Responding to Mormon DATING TIPS!
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- There are A TON of dating tips out there... especially for members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (otherwise known as Mormons). The emphasis on marriage within the restored Church may be a contributing factor to the tons and tons of dating tips out there, but whatever the reason for the dating advice, we decided to respond to some random suggestions we found online.
Sabrina, Kwaku, and Justin talk about gender stereotypes, about difficulties specifically in LDS Culture (otherwise known as Mormon culture), and about general dating tips for people of all religions and backgrounds.
What dating tips do YOU have?? Let us know in the comments below!!
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No matter what they say...
SABRINA AND KWAKU FLIRTING THE WHOLE EPISODE
You can't be a bad dater if you don't go on dates!
It’s ideas like that when I wish I was so disabled that I never cared for the idea of wanting a relationship. I mean seriously
You nailed it.
I was watching the chastity video and I got a question. Do Mormons believe that BDSM is a sin?
Anthony Nunez what’s BDSM?
Carlos W. Mercado LDS It stands for bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism. You know, like that Twilight fan fiction known as Fifty Shades Of Grey(even though those books supposedly do a bad and incorrect representation of it).
"Don't change anything, don't change yourself" is terrible advice brought on by modern culture of Self First. The point of a successful relationship is in understanding that you are becoming more than yourself and that it requires work on both ends to become two halves of a whole. NO two people will match perfectly, you have to be willing and able to change the pieces to your puzzle a bit and vice versa so that the two of you fit together- as perfectly as you can.
Like squares in triangle holes. But instead of simple shapes it's complex patterns forming shapes with dozens to hundreds of sides trying to link together.
I just think they mean the fundamental aspects of yourself like just be honest about who you are, what you like, your goals in life. But also be open, be flexible, be willing to compromise and work through challenges.
You guys are hilarious! Great episode! And Justin, I think it’s awesome you’re open to being a stay-at-home dad. Just a word of warning though...being a stay-at-home mom is the hardest job I’ve ever had to do. It’s A LOT of work. ;-)
Respect I'm still single but am disabled and going blind so being the breadwinner is out but I'm glad I still can say I will be a great Dad someday as it doesn't stop me doing my best every day
I have to disagree with the compliments thing. Both people should give compliments. I give compliments to strangers at school all the time. I’ve been on maybe 5 first dates in the last couple months and only one guy complimented me because he wanted to kiss me, and then never went on a second date.
Kwaku is a feminist? Iconic
Okay, Justin’s voice is amazing! Did not anticipate it
Madison Cook awww, thank you!! Haha
I’m not LDS, but omg do I love the community. You guys seem so fun!!
Is Sabrina a host now??
Kwaku seems to be the wisest person on the panel.
Thanks God I'm old and married, I can barely stand young people
I'm sure there's a lot of people here interested in reading your love story (me included).
@@BlueJayBirdSaint No se puede, aquí hay publico de todas las edades
@@RickyMon lol
I had a friend who went on one date with a girl and then she tried calling and texting all week even though he never responded. That weekend she showed up at the apartment with crafting supplies, and told the roommates that she was looking for him to try and make a template of his upper body so she could make a pillow of him to snuggle with. it was super creepy.
There are plenty of women who also don't get emotional with intimacy. So I agree there are many women and men who can go deep into something and not actually want to have an emotional relationship.
Hold out for someone who wants to be around you a lot. Do not sell yourself in the hopes that someone will change their mind afterwards. Almost everytime they won't
Some of the dialogue here sounds like it came from an episode of Happy Days. As in "how do I know when she's sincere about her affections for me?" and Ritche Cunningham: "I don't know Potsie. You will have to ask what her friends think."
People who say, "They are destined to be with each other" really don't understand destiny. Destiny is NOT determinism.
The guys complementing too much, I had that happen. It was a YSA convention and a guy tried to spend some time with me at some of the activities. I'm not exactly good with social situations. So a lot of the subtleties I just don't recognise. But the one guy creaped me out. Complementing a girl every 5 minutes about her looks has a tendency to do so. I pretty much tried to avoid him when I could, for the whole 3 days of the convention.
Lol I'm dead. I can't with kwakuel, so hilarious lol
HHAHAHHA..quite some tips.."'Be ware of agressive gals..'' LOL
2:30. That isn't a stereotype. Listen to Dr. Jordan Peterson sometime. He's a clinical psychologist who delves into the psychological differences between men and women.
8:30 dang Justin! Nice singing lol
“Guys fall in love with what they see and girls fall in love with what they hear. That’s why girls wear makeup and guys lie.” -Some dude in my Facebook feed
Justin is spitting gobs of truth
Beautiful hair 💙
Literally, I have never seen a Sabrina anywhere in the church EXCEPT for myself. Sabrina, you just found yourself a new little sister.... dun dun duHHNNNHNN!
I'm a convert, I've only been a member for about 6 months, and I've been dating a member for almost a year. I've heard all of the 3Ds (date, dunk, dump) stories, and I've always been a bit insecure about her intentions with/for me. I don't go to BYU, and she does, so we've been trying the distance thing for a while. She says she loves me but when we got home for winter break, she told me she would never consider marrying a man who wasn't a return missionary. I don't know how to feel. I don't think I've felt a personal calling to serve a mission when I've prayed about it, and my parents aren't supportive of the idea either. I guess I'm wondering if she's just trying to move on to the third D😓
Yea prob. Also, why did you convert to Mormonism?
J4ck, don’t listen to those fretchin putchurrs. The gospel is still true whether she dumps you or not. That being said, it sucks that you have to go through this insecurity. I’ve been played by girls (all Latter Day Saints) and I’ve had my heart ripped one too many times.
So take it from me when I say this:
Our best may not be worth it for the wrong girl, but even our worst can be worth it with the best girl.
Girls are the worst; but if you wanna be happy with a godly woman, learn to be a godly man and she’ll find you easier. At least that’s what I’m doing
Yes, let me second what Arbiter said: Be the kind of man that your ideal girl would want to marry.
People set their own rules on life all the time, like, "I'll only marry a return missionary." This is often done with good intentions, but what if God has different plans for them? We'd sell ourselves short, or set ourselves up for a major humbling experience, if we cling too tightly to our own desires, no matter how good we may think they are.
Your girlfriend may or may not be heading to the 3rd D, but if she is, then frankly, you don't need her! That whole 3D thing is absolutely disgusting, and IMO very unbecoming of someone calling themselves a *Saint* in these Latter Days. So if that's what she's doing, then she wouldn't have been good for you anyway, *even if you had served a mission!* Stay true to the One who will never leave you, and He'll lead you to a girl you're ready for, and who's ready for you.
At least you have a valid excuse for not serving a mission. Try being a lifelong member who didn't serve. It's a big sore spot for me (I didn't go because of lifelong health concerns and what I only recently found out was lifelong depression for as long as I can remember, so I didn't know any different). Yet it isn't unreasonable of them to want a returned missionary. For one, it's been put on a pedestal their whole lives. For two, it does have an impact on the person's character and expectations you can have for worthiness and life goals.
So I don't begrudge anyone the desire to marry a returned missionary.
It IS very common for women to marry someone else while you go off to serve a mission though, so if that ends up happening don't worry about it being due to DDD, it happens to many people regardless of whether or not they converted.
But if it happens, she wasn't meant for you. Life sucks sometimes and we go through painful learning experiences and most people will probably get their heart ripped out at least once.
Just focus on being the best person you can be and listen to the holy spirit influencing your life as you stay worthy to enter the temple someday.
@@supercalifragic1551 "[A mission] does have an impact on the person's character and expectations you can have for worthiness and life goals." So does not being able to serve a mission for medical reasons, or because one joined the Church late in life, or for any other honest reason, and you still stick to the Church anyway. That kind of trial really builds up a person a lot in its own way. I know we've been mainly talking to J4CK, but I just thought I should say that to you here. :)
On the question of being aggressive. I'm the opposite of that kind of a woosie
I am so glad I am not single. It is NOT easy! Of course, being married and having kids is no walk in the park either.
Great video! I completely agree about the double standards!
I think it's odd that western culture from religious to non religious are having such a hard time dating. I think maybe a big change is coming maybe arrange or something cause if we don't figure this out western society will be done
Do they have a LDS version of Tinder?
No guys and girls go for who they like and we like what we know aka people who look or remind us of family so all it says is hot girls like normal guys becouse they're brothers and dad are normal same with hot guys unless either aren't dateing for compatibility but for compositional bragging rights
Hahahah I loved this video! ♡
9:21 married for 10 years my wife still does that to me. Then i look at Thor and im like okay i can see that. Who am i kidding i aint got shiz on thor and im ok with that. But then black widow comes on and lets just say paybacks a biznitch!
Where did you get that paper of info?
So much fun
I would love to meet a Mormon girl
Kwaku is the most normal & open minded of these people. I can legit see him not lasting in this church (I use this term loosely) for long.
With most girls it’s not what’s on the outside that matters, it’s what’s on the inside...
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... of a guys wallet
Latter Day Arbiter the only guy I ever loved is a cashier at sprouts who lives with two roommates...And he dumped me lol. It’s really personality and soul connection I would rather be in love and struggling than rich and sad/lonely/deceiving someone about my feelings
A Christian woman shouldn’t care about that....Jesus was poor
Kwaku is my animal spirit love you all guys 😂✨ hugs from Argentina 🇦🇷
Are u still single
This whole thing sounds like it's geared towards young teenagers. This was terrible! LoL
omg I would like to meet Kwaku so bad haha
All three of you guys are WOKE as Hek
I'm Mormon mgtow
Me too. lol
Aim higher.