"Becoming obese made me confident"
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- Опубліковано 28 кві 2024
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Don't confuse confidence with delusion
Although I don't advocate for being obese, thinking that you are rather confident than not is always much preferable and useful
@@wenus4391there’s a fine line between arrogance/delusion and confidence. Being over confident/delusional will prevent you from seeing ur own flaws or habits/actions that will hurt you. So it’s a very fine line.
@@wenus4391 Groundless confidence is delusion I believe. You need to have something exceptional to be confident about, whether it's knowledge, skills, money, EQ, IQ, look, life achievement......etc
There is nothing to be confident about being obese, not only it's unhealthy, it shows a careless and lazy lifestyle. You must live in a place where most people genuinely consider obese more attractive than fit to be confident about it.
I'd say "Don't confuse confidence with resignation."
She's lost all her self-confidence that she believes that she's in a state of mind where it's beyond the point of fixing. That's basically giving up on life.
Can't run, can't squat, can't crouch, can't crunch, can't hustle.. She's just an inedible potato..
@@wenus4391 definitely not 'always'
If you cant bother to be healthy, how can you expect anyone else to build a healthy relationship with you?
-said no one, but should be known by everyone -
Believe it or not there are people that don’t want to be healthy and those people do find each other and have healthy relationships. Relationships are built on trust and common interests not just health.
@lorduttu I agree with you, just wanted to say that the "Being obese isn't bad" is not correct. Sorry, just didn't anyone to have the wrong idea and thing it's fine!! Have a good day
If she doesn’t respect her own body enough to not destroy it, then she definitely wouldn’t respect you.
Thai doesn't mean she have excuse not to loss those animal fats, it's bad for her oy pluz makes her look bad @@elastoblasto
Men avoid her because she's a damn planetary body and they're trying to avoid burning up on re-entry
😂
nerdiest thing ive ever read
@@Civoker the fact that i knew you were black
@@monkelifterwild 😭
Man, you're awesome
Woman looks GREAT for fifties. Keep on the grind kings and queens 👑
Age goals right there.
Healthy is always in style no matter what age or set back.
@@YarbroK and she also doesn’t come off like trying too hard to be young either. She’s just BEAUTIFUL.
Agreeeed
Losing muscle really is the worst because gaining it back feels like returning to where you started instead of moving forward.
I think the first girl took “the bigger the better” a little bit too literally
💀
Poor choice of words
@@dashcrowngd8954 how
That girl didnt say anything wrong though. She feels better not wanting men approaching her, shes not delusional in that sense
As a former obese I can say that rejecting fat acceptance saved my life.
asskisser
As someone who wants to loose weight, I came into this implicitly judging the people who looked more fat in this, then it got to the end and I realized this wasn't about that, but was about confidence, goals and motivation. This video humbled the hell out of me real quick, its stuff like this that's why I follow you're channel.
Good for you
Didn't read lol
"loose weight" skin removal required.
@@QueeferSutherland1 what?
@@allegrifan4933 For some reason people say "loose" when it's "lose" it was a dumb joke about loose skin..it wasn't hard to follow lol.
0:18 That's a woman? - The Lorax
"And what the hell is even that"
- Angry Dad meme -
she looks healthy
Always hilarious looking when they try to look like men and end up looking like Stephen Colbert.
thats not a woman bro
@@elikingyg7993 ??
Respect should always be there and has nothing to do with how much you weight but about how good character you have.
Most people have bad character so all u can respect them on is their efforts
I love how the second 2 just enjoyed being healthy, there's something really nice about that
140kg???? Why the hell does that spell confidence?? This woman never been out of her fantasy bubble
Being delusional* makes me more confident
It’s a coping mechanism
There is 2 types of 200 lbs.
First : Obese guy.
Second : Absolute testosterone beast.
How do you expect to be respected when you don't respect your own body?
ohh BURN
U shouldn’t seek to be respect u should seek to be successful. The problem with most obese people is that they are not successful in any way. Sure being fit means very little because anyone can do it but at least it’s something u can use to garner respect
@@chipbutty3645 Respect is not something you seek, it is a natural consequence of your actions. And yes, it is expected to receive when you value yourself.
Do you think people who smoke, are underweight, drink alcohol, work 12 hours a day, etc. are undeserving of respect?
@@ThisChannelViolatedGuidelines yes
The men who avoid her must be moving really fast to escape that huge gravity.
Naw you can move at a slow leisurely pace and still outrun her.
The problem is that she has the "my soulmate should like me the way I am" mentality, which a lot of people have these days. She tries to justify it with "at least men that I don't like don't try to have s*x with me", but it will hit her hard when men she likes will tell her that she's not their type. And yeah, truth hurts, but appearance matters a lot and losing weight can make you much more attractive, but most importantly it's beneficial for your health.
How the fck did these men outrun the gravitational pull ??? 😮
I became morbidly obese due to childhood trauma/neglect and "assaults with sexual intent" that never saw justice. I have lost 100lbs from committing to moving on from that.
To see the kinds of things the 310lbs lady said bothers the fuck out of me. Like I know from personal experience that it is mental illness, but sill holy fuck.
Keep on working hard, brothers. We all deserve health
It isnt your fault. If you read the body keeps the score he talks about the clear correlation with trauma and morbid obesity. Have self compassion no matter what
The last one made me smile. Used to have that mindset back when I was fit.
These women who get sensitive about weight.... Are the women that dont want to be held accountable for anything... No man approaches them and they say shit like this
what woman approaches you?
@@Civokercringy that you try to attack people for having an opinion, why don't you go hit the treadmill for a bit
@@Civokernot a single one for sure
I get sensitive about my weight. About 80% of my weight gain has been due to medication. Me being sensitive about it has nothing to do with not wanting to be held accountable..it's about knowing that no matter what I do, because of my meds, I will struggle with weight gain for the rest of my life. I have reached a point in my life where I don't care if a man approaches me or not. I have approached a few and been rejected and that's fine.
But my point is...your analysis here is just a little off if you are judging large women in general. There are some like the one in the video...but not all of us think like that.
There’s no escape when it comes to health take responsibility for your own body or pay the price.
Visualize yourself achieving your fitness goals, feeling stronger, healthier, and more confident with each workout. Every drop of sweat is a step closer to becoming the best version of yourself. Keep pushing, and remember, progress takes time but every effort counts.
The most weight you lose, the most self conscious you become about how bad you were when you were obese. I look at obese people and it is just a reminder saying, I cant look or be like that ever again.
Ironically, those people who choose to be obese because they "couldn't care less" about societal standards are the ones actually obsessed and talking about it all the time. Because otherwise, they'd have the mindset of those women in the video who equate being fit to HEALTH and not necessarily beauty.
Men avoid the first woman because they don't wanna get crushed 🤣
Dude tune down the volume at the end it's way to loud.
Translation:
"I've let myself go so much that men no longer find me attractive, and I need to say something that makes me look like I don't care, as I have no intention of losing the weight"
All forms of coping, but to each their own.
Fair is fair
She's got that ultra wide body building gone wrong setup.
Escaped a relationship where i was objectified and treated like a ceks slave...as a result i gained over 50 lbs when i left, i realized i never want another relationship or to draw attention to myself in that way ever again, but now i feel safe its time to loose some of the weight, i just don't feel comfortable in this bigger body and its hurting me.
i lose a couple of pounds in the Throne Room - does that help?
Pain be like who can make planetary devistation other then me 😂
0:18 Thats a woman??? I thought jerry lewis grew a foot
She looks like an older woman with short hair. It surprises me how quickly you confuse gender just because you have short hair and wear a suit.
Don't worry...be happy...
Platinum, gold, silver, bronze, and special mention in the 'loser in life category'. Don't let the door hit ya where the pig done bit ya.
100lbs ago... good old times
The attitude of this channel is basically try until you W
If you are obese be confident,work out hardly and don't listen to other people's criticism but don't lie yourself by thinking being obese is okay.
-Wise man
When was the last time you went for a run?
Her : about 100lbs ago
What’s crazy is that there are people out there who actually fetishize obesity. I’m not talking about them wanting someone who’s thicc. Nah, more like they want someone who has their own gravitational pull.
I hope they still observe to become healthy it's more important.
Men doesn't avoid her, her density pushes men away unconsciously.
Don't wanna get caught in her gravitational pull.
Even gaining 10 pounds affected my self esteem I want to be fit and happy and healthy ❤ blessings ❤
Where do they find these ladies 😀
When you build muscle, number and size of cells increase. Detraining means the cells shrink. Muscle memory is that you still have a greater number of cells, allowing you to bounce back quicker and stronger.
Wtf bro i weigh more than 140kg and i look like half her size horizontally
Confident in what? That no one will ever hit on her? Well, she's right about that.
YOUR LIFE CHOICES, YOUR LIFE! NUFF SAID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
No motivation to look after themselves, no discipline, sedentary, lazy, no imagination (because your life, mostly, revolves around food and sitting around). Blows my mind when these people say "I just want a normal relationship".
Yeah well then get to a normal weight because no one will accept your lifestyle, which is counter intuitive to living a good full life (literally).
Confident people wouldn't get angry when other points out their flaw. I bet this woman would go on a melt down if someone dare talking about her weight.
140 kilos ?! Bragging about weighing as much as a newborn Killer Whale is actually insane bruh.
If you don’t respect yourself, how do you expect anyone else to respect you?
crazy people are many times sure of themselves
I wish I knew how to gain weight so easily as others do. I've been trying to gain weight forever but my father cursed me with a fast metabolism so no matter how much I eat im around 100 lbs. Its not fair and i'm str8 up jealous of fat ppl for this cause they can eat normally and dont have to over eat by 1500 calories to just gain 2 lbs so honestly she should be confident lucky her
There’s nothing healthy about being fat. You’ll often see examples of skinny people being exceedingly intelligent or at the zenith of a given hierarchy, almost never fat ones.
@@fabez6073 I don't want to be fat I want to be healthy I am underweight. A healthy weight for my height 5'2 would be 120. I fluctuate around 98-104 lbs. You don't know my goals nor what's healthy for my body.
Don’t confuse carelessness with confidence.
"Men avoid me" hard to avoid her, she takes half of the road
i lost 20lb on my deficit and slowly a little confident.
She could write a book on rationalization.
0:09
Were they even trying in the first place???
I doubt it. (Referring to the "dudes" she mentions)
I prefer the term, "robust".😂
I'm 6ft tall and weigh 244 pounds with heavy muscle mass from factory work... that blob weighs like 70 pounds more than me with no muscle... that amount of fat is sickening to think about
"men avoid me" of course, they are afraid to get eaten
Men do evasive measures when she is to close.
140kg .. good detail 0:02
thanks
She found a way to still shift some blame onto men. Only person to blame is the person eating.
"Just truly do not care" actually means "I have completely given up."
Can someone explain it to me cuz.I kniw being obese isn't good but we shouldn't body shame them for it,right?
Note:Yeah I know y'all are still gonna bodyshame people cuz y'all think it's a good thing
I'm concerned 😢 with my recommended
How to avoid sexual harassment 0:12
Being obese is not confident. I know!!
I DONT GET WHAT A POUND IS (METRIC!!!!!!!!!) SO WHEN 'MURICANS SAY IM 300-400 LBS. I NEVER GOT A GRASP OF IT. BUT 310 LBS = 140 KG 😳😳😳
i love how this channel is literally an incel's paradise
90% of the videos are about slandering women to make the audience feel good about them selves
Not trying to specifically have dudes have sex with me is a weird sentence.
So analyzing the sentence it seems that before she was trying to get guys to sleep with her at 210 pounds and they wouldn’t, so she gained 100 pounds and doesn’t even try anymore.
That’s more of a personality problem because dudes will still sleep with her at 310 pounds.
She’s not confident, she got hit with reality lol
what was that thing at thr end with glasses
I noticed the attitude before her size 🤷♂️
Basically she is saying its better that shes apathetic now W Balkan Gains
5 stages of grief and for some they never make it to stage 2
i can see how collestrole has side effects like confident 💀
To that 300 pounder with blonde hair….. 🧔🏾♂️👩🏿🦲🧔🏽♂️👩🏾🦲love your type.
sis gave up
jesus loves you
I regret clicking your profile
failing a driving test made me a confident driver
Maybe off topic a bit but can someone explain me why is there such a big emphasis put on building muscle, becoming bigger etc? Not only on this channel but on several others also. I just can't grasp that. Of course sport is important and healthy but why exactly weightlifting is the way to go. I prefer swimming for example. Does it mean that I am weaker in some sense because I don't like lifting? Seems kinda goofy to me
You're completely fine being athletic in other ways, weightlifting is just popular with men because it's the fastest way to get strong/look nicer. Just activates something in the monkey neurons for some of us.
Well, I actually don't find anything wrong with the massive lady there.Sure, obesity is deadly and not pleasant to the view, ok, but if she is alright with herself and doesn't berate her other it's fine by me.I would prefer her a bit lighter for her own phisical sanity but that's her choice
The fact that dudes were still approaching her at 210lb is sad.
i dont understand why her eating 74 trillion cheetos for breakfast has anything to do with me.
I understand she is confident, Godzilla is a powerfull monster after all. 😅
Crazy how people will start taking care of their body when its health is already declining from accumulated diseases
The blob is an under rated mutant.
This.
If she was telling the truth she wouldn't have said it in the first place.
Why does she need to say that she feels more confident now when they didn't ask her? Her only question was how much she weighed, not whether she felt good about her weight.
I can't say I care about societal standards, but gaining too much weight is just so inconvenient 🤷♀️ I can't imagine how hard is to carry 70-80 extra kilos daily
0:03 How do I pretend to look like a strong independent female because no man wants to get with me.
I'm too , busy ( LAUGHING ) to comment 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
the last girls definetly me 😂. It's so frustrating fr
Delulu is not confidence.
everyone talking about the whole obese thing but no one talking about how the thing that guy lifted(idk what its called) was so heavy IT BENT THE METAL BOXES BELOW LIKE WTF ..
any gym freaks care to tell me if thats as impressive as i think it is
It is a Strong Man competition log.