to anyone who has lost hope in life and feels like life is unfair

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  • i genuinely hope this video changed your mindset on things. things were pretty bad at the point i made this video but things has been a lot better since. hence this is proof that things will become better as time goes on. the first step is to always just to get the idea of "change" into your head. always take the decision that is best for your own well being. don't make decisions based off of how other's will react but based on your own mental health.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 507

  • @zandraparaguas
    @zandraparaguas 6 місяців тому +941

    "In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength." - Uncle Iroh from ATLA

    • @lydiamahfouf2924
      @lydiamahfouf2924 6 місяців тому +15

      Honestly my favourite character !

    • @OrlyKlein-ny3dv
      @OrlyKlein-ny3dv 6 місяців тому +17

      His lines were always so wise

    • @ana-qz7rt
      @ana-qz7rt 6 місяців тому +8

      God i love uncle iroh.

    • @Mila-lw8ox
      @Mila-lw8ox 6 місяців тому +5

      I am cured by uncle iroh quotes

    • @Mila-lw8ox
      @Mila-lw8ox 6 місяців тому +7

      He also said “Make tea, not war”

  • @hiroko3209
    @hiroko3209 6 місяців тому +640

    "you are your number 1 priority" literally the realest thing ive heard. this doesnt get talked about enough omg literally needed this video so bad tysm via 😭💗

    • @anusen6481
      @anusen6481 6 місяців тому +6

      Brooo why sooo relatable 😭🫶🏻

    • @joshuabuchanan1141
      @joshuabuchanan1141 6 місяців тому +4

      That's probably why life seems so pointless

    • @EverybodyWearsaMask
      @EverybodyWearsaMask 6 місяців тому

      Not true when you actually enter into a real relationship, specially when you have kids . You eventually have to be selfless and devote yourself to your partner and children .

    • @galek75
      @galek75 5 місяців тому

      ​@@joshuabuchanan1141 Tell me, why are you speaking facts rn 😂

  • @belisa9758
    @belisa9758 6 місяців тому +310

    The worst part is that nothing happened, this feeling is constant.
    I feel like nothing ever happens. I'm not sure if I'm even here. I'm absent in my own life.

    • @jokertaylor6492
      @jokertaylor6492 6 місяців тому +45

      Same. The worst lie I’ve heard is “it’ll get better”. No, and I’m not a pessimistic person, actually, I’m quite positive most of the time. But honestly, when things got worse and I thought I’ve reached rock bottom, somehow, it found itsway to be even worse. I’m tired of keeping having to be positive about my life because nothing good happens, no matter what you try and do. I don’t know what the point of trying anymore. Nothing happened, nothing at all.

    • @Gabriliao
      @Gabriliao 6 місяців тому +30

      you are HAPPENING, there don't need to be a specific incidents or something, you are the good thing that's happening in this world.

    • @iiCounted-op5jx
      @iiCounted-op5jx 6 місяців тому +3

      FACTSSS ngl

    • @allluvin7977
      @allluvin7977 6 місяців тому +6

      Dissociating from life?
      .....oh me too....

    • @francinyhuh
      @francinyhuh 6 місяців тому +9

      @@jokertaylor6492 As Via said in the video ''The littlest tiniest things can make you feel immensenly better''. Try finding relief in the most trivial things in your daily life, they could perk you up and see that something it's def happening. Not only you are happening, but also the existence is happening. The birds are chirping, the seeds are becoming small baby plants and the sky is completely different from yesterday.
      Also, try going to the depths of your nothingness to see why you feel that nothing good ever happens to you.

  • @ayelabban
    @ayelabban 6 місяців тому +56

    Sometimes nothing specific happens but you just get tired of life and it feels like it's never getting better

  • @summerwhite6
    @summerwhite6 6 місяців тому +72

    The problem is that I don't feel safe. Not outside, not anymore. My younger self would've been so disappointed of what her life became.

    • @Maui_Cheewini
      @Maui_Cheewini Місяць тому +1

      Sometimes I feel unsafe too. And it’s really heartbreaking to think of how that feeling affects you and your perspective of everything in life. I feel like I’m too scared to go out because of crime and all sorts of terrible ish that happens outside in the real world. My younger self would also be sad to know how I view the world drastically different than I did. But I mean in the end all we can do is to protect our self and that may not be helpful but I just live everyday taking precautions and just telling myself that everything will be ok. Everything happens for a reason .

  • @kitzunemiku
    @kitzunemiku 6 місяців тому +162

    the way i was JUST crying about how i feel like ive made no progress in my life and then i see u posted this 😭😭 omg

    • @yeojin6759
      @yeojin6759 6 місяців тому +9

      its gonna be okay

    • @kitzunemiku
      @kitzunemiku 6 місяців тому

      @@yeojin6759 THIS IS SO SWEET😭 tysm! same for u

    • @tsuzu3948
      @tsuzu3948 6 місяців тому +5

      Why is this me 😅 i feel like im wasting my time job searching for part time jobs

    • @kitzunemiku
      @kitzunemiku 6 місяців тому +1

      @@tsuzu3948 omg SAME😭 but i refuse to give up! there’s so much i wanna do in this life i refuse to give up over a temporal situation!! keep going

  • @therosecolored
    @therosecolored 6 місяців тому +223

    your videos make me SO HAPPY! i feel like we are longe distance best friends who are always in tune with each other, since i never had real friends in life. your content, your vlogs are THAT wholesome to me, keep going. thank you and lots of love from brazil.

  • @dior5204
    @dior5204 6 місяців тому +144

    I am in depression for like 6 months cuz i have no real friends but today i search on yt how to cure from loneliness and depression and your channel poped out....now i am so happy that i found you..thank you💗

    • @yeojin6759
      @yeojin6759 6 місяців тому +13

      i also don't have any real friends, and i don't know what place i have to say this but its gonna be okay

    • @dior5204
      @dior5204 6 місяців тому +8

      @@yeojin6759 aww how sweet of you...thank you so much...sometimes strangers from online can comfort me better than my close ones...srsly tysm i wish i could meet you in person and thank you😭 and you're so sweet💗

    • @erilovegrove1622
      @erilovegrove1622 6 місяців тому

      @@dior5204 If it is any comfort, I am in a similar position as you are. I believe things will get better for us!

    • @nv-ram
      @nv-ram 6 місяців тому +2

      Bro i feel u, i leave school and feel so isolated at home, making real close friends is so hard

    • @nunun672
      @nunun672 6 місяців тому +6

      I grew up not having friends and always being alone so let me tell you the time will come when you will be able to make friends for life. You are now in an enviroment where people aorund you are not the friends you want or need. Be your friend,take yourself on dates,treat yourself to some food, a drink,a trip to the bookstore if you read. Discover yourself and be your own friend. You will see then that you don't need others to be happy.

  • @MAfr3ak
    @MAfr3ak 6 місяців тому +57

    Taking care of your own inner child is so beautiful 🥺🥲

  • @dishiagrawal9936
    @dishiagrawal9936 6 місяців тому +171

    I literally got betrayed by someone I loved soooo muchhh and was depressed but now I feel much better...

    • @maggiemaggie5301
      @maggiemaggie5301 6 місяців тому +5

      you're doing well 🌷

    • @dishiagrawal9936
      @dishiagrawal9936 6 місяців тому +3

      @@maggiemaggie5301 It was my best friend 🤧🤧

    • @cherryuu24
      @cherryuu24 6 місяців тому +4

      im so sorry to hear that, sending lots and lots of hugs and energy fren

    • @Canopusparadise
      @Canopusparadise 6 місяців тому +3

      Welcome to the Strong Club. Stay Strong.

    • @wallacerangel616
      @wallacerangel616 6 місяців тому +6

      There’s always better people wanting to come into your life and will come inside your life at some point.

  • @jtm881
    @jtm881 6 місяців тому +86

    I love when people post content like this- because someone out there needs to hear it. And I don't want to be cliche but if you do focus on yourself and how to get where you want to, your hard work will pay off, just don't stop believing in yourself guys.
    I had been trying to get into medical school and after so many rejections, disappointments and just general frustration I've been accepted - so whatever it is you are seeking in life it is possible💜

    • @hillarywin
      @hillarywin 6 місяців тому

      Great job in getting into medical school! I'm proud of you 🎉💞

    • @DCc-s1q
      @DCc-s1q 6 місяців тому

      Take a Big black via

  • @evelynsfeather4159
    @evelynsfeather4159 6 місяців тому +18

    I feel like this a lot of the time lately. My father died a few months back, I just turned 20 and my life has been turned upside down. I still have my mom, my family and friends who are always there for me. But it’s very hard to see the light at the end of tunnel when something like that happens, you just don’t see any hope in life anymore. My constant fear is that it can always get worse but that’s the part of me that is scared of the future. I just wanted to thank you, Via, for all the videos because they helped through the last months and even now. You’re so relatable and funny. Keep on going girl🤍

    • @allluvin7977
      @allluvin7977 6 місяців тому +2

      Im sorry for your loss ❤
      May you flourish even more om also that age too, we'll both make it ❤️‍🩹
      There was someone i knew from my mom's side that passed away i cant imagine being my father. You are very strong ❤
      But it made put life in perspective like my life could be taken away any time without i ever knowing and at that time i was in a depressive state and now i start to be grateful for eveyday that i wake up cuz we often take our days for granted but anyways
      Keep hoing girl, im rooting for you.
      Im sure your father in heaven is looking over you akd hoping you stay healthy

  • @everynamesliterallybeentaken
    @everynamesliterallybeentaken 5 місяців тому +6

    This is so very much relatable!!!! Been through this whole traumatic events for months, thought I could die of sorrow. There are those toxic who you can’t really be reasoned with, even with constant communication one after one, nothing changes… people don’t change it’s just that you haven’t seen their true color. And yes ofc I didn’t ask for this… but I will go up after hitting hard on the rock bottom. Thank you

  • @irlseeu
    @irlseeu 6 місяців тому +29

    woahhh! i literally just ended an unhealthy friendship today. i feel like i needed to hear this

  • @rianwillow333
    @rianwillow333 6 місяців тому +79

    I REALLY needed this Via. You’re so wise and I’m just so so happy I found your channel. I’m overwhelmed with school and just feeling like a failure. But you reminded me that I am more than capable of getting through this semester and I will succeed!
    Also that line about reminding your inner child that you will protect her really got to me. It’s such a simple statement yet held so much weight. Yes you may be scared but this time, we are more than capable of protecting ourselves and getting through it. Loved this video. You are such an inspiration. And I hope your situation gets better soon and you can find peace. 🤍🤍

  • @darlingurglowing
    @darlingurglowing 5 місяців тому +5

    I finally let go of my toxic friendship last week🙌 I felt really frustrated and depressive, i thought i had a mental breakdown at first but then i realized that growth is painful. And letting go of toxic relationships is a chance you give yourself to create a better version of yourlself. Dear old memories; thanks for leaving me and giving me the oppurtunity to grow. And dear old memories; thanks for leaving me.

  • @missjazz1010
    @missjazz1010 6 місяців тому +11

    I'm at a point in my life where I feel less than I have been in a hot minute. I can't find a full-time job even tho I'm applying every single day AND my BF just broke up with me out of nowhere. I'm feeling extremely abandoned and like I can't grasp what I want (a job, an apartment, a car, etc.), so I'm so happy that I saw this in my recommendations. I'm glad so many people feel the same way I do and that I will be happy as time goes on. Thank you for this video, doll!

    • @furnisseugene
      @furnisseugene 4 місяці тому

      Yess hun can really relate to what you said - Also having job and love problems :( I wish the best in you, believe in yourself! You got this!!

  • @Mari-lg1wk
    @Mari-lg1wk 5 місяців тому +5

    revisted this video because i just had one of the worst arguments with my parents yet. long story short they didnt like my personal future plans so they belittled me with phrases such as "you dont understand how anything in life works", "youll get it when the real world treats you like shit like it treated me" ect. it was a horrible experience, it gave me major anxiety and it all started because i didnt take the career path they wanted me to. i see my parents as toxic monsters that cant be trusted with anything now.
    its very reassuring to hear the phrase "you will make it out fine". it reminds me that i will be okay in the end despite everything going on in my life right now. tysm for making these videos!

  • @justfate5912
    @justfate5912 5 місяців тому +6

    Hope. That’s a word I definitely needed to hear today. Thank you. Especially after my gf broke up with me on the phone earlier. YT recommendations be wild nowadays.

  • @may-yq1il
    @may-yq1il 6 місяців тому +4

    this popped up so timely on my feed. i just went through probably the biggest epiphany of my life that the only person i can truly fall back on is myself. it just hurts so much to see someone i thought could support me at the time where i needed it the most take a step back and started degrading everything about me-how they don’t approve of my future plans, my career, etc. simply because it’s not “prestigious” enough for their ego and that they have their own self interests. i felt so small and helpless like how i was as a child in that house. i had to remind myself that there’s nothing they can do to me now because i am an adult with independence and choices. this video was much needed! thanks!!

  • @butterfly22432
    @butterfly22432 5 місяців тому +3

    i really needed this video via! i’ve been going through a rough patch in terms of losing certain friends and opportunities and feeling lost about the future. hoping that time heals those wounds for me and that I can pull myself up. just made a scared decision and hoping it puts things back on track for me. hoping anyone that reads this is able to slowly move back up from rock bottom too 💕💕

  • @expressyourself8000
    @expressyourself8000 6 місяців тому +3

    "I'm not going let them win"
    Thank you for the reminder!

  • @luulu01
    @luulu01 6 місяців тому +8

    These last 3 days I have been in a depressive relapse from overthinking and remembering all the bad things I have gone through in life. From the time I can remember until I am 21 today, everything is still bad. Even bad news continues to reach me daily. I really feel that giving up is a better option than continuing to strive for things that are not going to change around me and things that I don't even know if they are worth it.
    My dreams are breaking into pieces, my hopes are flying away and everything I once liked no longer means anything today. I want to abandon everything and move on from an existential perspective to whatever is next but I can't do it either, much less because I decided to open this video after feeling bad about everything.
    I feel like it grounded me again and although I don't have the energy to work on myself immediately, it did give me new perspectives.
    Maybe there is something to live for and I'm still having a hard time deciding whether to continue or not, but I really appreciate you making this video

    • @heartvalais
      @heartvalais 6 місяців тому +3

      Get a pen and paper, or tablet, and write down what you love. Write down your dreams, write down a future that you’d be happy with. Then think of what step you could take today to get closer to that. Let’s say your goal is to get a job. Okay well first, if your health isn’t good then you won’t have energy to work right? So your first step would be making sure to feed yourself. Get into a habit of doing just that even if you feel like you’re not getting anything done in life. Once that has become easy for you, you add your next step, like sleeping early, then when that becomes easy you add another step. These things may seem so far from what you actually want in life but they aren’t. If you want energy to commit to your goals your physical and mental health come first. If you don’t take care of yourself then of course you’re going to feel stuck. Little by little your health will get better and then you can start thinking about steps to take OUTSIDE of your daily routine. If you don’t have love for your hobbies then you’re gonna have to make yourself fall in love again. Watch your favorite movie/tv show, read your favorite book, listen to your favorite song. Anything that gets you inspired. Then keep looking for and finding things that inspire you. Learn MORE about what you love and become entitled to enjoying it.
      If you have a good day, write down what happened and why it was a good day. If you had a bad day write down why it was a bad day. Keep track of your emotions, your habits, and your thoughts. You will get to know yourself and your cycles through this and you’ll actually have an idea of what can change. Ask yourself “What can I take from that good day and put into my daily life?” Write down what you ate, how much you moved that day, when and how much you slept and relate it to how you end up feeling that day. All of these little things matter and are the building blocks of changing your life.
      Awareness and commitment.

  • @felicialauren.
    @felicialauren. 6 місяців тому +24

    THE UPLOAD GRIND!! thank you via, as a fellow creator u inspire me so much and keeps me going

  • @niki_jungkook7
    @niki_jungkook7 6 місяців тому +25

    i love your videos so much🤍 sitting down in my room and just watching your videos is so comforting💞 they're always motivating me and you inspire me so much💗i'm pretty sure everyone can agree you're one of the best youtubers

  • @den_mar_perez
    @den_mar_perez 6 місяців тому +14

    i swear via im so spiritually connected to your journals because they feel so empowering 💛 i went through a long journey of self doubt but i learned to heal and although im still learning to process everything i can finally say i have truly recovered from everything ! you always know what to say and i genuinely appreciate that

  • @seiusido
    @seiusido 6 місяців тому +14

    The video I needed,I literally just clicked the video because of the title as I am going through a situation like that.I love you and hope u recover from your situation too,I love uuuu❤❤

  • @lazel1057
    @lazel1057 6 місяців тому +12

    'i'm going to try my best right now, and that's all i can do'
    thank you, via, this really offered me some comfort. i've been dealing with a really draining gastric condition that has just sapped my energy and motivation levels and most days I feel like i'm not doing enough in terms of maintaining relationships and school work as I just don't have the capacity at the moment to prioritise others/get creative. but your video has served as a reminder to not be so harsh on myself, and that I should focus on healing foremost

    • @cyborg3lf
      @cyborg3lf 6 місяців тому

      I've been having similar issues with my health and each day is a battle because of it. You definitely aren't alone. Wishing you the best

  • @by_allie
    @by_allie 3 місяці тому +1

    "You need to live for your younger self." (I hope she's proud and will continue to be proud of me now🥺)
    Thank you and luv you so much via♡

  • @bigskib
    @bigskib 6 місяців тому +4

    Another note I would like to add is experience is so so so important. If you feel like whatever you're going through is impossible to overcome, please keep going, no matter how impossible it feels. The more you prove to yourself that you can make it through the extreme lows of life, the more capable you will feel in making it through whatever new low hits you in the future. This is speaking from my personal experience of horrible shit happening that brought me to my knees multiple times in my childhood/teenage/early adult years. I am so thankful to past me for getting up and trying again and again, every single time. I'm so proud of every iteration of me, and I hope everyone here will be able to say the same. ❤

  • @_Lin1012
    @_Lin1012 6 місяців тому +8

    Honestly Via you're one of the most insperational youtubers ive ever came across, ive been watching you a lot recently and your videos give me so much insperation and motivation

  • @chowo
    @chowo 4 місяці тому

    I recently went through some shit with my mom (she had untreated schizophrenia, thankfully she has help now) and it's so comforting to hear that others also feel like the only person you can rely on is yourself. I think it's the sad truth for a lot of us. Thank you for sharing your hardships with us, cause I know I can do this even at times it feels impossible, but it is nice to hear someone else believes that as well. We will make it : )

  • @s0pycaee
    @s0pycaee 6 місяців тому +9

    thank you for this video! Recently it’s been really hard for me to progress in life right now and im at my lowest moment. I’ll keep this in my watch later 😋

  • @rosalina-i8o
    @rosalina-i8o 3 місяці тому +1

    You're like the elder sister i never had .. love you so much and i am so proud of you for everything.. and thankyou... thankyou for everything.. your videos are the only place where i am understood

  • @KristenGuyDesign
    @KristenGuyDesign 6 місяців тому +2

    Forgiveness helps, when we’re ready to heal completely. I’ve read about people who have gone through lots of horrible things like losing a child to murder and forgiving the murderer, and when I was young I was like how, how can they do that. But then overtime I realized it’s so they can let go of the hate that would ultimately destroy them and that wouldn’t allow them to exist in peace.
    I love that you’re reminding people that no matter what gotta keep going, and finding internal peace comes with forgiveness and anytime the negative things from the past comes into your mind, thank yourself for getting yourself to a better place.
    Thank you for your video!

  • @aurorateemo3708
    @aurorateemo3708 6 місяців тому +3

    i feel like you are just my older sister giving me life lessons it feels like a warm hug thank u so much

  • @Leobooki
    @Leobooki 6 місяців тому +6

    🌸Via ~ I’m SO very sorry to hear about what you had going on this past week * big hug * that sounded really hard , letting go is so challenging because you do at heart want to believe they changed then you come to realization that they won’t . I hope for a better week for you and everyone here who had a stressful week ♥️ the video was so appreciated and you always have the right words 🙏 thank you

  • @starrymaynights
    @starrymaynights 6 місяців тому +1

    “i did it once and I made it out alive once and yes this sucks for me but I can make it out again.” boooiiiii does that resonate with me so much and puts so much perspective and reality

  • @noelle7786
    @noelle7786 2 місяці тому

    a year ago, I was going through one of the hardest breakups ever. I literally couldn't get myself to do anything. a year later, I'm in a new relationship with a guy who truly loves me, I'm physically fit, I am transferring to my dream school, and I work two jobs and am living my best life! time does heal everything. please, just WAIT if you can't do anything else.

  • @viavss
    @viavss 4 місяці тому +1

    I was in the middle of a breakdown, really depressed about a manipulative friend that everyone liked, when i stepped upon one of your videos. Thank you for making my day a little bit better. 💗

  • @Silvia-xb9ww
    @Silvia-xb9ww 6 місяців тому +2

    the truth is that I feel stuck at a point in life where I feel that everything around me continues and I am not able to move forward, I feel that I have lost hope, and yet I keep trying to get out of here, I do not know how long it will take but your videos help me a lot, thank you for doing what you do. ly

  • @Just_stoptalking
    @Just_stoptalking 6 місяців тому +2

    "Be so rooted in your being that nobody's absence or presence can disturb your inner peace"

  • @hanakive
    @hanakive 6 місяців тому +2

    i swear to god i don't need a therapist i need Via's self-reflection videos, i love her i could listen to her for hours literally !!

  • @LunarWind99
    @LunarWind99 6 місяців тому +2

    I've been really struggling recently due to insomnia which has been deeply upsetting since I finally got my mental health to a pretty good place and that was a long difficult journey in and of itself but videos like yours give me hope that things will be okay again ❤️

  • @krompkin7165
    @krompkin7165 6 місяців тому +4

    This journal entry really connected with me as I've been going through something challenging that has definitely taken a toll on my mental health. Every day, I tell myself that things aren't going to get better but your journal honestly helped me see life for the greater things and not just for the bad. It gave me a sense of hope that I'll be able to recover as I'm not alone. Your content inspired me a lot to start journaling my feelings and that It's okay to feel shitty sometimes but also to never forget that the situations I go through don't define me as an individual and that life itself has so much to offer that we can either learn from or experience. Thank you so much for this

  • @niranjana6300
    @niranjana6300 6 місяців тому +2

    thanks for posting this. i REALLY needed to hear what you said. i’m also going through what you seem to be going through and hearing u feels so comforting

  • @niolaingsburneracc
    @niolaingsburneracc 6 місяців тому +4

    you dk how much I needed this video, my entire life fell apart last year oct this gives me hope

    • @yeojin6759
      @yeojin6759 6 місяців тому

      its gonna be okay

  • @iamkai.doodles
    @iamkai.doodles 6 місяців тому +3

    i literally got rejected on friday by this person i really liked. thanks a lot for these videos ❤❤

  • @NanaLoveChan98
    @NanaLoveChan98 5 місяців тому

    In this moment in where I feel that my friend are not so friendly to me, and i feel alone in this life, I apprecieted so much this video, and I'm sure I will rewatch it along time, thank you for you're work ❤

  • @malionthemoon
    @malionthemoon 6 місяців тому +3

    thank you for being vulnerable with us, i needed to hear all this

  • @Megan-lr2hx
    @Megan-lr2hx 6 місяців тому +1

    You’re so lucky to finish college in 4-years and get a job without any problem. I see you enjoying life now and doing all the things you want to ever do. I’m wondering where did you lived and where do you live now because you seem like a calm person and your environment seems diverse and calm as well compared to mines. I’m a bit older than you and I’m struggling, life is not treating me well.

  • @jade6957
    @jade6957 6 місяців тому +1

    I suscribed right when you said “whatever fuck*ing shit that just happened to you..” because I can see your real enough to realize that starting the video with a strong, but real, word takes courage in a fragile world if ykyk and it’s funny thanks for the laughs hahaha

  • @nea3784
    @nea3784 2 дні тому

    same situation, same reason I opened this video again, but new me... I will be my own 1. priority from now on, thank you Via for saving me, again.💕

  • @luvswanz
    @luvswanz 3 місяці тому

    As a 13 year old thank you for this video, I’ve been struggling to be myself since I have been feeling horrible and hopeless.

  • @randomtrucks
    @randomtrucks 6 місяців тому +1

    there's always a shimmer of something immensely hopeful when you hit rock bottom

  • @shainabanerjee
    @shainabanerjee 5 місяців тому +1

    VIAAAAAA I've been crying for an hour. Thank you

  • @wongooichin3221
    @wongooichin3221 4 місяці тому

    I have been following Via I forgot since when, every time she talks, her words kinda lifted me up.
    Thank u Via. I just experienced the worst heart break in my life from my family, but what you said is right..i need this so much right now. Thank you and I looking forward for my future life...lovesss...

  • @Bhoomi-sy7zs
    @Bhoomi-sy7zs 3 місяці тому +1

    as i went through depression mental breakdown it took like 2 years i got myself to healing , now things are getting better but now also i have breakdowns but i know its goona healed one day

  • @hanarawrxx
    @hanarawrxx 4 місяці тому

    honestly via is just that comforting friend that gives u these pep talks at some point of ur life when u can't and i appreciate that ALOT thank you via for snapping me out of this gloomy life!

  • @leslie08
    @leslie08 6 місяців тому +1

    I swear that every time I watch one of your videos I can physically feel inspired, I don't know how to explain it, it's just incredible, and also like that second after you've just finished your journal entry and you feel like a weight has lifted. Just clicking one of your videos is like slipping into a sort of introspective, meditative state, where you feel your emotions more clearly. I think it's just a combination of how the videos are done, and the way you say things in such an authentic way, it resonates a lot with me and I'm so grateful for everything you put out there for us to see. ❤❤

  • @SofiaRuiz-xk4fd
    @SofiaRuiz-xk4fd 6 місяців тому +1

    I swear your chanel it's my safe place, I love every single video so much

  • @rahafabdallah1909
    @rahafabdallah1909 6 місяців тому +2

    never been this grateful for a youtuber in my life. THANKU VIA 💗💗

  • @giuseppeLizzi-rj3er
    @giuseppeLizzi-rj3er 5 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes I just wonder if anything is worth it I feel really odd ever since my mum passed away like nothing feels normal or real I’m in deep dark depression I’m close to the edge of losing everything

  • @user-pz5nx2uw6h
    @user-pz5nx2uw6h 6 місяців тому +3

    i really needed this😔listening to you always makes me feel better😘😘

  • @gugli138
    @gugli138 6 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much via for making this video I was really in a need for this 😭 love you 💖 please keep making content like this

  • @gigireadsnwrites
    @gigireadsnwrites 6 місяців тому +1

    thank you via, i really needed this. sending you love

  • @dialenka8456
    @dialenka8456 6 місяців тому +5

    literally when i needed it

  • @unicornjasminesun
    @unicornjasminesun 6 місяців тому

    Omg I NEEDED YO HEAR THIS! I just cut off a toxic boyfriend that I’ve been so emotionally invested in for damn near a year and the scar is deep cause I had so much faith. You’re a breath of fresh air Via I love you for making this .

  • @jessielbrown2154
    @jessielbrown2154 4 місяці тому

    I am so grateful towards you, I have only recently found your channel but I have binged all your videos. So thank you.

  • @rachaelharper3778
    @rachaelharper3778 6 місяців тому +1

    Thankyou so much for this you just saved my life ❤❤❤

  • @gab1888
    @gab1888 6 місяців тому +1

    People who are your closest fail you the most. A couple months ago thanks to your video I have cut ties with my best friend, who hurt me in a way I could never imagine was possible.
    Now one of my new friends started acting poorly towards me. Your uploads seems to align with my life.
    Feeling pain is horrible, I like how you transform your pain into help for other people by videos like that.

  • @scara.iy3
    @scara.iy3 6 місяців тому +4

    via, ur such an amazing person thanks

  • @Sasugoo
    @Sasugoo 5 місяців тому

    I'm not the best person, not even a good friend. This video has taught me, why am I being the poison and letting others drink it?
    Ur videos are such a wake up call, especially respecting oneself and orhers.

  • @winteroreoo
    @winteroreoo 6 місяців тому

    I just lost a lot of friends recently and i saw this video. Thank you

  • @slowlybug
    @slowlybug 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for making these videos. They have helped me improve myself and give me motivation to go outside and live my life so much better (I have agoraphobia and covid made it worse). I am 15 turning 16 in July and I'm traveling for my birthday and instead of being scared and anxious I'm excited. I also had to cut off my only two friends for this exact reason and it hurt but realized it made my life way better. I plan on getting my first job this year too and i genuinely WANT to go outside, make friends, and do things. Thank you.

  • @madelinelizabeth8
    @madelinelizabeth8 6 місяців тому

    My go to saying right now is "feel the fear and do it anyway" i have completely changed my entire life in a single year and I will continue to change into something new and better each day I have. I will make myself proud even if I have to do it scared ❤
    Hoping you make it thru your struggles soon

  • @amyzhu5187
    @amyzhu5187 6 місяців тому

    Going through a painful heartbreak, and his betrayal. Its ok, time heals everything, right now I do a lot of art or more complex designs. It helps. I also journal poetically, its a odd way but it helps me a lot. Give it a try, journal and relax. It will be ok, you’re safe now.

  • @Ro_003
    @Ro_003 6 місяців тому +1

    I literally needed this thank you via ❤
    " the people who hurt you most are the people you love and trust the most " :) that really hits me
    I am going thru a situation where i have nobody to share stuffs . its been 3-4 day's and i am really frustrated i want someone to help me but i have no one i can ask for .
    You know what via you are the reason that's making me not loose hope and try everytime your video's motives me so much and calms me down ❤
    Thank you for existing girl from the bottom of my heartt i really love youuu🎀😊

  • @ynnetea
    @ynnetea 6 місяців тому +1

    This video was the first thing that popped up in my recommended, and honestly I really needed this. I haven't been able to do the things I needed and wanted to do because my family members have once again been a big trigger. It has put my mental health in a really bad place again and I really didn't know what to do anymore
    Thank you for reminding me that I'm allowed to feel the way I'm feeling. Thank you for validating the fact that it's so unfair to be triggered by people over and over again when you're trying so hard to heal. Thank you for telling me that I can get through the struggles and that I can thrive in this life. Thank you for reminding me that my younger self needs me
    I've been watching your videos the past few weeks and I appreciate you so much. I relate to the things you talk about in your videos, and I'm so grateful that you are willing to share your beautiful journey with us. You have encouraged me to take steps to better myself, even though it can be really difficult. Thank you Via ❤⚘

  • @needjesus_6451
    @needjesus_6451 2 місяці тому +2

    I relate to this video from the deepest from my heart , I'm currently 19 turning 20 in two months and I passed out my highschool back in 2023 then I decided to study medicine for that I even took a drop the whole year to give the exam .. now it's 2024 and I didn't pass the exam at this point I really feel like shit I even gave 5 more entrance exam but Idk what will happen to me my mom and dad have no hope for me and my relatives are making fun of me .. I literally felt like a loser cuz I lose in all the exam I even got scared what will happen in future , will I ever get uccess ? Will I even achieve my dream ? .. there were too many questions that has been going on in my mind for the past 6 months and I still can't get over it I literally felt like getting disappeared at some point cuz even my parents were fed up with me too and it's true when u have a bad time and ur own people look down on u and loose hope on u it feels like shit .. I literally cried while watching ur vid cuz all the questions that were there in my mind u point out everything .. via thanku so much for making this video

  • @nawar6241
    @nawar6241 6 місяців тому +1

    usually i skip most of videos in youtube but that touched a piece of my heart i mean it really explains lot of things i used to be uncomfortable around others thinking is that person is bad ? i know that wired but every time i go out to eat something i feel hesitated especially if i tried to order using the same language (that i have learned ) what if i fucked up what if i did something wrong your videos were amazing from a me to you as person i want you to search more abou islam + muslims and gaza cause i think you’re a good girl and you deserve to know more about it read quran when you hear it you will feel hair Chills 🌟.

  • @lianxu6827
    @lianxu6827 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Via, I'm your subcribers since last year but I never comment here because I was shy
    Your advice really changed my life because I was having hard time before
    Thank you Via, for being the person who tell me lots of things I couldn't tell myself to do

  • @TysonMichael77
    @TysonMichael77 6 місяців тому

    this was a game changer for me, especially after doing an inner child meditation.

  • @beelezebuber
    @beelezebuber 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video, you explained the exact situation I have with my ex best friend/partner. It sucks so bad to feel like this and having to build yourself back up again- but we can do it! We’ll be fine one day. I’m proud of you.

  • @solaomoyeni2341
    @solaomoyeni2341 6 місяців тому +1

    I thank God for you every time
    This video just came in when i saw my exam results 💔
    You are God sent❤️

  • @user-sl1mk4ed8i
    @user-sl1mk4ed8i 6 місяців тому +2

    bruh ngl your video came at my fyp at the right time i recently had my physics exam and it was hard I did do the exam but i think i am gonna fail and i lost hope for my next exams too but this ved gave me the hope

  • @mackenziechen1260
    @mackenziechen1260 5 місяців тому

    I'm extremely grateful to have come across your channel, particularly given my current situation. Your videos serve as a great source of motivation for me to keep pushing forward.💛💛💛💛

  • @aafa01
    @aafa01 4 місяці тому

    I'm having a bit of a hard time right now and this video helped me understand things I hadn't thought about before. I have been watching your videos for a short time and I really like the way you talk and make your videos🩷thank u!

  • @AceKite00
    @AceKite00 6 місяців тому

    This is just the discussion I needed to finally rid myself of someone who hasn't brought any value to my life for years. It's always SOMETHING, and i'm done going through that. Farewell, old friend.

  • @Kkgsu1
    @Kkgsu1 6 місяців тому

    Have you ever wanted to run far away for sometime but you are just a student and all you can do it stick to it

  • @RedSky22
    @RedSky22 5 місяців тому

    "Some people are poison, why do you drink poison"? so true... Very good video. You are smart. Thanks.

  • @usubenidango
    @usubenidango 6 місяців тому

    I feel like social media is unfair, I see so many artists out there getting recognition and lots of likes while I, no matter how much hard work and effort I put, continue to be a flop :'( I'll watch this video to get myself some hope and I'll comment again after I finish watching!

  • @naomi1070
    @naomi1070 6 місяців тому +1

    Im so sorry , Via, for what you have experienced to do this video. Im also very grateful for it, because your videos really are making difference to people and in this case for me i understood so many important things, im nearly sure now i can finally deal with sorta tough situations, thanks to you. You're making this world better, Via. We love you so much

  • @Church1179
    @Church1179 6 місяців тому +1

    The timing of this is ridiculously perfect.

  • @miffyz.
    @miffyz. 6 місяців тому +1

    I just got a bad grade on an exam and i was so disappointed because I haven’t had much luck with my tests this quarter. I really needed this, thank you Via

  • @louiscese
    @louiscese 6 місяців тому +3

    great video 🙏this advice is really good for a small creator like me

  • @finley_explore
    @finley_explore 6 місяців тому +3

    I just had my High school exams and if I fail the exam I am remaining in the same class and my friend and family think i am going crazy and this video is such a big concern to my condition
    I love you so much ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sandi6818
    @sandi6818 10 днів тому

    Love this video, watching as I’m laying in my bed. 😂 I feel personally called out. 😂 I’m dwelling on a breakup, invested 7 yrs in this, in the middle of moving, taking care of an aging mom and I’m a single mom with little help. I do have good things coming in though but I’m dwelling on the past and feel stuck right now.

  • @kejsida4921
    @kejsida4921 6 місяців тому +1

    I really needed this rn. I tend to find myself doing what others want me to do but I'm gonna put my foot down and pursue my career as an artist

  • @Coffee_Caffeine
    @Coffee_Caffeine 6 місяців тому +4

    I love your videos they make me smile every time you post!! ❤️❤️❤️