I’m 25 I’ve been married for 3 years and dated my husband 2 years before that! The best part abt marriage is falling in love with each other’s imperfections and learning to give yourself grace by witnessing the grace your partner gives you ❤ it’s apart of my culture to marry young so to each their own but I find it beautiful to grow with someone in this way.
Bianca! When you said “if you had spent more of your twenties enjoying your alone time, theres a lot of ppl you wouldn’t have hurt. “ That is so profound and that is growth. I’m so grateful that you share so authentically because even me, just entering my twenties, thats gonna stick with me! So thank you so much for being your most authentic self on this channel 🤍💖😘
As a black Christian girl who just moved to NY i loved coming across your vids and seeing that you had that background. I would love to hear more about your story. I know God is still leading you! Such a relatable video lollllll
Since you mentioned Christianity, I feel safe sharing this verse: Matthew 6:33 "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." I’ve been struggling with the same challenge of having deep desires yet not attaining them, despite my best efforts. This has caused me great anxiety, but as I shift my priorities and focus on God, I find myself less in a hurry and more at peace, despite the constant reminders from society that I should not be considering my circumstances. The desires that has been put in us are good and very real, but constantly dwelling on them breeds discontent, resentment, and exhaustion. So, while you wait, don’t let these desires consume you, Bianca ❤Even if you were to attain them, they will never be able to fully satisfy you, even if you think it will (might sound harsh, but it's the truth.) That being said, I am deeply enamoured with every video you put out, from the editing to the storytelling! Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, it's great to know that we're not alone x
As a 24 year old black girl your videos are comforting, I’m going through so many changes and I can relate with you on a lot. You’re so beautiful btw!! ❤
I just recently moved to LA & have been feeling so lonely lately! As a black girl it feels so incredibly heartwarming when you find your soul tribe especially people that look like you. It’s so inspiring to see you prioritizing not only self love but also platonic love. I hope to find my ppl soon!! Loved this so much 🫶🏽
Fellow subscriber - 38 year old single mum, all those feelings are valid to want to a baby and get married... trust me have fun, live your life beautiful queen , none of us have it figured out. I look at your life and think.. she's so free , she's alot more balanced than I was at her age.. so trust yourself and the journey.. even with your exes, you weren't to blame...we do our best with the knowledge we have ...love and light to you :)
I love your videos it’s like we’re having therapy together. So glad you feel more comfortable with being by your self, it comes with age. A lot of your questions will be answered in due time because as you get older you get wiser. And you’ve already become more wiser even about men. I totally get what you’re saying about men. Especially in your 20s I so was the same. Anyway thanks again. Demi is so adorable. Have a great week 😃👍🏽✌️❤️
omg everything you said in this video was like reading out of my diary. every time i'm in a long term relationship i feel stunted and somehow my growth in life is over. like i got my fairytale ending and that's it. also not to sound like a h*e but i always think damn i'm in my 20s i should be at the club trying to get with a new guy every month in a new country not doing a mans laundry and cooking for him have you watched "the worst person in the world"? it talks about this topic and is literally my favorite movie it made me feel so much better about myself and knowing it's not just me who feels like this :)
I asked my mom the other day if it makes her sad that my aunt is a grandmother and she isn't-- she said "no, I don't even have my ish together be someone's grandma" lol
Omg I say this to my friends all the time! Like my husband is in Europe😭I loved dating there! Don’t get me wrong I’ve met great men on the east coast but I just feel like my true self in Europe✨ lmk when you’re ready to move there lol😉😂
Have you ever been open to the idea of dating another female model or the possibility of finding love with a woman? I understand it’s not with Christian values, but I feel like gentle women do really well with other women in relationships if you can get over the sex part.
Who are the people you look to for love life advice? Besides friends/family... Kevin Samuels if you're able to get past the tone of it has really good advice. Sadia Khan gives excellent advice as well.
dont go anywhere near kevin samuels. Dont take any advice from a middle age + [man] expressing disdain for women (prolly cause they dont like him) who has nothing in his past but 1 short failed marriage; is an obvious grifter; and died with a prostitute.
Girlfriend, you will never have it all together. Be gentle with yourself. Life is forever evolving and so will you ✨️ You're beautiful ❤
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I’m 25 I’ve been married for 3 years and dated my husband 2 years before that! The best part abt marriage is falling in love with each other’s imperfections and learning to give yourself grace by witnessing the grace your partner gives you ❤ it’s apart of my culture to marry young so to each their own but I find it beautiful to grow with someone in this way.
Bianca! When you said “if you had spent more of your twenties enjoying your alone time, theres a lot of ppl you wouldn’t have hurt. “ That is so profound and that is growth. I’m so grateful that you share so authentically because even me, just entering my twenties, thats gonna stick with me! So thank you so much for being your most authentic self on this channel 🤍💖😘
🥹🥹💘💘❤️thank you so much love.
so so proud and thankful for this vulnerability bianca, you don't know how many girlies you're helping out here
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️🥹thank you so much for watching!!
As a black Christian girl who just moved to NY i loved coming across your vids and seeing that you had that background. I would love to hear more about your story. I know God is still leading you! Such a relatable video lollllll
Since you mentioned Christianity, I feel safe sharing this verse:
Matthew 6:33 "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you."
I’ve been struggling with the same challenge of having deep desires yet not attaining them, despite my best efforts. This has caused me great anxiety, but as I shift my priorities and focus on God, I find myself less in a hurry and more at peace, despite the constant reminders from society that I should not be considering my circumstances.
The desires that has been put in us are good and very real, but constantly dwelling on them breeds discontent, resentment, and exhaustion. So, while you wait, don’t let these desires consume you, Bianca ❤Even if you were to attain them, they will never be able to fully satisfy you, even if you think it will (might sound harsh, but it's the truth.)
That being said, I am deeply enamoured with every video you put out, from the editing to the storytelling!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, it's great to know that we're not alone x
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️❤️❤️ God makes it all better
Thank you love!
As a 24 year old black girl your videos are comforting, I’m going through so many changes and I can relate with you on a lot. You’re so beautiful btw!! ❤
i feel so incredibly understood by you. thank you for being vulnerable on such a large platform.
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾❤️thank you so much for watching
I just recently moved to LA & have been feeling so lonely lately!
As a black girl it feels so incredibly heartwarming when you find your soul tribe especially people that look like you. It’s so inspiring to see you prioritizing not only self love but also platonic love. I hope to find my ppl soon!! Loved this so much 🫶🏽
Fellow subscriber - 38 year old single mum, all those feelings are valid to want to a baby and get married... trust me have fun, live your life beautiful queen , none of us have it figured out. I look at your life and think.. she's so free , she's alot more balanced than I was at her age.. so trust yourself and the journey.. even with your exes, you weren't to blame...we do our best with the knowledge we have ...love and light to you :)
Me being 25 and never dated, kissed or held hands. I'm pretty. I pull men but i detach bc i feel more comfortable alone.
I love your videos it’s like we’re having therapy together. So glad you feel more comfortable with being by your self, it comes with age. A lot of your questions will be answered in due time because as you get older you get wiser. And you’ve already become more wiser even about men. I totally get what you’re saying about men. Especially in your 20s I so was the same. Anyway thanks again. Demi is so adorable. Have a great week
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🫶🏾🥹🫶🏾 thank you so much!
I’m married and don’t have it even HALFWAY together 🙃 I’m only 2 years older than you. Be gentle with yourself.
Noted🥲
We never have it all together, God is the only one. so embrace the ride babygirl
This is deeply relatable
omg everything you said in this video was like reading out of my diary. every time i'm in a long term relationship i feel stunted and somehow my growth in life is over. like i got my fairytale ending and that's it. also not to sound like a h*e but i always think damn i'm in my 20s i should be at the club trying to get with a new guy every month in a new country not doing a mans laundry and cooking for him
have you watched "the worst person in the world"? it talks about this topic and is literally my favorite movie it made me feel so much better about myself and knowing it's not just me who feels like this :)
Yes!!! Absolutely love that movie. Watched it recently🥰🥰🥰thank you so much for sharing and watching. I totally relate hahah😭
I asked my mom the other day if it makes her sad that my aunt is a grandmother and she isn't-- she said "no, I don't even have my ish together be someone's grandma" lol
We miss you❤
Omg I say this to my friends all the time! Like my husband is in Europe😭I loved dating there! Don’t get me wrong I’ve met great men on the east coast but I just feel like my true self in Europe✨ lmk when you’re ready to move there lol😉😂
Just had to stop and say you’re gorgeous.
Have you ever been open to the idea of dating another female model or the possibility of finding love with a woman? I understand it’s not with Christian values, but I feel like gentle women do really well with other women in relationships if you can get over the sex part.
Define “All together”.
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no bc yk what… life IS like a hole in your sock!!!
Thank YOU
Demi is so fun i caaaan‘t
Hahah right
I kind of feel the same way the first 5 mins but idk why smh
Would you ever consider dating a women a cute girly girl? ❤😅
what anxiety meds
Ever tried a girl?
Who are the people you look to for love life advice? Besides friends/family... Kevin Samuels if you're able to get past the tone of it has really good advice. Sadia Khan gives excellent advice as well.
dont go anywhere near kevin samuels. Dont take any advice from a middle age + [man] expressing disdain for women (prolly cause they dont like him) who has nothing in his past but 1 short failed marriage; is an obvious grifter; and died with a prostitute.