OCD in a 4 year old

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  • @d1zzy_bearr
    @d1zzy_bearr 2 роки тому +550

    That baby has the chubbiest check I’ve ever seen and it’s adorable 🥺

    • @FoolyLiving
      @FoolyLiving  2 роки тому +74

      lol She really does! She is the sweetest girl. She is now 5 years old and they have a very unique relationship. We daily vlog if you want to see what they are up to in real time! Thank you for watching!

    • @devilpros1346
      @devilpros1346 2 роки тому +10

      @@FoolyLiving How is Rafael doing with his OCD? And how old is he now?

    • @ZoppaTheFurry
      @ZoppaTheFurry 2 роки тому +3

      Ikr so sweet!

    • @jamescarangelo8635
      @jamescarangelo8635 2 роки тому +2

      OMG I know right

    • @GunBase
      @GunBase 2 роки тому +2

      @@devilpros1346 you can watch more current videos that arent only based on that and see hes living healthy :) its something he will work on, we all have things tro work on

  • @kaviyarasank4873
    @kaviyarasank4873 3 роки тому +556

    I really admire their mother's patience ❤️
    Love you all from India :)

    • @sdjsjkskskks
      @sdjsjkskskks 3 роки тому +6

      Indians
      👇🏼

    • @ookipuki
      @ookipuki 3 роки тому +2

      I love you too 🙂❤ from murica 🤣... I admire these parents too.... if only all of them were like this ...

  • @scootermom1791
    @scootermom1791 3 роки тому +854

    I just about died laughing right after when she spat up! At least she had the courtesy to wait until AFTER the kiss! 😅😂☺️

  • @TheTommyak
    @TheTommyak 2 роки тому +91

    I find it so cute how he repeats what his mom says

  • @ms.ferretmanthing2404
    @ms.ferretmanthing2404 3 роки тому +229

    1:13 was the most mom like laugh I've heard in a while, reminds me of my own mom🥺.
    "Kiss your human sister".. why was this so funny?😂😂

  • @123-j8b1d
    @123-j8b1d 2 роки тому +121

    “Abigail turn here ! I need to kiss you on the forehead” 😂😂 on a certain level this so cute/funny even though it may be torture for him.

  • @Gizmonips
    @Gizmonips 3 роки тому +296

    I cackled at this. He feels awkward when she turns to look at him. The mom had me dying laughing when she lost it.

  • @csmita1
    @csmita1 3 роки тому +196

    I love how hes getting mad because he couldn't give her a kiss

  • @shafarahmanifaza
    @shafarahmanifaza 3 роки тому +296

    I love how frustrated the dad is🤣

  • @deborahtawadros567
    @deborahtawadros567 3 роки тому +475

    We knew our second son had OCD by the time he was six months old. He would cry if just a spot of food or dirt was on his hands. He was also diagnosed with ADHD when he was about seven years old. He still has both at 27 but has learned to overcome his dificulties. Our oldest son(age 30) has Duplication15q syndrome, on the spectrum and severe learning disabilities. Our daughter(age 25) is gifted and is finishing medical school this coming year. Then our youngest son(age 23) has Duplication15q syndrome, moderate classical Autism, mild CP and microcephaly. But they are all perfect to me. Only the oldest did not get a regular high school diploma or get higher a education. Keep up the good work parents your children are beautiful.

    • @hamirahabdul3587
      @hamirahabdul3587 3 роки тому +23

      I pray God rewards you for your efforts. So nice of you💕

    • @shatabdeesaikia8356
      @shatabdeesaikia8356 3 роки тому +20

      You are an amazing parent. God bless you and your whole family.

    • @pasandesilva2295
      @pasandesilva2295 3 роки тому +10

      You are an awesome mom! A supermom basically! I wish you and your children nothing but the best!

    • @UnknownUser-by4le
      @UnknownUser-by4le 3 роки тому +9

      My daughter was like this she could have dirt on her hands or she would cry her eyes out
      I never knew it was ocd until she was 6 and I noticed other signs and then it all made sense

    • @ketchcoreyvideos
      @ketchcoreyvideos 2 роки тому +1

      @@hamirahabdul3587 oh yeah god

  • @jennvain3463
    @jennvain3463 3 роки тому +67

    Cute family. Abigail is chubby sweetness. And I have terrible OCD and you are doing great with the boy. Keep having him test himself no matter how much it hurt his mind. It's the best thing for OCD.

  • @sarahsmith7857
    @sarahsmith7857 3 роки тому +121

    Good grief. When he finally kissed his sister I felt so relieved. I can understand the dad. Rafael is so cute

  • @patrickmccutcheon8860
    @patrickmccutcheon8860 3 роки тому +34

    “The sun is coming up. That’s because of me, because I’m doing something.”

  • @bearsm0m
    @bearsm0m 3 роки тому +90

    How can that sweet baby look like she's 1...and 30...at the same time LOL!

    • @Ann65.
      @Ann65. 3 роки тому +14

      Yes, an old soul for sure. She seems to understand and be entertained by her big brother! 🤩

    • @user-xt2jb2kq7p
      @user-xt2jb2kq7p 3 роки тому +8

      It sounds rude tbh

    • @ok4025
      @ok4025 2 роки тому +2

      @@user-xt2jb2kq7p it’s a baby tf😂

    • @user-xt2jb2kq7p
      @user-xt2jb2kq7p 2 роки тому +2

      @@ok4025 ok? I’m sorry?

    • @AryaStark47
      @AryaStark47 2 роки тому

      @@user-xt2jb2kq7p I think so too.

  • @littleflower9614
    @littleflower9614 3 роки тому +166

    Rafael is just so adorable 😍

  • @enochia
    @enochia 2 роки тому +17

    0:35 Rafael has the cutest reaction to everything I swear 😂💙

  • @magii_v
    @magii_v 2 роки тому +14

    "Good morning kiss on the 5 head" 😂, they're so cute!

  • @QUEEN-df1mc
    @QUEEN-df1mc 2 роки тому +9

    Omg if she spat up on him he's gonna be traumatized 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @z3rokills437
    @z3rokills437 2 роки тому +10

    3:18 mother’s laugh really freaked out Abigail

  • @wisemanspoke
    @wisemanspoke 3 роки тому +51

    I actually see here no problem at all. Did he want to kiss? No. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her. He still tried his best to accommodate the wish from parents. He just needs his time, at his pace. Congrats to mom & dad, adorable well behaved kids 👍

    • @land___shark
      @land___shark 2 місяці тому +2

      his parents shouldn’t be telling him to kiss her if he doesn’t want to

  • @aljwharhr7219
    @aljwharhr7219 2 роки тому +7

    3:05 He's killing me😭😭😭😂+ I loved this boy

  • @umpus
    @umpus 3 роки тому +31

    When she vomited after the kiss lmao maybe she didn't want it after all

  • @ianrubimbura1910
    @ianrubimbura1910 3 роки тому +48

    He's so articulate ahahahaha! I guess he has HAD to learn how to express what is bothering him from a young age.

  • @1999nathanule
    @1999nathanule 2 роки тому +5

    Oh my god that was so cute I couldn’t stop laughing he’s absolutely adorable and Abigail you are just the sweetest

  • @irenewalker7922
    @irenewalker7922 2 роки тому +2

    Mom the way you laugh omg my sister used to laugh the exact same way lol....

  • @Russman
    @Russman 2 роки тому +1

    The comedy is real especially if you have OCD🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ldbadgme1880
    @ldbadgme1880 3 роки тому +13

    :54 At this time i burst out laughing because he was just pickin his nose while his mother is feeding Abigail lol

  • @thamimhd1576
    @thamimhd1576 3 роки тому +59

    You guys are all sweet . Never give up ❤️

  • @JoJo-to3uu
    @JoJo-to3uu 3 роки тому +29

    I would obsess over my homework or weird things at the age of 13. I would cry and stress. Then at age 18 I would obsess over other existential things. At 20 I had instrusive thoughts that I couldn’t escape. They repeated and repeated all day all night. I wanted to escape. I was at the worst part of my life. At 21 I was finally diagnosed with OCD. I thought I was the only one. It’s so refreshing seeing these new generation parents getting their child help and making sure they are ok. It will make his life easier. I still struggle with it. But therapy, and my medicine has helped. Thanks for sharing this.

    • @surlespasdondine
      @surlespasdondine 3 роки тому +2

      Obsessing over homework and existential stuff as a teenager is pretty normal.

    • @iamthatguyfromslipknot1137
      @iamthatguyfromslipknot1137 3 роки тому

      Yeah but there is something out of place in your home right now but i bet you cant find it..omg its really just out of place and its triggering me real bad you have to make this right..lol..

    • @iamthatguyfromslipknot1137
      @iamthatguyfromslipknot1137 3 роки тому

      @@surlespasdondine only if you are a complete nerd,,lol..

    • @surlespasdondine
      @surlespasdondine 3 роки тому

      @@iamthatguyfromslipknot1137 I see it in many students, not just nerds

    • @Chiller-pc1dv
      @Chiller-pc1dv 2 роки тому

      @@iamthatguyfromslipknot1137 ....That's not how OCD works.

  • @cjtramm8
    @cjtramm8 3 роки тому +4

    I know it happened years ago but I yelled yea abs clapped when he gave the kiss. So sweet.

  • @amandasmith3504
    @amandasmith3504 3 роки тому +25

    Gonna have to side with my guy Rafael this time! 😂

  • @mommaj5516
    @mommaj5516 3 роки тому +38

    Kisses shouldn't be forced.. but it is adorable

    • @yuzuru525
      @yuzuru525 3 роки тому +28

      They weren’t trying to force him. The boy has OCD so they are preparing him to adjust to her not having the cleanest face. That is why he kept refusing to kiss her on the cheek

  • @sahm5464
    @sahm5464 3 роки тому +4

    The mom and dad are soo brilliant 🥰 God bless all the beautiful mommy like her and all the beautiful angels get a loving parents like them

  • @ulrikanilsson531
    @ulrikanilsson531 3 роки тому +11

    He is so cute. And he really tries to live up to his parents recommendations ❤️

  • @ntgomez07
    @ntgomez07 2 роки тому +2

    🤣 “she has food all over her mouth”

  • @guruprasadarupathumuvar3580
    @guruprasadarupathumuvar3580 2 роки тому +2

    The baby girl is so adorable and cute ...😘❤️

  • @julietshenher5526
    @julietshenher5526 3 роки тому +7

    they’re so adorable omg

  • @123-j8b1d
    @123-j8b1d 2 роки тому +3

    The holding of her hand 😂😂😂

  • @shamarao.9534
    @shamarao.9534 3 роки тому +4

    “Not the cheek! The forehead!”….rofl🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @oliviaswaythrough
    @oliviaswaythrough 3 роки тому +5

    Omggg Me and Mom snickering at the same time is Gold Omgg LOL

  • @wiggleroom6847
    @wiggleroom6847 2 роки тому

    You are great, patient parents. The kids are perfect

  • @annausova2308
    @annausova2308 25 днів тому

    People, you are fantastic parents!

  • @sandev9470
    @sandev9470 3 місяці тому

    Kissing from a distance would be the new way of kissing in the future 😜

  • @bobdownes162
    @bobdownes162 2 роки тому +2

    COMEDY PURE
    Pleased to see your son smiling.

  • @breakthroughcommunications1955
    @breakthroughcommunications1955 2 роки тому +4

    Rafael had a point..Even I wouldn''t want to kiss those baby cheeks covered with porridge--He is just exercising common sense.

    • @francescafrancesca3554
      @francescafrancesca3554 2 роки тому +1

      I understand, in this case I think is an excercise so he can learn to manage his emotions and thoughts (that can be quite powerful and quite debilitating in OCD) so he can do stuff even if it's hard. Anyways, have a nice day!

    • @breakthroughcommunications1955
      @breakthroughcommunications1955 2 роки тому

      @@francescafrancesca3554 now I understand your point. Thank you for taking time to explain.

  • @alexiscardenas1012
    @alexiscardenas1012 3 роки тому +24

    I loved every second of this

  • @sylviemariebellerose5607
    @sylviemariebellerose5607 2 роки тому +2

    you guys are a wonderful family with lots of love ❤

  • @soniabennett1674
    @soniabennett1674 Рік тому

    So cute, the both of them. Adorable.

  • @dylansk8246
    @dylansk8246 2 роки тому +1

    i had OCD i couldn't sit on are family couch because i thought it was dirty from are dogs and i would have to shower each time i came inside from outside i now dont have to worry about that all it took was overcoming it. i know how this kid feels.

  • @Artichokehead44
    @Artichokehead44 2 роки тому

    Awwww your little girls got the cutest chubby cheeks ever ❤️🥺

  • @reign6of6e6terror
    @reign6of6e6terror 3 роки тому +8

    The same drama with his first girlfriend🌸🤭😄😄😄

  • @hazemdarwish8089
    @hazemdarwish8089 3 роки тому +15

    now I'm only wondering! does it help if you do it in front of him as a leading example? or not at all!?

  • @Shnozzler
    @Shnozzler 3 роки тому +6

    The baby girl is so cute lol

  • @cottoncandy4486
    @cottoncandy4486 3 роки тому +9

    The baby is so cute, that poor kid sure has problems , bless him.

  • @astargarden
    @astargarden 3 роки тому +1

    ..the baby girl - that's another level..😅😅😅😅

  • @wiggleroom6847
    @wiggleroom6847 2 роки тому

    Omg. The cutest little girl alive

  • @moondust1979
    @moondust1979 3 роки тому +4

    This seems so mild. He seems so sweet. A situation like this would have me laughing. But what my son does never makes me laugh, e.g. I plug my charger into a socket and he screams nooo put it in the one next to it, and if I don’t he screams blood curdling screams turns hysterical jumping and stomping banging his body everywhere until we both end up in tears.

    • @user-zb9qr1rc2c
      @user-zb9qr1rc2c 2 роки тому

      I dont know you, but I have already so much respect for you! Hang in there, you got this!

    • @qcidgirl.ৎ
      @qcidgirl.ৎ 4 місяці тому

      i know that im two years late, but im so proud of you. you've done so well so far.

  • @mythoughtsnotyours.8140
    @mythoughtsnotyours.8140 3 роки тому +2

    What a sweet boy 😍😍😍😍

  • @ryansack5198
    @ryansack5198 2 роки тому

    I would not have the patience.. bless you

  • @gingerexpress3278
    @gingerexpress3278 2 роки тому

    I just subscribed because you warm my heart and remind me to try a be better
    What a neat cool awesome family

  • @AboArwa1
    @AboArwa1 3 роки тому

    Plot twist: his actually trolling his parents

  • @sarahanderson3960
    @sarahanderson3960 2 роки тому

    This the most beautifulest video ever I watching your videos

  • @nancyb.9759
    @nancyb.9759 2 місяці тому

    I have just started to watch your videos. I began to think about you all more than ever. I have decided that I can’t watch anymore for the fear that i will lose my own life. Maybe i can come back when i can handle empathy 😕

  • @tiana1017
    @tiana1017 3 роки тому +1

    OMG THE CUTEST BABY EVER

  • @TiktikShop
    @TiktikShop Рік тому +1

    Why is it so important he kisses her?

  • @jennimichienzie5451
    @jennimichienzie5451 2 роки тому +2

    Baby so patient 😻

  • @navytackedbay
    @navytackedbay 3 роки тому +1

    Ok but the baby is so cute oh my god

  • @kurtiseata
    @kurtiseata 3 роки тому +11

    I can relate do these videos so much and now I’m questioning if I have OCD. I thought most of these things were normal until I watched these videos, lol.

    • @yos.5684
      @yos.5684 3 роки тому +2

      Same. Like for example if one of my parents had touched certain kind of food I disliked, I couldn't accept being touched by them unless they washed their hands. Thankfully most of those things subsided as I grew up.

  • @gingerpixie28
    @gingerpixie28 Рік тому

    Oh he is so adorable

  • @bananaberry90
    @bananaberry90 3 роки тому

    Thank you for these videos

  • @missannisa5047
    @missannisa5047 3 роки тому

    "Kiss your human sister" 😂

  • @jqdeiii
    @jqdeiii 3 роки тому +1

    I have that exact same cat plush lol

  • @heidilangowski3215
    @heidilangowski3215 3 роки тому +4

    Your kids are adorable! I love babies and kids!

  • @Elizabeth-rq1vi
    @Elizabeth-rq1vi 3 роки тому +25

    Yuck that’s gross! Babies when eating are just gross so Raph not wanting to kiss her is such a “typical “ kid thing!

    • @dawgie8102
      @dawgie8102 3 роки тому +5

      that aint gross.Its the forehead lmao.

    • @-.-34
      @-.-34 3 роки тому

      @@dawgie8102 It’s still gross 🤮

  • @EkaDeva
    @EkaDeva 3 роки тому +2

    It feels like watching a movie with full of cliffhanging

  • @kylianthegoat
    @kylianthegoat 2 роки тому +1

    sorry, i hope you respond to this. Not trying to spread hate at all. But i am concerned about your baby. She seems to be a bit.. overweight for her age? im sorry if this sounds stupid. im not trying to spread hate whatsoever.

  • @jamescarangelo8635
    @jamescarangelo8635 2 роки тому

    She wants that stuffed animal, and he knows lol

  • @travelchiku4820
    @travelchiku4820 2 роки тому +2

    I think you should not force him to do that.. Repeating several times might make him angry..

  • @GeoBot42
    @GeoBot42 10 місяців тому +1

    Yo he's gonna be 11 now!

  • @rajeev_kumar
    @rajeev_kumar 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing children

  • @jenniferblair8664
    @jenniferblair8664 2 роки тому

    My now 18yo son was diagnosed very young. We would have to leave early because he had to go down the steps a certain way, if he didn’t it was back to the top to try it again. He would take more time straightening his toys to all face the same way than he would playing. And he would randomly stop what he was doing to straighten the tv remotes and put them all the same direction. It was so painful to watch.

    • @jenniferblair8664
      @jenniferblair8664 2 роки тому

      PS both of these kiddos are adorable!!! I could nibble Abigail’s chubby cheeks!!!

  • @yennguyen-uj3ri
    @yennguyen-uj3ri 2 місяці тому

    Baby is so cute

  • @barbraevergreen
    @barbraevergreen 3 роки тому +2

    He reminds me of young Sheldon..

    • @qcidgirl.ৎ
      @qcidgirl.ৎ 4 місяці тому

      yeah!! my exact thoughts. they seem similar

  • @rubymuasya3531
    @rubymuasya3531 3 роки тому +10

    He’s so cute 🥺

  • @ookipuki
    @ookipuki 3 роки тому +1

    3:00 his smile making me cry 😥🤧

  • @larakalish881
    @larakalish881 2 роки тому

    I find Raphael very intelligent!!

  • @dnice4335
    @dnice4335 2 роки тому

    when my son was 4 i took him out to breakfast and he wanted toast with butter on it. when the waitress came with our order the butter was visible as a pat of butter-
    as minutes went by and the butter melted, my son went crazy bc he did not know where his butter went!!!
    Wheres my butter, wheres my butter he kept repeating...................we thought that was the beginning of OCD triggered by food. It wasnt

  • @abgirl2729
    @abgirl2729 3 роки тому +4

    What was preventing him from giving the kiss?? Was it because she kept moving??? 🤣😩😩🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @darialispacheco1317
      @darialispacheco1317 3 роки тому +27

      No 😅 remember he has OCD which makes him to want everything no less than perfect, he wanted to kiss her on the forehead but she kept moving so he would end up in the cheek or between…which for him that can’t happen because thanks to his OCD even the place where the kiss will go has to be PERFECT (hope this helped you understand a little bit more)

    • @perpetua111vv
      @perpetua111vv 2 роки тому

      bc it isnt clean for him maybe

  • @saffsuff
    @saffsuff 3 роки тому +4

    Abigail proved Rafael was right all along 😁

  • @AngelaMay66
    @AngelaMay66 3 роки тому +1

    I love her face

  • @Oasisbobo
    @Oasisbobo 3 роки тому +5

    Aw what a cute cat

  • @Alexis_marie
    @Alexis_marie 2 роки тому

    Does he really have ocd? What’s his symptoms and how was this diagnosed. Really interested I have a four year old. Also were other perfessonals saying he had something else?

    • @FoolyLiving
      @FoolyLiving  2 роки тому

      Yes. He has ocd and Autism. He was diagnosed at the neurologist and we had him tested because he cried for days after I made him leave a store before he was done straightening up the bottles of shampoo before the age of three..

  • @budrose8900
    @budrose8900 3 роки тому +1

    Its 4am why am I watching this

  • @JonnyTheLeprechaun
    @JonnyTheLeprechaun 10 місяців тому

    Is there anything that they don't argue about ?

  • @samgriner5808
    @samgriner5808 3 роки тому

    This kid is smart!

  • @nywlc
    @nywlc 2 роки тому

    awww theyre so adorableee

  • @kastenne
    @kastenne 3 роки тому +7

    Your boyy is so cute ❤️

  • @reddre3995
    @reddre3995 3 роки тому +8

    OMG, that baby is so pudgy

  • @hannahrose7930
    @hannahrose7930 Рік тому

    How can I help my 6 year old? He has ocd.

    • @Chibiusa-P
      @Chibiusa-P Рік тому

      I'm not a parent but I have OCD. Has he done any CBT with a therapist?