When it comes to single mom's the late Kevin Samuels once said that "You cannot go higher than your baby daddy. Gentlemen, you're not dating a single mother, you're dating a broken family.
I married a woman with 2 sons, everything was good. She cheated and wanted divorce after 18 years of marriage. Then, she took half, what a waste of my life.
Simpisland...😂😂 You ask for that... PSA:Sex actualizes marriage you become one. If she isn't a virgin you are with someone else's chic period. The creator gave instructions you will not beat the manufacturer manual.
The statistics show that single mother households are the worst for a child. Him saving a woman with one kid previously has nothing to do with that. That's a completely different argument.
@@34maybachkdat79 with growth and maturity comes self awareness and accountability you have to admit that to yourself to even move forward in a different light and perspective .
@@stevenanthonycomedy I have a you go queen mindset as far as how I mother my children but not taking accountability that you CHOSE the wrong partner is insane when our kids lives could be so much better in a two parent household. We chose and we robbed them of a successful future! Children NEED a father and most People don’t want to admit the shit that will eat them alive mentally 😂
Because they don’t take time out to get to know that person and they jump in the bed with that person because they wanted to be grown and fast and do adult things instead of saying you know what, let’s take time to get to know each other better and see if he will put a ring on your finger.
That still comes down to the cause and affects and choices being made , a broke man can make the choice of saying alright I’m tired of being broke let me take the steps to not be broke which will affect his future. A woman doesn’t want to be a single mother so take those steps to not become one that will affect her future
@@Tsu00it’s not possible to pick the perfect guy. A man can deceive easily and a women wouldn’t even know you don’t know how it feels to he deceived because you aren’t a woman.
@@Tsu00You just love to hear yourself speak in real life🧐😂😂😂 This comment did not refute @numlocklic381 point and it did not built on it. You just repeated what was said in the video and is already known that not having kids what prevent you from being single, the comment is about after. SMH 😂😂😂😂It’s ok to just hit the thumbs up and move on. 😂😂😂
@@TalentedMisterHeat8 I’m not infatuated to love to hear another man talk so I’ll have to decline on that… it’s ok if you do no judgement but other than that I said it clear you can reread if that’ll help you lol
I’m married with kids but if I somehow ended up divorced, I still would not date a woman with kids. I would never, under any circumstance take care of another man’s child.
@@cm88__ny I understand but the expectations for men and women with kids are way different. Most men with kids don’t expect the woman to do anything for his kids. On the other hand women with kids expect the man to do more than their actual fathers.
Men expect women to also take care of their kids if they are single fathers. You want your cake and eat it too. Women without children are not looking for men with children, these men have less resources and time@@ChildSupportHearings
That last statement by that chick was the most important statement in the entire video when she said A man dating her is obligated to support her child "financially but not emotionally". Fellas I hope you understand how toxic that statement is. That is the biggest reason why a man should never ever date a single mom. Because we are will be obligated to financially support her child, but if that child is being a bad child we cannot help develop that child and discipline that child. A single mother does not want a man to discipline her child. Thus, the child will take precedence in the relationship and destroy the relationship. Never ever ever date a single mother. It is a toxic road never worth traveling. I am happily married for 30 plus years and have two children because I understood this message.
"Pay for MY child's existence but, you can't discipline that child and, I'll ALWAYS undermine you regarding disciplining that child".. What a shit deal that is.. Guys who accept that feel like they have to..
I don't understand why women keep saying i know my worth like that mean anything... The world do not have to see or value you the way you see and value yourself.
Value is always determined by the market not the producer, the producer or person can bring a better product in order to hopefully heighten their value but in the end you will always only be worth what someone is willing to pay or do for you
I like Cooley's approach. He holds them accountable without disrespect. Still, these women become triggered and argumentative. This proves that what KS said for years was correct.
Women struggle to seperate their self-worth from their worth as a mate. You’d never get a panel of unemployed men claiming that they deserve supermodels. It’s insane. It really is. But this shows that these women don’t have a clue what men want and what men value in relationships…because women like this just don’t care.
@@blackseed9293 Well said. Saying that "you chose the right man" is an assumption that the woman is always the right woman. MOST women are worth nothing.
Little boys and their superhero analogies lol ya'll don't get pussy bcuz you sit on youtube listening to other men who don't even follow the same principles they preach, they do it for views becuz they know naive guys with no or little experience with decent women will eat it up.
They avoid accountability at all costs. EVERY ONE OF THE SINGLE MOMS I PERSONALLY KNOW...CHOSE THEIR MAN WITH RED FLAGS AND ALL!!! All this BS about the man changing up on them etc etc etc... is garbage.
The conversation is not silly, but the man is. Unfortunately he don't stick to his so-called principles. Which is why all these women can laugh him and dismiss him, because most men aren't disciplined enough to uphold those principles.
Most single mothers have never been married. Marriage then children is the proper order. I was a single mother of a 2 yr. Met my blue-collar husband, and we are happy 18yrs later. We will retire properly, God willing. There is nothing wrong with a blue-collar man.
Im Really happy for you both. Make sure you understand that he is the prize and continue to love him and support him because in most mend opinion he's a fool. HOWEVER you may be worth a second chance and I'm happy for you
That's what all single mom's do, look for the nearest available option since their type didn't work out😂😂😂... Some blue collar fool thinking he got a wife but don't realise he just got played the longest 😂😂😂
They didn’t know because they didn’t have a father nor grew a with a father figure in the home meaning their mama made the same mistake and they’re repeating the same cycle. Most women nowadays wouldn’t recognize a good man if he was right in her face because they never saw it growing up in their household. These host needs to start asking these hyenas run off a list of at least 5 detailed qualities of a “good man” and watch their responses. I know they can’t because I ask chronically single women in my age group of 50-60 and they can’t answer it correctly or even close. The answers they give are unrealistic, superficial and aren’t anywhere consistent with a good husband nor a good father. They can’t answer it because most of them didn’t grow with a father or father figure in their household either. 🤷🏾♂️
It’s crazy how if a man gets played by a woman it’s the man’s fault bc he didn’t vet the woman properly vs if the woman gets played it’s still the man’s fault bc he lied or changed MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!!!!
I was a single mother before meeting my hubby , we now have twins together , he’s the leader of our home , has the final say , disciplines our children, and I do as I’m told . He is the prize and I love him dearly for loving my first 2 daughters ❤️
Come back after a couple more years and sing us this same tune then we can consider you a different specimen. Anything outside that, please, just give us a break.
You’re the exception and not the rule. Stop giving these women false hope because most of them are confrontational, combative and don’t have a submissive bone in their body. If the roles were reversed MOST women wouldn’t entertain a man with a child unless he had money. 🤷🏾♂️
He's a brave man for doing daughters. All it takes for 1 of them, two girls, to hear no, and now there's an allegation of grape. It does happen. Young girl's emotions off the chain. I couldn't do it. He is brave.
How could they Eve dna is in all females most can never be loyal and honest. They are mot honest and loyal to themselves They could never treat others the same.
I'm a woman, and these women are proven their points for them......at this point, they should be quiet and pay attention and listen ......make BETTER CHOICES ladies......😮😢
It's like walking into a bank and feeling you deserve a low interest rate loan on a Mercedes S63, with a 550 FICO score. That's how single upper eschlon men see most single mom's; sub-prime credit. Rubberstamp: DENIED.
I look at it as a woman who made extremely poor life choice, has low standards and gambled with their future by allowing some bum to rawdog them and bail. And despite all that, not having the decency to choose to have an abortion.
@FactsoverFeelings94027 She absolutely got bad advice from other women on how to conduct herself. And that dropped her social "Credit Score" with desirable men she wants. If women understood that sleeping around and having children out of wedlock was akin to having a sub-prime FICO score in the financial world, a measure would move differently. These women still think and move like they're an 800 FICO score with 3 kids by 3 different baby daddies. And it's time they're told the truth; you're sub-prime, sweetie.
One observation for Cooley, when your bro (co-host) is adding on to the cipher (conversation) you should let him finish without cutting him off. You do that quite often I notice. Otherwise, you’re on point
What is so hard for these women to understand: No one wants some kid who isn't their kid living at their house. That is the issue. You can't talk your way around that fact. And it is too funny how they are appalled at the mere thought that someone might not accept them for who they are even though they have no problem admitting they will not accept anyone under 6' tall or who makes less than $100K.
I think that is just something that has to be said up front, honestly. If someone does not want to raise a kid that is not their own that is fair. I think people just have to speak things up front. I personally, in my life (I can’t speak outside of that) have seen plenty of single moms get married to good God fearing men who make very good livings. I think this gentleman is speaking of his perspective. And his perspective and preferences is 100% his own and that is okay. I think we have to stop speaking in generalities.
you discipline HER kids... and when the baby daddy comes around, they will say, "my mama boyfriend beat me." now, you're involved with either CPS or a major, violent misunderstanding bc what man is going to allow another man, who's already banging his ex, to discipline HIS children. i know dudes that would KILL if you touched their kids to discipline them.
Let's be honest the vast majority of single mothers are on government payroll.....I grew up around a bunch ....Women usually don't make enough to care for multiple kids.....this epidemic is bleeding this country dry honestly
As a man, I strongly disagree with some of the points from Cooley, if we hold women accountable for creating single mother homes then men need to be held accountable too. And if the men step up (ofc there are other cases) then there wouldn't be single mom households. The single mom home is created by men, who don't wanna take responsibility (not all the time). And why label a single mother as (less valuable) or lower in the scale. Alot of men made it from the gutter because their mom hustled it out and did their best. We as the men need to step up.
Lol ... Latinas ( especially Rican Dominican b-----s) r the most superficial,ego driven,narratistic, d---- THIRSTY race around, no question... Also they NOT the most straight 4ward, genuine of females either... All it takes for Rican b-----s to LUST over a guy is if he gotta HUGE D---- size below waist... I Kno from experience, I'm VERY HUGE below the waist & I can give TONS of examples
There are plenty of stepfathers who have the respect of their step kids. Plenty of children love and respect their stepfathers. That's what happens when you are a good, strong man. The people in your household respect you. Regardless of height 😂
These women like so many other women of today, listen to have a rebuttal rather than to gain wisdom (insight). As a logical man who has tried hard to bring solutions to the relationship(s), it’s exhausting and frustrating to the point I no longer care to have the convo and even worst, the relationship itself!
The google reviews only work if she doesn't have a strong attraction for the man, if the man gives butterflies and strong attraction then she's not waiting
I agree!! Selfish... a true mother is the glue!!! And we are here to procreate not to satisfy our flesh before raising our children in a Godly and both parents in home! A Father is the second strong foundation after God.
Social media gets blamed for this, but this has been a thing for years before social media. I divorced back in 03 by 2006 I had 6 figs locked in. I took out this single mom of 4 kids and she said we couldn't work out because I had a 12 year old. This came from a broad with a starting line up. I laughed so hard that she walked out on dinner and caught a cab. I really thought she was joking. She made no money, lived with her parents with her kids, and didn't own a car. I had a house, 2 cars and making over a quad a year, and 6ft and classically handsome. Before her, I had no idea that single moms hate dating single dads. It's been crazy for awhile.
These guys really are patient....the most patient ones I ever saw inbthis kind of video. And patient without being weak...like that Brian guy from whatever podcast.
Nah its because he's white they know how to take the high road my dude. He handles those 304s on his show all the time bro he stays grillin lets be positive my dude..
Women should be mad at themselves for choosing the men they date and accept the consequences that come with poor decisions. Somewhere down the line that guy showed you red flags and you chose to ignore his character. Sure he may be an unethical person for exploiting a weakness, but what does that say about you and your priorities?
No joke. She is a straight 3 who isn't even trying with her appearance. Her posture and mannerisms are those of a junkie who needs their fix, And she's a single mother. AND she is thinking she is going to be getting Mr. 6' $100K+??
As a single father i only go for single mom's for my own reasons mainly she knows shes not my first priority an i know im not hers parents should date parents imo
Many women with kids don't generally want to be in a serious relationship with men with kids unless they have limited options, most men they really want don't want a serious relationship with them.
@@PO-gt7xlthat’s a lie I’m a single father and have no issue. Most women don’t care. In fact the women who do care are the ones who don’t have as many options usually. For women a man having kids is actually attractive to them. There are biological why women are attracted to men with kids just like women are attracted to married men.
😅 This dude was probably raised by a single mom. Million dollar question to Fagazzee. Does everything you said to these single moms apply to your current girlfriend? 😂
I would never in my life down to my soul tell my 3 boys to date a single mother ever. The harsh thing I would tell them is look at my own mother. You wanna avoid that example at all cost. Build your family with someone fresh and new. Build together in all phases.
Now that's big facts. A lot of them have the baby out of spite too. Most of them guys want them to abort but they don't then they have the kid thinking it's gone keep the man. Fellas gotta stop smashing any and every chick raw too.
His babymama is a BBL Becky with two yt kids that he raising… they have two children together they dated for years and he still hasn’t married her stop listening to this fool.
A single mother can never elevate beyond her baby daddy... He is her standard.. men don't care about your accomplishments, we care about what kind of nigga dominate you
I liken to this: If a man makes poor choices, gets arrested and has a felony. A woman should consider that and disqualify him. Just as if a woman made the bad decision to have kids with a guy without fully vetting him, or leaving the relationship for selfish reasons.
He’s so right, LOL. If I could go back, I wouldn’t have had a child with my son’s father. I was deceived-dude had a whole other life. That’s on me for not having better judgment and letting emotions blind me instead of focusing on actions. Women need to take accountability. Thankfully, with time and growth, we’ve been able to co-parent well. Our son comes first. All single parents are capable of co-parenting. I think the real issue lies with single moms who can’t co-parent-that can be dangerous. Best to stay away from them.
I I love you so much, Cooley. You're delivery is classy, logical, straight to the point. I love how you hold those females accountable with their weight, being a single mom, cheating. To: Cooley & the other Men, be careful with sexual involvement re: single moms, they might try to trap any one of you guys.
Cool is with a single mother of two and she left the father so she has a terrible character and she’s a terrible mother. Don’t listen to him. He’s a liar.
Make no mistake about it ALL unwed mothers/single mothers are considered failed substandard women in the eyes 👀 of virtually ALL quality men regardless of their social appearance, age, ethnicity or economic status!! Only traditional virtuous women are worthy of marriage and motherhood in the eyes of God fearing marriage minded family oriented men!!
My understanding is he’s the 3rd baby daddy of that single mother. Absolutely insane how fake these social media guys are man. It’s unfortunate cuz I liked dude, he speaks logically most the time. That is until you learn his real life is super contradictory to everything he speaks.
When it comes to single mom's the late Kevin Samuels once said that "You cannot go higher than your baby daddy. Gentlemen, you're not dating a single mother, you're dating a broken family.
🎯
Not true
@@MrSuperPsymonto retire comfortably moron ..
@@tovah8841facts
@@MrSuperPsymon exactly..Most people are middle class or poor..
Single mother homes are the worst thing for young men.
But the easiest to hit🤣👍🏾💯🤷🏾♂️
As a product of that,I stand by this.A lot harder for us than it needed to be.These women need to stop giving up box to abusive deadbeats.
That's exactly what your dad said about your mother when she had you. Ew! 😂
Single mother homes 🏡 are bad for sons and daughters!!
@@Rationz36if your labelling the men as ‘abusive deadbeats’, keep the same energy and label the women that pick them as ‘Trashy Women’.
I married a woman with 2 sons, everything was good. She cheated and wanted divorce after 18 years of marriage. Then, she took half, what a waste of my life.
Hold that L never take a woman with kids serious
😢 better is coming your way !! Head up
@@Shealey1k life has a way of humbling people like you
damn G I would been sad af 😮😢 Stay Up
Simpisland...😂😂 You ask for that... PSA:Sex actualizes marriage you become one. If she isn't a virgin you are with someone else's chic period. The creator gave instructions you will not beat the manufacturer manual.
This didn’t age well 😂😂
😂😂😂😂
cooley-cuckdaddy in a relationship with a single mother of 2 sons?
Yet he's been in a relationship with a single mom for 7-10 years
Thats crazy🤧😂 the hypocrisy is thick😂
Yes make it make sense I don’t think he likes black ladies
The statistics show that single mother households are the worst for a child. Him saving a woman with one kid previously has nothing to do with that. That's a completely different argument.
@@Bailey-cx7zz I thought she had two kids?
@@Ria19907yeah she had two white boys and one child him and her
Yo, as a single mother myself bruh is pretty accurate 😂 yall get so defensive not listening to understand. Buddy is on point with EVERYTHING he said 🎯
Most of these chicks listen to the lie that they’re crushing it. Bad egos.
Why would they admit that all their life decisions were based off social norms and tryna fit in
They have a "you go queen" mindset that will leave them single.
@@34maybachkdat79 with growth and maturity comes self awareness and accountability you have to admit that to yourself to even move forward in a different light and perspective .
@@stevenanthonycomedy I have a you go queen mindset as far as how I mother my children but not taking accountability that you CHOSE the wrong partner is insane when our kids lives could be so much better in a two parent household. We chose and we robbed them of a successful future! Children NEED a father and most People don’t want to admit the shit that will eat them alive mentally 😂
“You let him hit it raw, now you’re a single mom “🎼
Yeppp
Because they don’t take time out to get to know that person and they jump in the bed with that person because they wanted to be grown and fast and do adult things instead of saying you know what, let’s take time to get to know each other better and see if he will put a ring on your finger.
Drop a beat 🎉😂
🎵She said I’m a have this kid, don’t care if he’s here or naw🎵
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
a broke man can still become rich
a single mother can't unbecome a single mother
That still comes down to the cause and affects and choices being made , a broke man can make the choice of saying alright I’m tired of being broke let me take the steps to not be broke which will affect his future. A woman doesn’t want to be a single mother so take those steps to not become one that will affect her future
@@Tsu00it’s not possible to pick the perfect guy. A man can deceive easily and a women wouldn’t even know you don’t know how it feels to he deceived because you aren’t a woman.
@@Tsu00You just love to hear yourself speak in real life🧐😂😂😂 This comment did not refute @numlocklic381 point and it did not built on it. You just repeated what was said in the video and is already known that not having kids what prevent you from being single, the comment is about after. SMH 😂😂😂😂It’s ok to just hit the thumbs up and move on. 😂😂😂
@@TalentedMisterHeat8 I’m not infatuated to love to hear another man talk so I’ll have to decline on that… it’s ok if you do no judgement but other than that I said it clear you can reread if that’ll help you lol
@@Tsu00 Try this again in English
I’m married with kids but if I somehow ended up divorced, I still would not date a woman with kids. I would never, under any circumstance take care of another man’s child.
While ya baby mama gettin slutted out happily.😅😅
I don't blame you
And I would never date a man with kids. People with kids deserve to be with each other.
@@cm88__ny I understand but the expectations for men and women with kids are way different. Most men with kids don’t expect the woman to do anything for his kids. On the other hand women with kids expect the man to do more than their actual fathers.
Men expect women to also take care of their kids if they are single fathers. You want your cake and eat it too. Women without children are not looking for men with children, these men have less resources and time@@ChildSupportHearings
This man is with a single mom of two had a third baby and she’s pregnant now it’s comical
Very. He's just another fraud.
@@sabrinahernandez5425 he definitely don’t live by what he saying but some of what he said still stands.
Cuz She sexy tho yes he might not live by what he stands for but still he speaks truth
@@SeanThePA she a stay at mother am sure she don’t mind him being the king and she the queen your masculine traits won’t never allow that
cooley matching pajamas: ua-cam.com/video/CvIPp9h0rUk/v-deo.html
“i’ve never been broken up with” so how many men have u broken up with? “it was mutual” 🤡
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 how did none of them pick up on that?
@@sergiosperspective that’s what i’m saying. let a woman talk enough she’ll snitch on herself
"You agree we should break up, right?".... that is as mutual as it gets,
@@sergiosperspective like we are stupid or something 😂😂😂
@@charlessynowiec3876 also, her saying that reveals she is 100% completely ran-thru
They all made bad decisions and refuse accountability -- you brought your value down.
Way way down
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These women will not accept that he's making a point.
That last statement by that chick was the most important statement in the entire video when she said A man dating her is obligated to support her child "financially but not emotionally". Fellas I hope you understand how toxic that statement is. That is the biggest reason why a man should never ever date a single mom. Because we are will be obligated to financially support her child, but if that child is being a bad child we cannot help develop that child and discipline that child. A single mother does not want a man to discipline her child. Thus, the child will take precedence in the relationship and destroy the relationship. Never ever ever date a single mother. It is a toxic road never worth traveling. I am happily married for 30 plus years and have two children because I understood this message.
And if they old enough they’ll try u eventually
Your not obligated only simps feel obligated.
@@juliansearcie1758Only simps would get into a relationship with a single mom.
"Pay for MY child's existence but, you can't discipline that child and, I'll ALWAYS undermine you regarding disciplining that child".. What a shit deal that is.. Guys who accept that feel like they have to..
EXACTLY why he said, “Recreation ONLY!”🤘
*This whole episode aged like a cup of milk left out in the sun.*
This brother surprises me. He’s very articulate and explains things very well. Subscribed 🔥🙏🏼
Facts kuz he gets it .. these ladies are slow
This stepdad*
Fixed it for you. You're welcome.
He’s a hypocrite
I don’t understand why women go on shows like these if they don’t want to get embarrassed.
Attention above all else
Because they now realize they can’t finesse men into being in relationships with them
In a wemons mind, good attention and bad attention is still attention. It doesn't matter, it's all dopamine when you have a vagina...
@@joeramos4489exactly
That ratchet loud mouth in the brown needs to be single for ever she cant accept the truth she just argumentative aint no fun going home to that crap
I don't understand why women keep saying i know my worth like that mean anything... The world do not have to see or value you the way you see and value yourself.
Men decide their longterm value
Value is always determined by the market not the producer, the producer or person can bring a better product in order to hopefully heighten their value but in the end you will always only be worth what someone is willing to pay or do for you
make it funnier, ask them what's that worth? They can't reply in a complete well articulate sentence.
I like Cooley's approach. He holds them accountable without disrespect. Still, these women become triggered and argumentative. This proves that what KS said for years was correct.
Women struggle to seperate their self-worth from their worth as a mate.
You’d never get a panel of unemployed men claiming that they deserve supermodels. It’s insane. It really is.
But this shows that these women don’t have a clue what men want and what men value in relationships…because women like this just don’t care.
I don't like the way he assumes they chose the wrong man. They are often the wrong woman.
@@blackseed9293 Well said. Saying that "you chose the right man" is an assumption that the woman is always the right woman. MOST women are worth nothing.
@@blackseed9293it’s both but majority of the times they choose the wrong man that impregnates them
He never shares that he's married to a single mother with multiple kids.
Whattt??? Really
Absolutely!
Like Kevin would always say, accountability is like kryptonite to women.
Little boys and their superhero analogies lol ya'll don't get pussy bcuz you sit on youtube listening to other men who don't even follow the same principles they preach, they do it for views becuz they know naive guys with no or little experience with decent women will eat it up.
You don't use protection. You choose to be a single mother.
Not always the case.
@@TruthbeTold-bm7kz 99% it's is. And when yo daddy is the government to have more!
@TruthbeTold-bm7kz he's right. Most of these kids aren't planned and are due to irresponsible sex.
@BLUEISME42 Exactly! There are 13+ forms of B.C. other than rubbers and deletion ☠
@@pinarellorider9023 👏 👏
A broke man can fix his situation. A single mother cannot.
The realest quote ever💯💪🏾🎯
sauce
Damn 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶
I mean she could give the baby up , is that what yall want her to do ?
I have to disagree. If somebody who knows the game puts her on then things can be turned around.
They avoid accountability at all costs. EVERY ONE OF THE SINGLE MOMS I PERSONALLY KNOW...CHOSE THEIR MAN WITH RED FLAGS AND ALL!!! All this BS about the man changing up on them etc etc etc... is garbage.
The red flags made those men “attractive” and they CHOSE those men
Yup
Total bs
Dude was trash up front with no strings attached. She played along and took an L
Silly conversation. He is with a single mom and a step dad.
The conversation is not silly, but the man is. Unfortunately he don't stick to his so-called principles. Which is why all these women can laugh him and dismiss him, because most men aren't disciplined enough to uphold those principles.
That's because these fools act like we live in a perfect world.
7:11 lol “single moms need love too” isn’t he having a 2nd child with he’s gf who’s a single mother
Yeah. They deserve the kind of "love" that requires them to leave in the morning
Most single mothers have never been married. Marriage then children is the proper order. I was a single mother of a 2 yr. Met my blue-collar husband, and we are happy 18yrs later. We will retire properly, God willing. There is nothing wrong with a blue-collar man.
Poor guy raising another man s kid
Im Really happy for you both. Make sure you understand that he is the prize and continue to love him and support him because in most mend opinion he's a fool. HOWEVER you may be worth a second chance and I'm happy for you
That's what all single mom's do, look for the nearest available option since their type didn't work out😂😂😂... Some blue collar fool thinking he got a wife but don't realise he just got played the longest 😂😂😂
I would never marry a single mother, yuck.
It's definitely possible if God's in it
Every time they say “I didn’t know he was a bad person” etc… I always think “what happened to women’s intuition?” 🤔
That shit is fake. The damn tooth fairy is more real than women's "intuition". 🙄
A wemons intuition is always right, it's just a coincidence that there are more single moms than wemons without kids.
The problem is they conflated their absent or abusive father with "a good man," and so they turn out as clueless as a lot of these moms.
They didn’t know because they didn’t have a father nor grew a with a father figure in the home meaning their mama made the same mistake and they’re repeating the same cycle. Most women nowadays wouldn’t recognize a good man if he was right in her face because they never saw it growing up in their household. These host needs to start asking these hyenas run off a list of at least 5 detailed qualities of a “good man” and watch their responses. I know they can’t because I ask chronically single women in my age group of 50-60 and they can’t answer it correctly or even close. The answers they give are unrealistic, superficial and aren’t anywhere consistent with a good husband nor a good father. They can’t answer it because most of them didn’t grow with a father or father figure in their household either. 🤷🏾♂️
It usually kicks in after the third BD
It’s crazy how if a man gets played by a woman it’s the man’s fault bc he didn’t vet the woman properly vs if the woman gets played it’s still the man’s fault bc he lied or changed MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!!!!!
You can't make it make sense. Women are allergic to accountability.
I was a single mother before meeting my hubby , we now have twins together , he’s the leader of our home , has the final say , disciplines our children, and I do as I’m told . He is the prize and I love him dearly for loving my first 2 daughters ❤️
This isn’t about you. He’s speaking generally
Come back after a couple more years and sing us this same tune then we can consider you a different specimen.
Anything outside that, please, just give us a break.
You’re the exception and not the rule. Stop giving these women false hope because most of them are confrontational, combative and don’t have a submissive bone in their body. If the roles were reversed MOST women wouldn’t entertain a man with a child unless he had money. 🤷🏾♂️
He's a brave man for doing daughters. All it takes for 1 of them, two girls, to hear no, and now there's an allegation of grape. It does happen. Young girl's emotions off the chain. I couldn't do it. He is brave.
Your looks help a lot…
He’s with a single mother. What made her worthy? She didn’t stay with the father of her 2 kids.
Single moms always triggrred
Always 😂😂😂😂
women, NEVER utter the words "my loyalty" or " I'll be honest" for women those two things are an impossibility
B-----s lie HUGELY to they "beat friends", so being up front AIN'T part of they system
Loyalty is a masculine trait.
How could they Eve dna is in all females most can never be loyal and honest. They are mot honest and loyal to themselves They could never treat others the same.
@@FINETUNEDGAMINGABSOLUTELY. Been thinking it for years
I'm a woman, and these women are proven their points for them......at this point, they should be quiet and pay attention and listen ......make BETTER CHOICES ladies......😮😢
Too late
Proving*.
@Colton-wz5sh Thank u Google......😂🤣😅😆
But they "feel like" they are the victim.
Exactly 💯
Prime example women say they want they truth but can’t handle it and whoever kept huffing and puffing was annoying
"The wise woman builds her home, but the foolish one, with her own hands, tears hers down." Proverbs 14:1
Exactly
It's like walking into a bank and feeling you deserve a low interest rate loan on a Mercedes S63, with a 550 FICO score. That's how single upper eschlon men see most single mom's; sub-prime credit. Rubberstamp: DENIED.
Damn. Never thought of it this way. 😂
I look at it as a woman who made extremely poor life choice, has low standards and gambled with their future by allowing some bum to rawdog them and bail. And despite all that, not having the decency to choose to have an abortion.
@FactsoverFeelings94027 She absolutely got bad advice from other women on how to conduct herself. And that dropped her social "Credit Score" with desirable men she wants. If women understood that sleeping around and having children out of wedlock was akin to having a sub-prime FICO score in the financial world, a measure would move differently. These women still think and move like they're an 800 FICO score with 3 kids by 3 different baby daddies. And it's time they're told the truth; you're sub-prime, sweetie.
You mean a score of a Hyundai sonata. Dont disrespect the 550 lol
Echelon. Not eschlon. It makes sense that your analogy is about a car.
He makes so much sense that the women are struggling to not understand.😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🎤
Facts!
@@sw247x5 u feel superior yet?
One observation for Cooley, when your bro (co-host) is adding on to the cipher (conversation) you should let him finish without cutting him off. You do that quite often I notice. Otherwise, you’re on point
Their favorite line “ You don’t know what I went through” 💀🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
I’ve been preaching this to women they don’t like accountability!!! You have the power to say YES or NO!!! It starts and end with the woman!!!
What is so hard for these women to understand: No one wants some kid who isn't their kid living at their house. That is the issue. You can't talk your way around that fact.
And it is too funny how they are appalled at the mere thought that someone might not accept them for who they are even though they have no problem admitting they will not accept anyone under 6' tall or who makes less than $100K.
It's not hard to understand, they just don't want to understand
I think that is just something that has to be said up front, honestly. If someone does not want to raise a kid that is not their own that is fair. I think people just have to speak things up front. I personally, in my life (I can’t speak outside of that) have seen plenty of single moms get married to good God fearing men who make very good livings. I think this gentleman is speaking of his perspective. And his perspective and preferences is 100% his own and that is okay. I think we have to stop speaking in generalities.
you discipline HER kids... and when the baby daddy comes around, they will say, "my mama boyfriend beat me."
now, you're involved with either CPS or a major, violent misunderstanding bc what man is going to allow another man, who's already banging his ex, to discipline HIS children.
i know dudes that would KILL if you touched their kids to discipline them.
@patricedavis2788 he speaks for the mass majority of us, sorry to tell you
Because men like the host coolie who has kids with a Caucasian woman who was a babymomma of 2 before him lol
Let's be honest the vast majority of single mothers are on government payroll.....I grew up around a bunch ....Women usually don't make enough to care for multiple kids.....this epidemic is bleeding this country dry honestly
Its beyond terrible
As a man, I strongly disagree with some of the points from Cooley, if we hold women accountable for creating single mother homes then men need to be held accountable too. And if the men step up (ofc there are other cases) then there wouldn't be single mom households. The single mom home is created by men, who don't wanna take responsibility (not all the time).
And why label a single mother as (less valuable) or lower in the scale. Alot of men made it from the gutter because their mom hustled it out and did their best. We as the men need to step up.
Did you marry a single mother?
@@AnthonyMalczewski-d7qwhen he says that he probably did I wouldn't put it past him 😆😆
Mr I strongly disagree 🤡😆
The lack of accountability from these women is just stunning.
these latino's go hysterical when triggered, with their incessant gabble
Lol ... Latinas ( especially Rican Dominican b-----s) r the most superficial,ego driven,narratistic, d---- THIRSTY race around, no question... Also they NOT the most straight 4ward, genuine of females either... All it takes for Rican b-----s to LUST over a guy is if he gotta HUGE D---- size below waist... I Kno from experience, I'm VERY HUGE below the waist & I can give TONS of examples
CANT BE A GOOD MOM WITHOUT BEING A GOOD WIFE
I'm a single mom and approve this message! we screwed up ladies accept it and move on.
Dayum!! 😂
Your married to a single mom quit being a hypocrite
Being a step dad is like being a substitute teacher. Nobody respects you.
Worse than that, It's like paying the school to be the sub while the principal constantly goes against your authority and you still get no respect.
You don't command respect
There are plenty of stepfathers who have the respect of their step kids. Plenty of children love and respect their stepfathers. That's what happens when you are a good, strong man. The people in your household respect you. Regardless of height 😂
These women like so many other women of today, listen to have a rebuttal rather than to gain wisdom (insight).
As a logical man who has tried hard to bring solutions to the relationship(s), it’s exhausting and frustrating to the point I no longer care to have the convo and even worst, the relationship itself!
The google reviews only work if she doesn't have a strong attraction for the man, if the man gives butterflies and strong attraction then she's not waiting
Funny how they willingly leave that part out like buried cat waste.
Most of their "mistakes" are done with men they have a strong attraction for.
The truth is these woman dont care about a mans character. They simply go after the men they like and are attracted to. Its that simple
Liar exposed! He's with a single mom himself
Exception- single white moms
Women just keep on telling on themselves. A man isn’t going to break up with a woman for no good reason😂
I agree!! Selfish... a true mother is the glue!!! And we are here to procreate not to satisfy our flesh before raising our children in a Godly and both parents in home! A Father is the second strong foundation after God.
Its simple Marry before you Carry.
Or become wise before you marry and carry.
Yet he wifed a single mom and had two kids with her.
Social media gets blamed for this, but this has been a thing for years before social media.
I divorced back in 03 by 2006 I had 6 figs locked in. I took out this single mom of 4 kids and she said we couldn't work out because I had a 12 year old. This came from a broad with a starting line up.
I laughed so hard that she walked out on dinner and caught a cab. I really thought she was joking.
She made no money, lived with her parents with her kids, and didn't own a car. I had a house, 2 cars and making over a quad a year, and 6ft and classically handsome.
Before her, I had no idea that single moms hate dating single dads. It's been crazy for awhile.
These guys really are patient....the most patient ones I ever saw inbthis kind of video. And patient without being weak...like that Brian guy from whatever podcast.
Nah its because he's white they know how to take the high road my dude. He handles those 304s on his show all the time bro he stays grillin lets be positive my dude..
@@berniemackattack86 No Bro...he misses EVERY oportunitie to put them in their places...WEAK MAN!
bro your on point, woman don't take responsibility
Western Women want men to be providers but won’t cook and clean 😂. I call them out on this simple fact and they start yelling out weird latin chants.
some do. Watch ur language. Don't become a sexist dude. Sexist easily become racist and so on.
@@Beginning-l3s you twisting up wtf he saying. If it don't apply let it fly. he speaking DIRECTLY to the ones who do. Hit dogs bark.
@@Beginning-l3sWatch your ass boy/hoe!
@@Beginning-l3s🤡😆
When my boys are old enough to have serious relationships I will definitely discourage dating a single mother. They are damaged.
Their looking for a meal ticket, not a relationship
@@jacobsmith8377👍💯
Women should be mad at themselves for choosing the men they date and accept the consequences that come with poor decisions. Somewhere down the line that guy showed you red flags and you chose to ignore his character. Sure he may be an unethical person for exploiting a weakness, but what does that say about you and your priorities?
"MARRY BEFORE YOU CARRY!!" it doesn't get any more clearer and simpler than that!!
Your baby daddy was the best you can get, and could ever get. That is your peak.
One in tan is hopeless
An Nightmare On Elm St
No joke. She is a straight 3 who isn't even trying with her appearance. Her posture and mannerisms are those of a junkie who needs their fix, And she's a single mother. AND she is thinking she is going to be getting Mr. 6' $100K+??
@@wmcroy3306One that Freddy himself would be afraid of.
I see why she single 😂
They all trash with vaginas.
Dude is obsessed with being 6’4
To be honest, if she's prioritizing her happiness over the wellbeing of her kids, then she is starting off as a very bad mother.
This is why you bring them around your brothers, father, uncles, grandfather, etc. like back in the day.
This did not age well for this dude 😂😂
As a single father i only go for single mom's for my own reasons mainly she knows shes not my first priority an i know im not hers parents should date parents imo
Many women with kids don't generally want to be in a serious relationship with men with kids unless they have limited options, most men they really want don't want a serious relationship with them.
As a single father I only date women without kids🤷🏽♂️
@@PO-gt7xlthat’s a lie I’m a single father and have no issue. Most women don’t care. In fact the women who do care are the ones who don’t have as many options usually. For women a man having kids is actually attractive to them. There are biological why women are attracted to men with kids just like women are attracted to married men.
@90Marquelle but do u have full custody that's the main reason I do I'm with my kids all the time no mom to go to
@@elaynaaubreygonzo3744 no I don’t have full custody. We share custody 50:50
😅 This dude was probably raised by a single mom. Million dollar question to Fagazzee. Does everything you said to these single moms apply to your current girlfriend? 😂
This aged well lol😂 Cooley might as well have been on that panel himself
I would never in my life down to my soul tell my 3 boys to date a single mother ever. The harsh thing I would tell them is look at my own mother. You wanna avoid that example at all cost. Build your family with someone fresh and new. Build together in all phases.
Yeah because women without children can't bring your sons pain. Be careful what you want for your kiss.
God what a clown 🤡 not a fan but i just found out about you today. Oshay duke Jackson says hello. 👋 😂
Ya chose to be a single mother because the government is yo daddy!oh... and us tax payers! So I'm yo momma too! Lol
Now that's big facts. A lot of them have the baby out of spite too. Most of them guys want them to abort but they don't then they have the kid thinking it's gone keep the man. Fellas gotta stop smashing any and every chick raw too.
Ummm isn’t he with a single mom ?🤔
Why do women think that men want single mothers over single women??? I just don't understand it 🤦🏿♂️
You get three demerits for actually thinking that women really think. 🏫
Ego
The host has 3 kids with a single mother.. she had 2 all white babies BEFORE his 3.... Lmfao watch these frauds man
Nobody thinks that
His babymama is a BBL Becky with two yt kids that he raising… they have two children together they dated for years and he still hasn’t married her stop listening to this fool.
Ain’t Cooley with a single mom?
Yes he is 😂😂
Educate and elevate yourself and put yourself in places people “think” you don’t deserve to be.
A single mother can never elevate beyond her baby daddy... He is her standard.. men don't care about your accomplishments, we care about what kind of nigga dominate you
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I liken to this: If a man makes poor choices, gets arrested and has a felony. A woman should consider that and disqualify him. Just as if a woman made the bad decision to have kids with a guy without fully vetting him, or leaving the relationship for selfish reasons.
Learn to use a comma
@Colton-wz5sh learn to use a period..since you seem to be on yours.
@@Eastmaniac you’re the one butthurt. My “mistake” didn’t cause a sentence fragment. Yours did. Grow up.
@@Colton-wz5shCome on. Let's not get triggered for a logical question to an argument.
She still doesn't want to take accountability for choosing wrong?? Make that make sense??
Recreational use only 😂😂😂only to find out he is had dated a single mother for years he actually believes it otherwise he would have married her.
You deserve something that you work for. None of the ladies answered that and the host didn't attack the meaning of "deserve". Missed opportunity.
He’s with a woman who has kids with another man. You can’t talk 😂lol I
Women control sex and therefore getting pregnant. Having a child is the most serious and important thing you can do in this life. Choose wisely.
Can't plant a seed, without a garden
Can't plant a seed, without a garden
These videos make me so thankful for my wife, my life companion for the past 32 yrs
the next 50 year are going to be a mess. I think people will end up leaving the US back to their OG homeland and back to traditional values.
Why? Might I ask?
He’s so right, LOL. If I could go back, I wouldn’t have had a child with my son’s father. I was deceived-dude had a whole other life. That’s on me for not having better judgment and letting emotions blind me instead of focusing on actions.
Women need to take accountability.
Thankfully, with time and growth, we’ve been able to co-parent well. Our son comes first. All single parents are capable of co-parenting.
I think the real issue lies with single moms who can’t co-parent-that can be dangerous. Best to stay away from them.
All the single mothers need to keep their hands down for all questions
More like their legs closed
Nothing in this world has more clearly demonstrated why she is a single mom…..
I I love you so much, Cooley. You're delivery is classy, logical, straight to the point. I love how you hold those females accountable with their weight, being a single mom, cheating. To: Cooley & the other Men, be careful with sexual involvement re: single moms, they might try to trap any one of you guys.
Your*.
Cool is with a single mother of two and she left the father so she has a terrible character and she’s a terrible mother. Don’t listen to him. He’s a liar.
Accountability is their kryptonite. 😂
Is this guy dating a single mom? Saw something on Twitter I’m genuinely curious
So your loyalty is based off what he can provide
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Make no mistake about it ALL unwed mothers/single mothers are considered failed substandard women in the eyes 👀 of virtually ALL quality men regardless of their social appearance, age, ethnicity or economic status!! Only traditional virtuous women are worthy of marriage and motherhood in the eyes of God fearing marriage minded family oriented men!!
Never, ever mess with a single mom. Period.
💯👍 not even sex
Didn't Cooley wife up a single mom... the projection is on another level.
She probably had what it takes to get a top guy
Cooley
Maybe she not that stuck up as most single mother
My understanding is he’s the 3rd baby daddy of that single mother.
Absolutely insane how fake these social media guys are man. It’s unfortunate cuz I liked dude, he speaks logically most the time.
That is until you learn his real life is super contradictory to everything he speaks.
Single fathers go thru the ringer, we get all the financial burden