THE BABY GRAVE GETS WORSE!!! After cleaning graves, she also frequently PAINTS them!!! In some clips you can see shaky lettering and wet paint dripping on the headstones. Yes, this includes the infant's grave! What a disgusting human being.
Some stone/materials can get destroyed by paint. It doesn't matter if it's water or oil based paint. It's idiotic to paint materials without knowing the material! Brick, wood, marble and so on will react differently!
@@AuroraPaintBrush4444 It would be bad enough if she was applying a replacement layer of paint for a grave that once had been painted before, but if she's so well-versed in chemistry, she should've known that some things are left unpainted for good reason!
I think she’s also ended up “accidentally” cleaning off the previously painted gravestones (a lot of people paint instead of engrave headstones) and so she trys to repaint the name and dates
No because I was WAITING for this to be discussed and I’m so shocked it wasn’t bc this is one of my biggest issues with her. I can’t imagine going to visit a family member and their grave being painted entirely differently
There is a tiktoker I saw awhile ago, can't remember her name, who cleaned graves very respectfully, she always mentioned getting premission from the graveyard owners/any living relatives. She was a professional who knew what products to use on which stones, and researched the deceased's lives to honor and describe them in her videos. This girl just takes respectful ideas like that and uses them for clout and cash
I got curious so I looked around and I believe the creator I'm thinking of is manicpixiemom , she still posts grave cleaning videos detailing the lives of the deceased and has made at least one video making fun of the clean girl's methods
@@nitz_oit’s super interesting too because if you go back down enough in the clean girls post history you actually find "reasonable" videos of her cleaning graves…. She talks about the story behind them and is much more calm and chill. She doesn’t use this weird troom troom like voice and doesn’t talk to the audience like we’re under intelligent children… I guess that didn’t make as much money though.
@@silentspidergaming So far I've only seen the thumbnail, and I would just like to ask, is the disrespect cleaning the grave? Because people are hired to clean graves. I feel that cleaning graves respects the dead, allowing them to be seen and respected again. This is no hate, I am just honestly very confused.
I'm gonna be honest, she seems like she plays into certain fetishes the way she does her content so it's just so weird to be involving dead children into it...
My former workplace hosted a history event in our local cemetery each year. The oldest baby’s grave is not part of it, but every year people ask & we take them to it. Not one person has done anything but say a prayer or take a moment of silence. The human cost of invading & settling the west is pondered respectfully. The deep but painful connection that is human grief is felt. That is how normal humans approach the reminder of someone’s most painful sorrow & of a tragedy that took a life too soon. The parents were of the Victorian era, they chose the headstone and would not want their mourning tradition “spiffed up.” (note: native people here did sky burial, which leaves nothing behind - it’s beautiful ecologically but alarming to some, look up carefully - so there were no preceding children’s graves before colonization, I am not forgetting the *real* locals)
some asshole stole a custom mini-wooden guitar with “drock” written across it from my uncle’s grave. this was his nickname, he played guitar and listened to rock music. my brother had it made and was absolutely devastated when he found out it was gone.
That's absolutely heartbreaking and diabolical what the hell??? I know that we're just strangers but my condolences to your family, man, I can't imagine how much pain your brother must have felt
was it a gift you left on the grave? some graveyards clear flowers/objects on graves after they've been out for so long. unfortunate it happened to you though.
Clean Girl also paints graves since graves aren't usually that white, so that means that she's most likely actually DEFACING graves. One of the graves was also one of a war veteran and she painted a small spot of the metal plate devoted to the war veteran.
I’m so glad that someone’s finally bringing up the “clean girl” aesthetic. it’s honestly always bugged me how someone makes being clean and pure their entire personality! esp with this crazy lady 😭
@@kingscandidate I totally agree, and you can usually tell when the person doing the service is genuine vs. someone who's just in it for the content like this lady :/
My niece died when she was 5 months old. The fact that she’s acting like she’s a victim (“this is so sad” “i wanna pet my dog”) is just insanely infuriating. Rest in peace to that little boy ❤️
Former janitor here! We can’t use just any chemical or substance to clean bathrooms especially at a restaurant so we can make sure it’s up to inspection and is safe. Every single food place I’ve worked at as a janitor has the same regulated chemicals… like if I so much as think about using fabuloso I’d get in huge trouble.
Exactly I’m not a janitor but I do work with food. We can’t use any chemicals and cleaning products we feel like. There are only certain things that are approved. We also wouldn’t be able to use scented cleaning products bc that would mess with the smell and taste of the food
Used to work at a hospital cleaning patients rooms. There were so many rules and regulations on the cleaning supplies We used. You never know what a future patients are allergic or sensitive to.
I'm in food manufacturing now, and it's a similar deal. We have to be the ones sanitizing machinery and what we use has to be approved by the company's quality & safety people. An extra consideration is that we work with chocolate, which is really sensitive to surrounding smells.
The people who work at McDonalds don't clean the toilets. They'd have a cleaning company come in after closing time, since that don't prevent people from using it during open hours. If she came at closing time and offered to clean for free, they'd probably let her, but blocking access during open hours is not doing them a service.
It depends on the McDonald ! Where I used to work, their is an employee just for that or if it’s a 24h location, it was one of the night shift employees schedule for that (honestly, one of the best shifts that I did)
If she was allowed to go in to clean after hours, if anything happens to her McDonald's would be liable. I am a commercial cleaner and insurance is very much needed, also a contract. No corporation is going to allow some random influencer to come in and work, regardless if she's doing it for free or not.
@@alexstars40 living in another country we had to clean the toilets as workers. Like once every few hours going in to check how clean it is and then getting the stuff we needed to clean. Mostly connected to cleaning the tables after and maybe mopping the floor
Its so irritating. When my grandma died my family decided to "let nature" do its thing. So the grave is not to be cleaned, even though we put flowers. I can't even IMAGINE my mom's reaction if we found out someone cleaned it.
Memorial Day is still very big here as the day you do that, esp among the OG Latino community (arrived in 1905!). I was doordashing that day & saw so many families gently cleaning graves & then a family reading a story to a grave. Oh man I just burst into tears again. You leave families to grieve in their way, and then you leave those people to history. I know the former cemetery superintendent & his huge headstone is already done and installed, they’ll add just his & his wife’s death dates, and he picked everything carefully & chose the perfect location and spent a lotta money making sure they could rest easy in life knowing everything is handled. If anyone ever changed one bit of it, it would be so disrespectful to all the time & resources he has put into his own passing. Even the summer mowing crew of college kids have some sort of secular holiness that they respect there & the staff are the kindest, most detail oriented folks who just want to protect your loved one. This woman is the “anti” of everything she’s claiming to be!
If i may ask, what was it like? Where there specific rules? or how was it determined which grave should be cleaned ? Feel free not to answer if you don't wish too.
Haven't even started the video yet but i have to say that this girl makes me so mad. Especially when people defend her like "oh she's doing nothing wrong" shes DEFILING PEOPLE'S GRAVES, she washed a dead kids plush animals, washed off the love those plush animals had been given when the kid was alive. I can't even imagine how devastated the parents were when they saw it.
@@Hansuki1she actually does paint the graves! She’s painted a Veterans grave white and a baby girls grave pink (same with washing toys and replacing the flowers with fakes). The paint she uses and the soap brand she owns pretty much can destroy the stone as well
I’m asthmatic and am allergic to a lot of cleaning products and I would be so annoyed if I had an asthma attack or an allergic reaction because of this woman cleaning a bathroom without permission
As a McDonalds employee, this is actually part of the reason we don’t permit others to interfere with the cleaning. Our cleaning chemicals are intended to be safe for any possible medical issues who might come through, because if something we do leads to health issues or death, we’re naturally liable. If we can’t confirm that these cleaning products aren’t safe for any individual who might come through, we cannot allow them to continue for our customer safety.
Right like if she really wants to help ppl who need it she should find ppl who need help cleaning their house. Maybe they aren’t able to bc of a disability or something. Those are ppl who could actually benefit from her cleaning. Instead of corporations where they have to have only approved cleaning products and also only use the appropriate amount.
"I've never seen this before" is such a class indicator. Pretty much my entire extended family is buried in the same place because we're several generations of working class, and even that's a form of privilege because there are mass unmarked gravesites of First Nations kids under most residential schools
There are unmarked graves under houses too, hell. They really killed folk left n' right. I'm p sure a great, great grandpa of mine who died in a civil war is in a mass grave somewhere.
If you’ve worked fast food, you know they have a little catalog of all the products with chemicals they use and what they’re used for , SPECIFICALLY because some can’t be mixed and they need to know what’s being used everywhere in case of any sort of incident! Like she really is making the lives of employees so much harder and creating dangerous situations using unknown, harsh cleaning chemicals!
Exactly and they also need to know how much of a product is used in case someone used too much. Using too much of a product can create a stronger smell which can possibly cause some kind of issue.
This is standard practice in any business. This also is for the customers, who may have an allergic reaction and the employees have absolutely no way of knowing what chemicals were used.
The harsh chemicals she uses and how agressively she scrubs the graves is really concerning. Like stated, this stuff could ruin and degrade the stone, and the chemicals can harm the surrounding enviroment if left to seep into dirt. She just completely disregards the wellbeing of someone elses grave, potentially someone with still living relatives who remember them, is disgusting.
I audibly wailed when I saw her SCRUBBING that grave. I don't know the material it was made of (maybe marble?) but around here, a lot of graves are made of limestone which degrades so easily that it's in our tap water. I do hope that that grave was made of something sturdy, because otherwise she'll have done to it in an hour what nature would do to it in months if not years.
Another level to this, i really dont trust that her cleaning products are approved for outdoor use like that. She is most certainly hurting the soil and plants around those graves.
Yeah those colours/consistency looks so harsh, no way those are environment safe chemicals, and if comments are right and she's painting them too then i doubt theyre environment safe paint either
The worse thing is in Germany graves are far more than simple white concrete blocks and a cross. They're handmade from colorful stone, the names and numbers are either carved in or put on as copper lettering. Sometimes there's even metal decoration resembling a human, an angel, just basically anything, and the loved ones of the deceased can customize 100% of the grave. So putting that all into perspective, she wouldn't just do smth very disrespectful, she'd do something heartbreaking. Expensive materials are used in the making of such a grave, so fixing the damage she could cause might be impossible to pay (graves cost about 3000€ here)
Here in the UK too. I've seen so many graves that are black marble and gold or copper lettering. Well kept and looked after too. I've seen angels and other things too. These graves run well into £5,000+. I've also seen the marble ones carved into hearts or books. Pictures of the person/people are added to the headstone too sometimes.
@@xFyodorsCellox I’m from the US and a lot of our graves are similar, for example my grandfather’s grave is black marble and a conjoined grave for when my grandmother eventually joins him (I hope it’s no time soon) it has so much engraving on it and it would be devastating if she did something like that
This woman is disgusting. If I saw her defacing the grave of one of my loved ones, hands would be thrown. I don’t know how people enjoy watching her. Just the fact that she has the audacity to think that she’s doing a favor, when she has NOTHING to do with those people or their families is awful. ESPECIALLY WHEN SHES JUST DOING IT FOR CONTENT.
notice how in the professional/legal version, there isn’t any bright colors or flashy text. in comparison to the clean girl’s video, they don’t look super over edited and disrespectful. they’re slow paced and thoughtful, and the difference is obvious.
the difference in the way they clean the grave is crazy, the professional uses so much care and is so gentle but clean girl completely defiles them, with powerwashers and i think she even spraypaints them beforeshe cleans them???
i saw your story and i truly deeply hope that you are alright. i know that youre just a face on the other side of a screen, but ive been a subscriber for a very long time now, and it pains me to see you have to go through such hardship. i know what its like to spend copious amounts of time in the hospital, and i know what its like for them to have absolutely no idea what seems to be the problem with your body, so you have no choice but to stay longer and spend more money. you are truly a wonderful person and to see you struggle breaks my heart. thank you so much for all that you do, and im sure that i speak for all of your fans when i say that youre legendary at what you do, and we understand if your posts will have to be delayed. please put yourself first, and i trust that this is going into good hands, for a good cause. take care louis, we all love and care for you so much!
i have been through something similar to what you are going through, and it was nothing short of an uphill battle. for two years "life happened," and i was forced to deal with the outcomes of it. its why i was diagnosed with epilepsy, then un-diagnosed with epilepsy, and its the reason why ive been diagnosed with anxiety, depression, and adhd. on one hand i got the help i needed, but on the other im graduating high school in january instead of last june, and its taken such a toll on me because all of my friends are in college now and moving on with their lives - something i couldnt do. my school doesnt treat me like a senior, and this year i dont get special recognition, i dont get to participate in things like the musical or senior ball, just like how i wouldnt have been able to last year either. ive written entire essays about the last two to three years of my life, and theyve been so descriptive and deeply detailed that ive been flagged on goguardian and had my computer shut down. the bottom line is, i havent experienced exactly what youre going through, but i know what its like - i know it in my stomach - and i wouldnt wish it on anyone in the world, especially you. just please know that it does get better, and you do have people who support you and care for you, youve created such an amazing fanbase. if youre curious about one of the essays, here is my most recent: "God kills indiscriminately... and so shall we. For no creatures under God are as we are, none so like Him as ourselves." -Lestat de Lioncourt TRIGGER WARNING: Elements of s*icide and depression, describes a seizure in graphic detail. On the first day of English class with [my teachers name], my life changed drastically within not even the first few minutes. I walked into the classroom, saw my friend, walked over to her and sat down, complimented her outfit, and snap - I could feel my face distorting like a wet watercolor painting being blasted with a hair dryer, every muscle on my entire body involuntarily and painfully contracting while thunder and a deafening ringing blared through my ears, and I was down within literal seconds. About twenty minutes later I “woke up,” if you can even call it that (and for lack of a better term), with strangers surrounding me. In a trance, my head was spinning and I realized that I couldn’t move. The only thing I could move was my eyes, the only thing I could hear was my thoughts. I couldn’t understand where I was or what was happening or what these people were saying, and I couldn’t move. Why couldn’t I move? 'Move! This is so embarrassing. What just happened? I can’t feel my entire body… Did I faint? I don’t think so. I blacked out, I know that - are those paramedics? Is that a stretcher? What the *hell* is going on?' All I could do was blink and breathe, my heart racing as I felt nothing but the cold, hard floor on the back of my head in a numb, frostbitten way. I was too weak to talk or cry. This did not feel like just me normally lying on the floor; every single one of my senses were stunted, and I truly could do nothing but scream in my head. It almost felt like I was lifeless, like how your last things to go when you d*e are your sense of hearing and your own thoughts. Maybe I hit my head on the desk so hard on my way down that I d*ed. It felt like a completely detached, out-of-body experience in the most painfully aware and grounded way possible. It was all so bizarrely surreal and abstract. I didn’t know it yet, but this would be my first of many seizures to come. A few weeks later I was diagnosed with epilepsy and was forced to stay home for a few months by the school nurse until I could get my new medication under control. This medication is known for having extreme and harsh side effects, and I happened to be experiencing just about all of them that one could possibly name. During these few months, I lost my grip on reality, buried with late assignments and notifications and my own thoughts, which can be deadly - especially for someone who was always a “gifted kid” and always performed highly in school. My life was ripped away from me, and there was nothing I could do about it. This, along with isolation from my friends, caused my mental health to rapidly decline, and in May of 2023 I was in the hospital yet again - this time for trying to take my own life. In the hospital, the neurologist overseeing me felt comfortable un-diagnosing me with epilepsy, claiming that he had reviewed my tests I had undergone months earlier, and that the seizures were most likely stress-related. Although this came as a bit of a shock, since accepting epilepsy as a big part of me was something I thought I had been doing well in those months, it made sense due to my circumstances. After my hospital stay I chose to go through with an outpatient therapy program, which would take ten weeks, and after those ten weeks I chose to do the more in-depth version of it, which would last six months. Since I had spent so much time in the hospital and could not take my regents exams, I would not be able to graduate on time with all of my friends, which made me feel extremely isolated, since they would physically be gone as well, heading off to college and moving on with their lives. A part of me felt bewilderingly jealous, which stemmed from the fact that I was stung with loneliness. Every day felt the same, and those who I called my friends never reached out, never asked me about my life or expressed concern or once showed me that they were worth holding onto. Maybe they’re just caught up in their own lives, with college and all… I imagine it’s a lot to take in, I thought to myself. And then I remembered every time that I bent over backwards for them, every time that I displayed even the tiniest bits of gratitude for them being in my life with gifts and texts, and how they never did the same for me. I still remember their birthdays, and their lack of presence still haunts me sometimes. In my isolation, I became somewhat bitter. They moved on from school, and they moved on from me. 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Although it was tedious and at times I felt like not going anymore, I discovered a new part of myself, and my therapist helped me feed her. She is a ravaging, intensely alive and crashing river of my own humanity. She is who I was in the past, and who I need in my future. A wild beast in need of being shown compassion and betrayal in order to understand itself. She is not afraid to let go of what she once held so dearly, unlocking her tense jaws filled with gritted teeth stained with the vital breath of life, cold with death, that once was so dependent on her rigidness. She is not afraid to look or be ugly, because she understands that without the morbid, there would be no grace; as above, so below. She is not afraid to butt heads or claw her way out when it comes to saving herself and her peace; she is not afraid to confront as much as she is not ashamed to dash away. 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She could not be more ready to discover what they have in store for her now that she has made a home for herself, in herself. In The Last Unicorn, Schmendrick the magician says, “There are no happy endings, because nothing ends.” This has always stuck with me, and now it reminds me that my life is not ending anytime soon, so I have time to figure it out. I have time to recuperate, to get back on my feet. I have time to get myself out of this hole, this vicious cycle of forgetting who I was with each lonely day that went by. I have time to find my purpose and graduate high school and live my life. So far, over a year later, time has been my greatest ally; all I have to do now is go with the flow until January.
@@vvvanillacorpseoh my god. This was so beautiful and so emotional. I genuinely was brought to tears,this is so genuine this is so beautiful and so emotional. The feelings i felt in this were like no other,im not sure what u want to presue in the future but a writer should be on that list,have a good day. Wherever u are.
@@Nik0__ thank you so much. ive posted some writing on my instagram - same username - and coincidentally im in my writing workshop class as im typing this lol
This girl is so frustrating- like you didn't ask to clean that grave and you aren't using grave safe cleaning products. On another note, I love your videos Louis!!
LOVE THIS it has always bugged me that when ppl on tiktok will call this girl out, they will defend her, like one person used evidence of cemetery rules and people STILL defended her
Fast food and retail stores require employees to use company and OSHA approved cleaning products. If you do not OSHA will fine the location and more than likely let you go. The amount of paperwork corporate requires you to sign stating you will abide by OSHA standards is INSANE. Using approved cleaning products is also required for temporary cleaning companies that work with corporate companies. If she wants to clean fast-food bathrooms SO BADLY, apply for a job there or through the temp cleaning companies they use. AND to clean gravestones/graveyards you have to be approved by the county and sometimes the Historical Society, they will give you information on products to use and what needs to be repaired. It is volunteer work, and doing it without permission, you can and will be charged with destruction of property it is literally owned by the city in most places. This woman makes me SO MAD. She is so entitled. She 100% did not get permission to do this. This is 100% rage bait, and it works because I am ENRAGED!!
“Is it illegal to clean here?” While pouting. She knew they were gonna kick her as other establishments have before. She knows it’s not permitted, she just doesn’t care
The recommended method for cleaning gravestones is a small amount of detergent and/or ammonia highly diluted in water. Alternatively you can use specialized stone cleaner but in either case these products come in liquid form, no pressurized sprays of any kind.
glad you made a video on this, i made a comment on the vacuum video saying how horrible it was and that she shouldn’t have run the vacuum over it, and got so many people saying i was being sensitive. it’s not okay what she’s doing.
I love how people conflate "being sensitive" wirh literally just pointing out soemone is wrong. And why they fuck would you ever use a vacuum OUTSIDE to begin with
I think this is noticed on the do we know the podcast, but that pink stuff she uses to clean everything is actually edited and it seems like the actual cleaner she uses is a blue color and she goes in after to make it Pink
Given my mother and I have volunteered to do this so many times, thank you for showing someone doing it the right way. It's a labor of love, and it has to be done CORRECTLY.
On memorial day, my family goes to tend to the graves of family members. Usually cutting the grass around the grave (they're embedded into the ground) and using a wet paper towel to gently wipe off dirt. Sometimes we'll see a grave that's overgrown to the point that the grass is almost covering the gravestone and we'll give that the same treatment. It's our way to pay respect to the dead, and show a little love to the graves that seem to have been forgotten. What we DON'T do is use harsh chemicals, make videos showing off the names of dead people whose families probably didn't consent to it, or talk about the people buried as if we know them. There's a difference in showing a bit of reverence towards a stranger and potentially ruining their grave for internet clout.
There is another comment on this video saying how horrified they would be if someone trimmed the grass and cleaned their mum's gravestone. They WANT the grass and natural patina on the grave, so you may not want to touch any gravestones other than the ones you actually have permission to touch. It's still extremely disrespectful, 😅 even if you think it's kind. A lot of people like to be the one to clean up the site, or let it go natural. I would be pretty upset if someone touched up my dad's grave without my explicit permission. You're still doing what she's doing, even if you're doing it "better." You still have to get permission.
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I never understood why outside has to look clean, everything always looks so much more beautiful to me when it's messy and crowded and natural. Sometimes it's better to leave things be.
Definitely. I bet a lot of people want that from their graves too, when theyve been buried to rest in nature, let them be in nature. Personally I'm a big fan of moss, i would 100% want to have a mossy headstone and become a tree or mushrooms or something. Would hate to have someone hack at the branches of a tree i chose to house me
A sad thought that occurred to me after the baby grave segement is that she just googles the graves to see if theres anything online about the buried. If nothing comes up in a google search, she goes ahead and assumes no one will care/ be able to check that shes ruining those graves.
there's someone in my hometown who cleans graves for free and makes content with it. she has explicit permission from the families and graveyards and uses grave-safe supplies, and isn't filming it like a troom troom video (she rarely ever shows herself iirc). she tells the story of the people buried and shows the upmost respect for them. its significantly better than whatever this is edit: shouldve finished the video! very similar to the person you showed :) they're not the same (i don't live in missouri) but it's pretty much exactly what she's doing
I used to follow another person who cleaned graves. They never showed their face. She used the correct tools and cleaning products etc and went out of her way to look for more information about the people buried there. It was so vastly different than this
I’ve had issues with this woman before. Went off on her a couple times about the chemicals and Scrub Daddy she uses. I had to learn so much and have to hold like a special card/license to clean graves in my area… in most areas. This BEYOND pisses me off!
When my uncle passed away he wanted a simple grave with grass on it and a small tree. A lot of people may see it as "ah you're letting the grave look wild and unkempt" but that what was HE wanted and WE as his family respected his wishes! If anyone like her decided to just change the ''aesthetic'' of the grave I would throw hands and feet.
Professional cleaners are hired for a reason. They know the science behind the products they use, so everything is safe and effective. I have no clue what knowledge this woman has, so she could very well be damaging surfaces by using incorrect cleaners and tools.
Dude I had to actually fight for my life in her comment section because people just couldn’t believe that this lady who is obviously just using these graves to sell her product and not caring if she ruins the gravestone or not is being disrespectful and disgusting
Thank you so, so much for mentioning headstone history as how to do this right. She doesn't actually do this professionally, but she DOES get permission from the graveyard and the family (where she can, some families have died out)
I'm from a muslim family, so they believe in keeping the grave as modest as possible to symbolize that death is the only thing where every human will truly be equal. My mom passed away 4 years ago, she loved gardening and she was pretty open-minded, so she told us that she was okay with anything we could want to do with her grave, she trust that we can make it at her image. My conservative relatives don't really approve of this, but I want to plant flowers on her grave. While she was sick of cancer, taking care of her flowers in the backyard was one of her therapeutic activity, and it has been awful to watch them die too, since no one else in the house can take care of plants. I want to learn, and plant her favorite flowers to bloom on her grave. I was thinking to maybe plant them in a frame shape, so my little brother will still have plenty of space to leave drawings and letters there for her. What a grave look like can be really meaningful for the family, an egotistical clout chaser intruding like this in the mourning process of some family is so vile. I would absolutely hate it if a stranger decided to redo my mom's grave in the way THEY judge better. It's so invasive. I hope that clean girl will get the consequences she deserves soon.
i was a little confused reading the title, thinking it was that one lady that cleans and scrubs gravestones from over a 100 years old, while talking about the history of the family and the individual that passed 😭 i always thought it was beautiful, but ohmygod this is ridiculous edit: its a grave attraction!
I've seen some other content creators doing videos on her and every time I hear her voice in those tiktoks, I get really uncomfortable. It feels so performative and fake. Also considering the annoyance of workers and multiple people telling her that she's not supposed to use certain chemicals on gravestones, I doubt she has permission. The graveyard ones especially get to me- and I know it depends on cultures and coutry, but personally? Touching the graves of our loved ones where I'm from is basically like touching the deceased themselves. There's also a lot of symbolism to what we place on the graves. Grates on my nerves.
I've never understood getting rewards for "random acts of kindness". Doesn't that defeat the very purpose? It shouldn't be forced and it shouldn't be shown off.
The sick ass guitar pieces in the beginning and the thought of missing new Louis videos is the only thing stopping me from ending it all lowkey, ily Louis thank you for bringing me a tiny shred of joy in my miserable life lmao 🙏🙏
i'm convinced this lady scrolled across the professional gravestone cleaner's videos and thought "she's getting so many views from this... i could do it too!!" and decided to do it to get even more views. she clearly doesnt care what effects her cleaning products have on the environment if she doesn't even list the ingredients
@@Cheesecake-qt2qp A one-toilet bathroom is one thing, but if there are multiple stalls, it has to be something worse than unappetizing. By the way, what kind of people usually go to McDonald's that they wouldn't treat the bathrooms with much respect? Having not ordered from one for almost 2 decades, do the stereotypes of people from Mississippi have anything to do with it, by any chance?
@@dominicfucinari1942 I didn’t actually know there were stereotypes from Mississippi. But at least where I live the bathrooms are not treated that well, tried to flush and least but there was a brown substance on the handle
@@Cheesecake-qt2qp Mississippi had the worst percentage of obese United Staters out of the 50 states for most of the New Millennium thus far, until West Virginia overtook it. Nowadays, Mississippi is usually the 4th or 5th worst at this, but overall, fat builds and fundamentalist theology have defined the southeastern US' reputation in the last 2 decades.
Jesus, yeah, it's possible she used something that can whiten the stone like bleach but it goes from petina to white as hell very quickly. Did the damn landlord special to a person's final resting place.
I'm surprised you didn't point out that she paints graves. like the baby grave you showed here, you can see how she painted it white and sloppily painted the engraving with black (note how even after she scrubs the letters out they were not black before the after photo). there's another video where you can even see the spots where she missed when she painted another grave stone white.
she's like that awful two-faced person who enforces their "help" on people, while also get mad for not getting a thank you for doing something for you.
I remember seeing a video of her's & people were talking about how grateful they'd be if someone cleaned/restored their resting places. I didn't know how to feel about that & your video really helped me realize common sense that isn't in this woman's videos. Also makes me worried about whatever is in her products & how often she's doing this for clout. This suddenly made me think about that video of the woman going "Turtle saving as/is(forgot what was said) a hobby" before tossing a torturous(or whatever) which looks like but isn't a turtle & CAN NOT swim into the water.
Well, when I found out about McClung a year ago, I mistook him for a child born in '010. I don't know how McClung felt about being compared to a 13 y.o., but I felt like I had to consider that.
Using others grief and untimely end for views and clout is so dehumanizing in my honest opinion. A person who should be in eternal peace gets their form of memorial property practically destroyed and that’s just heartbreaking.
"technically its not illegal" no fun fact its illegal in most places. customers are NOT allowed to clean your restaurant and you can at least get fired for allowing it to happen. and she definitely cant film in there.
So glad to see people talking about her ruining graves. Went to a gravestone preservation conference, and most of the talks were about how people 'cleaning' gravestones are destroying so many monuments. People think that stone=solid so it is hard to damage, but that is so untrue, especially for older monuments or ones made out of porous materials like sandstone. When my group cleans graves, we use very specific chemicals, small brushes on occasion, and water out of a hand pump, no power washing!!
What kind of audiences are McDonald's meant to appeal to? It's been almost 2 decades since I've last ordered from there, so I don't understand why most of them would trash the bathrooms.
She has committed numerous crimes here..filming on private property, filming in restrooms,causing health hazards because certain cleaning techniques and products might have to be used by laws and she's desecrating graves.
i have a feeling she paints the headstones, they're always this blinding white with sloppy black lettering when she's done. i spend a lot of time in cemeteries that's NOT what headstones look like normally.
and like, i've cleaned headstones before (usually very old ones/family members) but all ive ever used was like. some water. maybe use a small stick to gently pry away moss from the name and dates. that's IT!!!!!
@@NiyahSawThat you take that capitalist parasite of a holiday back to where it came from and never let it see the light of day again. Eternal Halloween!
THE BABY GRAVE GETS WORSE!!! After cleaning graves, she also frequently PAINTS them!!! In some clips you can see shaky lettering and wet paint dripping on the headstones. Yes, this includes the infant's grave! What a disgusting human being.
Some stone/materials can get destroyed by paint. It doesn't matter if it's water or oil based paint. It's idiotic to paint materials without knowing the material! Brick, wood, marble and so on will react differently!
@@AuroraPaintBrush4444 It would be bad enough if she was applying a replacement layer of paint for a grave that once had been painted before, but if she's so well-versed in chemistry, she should've known that some things are left unpainted for good reason!
I think she’s also ended up “accidentally” cleaning off the previously painted gravestones (a lot of people paint instead of engrave headstones) and so she trys to repaint the name and dates
No because I was WAITING for this to be discussed and I’m so shocked it wasn’t bc this is one of my biggest issues with her. I can’t imagine going to visit a family member and their grave being painted entirely differently
Oml I was wondering why it was so white at the end
There is a tiktoker I saw awhile ago, can't remember her name, who cleaned graves very respectfully, she always mentioned getting premission from the graveyard owners/any living relatives. She was a professional who knew what products to use on which stones, and researched the deceased's lives to honor and describe them in her videos. This girl just takes respectful ideas like that and uses them for clout and cash
I got curious so I looked around and I believe the creator I'm thinking of is manicpixiemom , she still posts grave cleaning videos detailing the lives of the deceased and has made at least one video making fun of the clean girl's methods
@@masonlewis2084I was about to to speak about her like the big difference between her and this girl is just wow
@@masonlewis2084i’ve seen manicpixiemom’s content before and it is clearly so much more respectful and considerate than this lady’s stuff
I loved her vids! I wish they showed up more on my fyp. This other girl feels like the evil buzzard version of her.
@@nitz_oit’s super interesting too because if you go back down enough in the clean girls post history you actually find "reasonable" videos of her cleaning graves…. She talks about the story behind them and is much more calm and chill. She doesn’t use this weird troom troom like voice and doesn’t talk to the audience like we’re under intelligent children…
I guess that didn’t make as much money though.
Violating graves in the way she did is worse than just spitting on it imo
Even worse than pissing, shitting on one lol.
@@icravedeath.1200why do I know someone that would do both 😭🙏🏽
Not only violating, But putting it on a popular social media app and getting monetized for it is beyond worse than Having someone spit on your grave
If you told me in the afterlife, someone would either pee on my grave, or clean it, post it online, & deface it the way she did, I’d take the piss.
@@silentspidergaming So far I've only seen the thumbnail, and I would just like to ask, is the disrespect cleaning the grave? Because people are hired to clean graves. I feel that cleaning graves respects the dead, allowing them to be seen and respected again. This is no hate, I am just honestly very confused.
Someone once described Clean Girl’s tone & voice cadence as “Troom Troom” like, & I cannot unhear it or listen to it without cringing
@@leearft6680 I think that was Jarvis if I remember correctly? But yeah, it's very much troom troom like
@@dumbclown yeah i think so, i first saw a video from jarvis a longgg while ago about this woman.
@@dumbclownye I think it was jarv
Oh my god you're right
STOP WAIT 😭
God, the way she “respectfully” talks about ppl makes my blood boil.
putting on a baby voice while violating an actual child’s grave feels perverted
The troom troom voice
I'm gonna be honest, she seems like she plays into certain fetishes the way she does her content so it's just so weird to be involving dead children into it...
@@reneemachuca3026 YES EXACTLY! she sounds like somebody dubbed her
My former workplace hosted a history event in our local cemetery each year. The oldest baby’s grave is not part of it, but every year people ask & we take them to it. Not one person has done anything but say a prayer or take a moment of silence. The human cost of invading & settling the west is pondered respectfully. The deep but painful connection that is human grief is felt. That is how normal humans approach the reminder of someone’s most painful sorrow & of a tragedy that took a life too soon. The parents were of the Victorian era, they chose the headstone and would not want their mourning tradition “spiffed up.” (note: native people here did sky burial, which leaves nothing behind - it’s beautiful ecologically but alarming to some, look up carefully - so there were no preceding children’s graves before colonization, I am not forgetting the *real* locals)
some asshole stole a custom mini-wooden guitar with “drock” written across it from my uncle’s grave. this was his nickname, he played guitar and listened to rock music. my brother had it made and was absolutely devastated when he found out it was gone.
That's absolutely heartbreaking and diabolical what the hell??? I know that we're just strangers but my condolences to your family, man, I can't imagine how much pain your brother must have felt
Some people just have no morals I’m so sorry long live your uncle 🫶🏾
Oh holy shit that's actually terrible. Rest in peace for your uncle. That person who stole it has some terrible karma-
God have people ever heard not to steal from the DEAD? That is so disrespectful wtf did they think it was just up for grabs??
was it a gift you left on the grave? some graveyards clear flowers/objects on graves after they've been out for so long. unfortunate it happened to you though.
Clean Girl also paints graves since graves aren't usually that white, so that means that she's most likely actually DEFACING graves. One of the graves was also one of a war veteran and she painted a small spot of the metal plate devoted to the war veteran.
The fact she hasnt been straight up arrested yet is actually astonishing
@@salemcrow5078 she probably has a good legal team
Nah I’m sick of this someone sue her or I WILL SCREAM bc I’m only ten
@@Punk_that_wears_cow_socks Give it some time.
@@YorM0m207you shouldnt say your age online!!
I’m so glad that someone’s finally bringing up the “clean girl” aesthetic. it’s honestly always bugged me how someone makes being clean and pure their entire personality! esp with this crazy lady 😭
Not only just Lewis have a good video, but Jarvis Johnson also has a good video on his second channel. I’m pretty sure about the clean girl.
@@clarisselaru-e thank you for the suggestion!! I’ll def watch that too!
It's so troom-troom coded, that "5-Minute Crafts" easy for kids to digest kind that just makes it so much worse
I'm fine with some. The ones that clean cluttered houses for free/or paid to are great ppl.
@@kingscandidate I totally agree, and you can usually tell when the person doing the service is genuine vs. someone who's just in it for the content like this lady :/
My niece died when she was 5 months old. The fact that she’s acting like she’s a victim (“this is so sad” “i wanna pet my dog”) is just insanely infuriating. Rest in peace to that little boy ❤️
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Former janitor here! We can’t use just any chemical or substance to clean bathrooms especially at a restaurant so we can make sure it’s up to inspection and is safe. Every single food place I’ve worked at as a janitor has the same regulated chemicals… like if I so much as think about using fabuloso I’d get in huge trouble.
Yeah. They really don’t want you to create a war crime in the bathroom by using something that reacts with urine. For good reason.
Exactly I’m not a janitor but I do work with food. We can’t use any chemicals and cleaning products we feel like. There are only certain things that are approved. We also wouldn’t be able to use scented cleaning products bc that would mess with the smell and taste of the food
Used to work at a hospital cleaning patients rooms. There were so many rules and regulations on the cleaning supplies We used. You never know what a future patients are allergic or sensitive to.
I'm in food manufacturing now, and it's a similar deal. We have to be the ones sanitizing machinery and what we use has to be approved by the company's quality & safety people.
An extra consideration is that we work with chocolate, which is really sensitive to surrounding smells.
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The people who work at McDonalds don't clean the toilets. They'd have a cleaning company come in after closing time, since that don't prevent people from using it during open hours. If she came at closing time and offered to clean for free, they'd probably let her, but blocking access during open hours is not doing them a service.
It depends on the McDonald ! Where I used to work, their is an employee just for that or if it’s a 24h location, it was one of the night shift employees schedule for that (honestly, one of the best shifts that I did)
they probably got harassed by customers for the bathroom being blocked off by some random white lady
If she was allowed to go in to clean after hours, if anything happens to her McDonald's would be liable. I am a commercial cleaner and insurance is very much needed, also a contract. No corporation is going to allow some random influencer to come in and work, regardless if she's doing it for free or not.
Not to mention they need a safety data sheet of all the chemicals she uses.... McDonald's doesn't want problems with OSHA.
@@alexstars40 living in another country we had to clean the toilets as workers. Like once every few hours going in to check how clean it is and then getting the stuff we needed to clean. Mostly connected to cleaning the tables after and maybe mopping the floor
Its so irritating. When my grandma died my family decided to "let nature" do its thing. So the grave is not to be cleaned, even though we put flowers. I can't even IMAGINE my mom's reaction if we found out someone cleaned it.
We clean my aunt grave it is kinda like spending time with her
Just soft soap and water nothing to damage her place
Memorial Day is still very big here as the day you do that, esp among the OG Latino community (arrived in 1905!). I was doordashing that day & saw so many families gently cleaning graves & then a family reading a story to a grave. Oh man I just burst into tears again. You leave families to grieve in their way, and then you leave those people to history. I know the former cemetery superintendent & his huge headstone is already done and installed, they’ll add just his & his wife’s death dates, and he picked everything carefully & chose the perfect location and spent a lotta money making sure they could rest easy in life knowing everything is handled. If anyone ever changed one bit of it, it would be so disrespectful to all the time & resources he has put into his own passing. Even the summer mowing crew of college kids have some sort of secular holiness that they respect there & the staff are the kindest, most detail oriented folks who just want to protect your loved one. This woman is the “anti” of everything she’s claiming to be!
@@cheyannahughes8767 i love how everyone has different traditions with their lost loved ones ❤
I want my grave to be taken by nature I love plants and animals.
I used to volunteer with a non-profit that would clean grave sites and the chemicals she’s using are so not for cleaning headstones 😭 good grief.
If i may ask, what was it like?
Where there specific rules? or how was it determined which grave should be cleaned ?
Feel free not to answer if you don't wish too.
Haven't even started the video yet but i have to say that this girl makes me so mad. Especially when people defend her like "oh she's doing nothing wrong" shes DEFILING PEOPLE'S GRAVES, she washed a dead kids plush animals, washed off the love those plush animals had been given when the kid was alive. I can't even imagine how devastated the parents were when they saw it.
I'm pretty sure she also PAINTS THE FUCKING HEADSTONES!!! It makes me so mad.
@@Hansuki1she actually does paint the graves! She’s painted a Veterans grave white and a baby girls grave pink (same with washing toys and replacing the flowers with fakes). The paint she uses and the soap brand she owns pretty much can destroy the stone as well
That's so upsetting 😢
this. sometimes the wear and tear of an object holds memories. she is destroying something so innocent and sacred. genuine monster
Pity that a Poe can't hold a lantern in front of her like what happens when Link pulls back a headstone in Kakariko Village's graveyard.
I’m asthmatic and am allergic to a lot of cleaning products and I would be so annoyed if I had an asthma attack or an allergic reaction because of this woman cleaning a bathroom without permission
REAL like did she not have a fucking thought go through her head before she decided to do this shit?
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As a McDonalds employee, this is actually part of the reason we don’t permit others to interfere with the cleaning. Our cleaning chemicals are intended to be safe for any possible medical issues who might come through, because if something we do leads to health issues or death, we’re naturally liable. If we can’t confirm that these cleaning products aren’t safe for any individual who might come through, we cannot allow them to continue for our customer safety.
Imagine planting a tree for your loved one, and some day you go there and the tree is just gone... I would be heartbroken
The clean lady is like my biggest nightmare. I don't mind cleaning my room n stuff, but the thought of just ruining a grave is awful and makes me sad.
Right like if she really wants to help ppl who need it she should find ppl who need help cleaning their house. Maybe they aren’t able to bc of a disability or something. Those are ppl who could actually benefit from her cleaning. Instead of corporations where they have to have only approved cleaning products and also only use the appropriate amount.
My brother is buried in my mother’s hometown. He has coloured images on his gravestone. If anyone touched it. I agree, hands would be thrown
"I've never seen this before" is such a class indicator. Pretty much my entire extended family is buried in the same place because we're several generations of working class, and even that's a form of privilege because there are mass unmarked gravesites of First Nations kids under most residential schools
I’m native and thank you for mentioning these things. My family members were in residential schools and it’s so hard ro see the stories.
There are unmarked graves under houses too, hell. They really killed folk left n' right. I'm p sure a great, great grandpa of mine who died in a civil war is in a mass grave somewhere.
If you’ve worked fast food, you know they have a little catalog of all the products with chemicals they use and what they’re used for , SPECIFICALLY because some can’t be mixed and they need to know what’s being used everywhere in case of any sort of incident! Like she really is making the lives of employees so much harder and creating dangerous situations using unknown, harsh cleaning chemicals!
Exactly and they also need to know how much of a product is used in case someone used too much. Using too much of a product can create a stronger smell which can possibly cause some kind of issue.
@@maem7462given how much detergent you can see, she’s definitely over doing it
This is standard practice in any business. This also is for the customers, who may have an allergic reaction and the employees have absolutely no way of knowing what chemicals were used.
I felt his ginger aura
Fr, I almost got blown away by his aura
His threads are one of the best shades of orange they can be.
the fact that its TARGETED TO KIDS is probably one of the worst things. like she adds so many bright colours to attract a kid audience
And the amount she uses too, it’s way too much
@@TheNinthGeneration1 exactly! and also according to actual grave cleaners, it is bad for the stone. shes using materials that deteriorate the stone
The harsh chemicals she uses and how agressively she scrubs the graves is really concerning. Like stated, this stuff could ruin and degrade the stone, and the chemicals can harm the surrounding enviroment if left to seep into dirt. She just completely disregards the wellbeing of someone elses grave, potentially someone with still living relatives who remember them, is disgusting.
I audibly wailed when I saw her SCRUBBING that grave. I don't know the material it was made of (maybe marble?) but around here, a lot of graves are made of limestone which degrades so easily that it's in our tap water. I do hope that that grave was made of something sturdy, because otherwise she'll have done to it in an hour what nature would do to it in months if not years.
not to mention she throws out any flowers she finds and replaces them with plastic ones 😭
Another level to this, i really dont trust that her cleaning products are approved for outdoor use like that. She is most certainly hurting the soil and plants around those graves.
Yeah those colours/consistency looks so harsh, no way those are environment safe chemicals, and if comments are right and she's painting them too then i doubt theyre environment safe paint either
The worse thing is in Germany graves are far more than simple white concrete blocks and a cross. They're handmade from colorful stone, the names and numbers are either carved in or put on as copper lettering. Sometimes there's even metal decoration resembling a human, an angel, just basically anything, and the loved ones of the deceased can customize 100% of the grave. So putting that all into perspective, she wouldn't just do smth very disrespectful, she'd do something heartbreaking. Expensive materials are used in the making of such a grave, so fixing the damage she could cause might be impossible to pay (graves cost about 3000€ here)
Here in the UK too. I've seen so many graves that are black marble and gold or copper lettering. Well kept and looked after too. I've seen angels and other things too. These graves run well into £5,000+. I've also seen the marble ones carved into hearts or books. Pictures of the person/people are added to the headstone too sometimes.
@@xFyodorsCellox yeah exactly. Couldn't imagine that stuff getting power washed my heart would stop beating
@@xFyodorsCellox I’m from the US and a lot of our graves are similar, for example my grandfather’s grave is black marble and a conjoined grave for when my grandmother eventually joins him (I hope it’s no time soon) it has so much engraving on it and it would be devastating if she did something like that
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This woman is disgusting. If I saw her defacing the grave of one of my loved ones, hands would be thrown. I don’t know how people enjoy watching her. Just the fact that she has the audacity to think that she’s doing a favor, when she has NOTHING to do with those people or their families is awful. ESPECIALLY WHEN SHES JUST DOING IT FOR CONTENT.
I did like a video because I thought she got permission ( however that was years ago ), and now that I see the truth, she disgusts me.
What makes it worst there people who defend her and whenever someone attacks her
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notice how in the professional/legal version, there isn’t any bright colors or flashy text. in comparison to the clean girl’s video, they don’t look super over edited and disrespectful. they’re slow paced and thoughtful, and the difference is obvious.
the difference in the way they clean the grave is crazy, the professional uses so much care and is so gentle but clean girl completely defiles them, with powerwashers and i think she even spraypaints them beforeshe cleans them???
Im so glad Louis is finally talking about her.
I saw a few of her videos and they were honestly so weird...
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i saw your story and i truly deeply hope that you are alright. i know that youre just a face on the other side of a screen, but ive been a subscriber for a very long time now, and it pains me to see you have to go through such hardship. i know what its like to spend copious amounts of time in the hospital, and i know what its like for them to have absolutely no idea what seems to be the problem with your body, so you have no choice but to stay longer and spend more money. you are truly a wonderful person and to see you struggle breaks my heart. thank you so much for all that you do, and im sure that i speak for all of your fans when i say that youre legendary at what you do, and we understand if your posts will have to be delayed. please put yourself first, and i trust that this is going into good hands, for a good cause. take care louis, we all love and care for you so much!
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TRIGGER WARNING: Elements of s*icide and depression, describes a seizure in graphic detail.
On the first day of English class with [my teachers name], my life changed drastically within not even the first few minutes. I walked into the classroom, saw my friend, walked over to her and sat down, complimented her outfit, and snap - I could feel my face distorting like a wet watercolor painting being blasted with a hair dryer, every muscle on my entire body involuntarily and painfully contracting while thunder and a deafening ringing blared through my ears, and I was down within literal seconds. About twenty minutes later I “woke up,” if you can even call it that (and for lack of a better term), with strangers surrounding me. In a trance, my head was spinning and I realized that I couldn’t move. The only thing I could move was my eyes, the only thing I could hear was my thoughts. I couldn’t understand where I was or what was happening or what these people were saying, and I couldn’t move. Why couldn’t I move? 'Move! This is so embarrassing. What just happened? I can’t feel my entire body… Did I faint? I don’t think so. I blacked out, I know that - are those paramedics? Is that a stretcher? What the *hell* is going on?' All I could do was blink and breathe, my heart racing as I felt nothing but the cold, hard floor on the back of my head in a numb, frostbitten way. I was too weak to talk or cry. This did not feel like just me normally lying on the floor; every single one of my senses were stunted, and I truly could do nothing but scream in my head. It almost felt like I was lifeless, like how your last things to go when you d*e are your sense of hearing and your own thoughts. Maybe I hit my head on the desk so hard on my way down that I d*ed. It felt like a completely detached, out-of-body experience in the most painfully aware and grounded way possible. It was all so bizarrely surreal and abstract.
I didn’t know it yet, but this would be my first of many seizures to come. A few weeks later I was diagnosed with epilepsy and was forced to stay home for a few months by the school nurse until I could get my new medication under control. This medication is known for having extreme and harsh side effects, and I happened to be experiencing just about all of them that one could possibly name. During these few months, I lost my grip on reality, buried with late assignments and notifications and my own thoughts, which can be deadly - especially for someone who was always a “gifted kid” and always performed highly in school. My life was ripped away from me, and there was nothing I could do about it. This, along with isolation from my friends, caused my mental health to rapidly decline, and in May of 2023 I was in the hospital yet again - this time for trying to take my own life. In the hospital, the neurologist overseeing me felt comfortable un-diagnosing me with epilepsy, claiming that he had reviewed my tests I had undergone months earlier, and that the seizures were most likely stress-related. Although this came as a bit of a shock, since accepting epilepsy as a big part of me was something I thought I had been doing well in those months, it made sense due to my circumstances. After my hospital stay I chose to go through with an outpatient therapy program, which would take ten weeks, and after those ten weeks I chose to do the more in-depth version of it, which would last six months. Since I had spent so much time in the hospital and could not take my regents exams, I would not be able to graduate on time with all of my friends, which made me feel extremely isolated, since they would physically be gone as well, heading off to college and moving on with their lives. A part of me felt bewilderingly jealous, which stemmed from the fact that I was stung with loneliness. Every day felt the same, and those who I called my friends never reached out, never asked me about my life or expressed concern or once showed me that they were worth holding onto. Maybe they’re just caught up in their own lives, with college and all… I imagine it’s a lot to take in, I thought to myself. And then I remembered every time that I bent over backwards for them, every time that I displayed even the tiniest bits of gratitude for them being in my life with gifts and texts, and how they never did the same for me. I still remember their birthdays, and their lack of presence still haunts me sometimes. In my isolation, I became somewhat bitter. They moved on from school, and they moved on from me. I do not have to scroll far to see messages from when we loved each other; their actions speak for them, not their texts or the inside jokes we’ve forgotten the context of because they happened so long ago. I became distrusting as I walled myself off from the world. However, later that summer in 2023, I would rediscover what was such a staple of my childhood: The Last Unicorn. I watched it so many times that I began to have it memorized, and I then noticed how alike Lady Amalthea and I were, forgetting who we were as a result of chasing our purposes - and that got me thinking. Her purpose for the entirety of the movie was to journey tirelessly, day and night, and to undergo indescribably heartbreaking and gut-wrenching self transformation to find the rest of her kind at the very end - but what was mine? Where was *my* happy ending?
For eight and a half months, I would go on to pour my efforts into my then-mandatory ten hours a week of therapy. Although it was tedious and at times I felt like not going anymore, I discovered a new part of myself, and my therapist helped me feed her. She is a ravaging, intensely alive and crashing river of my own humanity. She is who I was in the past, and who I need in my future. A wild beast in need of being shown compassion and betrayal in order to understand itself. She is not afraid to let go of what she once held so dearly, unlocking her tense jaws filled with gritted teeth stained with the vital breath of life, cold with death, that once was so dependent on her rigidness. She is not afraid to look or be ugly, because she understands that without the morbid, there would be no grace; as above, so below. She is not afraid to butt heads or claw her way out when it comes to saving herself and her peace; she is not afraid to confront as much as she is not ashamed to dash away. She foams at the mouth with the hunger to live for herself and protect her many passions; she is not afraid to desire. She is especially not afraid to use her “inconvenient” voice - her terribly raw and visceral gut strings centered in her very soul - to say her new name, over and over again; to say, “What did you think was going to happen? I am myself, and I am true to my nature, and if I must embody Karma, so be it.” She has no regrets, and would choose the same timelines if she were to do it all over again, because she understands that those experiences, though they gutted her empty and dry, caved and crumbled, and would carve a gilded pathway to her new self, and she is grateful for that. She is grotesque and magnificent and she knows it, which makes her beautiful, because her understanding of herself is genuine. She is closer to the next chapter of her life than she has ever been, the blank pages dedicated to her future yellowed with age and whispering sighs of relief. She could not be more ready to discover what they have in store for her now that she has made a home for herself, in herself.
In The Last Unicorn, Schmendrick the magician says, “There are no happy endings, because nothing ends.” This has always stuck with me, and now it reminds me that my life is not ending anytime soon, so I have time to figure it out. I have time to recuperate, to get back on my feet. I have time to get myself out of this hole, this vicious cycle of forgetting who I was with each lonely day that went by. I have time to find my purpose and graduate high school and live my life. So far, over a year later, time has been my greatest ally; all I have to do now is go with the flow until January.
Wtf where’s the likes 😭
@@vvvanillacorpseoh my god. This was so beautiful and so emotional. I genuinely was brought to tears,this is so genuine this is so beautiful and so emotional. The feelings i felt in this were like no other,im not sure what u want to presue in the future but a writer should be on that list,have a good day. Wherever u are.
@@Nik0__ thank you so much. ive posted some writing on my instagram - same username - and coincidentally im in my writing workshop class as im typing this lol
louis needs to see this
"Random act of kindness 🥰" *whips out the chainsaw*
This girl is so frustrating- like you didn't ask to clean that grave and you aren't using grave safe cleaning products. On another note, I love your videos Louis!!
LOVE THIS
it has always bugged me that when ppl on tiktok will call this girl out, they will defend her, like one person used evidence of cemetery rules and people STILL defended her
My nephew died at a little less than 8 months old, seeing her cry and act all pathetic over people she never even lost enrages me
Fast food and retail stores require employees to use company and OSHA approved cleaning products. If you do not OSHA will fine the location and more than likely let you go. The amount of paperwork corporate requires you to sign stating you will abide by OSHA standards is INSANE. Using approved cleaning products is also required for temporary cleaning companies that work with corporate companies. If she wants to clean fast-food bathrooms SO BADLY, apply for a job there or through the temp cleaning companies they use. AND to clean gravestones/graveyards you have to be approved by the county and sometimes the Historical Society, they will give you information on products to use and what needs to be repaired. It is volunteer work, and doing it without permission, you can and will be charged with destruction of property it is literally owned by the city in most places. This woman makes me SO MAD. She is so entitled. She 100% did not get permission to do this. This is 100% rage bait, and it works because I am ENRAGED!!
“Is it illegal to clean here?” While pouting. She knew they were gonna kick her as other establishments have before. She knows it’s not permitted, she just doesn’t care
SHE PAINTED A GRAVE? WHAT?
Imaine painted flowers (or whatever she painted) on a grave and the person the grave was dedicated to hated flowers
The recommended method for cleaning gravestones is a small amount of detergent and/or ammonia highly diluted in water. Alternatively you can use specialized stone cleaner but in either case these products come in liquid form, no pressurized sprays of any kind.
glad you made a video on this, i made a comment on the vacuum video saying how horrible it was and that she shouldn’t have run the vacuum over it, and got so many people saying i was being sensitive. it’s not okay what she’s doing.
I love how people conflate "being sensitive" wirh literally just pointing out soemone is wrong. And why they fuck would you ever use a vacuum OUTSIDE to begin with
LOUIS FOR PRESIDENT!!!
AGREED
HELL YEAAAAHHHHHHH
But then we wouldn't get all these lovely videos:( /j
HELL YEA 🤘🤘
Oompaville's first! Louis would be a great one as well, I have to admit it
I think this is noticed on the do we know the podcast, but that pink stuff she uses to clean everything is actually edited and it seems like the actual cleaner she uses is a blue color and she goes in after to make it Pink
Given my mother and I have volunteered to do this so many times, thank you for showing someone doing it the right way. It's a labor of love, and it has to be done CORRECTLY.
On memorial day, my family goes to tend to the graves of family members. Usually cutting the grass around the grave (they're embedded into the ground) and using a wet paper towel to gently wipe off dirt. Sometimes we'll see a grave that's overgrown to the point that the grass is almost covering the gravestone and we'll give that the same treatment. It's our way to pay respect to the dead, and show a little love to the graves that seem to have been forgotten. What we DON'T do is use harsh chemicals, make videos showing off the names of dead people whose families probably didn't consent to it, or talk about the people buried as if we know them. There's a difference in showing a bit of reverence towards a stranger and potentially ruining their grave for internet clout.
you shouldnt touch other graves at all. the family may want those roots. ❤
There is another comment on this video saying how horrified they would be if someone trimmed the grass and cleaned their mum's gravestone. They WANT the grass and natural patina on the grave, so you may not want to touch any gravestones other than the ones you actually have permission to touch. It's still extremely disrespectful, 😅 even if you think it's kind. A lot of people like to be the one to clean up the site, or let it go natural. I would be pretty upset if someone touched up my dad's grave without my explicit permission. You're still doing what she's doing, even if you're doing it "better." You still have to get permission.
If she wants to do something similar that’s actually helpful, go to a grocery store and organize the aisles. Put misplaced items in the right spot.
LOUIS GUESS WHAT!! I GOT MY FIRST TATTOO A COUPLE DAYS AGO!!! It's a dagger on my forearm and I love it sososososo much, just figured I'd share with you :)
That is so absolutely slayful pookie I bet it looks awesome!!! 😍😍😍😍
@@Electric_Lizzard thank you it's super duper cool 😈😈
i can’t wait to get my first tattoo, unfortunately my bank account is looking a little empty
awesome sauce >:3
THAT SOUNDS SICK I’m so jealous
I never understood why outside has to look clean, everything always looks so much more beautiful to me when it's messy and crowded and natural. Sometimes it's better to leave things be.
Definitely. I bet a lot of people want that from their graves too, when theyve been buried to rest in nature, let them be in nature. Personally I'm a big fan of moss, i would 100% want to have a mossy headstone and become a tree or mushrooms or something. Would hate to have someone hack at the branches of a tree i chose to house me
The clean lady is trying to rage bait adults but keep little kids watching in my opinion.
A sad thought that occurred to me after the baby grave segement is that she just googles the graves to see if theres anything online about the buried. If nothing comes up in a google search, she goes ahead and assumes no one will care/ be able to check that shes ruining those graves.
i’m so glad you listened to the people asking you to cover her! i love how you actually listen to peoples suggestions for videos
Unrelated to comment but FURINA???
@@CharaDreemurr_TheyThem YES
@@CharaDreemurr_TheyThem chara from... undertale?!
@@GR33N_0NI0N UNDERTALE FAN SPOTTED =D
@@FurinatheArtist oh yeah furina pfp
there's someone in my hometown who cleans graves for free and makes content with it. she has explicit permission from the families and graveyards and uses grave-safe supplies, and isn't filming it like a troom troom video (she rarely ever shows herself iirc). she tells the story of the people buried and shows the upmost respect for them. its significantly better than whatever this is
edit: shouldve finished the video! very similar to the person you showed :) they're not the same (i don't live in missouri) but it's pretty much exactly what she's doing
like i DON'T need you to clean my grandma's grave, I CAN DO IT MYSELF GIRL😭🙏
“Are you fu*king me sideways” got me dead and I’m sick which it’s hard to make me even giggle when I’m sick
I used to follow another person who cleaned graves. They never showed their face. She used the correct tools and cleaning products etc and went out of her way to look for more information about the people buried there. It was so vastly different than this
1:34 realest thing I heard today 😭
"im a hater" me too
Frfr
the fake flowers at the grave thing is something i hadnt heard anyone else talk about before thats literally diabolical
she seems offput by allowing things to rot and die. its life. we die, its okay, its comforting in a way.
leave it alone
I’ve had issues with this woman before. Went off on her a couple times about the chemicals and Scrub Daddy she uses. I had to learn so much and have to hold like a special card/license to clean graves in my area… in most areas. This BEYOND pisses me off!
When my uncle passed away he wanted a simple grave with grass on it and a small tree. A lot of people may see it as "ah you're letting the grave look wild and unkempt" but that what was HE wanted and WE as his family respected his wishes! If anyone like her decided to just change the ''aesthetic'' of the grave I would throw hands and feet.
Louis please give us your haircare routine your hair looks magestic... and PLEASE TRY OUT OUJI FASHION YOU WOULD LOOK AMAZING IN IT IM BEING FR
Professional cleaners are hired for a reason. They know the science behind the products they use, so everything is safe and effective. I have no clue what knowledge this woman has, so she could very well be damaging surfaces by using incorrect cleaners and tools.
Dude I had to actually fight for my life in her comment section because people just couldn’t believe that this lady who is obviously just using these graves to sell her product and not caring if she ruins the gravestone or not is being disrespectful and disgusting
Welcome, members of the audience 😘💖✨✨ 0:25
This comment is my Roman Empire
as someone with a dead baby brother i would absolutely lose my shit if i found out she made content out of cleaning his grave
this person has always been so weird to me, especially with the graves. you didn’t ask permission to clean it, you’re just… messing it up.
Thank you so, so much for mentioning headstone history as how to do this right. She doesn't actually do this professionally, but she DOES get permission from the graveyard and the family (where she can, some families have died out)
I'm from a muslim family, so they believe in keeping the grave as modest as possible to symbolize that death is the only thing where every human will truly be equal.
My mom passed away 4 years ago, she loved gardening and she was pretty open-minded, so she told us that she was okay with anything we could want to do with her grave, she trust that we can make it at her image. My conservative relatives don't really approve of this, but I want to plant flowers on her grave. While she was sick of cancer, taking care of her flowers in the backyard was one of her therapeutic activity, and it has been awful to watch them die too, since no one else in the house can take care of plants. I want to learn, and plant her favorite flowers to bloom on her grave. I was thinking to maybe plant them in a frame shape, so my little brother will still have plenty of space to leave drawings and letters there for her.
What a grave look like can be really meaningful for the family, an egotistical clout chaser intruding like this in the mourning process of some family is so vile. I would absolutely hate it if a stranger decided to redo my mom's grave in the way THEY judge better. It's so invasive. I hope that clean girl will get the consequences she deserves soon.
It’s a great day when Louis and FunkyFrogbait post on the same day, I am eating good tonight!
now imagine if they collabed
"guys, gals, and non-binary pals" is my new favorite thing
i was a little confused reading the title, thinking it was that one lady that cleans and scrubs gravestones from over a 100 years old, while talking about the history of the family and the individual that passed 😭 i always thought it was beautiful, but ohmygod this is ridiculous
edit: its a grave attraction!
i love how you have red panda stuffies and you literally look like if a red panda was a human
I've seen some other content creators doing videos on her and every time I hear her voice in those tiktoks, I get really uncomfortable. It feels so performative and fake. Also considering the annoyance of workers and multiple people telling her that she's not supposed to use certain chemicals on gravestones, I doubt she has permission. The graveyard ones especially get to me- and I know it depends on cultures and coutry, but personally? Touching the graves of our loved ones where I'm from is basically like touching the deceased themselves. There's also a lot of symbolism to what we place on the graves. Grates on my nerves.
14:05 PROBABLY???
He meant that as in the person in the grave is either probably a baby or he's just being sarcastic
I've never understood getting rewards for "random acts of kindness". Doesn't that defeat the very purpose? It shouldn't be forced and it shouldn't be shown off.
The sick ass guitar pieces in the beginning and the thought of missing new Louis videos is the only thing stopping me from ending it all lowkey, ily Louis thank you for bringing me a tiny shred of joy in my miserable life lmao 🙏🙏
Hey obv you’re not ok so I won’t ask, but do you need to talk?
Idk I prolly shouldn't bother random internet people with my problems 🙏🙏
i'm convinced this lady scrolled across the professional gravestone cleaner's videos and thought "she's getting so many views from this... i could do it too!!" and decided to do it to get even more views. she clearly doesnt care what effects her cleaning products have on the environment if she doesn't even list the ingredients
Also just the fact that she is bringing *CAMERAS* into a *BATHROOM*
I swear if I die and someone comes to my grave and cleans it?????!?! I'm haunting them.
Lmao real, all your food will be cold, from now on
7:41 also she is filming in a public bathroom 😭
Imagine your taking a dookie and you hear this women crunchin and munchin on chicken while cleaning the bathroom.
@@Cheesecake-qt2qp A one-toilet bathroom is one thing, but if there are multiple stalls, it has to be something worse than unappetizing.
By the way, what kind of people usually go to McDonald's that they wouldn't treat the bathrooms with much respect? Having not ordered from one for almost 2 decades, do the stereotypes of people from Mississippi have anything to do with it, by any chance?
@@dominicfucinari1942 I didn’t actually know there were stereotypes from Mississippi. But at least where I live the bathrooms are not treated that well, tried to flush and least but there was a brown substance on the handle
@@Cheesecake-qt2qp Mississippi had the worst percentage of obese United Staters out of the 50 states for most of the New Millennium thus far, until West Virginia overtook it. Nowadays, Mississippi is usually the 4th or 5th worst at this, but overall, fat builds and fundamentalist theology have defined the southeastern US' reputation in the last 2 decades.
this is why i’m glad my nan was cremated. 16:09 you can literally see that she’s painted it✋😭
Jesus, yeah, it's possible she used something that can whiten the stone like bleach but it goes from petina to white as hell very quickly. Did the damn landlord special to a person's final resting place.
@@Chameleon_Catit’s whiter than me like✋😕
She wasn’t using gloves when cleaning the bathroom and touched it 😭🤢
I'm surprised you didn't point out that she paints graves. like the baby grave you showed here, you can see how she painted it white and sloppily painted the engraving with black (note how even after she scrubs the letters out they were not black before the after photo). there's another video where you can even see the spots where she missed when she painted another grave stone white.
Bro, she's been terrifying me since I first saw her
she's like that awful two-faced person who enforces their "help" on people, while also get mad for not getting a thank you for doing something for you.
Can we talk about his AMAZING intros??
I remember seeing a video of her's & people were talking about how grateful they'd be if someone cleaned/restored their resting places. I didn't know how to feel about that & your video really helped me realize common sense that isn't in this woman's videos. Also makes me worried about whatever is in her products & how often she's doing this for clout.
This suddenly made me think about that video of the woman going "Turtle saving as/is(forgot what was said) a hobby" before tossing a torturous(or whatever) which looks like but isn't a turtle & CAN NOT swim into the water.
LOUIS YOU'RE THE PRETIEST MAN ALIVE I SWEAR 😭😭♥️♥️♥️
Well, when I found out about McClung a year ago, I mistook him for a child born in '010. I don't know how McClung felt about being compared to a 13 y.o., but I felt like I had to consider that.
@@dominicfucinari1942 haha, well, it's difficult to react being a grown ass man, I wouldn't know what to think if they compared me to a child
Using others grief and untimely end for views and clout is so dehumanizing in my honest opinion. A person who should be in eternal peace gets their form of memorial property practically destroyed and that’s just heartbreaking.
the way she cleans the grave of a DEAD BABY with HOT PINK AND BLUE CHEMICAL SHIT and acts like shes “so sad”
Remember it's illegal to film in public restrooms
So her bathroom cleaning videos are extra weird
"technically its not illegal" no fun fact its illegal in most places. customers are NOT allowed to clean your restaurant and you can at least get fired for allowing it to happen. and she definitely cant film in there.
"DESECRATING that's the word" I love that
At restaurants, only approved chemicals can be used. That means the employees had to reclean the bathrooms because of her
So glad to see people talking about her ruining graves. Went to a gravestone preservation conference, and most of the talks were about how people 'cleaning' gravestones are destroying so many monuments. People think that stone=solid so it is hard to damage, but that is so untrue, especially for older monuments or ones made out of porous materials like sandstone. When my group cleans graves, we use very specific chemicals, small brushes on occasion, and water out of a hand pump, no power washing!!
is this the same girl who went into like fast food restaurant bathrooms and cleaned them "for free"?
Yes
What kind of audiences are McDonald's meant to appeal to? It's been almost 2 decades since I've last ordered from there, so I don't understand why most of them would trash the bathrooms.
@@dominicfucinari1942 what?
She sounds like 5 minute crafts lol 😭
GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE
She also cleaned the stuffed animals, she washed off all the memories. This is evil
She has committed numerous crimes here..filming on private property, filming in restrooms,causing health hazards because certain cleaning techniques and products might have to be used by laws and she's desecrating graves.
“You’re doing this for clout, no I’m a hater!” Bro was so real for that
She looks like if the Tweevles from Bratz had a rejected triplet sister 💀
i have a feeling she paints the headstones, they're always this blinding white with sloppy black lettering when she's done. i spend a lot of time in cemeteries that's NOT what headstones look like normally.
and like, i've cleaned headstones before (usually very old ones/family members) but all ive ever used was like. some water. maybe use a small stick to gently pry away moss from the name and dates. that's IT!!!!!
SAY IT AGAIN!!! NEVER TOO EARLY FOR A HALLOWEEN SPECIAL 0:47
What about a Christmas special 😕 is it too early for one of those?
@@NiyahSawThat you take that capitalist parasite of a holiday back to where it came from and never let it see the light of day again. Eternal Halloween!
@@NiyahSawThatNever! I start bingeing on Christmas music on November 1st!🤩🎄
Not to mention she PAINTED THE DEAD CHILD’S GRAVE. IT IS SO FUCKED UP. She makes me so mad I seriously cant at this point-