Gobby Lisa, there is a big reason why Chinese man are angry over this. When Chinese women married non-chinese very often they do not ask for bride price, car, house because this marriage requests are not common to western people. But when it comes to a Chinese women marrying a Chinese man they have many such requirements. So can you blame him for being angry?
Taiwan is a lot more global and in touch with reality. Chinese censorship and propaganda made most people in the mainland completely oblivious to basic human decency. Tone-deaf is an understatement.
That is correct about what Chinese men say about Chinese women - they treat them as property. I am western and married a Chinees woman after two marriages to Western women. I am very happy. To Chinese men, I say: If you want Chinese women to marry only Chinese men, you should probably treat them better. That may also be offensive, but it doesn't make it less true.
I liked that, too, though ai would have just let the pronunciation go. But the attitude is just like the women's rage against passport bros In any case, western men don't care if Chinese men don't like it. I may say that wen I was going around with my asian wife, the people there were fine with it.
I have 2 Chinese uncle who married Japanese and Korean women. I heard from them that some Chinese men even married Arab and African women because they have big businesses and money.
Once my Chinese lady colleague told me "Taiwanese girls are more gentle and feminine than us (from the Mainland)". That says a lot. It's perfectly alright for Chinese women to choose Western men, just as Chinese men are now seeking more foreign brides from Russia and Laos.
The last time I saw a white woman married to a Chinese guy it absolutely wasn't a problem for me. I will be going to a wedding in Taiwan in two months between a white American woman and a friend of mine who happens to be Taiwanese American. I'm happy for them. My wife is a Filipina. I had an ex who was Chinese whose bigoted parents probably continue to ruin her life because of their bigotry. Why would I care who women from my country marry? I feel bad for young Chinese because of the obvious bs they have to put up with regarding relationship expectations from their society and often their own family.
That doesn’t bother me and I’m a western man. I’d be more interested to know how many western men who want a Chinese gf get unhappy when they see them paired with other foreign men
It’s never bothered me who Australian women marry or date lol never given it a second thought, my wife is Chinese btw and she could be any race I don’t care, I love her for who she is not her race
I don't think it's about nationalism. It is a simple inferiority complex. Feeling that you have when an attractive woman lets you know in a most straightforward way that you are way below her expectations and will never have a chance with her. On another hand some women, marrying foreigners, are open gold diggers and possibly really deserve less respect than others.
@@johnlacey3857 How do you know? You ever been there or are you just talking from watching your western propaganda machines like I fully believed until I travelled and saw things for myself. As someone who's travelled a lot, I'd say us in the west actually have a lot to learn from chinese culture, like believe it or not, safety (these days, maybe not 20 years ago when the country was still poor af) and actually, respect for women.
Well it isn't that many years ago that western men held the same traditional view and some still do, The emancipation wave of the 1960s and later only reached Europe and North America, yet is still going elsewhere.
I am looking forward to marrying my Chinese American girlfriend. She came from Singapore and is now an American citizen and has gotten permission from her family to marry me. So I am looking forward to a happy life.
If you asked your girlfriend if she is Chinese she would tell you she is Singaporean. Possibly Singaporean of Chinese heritage but never Chinese. I know this first hand as my wife is Singaporean and I had the pleasure of living and working in Singapore for ten years so I have a bit of experience with this.
I have been in China 18 yrs, I have never had this said to me as yet, but if a guy says something and I hear it, I will just smile and hold my bits and smile, and say this is why..🤣
Yes I have travelled extensively and know many Chinese people as good friends and have not come across this when there either. Normally Chinese people love foreigners and are always asking me to teach them English! I think this channel is fake and she is a slave by western propaganda syndicates forced to say this. People should just travel themselves and see beyond the bs 'media' so they can think for themselves.
Very good insight into Chinese men and their attitudes towards women and foreign men. Bottom line is men and women, of all races, should marry whomever makes them happy. The hell with personal prejudices and/or biases!
Sure, in a perfect world. But when there's systemic media bias against one group in favor of another group, how are the choices women make authentically self-determined? And why should men turn a blind eye when women who marry foreigners express public contempt for them and her country? We're seeing a backlash in Western countries as well as institutions turn against white men and so-called "white male privilege." White men are (angrily) responding to white women who join the anti-white man brigade. Anti-whiteness is a new phenomenon for white men, but anti-Asian male sentiment has been a thing for many decades.
The hypocrisy of white men is astounding. They mateguard their women from asian men and have the audacity to say all of this? You must be seething when you see all the western women and east European women coming to korean to find their oppa.
Years ago I was in South Korea and on my way to see the Palace and asked 2 schoolgirls if this was the right way, a Korean guy stopped and warned the 2 girls not to speak to foreign men...
My dream is to marry an East Asian woman because I want to Buddhist and Buddhism is the most followed religion in that part of the world. Also East Asian women are very beautiful and family oriented.
Chinese ladies caught my interest many years ago, but being in South Africa there wasn't any community around. Now in Australia there are many beautiful ladies here. Maybe one day. 😊
White men are notorious for mateguarding their women from asian men. This has been going on for decades. Hollywood are gatekeepers on who they want to portray as desirable. Korean entertainment media is now combating this w/ soft power. And the west is combating that with slander as usual.
I'm a white American man married to a Chinese woman from China for 20 years now and living here in the U.S.. I've been to China many times. My wife always seems to get angry at some of the comments she may see on her social media from time-to-time from some Chinese men and even some Chinese women referring to her as a "white f**k". Naturally she's very angry and hurt by that. However, I have to say probably not all Chinese men think that way. Pretty much all of her former Chinese male friends she grew up with and went to school with, all of my Chinese in-laws (male and female), all of her Chinese female friends, and all Chinese male and female strangers (young or old) we've interacted with across our travels in China, and other Asian countries, have been, and are, very, very respectful and kind to both of us.
Good video Lisa....A lot of "traditional" cultures see their women as "their property " rather than as actual people....This causes a lot of misogyny and oppression...😢😢😢
the entire feminist movement, was not political, it was religious, an author just came out a while back, female author btw, who dug into the roots of it, and most of them were openly satanic, and most women during those days opposed the feminist movement, it was a minority movement, of bitter, angry women, who were attacking the family itself, they themselves stated "For feminism to succeed, the family must be destroyed" I'm sorry, I too grew up thinking feminism was a good thing, we were sold a lie, also the rockefellers admitted to funding it, because they wanted women in the work force, because women could not be taxed in those days, they could start their own business tax free. it was a tax scam from the very beginning.
So in the US, there is far more of this from US women than from US men when it comes to Chinese. The US women get very upset when US men find a Chinese wife. Actually, there are many men of what women refer to as most eligible bachelors (most sought after single men and even re-married men) who will seek out a Chinese wife. There is a crazy amount of hate about this from US women. Even my grown daughters were not happy with me when I got re-married my Chinese wife until after they got to know her. I have often thought the two unhappiest groups of people in the world are single American women and single Chinese men. If we could find a way to get these two groups of people together, there would be much more happiness in the world.
There are not many white women who get married to Chinese guys. It is very rare, so I have never seen any reaction from men about this. One time when I visited my wife in China before we got married, she was taking me on a tour of Beijing. Most people don't use the 3-wheeled taxis anymore, but there was a very old grandpa from Mao times that was driving one, and we were at the Forbidden City. At the Forbidden City, it is very difficult to get a ride, so we decided to take this. I didn't understand Chinese at the time yet, but he said something really rude to my wife at the time about us, and she decided not to get in his car, then he got really mad. Because he was a very old guy, I was still very polite to him, but coming from the US I knew that older people had very different values, so I was kind of used to this.
@@ariesmarsexpress I agree with everything you have said except that I would substitute US with Western and Chinese with Asian. I have been married to a Korean girl for over 35 years, we have lived for many years in Korea, China and Japan, these attitudes are very common in north Asia, less so in SE Asian.
You’re really saying American white women are unhappy😂 bro I find that extremely hard to believe!!! If u ask me I’d say it’s black women who are the least desirable according to the general public. Amwf is growing pretty rapidly. A lot of young girls esp love kpop and anime.
It is strange that when a Chinese guy thinks that a woman is past the expiration date(26), and they don't want those women, and yet are still upset when those same women get married to a foreigner. What else could the woman do when she wants to get married and no Chinese men want them. Those women should still get married after that date so that they can have a family as they always wanted. If you don't want something, then it should not matter. Except is jealousy.
or maybe this is just made up by this western sponsored channel because my experience is that chinese men or women generally don't even think like this (you might have the odd uneducated bozo like in every culture) and if you knew many chinese people, you would know this too.
Wo xihuan da baicai, tamen shi zhengge huayuan li zui meiwei, zui meili de shucai, I love cabbage it is my favorite vegetable in the entire garden, zhe jiushi weisheme xifang nanren xihuan zhongguo nuren
Although poorly stated (by the Chinese man), I have sympathy. The 1-child policy has created in imbalance, high bride price, and a sad situation for many men.
Lisa, I enjoy your videos came across them accidentally and now I subscribed. I’ve always had a lot of respect for Asian women. One day I’d like to find one date her. And treat her like the queen that she should be treated. They work very hard and deserve the best and have a lot more class than an American women ! 🙏🇺🇸🇯🇵
You and your husband are a great team. You do great work. Lisa, your commentary is intelligent and insightful and delivered with endearing charm. You are a star. Take a bow. I look forward to each new posting
You don't need ppe if you're not sick. Our body needs oxygen, not carbon dioxide. Even bill gate, after selling all of his Pfizer stocks, came out and said covid is only a disease of the old.
Yes. This is an unfriendly name for women by Chinese men. If Chinese women are over 30 and have not married, whether they are divorced, or do not want to get married, or are waiting for true love, men will call them leftover women, but in fact they are not very old. However, in Western countries, single women are only called single, and many single women in Western countries are generally older than leftover women in China.
@@GobbyLisa99 Just saw your channel for the first time today so I apologize if this is a silly question, but have you made any videos about the "left over" women topic? I can't understand how in a nation with a male/female imbalance a woman is unmarriageable for being a year or so older than usual but still young enough to have many child bearing years. I've also heard some women are very picky, rejecting men due to education or income.
There's alot of Asian women who also have issue with Asian men with western women just fyi. idk if what you said is true but the reverse can be said 10x amwf couples get discriminated far more! now I'm all for anyone marrying or being with whoever they want idc it doesn't affect me personally but you really can not just focus on this narrow scope esp since wmaf outnumer amwf like 10-1. Don't be so biased
@@vanessaland5090 I’m an Asian man myself living in the states I think I’m qualified to speak on this. A lot of times when Asian women complain about discrimination they either make it up or pull internet comments as evidence. Newsflash it’s the internet if they’re that thin skinned maybe internet isn’t for them. It’s not like millions of other people and couples don’t get discriminated or insulted online!!!
Aqui no Brasil dependendo da idade , casar com estrangeiro é bem visto! Homens brasileiros também casam com estrangeiras! Adotamos a estratégia Hindu de miscigenação , desde 1500! Era proibido que portuguesas saíssem de Portugal!
Personally I think that Chinese men that have daughters should built and have a better bond father and daughter relationship at early stage of life to better educate and discipline the daughters and have a better understanding of how the Chinese society and culture is and as how well Chinese fathers can be and by this Chinese fathers that have daughters can see and be more well educated and have better understanding towards Chinese men and boys and by this can have a better respect towards Chinese men, I know in the western society men who have daughters always educated and disciplined there daughters well at early stage and at the same time how any non Chinese women would date or have any interest in Chinese men it like there are equal no checks and balances here by having Chinese women falling for westerns.
@@GobbyLisa99 Lisa, you're being manipulated and lied to by omission. Sincerely, A Chinese American man RAISED by a Chinese mother and White Stepfather
Hmm this seems to be a Western Propaganda channel because I've travelled a lot and have a lot of friends from many countries and what you are saying just sounds downright made up or at the very best, very exaggerated. That or you're just trying to mine attention. You don't seem very mentally stable either. I know a lot of Chinese men and they don't think Chinese women marrying foreigners is gross, just that it decreases their pool. But a few also say they find white women beautiful but believe these women would never go for them. Chinese people are so friendly and open-minded. I don't know the type of people you hang around, I've never come across anyone talking the way you describe it in your videos, and I know quite a few closely. Your little speeches sound very fake and sponsored by American propaganda machines. My Taiwanese friends actually complain that Taiwanese people are quick to help foreigners but don't like helping their own. Also your statement that Taiwanese like to volunteer? They are so busy trying to make a living, I don't find that to be case. And they don't necessarily not have misogynistic views about women depending on who you talk to even though mu friends are lovely, just as I know many happy sweet Chinese couples. My experience has been good in both Taipei and different places in China. Sure there's a rude/rushed person here or there (they are busy and to the point, they don't really like small talk as much) but I've encountered many more in other countries. Your inaccurate generalisations are so laughable.
I think this is not peculiar to one country. Indian men too have big problem if one of their beautiful women marries a white guy. The may tolerate a bit if the women is average or below average. Most handsome Indian men think of themselves too highly, a dent into that image will make him panic and result in outright anti social behaviour. Women are not as different, just a bit calmer in response. They will feel the other race girl deserves nothing at all. I remember I had two dates with a Russian woman quite a few years ago, very down to earth charmer. She was more grounded because she had a kid too. I being a bit brown there were many stares at us. Dark women feeling, oh this guy might be an amazing charmer or too rich, we don't see this as often. All the fair guys were disappointed, how can this be happening?? This is reckless, the woman is ruining our well guarded fair world domain. Most fair guys went past, but for one guy, he stopped, spat on the floor in disgust. Can you believe it?? People can be very dictative. But this Russian young lady, charming broken english, felt scared of his anger but never regretted the date!❤❤
People will be people around the world. But, why talk about something so insignificant. I'm an Asian man married to an Asian woman. When we go to the park and beach with our kids, i always see Asian women with other races staring at us, a happy Asian family. I can see the regret in their eyes. 😂😂😂
I don't care and You also don't have to care what others Chinese say because you have the right to choose who you want to marry. What matters is you and your parents agree to marry and you are happy with your partner... As for the rest of other Chinese, they should care about their own family only and not other family.. for real if you're my sister or someone from my family and some Chinese talk sh*t to you just because you married a foreigner I will talk sh*t to that Chinese person too
i don't think the Chinese man is difficult to understand, he's a Chinese traditionalist and doesn't see much of value in "the West" - his comments reflect a Chinese generational change as well as the cultural difference between China/the west. Taiwanese men are more influenced by the west (i guess most of us think this is on the whole a good thing?!). my ex wouldn't have put up with his words, and would have told him exactly where to go. after 20+ years in the UK she's somewhat calmer!
谢谢你的想法，我完全同意中国男人不了解情况，但请记住，中国是一个以男性为主导的国家。#1 想要第一个儿子，而女儿则毫无价值。我在中国有一个女性朋友，有趣的是，她的父母不反对，她离婚了，但担心嫁给西方男人。我很喜欢你的英语，我的女士想学好英语，所以我们视频聊天，有时我会嘲笑她的发音，她让我生气，我不应该嘲笑她，爱情是如此奇怪。你同意吗？What does Gobby mean, as I nave heard this term
Here in Japan, some Japanese men secretly don’t like their women to marry/date foreigners. But Japanese culture stops them usually from being verbal about it. I’m a foreigner married to a Japanese lady. She married me because she thinks I’m kinder and less misogynistic than Japanese men. I think it’s good women can choose. Women are no person’s property, those stupid times are in the past. I don’t care who women marry, as long as women are happy, they should marry anyone they want. WEAK men are controlling. Strong men have confidence in themselves.
Bus or bas-se. What or what-ter. Exact or exact-ter. Men or mern. Look or look-ker. Short or short-ter. Not laughing at you just laughing with you. 😂 Have you watched a very old UK tv series Mind Your Language?! Really funny look at race/culture differences!
Good video, Little Lady. I'm currently speaking with many ladies from China on a dating website. I often help them with their shops by giving them ideas or suggestions, which in turn helps them make profits. But, with the possibility of the Chinese Yuan (RMB) being devalued this new year I fear that they won't be able to keep their shops open for much longer!! Do you have any ideas or suggestions on how I can help them avoid that?
If you have ever been to both China and Taiwan or know much about the culture, you'll realise this is a fake western propaganda hate channel. Travel there for yourself and you'll realise she's full of it. She also seems mentally unstable if you watch enough of her videos and easily manipulated. Or maybe she's a slave who's forced to say what she has to say. It's like she's always in this quiet 'studio' box of hers.
I’m a western male and I would much rather have a Chinese girlfriend than one from my own country. I’m learning Mandarin and a little Cantonese, have Chinese friends both at home and in China, gaining more cultural understanding, learnt to cook a few dishes like wontons and even have a Chinese step-grandmother. Hope I can get there🤞🏻
Great video comparing Taiwan people to Chinese democratic to dictatorship hopefully it educate the Chinese audiences. Until the Chinese 🇨🇳 people rise up again authoritarian dictatorship not just shallow minded government oppressors their own people? Respect manners comes from the top not bottom. Hopefully the Chinese youths rise up with the help of yourself and other social media sources that will change! Until the CCP is out of power China 🇨🇳 will on the decline. The Chinese should know the oldest book (The Bible) or scrolls as evidence are the oldest ever written why can’t they understand God are going to win the battle not the dragon 🐉? If any country want peace then show respect to your neighbours love Taiwan and be a good neighbour. Peace
In Thailand Thai men want their sisters to marry a Western man, because they then expect the Farang to pay their loans and all the restaurant and beer bills. Plus build a nice house so the family can move in.
I am a British guy and secretly I think my Chinese wife married me for my looks (tall 6'3 and athletic - most Chinese are not above 6'2) and my wealth ($20m plus)
Or maybe Chinese men find it offensive that after all men do for the Chinese society and women such as building your infrastructure and society , who go to war on your behalf , who battle injustices for societies sake find it offensive that after all those sacrafices are made and you have a very safe and comfortable life then all of 😢a sudden they are not good enough and you taunt their egos with foreign men ???
@ I was speaking in generalities on behalf of all men who suffer the lack of appreciation for what the male gender has sacrificed on behalf of their country and which includes women But since you asked , I searched and wiki produced a list of actual wars , battles and skirmishes spanning the last 110 years . The last entry was in 2020-21 , skirmishes with India . Look it up it’s one hell of a list !
War? try again, unless youre referring to genociding uyghers or tibetans. Men from repressive societies dont want women from their society to see how different things are away from 'home'...they know those women wont come back.
It was foreign companies that built modern China. Foreign companies and foreign money. People in China do not battle injustices, they look the other way and keep on walking, not wanting to get involved. How long have you lived in China for? And yes there was a minor skirmish on the Indian border which was caused by the Chinese. I doubt that you will find anyone in China who was involved in wars 110 years ago. It is China's aggression towards its neighbours that causes problems.
@@sidecarmisanthrope5927 I didn’t mention “ modern day “ China , China’s history goes back thousands of years through all of the various dynasties. No matter how far you go back all gewat societies are built on the back of MEN ! And regardless of archeture firms and investment dollars men still produces a clean orderly SAFE environment for their women, I’m sure not every sky scraper or dam or sporting facility that was erected was competed by foreign companies that imported the laborers that provided the finished product . You spoke about 110 years of war then you read that I was speaking in generalities on behalf of men all over the world who suffer from the female portion telling men that we are no longer needed The wars , battles and skirmishes in the 2000’s are just as common now as they were in the early 1900’s . While your depiction may be accurate it is MEN that make shit happen and it is women that are never satisfied !!!
Gobby Lisa, there is a big reason why Chinese man are angry over this. When Chinese women married non-chinese very often they do not ask for bride price, car, house because this marriage requests are not common to western people. But when it comes to a Chinese women marrying a Chinese man they have many such requirements. So can you blame him for being angry?
I wonder if that Chinese man would say that to Xi Jinping's niece - she married a UK man.
I wonder if he would say it to my face. Maybe he wants a smack down.
Lisa, you are very correct. If anyone scolds you for marrying your husband, tell them to wear a green hat.
Check that warning shot being fired "not as good as Taiwanese men". Respect.
Heheh, Taiwan: REAL China! NOT tainted by communist BS!
Taiwan is a lot more global and in touch with reality. Chinese censorship and propaganda made most people in the mainland completely oblivious to basic human decency. Tone-deaf is an understatement.
She goes find a foreigner husband because she doesn't like Chinese men but then says "has nothing to do with Chinese men"
That is correct about what Chinese men say about Chinese women - they treat them as property. I am western and married a Chinees woman after two marriages to Western women. I am very happy. To Chinese men, I say: If you want Chinese women to marry only Chinese men, you should probably treat them better. That may also be offensive, but it doesn't make it less true.
Western women leave their men way more than Chinese women.
The truth often HURTS Pez!
@@tritium1998 Cos, 'bored'!
You should check the crazy bride prices they set on Chinese men.
You westerners treat EVERYONE like property with military force!
Great video! And I love your laugh 🤣
I'd marry a Chinese woman, but there are no chinese women here.
I wouldn't recommend marrying a mainland Chinese woman
Not ONLY Nixon can go to China!
You are a beautiful woman with a sense of humor and a priceless accent don’t ever change. Your husband is a very lucky guy. 🙏💕😉
BTW I love your Chinese-English accent❤
Your laughter is infectious!
I liked that, too, though ai would have just let the pronunciation go. But the attitude is just like the women's rage against passport bros In any case, western men don't care if Chinese men don't like it. I may say that wen I was going around with my asian wife, the people there were fine with it.
I have 2 Chinese uncle who married Japanese and Korean women. I heard from them that some Chinese men even married Arab and African women because they have big businesses and money.
WHAT ABOUT CHINESE MEN MARRYING FOREIGN WOMEN??? I THOUGHT THIS HAPPENS OFTEN.
Once my Chinese lady colleague told me "Taiwanese girls are more gentle and feminine than us (from the Mainland)". That says a lot.
It's perfectly alright for Chinese women to choose Western men, just as Chinese men are now seeking more foreign brides from Russia and Laos.
What about Western men get angry when Chinese men marry Western women? We don't need permission or blessing to marry whom we want.
You find that a problem wich often happen?
The last time I saw a white woman married to a Chinese guy it absolutely wasn't a problem for me. I will be going to a wedding in Taiwan in two months between a white American woman and a friend of mine who happens to be Taiwanese American. I'm happy for them. My wife is a Filipina. I had an ex who was Chinese whose bigoted parents probably continue to ruin her life because of their bigotry.
Why would I care who women from my country marry? I feel bad for young Chinese because of the obvious bs they have to put up with regarding relationship expectations from their society and often their own family.
@@isaacg.9857 Taiwan is a nice place.
@@GobbyLisa99 Taiwan is great. I've been there 4 times previously. I think it is probably the most underrated tourist destination in Asia.
That doesn’t bother me and I’m a western man. I’d be more interested to know how many western men who want a Chinese gf get unhappy when they see them paired with other foreign men
Great video. Thanks for the insight. I love your sense of humor. Keep up the good work!
Omg that laugh 😂😂😂😂 it fills the room with joy😊
I'm white and my dad said when I was dating a Chinese woman, O.K. to date her but not to get her pregnant, so both cultures have this sort of thing
It’s never bothered me who Australian women marry or date lol never given it a second thought, my wife is Chinese btw and she could be any race I don’t care, I love her for who she is not her race
Me too
I could care less if whyte American women want to breed with African American men
In fact
They can have them
What is happening Lisa happens in every country, they call it tradition but that is just another name for nationalism
I don't think it's about nationalism. It is a simple inferiority complex. Feeling that you have when an attractive woman lets you know in a most straightforward way that you are way below her expectations and will never have a chance with her. On another hand some women, marrying foreigners, are open gold diggers and possibly really deserve less respect than others.
@@southerneruk No it doesn’t happen in every country. Mainland Chinese culture leaves a lot to be desired.
@@johnlacey3857 How do you know? You ever been there or are you just talking from watching your western propaganda machines like I fully believed until I travelled and saw things for myself.
As someone who's travelled a lot, I'd say us in the west actually have a lot to learn from chinese culture, like believe it or not, safety (these days, maybe not 20 years ago when the country was still poor af) and actually, respect for women.
@@johnlacey3857 It happens in every country, you came across nationalist and you will see this problem
Mostly it's because of money..😊
Well it isn't that many years ago that western men held the same traditional view and some still do, The emancipation wave of the 1960s and later only reached Europe and North America, yet is still going elsewhere.
1:10 - I watched several times. Thanks for making me laugh today. I needed it. 🙏🙏🙏
I am looking forward to marrying my Chinese American girlfriend. She came from Singapore and is now an American citizen and has gotten permission from her family to marry me. So I am looking forward to a happy life.
If you asked your girlfriend if she is Chinese she would tell you she is Singaporean. Possibly Singaporean of Chinese heritage but never Chinese. I know this first hand as my wife is Singaporean and I had the pleasure of living and working in Singapore for ten years so I have a bit of experience with this.
I would love to see Asian women marry Hispanic men and middle eastern guys , I love your videos u make good points
Your laugh is scary I was watching this on 3 in the morning and man I got shivers
I have been in China 18 yrs, I have never had this said to me as yet, but if a guy says something and I hear it, I will just smile and hold my bits and smile, and say this is why..🤣
Yes I have travelled extensively and know many Chinese people as good friends and have not come across this when there either. Normally Chinese people love foreigners and are always asking me to teach them English! I think this channel is fake and she is a slave by western propaganda syndicates forced to say this. People should just travel themselves and see beyond the bs 'media' so they can think for themselves.
I loved your laughing about bus. Good for you.
No they dont get angry
Of course if you stole his girlfriend
Thats different
Very good insight into Chinese men and their attitudes towards women and foreign men. Bottom line is men and women, of all races, should marry whomever makes them happy. The hell with personal prejudices and/or biases!
Sure, in a perfect world. But when there's systemic media bias against one group in favor of another group, how are the choices women make authentically self-determined?
And why should men turn a blind eye when women who marry foreigners express public contempt for them and her country?
We're seeing a backlash in Western countries as well as institutions turn against white men and so-called "white male privilege." White men are (angrily) responding to white women who join the anti-white man brigade.
Anti-whiteness is a new phenomenon for white men, but anti-Asian male sentiment has been a thing for many decades.
The hypocrisy of white men is astounding. They mateguard their women from asian men and have the audacity to say all of this? You must be seething when you see all the western women and east European women coming to korean to find their oppa.
Thanks for sharing. Happy Holidays.
😊🙏✌️
Years ago I was in South Korea and on my way to see the Palace and asked 2 schoolgirls if this was the right way, a Korean guy stopped and warned the 2 girls not to speak to foreign men...
Maybe you're a suspicious looking guy.
Foreign men have a bad reputation in korea. Bc of tge history of us service members assaulting the local women.
I'm chinese AND I AM NOT OFFENDED if chinese women marry ANY OTHER RACES. Pls dont generalized all of us chinese men.!
Great video Lisa…I love your humour…lucky man your husband
My dream is to marry an East Asian woman because I want to Buddhist and Buddhism is the most followed religion in that part of the world. Also East Asian women are very beautiful and family oriented.
Chinese ladies caught my interest many years ago, but being in South Africa there wasn't any community around. Now in Australia there are many beautiful ladies here. Maybe one day. 😊
When Chinese women marry foreign men, they don't demand huge bride prices nor excessive demands. So it just seems unfair. Probably
@@GameFuMaster because the greencard is the bride prices in itself lol. It is called leverage
I feel that Chinese men feel as though Chinese women hold foreign men not to
the same standard as they hold Chinese men to.
White men are notorious for mateguarding their women from asian men. This has been going on for decades. Hollywood are gatekeepers on who they want to portray as desirable. Korean entertainment media is now combating this w/ soft power. And the west is combating that with slander as usual.
Double standards everywhere. U.S. too.
I'm a white American man married to a Chinese woman from China for 20 years now and living here in the U.S.. I've been to China many times. My wife always seems to get angry at some of the comments she may see on her social media from time-to-time from some Chinese men and even some Chinese women referring to her as a "white f**k". Naturally she's very angry and hurt by that. However, I have to say probably not all Chinese men think that way. Pretty much all of her former Chinese male friends she grew up with and went to school with, all of my Chinese in-laws (male and female), all of her Chinese female friends, and all Chinese male and female strangers (young or old) we've interacted with across our travels in China, and other Asian countries, have been, and are, very, very respectful and kind to both of us.
Trust me it's much much worse coming from white men directing their hate against asian men when they date "their women".
tell your government to stop instigating war with China then?
That's called a double standard.
Good video Lisa....A lot of "traditional" cultures see their women as "their property " rather than as actual people....This causes a lot of misogyny and oppression...😢😢😢
the entire feminist movement, was not political, it was religious, an author just came out a while back, female author btw, who dug into the roots of it, and most of them were openly satanic, and most women during those days opposed the feminist movement, it was a minority movement, of bitter, angry women, who were attacking the family itself, they themselves stated "For feminism to succeed, the family must be destroyed" I'm sorry, I too grew up thinking feminism was a good thing, we were sold a lie, also the rockefellers admitted to funding it, because they wanted women in the work force, because women could not be taxed in those days, they could start their own business tax free. it was a tax scam from the very beginning.
But you will save all the oppressed Asian women from the brutes? You're the great white hero?
your "culture" sees the world as "their property" (CHEAP LABOR)
So in the US, there is far more of this from US women than from US men when it comes to Chinese. The US women get very upset when US men find a Chinese wife. Actually, there are many men of what women refer to as most eligible bachelors (most sought after single men and even re-married men) who will seek out a Chinese wife. There is a crazy amount of hate about this from US women. Even my grown daughters were not happy with me when I got re-married my Chinese wife until after they got to know her.
I have often thought the two unhappiest groups of people in the world are single American women and single Chinese men. If we could find a way to get these two groups of people together, there would be much more happiness in the world.
There are not many white women who get married to Chinese guys. It is very rare, so I have never seen any reaction from men about this.
One time when I visited my wife in China before we got married, she was taking me on a tour of Beijing. Most people don't use the 3-wheeled taxis anymore, but there was a very old grandpa from Mao times that was driving one, and we were at the Forbidden City. At the Forbidden City, it is very difficult to get a ride, so we decided to take this. I didn't understand Chinese at the time yet, but he said something really rude to my wife at the time about us, and she decided not to get in his car, then he got really mad. Because he was a very old guy, I was still very polite to him, but coming from the US I knew that older people had very different values, so I was kind of used to this.
@@ariesmarsexpress I agree with everything you have said except that I would substitute US with Western and Chinese with Asian. I have been married to a Korean girl for over 35 years, we have lived for many years in Korea, China and Japan, these attitudes are very common in north Asia, less so in SE Asian.
@@46spanner I suspected that was true, but I didn't have the first-hand experience.
@@ariesmarsexpress If Chinese men and American women were to marry the homicide rate and the Chinese prison rate would escalate out of control.
@ariesmarsexpress ive seen more hate from us men against us white women dating asian men.
You’re really saying American white women are unhappy😂 bro I find that extremely hard to believe!!! If u ask me I’d say it’s black women who are the least desirable according to the general public. Amwf is growing pretty rapidly. A lot of young girls esp love kpop and anime.
You always put out good content, very interesting
Very similar to Thailand's attitude to women who marry a foreigner (called a "farang" in Thai)
Please...white men are notorious for mateguarding their women from asian men perpetuating negative stereotypes to them at an early age.
Very good video my friend 😊
However, the children that come from a mixed marriage are beautiful.
It's not necessarily true. I've seen both.
The tables have begun turning
Elaborate?
I tend to agree because i do not want too many mixed kids and is neither here or there in culture. Not angry but abit disappointed.
Respect ❤
Marry a good person.
Or at least your match, if you’re not a good person.
@@billpetersen298 They would make a terrible and potentially dangerous duo. If you are not a good person, you shouldn't marry.
Good for you!
It is strange that when a Chinese guy thinks that a woman is past the expiration date(26), and they don't want those women, and yet are still upset when those same women get married to a foreigner. What else could the woman do when she wants to get married and no Chinese men want them. Those women should still get married after that date so that they can have a family as they always wanted. If you don't want something, then it should not matter. Except is jealousy.
or maybe this is just made up by this western sponsored channel because my experience is that chinese men or women generally don't even think like this (you might have the odd uneducated bozo like in every culture) and if you knew many chinese people, you would know this too.
the story is some interesting though your laugh make me goosebumps in a way
That's similar everywhere.
Wo xihuan da baicai, tamen shi zhengge huayuan li zui meiwei, zui meili de shucai, I love cabbage it is my favorite vegetable in the entire garden, zhe jiushi weisheme xifang nanren xihuan zhongguo nuren
Your pinyin is really good 👍
Did you get the giggles say bus , lisa. 😅
Although poorly stated (by the Chinese man), I have sympathy. The 1-child policy has created in imbalance, high bride price, and a sad situation for many men.
Lisa, I enjoy your videos came across them accidentally and now I subscribed. I’ve always had a lot of respect for Asian women. One day I’d like to find one date her. And treat her like the queen that she should be treated. They work very hard and deserve the best and have a lot more class than an American women ! 🙏🇺🇸🇯🇵
You and your husband are a great team. You do great work. Lisa, your commentary is intelligent and insightful and delivered with endearing charm. You are a star. Take a bow. I look forward to each new posting
Thank you so much!😊
During covid, China sold crap falling apart PPE to the west, Taiwan gave PPE 4 free!, I will never forget that!
What happen was that our capitalist like that Lady Mona bought crap to sell to the NHS
The Mainland sold way more PPE you couldn't make the same quality of.
You don't need ppe if you're not sick. Our body needs oxygen, not carbon dioxide. Even bill gate, after selling all of his Pfizer stocks, came out and said covid is only a disease of the old.
Lisa, is “leftover “ women a Real thing?
Yes. This is an unfriendly name for women by Chinese men. If Chinese women are over 30 and have not married, whether they are divorced, or do not want to get married, or are waiting for true love, men will call them leftover women, but in fact they are not very old. However, in Western countries, single women are only called single, and many single women in Western countries are generally older than leftover women in China.
Everywhere is spoken about it! Why should not it be real?!
@@GobbyLisa99 That is true. Here America, women in their thirties, forties, fifties and sixties find love and marry….
@@GobbyLisa99 In the U.S. we used to call them "old maids." Now we call them cat ladies 😅
@@GobbyLisa99 Just saw your channel for the first time today so I apologize if this is a silly question, but have you made any videos about the "left over" women topic?
I can't understand how in a nation with a male/female imbalance a woman is unmarriageable for being a year or so older than usual but still young enough to have many child bearing years.
I've also heard some women are very picky, rejecting men due to education or income.
There's alot of Asian women who also have issue with Asian men with western women just fyi. idk if what you said is true but the reverse can be said 10x amwf couples get discriminated far more! now I'm all for anyone marrying or being with whoever they want idc it doesn't affect me personally but you really can not just focus on this narrow scope esp since wmaf outnumer amwf like 10-1. Don't be so biased
Exactly.
Really? That's not been my actual experience. Do you know many asian women or men?
@@vanessaland5090 I’m an Asian man myself living in the states I think I’m qualified to speak on this. A lot of times when Asian women complain about discrimination they either make it up or pull internet comments as evidence. Newsflash it’s the internet if they’re that thin skinned maybe internet isn’t for them. It’s not like millions of other people and couples don’t get discriminated or insulted online!!!
Aqui no Brasil dependendo da idade , casar com estrangeiro é bem visto! Homens brasileiros também casam com estrangeiras! Adotamos a estratégia Hindu de miscigenação , desde 1500! Era proibido que portuguesas saíssem de Portugal!
Personally I think that Chinese men that have daughters should built and have a better bond father and daughter relationship at early stage of life to better educate and discipline the daughters and have a better understanding of how the Chinese society and culture is and as how well Chinese fathers can be and by this Chinese fathers that have daughters can see and be more well educated and have better understanding towards Chinese men and boys and by this can have a better respect towards Chinese men, I know in the western society men who have daughters always educated and disciplined there daughters well at early stage and at the same time how any non Chinese women would date or have any interest in Chinese men it like there are equal no checks and balances here by having Chinese women falling for westerns.
Yes, my Chinese friend was furious seeing a young Chinese lady flirting with Indian
Chinese men are more angry about Chinese women marrying black men
I prefer Chinese women over korean women but they are definitely not loyal to their men like korean women. Chinese women are more opportunistic.
@@GobbyLisa99 Lisa, you're being manipulated and lied to by omission.
Sincerely,
A Chinese American man RAISED by a Chinese mother and White Stepfather
Hmm this seems to be a Western Propaganda channel because I've travelled a lot and have a lot of friends from many countries and what you are saying just sounds downright made up or at the very best, very exaggerated. That or you're just trying to mine attention. You don't seem very mentally stable either.
I know a lot of Chinese men and they don't think Chinese women marrying foreigners is gross, just that it decreases their pool. But a few also say they find white women beautiful but believe these women would never go for them. Chinese people are so friendly and open-minded. I don't know the type of people you hang around, I've never come across anyone talking the way you describe it in your videos, and I know quite a few closely. Your little speeches sound very fake and sponsored by American propaganda machines.
My Taiwanese friends actually complain that Taiwanese people are quick to help foreigners but don't like helping their own. Also your statement that Taiwanese like to volunteer? They are so busy trying to make a living, I don't find that to be case. And they don't necessarily not have misogynistic views about women depending on who you talk to even though mu friends are lovely, just as I know many happy sweet Chinese couples. My experience has been good in both Taipei and different places in China. Sure there's a rude/rushed person here or there (they are busy and to the point, they don't really like small talk as much) but I've encountered many more in other countries. Your inaccurate generalisations are so laughable.
@@vanessaland5090 op is just a white fever sellout lol. Needless to say she most def falls into the category of leftovers
I think this is not peculiar to one country. Indian men too have big problem if one of their beautiful women marries a white guy. The may tolerate a bit if the women is average or below average. Most handsome Indian men think of themselves too highly, a dent into that image will make him panic and result in outright anti social behaviour.
Women are not as different, just a bit calmer in response. They will feel the other race girl deserves nothing at all.
I remember I had two dates with a Russian woman quite a few years ago, very down to earth charmer. She was more grounded because she had a kid too. I being a bit brown there were many stares at us. Dark women feeling, oh this guy might be an amazing charmer or too rich, we don't see this as often. All the fair guys were disappointed, how can this be happening?? This is reckless, the woman is ruining our well guarded fair world domain. Most fair guys went past, but for one guy, he stopped, spat on the floor in disgust. Can you believe it?? People can be very dictative.
But this Russian young lady, charming broken english, felt scared of his anger but never regretted the date!❤❤
People will be people around the world. But, why talk about something so insignificant. I'm an Asian man married to an Asian woman. When we go to the park and beach with our kids, i always see Asian women with other races staring at us, a happy Asian family. I can see the regret in their eyes. 😂😂😂
It's the older generation. The world changed and they got left behind.
I don't care and You also don't have to care what others Chinese say because you have the right to choose who you want to marry. What matters is you and your parents agree to marry and you are happy with your partner... As for the rest of other Chinese, they should care about their own family only and not other family.. for real if you're my sister or someone from my family and some Chinese talk sh*t to you just because you married a foreigner I will talk sh*t to that Chinese person too
i don't think the Chinese man is difficult to understand, he's a Chinese traditionalist and doesn't see much of value in "the West" - his comments reflect a Chinese generational change as well as the cultural difference between China/the west.
Taiwanese men are more influenced by the west (i guess most of us think this is on the whole a good thing?!).
my ex wouldn't have put up with his words, and would have told him exactly where to go. after 20+ years in the UK she's somewhat calmer!
Traditionalist? There is nothing traditional about modern China. Taiwan has more Chinese tradition than the mainland. The communists saw to that.
'the Chinese man' wow generalise much? That's like saying all us and uk men are the same personalities.
Dear GobbyLisa, you really resemble someone I know from college. 我的妹妹，你是中国人吗？东北人？
谢谢你的想法，我完全同意中国男人不了解情况，但请记住，中国是一个以男性为主导的国家。#1 想要第一个儿子，而女儿则毫无价值。我在中国有一个女性朋友，有趣的是，她的父母不反对，她离婚了，但担心嫁给西方男人。我很喜欢你的英语，我的女士想学好英语，所以我们视频聊天，有时我会嘲笑她的发音，她让我生气，我不应该嘲笑她，爱情是如此奇怪。你同意吗？What does Gobby mean, as I nave heard this term
"Gobby" is short for "Gobbler."
you don't want to listen. fine. good luck.
Objectifcation
Here in Japan, some Japanese men secretly don’t like their women to marry/date foreigners. But Japanese culture stops them usually from being verbal about it. I’m a foreigner married to a Japanese lady. She married me because she thinks I’m kinder and less misogynistic than Japanese men. I think it’s good women can choose. Women are no person’s property, those stupid times are in the past. I don’t care who women marry, as long as women are happy, they should marry anyone they want. WEAK men are controlling. Strong men have confidence in themselves.
You don't get more kind than japanese men. Its bs that women tell men.
Kind? You guys are the ones invading and destroying all the countries in the Middle East
Bus or bas-se. What or what-ter. Exact or exact-ter. Men or mern. Look or look-ker. Short or short-ter.
Not laughing at you just laughing with you. 😂
Have you watched a very old UK tv series Mind Your Language?! Really funny look at race/culture differences!
Bath
😂🤣😂🤣😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Double standards
Good video, Little Lady. I'm currently speaking with many ladies from China on a dating website. I often help them with their shops by giving them ideas or suggestions, which in turn helps them make profits. But, with the possibility of the Chinese Yuan (RMB) being devalued this new year I fear that they won't be able to keep their shops open for much longer!! Do you have any ideas or suggestions on how I can help them avoid that?
Wow, she really dug into the Chinese man vs Taiwanese man. I learned something. Also, very beautiful presenter!
If you have ever been to both China and Taiwan or know much about the culture, you'll realise this is a fake western propaganda hate channel. Travel there for yourself and you'll realise she's full of it. She also seems mentally unstable if you watch enough of her videos and easily manipulated. Or maybe she's a slave who's forced to say what she has to say. It's like she's always in this quiet 'studio' box of hers.
I’m a western male and I would much rather have a Chinese girlfriend than one from my own country. I’m learning Mandarin and a little Cantonese, have Chinese friends both at home and in China, gaining more cultural understanding, learnt to cook a few dishes like wontons and even have a Chinese step-grandmother. Hope I can get there🤞🏻
Great video comparing Taiwan people to Chinese democratic to dictatorship hopefully it educate the Chinese audiences. Until the Chinese 🇨🇳 people rise up again authoritarian dictatorship not just shallow minded government oppressors their own people? Respect manners comes from the top not bottom. Hopefully the Chinese youths rise up with the help of yourself and other social media sources that will change! Until the CCP is out of power China 🇨🇳 will on the decline. The Chinese should know the oldest book (The Bible) or scrolls as evidence are the oldest ever written why can’t they understand God are going to win the battle not the dragon 🐉? If any country want peace then show respect to your neighbours love Taiwan and be a good neighbour. Peace
In Thailand Thai men want their sisters to marry a Western man, because they then expect the Farang to pay their loans and all the restaurant and beer bills. Plus build a nice house so the family can move in.
I am a British guy and secretly I think my Chinese wife married me for my looks (tall 6'3 and athletic - most Chinese are not above 6'2) and my wealth ($20m plus)
@@davidc4408 lol
Or maybe Chinese men find it offensive that after all men do for the Chinese society and women such as building your infrastructure and society , who go to war on your behalf , who battle injustices for societies sake find it offensive that after all those sacrafices are made and you have a very safe and comfortable life then all of 😢a sudden they are not good enough and you taunt their egos with foreign men ???
Go to war? What war is that?
@ I was speaking in generalities on behalf of all men who suffer the lack of appreciation for what the male gender has sacrificed on behalf of their country and which includes women
But since you asked , I searched and wiki produced a list of actual wars , battles and skirmishes spanning the last 110 years . The last entry was in 2020-21 , skirmishes with India . Look it up it’s one hell of a list !
War? try again, unless youre referring to genociding uyghers or tibetans. Men from repressive societies dont want women from their society to see how different things are away from 'home'...they know those women wont come back.
It was foreign companies that built modern China. Foreign companies and foreign money. People in China do not battle injustices, they look the other way and keep on walking, not wanting to get involved. How long have you lived in China for? And yes there was a minor skirmish on the Indian border which was caused by the Chinese. I doubt that you will find anyone in China who was involved in wars 110 years ago. It is China's aggression towards its neighbours that causes problems.
@@sidecarmisanthrope5927 I didn’t mention “ modern day “ China , China’s history goes back thousands of years through all of the various dynasties. No matter how far you go back all gewat societies are built on the back of MEN !
And regardless of archeture firms and investment dollars men still produces a clean orderly SAFE environment for their women, I’m sure not every sky scraper or dam or sporting facility that was erected was competed by foreign companies that imported the laborers that provided the finished product . You spoke about 110 years of war then you read that I was speaking in generalities on behalf of men all over the world who suffer from the female portion telling men that we are no longer needed
The wars , battles and skirmishes in the 2000’s are just as common now as they were in the early 1900’s . While your depiction may be accurate it is MEN that make shit happen and it is women that are never satisfied !!!