I agree & have tried so many times to do what u say till he gets triggered & doesnt follow through with his part then totally shuts down & ends it.. its extremely difficult although i have my triggers with him also, but i am working on them & trying my hardest to be more aware of them...but he just dismisses...(avoidant) when its to much for HIM then im left feeling my abandonment/rejection/trauma wounds again & again... Then he says "we are unhealthy" but i feel resenful as he will make an effort for a short period...then runs....so not right/fair 😔
Incredible video thank you! Can you do a video on how to handle when both partners have narcissistic qualities? And where both are fearful avoidant? Thank you so much Yvette
What if the partner is activated by your words and the way you are saying things? I quickly feel like I need to change, but from my own trauma I tend to change for the other. So now I am more careful and I am getting poked at to change. First silence is important and then we can go forward and see how and what. Thanks so much for this video!!
Great question! This is the same situation with my avoidant but he cant/won't see how I'm triggered (anxious) but I have to be mindful of triggering him...😩
I agree & have tried so many times to do what u say till he gets triggered & doesnt follow through with his part then totally shuts down & ends it.. its extremely difficult although i have my triggers with him also, but i am working on them & trying my hardest to be more aware of them...but he just dismisses...(avoidant) when its to much for HIM then im left feeling my abandonment/rejection/trauma wounds again & again...
Then he says "we are unhealthy" but i feel resenful as he will make an effort for a short period...then runs....so not right/fair 😔
Wow, this is extremely helpful. THANK YOU for sharing this with the world!
I loved it, thank you very much.
Thank you so much!
Incredible video thank you! Can you do a video on how to handle when both partners have narcissistic qualities? And where both are fearful avoidant? Thank you so much Yvette
Ooooh...interesting topics!
What if the partner is activated by your words and the way you are saying things? I quickly feel like I need to change, but from my own trauma I tend to change for the other. So now I am more careful and I am getting poked at to change. First silence is important and then we can go forward and see how and what. Thanks so much for this video!!
Great question! This is the same situation with my avoidant but he cant/won't see how I'm triggered (anxious) but I have to be mindful of triggering him...😩
Brilliant as always
Awwww; thank you!
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