took me so long to open up about liking Sonic and MLP, but it was so relieving when I found a friend who actually accepted me for that and found it fascinating that I love those series.
HE'S BACK BABY!!!
As an autistic person I really relate to this, I often feel like I have to hide my interests from others if they’re not “conventional” One of the major things that was holding me back was the fear of embarrassment and judgement. But once I got over that there was basically nothing that could hurt me anymore. Yeah, I still struggle with talking about what I like but it’s not as severe as it was.
I really needed this video. About a few months ago my sister and I were making a list on Netflix and I got so worried that my sister would judge me for putting Sonic on my list. She didn't judge me, but she did ask,so I told her I like Sonic.
Happy to help!
It’s a normal feeling to have. And I’m glad to you had to the guts to tell her 😉
I'm afraid to reveal my true self in my UA-cam channel. Do what I really like in my channel, I'm afraid to be laughingstock, so I hide my true self from anyone for years, and I already used to it, I try to be more adequate to make videos like that, but still.. I need to overcome my fear
i've been guilty of hiding my interest i have Asperger syndrome so i'm pretty into stuff like art the outdoors and star gazing and when i was being someone else i'm not one to pride myself on being a great artist. Cos i am but i'm leaving some things behind me to focus on art and outdoors stuff but me being trapped like RD fear of judgement i didn't want that i hated being someone else acting, i finally got the idea that i can express myself and not have the pressure of not being to express myself. i'm happy for it.
but being able to be myself helped me realize what i value in life or what i don't it helped me leave what doesn't fit my lifestyle and keep what i do love that brings me joy.
I've been into mlp for almost 12 years and never really cared about being weird for liking the show tbh (I had A LOT of merch in 2013 lmao)
This is still one of my favorite episodes in the show, and is actually my wife's first episode.
The show explains a lot on how I came out as transfem a few years ago. One of them being me preferring the gala dresses from the season 1 finale over the dresses in the season 3 finale.
The Gala dresses are still peak FiM
I once faced a similar problem where I went to a Lego summer camp and for some reason (probably because I was a stupid kid in the day) i felt embarrassed about revealing to everyone that I like Thomas the tank engine and friends (again, I'm not sure where this problem came from).
I had exactly this a few months ago. Paw Patrol always looked kind of sweet to me. Like MLP back then. But I always thought, nah, this is for little kids.
But some day, I convinced myself in giving it a try and, I found it boring. Yes plot twist, it was not what I hoped. It didn't really go over the "they look cute, I like it thing.
But someday I thought, fuck it I watch MLP, a show original made for little girls, and IDC about that any more, why should I care about watching a show with cute puppies.
So I took the first movie and watched that instead. And wow, you really see it was made with parents will have to watch it too in mind. It was really entertaining, and a nice story with the leader Chase.
Not a story you have never seen, but one that is always wholesome when done right. And yes, they did right. It was an emotional rollercoaster too me, even when a small one.
Since then, I watched it multiple times, and it becomes kind of a favourite movie for me.
For anyone thinking I don't know if I should watch it, I am an adult.
DO IT, just do it. If you like MLP, what I think you do, based on the fact you are here, go and watch the movie give it a fair try.
Currently, only my boyfriend knows I watched it, maybe someday others will too.
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MLP really helped me a lot, to convince me to watch other kids shows, that look interesting to me. Lion Guard was another one, and the last season was insane. Even expecting how it would end, it still gave me goosebumps and a large smile.
This is why Rainbow Dash is relatable to me. 😆
"I like (insert fandom/hobbie here)"
"Oh no what will people think about me liking (insert fandom/hobbie here). "
You have to be yourself. We aren't one dimensional people, you can have more then one interest.
Thanks Samic really appreciate your videos.
Wow, it is so refreshing to see a channel as uplifting as yours. I've recently opened up to my girlfriend about my interests or stuff I'm into and she's so cool with it (plus she's actually getting me into sonic ^^). I really want to be myself around everybody I know but it's so hard because I struggle to make friends as is.
Thank you for this. You've definitely got a knack for entertainment.
Thank you! This comment really means a lot.
I’m happy to hear that your gf accepts you for liking what you like. True friends will accept you no matter what.
I know it’s hard to be open about everything you like, and that’s okay. No one is expecting changes overnight. It takes time to get comfortable with the idea to open up more.
Thanks again for the comment. Hope you like the rest of my channel.
P.S. Ooo! Another Sonic fan! That’s awesome!
In school people used to make fun of me for liking mlp so I got traumatised by that and now it's hard to talk about it without feeling like people are going to make fun of me for it
Right now I have friends that support me liking mlp (in fact i have started watching it with two of them (im rewatching it, one of them has watched some episodes and it's the other one's first time watching it)) so I feel more confident
Since I have a school presentation and we could choose the topic, I chose mlp but ive been feeling scared because of this feeling, this video made me feel better:)
Thanks for posting these videos, I love analysis like these :D
Edit: I did the presentation and it wasn't nearly as bad as I thought!
This was honestly such a great episode, and one with a message not normally talked about. Further, considering it came out in the middle of season 2 when the fans of the show became more and more outside the target demographic, and also became the target of ridicule as a result, it was honestly something that we all, from kids to adults, needed to hear.
In fact, I think it's a lesson we need to hear more often, especially with how vitriolic social media has become lately.
So, yeah, great analysis.
I actually experienced a similar yet somewhat different feeling to this.
I'm a creative type and have been making home made media for years including PowerPoint cartoons in school and UA-cam videos, but I recently wanted break into writing.
I even had a set of stories planned concerning a Sonic like world and had the lore and characters etc. worked on in my head for decades but I never really opened up about it to my peers cos I didn't think it was worth their interest. So I left it to rest for years until I randomly mentioned it to my friend over in Texas and his reaction was so nice, he was very curious about the idea and we've had a few brainstorming sessions.
It finally convinced me to start my next creative venture in 8 years
I used to be embarrassed because I read fairytales and watch stuff aimed for small kids and I was so nervous when my friends found out and thought that they would make fun of me but they actually didn't mind and even said it was cute and I remember feeling so relieved back then
I remembered back in middle school in seventh grade I started watching this show. I kept it a secret, feeling like thirteen year olds - yes, I was thirteen in seventh grade, my birthday is in the summer - don't watch cartoons, thinking everyone watches live action TV shows. I was actually insecure about the things I enjoy during my years in middle school. I wouldn't tell anyone the shows I like or dislike. I was afraid people would make fun of me for my favorite books I like to read, scary books written in the nineties because those books are for kids up to twelve years old. I honestly thought everyone liked the same stuff. I felt like I have to pretend to like what they like. An example will be for Star Wars. If I was with a group who enjoys Star Wars, my mind will be thinking it's boring, but if someone asked me if I like it, I would end up saying yes, even though I'm thinking of no, to avoid negativity from others. Side note, my social skills aren't great, even to this day.
Looking back to it, I believe my insecurity of the stuff I like came from someone who used to be my best friend. I would talk about the stuff I like, then I guess she got tired of being my friend and hung out with others who like the stuff she likes.
During those early teen years, I was different from everyone else. I used to cry because of it, claiming that I felt I have no friends even though I did, but wasn't comfortable with the things I like. I used to say, "I have to like the things they like." And I would end up keeping my stuff I enjoy in secret.
When I entered high school, I learned that I don't have to like the stuff others like or the stuff they don't like. We all have different things we like or not. We shouldn't judge them for it. Sadly, there are those who do judge to those who like the things they like, having them quit and force themselves to be like everyone else to avoid being critized. Look, just because someone likes something you aren't into doesn't give you an excuse to belittle them.
Mentioned already, I don't like Star Wars, and this time of saying I like it, I'll give my thoughts on it, saying I'm not into it because I used to be afraid about giving out my entitled opinions on the things I don't like.
Years of high school went by, I was feeling more comfortable with the things I like that others don't, and I'm not ashamed of it to this day after I finished that school. Don't be afraid to enjoy the stuff you are into, and don't hide it from others, and if they judge you, they aren't worth talking to.
I have my fair share of interests I'm scared to share with anyone due to the frankly undeserved stigma surrounding those interests. Take Steven Universe for example. It's an amazing show and you should really watch it if you haven't already, but the amount of "critics" who have egregiously misinterpreted the show and characters to the point of bastardization have practically shattered its reputation and it's only recently begun to recover. I've been mocked by my own brother for liking the show because of that.
Nowadays I feel like I can't talk about my own interests in general unless it's something the other person already likes because I don't want to come of as annoying or cringy or wrong for liking that thing. I can't help but feel this pressure to watch what everyone else is watching or like what everyone else is watching even if it doesn't appeal to me. I don't care about live action shows or video games because I think real life is ugly and I don't want to feel like I'm watching real life when I'm playing games or watching tv. Yet I've debated on binging some of these shows people hold in high regard so I can at least relate to people.
Boy, does this sound relatable. I've def been there with feeling like I have to watch or consume media that others are into, but I just can't get myself past one episode of a show I don't care about.
And heck yeah, I love Steven Universe. That show rocks!
OMG AA I LOVE UNEXPECTEDLY SEEING PEOPLE ALSO LIKING STEVEN UNIVERSE ITS SUCH A GOOD SHOW
I have felt like that for about 4 years but im slowly letting more people know that I love mlp
Oh how can I relate so much to your experience! In my first years of collage I had the same fear of judgement from what others might think of me.... this only keeped me trapped alone without any friends because I was so closed from the world that no one trully knew me. This affected so much my mental health that I got diagnosed with depression and anxiety disorder because of this fear.... that keepet me from living all my life. I was just passivly looking at others connecting with other people while I was in a corner alone feeling left out.
But since I stoped giving so much importance to what other people think of me I trully found happiness and a group of friends that accepts me for liking the things I like and can express myself
I never noticed you can put the theme of the episode, of most of us watching the series as a whole for the first time.
I think nearly all of us thought is it ok that I watch it. When in reality, why should it not.
It is not what we watch, who says if we can act like an adult should. It's what we do in the situations an adult acting is needed.
i had this waaay a lot thx for reminding me
i had this experience like 8 years ago when i was 14 about mlp lol but i still really like this show
This was literally my first episode of MLP, unfortunately it was half the episode and it left me running to find the rest of the episode.
I struggle to relate because I was never a closeted brony; in fact, the thought of how it would bother some homophobic jerk for watching this show made my mouth water, but that's because I'm inclined towards conflict, and perhaps that's not a very healthy attitude.
In any case, I believe I can understand the feeling of not being able to do what you want out of fear of embarrassment, even though I don't usually experience it.
Glad to see you're back Samic! Another great video haha. I remember relating a lot to this episode, especially because of how much I viewed my love for my little pony as something to be embarrassed about. And I think a lot of other mlp fans could relate too. This episode really brings a very needed message, and that what we enjoy is part of who we are and there's nothing to be ashamed of. A great topic to discuss Samic! I can't wait for other videos you might make in the future!
Thank you so much! I finally built up enough courage to tell my one friend that I really like Sonic, at first I was nervous and wasn’t sure if I wanted too but because you make this video I was able to! So thanks so much! ❤
THIS is content.
I shall binge!!!
I’m having this experience with Genshin impact. People told me that it was a terrible game and that the fandom is horrible, but then i ended up with 3 five stars
Just by thumbnail alone I feel called out-?
The best way to describe this feeling is me loving my little pony, I was always talking about the show, and a part of me always felt embarrassed about others knowing about it, I would sometimes hide that I’m watching it, as I matured, I don’t do that anymore, I was going through a phase during high school, also not part of the topic, i was really obsessed with the show when it released, I still got lots of my Little Pony merchandise around my room!
always a joy to see a Samic upload. lol
Yes i love this video mate This is the kind of topic i knew this episode would get a video one day. But yeah you Nailed my thoughts im glad your back mate sharing this video around :)
Something about jealous As shown in mlp?
Like me watch The Bad Batch denying I like it in front of people and refuse to watch it with others 😅
I prefer cartoony and heartwarming vibes as well, by the way, I suggest watching avatar the last Airbender not the live action the original animated show
Oh yeah! I’ve definitely seen the og avatar! I loved it so much! Probably in my top 5 shows ever!
There are bronies among us.