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  • Wife Tries To BOSS Her Husband AROUND And Gets Put In Her Place | Couples Coaching
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 401

  • @raymnsmith
    @raymnsmith 29 днів тому +108

    Cooley touched on it briefly. This woman cannot grasp that asking her man to check another man has the potential to quickly turn violent.

    • @N8ive49er
      @N8ive49er 29 днів тому +12

      So here's what I find somewhat funny about that dynamic because of how true it is. We men like to talk about how women are so emotional, yet there are so many of us that lack emotional control/maturity to the point where we allow ourselves to be so emotionally impulsive/reactionary that simply being checked in a conversation could potentially result in physical violence lol...how is that logical and not also emotional? lol

    • @bunchycarter8457
      @bunchycarter8457 29 днів тому +8

      @@N8ive49er Establishing a hierarchy isn't "emotional". When you "check" someone it's establishing an hierarchy, and or order, and setting boundaries. A reaction to it isn't necessarily "impulsive", but proactive for any future males to not step out of bounds. Wars have been started for less... You think like a female. Respectfully.

    • @N8ive49er
      @N8ive49er 29 днів тому +9

      @@bunchycarter8457 Oh boy...so help me follow your logic, because you're trying to tell me (and anyone reading this) that reactions are proactive. I genuinely believe you don't understand that proactive behavior is the exact opposite of reactive behavior. A reaction isn't proactive.
      Establishing a hierarchy and setting boundaries are examples of proactive behaviors. When you lay out parameters, then people know what to expect in response when they violate those parameters.
      Now what is the purpose of establishing hierarchy? Generally it's to protect the ego from being challenged, because for the immature person (man or woman), when the ego is challenged they get flustered, and then react based on an emotional impulse/stimuli. This is basic psychology my friend; facts, not feelings.
      Now, the mature, measured behavior to being challenged is to respond (not react). I'll grant you the benefit of the doubt that maybe you meant to say that responding to your boundaries being violated isn't necessarily impulsive, because if that's what you meant, then we fully agree. I'm just pointing out that when you're using the framework of setting boundaries or "establishing hierarchy" for the sake of protecting yourself from being challenged, you're engaging in stunting your own growth.
      Strength isn't measured by a lack of resistance. In truth, strength is actually measured by one's ability to overcome resistance. Meaning if I never lift a single weight, how can I then make the claim that I'm strong and it be true? Whereas if I've lifted 100lbs, 150lbs or 200lbs, I now have a metric by which I can make the statement "I am strong". Granted there are different types of strength, both external and internal that I won't get into here, but just trying to use an analogy so you have a better understanding of what I was saying.
      Cheers dude,

    • @thebassmentsoundtbs
      @thebassmentsoundtbs 29 днів тому +6

      @@N8ive49er She wants Roy to check the hommie, but she cant even check herself

    • @bigmizzymike
      @bigmizzymike 29 днів тому +1

      ​@@thebassmentsoundtbsBingo!

  • @EdwinZ.Gonzalez
    @EdwinZ.Gonzalez 28 днів тому +135

    Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash

    • @LauraWNolan
      @LauraWNolan 28 днів тому

      amazing, i am kinda in a similar situation, how did you handle it?

    • @EdwinZ.Gonzalez
      @EdwinZ.Gonzalez 28 днів тому

      well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

    • @LauraWNolan
      @LauraWNolan 28 днів тому

      please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

    • @EdwinZ.Gonzalez
      @EdwinZ.Gonzalez 28 днів тому

      her name is Quelani Eileen Freja, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

    • @EdwinZ.Gonzalez
      @EdwinZ.Gonzalez 28 днів тому

      you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

  • @MALTHEMASTERBARBER
    @MALTHEMASTERBARBER 29 днів тому +16

    It is! Two men talking, KNOW YOUR PLACE ‼️

  • @thankyou770
    @thankyou770 29 днів тому +61

    Women need to know their place. Period.
    Situations like this is why dudes lose their lives.
    She wants her dude to go at his friend because SHE stepped out of pocket.

    • @FFTsteel
      @FFTsteel 26 днів тому +1

      Facts. We aren't equal. When women are speaking to each other, I never get involved. They need 5o understand and register this.

  • @cryptohound
    @cryptohound 29 днів тому +49

    She cannot admit to the fact she embarrassed herself ✨

    • @ClevelandFieldLLC
      @ClevelandFieldLLC 29 днів тому

      You'll findthat women are the most prideful creatures on earth, they don't take Ls well

    • @LivingSingo
      @LivingSingo 29 днів тому +3

      All she had to do is be quiet and listen to what her husband and friend are saying before interrupting she wouldn’t have to ask.

    • @lekeathonwilson4817
      @lekeathonwilson4817 21 день тому

      She admitted she was wrong

  • @therealkflo..
    @therealkflo.. 29 днів тому +58

    I just wanted him to say shimmy shimmy ya so bad 😂

  • @chrisg3126
    @chrisg3126 Місяць тому +48

    Women are meant to be seen, not heard 👀😂

  • @chrisadams1804
    @chrisadams1804 29 днів тому +10

    He was right and she should have stayed out of their conversation.

  • @eugenetrammell
    @eugenetrammell 25 днів тому +4

    I’m mind blown that he had to dummy down his lesson on manners, and she still seems confused😂😂😂

  • @cvnyouseeit
    @cvnyouseeit 29 днів тому +12

    Any ladies watching this, learn from this, stay out ya mans convos, point blank period.
    For us fellas, don’t let other men talk crazy to your girl ‘cause any homie of mine woulda had to dress up that talk tho ngl

    • @TheRealPrinceCastro
      @TheRealPrinceCastro 28 днів тому +2

      He said this is my wife.... She then goes on to tell the world, we're not actually married, we're commonlaw married & have a kids together...
      She STILLLL not following his lead.... she supposed to 2nd whatever her man say.... period... it's a unit... her not understanding that, it's easy to see why this situation happened.
      If u stand by your man & be silent, you'll quickly learn what they're speaking about. True or false?

    • @madlen3015
      @madlen3015 25 днів тому

      !!!!!

    • @222lanna
      @222lanna 23 дні тому

      Then you think your wife shouldn't respect all men, just you?

    • @anraegodley-cooper6321
      @anraegodley-cooper6321 23 дні тому

      ​@@222lannaNAILED IT

    • @cvnyouseeit
      @cvnyouseeit 21 день тому

      @@222lanna she #will respect me MORE than any other man, long as she does that she won’t have to worry about OTHER men, but see that’s a main part of the issue with most women today, not knowing how to mind YOU & YOURS will leave you salty & $ingle …

  • @Lawrencewillbedone
    @Lawrencewillbedone 29 днів тому +16

    Why is she so interested in what any man is talking about other than her husband?

    • @1965..
      @1965.. 27 днів тому +2

      Exactly

  • @JeromeAverett-wy9xl
    @JeromeAverett-wy9xl 29 днів тому +11

    I didn’t know Caribbean women didn’t know how to mind their business when their man tells them 👀 the western world/internet really.

    • @thankyou770
      @thankyou770 29 днів тому +6

      They normally do, but you'll have a few odd balls here n there.

  • @ivansent
    @ivansent 29 днів тому +14

    She was disrespectful, but the friend overstepped, he should have told Roy to check his woman, if your homie's girl is acting up you check your homie, because he should be checking his girl.

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 28 днів тому +3

      Factz, I don't get why the majority of dudes in the comment section can't understand this fact. Even if my girl is out of line, you don't need to address her. Let me know, and i'll handle it. Especially if your my so-called friend. Don't put our friendship in jeopardy by stepping to my woman Infront of me just like I would show you the same respect if your woman was around. Common Sense, and Common Courtesy aint a thing anymore I see

    • @dougferguson7079
      @dougferguson7079 27 днів тому +7

      @@lch7876if your girl disrespects me she’ll get it back.. you should’ve taught her before you brought her out… you can’t tell someone how to react to disrespect… say she hits a man , should he come find you to check you? How will she learn her lesson? It’ll be at your expense.. better to not deal with disrespectful women at all

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 27 днів тому

      @@dougferguson7079 Why would "MY" woman just randomly hit you? What did you do for her to hit you, while she's with me? So, it sounds like in this scenario your the one that needs training, and would need to get handled, because in what scenario would my, or any mans woman randomly hit a man while their with their man? You gotta come up with something more believable than that my guy.

    • @dougferguson7079
      @dougferguson7079 27 днів тому +3

      @@lch7876 i need training lol…a job as a man is to hold himself and everyone around him accountable.. I have a “wife” of 13 years so I think I know wtf I’m doing… she shouldn’t be disrespectful to begin with and if she is you need to be man enough to understand a real man is gonna correct disrespectful behavior… he man didn’t cuss her out he didn’t call her out of her name… so really all he did was put her in her place.. my wife doesn’t disrespect that part was understood from the beginning.. we don’t have situations like this lol… ur woman must run u my guy

    • @anraegodley-cooper6321
      @anraegodley-cooper6321 23 дні тому

      ​@@dougferguson7079NAILED IT, sick of these beta males and their masculine clowns acting like it's ok to do whatever they want.

  • @nigelrodriguez210
    @nigelrodriguez210 29 днів тому +12

    Big up trinidad 😂

  • @Mr.DeeJay954
    @Mr.DeeJay954 29 днів тому +4

    When feminism of the modern variation meets Caribbean culture, it doesn't mesh well because the two philosophies don't mix.

  • @1965..
    @1965.. 27 днів тому +3

    She got checked and didn’t like it.

  • @Diamond-cz6uj
    @Diamond-cz6uj 29 днів тому +3

    Great question, phenomenal solution, beautiful couple. Good for sis taking accountability.

  • @Beyondmeasurable
    @Beyondmeasurable 29 днів тому +2

    Appreciate your work. Really helping people get back to reality!

  • @BrooklynMayor718
    @BrooklynMayor718 29 днів тому +4

    She wanted to act like she wears the boxers around that "friend" of his.... She definitely gives off the vybe of she must of liked that man's friend or something😂😂😂

  • @sogie1042
    @sogie1042 29 днів тому +1

    Cooley the distortion of Good culture causes people to forget how to behave properly. I love your response.

  • @lch7876
    @lch7876 29 днів тому +10

    This is one of those situations where I would say circumstances dictate, who, what, where, when, and why. Personally I think the friend, and the husband were wrong. Firstly the friend because watch how you speak to my woman, because would you like it if I spoke to your woman like that. Mutual respect where if we were truly friends we wouldn't put eachother in uncomfortable situations like that with each others women. And, honestly when she explained the setting of the situation, her husband friend could have politely said something like, "no disrespect to you, or my brotha sista, but this is a private conversation between us."

    • @ezekwu
      @ezekwu 29 днів тому +1

      stop simping bro...

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 29 днів тому +4

      @@ezekwu My bad you think being a respectful friend is s!mping, oh well we can't all be dependable and loyal Men. Snakes🐍 are in abundance these days 😁👍☕ and I'm definitely not your bro

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 29 днів тому

      @@ezekwu Stop being a disloyal $!mp, Snake 🐍

    • @ezekwu
      @ezekwu 29 днів тому +1

      @@lch7876 so you wouldn't check your girl???

    • @Kgzfaccacekdldbxbdbdb
      @Kgzfaccacekdldbxbdbdb 29 днів тому

      You are so weak, call a spade a spade and grow some balls

  • @ecc6277
    @ecc6277 19 днів тому

    I actually have alot of respect for that couple . They articulated themselves very well, and she regardless of being wrong has taken the time to have a discussion about her actions which a lot of women would not even bother doing . Great one here brother

  • @earlsylvan1294
    @earlsylvan1294 29 днів тому +3

    My girl just suffering from a bruised ego, so she'll heal.
    Cooley's 100% correct in that regardless to how informal the setting, you hadda try and read the room. If you misread, doh beat up and humble yuhself.

    • @StanlyTPT
      @StanlyTPT 29 днів тому

      "you hadda"... stop perverting language. If you want to be seen as a man, then educate yourself & speak like a Man. Cooley is also guilty of this. He needs to be a good example of a well spoken man. The dumbing down of language is a direct result of the dumbing down of the people. Cheers

    • @skrillztheentourage
      @skrillztheentourage 29 днів тому +1

      ​@@StanlyTPTAre you ok bro? Lol

    • @earlsylvan1294
      @earlsylvan1294 29 днів тому

      @@StanlyTPT I eh too sure who you is, buh I can assure you dat it's 100% proper trini dialect.
      Also, part of not just being educated, but edified, is your ability to get your message across to those who need it the most.
      Travel well.

  • @MrBarksdale149
    @MrBarksdale149 29 днів тому +3

    Well said spoken like men in my generation. We black men over 60 gree up with females who never ever crossed the line of men conversations because it could lead to the female writing a check her ass can't cash (fight) then the men fighting over her feelings 😅😂

  • @PavlovTheory
    @PavlovTheory 24 дні тому +1

    Thank you so much for articulating your response! I've been giving my girlfriend the Bombastic Side Eye this entire episode with a few arm nudges.

  • @devondevon6992
    @devondevon6992 29 днів тому +3

    great conversation!!!! great break down !!!! hope she learn some manners!!!!!

  • @VaughnMcGregor
    @VaughnMcGregor 28 днів тому +9

    So three things are at play here. #1. His wife was out of pocket for jumping in men's business while 2 men are conversing. #2. The man speaking to her husband was out of pocket for checking the wife instead of staying in his lane. #3. The husband checked his wife in front of the man instead of checking the man for disrespecting both of them. The husband should've took control of the situation by excusing his wife for later discussion about the matter meanwhile turning to the man in conversation and emphatically telling him to never disrespect him nor his wife like that again or it will be a problem. If my wife is out of pocket, that's for me to check (and not some other man). That man disrespected his presence by saying that to her and made him look soft and weak. You gotta check that whole situation, brotherman 🙂‍↔️👉🏾. 💯

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 28 днів тому +6

      My guy I gotta like your comment, and give you a 💯 because great minds think alike. It's like dudes in this comment section have no common sense, or respect for their boi's; because how you gonna check my girl Infront of me. If you got a problem with her either tell me to my face right there, or pull me to the side. But, you should never feel like you have a reason to speak to her in a disrespectful manner in-front of my face. Otherwise i'm feel like you don't have respect for me, or our friendship, and you trying to make me look weak in front of my woman and whoever else is there. Show me the same respect I would show you and your girl. Its like people don't know what respect and common courtesy is anymore.

    • @madlen3015
      @madlen3015 25 днів тому

      !!!!

    • @222lanna
      @222lanna 23 дні тому +2

      So she doesn't have to respect men in general, just her man? What?? ... I would never ask a friend of my husband's what they are speaking about. And if I did and my husband defended ME I'd think he had a fever. But it wouldn't happen because I would never question another man.

    • @VaughnMcGregor
      @VaughnMcGregor 23 дні тому +1

      @@222lanna Please go back and check point #1 that I addressed 🤦🏾‍♂️.

    • @charlesrogers8795
      @charlesrogers8795 21 день тому +1

      This right here is the best, most intelligent response. Wisdom from witness and experience.

  • @godiswithme8653
    @godiswithme8653 22 дні тому

    This has become one of my favorite UA-cam channels. I am a new subscriber and I love the content ‼️💖🫂

  • @beautybymj98
    @beautybymj98 8 днів тому

    I agree. Even when our landlord speaks to us I let my bf converse with him. Said landlord asked us one time if it was okay for him to give our daughter a slice of pizza he just got and i looked at my bf to answer 😂and i don’t ever think it’s cool to join in two men having a conversation.

  • @bravokilo1972
    @bravokilo1972 20 днів тому

    Most fights between Men are NOT til death. It's mainly to address disrespect & establish dominance in a corrective manner. Especially when between a close friend or simple acquaintance..

  • @Raymundus1350
    @Raymundus1350 29 днів тому

    Really good vid! The patient samurai with the explanations. Very informative.

  • @sansharedmond9373
    @sansharedmond9373 8 днів тому

    Sista Zebi UK London. Sond advice. Hope this couple keep successful . I loved that Roy callrd in with his wife. Plus she'd just met this friend

  • @ChristabelleSkinner-ez6fw
    @ChristabelleSkinner-ez6fw 24 дні тому +1

    I am a Trinidadian woman and we were raised differently. Some of our women however are beginning to pattern and follow foreign influences especially in their relationship and the typical Trini man will not tolerate it. This lady is disrespectful and trying to justify it.

  • @beneditoxanichamaximiano6008
    @beneditoxanichamaximiano6008 29 днів тому +3

    Nanananana ... She jumped in the conversation cause there is something wrong and got her triggered. Simple. She's got skeletons.

    • @curlinghaldane9390
      @curlinghaldane9390 29 днів тому +1

      OHHHHHH! Somebody that's in touch with reality finally, thank you, proving my point, these chicks is the same all over the world, especially in the black community!!!

  • @dopekid111
    @dopekid111 27 днів тому +1

    TRINIDAD! 🇹🇹

  • @TacoPoweredTimeTraveler
    @TacoPoweredTimeTraveler 29 днів тому +1

    If a woman can hold down a job, she should apply to those same guidelines to following workplace leaders to complete a task. A relationship isn't much different. It's no surprise that many women who disrespect men also cannot hold down a job. They don't have a problem with men, they have content for authority. Choose wisely gentlemen.

  • @mizkeen
    @mizkeen 29 днів тому +3

    No! The proper way is sit your ass down and try to catch up with the conversation.. Imagine interrupting a group conversation introducing yourself and ask what they're speaking about! That seems even more obnoxious .

  • @bchisolm44
    @bchisolm44 26 днів тому +1

    A lot of women don't understand the power of having a man's life in your hands. As Cooley said, we're willing to die for you. You can't be willing to gamble my life on something so meaningless. Use that power wisely, you may only get to call on it once sadly!

    • @robertwilliams7144
      @robertwilliams7144 24 дні тому +1

      Thats the problem, society has us out of order. Her life is in OUR hands is how it's supposed to be. The feeling that she felt is natural, and she's looking to her man to help her with it, which is what we say we want. She didn't tell him HOW to respond, she just expected him to address the disrespect she felt from his friend. As men, only base level thinking would assume that the only response is to act a fool, and that that's what she wanted. No, He could've accessed the situation and pulled them to the side individually to check both. If the friend respects him, he'll be open to listening, and their can be an understanding between men on his boundaries going forward when it comes to his woman. He can also let her know how to move in that setting/situation, and if she still doesn't feel comfortable, THEY leave. His responsibility is to his woman, and feeling safe/protected isn't just physical, but psychological as well. A woman getting checked a certain way by another man in front of her man, regardless of right or wrong, can cause damage if you don't address her feeling unprotected. The responsibility of being the head.

    • @bchisolm44
      @bchisolm44 24 дні тому

      @@robertwilliams7144 he said he addressed his friend, she didn't think he did enough. That's what my point was referring to.

  • @edwardgilbert3232
    @edwardgilbert3232 29 днів тому +3

    Exactly, she was definitely out of line, women interjecting in men's conversations have caused fights

  • @eddyalvaross2195
    @eddyalvaross2195 25 днів тому +4

    She want Roy to at least tell the friend : "why do you have to be aggressive like this bro?"
    Because she was hurt emotionally and needed the help of her husband.
    The best thing to do is to avoid anything which could potentially lead to an escalation. It is wisdom.
    Now, if the woman is hurt, she can avoid to speak to that friend of him again and just ignore him,
    not even greeting him. This way she could show how she's hurt without causing any escalation or
    harm. Wisdom matters!

    • @TrollSumn
      @TrollSumn 8 днів тому

      She would never be in a situation to do so if she didn’t insert herself into their convo.

    • @eddyalvaross2195
      @eddyalvaross2195 7 днів тому

      @@TrollSumn Unfortunately, she can't reverse time and have the chance to avoid putting herself in the unwanted situation.

  • @hazir38
    @hazir38 19 днів тому

    By her holding the phone towards her most of the time.. told me she don’t respect her man.. she wants attention from other men.. this is really why she wanted to bud in the friends convo..
    she can’t be trusted..

  • @mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995
    @mariamoncadajamaicamelovet3995 28 днів тому +1

    I wouldn’t have interrupted them in the first place. I know my place.

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 28 днів тому

      And even if you did interrupt it's not my so-called friends place to say anything to you about it. I'm the one who is supposed to speak to you about it, and not him. That respect, and common courtesy goes both ways, especially from a friend.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 16 днів тому

      @@lch7876 be quiet

  • @Gr8rome407
    @Gr8rome407 10 днів тому

    I agree mostly but the friend is supposed to speak to the husband and express to the husband "your wife is out of line please address that with her"

  • @djcarson481
    @djcarson481 7 днів тому

    Podcast reach the Caribbean 😂😂😂

  • @Mike-yr4iy
    @Mike-yr4iy 25 днів тому

    yea ain’t no man checking my wife including her father. Especially in front of me.

  • @lindajohnson878
    @lindajohnson878 26 днів тому

    Cooley explained very well.
    Some women don't know their place.
    His friend should have told her to mind her business .
    She appears to be toxic.
    Some women need to look up the word classy
    She was very disrespectful and did not take responsibility......red flags

  • @giovannimiles1
    @giovannimiles1 12 днів тому

    My homie better not tell my woman to shut up….and she shuts up.why would she be doing what another man say do tf.

  • @jilearjackson9863
    @jilearjackson9863 24 дні тому

    You the man coolie

  • @premiersignconcepts8808
    @premiersignconcepts8808 24 дні тому

    Trinidad 🇹🇹 🇹🇹 🇹🇹 in the house

  • @byronherbert6951
    @byronherbert6951 29 днів тому +1

    Trinidsd in the house❤

  • @Dearest_Kenyetta
    @Dearest_Kenyetta 29 днів тому

    To be honest as a woman I am like the friend. I'm an introvert and I don't typically talk to all people. So when I am having a conversation it is usually very private with someone I trust... and I don't welcome people who feel entitled to just interrupt or insert themselves into my conversations because I'm rather private.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 29 днів тому +3

      a WOMAN should never inject herself between two men. NEVER. I even told my mother that YEARS ago when I was young. Told her not to interfere why daddy and I are arguing. A song will argue with his father. Part of the process. I told her do not say anything. Years later, today, if my father and I argue (rarely) she just sits there and is QUIET.
      edit: before she would join my dad. lol I told her we don't need you in our convo. stay out.

  • @cincyfanjunglecity9871
    @cincyfanjunglecity9871 24 дні тому

    Off subject , I love the Jamaican accent.

  • @ryanking1223
    @ryanking1223 24 дні тому

    I agree with u bro "know your place "if two men are reasoning how can she inject herself and even ask what the convo was about🤦🏿‍♂️🤣🤣 how would she react if he did it to her when she and one of her friends were speaking ? 🤔your wife should not expect u to check him on it since it was not u or her business either 👎🏿💯stop trying to justify being malicious or nosey 😂😂

  • @skrillztheentourage
    @skrillztheentourage 29 днів тому

    12:30 "All up in the Kool aid and don't know the flavor" lol

  • @g4do
    @g4do 29 днів тому

    I've encountered a lot of people, mainly women, that rudely interject reacting to something that was said even though they weren't a part of the conversation. One of my uncles was notorious for randomly joining a conversation with people he doesn't know at all . I don't like it . Don't interject or randomly join my conversation especially when it's getting good. It's worse than taking food out of my plate when I don't know you .

  • @jessicaanthony9300
    @jessicaanthony9300 9 днів тому

    That’s Caribbean women 😂😂😂

  • @dinkdaplaymaka
    @dinkdaplaymaka 29 днів тому

    Example of they do not want to understand!!! This is baffling

  • @isaiahgomez6671
    @isaiahgomez6671 29 днів тому +2

    I think they were both disrespectful. My friend as a man should look me and have the courtesy of saying yo check your girl. Also the girl was being disrespectful as well butting in. I think he should say yo that’s my wife respect, then I will be the one to correct my wife not another man in front of me.

  • @madlen3015
    @madlen3015 25 днів тому

    Im sorry but if a man talks to me like that infront of my man and he didnt protect me we are going separate ways

  • @deeel5692
    @deeel5692 23 дні тому

    I'm a Man and the guest was rude to his Hostess. The husband was weak for not checking the guest on his tone when he spoke to the Mans "Baby Momma". The fact that she is not his wife may have been a factor.

  • @starlyght_illumine144
    @starlyght_illumine144 13 днів тому

    The woman was wrong, but I’m the one to address my woman not another man!
    If my friend does this I view this as a disrespect to me. If he respects me he would talk to me off air about addressing the situation, but he wouldn’t have to, I would nip it in the bud.

  • @j_o1ne483
    @j_o1ne483 Місяць тому +10

    Cooly I normally agree with most things you say but aint no man going to let his friend talk like that to his girl.

    • @bigo975
      @bigo975 29 днів тому +20

      Sounds like your women wears the pants!

    • @Lil_warner
      @Lil_warner 29 днів тому +18

      His friend did nothing wrong ppl are too soft emotionally

    • @j_o1ne483
      @j_o1ne483 29 днів тому +1

      @bigo975 I wear the pants. My friends would never talk to my girl like that and I wouldn't talk to his girl like that for the simple reason because he knows that If she acts up I would handle it. You letting your friend talk crazy to your girl is wild.

    • @bigo975
      @bigo975 29 днів тому

      @j_o1ne483 U must be from the new era of men, u guys are just too sensitive, hence the reason women don't respect men anymore!

    • @Vision-dd8fl
      @Vision-dd8fl 29 днів тому

      ​@@j_o1ne483How is that crazy talk? It's heiracy. Her husband and the friend are higher in the hierarchy, therefore she got checked. You weak boy and in your feelings

  • @weldscholars8253
    @weldscholars8253 21 день тому

    I would have checked the dude then I would have checked my lady

  • @broshawnwest
    @broshawnwest 6 днів тому

    She doesn't know her place!!

  • @that_kng8120
    @that_kng8120 29 днів тому +4

    I’m sorry, no man is speaking to my wife that way. If they disrespect my wife, they got to see me.

    • @StanlyTPT
      @StanlyTPT 29 днів тому +3

      you be da sofa king... sofa king wee tawdit

    • @ezekwu
      @ezekwu 29 днів тому +4

      stop simping bro...

    • @that_kng8120
      @that_kng8120 28 днів тому

      @@ezekwu simping? No dude tells my wife to hush. Address me and I’ll address the issue. If a man talks to my wife like that he clearly lacks respect for me.

    • @SeawardMari
      @SeawardMari 27 днів тому

      ​@@that_kng8120just like your wife has no manners like yourself

    • @MarMar89
      @MarMar89 22 дні тому

      @@that_kng8120yo wife just might wear the pants in yall relationship lol.. simp

  • @bokcmeatyvstheworld8273
    @bokcmeatyvstheworld8273 18 днів тому

    Wu tang is forever

  • @RemoteControl-q4o
    @RemoteControl-q4o 20 днів тому

    This was dope

  • @jorgebravo8290
    @jorgebravo8290 29 днів тому +1

    That dude looks like ODB

  • @IDonGivAvok
    @IDonGivAvok 10 днів тому

    I see she still ain't find her place...

  • @babiii3m
    @babiii3m 23 дні тому

    She was definitely wrong. But no man should correct a next man wife. Her husband was supposed to responsibly and respectfully put her in her lane

  • @savgxniino5380
    @savgxniino5380 29 днів тому +1

    I usually agree but na.. he alpha maled him and can’t be mad if he hit his chick

  • @jackdope
    @jackdope 29 днів тому +1

    Nah they were both wrong, even though she jumped in conversation, it was her husbands place to tell her to stay out and he would do that from the side not right infront of pple and he was supposed to tell his friend he is not supposed to tlk to his wife like that
    Coz if your friend disrespects yur wife infront of you ,that means he doesn’t respect you too
    The friend should be like hey man, tlk to your wife , this and this ain’t cool

    • @keithingram8690
      @keithingram8690 29 днів тому +1

      Well, truthfully, if they have been lifetime friends, everybody at the party it shouldn’t be a problem for him to say what he said, and it should not be a problem with the husband because we are all family in this and friends. People are taking the little comment way out of context she put her nose in someone else’s conversation in the wrong way and then decided she wanted her husband to have something to say about something that involved neither one of them.. and depending on the way, she reacted, it could’ve gotten things taken in the total wrong direction because the man did nothing wrong. All of you people in this comment section are attempting to make it a respect or disrespect thing when it was not about that it was a simple statement made between friends.

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 28 днів тому

      Factz! 💯

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 28 днів тому

      @@keithingram8690 Naahhh although I understand what you trying to say. It don't matter, because you don't know which way the wind is gonna blow that particular day. If you truly consider someone your friend, then show them the same respect, and common courtesy you would want them to show you infront of your girl. Their is a difference between the woman I lay with, and my boi. If you have a problem with her, or my kids you speak to me, you don't have nothing to say to them period. I don't care how long you've none them, because if your my so-called friend you've none me long enough to show me respect by pulling me to the side, otherwise your risking our friendship over some petty shiii that could have been handled respectfully. Your pride ain't worth losing a good friend over.

  • @charlesrogers8795
    @charlesrogers8795 21 день тому

    She still hasn't truly learned the lesson. She still wants to control, and manipulate men. Just by her over talking bouth her husband, and the host.

  • @AthleticJawn
    @AthleticJawn 29 днів тому +51

    Although she was wrong for intervening that way; the husband should’ve checked his friend! Nobody should be checking your woman other than you. The friend should’ve been checked just like she should’ve

    • @j_artis_b
      @j_artis_b 29 днів тому +8

      Agreed

    • @mosesprops5754
      @mosesprops5754 29 днів тому +8

      lol it can kinda be right but it probably took that to make the husband stand up better to his wife it probably was good it happened like that .

    • @T.image79
      @T.image79 29 днів тому +25

      No.
      Anyone in a conversation has the right to close it off to ANY intruder.
      You invite yourself to any place or conversation then you have to be ready to be pushed out by ANYBODY.
      It is a simple case of manners.
      Anyone can tell you anything if you push yourself into any place.

    • @T.image79
      @T.image79 29 днів тому +24

      If no one should check your woman but you then that means you should teach your woman manners first.
      Women acting like this caused needless fights between men.
      So it is all about putting the woman in order first.

    • @j_artis_b
      @j_artis_b 29 днів тому +11

      @@T.image79 I disagree. If she doesn’t have manners, then why is she your woman? A real woman should not have to be put in order. You as a man can’t teach a woman to be a woman. She should be willing to follow your lead

  • @LJBJ50
    @LJBJ50 29 днів тому +5

    I think it's better just to tell her privately bc if my wife's embarrassed I'm embarrassed. I'm not interested in proving my dominance over her in front of ppl in that manner. A girlfriend I'm not too serious with, maybe. You live longer being kind to your wife bc then she wont spike your food💯

    • @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993
      @mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 29 днів тому +5

      You will pay with your life for not controlling her in public and she will move on to another guy while you're gone

    • @LJBJ50
      @LJBJ50 29 днів тому +1

      @@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 Your wife's not a dog to discipline in front of ppl. I think she'll resent you and leave you for not standing up for her. That's also her house so any conversations going on in the open she's entitled to. But to think it's okay to let another man check your wife is crazy to me 😵‍💫

    • @blkmagneto1521
      @blkmagneto1521 29 днів тому +1

      It's not about proving your dominance... An out of line woman can get you, her, or the other person in jail or worse.
      You have to change your simp mind set.🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @blkmagneto1521
      @blkmagneto1521 29 днів тому

      ​@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993facts 💯🙌🏾

    • @blkmagneto1521
      @blkmagneto1521 29 днів тому

      ​@@LJBJ50you won't be thinking crazy once she gets you killed. Just saying my guy. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @James-ju3ok
    @James-ju3ok 29 днів тому

    Great video

  • @bravokilo1972
    @bravokilo1972 20 днів тому

    Good stuff Cooley. But technically it's not "budging in," it's "butting in" as pertained in this video...

  • @mrtimothycwilsn6241
    @mrtimothycwilsn6241 26 днів тому

    She wanted to be seen by the guy he was talking to

  • @ramellmerced8899
    @ramellmerced8899 Місяць тому +1

    Keep up the great work

  • @lindadavies3281
    @lindadavies3281 29 днів тому

    I'm too distracted: he looks like Buckwheat from the Little Rascals. 😏

  • @YoungKipp
    @YoungKipp 29 днів тому

    Cooley vs evil Cooley

  • @ivorlett4253
    @ivorlett4253 29 днів тому +2

    Trini woman behave youself.Ah know alyou dread when alyou ready eeh.

  • @marcoandell
    @marcoandell 28 днів тому +1

    She played herself
    Get this bird out of here

  • @robertwilliams7144
    @robertwilliams7144 24 дні тому

    This is unfortunate that we have young brothers "teaching" couples/men about women being emotional, when the male ego he wants women to cater to is oozing with it. THAT'S what would make 2 men talking, escalate to physical violence. Not being able to control emotions is what makes stepping on someone's shoe or accidentally bumping into someone end in gun violence.
    Understand that hierarchy he's speaking of is actually the order that was created and set by God, who's the expert on how his creation functions best. But only using logic leaves out the other laws that God put in place for balance and instruction on how to function within the hierarchy, and that's FOOLERY. Having partial understanding is almost worse than total ignorance cause you're tricked into thinking you know it all.
    There's a way and order to all things. That lady didn’t feel safe with another man addressing he as her man should have. Her man should've felt disrespected for another man checking his woman directly in front of him. Where is the friends concern/respect for their relationship? If she made it known that the friend was making her feel a way other times that night as well, He should have took his woman home so as not to create animosity in the friendship. But Joining in, making her feel worse in a public setting, taking the friends side over hers, (that's how she'll see it) made her feel unprotected. Which is also his job in the Hierarchy. Following the shows advice will loose her for sure.

  • @ericnelly
    @ericnelly 28 днів тому

    besides what was her problem barging into other men's business ???

  • @jarodm1162
    @jarodm1162 29 днів тому +2

    Drink water and mind your business 😂

  • @manl1kemoe
    @manl1kemoe 29 днів тому

    You had me until you said you would kill someone for disrespecting you. You can have a fight emerge victorious without ending someones life that shit is wack

  • @ayindeshepherd1864
    @ayindeshepherd1864 29 днів тому

    I wonder if he know what lime mean 😊

  • @kcdabeast09
    @kcdabeast09 29 днів тому

    ODB is this mf!!!

  • @Trp-Gwil
    @Trp-Gwil 20 днів тому

    Forget all dat y is she asking the friend anyways

  • @NancyBrown-vh6ze
    @NancyBrown-vh6ze 26 днів тому

    What kind of batty man secret the husband and his friend have that they can not include the wife 🤔 Humm. There are no secrets in a relationship, and if a man and a man speaking secrets in the corner, be careful.

  • @MANifest_So0ManyLikeVibez90
    @MANifest_So0ManyLikeVibez90 Місяць тому +2

    23:10 a little argument over a mistake on her part would be such a silly thing for anyone involved to potentially lose their lives over. She seems like a good woman and all, just some things to work on. And im sure even Roy got some shit to work on too so its all good. Mens world and ways are very different compared to the catty and conniving indirect/passive ways of the woman

  • @coldiron-ip1qd
    @coldiron-ip1qd 14 днів тому

    Roy your friend is very disrespectful, your wife never disrespect you she only interrupted you, your wife was wrong but check your friend too, my friends can't talk to my wife like that even if she was wrong,let me check her not you.

  • @KingIzKash
    @KingIzKash 29 днів тому +2

    Nah bruh, I nor any of my friends would be checking the wife (lady) in that manner even though she was unknowingly (🤔 🤷🏾) out of line. That’s the place of the husband (man) to be doing the checking. Nevertheless, she’ll think twice before doing that again 😂

  • @markoglazersout611
    @markoglazersout611 27 днів тому

    Typical Trini

  • @raaaeternity5781
    @raaaeternity5781 29 днів тому

    Have your whole world view, opinions on this situation. But please don't say the way this host is , or the boyfriend not husband, or the friend has dealt with this in a biblically authoritative structure. This is not biblical! This is man doing what is right in their own eyes.

  • @kevonilewis5638
    @kevonilewis5638 29 днів тому

    Nah Cooley u wrong on this 1

  • @Chrisda3rdson
    @Chrisda3rdson 29 днів тому

    No other man is going to tell my women to " mind your business" if it's being said it coming from me. It's my place to say that.

    • @ezekwu
      @ezekwu 29 днів тому

      simp...

  • @niyitaiwobusinessdeveloper659
    @niyitaiwobusinessdeveloper659 29 днів тому

    His friend is wrong to have responded to his wife. He could have stayed quiet and let her husband handle his business.

    • @shank7993
      @shank7993 29 днів тому

      Agreed, I would not have allowed my friend to talk to my wife that way.

    • @ezekwu
      @ezekwu 29 днів тому +1

      @@shank7993 simp...

  • @jacsmith9128
    @jacsmith9128 28 днів тому +1

    Even if she's wrong for intervening, he's LAME for bringing his wife onto a show. ALSO, HE'S A 🌈 FOR ALLOWING A DUDE TO SPEAK TO HIS WIFE. HIS FRIEND IS OUT OF LINE AND SHOULD HAVE BEEN CHECKED. MY FRIENDS WOULDN'T DARE SPEAJ TO MY WIFE. No way his friend should have felt comfortable telling his WIFE to mind her business. THIS IS A WRONG TAKE. Her asking what are y'all talking about is a typical question from people, who are trying to join a conversation. The friend can stfu and wait for the Man to say something to his Wife. NOPE!

    • @darrianmcneil3481
      @darrianmcneil3481 28 днів тому

      How tf he gay he like men for allowing that? Lol this generation

    • @lch7876
      @lch7876 28 днів тому

      Factz 👏👏👏💯 Dudes out here is weird mane. They have no sense of what common courtesy, and respect is.