How to Choose Real Priorities
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- Опубліковано 15 лип 2024
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Checkout my latest podcast episode on Apple Podcasts: itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/t... How do you choose real priorities (rather than taking on other people's false emergencies, or projects that don't really move the needle)? In this video, I share the 7 evaluative questions I use to decide on what matters most.
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Fave quote: “Will this help you lead? When people say ‘Brendon, I’m trying to choose priorities’, they’re often thinking so myopically for themselves. I want you to see yourself as a leader of your family. I want you to lead your family as if you were thinking about how Martin Luther King led the Civil Rights Movement. I want you to think of leading your team like a John F. Kennedy led us to the moon. I want you to think about those people who you serve as if you were that bright light in the darkness that they needed just then. When you do that, your priorities shift a little bit more. You have more of a service mindset."
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Brendon Burchard is the world’s leading high performance coach, the most requested motivational speaker of his generation, and one of the most-watched, quoted and followed personal development trainers in history. He is also a #1 New York Times bestselling author and in the Top 100 Most Followed Public Figures on Facebook, with over 10 million fans across his pages. O, The Oprah Magazine, and Success Magazine have both named him one of the most influential leaders in personal growth and achievement.
Brendon's videos have been viewed more than 150 million times, and 2,000,000-plus students have completed his personal development online courses and video series. He's now created 13 blockbuster online courses in personal and professional development, including the most popular motivation, confidence and habits courses of all time. For these results, Oprah.com produced two courses with him and named Brendon “one of the most successful online trainers in history.” Success Magazine featured Brendon on its cover in October 2017 and has named him, for three years running, “one of the Top 25 Most Influential Leaders in Personal Growth and Achievement.”
A #1 New York Times, #1 Wall Street Journal, and #1 USA Today best-selling author, Brendon’s books include High Performance Habits, The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger and Life’s Golden Ticket. His book The Motivation Manifesto is the bestselling title on motivation of this century.
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One time I said "no" to my boss, he fired me...but I feel relieved and mind became more clearly what I have to do next in life . Thank you !:)
Congrats for standing up for yourself and doing what you feel is right! It's hard!
This guy! THIS GUY!!!! I really love this guy!
This has got to be one of my favorite of your videos so far, Brendon! Perfect length to listen to during a post-workout stretch, and so, sooooooo jam-packed with useful information. Loved that you broke down the decision making process... figuring out priorities has always been difficult for me as I usually have a "million" things thrown at me at once! Hahaha!
Happy New Year!
~Mermaid Phantom
What an amazing communicator! It really is inspiring to see you in action Brendon. Thank you!
Thank you Brendon for shining bright for us all to see. I watched the facebook video you are referring to. It inspired me to keep on going. Namaste. Rebecca
This is the best way I've been taught on how to say "yes" or "no". 😃
No
This is exactly why I choose to follow you! Inspiring us to be better and have the knowledge to be in tune with what's important! Thank you Brendon!!!♥️
Organization. Prioritization. Do things and mix with people that are beneficial to you. Be generous with reason. Don't give a fish, but teach how to fish. All requires discipline and determination. Life is fun!
Thank you so much for this exercise in awareness. I have pretty much lived my life in Reactive Mode. I had never framed it this way before although I have grown to be aware that my life choices have been made based on where external factors have led me. In this moment I am aware of why I ALWAYS feel like I am behind and never able to catch up. Overwhelmed by the never ending to do list and the anxious feeling that I have to catch up. The sense of urgency to achieve....I could go on but I think you understand. I put it down to the impact of the waves of unexpected life trauma that I did not invite or plan for. I am now 55 and been widowed twice, lost both parents and far too many friends. I have made many important decisions with the needs of others as the first criteria and now I see more clearly how it all connects to how lost, overwhelmed and behind I feel now. WOW! Inside voice.. Big share!!! It is amazing how small influences can resonate with a person to connect the dots! I have much to think about now as I work on aligning all of this. Thank you
the amazing thing that i love in 2017, is that i discovered you brendon! you are my inspiration, you rock and can'T wait to receive your book that i ahev just ordered !! keep going
Hi Brendon, new sub- love the way you express it all- the energy - pace- clarity of message. Thanks for being so honest and real in your videos. I’m going to watch all your videos this week 👍👍👍
THAT WAS SO AWESOME! JUST WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR BEFORE 2018. THANKS YOU BRENDON!
Thank you Brendon for this. I too often get pulled into other situations that really I shouldn't. This scorecard will help tremendously! Thank you also for all you do and provide your audience!
Awesome chart and advice!!! Love the chart and non-emotional way of determining to take guess work out!! 💫
Watching this on a Saturday! Amen
I like what you said about leading your family, the service you provide them..being a light in the dark for some. Helping me setting priorities, your book high performance habits sounds like a good read for the new year.
"To thine own self be true..."
Brendon: HUGE upgrade to your youtube channel- love love love it!!
Help, this video has me in tears. It's exactly as he says. I'm going around doing things that weren't planned, reactive in helping my kids and husband, I'm carrying everybody else, it doesn't feel right because I don't want to do what they want me to do, it's always their emergencies, it does not help me to grow, I'm not passionate about it. All it is, is the last point in the checklist, which is that I am serving others, my family.
I'm drowning in busy work. I am a stay home mom of 2 with husband at home. I want to focus on growing my business but it's in the back burner. I am scared to bring it to the front too, because.. My husband warns me that I better prioritize the "family's needs" first. If he ever senses that I obsess about something else and I neglect their needs, he will shut down the LLC and I will have no peace from his verbal aggression, to put me back in the correct place. So I pretend not to be thinking about my business. I try not to talk about it with him and I am so lost now.
How can I prioritize my business...I really want to succeed...God if you can hear me, please help me..😢
In the end, just three things matter:
How well we have lived
How well we have loved
How well we have learned to let go.
(Jack Kornfield)
His motto sounds to me like a plague
Ciskuss, a plague? You are saying it is toxic?
Needed this right now. Thank you!🙏🏽
Great ideas as to ethics helping motivation always had good vibes from Brendon so wise to realize the bigger picture
Loved this, not new, but the visual was very helpful. I went to my calendar and blocked time. I have made mornings my writing time and follow up time. Though at times my Airbnb guests are checking out, laundry and room changes happen; but I get back on track. Thanks. :)
This is Awesome! It's the message that I need at this time. Our Intuition is truly a compass to our dreams.
Just a thought, in business. If you’re client wants something urgently. You can charge a little more and prioritise it.
I never comment on anything but I love this. Very helpful.
well done brendon, you have done a great job, i have learned all the points which you have mentioned and inshallah i will practice these in my daily life.
A video full of awesomeness as usual!!!Thanks Brendon
Wow...so so influential, thank you so much.
Thank you. REally needed this one.
Thank you very much, even beeing to HPA, it's incredible how we need repetition
number one coach .Greetings from EUROPE -POLAND !!!!!1
Listened to this at 4:45 am 12/29/2017 - Excellent message to receive at the
"perfect" time. :-)
Definitely getting the book, right recommendation at a time when my landlady has been harassing me for a few months now.
I like that, your own ad in your own video!
Not every mountain is worth the climb. Great quote.
Not every mountain is worth to clime! Awesome! Thank you!
Beautiful content once again still crushing it thanks!
Wow! So true need to be better plan on priorities! !!
Literally today as I was planning my day I asked myself "hmm I wonder whats the best way to prioritize" Considering I have a pretty neverending list of critically important task. I then thought " I wonder if Brendan has a talk on this" 10 seconds later Im here
the internets awesome lol..fuckin love this guy
Celly Drive This will depends whether your boss is someone that is rationale or someone that let emotional runs all over. Perhaps using the method that he teaches to share with your boss BUT this will depends on whether your boss willing to listen to it as well.
Thanks for sharing, Brendon! Hope and pray that I'll be able to attend this event in person.
This scorecard is brilliant! Can't wait to attend the next HPX LIVE after Covid passes ✌🏽
Much love from Bali!
Thank you.
great concepts to start the new year :)
So helpful Brendon 🙏🏻🔥
This is SO good!! Wish I had this years ago.
i like his public speaking, it is really on point! i am taking notes for my own personal development channel! 😉
👍
Great advice!!! Thank you.
He is far better than other motivational 🔊
Hetan Thakkar Yes and he doesn't have an irritating voice like Tony the Scamming Robbins.
Everybody is helping out in their own way, there is no need for comparison here.
Rahul Gupta There is no need for you to comment either.
haha
Hetan Thakkar
Great advice
Hi Brendon ! Thank you so much for your video. I have a question for your : how do you do when the someone who throws a false emergency your way is your boss ???? I've lived this situation again and again and again and I have never felt like No was an option. Have you encountered the same situation ? How did you react ? What lesson did you learn from this experience ? What would you do today is this particular situation ? Thank you so much for all your work and videos.
“Can I get an ‘amen’ on a Saturday?” Ha!
Genius
Really liked this video Brendon.
Excellent yes and no ♥️
Some things can wait and must come out of the basket .
Thank you
11:35 the Yes! No! shake!!!
perfect
I thought it would be some 💩 video but its so real and on point 🙏🏾
If I only watched that yesterday XD... and i am not taking my words back
right to the point
Great video
Book by Rushworth M. Kidder ~ How Good People Make Tough Choices vs. How Good People Make Tough Decisions :-)
Brendon, you say to try to make a case against your intuition. What I have LEARNED! intuition is never wrong. What I will do is once I receive the instruction. I will repeat it to God exactly the way I think it was meant. And wait for confirmation. Go left is easy. But when there are different steps sometimes it just needs to be confirmed. Say there are 4 steps. 1 and 2, I got really clear but 3 & 4 are not clear. I will ask God to send it to me again in a clearer message so that I may proceed with the instruction for 3 and 4 as I am completing 1 and 2. Waiting on God is something I truly cherish.
So Brendon back to what you said. Could you give an example please.
YOU ARE hilarious!!
Good luck
How much points you get to the projects that you start? What's your score range of the projects that you decline?
شكراً جزيلاً برندن. دمت على هذا العطاء و وفقت لكل خير
Hello Brendon, I just received your book "High Performance Habits" , I'm currently reading "The Charge", and I've already finished "The Millionaire Messenger". How great I am progressing. Thank you from deep heart. All these books I received from your giveaways. Cannot appreciate this favour and kindness only to pray that you be safe and continue helping me and others and we too contribute to share your thoughts, knowledge, and rituals.
This was Mahdi from Bahrain, Middle East, Lands of Arab.
:)
Thank you! Enjoy High Performance Habits!
Is this your real page?
Asking me? what page bro?
Book:
How good people make tough decisions
Amen
Facts
Be in the moment, 'not plan'...
And how do you communicate no to a person? Any tips? Or scripts?
Sometimes we don't want to hurt other people's feelings and be rude by saying no.If it doesn't take that much to be the reason of someone's happiness by sacrificing some of yours...is it too bad?
I don't have time = This is not my Priority
Hmmm...being able to pivot and react has landed me some of my biggest contracts. Unplanned opportunities.
great
🦋Amen
🎉❤
Brendon, how to deal with a boss that isn’t a good person and don’t want your success ?
Oh wowwwww so magnificent!
What about those of us that have already bought the book?
How do you say NO to your boss? He always comes at the last minute?
Rahul Bala say no by getting a new job?
Tell him he's coming to you too late for you to get stuff done the best you can and suggest a more appropriate time to come to you.
Your score card should reflect you values.
Hi there I just realized I read a story about how it was Brendon’s first time meeting Dali lama he went to his country I remember reading that lol Follow Freda Burris on FACEBOOK
Thank you