Inside the House of Tiny Tearaways | Real Families Full Episode
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- Опубліковано 12 чер 2018
- It’s the penultimate day in the house for this week’s three families, and how are they coping? The Dixons learn what Harrison’s obsession with lining toy cars up in straight lines can tell them, and have a highly emotional and revelatory consultation with Tanya. Harrison goes horse riding, and has a major breakthrough with his eating. We catch up with the Field family who have been back at home away from the House for 3 days, and Alex and Toney Pitt make a pot of love.
Presenter Claudia Winkleman guides the audience through a week-long journey at TV’s first ever child and parent behaviour refuge.
During their stay at the House of Tiny Tearaways, three families live together, while child psychologist Dr Tanya Byron works with both parents and children to solve issues around fussy eating, sleeping habits, and public tantrums - and she'll challenge the parents to get to the root of the problems they're experiencing raising their children.
With Dr Tanya Byron's help and advice, the hope is that the families will learn useful pedagogy techniques and gain new insights, giving them long-lasting support though the parenting challenges they're facing.
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Guys, Harry's mother, Sara Dixon has confirmed in the comments of a previous episode that Harry was later diagnosed with autism. Nonetheless, she said he's a happy 19 year old studying to be a mechanic. She also mentioned that she and her husband are still married. Cool stuff, right? 😊
How can you be sure it was her?
@@whoami6601 it was either her or some random person who created an account with her first and last name, and fabricated this elaborate story. Lol, we can't be sure.
Adelina.Rose Great update! Thanks to you and her for sharing. My heart broke for them. I feel certain that Sara had some un-treated PPD and that can have devastating consequences.
So glad to hear it all worked out for them.
I am Harrison mum and I am not made up . Harrison is doing really well training to be a car mechanic, taller then me . He does autism, cognitive learning with complex needs we have had some battles weather it be at home or with the education system but all that mattered was harrison and what paths he wanted in life and he is achieving them and making us proud . We had another son a year after the show , we also purchased a horse which helped as we were planning on moving to oz but tragedy struck the family so we stayed in Devon we are also still together as a family . Thanks for your support . We
sara dixon .... Thank u for the update! I'm so thankful that u guys made it together thru this journey! Did u ever realize how much fun lil boys can be? All I have it 2 boys now age 17 & 15...& I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world... I did want a lil girl & never got one but now looking back I'm so happy that I got 2 boys. I thought they were so much fun & easy compared to lil girls
Sara seems to engage easily with everyone but her own child.
Maybe but what’s up with Kelsey mom treats her daughter like a grown up?
I wish there was more time for her backstory. When they said Kelsey had to get herself up and dressed and made her own breakfast all before waking her mom up, I had a lot more sympathy for Kelsey. Still she was a ratchet little brat! Wonder how she turned out!
How did I get hooked on this show?
I am wondering the same thing.
Verlena Henderson
And it’s like thirteen years old. Some of these little kids are now teenagers/young adults. So weird.
i have 3 granddaughters but they don't have any problems , however i really enjoy watching these episodes
ikr
I know right? I watch this after I put my daughter to bed.
Lovely epsisode. Tanya's excellent at helping these struggling parents.
I think Sareh is more interested talking to Tony than spending time with Kelsey
Why is this mother ignoring her own little girl...what a horrible person...my heart hurts for that child
The fact she didnt hold her child or say goodbye, thats some serious trauma there
Why on earth has she not been given counselling and this been picked up by her midwife?
She clearly had post natal depression and hasnt dealt with her miscarriage
lanebreakerRBH
I agree 100%. There is some incredibly deep trauma there that was never addressed.
I still weep over my miscarriage and it was 17yrs ago.
lanebreakerRBH It’s called postpartum depression
It's not a miscarriage. That should be considered a still birth. That poor woman
I wouldn't have wanted to hold my miscarried child... That would have traumatized me further. We all deal with grief in our own ways. There would be emotional fallout regardless.
Kelsey’s mom was so supportive to Sarah Dixon in that one part of this episode. That’s the way to comfort somebody that’s upset
Harry's parents are so hurting. I hope they all get better and have a happy life together. They are really so sweet.
Sara Dixon herself has replied to some of the other comments--they are still together, Harrison is 19 & doing well studying to be a mechanic. He was diagnosed later as being on the autism spectrum. They also had another son a year after the show. She said they're all doing very well.
@@zeragarrett9815 I was gunna comment I thought he was with the food phobia and the lining up his cars but I’m no psychologist, I’m glad he ended up getting diagnosed :)
Kelsey is so smart. more smart than her mother.
I couldn't stop crying when Sarah had that that conversation with her dad!
I nearly shed a tear when Harry are those baked beans! I felt sooo proud of the little guy
Sara is just terrible to her daughter, even after being counseled...& she seems deliberately oblivious to it. She picks battles unnecessarily. And the joyful, almost adoring affection she shows the Pitt boy was all too partial & obvious...I believe she was, at that time, deliberately slighting her daughter. IMO she resents her, & overall I have the least confidence in her changing her parenting ways. Actually, I think Sara is, at the least, jealous & possibly at the worst narcissistic. My opinion.
She's a coalburner in the making if ever I saw one.
I got exactly the same vibe... She was ignoring her on purpose. Poor little girl with a narc mum.
Not sure about the narcissistic part, but for the rest, I totally agree with you!!! I think sara finds herself less good than her smart daughter - even her own father prefers his grand-daughter may be.... I think here the specialist got it all wrong - she's not helping Sara to grow up by confronting her regularly!!! Pity, otherwise she's been very good in all other aspects!!! Sara is just jealous that her daughter is way better than her!!!
Certainly was difficult to watch her with her daughter. Certainly sad to watch her with the little boy ignoring her girl.
Theo Hamer do you mean gaslighter?
Thanks so much for all these uploads! Been trying to find these for years
I love this show because it’s so awesome to see families solving problems and how they can learn to overcome their issues. It warms my heart.
Sarah is too touchy-feely for my liking and keeps play with that one kid
Also sounds like she jealous of her daughter when it comes to her parents
The little kid that went home because he was too enamored with the play house basically is a real thrower of item at his house my goodness. He definitely matches the criteria for being at the house but the timeouts work on every kid. It’s like these parents never used timeout before they went to that house. It’s the oldest method around because it works, and if the have lots of toys at home in their room maybe try another room like the bathroom. Can put a little video baby monitor in the room you do for timeout just so you can watch them and make sure they are safe/not hurting themselves somehow
Dr Tanya In Incredible 😭
I live for this series.
This is so cool!! And those children are so adorable 🤗🤗🤗
Until they get older. Then it isn't cute anymore.
My parents spoilt my children wildly and we loved them for it! We were pretty strict and our children were well behaved. If they hadn't been well behaved, they wouldn't have spoiled them. It was a thrill for both my parents and my kids to spend together and they had priceless, precious moments and they got to see the tv they wanted and have chocolate donuts for breakfast!
They never said, Papa and Guy let us do these things. They knew the rules were different at home and they're still very close to them 30 years later. It's a wonderful relationship and one I encourage parents to pursue, if they can.
I'm a brand new grandma and currently watching my 3 month old grandson while mom went back to work 3 days a week. You're absolutely hitting the nail on the head of the relationship my mom has with our boys (one is grown with the new baby, lol) and the kind we want to build with our grandson and our future grandchildren. If I watch them regularly I know I will have to be more involved with being consistent with rules/discipline, etc. But we still plan to spoil him as rotten as we can, lol!
I raised my 2 sons the same, they knew when with Grandparents they were spoiled and allowed special privileges, when home more strict rules. 35 yrs later the pattern is repeating itself with our grandbabies it works for us generational it continues.
@@KAP1984 You have grandchildren! How wonderful, I've been waiting for yonks!
Aww. That's so sad about the baby girl they lost. It's not Harrison's fault. Bless him. He didn't ask to be born. I hope things have got better. Ironically they have since had another son called Logan so it must have got a lot better.
I find it slightly odd how Sarah can very easily play with Toby yet doesn't tolerate the same behaviour from her own child. She sees other children getting the attention she should be getting from her mum so of course she plays up
Domine Wimbury how do you know about the other son? Is there an update somewhere?
Juliana Ioannou their Facebook pages lol
Under who's name. The father. The mother. The child.
tina andersen Google Harrison Dixon Devon
Domine Wimbury ok thanks!
I just love to watch this! I wish they put it up more often than just once a week...
I wish the same thing.
Elea me too!
52:15 i wonder if kelsey's grandad gives more attention to kelsey than her mum which she is jealous of. this in turn creates the lack of attention between kelsey n her mum and creates resentment towards kelsey. the mum is wanting attention too.
I love when Tanya saw the boy eat the beans and the yogurt and says "that boy doesn't have an eating disorder..." She looked like a light bulb went off
Love this show! ❤️
Aspergers?
I’m a mom and I believe in breastfeeding is usually best. I tried with mine and unfortunately it didn’t work out. However with this one lady I’m confused. When your child is old enough to walk, talk and potty train and walk up and pull your shirt up it’s time to stop. At that age the child should be eating normal foods and no longer needs breast milk for nutrition. At that point it’s more about the moms mental issues. I’m sorry but if I was the husband I would think it was very odd and I wouldn’t like it either.
Harry and Kelsee are so cute! Especially Kelsee
The red headed mom looks like Kristen Stewart.
Why is kelsy's mom clinging onto the little boy and ignoring her daughter.. I'm confused.
That little girls face when her mom is taking that boy to get a new diaper after he wet himself says it all. She looked heartbroken
That mom treats all the other kids great and like kids and plays and tickles them and her own daughter she never plays with never tickles even when the little girl asked too cuz she was doing it to the young boy
This is like big brother but with kids who have tantrums
I used to have stickers at school when I finished all my dinner back in 1997&1998 and a clap in another school back in 1999&2000.
Thank you for providing us a update on the other family. Much appreciated.
She can treat other child as the age that they are but not her own child.
Cannot stand Sarah. Her poor little girl
I feel there is a bit of OCD with Harrison. I have it too so I can tell someone who has. I love my things done in a certain way; and my things always arranged neatly and in order; and I really hate mess.
I am not too anxious though; thankfully....because I was well socialized when young so I understand people do things differently and some mess is healthy.
Is there a season 2?
poor poor poor little Harrison. 😦😦
The only thing I can think about while watching this is that Toney is very handsome.
Is it bad that for a moment there it had felt like I was back at the ocd program that I had attended back in 2012 an I was just experiencing one of my exposure exercises?
I'm mostly saying this as someone on the spectrum who sees a lot of similarities (from what I remember as a kid): if Harry doesn't have autism I'll be surprised.
The consultation the parents had really hit me, and I wish that my parents had been told to have a little more patience with me.
Family have commented a couple of times. They are still together and had one more son after Harry. Harry was indeed diagnosed with autism, I am also surprised Tanya didn’t pick up on it. At the time of her comment, Harry was 19 and studying to be a mechanic.
I think also had learning difficulties and their second son also had autism.
Hi! Hello Nurture!! Can I use yours Intro Music?Its nice with Melodious Background Symphony!!Can I use it?
"Kids, Teach Your Parents Well"-CSNY
Why do I cry anytime a parent cries after realizing they are behind their child's misbehaving? Why?
I absolutely love tony! So flush out dem blood clots, RastaFari
I've always loved baked beans
Could a child in this group be on the spectrum? Textured and order are both signs.
My mother rejected me all my life I feel for the little girl
Linda Thrall my mother left me when I was 8yrs old. I didn’t see her again for years. Abandonment issues, a feeling that you did something wrong, a sense of “what did I do for my mother to not want me”, and how awful a person you must be because mums are supposed to be loving, proud, and caring? I went through all of that. Now, I’m just angry with her.
White horses are my favourite colour too
I don’t think Harry’s parents caused his anxiety, although they certainly made it worse. Anxiety seems to be a family trait. It wouldn’t surprise me if Harry is diagnosed as having obsessive compulsive disorder when he’s older.
Single mom Sara may very well suffer a degree of sadistic tendencies. (to go along with her narcissistic issue) Her interactions with her little girl are insincere, stiff and flat and have a definite (strong) undercurrent of meaness laced with glimpses of joy. I like her less and less with each episode.
why r the next episodes private? can the ones who sub to your channel not finish watching this series? can I at least get an invite to watch the episodes? im not one of the ones I guess u mean to shut out with making it private ..just a mom wanting to watch
nothing that supernanny hasn't told me
yep
Soo what’s up with the random family
During the end of this show 🤷🏽♀️
I’m sooo confused lol😂🤦🏽♀️
LeekedProductions ...they were at the house in the 1st episode. But went home
The mom not holding her child because it wasn’t a girl is messed up man that is just wrong
When is jo frost coming back? I mean I love this, but I have already seen this season twice from the live stream that was up.......And I'm missing jo
Sierra Carpenter same I want Jojo back
Jo is coming back on tv in 2020
My son loved to line up his toy cars and trucks in all kinds of configurations, and would get upset if I moved them or messed them up! I think lots of boys play with their cars in that way. Nothing unusual about that at all. They’re just copying what they see in real life, on the street or in a parking garage. People feel more comfortable with order. It’s a natural part of being human. He also loved getting messy, had no problem with it. And those canned beans looked absolutely disgusting! I eat just about everything, but I wouldn’t go within 10 miles of those, never fed them to my kids, and they were wonderful eaters. Why not feed him veggies, fruit, and meat, and some starches, like potatoes, noodles, pasta, rice? That sugary yogurt has no nutritional value, either.
Seeing that in the comments people are giving updates and that the kids are now basically adults makes me wonder when this was recorded?
Eunice Chavarria I am harrison mum this was filmed when he was 5 years old , he is now 19 so you can image many years have pasted .
Harry screams autism
the sticky hands is propably a stimulation issue, the over sensitivity to it
lanebreakerRBH it's hilarious how people throw diagnoses with like zero evidence.
Pinksugarelephant zero evidence would be not having seen several videos of said childs behaviour...considering autism is extremely common its very possible
Sara confirmed it on a different thread
That’s what I was thinking having the cars line one is a very autistic thing
No an autistic child wouldn't kiss and hug so easily he engages a lit more than the mother. His mother hatred of him is the issue.
Hes not good for her to busy looking after him self
Sarah's mom needs to stop provoking her.
Oops. Mom Sarah needs to chill.
However I think it's the
it must be worse for mum coz harry looks like her... so is a constant reminder
Harrison’s dad is awesome, Mum’s a cold fish.
Bec White lol crying over a miscarriage and clearly depressed but sure, a cold fish
She's a woman in pain with no one she feels she can turn to. And she realizes it.
Yeah the mother needs to cry for the damage she caused this poor baby....I cried for him.
I seriously wonder what happened to the kids after being on these like supernanny or nanny 911 and what if they end up with misdiagnosis of like adhd? There’s one child from the United States that was on the show supernanny and the after the show he end up being diagnosed with adhd. That’s like a disservice to the family and like a of omission to Jo Frost?
ADHD's now considered to be sub-autism. Get a severe ADHD kid and a REALLY high functioning autistic one (Asperger's under DSM-IV) and there's little difference.
Now she wants to go into her room. Her room is no longer a punishment but a reward.
It isn't supposed to be a punishment, she just needs to go there to calm down so she can get back to the situation she's been taken out of again
It's not a reward. It's an escape from her mother. How sad.
You couldn't see me but I did just roll my eyes.
Wtf is wrong with these parents?!!!!!!!
harrys parents need a pet lol
Now that is just plain wrong. Attending to someone else's child and not your own. Also. I am sorry but a two year old isn't a baby(anymore)
I think Toby is used to everyone treating him like a baby. It made me sad to see her tell her own little girl to put her socks back on, when all she wanted was a little silly play.
Same. I have been treated like I am a child and even at 29 I am still treated like a child.
tina andersen you act like a child.
tina andersen maybe if u stop acting & talking like a child, u will stop being treated like a child
tina andersen people treat you how you allow yourself to be treated.
These parents are just ignorant
Why did Sara rip her plate away? As she licks all her fingers lol. Dont add on things to her plate if she is going to be punished for eating what's on the plate!
I feel bad for Harrison, his mother is too uptight. I hope she realizes this and loosens up so she can enjoy her child while he is still young.
Bury a child. Bury the emotions.
tina andersen .... U are sooo rude
I think they skipped so much, hardly anything about the breastfeeding couple and what outing did Kelsey and her mum went on
They showed lots about the outing Kelsey and her mum went on.
I think Sara should give her child to someone who will really love him. Either that or her husband should take him away from his rejecting mother.
He sounds so thrilled(NOT)
Why would anyone want kids?
Harrison's parents seem genuinely lacking intelligence.
É Caoimhe that's harsh! Did you actually watch the episode? Harrison's Mum has post-natal depression AND she's grieving the loss of Ellie-Mae. There's no indication she lacks intelligence. I think she's very intelligent - her progress has been amazing!
What do you mean they lack intelligence?...What makes you say that?*friendly question*
É Caoimhe lol! I think they're coming across like that cuz of their accents too!
I agree with you. The are also uneducated, unread and truly lack self awareness. The depression is beside the point and their emotional IQ is as lacking as their intelligence and book learning.
They couldn't even choose between naming their daughter Ellie or May!
This show turns good child-rearing practices on their head. Parents are told they are always the problem, and rude, monster kids have to be placated and mollified at every turn. The only way to stop them misbehaving is to give into them at every turn. These kids are in for a huge nasty surprise when they go out into the world and find that that's not how it works. Schools is going to be one huge trauma for them.
The two well-behaved kids, on the other hand, are completely ignored. Great going guys. Ignore good behaviour and reward the bad. You are teaching these monsters to be selfish, self-centred, self-indulgent and oblivious to the needs and rights and boundaries of other people. You are sowing the wind and you are going to reap the whirlwind.
You don't understand the show if you think that. The point is to reward their GOOD behavior, not bad. You can see that it works, too. Also, it doesn't look like Tiimu is being ignored at all to me.
The parents ARE at fault. A child is a child. Everything they do is a response to their environment. That means the child is being naughty because the parents are doing something wrong
I do understand . Your reductionist thinking and total lack of logic make your pronouncements utterly worthless. Environment is not everything. Go look up genetic predispositions. Children can and are very often born as monsters and these are prime examples. My bet is that these kids are going to be psych cases, addicts and criminals.
@@theinkbrain if that was the case, why is it that their behaviour is drasticly changing because of the use of new parenting techniques? If your assumption was correct, then there wouldn't be any change at all.
Do you have children? :)
Sure, Professor I Know It All.
I know that you guys really don't care but I will tell you anyways. I won't be able to watch today new episode until later on tonight. Normally I am off today from work but today I work.
tina andersen ...yes u are absolutely correct... Nobody cares
I'm not trying to be mean at all...but Why did you feel compelled to share that on this comment thread?
What is the big deal? He isn't eating new foods. He is just eating his bread and butter.
The issue is that he lacks the nutrients that his body needs (for example vitamins and minerals). That can stunt his growth, hinder his brain development, and weaken his immune system. That's why it's important that he learns to take in a bigger variety of foods :)
Again with the talking behind someone's back. Shakes her head in disgust. Also it sounds like some one is jealous.
And heres Tanya again make excuses for Harry's behavior. She started with he is a sad little boy and now he is anxious. He just needs love and understanding. No kind of bounderies, rules, consequences. Sorry that is so wrong. He isnt sad and anxious they just all needed a change. But he definitely needed a change (the issues with eating, the cursing.)
Lola Lopez, Tanya is not making excuses. I believe as things are revealed to her, she is formulating an assessment.
S D , have you seen all the episodes involving Harry? The parents were dumb founded when she first told them he was a sad sad little boy. They even said, we never even thought that. But if you look at how Tanya attacked everything the mother did, and you look at the way she led that little boy on-- in court we call that leading a witness, and its pretty much the same when a psychologist does it with a little boy. Manipulating a child is an easy thing to do. And her interaction with Harry seemed manipulative. Look at how she attacked the mom when she reprimanded the boy in the first episode when he flicked the finger at a camara in what was going to be his bedroom! She said mom attacked this little boy, when in fact she did what any normal mom would do. So I disagree. The only thing that really changed is the parents praise his every move and do not really reprimand him anymore so of course they are going to get along. But like Kelsey the good doctor failed to address the use of profanity by this little children! That is scary that kids that age could speak that way. And everyone says oooh its cause theyve heard the parents. Thats BS, Im a mom, I cursed in front of my kids and they knew that mom could sometimes slip, but that in NO WAY MEANT, THAT THEY, AT 4 OR 5 COULD SPEAK THAT WAY AND THEY STILL CANT. So i dont buy that either..... I just think this Dr. Gives to many excuses for bad behavior.
Bingo Wingz , like you are any better, calling people names for posting their opinion!
+Lola I agree completely. Give into him and do things the way he wants and he will 'behave'.
@@theinkbrain , thank you! I guess we are the only ones who think this logical way?
Harrison's issues might also have a biomedical component to them or not. Many vaccine injured children self limit their diet to wheat and milk and sugar because they have leaky guts and the wheat and milk peptides leak into the gut causing an opioid like effect; and many also have yeast and bacterial overgrowth in their guts and these produce toxins. Other indications of biomedical problems are lining up things, aggression, anxiety, high pitched screaming, food intolerance, sometimes indicative of PANDAS/PANS. He might have biomedical problems resulting in ADHD and PANDAS/PANS or not. Dr. Kenneth Bock's book, "Healing the New Childhood Epidemics: Autism, ADHD, Asthma and Allergies." Dr. Christopher Exley, an expert in aluminum side effects, biopsied five autistic brains and his team found the highest amount of aluminum, most intracellular, they had ever seen. Non-autistic children and adults are affected also by aluminum. Another good book, "Crooked: Man-Made Disease Explained." The incredible story of metal, microbes, and medicine - hidden within our faces.
lori m
I don't believe a word of this. I am sorry. Just hokey, pokey nonsense, Lining the doctors pockets. Creating more problems for parents. It's already difficult, why add more stress to parenting. If it works for you, I'm happy for you. Would not work for me.
I understand, Joyce. GAPS diet did help our son who was born normal but the more vaccines he got and the more food we added to his diet, he started autistic symptoms and slowly progressed into severe autism with headbanging, screaming, aggression, in pain, also has many food allergies, eczema. Probiotics help, also. He is much improved.
Who is more idiotic? One who has no understanding of a subject calling another an idiot?
Why do you think vaccines cause any of this?
Because less than two days after my daughter's second round of six vaccine doses, she woke up with much mucous in her diaper and foul diarrhea until we switched her formula to soy formula. Later starting her second day of rice cereal, she threw it up and she threw up most food until we got her allergy tested at 18 months old. The doctor insisted it was unrelated and we continued to have her vaccinated except when she was sick but I knew when the allergies started and never felt right about it after that but didn't realize I had a choice at the time. Our son was developing normally but the more vaccines he got and the more food we added to his diet, he started autistic like symptoms and progressed slowly into severe autism with high pitched screaming and headbanging and he is allergic to most foods and has had eczema problems. When hundreds of thousands of parents are telling of vaccine injury stories, it is no longer coincidence and needs to be researched and it has but the research is either ignored, denied or attacked. Vaccines are not tested against a true placebo group. The so called placebo group receives other vaccines or vaccine ingredients like injected aluminum which has been shown to be neurotoxic to living things. Since vaccines are classified as biologics, they are not held to the gold standard of research and many are only tested for a few days. The CDC refuses to do an epidemiological study comparing the health and development of never vaccinated to fully vaccinated children. Since 1986, there has not been any liability for those who make or administer vaccines in the USA. In 2011, the Supreme Court said that vaccines are unavoidably unsafe. Research has shown that recently vaccinated people can shed viruses and bacteria to those around them. "Miller's Review of Critical Vaccine Studies: 400 Important Scientific Papers Summarized for Parents and Researchers" is a good resource, also. Dr. Peter Aaby compared children who received DTP and Polio vaccines to those who hadn't in urban Africa and found the vaccinated group was 10 times more likely to die from other causes than those that did not receive the DTP and polio vaccines. Perhaps because their immune systems were weakened? Research has shown autoimmunity and injected aluminum to be linked, also. Unlike ingested aluminum, most injected aluminum does not leave the body.