Hi Heather I just want to say…if no one has told YOU yet today YOU are worthy, you are bueatiful, and you are amazing just the way you are Keep up the good work I was looking forward to your episodes 😊
Totally agree. Dating is a process and you’re going through it. You leave when you realize the man is not for you. It can be overwhelming and may sometimes feel hopeless but we grow and learn from all these relationships so we are better equipped when the right man enters our life. Love your positivity. The right man may enter your life when you least expect it and when you are not looking ❤
I appreciate your honesty and willingness to address your past issues and vulnerabilities. I, too, grew up in an alcoholic home amid constant chaos, as have so many others. Congrats on meeting your issues head on., Grappling with them, and ultimately defeating them by recognizing past negative patterns of behavior we develop as a result of our dysfunctional childhoods. You don’t have to be in a hurry. Just take your time and have fun with the guys. You are gorgeous and strong on your own. The hard work you’ve put in on yourself will pay off in the long run.
Heather, you are still so young with plenty of time to find someone that will be right for you. Always trust your intuition it has a louder voice than any person you would speak to. ❤
You know Heather, these men are very good at hiding the fact they are unavailable emotionally. It takes a little time for you to spot this trait. You’re doing fine at weeding them out. Just because you didn’t work out with these men does not mean you are a failure. Six weeks is the minimum amount of time to be able to trust your judgement (nobody wants to throw away a good man!) You really are doing great. whether you trust yourself yet or not is coming, just keep believing in yourself!
I think you are doing great with your dating journey. All these steps you have taken- and the evolution of your decision making- will ultimately lead you right where you need to go and with whom. The rught person for you might well be going through hour iwn journey and evolution getting ready to meet you . Maybe he has more lessons to learn. The timing will all come together for you. Keep up your growth and journey and thank you for sharing your circumstances and vulnerabilities.
Heather I've been following what you've been saying on your dating stuff. Consider yourself lucky that you were able to spot the problem ahead of time and not invest too much time into it. I've been using the 90-day rule, because it filters out all the ones that they just looking to for a quickie, and the ones that don't want to get to know me.
Heather, thank you for your honesty and for sharing your experiences. Like I told you before I never thought Mr. Yellowstone was your forever person. I think when you meet him, you will know in every fiber of your being, it will be instantaneous recognition that this is your person. That being said, women that are attractive, put together, polished, elegant, articulate, and most importantly, the women that have taken a journey inward, threaten the majority of men. We end up reflecting back to them all of their insecurities, lack of confidence, and feelings of inadequacy. Believe it or not, there are more men than women that need the woman they’re involved with to be a project. I would bet money that the men you dated in 2024 came on strong, seemed to have their lives together, and once they started to see that you actually have your life together and are doing the work, they feel threatened. God is never one second late and His timing is sooo much better than ours. ❤
Great video! And Good on you for going to a professional to talk about your situation. You are doing so well. Someone else said this, and its true. It takes time to get to know these men, and in all honesty, you did it pretty quickly. Considering you were in a distance situation, I think you determined things very fast. A THAT is something to be so proud of. Your Man is out there and he Will find you!😊❤PS I still love those greg jeans! Looking for a more reasonably priced pair. 😉
Heather- you are so inspiring. I need to remember that God is going to take care of my needs. He did send me the amazing man 12 years ago and now I’m looking for a new career opportunity. Thanks for the reminder. Yes, your man is right around the corner.
I would LOVE to see you dedicate some videos to different body types. My body is very different from yours...I absolutely cannot wear high waist jeans, due to a short torso, & because they are so popular I have difficulty finding similarly designed jeans in a mid-rise cut. For reference I am 5' 9", 118 lbs, 36" inseam. (all arms & legs) I have a rectangle body shape; very lean, but no defined waist. The high waist jeans are totally boxy on me & touch or almost touch my bra band😮😮I can't be the only one! I love your content & get some very good ideas to modify for myself, but the jeans world is daunting for me right now....help! Please & thank you!
Healing is a journey. I had very similar dating experiences to yours and have dedicated myself to healing rather than dating for the past few years. The men that would have been attracted to me then are NOTHING like the men that are interested in me now. Also.. I personally feel that it gives men the wrong idea when I wear clothes that show to much skin (like the animal print bustier). 🙈
Just got my wide leg jeans and I love them. When my teen/20's kids have break-ups I always think, that's a good sign that they can decide what is good or bad for them at some level. Obviously obsession with staying to be the caretaker or not-leaving for oneself is an unhealthy thing. Thanks for your sharing. Any tips for just going to the market make-up? What's the minimal look you think...
I love body suits too. Anything to mix with other things I have. When you have classic staples, you can have so many outfits. I love animal prints. I have some I’ve had forever. As long as they are in great condition, I wear them. I have gold shoes, sandals & a gold purse I’ve had for a while. I need to go thru my tub, 😂I may have some real gems’s !! 😂
I have the camel sweater with black zebra stripes, I paired it with a pair of express jeans same color as the camel in the sweater. I paired it with a brown bomber jacket. Looked so cute. I’m going to wear it with my black leather blazer & black booties. ❤
Love your structured, fitted Alice and Olivia vegan leather blazer but the only one I see is a double breasted. Could you please send the link for the exact one you're wearing- Love it! xoxo from Toronto
I’ve been single for a long time, by choice. In my opinion guys want to get serious way too quickly. They need us more than we need them. I’d give it lots of time and don’t get intimate soo quickly. Took me a few years to call my last relationship “a relationship”. It’s too much, way too soon. No thanks.
Could it be you find yourself attracted to the good looking badboy type? Although Im a confirmed single lady now, I am still attracted to that kind of man. Its a vibe we sense even tho our gut screams NO. So take a break from dating completely. When a man approaches you, be nice but guarded and do not accept a date stating you havent got the time right now. Decide whether to give him your contact info. Also be aware he can find you on your sites. Let the man 'chase' you but know that some like the chase better than the catch. Be selective. And broaden your interests. Adding a hobby or activity may bring you to places you've never tried before so wont know the type of people you could meet there. I absolutely enjoy following you here so dont quit! Just add something to your life. For example, I took up painting and IF I were interested in finding someone, I'd go to art shows that interest me and see what kind of men share that interest and conversation. I will talk to anyone and everyone but avoid all comments (still harbor too many emotion years later). Youre a beautiful woman. Do not settle.
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Hi Heather
I just want to say…if no one has told YOU yet today YOU are worthy, you are bueatiful, and you are amazing just the way you are
Keep up the good work I was looking forward to your episodes 😊
@@BeliaMendez >> awww thank you so much!!
Totally agree. Dating is a process and you’re going through it. You leave when you realize the man is not for you. It can be overwhelming and may sometimes feel hopeless but we grow and learn from all these relationships so we are better equipped when the right man enters our life. Love your positivity. The right man may enter your life when you least expect it and when you are not looking ❤
I appreciate your honesty and willingness to address your past issues and vulnerabilities. I, too, grew up in an alcoholic home amid constant chaos, as have so many others. Congrats on meeting your issues head on., Grappling with them, and ultimately defeating them by recognizing past negative patterns of behavior we develop as a result of our dysfunctional childhoods. You don’t have to be in a hurry. Just take your time and have fun with the guys. You are gorgeous and strong on your own. The hard work you’ve put in on yourself will pay off in the long run.
Heather, you are still so young with plenty of time to find someone that will be right for you. Always trust your intuition it has a louder voice than any person you would speak to. ❤
Dear Heather, same here, I love your work and am very thankful to here that I am not alone with such experiences, thanks and all the best for you ❤
Love your style. I really loved the Leppard print dress in your last video. Full on support for taking care of yourself in the relationship arena.❤
I like a wide leg fitted jean with a pointed toe bootie. You're a strong and intelligent woman! I love how Dolce is always by your side.
You know Heather, these men are very good at hiding the fact they are unavailable emotionally. It takes a little time for you to spot this trait. You’re doing fine at weeding them out. Just because you didn’t work out with these men does not mean you are a failure. Six weeks is the minimum amount of time to be able to trust your judgement (nobody wants to throw away a good man!) You really are doing great. whether you trust yourself yet or not is coming, just keep believing in yourself!
I think you are doing great with your dating journey. All these steps you have taken- and the evolution of your decision making- will ultimately lead you right where you need to go and with whom.
The rught person for you might well be going through hour iwn journey and evolution getting ready to meet you . Maybe he has more lessons to learn.
The timing will all come together for you. Keep up your growth and journey and thank you for sharing your circumstances and vulnerabilities.
Heather I've been following what you've been saying on your dating stuff. Consider yourself lucky that you were able to spot the problem ahead of time and not invest too much time into it. I've been using the 90-day rule, because it filters out all the ones that they just looking to for a quickie, and the ones that don't want to get to know me.
We subscribers may not always comment or say so, but we care! I am praying for you to find that right one.
I bought that snow leopard coat by Karl Lagerfeld from Nordstrom & boy did I get the compliments. It’s so warm & just gorgeous !❤
Heather, thank you for your honesty and for sharing your experiences. Like I told you before I never thought Mr. Yellowstone was your forever person. I think when you meet him, you will know in every fiber of your being, it will be instantaneous recognition that this is your person. That being said, women that are attractive, put together, polished, elegant, articulate, and most importantly, the women that have taken a journey inward, threaten the majority of men. We end up reflecting back to them all of their insecurities, lack of confidence, and feelings of inadequacy. Believe it or not, there are more men than women that need the woman they’re involved with to be a project. I would bet money that the men you dated in 2024 came on strong, seemed to have their lives together, and once they started to see that you actually have your life together and are doing the work, they feel threatened.
God is never one second late and His timing is sooo much better than ours. ❤
@@dominique7490 wow your wise words really resonate with me!! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Great video! And Good on you for going to a professional to talk about your situation. You are doing so well. Someone else said this, and its true. It takes time to get to know these men, and in all honesty, you did it pretty quickly. Considering you were in a distance situation, I think you determined things very fast. A
THAT is something to be so proud of. Your Man is out there and he Will find you!😊❤PS I still love those greg jeans! Looking for a more reasonably priced pair. 😉
Heather- you are so inspiring. I need to remember that God is going to take care of my needs. He did send me the amazing man 12 years ago and now I’m looking for a new career opportunity. Thanks for the reminder. Yes, your man is right around the corner.
I would LOVE to see you dedicate some videos to different body types. My body is very different from yours...I absolutely cannot wear high waist jeans, due to a short torso, & because they are so popular I have difficulty finding similarly designed jeans in a mid-rise cut. For reference I am 5' 9", 118 lbs, 36" inseam. (all arms & legs) I have a rectangle body shape; very lean, but no defined waist. The high waist jeans are totally boxy on me & touch or almost touch my bra band😮😮I can't be the only one! I love your content & get some very good ideas to modify for myself, but the jeans world is daunting for me right now....help! Please & thank you!
Healing is a journey. I had very similar dating experiences to yours and have dedicated myself to healing rather than dating for the past few years. The men that would have been attracted to me then are NOTHING like the men that are interested in me now. Also.. I personally feel that it gives men the wrong idea when I wear clothes that show to much skin (like the animal print bustier). 🙈
Just got my wide leg jeans and I love them. When my teen/20's kids have break-ups I always think, that's a good sign that they can decide what is good or bad for them at some level. Obviously obsession with staying to be the caretaker or not-leaving for oneself is an unhealthy thing. Thanks for your sharing. Any tips for just going to the market make-up? What's the minimal look you think...
You are amazing!
I’d like you to style faux fur coats
Love it !! ❤
I ccan relate. I am 50ish and say a similar pray. I know God's best for me is on the way.
Love the jacket . I love the “Dicky blazer, they have. I want a navy blazer.
I love body suits too. Anything to mix with other things I have. When you have classic staples, you can have so many outfits. I love animal prints. I have some I’ve had forever. As long as they are in great condition, I wear them. I have gold shoes, sandals & a gold purse I’ve had for a while. I need to go thru my tub, 😂I may have some real gems’s !! 😂
I have the camel sweater with black zebra stripes, I paired it with a pair of express jeans same color as the camel in the sweater. I paired it with a brown bomber jacket. Looked so cute. I’m going to wear it with my black leather blazer & black booties. ❤
I like body suits yet the ‘thong’ is uncomfortable. So I avoid them
What makes you look younger? Sporty outfit at your yoga class
LOVE THE ANIMAL PRINT LITTLE PURSE. WHERE CAN I PURCHASE
Love your structured, fitted Alice and Olivia vegan leather blazer but the only one I see is a double breasted. Could you please send the link for the exact one you're wearing- Love it! xoxo from Toronto
i wear bodysuits from express to work out in bwcause the fabric is perfect for that. i can dress them up to go out as well
Let man chase you. Stop chasing for man
I’ve got to have that cardigan 😁
💭 I’d love to see you in lighter softer colors … maybe that’s just how I’m feeling these days. The dark colors / slick prints feel harsh to me
@@des1180 I agree!! 💜💜
Outfit 11 ~ I verbally said out loud ~ Oooooo! Now that is a tastefully sexy outfit !!
Cute puppy 🙂 what is her name? 😊
I’m so sorry it didn’t work out with Mr Yellowstone. It’s ok. You still have lots of years ahead of you.
I had no idea body suits were back in. I can’t deal with the closures in the crotch lol but you look great as always!
God is preparing you and getting your heart ready keep confessing he is on his way ....and he will be along soon
Dating in Dalles. More video's..Whst. to wear on Dates
😊
Mote dresses please
I’ve been single for a long time, by choice. In my opinion guys want to get serious way too quickly. They need us more than we need them. I’d give it lots of time and don’t get intimate soo quickly. Took me a few years to call my last relationship “a relationship”. It’s too much, way too soon. No thanks.
Agree 💯
Could it be you find yourself attracted to the good looking badboy type? Although Im a confirmed single lady now, I am still attracted to that kind of man. Its a vibe we sense even tho our gut screams NO. So take a break from dating completely. When a man approaches you, be nice but guarded and do not accept a date stating you havent got the time right now. Decide whether to give him your contact info. Also be aware he can find you on your sites. Let the man 'chase' you but know that some like the chase better than the catch. Be selective. And broaden your interests. Adding a hobby or activity may bring you to places you've never tried before so wont know the type of people you could meet there. I absolutely enjoy following you here so dont quit! Just add something to your life. For example, I took up painting and IF I were interested in finding someone, I'd go to art shows that interest me and see what kind of men share that interest and conversation. I will talk to anyone and everyone but avoid all comments (still harbor too many emotion years later). Youre a beautiful woman. Do not settle.
Thats commitments not comments lol
@@ritasnow6386 - will do! Such wise advice ❤️❤️❤️ thank you!!!!
You dont look 40 or 50 with a slim body❤ So its not the age its your body if you take care of it❤