Quiana Watson: Girl boss moves, divorce after 10 years of marriage, and feeling undeserving
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- Опубліковано 23 вер 2024
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Join us for the second episode in our #WomensHistoryMonth series with special guest Quiana Watson, and host Brandi Harvey!
Quiana Watson is a distinguished real estate agent, broker, and CEO renowned for her unwavering attention to detail, dedication to customer satisfaction, and unmatched professionalism. Recognized as one of the top 1% producing real estate professionals by the prestigious National Association of Realtors, Quiana has a proven track record of selling millions of dollars worth of properties and mentoring others to achieve similar success in the dynamic metro Atlanta real estate market.
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“He had to go somewhere less to feel bigger”. I just shivered
The love women, who need them.. I’m glad she’s ok!
This!!!!
As they always do
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She ate with that one.
We don't talk enough about how men are jealous of women, especially the ones they're dating. I am so glad she spoke on this!
So true
Facts sis it happened to me
OMG, I felt some kind a way when I actually confronted my other half about this!
Men are also jealous of women they can't date 🤷🏾♀️ A man I expressed having a crush on 10 years ago got married & is stalking & harassing me today because I turned out with a better future than the woman he chose to marry 🤷🏾♀️ why would another woman's husband be messy on another woman's name? I'm so disgusted & wish I never met a man as poor in value as him. So glad I dodged that bullet & hope he keeps his problems over there with his wife instead playing behind the scenes & begging celebs for sympathy
It's very dangerous too...at first sign...#Getout...
It doesn't get better
I love how she divorced him, kept it moving and not playing “woe as me” and still kept it pushing.. bravo Q bravo 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Strong woman
Very smart & strong
I love her strength. We should not put down those who grieve deeply and can't get up for a season. They have lost something great. Probably the greatest thing they ever knew and had and that can change a person for a season. It's like being dropped into a bottomless pit of sludge and while they need help to get out we are looking down into the hole blocking any little light they have as they struggle to climb out. My apologies if I feel different. I celebrate both. Those who get up immediately and those who grieve.
@@wairimuwaiyaki a🥲AGAIN.. I applaud her 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is why being an independent woman is key.
“Why should I be ashamed because of someone else’s actions”, PERIODTTTT!!! You dropping nuggets! So happy for you and your journey, keep rocking!
On God you can drop that weight super fast after a heartache 😞🤣😂🤣😩
Mannn… that’s the SAME thing my mother told me when I was feeling “ashamed” about a failed marriage! She woke me up up ⬆️!!!
@@unitrarenee1406 So glad you had your mother’s wisdom to get you through. So many women are ashamed when the cheater is the one who should be ashamed.
@@unitrarenee1406 Y'all Lucky to have Mothers like this
@@unitrarenee1406yup my mom said to come home cause she's not going to let anyone think they can treat me however cause we're married not while she's alive
Quiana Watson is a baaaaad woman, she's always been such an inspiration.
Exactly! I loved her on
the reality Reality show…🙏🏿🫶🏽💪🏾
She’s wonderful! And the best part about her is she’s black like me!
Brandi is an excellent host. I felt like she is genuine and listened to Quiana.
Best host award goes to Brandi ✨
As a married man, I hate to be the bearer of bad news. Everyone isn’t cut out for marriage regardless of gender. It takes an exceptional person to get married and remain successfully married. The marriage and divorce rate numbers are accurate and it takes a special person to indefinitely pair-bond with another person. There is a level of selflessness and discipline that most can’t master. I pray for the best outcome for everyone. Honestly, there are some great people out there, but they are not great for marriage. God bless 🙏🏾
Thank you
Exceptional ppl usually are unmarried. Marriage takes two compromising individuals who commit to staying together. That's actually good news. Contrary to few opinions, marriage is not THE prize and everyone is not seeking it. Again, that's good news not bad IMO.
@@cindrickalajanearrington3549 I respect your opinion, but most people are unmarried which is normal. From a man’s perspective, I know that men like me are exceptional. I’m a high earner that is faithful to my wife amongst other aspects. I know for a fact that a lot of men can’t remain faithful and be a great leader of their family. If we are speaking from a relationship standpoint, people that are married and that can remain married indefinitely are exceptional. Marriage isn’t the prize for some people and maybe I could be a bit biased based on my situation. I couldn’t imagine doing life without my wife. Overall, married are no better than unmarried people. This is strictly an observation.
Well said
That’s because most people live a life of pleasing the status quo, marriage is a spiritual union for the purpose of each person to be a blessing in aiding the other’s life purpose and vise versa and not for compromise . Often times when a partner isn’t in line with the other partner’s purpose there’s no passion nor commitment to be there.
As Qiana stated, she took the lead in her relationship and rarely talked about the impact he made in her life, that was not mutual contribution that was one sided and parasitic. He may have had his own personal achievements but obviously not substantial enough to be a great force in her life which made him feel lesser. He was a passenger and she was the driver.
Cheating is enough, NO extra layers are needed! PERIOD.
Exactly, why is cheating accepted? …….it’s never going to birth KINGS--ACCEPT INFIDELITY IN A NARRIAGE?.. no sir, our black men need to man up and make God first, and learn to know how truly “love their wives the way Christ loves the church “……I’m divorced twice, first was domestic violence, second was serial cheating. And I am done with narcissistic men, love yourself FIRST, AND let God show you value then keep it. It’s hard, because it’s compromise at its best or be single for a while, trust God, love yourself and WAIT👏👏👏❤️❤️🙏💜💜REAL TALK
I thought the same thing! Cheating IS the most disrespectful thing one can do to their spouse!
And it should never be tolerated.
Exactly ! Infidelity can cost you your health and life .
This is what I needed during my divorce women speaking up and living a great life afterwards. Very inspirational
I dragged a breakup out for 2 years! This literally gave me the courage I needed to move on and start this new chapter. I needed all of this!
Congratulations
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Congratulations ❤
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Man same because it's time the dead weight is weighing me down 🤦🏾♀️
Bravo to her! Found out, consulted, self-negotiated, made a decision, filed, and divorced!
She really loved and still loves her husband. You can hear it in how she speaks of her marriage. I hate that he destroyed their union. Ms. Quiana is a class act and i am rooting for her to continue winning.
I believe she will go back to him though😢...I hope not bcuz he is very insecure, her light is still to bright for him.
You can tell he’s definitely been trying. I was on a recent live of hers & he was in the comments the whole time about how good she looked. Sometimes you have to show by action that your self worth is worth more & that’s what she did by walking away. He knows he lost the one. I did really like them as a couple
Right? And for what? For some low value women! He destroyed his marriage and his family! She deserves better!
It’s soooo sad. I know she do… because I have the same problem 😔
Its called "Ghosting" ....All you have to do is cut off all communication. You heal better when he's outta sight, outta mind 💯
So glad to see a woman standing up for what's right. This society makes women feel like they are nothing if they are not married and to just forgive a man because he cheated...No..its disrespectful and can affect a woman's health, mentally and physically. Glad to see she confident about her choices.
On a deeper level. His cup is empty.
@@Lorina_LancasterFactss
They be Needing to Fill Voids
@@EmpressAshe Exactly
Exactly I love ur comment . Ppl don’t talk enough about this. Women’s health is also so fragile as we deal with so many hormones, reproductive and menstrual & menopause issues it’s already a lot on us . If a man is not serving us properly in the right way then he needs be gone period.
She has high self worth and that's really what it is. A lot of women do not
"I am Not gonna allow myself to be hardened by this world, but I Am gonna walk in my light." 💎💚
Yes. She is dropping jewels. I am enjoying this interview.
🙌🙌🙌
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She said she found things when she was dating him. This is why women got to stop giving cheaters a second chance. At the first sign of cheating, pack your bags.
The problem is many women think being famous or successful is enough to keep a man from cheating... asking themselves Why would he cheat on ME? with weak minded men...men who lack self-control or are secretly envious, this almost never works...
Correct
I agree, marriage doesn’t change that character flaw. That is who he was. I have never heard of her but I think she’s amazing. But the chosen mentality is beyond me. Dont just be chosen also watch who you chose.
This! Never take back a lier and/or a cheater
I said the same thing…dating is the preview of what’s to come
I don't know this woman from a can of paint, but I want the absolute BEST for her!!
She truly deserves it ✨
“You don’t have to accept me for who I am, and I am still going to be great. “ Thank you for this quote.
She just exudes class and intelligence, it makes me want to want more for myself. She did not allow herself to be lost in her marriage. I feel so inspired.
She is a Class ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Right. Too many woman have been lost in the marriage. I don't think its intentional but it happens subtly. I believe women should continue to build herself up while building with her husband. No one wants to feel like you take them when you leave.
I just stumbled across this.
Brandy Harvey!
I’m glad I found this on UA-cam.
❤❤❤❤❤
Me too! Gm I needed this freshness
Same
Me too!
Same ❤
Me also. I loved listening to her and her rwin on various platforms so I subscribed immediately
Quiana is such a visionary & go getter ! Love her poise and class ❤️. Grace and Mercy follow her , God is on her side 🙌🏾
Yes He is 🙏🏽👏🏽❤️
She’s unstoppable! BAD TO THEE BONE! Loved her the moment I first heard her speak many years ago. Infinite blessings & continued strength to you Quiana!
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Life throws you many curveballs but chose you always❤❤❤❤❤
Brandi needs her own daytime talk show!
She does 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Absolutely ❤ Brandi 🔥
Brandi is that girl. So poised, intelligent, beautiful ❤ I really enjoyed this interview.
She was EXCELLENT!!
I admire that she's not holding herself accountable for his CHOICE to be unfaithful.
One thing I will add is: WHO YOU DATE IS WHO YOU MARRY.
A lot of women think that once a man 'puts a ring on it', that means that his negative CHARACTER and BEHAVIOR traits will magically disappear....that is unrealistic...they're still there---even when hidden.
People don't change unless THEY CHOOSE to do so.
It doesn't matter how you look, what you cook, what you subject yourself to in the bedroom in the name of 'pleasing your man', whether you 'tap into your femininity' (in any male podcaster's voice), nor how much you throw yourself to the fire to save face for him....if he's going to abuse, cheat, be an overall azzhole, etc.....HE WILL DO IT REGARDLESS.
Pour into yourself, value yourself, understand and set boundaries on what behaviors in others make you feel SAFE and SEEN as a human being....and allow people in your life that honor those things.... CONSISTENTLY.
Quiana is a powerhouse and if she chooses to date/marry in the future I hope the someone that enters her life treats her with the utmost kindness, respects her autonomy/her intelligence and truly loves her to no end.
We all have our journey and hers certainly will continue to be a beautiful one.
This is exactly how I moved through my divorce. Together for 4 years and married for 1.5 years. He was disrespectful and a cheater and hunny I left!!! I’m a successful black woman. Didn’t need that dead weight. Love seeing another strong black queen!! So many men can’t handle having a strong successful woman. It’s ridiculous.
I am nearly 3 years into a healing journey from being married to a man who was busy loving himself. I am thankful to have survived and I will continue to walk in God's Light.
This interview was an eye-opener. Quiana's relationship with ex shows that men really aren't looking for a financial partner or a mate that "brings something to the table." I really appreciate Quiana's transparency and strength. Beautiful segment ❤
This video was so pure. It’s something about a woman that walks in her light. Praying for her continued success. 💗
Great interview!! I love the way Brandi allowed her to speak freely. Some hosts talk more than their guests so this was refreshing. Quiana is amazing! Very inspiring!
So correct
What a refreshing conversation even though loss was discussed! I am so appreciative of Quiana being so transparent. So many "public figures" post about their relationships, but then when they break up, they say, "Please, respect our privacy." As a result, there is this lack of authenticity that is felt. They don't have to tell all of their business, but it just seems that they should be just as transparent as they were when they invited us into their lives. I pray that Quiana heals completely and that she experiences the relationship she deserves and desires. Thank you for sharing this conversation!
Totally! Thats why we stand behind the real ones
Wow this is the first woman I’ve seen who is completely honest, and sure of herself and her decision, and to be able to share without any shame. A real woman …imo❤
Quiana is a beautiful gem… I’m a luxury real estate investor and I’ve always found Quiana to be top tier… but today! Today showed me she really is top tier on a different level, beautiful, humble honest and sincere… I love her energy and her light Keep shining Queen. ✨💕🙏🏽💫❣️
I love when women can lift other women! That’s great energy…❤
@@4WallsDesigns Thank you 🙏🏽 💖✨
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Brandi, you are steering this interview like a pro!!!
She definitely did. It was felt to the core
Yes so refreshing!
Yes tf she is
“Value!” “Keep yourself in the light!” Quiana is such a shining star! Such a beautiful soul! Thank you for such an inspiring interview!🌹✨❤🔥
This interview was everything!!!! Quiana is very smart, well spoken, wise, and beautiful. 🔥🔥
I love seeing a beautiful successful black sista ❤ give em hell Q ❤
She made the best decision to get out! Never disrespect a QUEEN!! I love her for that and everything she stands for.
These men playing out here 😂 she is definitely the type of women that men SHOULD WANT AND NEED‼️ not feel threatened by or belittled etc
Insecure immature boys are threatened by strong women. Real men are not. They value women like this.
YES and he was wasting his sperm on other women and had her thinking that she was the problem with trying to have a child. Smh
So proud of her. She is human and I can’t imagine going through that pain! He risked her life. It’s so unfortunate that being successful you have guys that are so insecure. He lost a great thing!!
Quiana is beautiful. Great podcast💕🥰
Smart girl for keeping her father's name❤
❤❤❤❤ Ms. Watson deserves her flowers. This feed came across my timeline, and I'm glad it did. Positive threads like these are neeeded, and i have subscribed ❤
I have witnessed Quiana's consistency & success. After being introduced to her from Ladies who List, all I can say is Real recognize Real and I love this for her ! But, can we take a moment and acknowledge how great Brandi Harvey is at interviewing/ communication.
Truth! Congrats to both Ladies 🎉
Absolutely top tier 👌
Love love love love this interview! Thanks Quiana for telling your truth! I know we were SUPRISED by the divorce announcement and why you stopped filming but this context definitely gives more to the story.
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I love me some Quiana Watson! I hate that she went through that but I’m glad she’s healing.
I wish I had this much wisdom and strength to handle life’s trials in my younger days.
As long as you have breath in your body, you can still walk in wisdom, strength and grace
As a Fertility Coach…When she talked about protecting her husband because of male factor infertility😢😢 whew. So many of my clients deal with this. Thank you for speaking on this topic❤❤❤
And he goes around and cheating knowing he an’t got no nut. What a 😊…🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅
And she’s so full of it. It doesn’t make sense. They visited the fertility specialist on their reality show. The specialist talked to them about the possibility of needing donor eggs. That is not MFI
@@SaciaShirley
That will go back to her, possibly protecting him by letting them say that on the show instead of letting them say male factor
@user-qf2nq2lz2j: shows are scripted and curated. Maybe that was said to protect him/his image? She could’ve been protecting him. Don’t assume you know ‘the behind scenes’ of a person’s life just because you saw something on TV.
Yes this I sort of understand because is 75 percent usually the woman unless he is really old .. so I know that’s BS but I love her anyway
Love her transparency and grace ❤
Value is definitely the word for this year !!! I’m realizing my value in the world and adding value to it as well 💕💕
YES IT IS 👏🏽👏🏽
I can sit and listen to Qiana talk about anything and feel like I am going to be a great woman....that's how powerful you are girl
She’s so beautiful and an inspiration! ❤
This was so Powerful had me in tears❤ CHOOSE YOU! End of story!
So open and vulnerable! I really enjoyed her. The variety of the guests and their stories have been amazing to watch and learn from. Vault comes with the heat every week!
There is MORE to come for this beautiful, hardworking, intelligent woman!
I truly needed to hear this. A lot of women dim their light so their husbands don't feel overshadowed. I love when she said, "When you're standing out much more than them, they have to go somewhere where it's much less". WOW!!
This was a great episode. Quiana is poised, classy, and I love to see how women are evolving. We are healing, growing, still soft, boss women. We can truly have it all. God bless her ❤
I stumbled across this interview and was instantly hooked. Great interview ladies
I never followed Quiana on the socials, but after watching her YT series, I'm so glad she's sharing her journey!
“Where you are is where you’re supposed to be” Love this!!! There’s enough for everyone to win!!
Detachment is an art, philosophy, and way of life. To master is so freeing.
Thank you both for this transparent conversation🌺 Quiana may you stay encouraged🙏🏾
I really enjoyed this interview. Soooo proud of how elegant Kiana broke down her trifling ex-husband cheating scandal. Proud to see how quickly she moved on too bc more of us women need to do that. My cousin is one who does the same thing. Her motto is…..why give him the opportunity to continue to play with her heart when he knew exactly what he was doing the first time. He thinks he can run back and apologize, be forgiven to do it again! Not at all. Should have thought about it in the first place.
This interview was truly everything. She’s so courageous and honest. Favor will always be upon her life. May god truly give her all the desires of her heart.
Yesss, especially being from Fayetteville NC and attended FSU. Yesss Queen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
🗣️1st timer here on the podcast…and Ms. Harvey you definitely earned a follower!!☑️ This interview was definitely, meaningful, thoughtful, genuine, inspiring and I could not scroll on as I usually do! I am so glad the advertisements were short and went straight back into the interview! Both ladies were superb! ❤️⭐️❤️ I pray for them both to receive Godspeed in their current and future endeavors!🥰
Where you are is where you’re supposed to be!!! So true!!! Thanks for the reminder!
The interview I didn’t know I needed. Thank you for being transparent and sharing your light!
Brandi Harvey, you are professional, you are beautiful and you are a great listener thanks for airing this show you are a great interviewer!
I wish you and Quiana much success and happiness. May God continue to shine his face upon you.
Blessings
This interview was so profound!! Quiana is such a businesswoman!! I love that Quiana remained herself through her traumatic divorce. Also, Brandy, is an amazing interviewer!! The right questions were asked and the compassion and kindness was felt in this video!! 🩷
#narcvibesdetected For him to be the abuser, serial cheater and then refuse to leave the marital home when it was time for him to be held accountable - definitely narc vibes detected. He sounds like a whole other Martell Holt. Keepp elevating Quiana 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Same thought
Yesss “Choose you always” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I'm in my 60s and most things this young lady said resonates with me, very inspirational.
Amen
Omg… this was such an endearing conversation💛. Insightful and meaningful it was!! Brandi, this was my first time tuning in and I just admire how you facilitated the conversation and held such a space for Quiana. In both of you, I see the epitome of embodied leadership. It’s such a pleasure to bear witness to this. Thank you 🙏🏾 🙂
I have always admired Qiuiana and as she went through her divorce, I admired her even more . Going through a divorce with very similar circumstances , you have to find yourself and love yourself and not let what someone did to you reflect the amazing woman that you are!
That's true ❤
Intellect AND beauty. 🙋🏾♀️🤩
Queen Quiana is the essence of a phenomenal woman. She is so kind and supportive in real life.
I’m so very proud of you. In life there will be adversity, but the bounce back is the most important thing. Keep shining!!
Sometimes when you can be so much they have to go somewhere less to feel bigger!!!! I damn near threw my phone Come on Quiana😂😂😂😂😂 those women were definitely less and she sticking behind that!!!!! What a great an open conversation…..I’ve learned so much through hearing her transparency thank you!❤
I’m so proud of you Quiana! You are so inspiring! We love you!
Brandi, you are your Daddy’s daughter! ❤️ What an EXCELLENT interview. I love your style and how you simply allowed this interview to breathe which gave Quiana the freedom and safety to be honest, transparent, and vulnerable enough to share her story, which frankly, I didn’t see when she was on ‘Ladies Who List’. Quiana, divorce is so hard, especially when you are a high profile figure and public betrayal is at the root. I’ve been there and I know that anger and outrage. Thank you for sharing the gems you’ve discovered through your healing journey. This interview really blessed me. Keeping both of you ladies in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏🏽
Quiana Watson…Sis, you are “fire”!!!!🔥🔥🔥 Thank you for inspiring so many women with your story. Yes, you will always be at the higher level because you are a true Daughter of God. Stay Beautiful, Brilliant and Bold.❤
Thank you for being so transparent, as a divorced woman myself I know that grieving process and unless a person has fully committed themselves to a marriage they will never understand how it feels to be so vulnerable with a person that you TRUSTED to cheat on you and DESTROY that bond, BRAVO to you Quiana and blessings to you for more growth and success
“when you start feeding into beast, you will always have to feed it.” wow, that was a whole word
This spoke directly to me. Going through it this month and this interview was very helpful. Thank you !!
First time catching the show, loved it! Quiana Watson is truly a boss, her truth is greatly insightful and impactful. God Bless.
I love everything about this interview. Thank you for sharing and encouraging Quiana.
A new podcast to subscribe to, and love the conversation. This is what the culture needs. Not ghetto ratchet shows and podcasts.
Amen 👏🙌🙏
Wow.. probably one of the most transparent raw interviews regarding cheating and divorce. What a great interview and Quiana's story resonates in every women's quest for "that perfect world". Let it be known that happiness is in you and when you meet it-it will carry you for the remainder of your days. Live your best life. Way to go Quiana and Thank you Brandi for this interview. Excellence.
Adore the way she presents herself and stays true to self! Love this interview!
I will simply say. I am rooting for this woman to CONTINUE to win. I love how introspective she is, how she knows herself (flaws and all), and how determined she is to walk in her truth. ❤
Queen Harvey you mash up mi❤. Big up💪🏾🫶🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯🇹🇹
KEEP THEM COMING!!
He doesn’t care about a woman disrespecting his wife because he was disrespecting her as well.
I’m glad she didn’t sit around and try to work it out. She can do waaaaayyyy better. She grew above their situation.
Yes. I loved all of this. And this is why I believe having your own as a woman as well. No one should pull you down but definitely not a spouse! Someone sooo close smh. Good for her continuing to grow and self reflect and move on hunny. 🎉❤
All I can say is WOW! Your truth, your transparency! I thank you for it. I felt every word generated in this interview. The compromise! The hurt. Yess. I’m taking this as my confrontation. Thank you Mrs. Watson and Mrs Harvey.
This was such a great uplifting conversation. Thank you ladies for sharing and keeping it 💯. God bless!
I love me some Quiana! She brings her authentic self to the table. Her book Clear to Close was so transparent. She is intelligent, kind, and beautiful. In person, she is cool as a cucumber and a whole vibe! It was his loss!❤️
This was a great interview and she made really good points.
She did!! We're so glad you enjoyed the interview ❤️
This podcast came in time for me. Quiana is a gem 💎. I'm a week into the ending of a 6yr relationship, and at almost 42 I've been feeling like it's too late for me to be starting over. But being reminded that things you thought would be forever will end, loving yourself is above all, and it's never too late when you have faith and believe in Gods timing was refreshing.
I wish you all the best, you’ve got this
I really enjoyed this episode. Such a timely message. Wishing her all the best!
That was a fabulous intro. A lot of podcasters should take note
I was following her years ago before she took off on social media and I thought her husband was so supportive and that they would make billions together . I shifted from real estate so I stop following a lot of them but, WOW 🙏🏽
Love, love this! Awesome interview Brandi!
Quiana Watson is an admirable wise individual. Thank you for sharing your realness! I love you!
Awesome interview 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
We're so glad you enjoyed it!!