Once again Esther is in the confession booth, TV3 has done it again congratulations. The voice tuning hasn't worked on me so far and this is my third time hearing Esther play this role of a confessor.
Alafia might be right. We shouldn’t ignore his argument. If we tell the friends of the women we want to marry that we are not having sex till marriage and especially if the decision if not mutual that is, if the man is not totally in support of the decision but still agrees, the friends who has interest in us sees a potential sex partner sometimes out of sympathy for us. That might also be true.
You get treated the way you tolerate. And if she goes back to forgive the man he will still do it and do more. Because the lady will still forgive him.
I will never forgive them . Bless her heart . In my opinion, I wouldn’t want to set my eyes on both of them . My heart will boil with anger and hatred . She should travel outside the country and start a new life . Focusing more on building herself / dreams . Ohhh mine I know she’s going to have trust issues and wouldn’t want to get closer to the opposite sex. She needs to seek counseling and pray as well . My heart was once broken and even that was just a relationship . Talking of your wedding night ???👀. Up until now, I still got trust issues . May God keep you safe sweetie , it is well🙏
Even the man went out right away they get to the room , even if the wife tried to give it to him , the man will refused becouse he plan with the younger sister, they both evil, I will open up to my family before I go mad or die cos the trauma n emotional is more than what my sis do to me
What blackmail? They have been already having an affair. If the husband was a real man he could turn his phone off and deal with the wife sister later. To me there’s no blackmailing in this instance. Let’s call a cheat a cheat n stop this hypocrisy.
I like Dr Kelly Daniel's and will like to give this advice. Never as a counselor agree and contribute publicly to people's suggestions. Quietly, gather every information being poured out, reshuffle, sieve and polish your response to calm and correct the situation presented to you and that makes you a counselor. Alafia nearly downlaid him professionally with his usual off-contributions. Lessons learnt next time. Thank you
Blackmail? The wedding vows state, "I know of no valid reason why I cannot be joined in Holy Matrimony to so and so," but if you have anything hidden that could jeopardize your union, then at least confess and be free. If she still wants to get married, though, it's OK, but either way, he has been found out, and the marriage will still be dissolved.
She needs a professional help before confronting the situation. If not handled properly , she might loose it cos she has already bottled enough bitterness which can destroy her for life.
Sometimes, God will just reveal certain things to us. But we need the wisdom to act on it. Ask yourself, why did the receptionist said that she liked you and showed you what was going on even though it was against their rules. Why is that you did not have sex with the man first before discovering this secret. Provided you did not see it, who knows it would have continued for only God knows when. 3. If truly you have not had sex with him, there is no spiritual bond. 4. In our Ghanaian culture you can not sleep with a sister of you wife. It is mogya fra. So please calm yourself down, ask God for wisdom and isolate yourself. There may be enough reasons
It is stupid to even contemplate continuing the relationship. The lady in question will never trust that man ever again. And somebody expects her to live in a trustless relationship from the very first night of her matrimony. It's like putting someone in hell for life. God chose to liberate her by revealing to her what she was walking into. If she goes ahead with the relationship, who will she blame for the calamity that's waiting for her?
Hmmmm...the Idea of a blackmail makes sense but there are men who can do this. They are dogs. Crazy and foolish enough to do this. I'm telling you. It even happens a day of the wedding. The night , a day after. It happens. Its not weird
According to the Bible marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4 Sister walk away and start a new life for the man is not your husband period.
The man wanted intimacy before marriage, the woman wanted purity in my opinion the problem was compatibility these two were on different pages. In my opinion she should walk away and trust God for the next opportunity to make things right and get a man who is compatible with her. Even if they stay together it will be a marriage of hell and not healthy at all.
You will always see the signs but what will she know what to look for if she had not experienced it before. Some people are good at hiding things. Women sex after marriage is what God said. The man in the audience is a fool. Learn to have self control
Dont feel betrayed, you have actually been betrayed..... Some people should know that just sorry doesn't clear every pain ....
My most favorite marriage show is CONFESSION. Ayekooooo
I can't never forgive this kind of attitude. On my wedding night with my own blood sister. Eeeiii. I can't take this.
Leave the man period, no excuses.
Once again Esther is in the confession booth, TV3 has done it again congratulations. The voice tuning hasn't worked on me so far and this is my third time hearing Esther play this role of a confessor.
Is she confessing people problems or hers cause im confuse
Right! I knew the voice sounded familiar😂😂
Yea true
I thought I was the only one who noticed it 🤣🤣🤣
Alafia might be right. We shouldn’t ignore his argument. If we tell the friends of the women we want to marry that we are not having sex till marriage and especially if the decision if not mutual that is, if the man is not totally in support of the decision but still agrees, the friends who has interest in us sees a potential sex partner sometimes out of sympathy for us.
That might also be true.
Some people are very discerning… 😊 great show. The world will be a better place if we all at least consider each others opinions
Lady inform the family and walk out otherwise your walking out will be meaningless and frowned upon. Their relationship started long ago.
Chale this is waow....I respect the victim in question for even deciding to come to tv3..These cases usually result in blood shed
You get treated the way you tolerate. And if she goes back to forgive the man he will still do it and do more. Because the lady will still forgive him.
I will never forgive them . Bless her heart . In my opinion, I wouldn’t want to set my eyes on both of them . My heart will boil with anger and hatred . She should travel outside the country and start a new life . Focusing more on building herself / dreams . Ohhh mine I know she’s going to have trust issues and wouldn’t want to get closer to the opposite sex. She needs to seek counseling and pray as well . My heart was once broken and even that was just a relationship . Talking of your wedding night ???👀. Up until now, I still got trust issues . May God keep you safe sweetie , it is well🙏
Patience for what exactly? Leave the man ,no need to make excuses...and she should involve her family let everyone know what they are.
Culturally a man can not be intimate with 2 sisters in Ghana . The wedded wife must divorce him immediately . He is a betrayer .
Whether blackmail or not, if the man could not resist then he is not a man to be trusted.
Is never ok to be stabbed as the hostess says.
Even if he was blackmailed is that how he should respond to the blackmail? what happens to communicating to ur wife. I blame the lady too
I always have a problem with Alafia’s contribution. I don’t hate him but I think his contributions are not always the best
Even the man went out right away they get to the room , even if the wife tried to give it to him , the man will refused becouse he plan with the younger sister, they both evil, I will open up to my family before I go mad or die cos the trauma n emotional is more than what my sis do to me
This man Alafia or whoever he is has never said anything sensible on this show. Please to maintain the respect for this show cut him out
Hahaha sometimes i think the same way you doing
Yeah I agree. This should be his LAST DAY on the show. He's full of shit
Right! His thinking is so backwards. He never says anything sensible, he just talks. TV3 please stop bringing him on the show.
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Exactly👏👏👏
I can never accept such a man. He made his choice and she needs to think about what she wants to do next.
Last year I've seen a nollywood movie with the same storyline. Can't remember the movie but it stared Mercy Johnson and Flashboy.
The movie is my husband's mistress
What blackmail? They have been already having an affair. If the husband was a real man he could turn his phone off and deal with the wife sister later. To me there’s no blackmailing in this instance. Let’s call a cheat a cheat n stop this hypocrisy.
Just leave him .... wicked sister
Hmmm, is this real. In the same hotel and the first night. Eii I can't stay
I like Dr Kelly Daniel's and will like to give this advice.
Never as a counselor agree and contribute publicly to people's suggestions. Quietly, gather every information being poured out, reshuffle, sieve and polish your response to calm and correct the situation presented to you and that makes you a counselor. Alafia nearly downlaid him professionally with his usual off-contributions. Lessons learnt next time. Thank you
Have patience where??
Blackmail? The wedding vows state, "I know of no valid reason why I cannot be joined in Holy Matrimony to so and so," but if you have anything hidden that could jeopardize your union, then at least confess and be free. If she still wants to get married, though, it's OK, but either way, he has been found out, and the marriage will still be dissolved.
DEMONS....HEAT UP
This can cause her life if she didn't handle the case well
Just like a movie I watched
Yes, I watched it too
I can get the canceled number
She needs a professional help before confronting the situation. If not handled properly , she might loose it cos she has already bottled enough bitterness which can destroy her for life.
Sometimes, God will just reveal certain things to us. But we need the wisdom to act on it. Ask yourself, why did the receptionist said that she liked you and showed you what was going on even though it was against their rules.
Why is that you did not have sex with the man first before discovering this secret. Provided you did not see it, who knows it would have continued for only God knows when.
3. If truly you have not had sex with him, there is no spiritual bond.
4. In our Ghanaian culture you can not sleep with a sister of you wife. It is mogya fra.
So please calm yourself down, ask God for wisdom and isolate yourself. There may be enough reasons
It is stupid to even contemplate continuing the relationship. The lady in question will never trust that man ever again. And somebody expects her to live in a trustless relationship from the very first night of her matrimony. It's like putting someone in hell for life. God chose to liberate her by revealing to her what she was walking into. If she goes ahead with the relationship, who will she blame for the calamity that's waiting for her?
You will always see the signs that a man is doing things behind you
What training? Are you kidding me. Both the sister and the husband are dead to me.
Exactly!!!!!💯💯💯
This alafia paaa … what at all is he saying??😅😅
Hmmmm...the Idea of a blackmail makes sense but there are men who can do this. They are dogs. Crazy and foolish enough to do this. I'm telling you. It even happens a day of the wedding. The night , a day after. It happens. Its not weird
Hmm this so serious....a books sister?😳
Love is a choice and a man will do to you only what you want to allow them to do to you.
According to the Bible marriage is honourable and the bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4 Sister walk away and start a new life for the man is not your husband period.
Where were the husband going at that special time of their lives, I wouldn't have allowed him out if I was the woman. Becky
The man was simply interested in the lady’s virginity, she should inform the family, listen to both of them, forgive and walk away
The sister will definitely give her problems
If roles were reversed, there will be no patience. Hence, leave the guy and watch God do the revenge for you.
The man wanted intimacy before marriage, the woman wanted purity in my opinion the problem was compatibility these two were on different pages. In my opinion she should walk away and trust God for the next opportunity to make things right and get a man who is compatible with her. Even if they stay together it will be a marriage of hell and not healthy at all.
You will always see the signs but what will she know what to look for if she had not experienced it before. Some people are good at hiding things. Women sex after marriage is what God said. The man in the audience is a fool. Learn to have self control
Eeeeeei dis is witchcraft