How to Choose Real Priorities

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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @rva
    @rva 7 років тому +1

    Thank you Brendon for shining bright for us all to see. I watched the facebook video you are referring to. It inspired me to keep on going. Namaste. Rebecca

  • @TheMagicCrafter
    @TheMagicCrafter 7 років тому +15

    This has got to be one of my favorite of your videos so far, Brendon! Perfect length to listen to during a post-workout stretch, and so, sooooooo jam-packed with useful information. Loved that you broke down the decision making process... figuring out priorities has always been difficult for me as I usually have a "million" things thrown at me at once! Hahaha!
    Happy New Year!
    ~Mermaid Phantom

  • @peterchan9525
    @peterchan9525 7 років тому +11

    One time I said "no" to my boss, he fired me...but I feel relieved and mind became more clearly what I have to do next in life . Thank you !:)

    • @lalaithan
      @lalaithan 6 років тому +5

      Congrats for standing up for yourself and doing what you feel is right! It's hard!

  • @thomasshirrefs5331
    @thomasshirrefs5331 7 років тому +18

    What an amazing communicator! It really is inspiring to see you in action Brendon. Thank you!

  • @ikkasantos192
    @ikkasantos192 7 років тому +18

    This guy! THIS GUY!!!! I really love this guy!

  • @jennifergorman7723
    @jennifergorman7723 4 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this exercise in awareness. I have pretty much lived my life in Reactive Mode. I had never framed it this way before although I have grown to be aware that my life choices have been made based on where external factors have led me. In this moment I am aware of why I ALWAYS feel like I am behind and never able to catch up. Overwhelmed by the never ending to do list and the anxious feeling that I have to catch up. The sense of urgency to achieve....I could go on but I think you understand. I put it down to the impact of the waves of unexpected life trauma that I did not invite or plan for. I am now 55 and been widowed twice, lost both parents and far too many friends. I have made many important decisions with the needs of others as the first criteria and now I see more clearly how it all connects to how lost, overwhelmed and behind I feel now. WOW! Inside voice.. Big share!!! It is amazing how small influences can resonate with a person to connect the dots! I have much to think about now as I work on aligning all of this. Thank you

  • @calireddglam
    @calireddglam 7 років тому +8

    This is exactly why I choose to follow you! Inspiring us to be better and have the knowledge to be in tune with what's important! Thank you Brendon!!!♥️

  • @wisepersonsay3142
    @wisepersonsay3142 6 років тому +1

    Organization. Prioritization. Do things and mix with people that are beneficial to you. Be generous with reason. Don't give a fish, but teach how to fish. All requires discipline and determination. Life is fun!

  • @TameraWeeks1
    @TameraWeeks1 7 років тому +34

    This is the best way I've been taught on how to say "yes" or "no". 😃

  • @ChillAngels
    @ChillAngels 4 роки тому

    Help, this video has me in tears. It's exactly as he says. I'm going around doing things that weren't planned, reactive in helping my kids and husband, I'm carrying everybody else, it doesn't feel right because I don't want to do what they want me to do, it's always their emergencies, it does not help me to grow, I'm not passionate about it. All it is, is the last point in the checklist, which is that I am serving others, my family.
    I'm drowning in busy work. I am a stay home mom of 2 with husband at home. I want to focus on growing my business but it's in the back burner. I am scared to bring it to the front too, because.. My husband warns me that I better prioritize the "family's needs" first. If he ever senses that I obsess about something else and I neglect their needs, he will shut down the LLC and I will have no peace from his verbal aggression, to put me back in the correct place. So I pretend not to be thinking about my business. I try not to talk about it with him and I am so lost now.
    How can I prioritize my business...I really want to succeed...God if you can hear me, please help me..😢

  • @Ciskuss
    @Ciskuss 7 років тому +4

    In the end, just three things matter:
    How well we have lived
    How well we have loved
    How well we have learned to let go.
    (Jack Kornfield)
    His motto sounds to me like a plague

    • @dubiouslycrisp
      @dubiouslycrisp 6 років тому

      Ciskuss, a plague? You are saying it is toxic?

  • @buildingblocksstaffchannel3749
    @buildingblocksstaffchannel3749 7 років тому +7

    THAT WAS SO AWESOME! JUST WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR BEFORE 2018. THANKS YOU BRENDON!

  • @kimgordoncumbo7890
    @kimgordoncumbo7890 6 років тому

    Loved this, not new, but the visual was very helpful. I went to my calendar and blocked time. I have made mornings my writing time and follow up time. Though at times my Airbnb guests are checking out, laundry and room changes happen; but I get back on track. Thanks. :)

  • @cellydrive638
    @cellydrive638 6 років тому +1

    Literally today as I was planning my day I asked myself "hmm I wonder whats the best way to prioritize" Considering I have a pretty neverending list of critically important task. I then thought " I wonder if Brendan has a talk on this" 10 seconds later Im here
    the internets awesome lol..fuckin love this guy

    • @mariatachi8398
      @mariatachi8398 6 років тому

      Celly Drive This will depends whether your boss is someone that is rationale or someone that let emotional runs all over. Perhaps using the method that he teaches to share with your boss BUT this will depends on whether your boss willing to listen to it as well.

  • @sandyshorewalker5364
    @sandyshorewalker5364 7 років тому +6

    I like what you said about leading your family, the service you provide them..being a light in the dark for some. Helping me setting priorities, your book high performance habits sounds like a good read for the new year.

  • @periperihustle4561
    @periperihustle4561 6 років тому +1

    Just a thought, in business. If you’re client wants something urgently. You can charge a little more and prioritise it.

  • @doubleHLabs
    @doubleHLabs 6 років тому +1

    Watching this on a Saturday! Amen

  • @simplelifenotes4071
    @simplelifenotes4071 6 років тому

    Hi Brendon, new sub- love the way you express it all- the energy - pace- clarity of message. Thanks for being so honest and real in your videos. I’m going to watch all your videos this week 👍👍👍

  • @akhmissara1545
    @akhmissara1545 7 років тому

    the amazing thing that i love in 2017, is that i discovered you brendon! you are my inspiration, you rock and can'T wait to receive your book that i ahev just ordered !! keep going

  • @MattRemorinoGB
    @MattRemorinoGB 7 років тому

    Thank you Brendon for this. I too often get pulled into other situations that really I shouldn't. This scorecard will help tremendously! Thank you also for all you do and provide your audience!

  • @goracezelazko1829
    @goracezelazko1829 7 років тому

    number one coach .Greetings from EUROPE -POLAND !!!!!1

  • @hetanthakkar4532
    @hetanthakkar4532 7 років тому +32

    He is far better than other motivational 🔊

    • @linoazzurro
      @linoazzurro 7 років тому +3

      Hetan Thakkar Yes and he doesn't have an irritating voice like Tony the Scamming Robbins.

    • @monugupta32
      @monugupta32 7 років тому +3

      Everybody is helping out in their own way, there is no need for comparison here.

    • @linoazzurro
      @linoazzurro 7 років тому

      Rahul Gupta There is no need for you to comment either.

    • @monugupta32
      @monugupta32 7 років тому

      haha

    • @bernadinebesterwitch5010
      @bernadinebesterwitch5010 7 років тому

      Hetan Thakkar

  • @frederiquemermozmounier8215
    @frederiquemermozmounier8215 7 років тому +1

    Hi Brendon ! Thank you so much for your video. I have a question for your : how do you do when the someone who throws a false emergency your way is your boss ???? I've lived this situation again and again and again and I have never felt like No was an option. Have you encountered the same situation ? How did you react ? What lesson did you learn from this experience ? What would you do today is this particular situation ? Thank you so much for all your work and videos.

  • @masoodtyagi9932
    @masoodtyagi9932 7 років тому

    well done brendon, you have done a great job, i have learned all the points which you have mentioned and inshallah i will practice these in my daily life.

  • @trubeautyMOVEMENT
    @trubeautyMOVEMENT 6 років тому

    Awesome chart and advice!!! Love the chart and non-emotional way of determining to take guess work out!! 💫

  • @buddhaneosiddhananda8499
    @buddhaneosiddhananda8499 6 років тому +1

    "To thine own self be true..."

  • @dawngrimshaw9418
    @dawngrimshaw9418 7 років тому +1

    I never comment on anything but I love this. Very helpful.

  • @moritzschroder
    @moritzschroder 6 років тому +2

    i like his public speaking, it is really on point! i am taking notes for my own personal development channel! 😉

  • @RichflixInc
    @RichflixInc 3 роки тому

    This scorecard is brilliant! Can't wait to attend the next HPX LIVE after Covid passes ✌🏽
    Much love from Bali!

  • @mahdibh2671
    @mahdibh2671 7 років тому +2

    شكراً جزيلاً برندن. دمت على هذا العطاء و وفقت لكل خير
    Hello Brendon, I just received your book "High Performance Habits" , I'm currently reading "The Charge", and I've already finished "The Millionaire Messenger". How great I am progressing. Thank you from deep heart. All these books I received from your giveaways. Cannot appreciate this favour and kindness only to pray that you be safe and continue helping me and others and we too contribute to share your thoughts, knowledge, and rituals.
    This was Mahdi from Bahrain, Middle East, Lands of Arab.
    :)

  • @AH-xr1uf
    @AH-xr1uf 7 років тому

    Definitely getting the book, right recommendation at a time when my landlady has been harassing me for a few months now.

  • @ChrisMolenaar
    @ChrisMolenaar 7 років тому

    Brendon: HUGE upgrade to your youtube channel- love love love it!!

  • @olgakucharska2800
    @olgakucharska2800 6 років тому

    How much points you get to the projects that you start? What's your score range of the projects that you decline?

  • @BarbTUSA
    @BarbTUSA 7 років тому +1

    Listened to this at 4:45 am 12/29/2017 - Excellent message to receive at the
    "perfect" time. :-)

  • @thebootjournal6037
    @thebootjournal6037 6 років тому

    Not every mountain is worth the climb. Great quote.

  • @1stFlyingeagle
    @1stFlyingeagle 7 років тому

    Brendon, you say to try to make a case against your intuition. What I have LEARNED! intuition is never wrong. What I will do is once I receive the instruction. I will repeat it to God exactly the way I think it was meant. And wait for confirmation. Go left is easy. But when there are different steps sometimes it just needs to be confirmed. Say there are 4 steps. 1 and 2, I got really clear but 3 & 4 are not clear. I will ask God to send it to me again in a clearer message so that I may proceed with the instruction for 3 and 4 as I am completing 1 and 2. Waiting on God is something I truly cherish.
    So Brendon back to what you said. Could you give an example please.

  • @Yayyyyyyyyyy
    @Yayyyyyyyyyy 6 років тому

    I like that, your own ad in your own video!

  • @travisguide4516
    @travisguide4516 6 років тому

    Great ideas as to ethics helping motivation always had good vibes from Brendon so wise to realize the bigger picture

  • @dianatee466
    @dianatee466 7 років тому

    And how do you communicate no to a person? Any tips? Or scripts?

  • @DanielaCunhaEFT
    @DanielaCunhaEFT 7 років тому

    Thank you very much, even beeing to HPA, it's incredible how we need repetition

  • @deew2932
    @deew2932 Рік тому

    This is SO good!! Wish I had this years ago.

  • @t.h.nguyen5193
    @t.h.nguyen5193 7 років тому

    Not every mountain is worth to clime! Awesome! Thank you!

  • @MsAimm
    @MsAimm 7 років тому

    A video full of awesomeness as usual!!!Thanks Brendon

  • @BarbTUSA
    @BarbTUSA 7 років тому +4

    Book by Rushworth M. Kidder ~ How Good People Make Tough Choices vs. How Good People Make Tough Decisions :-)

  • @UXGillespie
    @UXGillespie 7 років тому +1

    Wow...so so influential, thank you so much.

  • @boymom77
    @boymom77 10 місяців тому

    This is Awesome! It's the message that I need at this time. Our Intuition is truly a compass to our dreams.

  • @aquilathebee8058
    @aquilathebee8058 7 років тому

    Needed this right now. Thank you!🙏🏽

  • @shafiazahin728
    @shafiazahin728 6 років тому

    Sometimes we don't want to hurt other people's feelings and be rude by saying no.If it doesn't take that much to be the reason of someone's happiness by sacrificing some of yours...is it too bad?

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee 7 років тому

    Thank you. REally needed this one.

  • @FreelancingwithFaith
    @FreelancingwithFaith 7 років тому

    Thanks for sharing, Brendon! Hope and pray that I'll be able to attend this event in person.

  • @NuhuSunday-v2j
    @NuhuSunday-v2j Місяць тому

    So educating ❤️

  • @eonoramedium
    @eonoramedium 7 років тому +2

    Thank you.

  • @lemuelworkoutlistjackson2692
    @lemuelworkoutlistjackson2692 7 років тому

    Wow! So true need to be better plan on priorities! !!

  • @aprilsjchoi8912
    @aprilsjchoi8912 6 років тому

    Great advice!!! Thank you.

  • @kineticarts6234
    @kineticarts6234 3 роки тому

    Some things can wait and must come out of the basket .

  • @nikita-teapositive4943
    @nikita-teapositive4943 5 років тому

    Excellent yes and no ♥️

  • @49wendyg
    @49wendyg 7 років тому +1

    great concepts to start the new year :)

  • @RashawMedia
    @RashawMedia 7 років тому

    Beautiful content once again still crushing it thanks!

  • @אושרפנטהון
    @אושרפנטהון 3 роки тому

    I thought it would be some 💩 video but its so real and on point 🙏🏾

  • @amrutsardar3675
    @amrutsardar3675 7 років тому

    Really liked this video Brendon.

  • @KrystenJanzen
    @KrystenJanzen 7 років тому

    So helpful Brendon 🙏🏻🔥

  • @dhanukakarunasena4711
    @dhanukakarunasena4711 7 років тому

    11:35 the Yes! No! shake!!!

  • @smartgirlsunite
    @smartgirlsunite 3 роки тому

    “Can I get an ‘amen’ on a Saturday?” Ha!

  • @IAmJudy1111
    @IAmJudy1111 10 місяців тому

    Hmmm...being able to pivot and react has landed me some of my biggest contracts. Unplanned opportunities.

  • @SeedSucceed
    @SeedSucceed 7 років тому +1

    Genius

  • @tamziie9311
    @tamziie9311 7 років тому +1

    Great advice

  • @rahul25bala
    @rahul25bala 7 років тому +1

    How do you say NO to your boss? He always comes at the last minute?

    • @Yayyyyyyyyyy
      @Yayyyyyyyyyy 6 років тому +1

      Rahul Bala say no by getting a new job?

    • @lalaithan
      @lalaithan 6 років тому

      Tell him he's coming to you too late for you to get stuff done the best you can and suggest a more appropriate time to come to you.

  • @gabirimoldi
    @gabirimoldi 7 років тому

    Brendon, how to deal with a boss that isn’t a good person and don’t want your success ?

  • @drawingmaniacsterben7144
    @drawingmaniacsterben7144 7 років тому

    If I only watched that yesterday XD... and i am not taking my words back

  • @austonlim5836
    @austonlim5836 Рік тому

    Book:
    How good people make tough decisions

  • @susanburchfield8497
    @susanburchfield8497 6 років тому

    What about those of us that have already bought the book?

  • @Aalling76
    @Aalling76 6 років тому

    right to the point

  • @buddhaneosiddhananda8499
    @buddhaneosiddhananda8499 6 років тому

    Be in the moment, 'not plan'...

  • @msmolyansky
    @msmolyansky 6 років тому

    Great video

  • @justdoit2377
    @justdoit2377 3 роки тому +2

    I don't have time = This is not my Priority

  • @aliona.lubimova
    @aliona.lubimova 7 років тому

    perfect

  • @BashdaarulNaimTv
    @BashdaarulNaimTv 2 роки тому

    Good luck

  • @nyaric7543
    @nyaric7543 7 років тому

    Amen

  • @diverstalent
    @diverstalent 7 років тому

    YOU ARE hilarious!!

  • @larasmith490
    @larasmith490 4 роки тому

    🦋Amen

  • @factsbluboi1503
    @factsbluboi1503 7 років тому

    Facts

  • @Manoj_Tomar_Uski_Jawa
    @Manoj_Tomar_Uski_Jawa 3 роки тому

    great

  • @DiegoElMentor
    @DiegoElMentor Рік тому

    🎉❤

  • @BeatBoXer009
    @BeatBoXer009 6 років тому

    Your score card should reflect you values.

  • @anesiaduffy7378
    @anesiaduffy7378 6 років тому

    Hi there I just realized I read a story about how it was Brendon’s first time meeting Dali lama he went to his country I remember reading that lol Follow Freda Burris on FACEBOOK

  • @personallyjoua
    @personallyjoua 7 років тому

    Oh wowwwww so magnificent!

  • @asiabbbb
    @asiabbbb 6 років тому

    Thank you

  • @KULTURESHOKENT
    @KULTURESHOKENT 2 роки тому

    Thank you