I think it’s important to note that her style is very classic and of course her recommendations are geared to her style. I personally love my docs and the more little details, the better for me. So you just have to look at why she might feel these shoes look “industrial”. I think they give an edge that she doesn’t try to portray in her own looks.
I love this format. Details to avoid and particularly those to specifically seek that separate and elevate were terrific . Soooo helpful. More like this, please.
Docs will always be a fan favourite and timeless classic piece. Disagreed with a few of the styles you mentioned on the don't's list. Interesting video.
Exactly! I think I've bought a lot of the "avoids" (white stitching, wrong toe shape") and couldn't figure out why it didn't look quite right. You have a gift, Lydia!
I like a do's and don't presentation. It is also very useful when you put the do and don't side by side. Would love to see styling videos with using outfits with loafers and ankle boots.
Canadian here... Chunky Dr. Martens is a MUST!.. the Canadian Winter Snow doesnt play.... that plus Blundstones. If you want to have any chance to survive winter over here... those two shoes is a necessity. Everything else on the list i think its a thing of preference... and i somewhat agree with them.
That's something that I find about her video. The practicallity. Don't get me wrong, I like her videos and tips, and they actually help me tremendously to build my capsule wardrobe. However, her shoes recommendation is always a miss for me since we have different lifestyles and climates. I love my ballet flats and heels, but at the end of the day I will always opt for my trainers because they are more comfortable to wear 3 - 4 hours of walking and constantly have to move. And it will not ruin our feet. The examples on this video are not meant to wear when you have to rush to catch the earliest commute and stand all day in your workplace. I just wish that she incorporates it more and take it into consideration of her styling because someone in my job would also like to look stylish without missing the practicality. I hope you can understand what I mean since English is not my first language.
@kaphy - I so agree! When Uggs were in style, the Toronto salty slush destroyed them & when Hunter (rubber) boots were in style, they were slippery and my feet were always freezing. Meanwhile, my docs have been workhorses. Practicality trumps fashion sometimes, eh?
I absolutely loved the format of this video! For us who's working on building our wardrobe staples, its so easy to not really notice those details and end up not happy with our buy. And for me, as someone who moved from a country with hot weather to a country with cold weather, those deeper inputs are really new and being all learned now. Thank you so much!
Life hack: you can go over contrasting stitching on a shoe with a black permanent marker pen. I’ve done it on shoes, bags and a leather jacket and it works well if you’re careful x
Or you just have to polish them from time to time with same color shoe-polish. I've used to change the color of entire boots by using simple polish in desired color, if I couldn't get a pair in a shade I wanted - i.e.oxblood booties became dark brown after one application of brown shoe polish. Light stitching stands no chance against it. Polish polish, polish. ;)
@@ninav1522 Hi! Well, it depends on various factors - type of leather and polish you use. Do you have experience with shoe polish? They usually come as cream polish that you need to live in for a while and then polish with a brush or cloth - or as more liquid instant polish with sponge applicator ant the top that you use in between two 'proper' polishes to refresh your shoes and to give them quick, instant polished look. Those polishes dry fast, are not very nourishing for the leather and don't need polishing once they set. Both will do the same job - they'll dye contrasting stitching. Now, if you want to change the color of the entire shoe, you can go only the same color value (lightness/darkness) of darker. For example, you can't shoe polish for light shoes to make dark shoes lighter. You can do what I did - change the shade of equal value (from oxblood to brown) or make shoes darker. Depending on type of leather or faux/vegan leather used, the effect might vary I presume. Mine were from genuine calf. Once you treat your shoes with darker polish they will become darker and darker each time you apply the polish until they become the shade of the polish itself (for example, if you have green, tan or brown shoes and you use black polish on them, eventually, depending on leather, they will become rather dark or even fully black. You can't go back, I'm afraid. Regarding staining, if you used shoe polish before, you know it might be sticky if you touch it before it's set or absorbed and polished. They can stain your fingers or clothes if you don't let it set/dry or absorb/polish - depending which type of polish you use. Most shoe polishes nourish or/and give shoes a polished look while offering slight protection from the elements. However, if you need waterproof effect, you might want to look for a shoe product that has such properties. They usually come in form of thick, greasy, neutral shade and do decent job making your shoes waterproof. Perhaps you might find waterproof polish where you live. If you can't find neither, just use thick layer of petroleum jelly (Vaseline) let it sit, take off the excess and you should be good to go. Best of luck! Edit: If you just need to cover/blend in contrasting stitching you can use a marker in the same shade.
I got hooked on your videos a year ago and have learned so much. You have truly helped me develope my style and curate my new closet. I'm 60 years old and finally feel polished, sophisticated and more myself. I retired so I needed to go into new phase in my wardrobe and you have certainly helped me get there. Keep up the great work and I loved this fall shoe video!
Lydia Style Personality is clearly a ‘Classic’ - however this isn’t everyone’s style type; for those of us who suit more ‘Dramatic’ styles, the constant neutrals would be bland and boring … but on Lydia they look timeless and elegant. You can have brighter & bolder colour & styles which are not cheap and tacky!
So true! I was almost offended when she knocked on the Doc Martens. IMO this "industrial" type of style looks great on Natural and Gamine types and probably some others too
Completely agree. Not everyone wants to wear things that don't stand out. I am so bored of boucle jackets and neutrals. Dont get me started on blazers.
Totally agree! Bright & bold, “dramatic”( I will never (🤘🏼😜) stop weaving a touch or two of “punk”into my outfits, even on my most “classic/elegant/timeless attire” days😉), is not only great fun, but if done right, it can look both “expensive” and elegant (as opposed to “cheap and tacky”😉). But I do feel that getting the wrong “hue” for your skin tone - especially with bright colours, as well as “settling” for certain types of reeeally synthetic fabric, that are often used for bright & bold clothes, can quickly take things from “dramatic” to “decidedly dodgy”. It’s not easy getting it “right”, especially when shopping online or in shops with bad lighting😏.
I bought a pair of combat boots with laces and zips. I did it because I was tired of coming home and struggling to get my boots off. Getting them on wasn’t a walk in the park either. The leather is gorgeous too. (They cost an arm and a leg at net-a-Porter.) They style up with just about anything. On AND off in seconds, and so edgy. I’m not giving these up. I can see the attraction to a minimalist plain pair of Chelsea boots, but I’d get a classic style in brown. Other than that I love your videos Lydia. You’re really helping me with a number of style conundrums and this one has been helpful too.
Thank you, Lydia. This kind of video is extremely informative to me. Sometimes when I am cleaning out my closet, I ask myself "Why did I purchase this?" It is so helpful to know what a quality is basic, so that you don't go out and waste your money on so many trends that you might not have thought was a trend at the time. Even some of the embellishments I am guilty of purchasing. I think I have a pair of dress shoes with a Diamonte square buckle on it, thank God they are black, and it is a more subtle dark stone on the toe. I like good quality clothing and am so over trend clothing. I feel better in neutrals and basics. But as I get older, I am interested in keeping modern (not younger) but it is so hard to know modern from trendy.
Love this!! Slightly disagree about avoiding the doc martens, though I agree about the style you showed being a little much. I have them in the regular (less chunky) soles and love wearing them with tights and some skirts, or with black skinny jeans and a slightly chunky sweater (jumper)!
Yes I think maybe it depends on the exact style! Also this is just my opinion and that’s the beauty of style, we all love different things and wear them differently! ❤️
I’ve been watching deconstructing videos of famous makers. A better boot without the yellow stitching can be had for less money. You’re paying for the name…these are not your mother’s Doc Martins…which she probably still has from the 80s. I have a pair of Timberlands that I’ve had since the late 80s and the soles are flat but the upper is still great…still waterproof. The newer ones mostly made in China just don’t compare. This is true of Docs as well. Even the Made in England variety don’t compare.
Great formula for a very informative post! Please continue this way: coats, jackets, pullovers etc just everything😁 Your arguments against are more Important than you can imagine. You are teaching us to choose a good style. Thank you!
Love love love my docs. They are their Chelsea version with yellow stitching. Totally not an issue. I wear them on cold rainy/snowy days. I care far more that the quality is absolute top notch than if there is stiching details personally.
Cowboy boots will always speak to Americans. They are part of our heritage. I can't wait for Fall season so I can get mine out. We live in Arizona and it's a way of life.
Your detailed explanation of what to avoid and why, followed by suitable replacements, was super helpful especially when you explained the reasons behind your recommendations. Looking forward for similar videos ❤
As a country American girl living in the south, we absolutely adore western boots and they are a staple in our wardrobes. Ankle, mid calf and tall cow girl boots! Are must haves!!!!
I have seen western boots coming in hard as a trend or micro trend… But I understand what you’re saying… Western cowboy boots will never be out of style, depending on where you live, and what you love!
Interesting ideas. My younger son bought me a pair of Docs for Christmas two years ago after I said I liked his (not platform soles). They have been perfect for the rainy west coast winters here in Canada. Four years ago my older son bought me black leather Van loafers, again great for our rainy fall and winter. In the spring and summer I wear a pink or black ballet flat with criss cross ankle detailing (I have skinny ankles). I don’t like heels of any kind so the ankle detail is nice. It all comes down to what works for your feet…and your climate 😊
Love a platform, edgy look. As you get older , looking typical to me ages you. Karen Britchick wears lots of chunky shoes and has for years, they look great on us taller ladies. Platforms as also good if you don’t want to wear heels ( perfect for those longer flare pants)
yes I absolutely love this format Lydia! Please give us more ! also when you are decluttering some of your pieces, maybe you could show us what didn't work for you and why and some alternatives? Thank you 💜
Great video. I would love to see one on how to pair footware to clothes. For example, the ankle boots with a few different bottoms that work with them etc..
I loved this video! 💕 Great criteria to evaluate or build a fall shoe wardrobe. The elegance and timelessness of simplicity was right on point. I would love to see a video on blazers in the same format. Thank you!
Dear Lydia! This is unbelievable! I was about to head over to your channel and search for a video on fall loafer advice!!! My feed served your video right when I needed it!! Such great content!! Love your channel!
You are my "go to" stylist on UA-cam. I love your style and presentation. At 54yr old, i dont want faddy trends that last a few month, i much prefer simple ageless outfits that look stylish rather than trendy. 🤗🥰 thankyou
I also love this community here.. esp when I hear ppl talking abt their must haves whether it be Western Cowboy boots, Dr Marten’s or Chelsea boots! I think it’s such a reflection of our environments and even cultural influences! I also respect how Lydia stands her ground on no Barbie core and no red 🙂. For me pockets of red and animal prints are neutrals! 😊 And so are delicate print blouses. That’s where I feel me!! No Manolos for me as well. Sling back kitten heels with socks..it’s dope! 👌 Much love Lydia…❤
It's sooo useful to me, explains what I could not get before. Thanks to you it's been a while since I started changing, minimalizing my word robe and as I age I look better, thanks to you and your channel!
Love this style of video Lydia! You were clear these are simply your opinions about certain items, so I do not understand the negative comments and I hope it doesn’t put you off this type of video in the future. This is a style channel, not a political campaign one, you do not need to please all of the people all of the time 😂. I for one prefer honest opinions versus “nice” ones when it comes to style and the beauty of an opinion is I can consider it and still make my own mind up about my preference 🙌🏻❤️
This video was very helpful. I watched it yesterday, and today purchased several pair of shoes according to the guidelines and they honestly look so good . This video saved me a lot of time . I want to see other similar guiding video about bags, knits, pants, jeans and outwear
I feel that your style is classic and timeless, which means that what you buy is an investment that will stand the test of time, saving money in the long run. It’s also ok to buy something trendy every now and again if you love it. Very useful advice in your video, enjoyed it.
I appreciate hearing your thoughts on a very detailed level. Helpful to consider these specific elements when shopping for similar styles. Sometimes these types of “fall shoe trend” videos are too generic. Thank you!
This is very helpful Lydia. You did a similar one a few years ago showing the difference between black versus navy trousers that I’ve never forgotten. Happy to see more examples contrasting what doesn’t work with what does. Maybe something on knit outfits as I find them hard to put together properly.
Very good segment, would definitely like more of these. Now I have details to think about while purchasing shoes. I would also love a video showing how to pair boots with skirts, pants etc. I’m especially having trouble figuring out what to wear with fuller midi skirts for fall and winter
Love your videos..First one I’ve really been - nope! disagreed with over 50% of the content especially around white trainers…it’s a bit ‘general’. What goes around comes around in fashion and it’s how you style things. Apart from this do love your videos Lydia. Said with love x
One of my favorite videos, thanks Lydia! This was incredibly useful for people like me who are looking to elevate their wardrobe. It is very important for me to invest in pieces that I know I will be able to wear a lot. Please make more videos like this 🤍 looking to invest in a coat this season so I would love your recommendations.
From what I can see here, mainly this is what you are personally attracted to, or not. You make a couple of good points but mainly this is just your personal opinion! Many of the items would be perfectly fine for someone else’s taste. You don’t mention that at all during this video.
Your shoe examples and explanations are so helpful! I agreed with everything you said, but needed your help to know what details to avoid and what styles to look for. Shoes are especially difficult because comfort is a real issue for me. I find that my feet do best in quality shoes made with 100% leather. Synthetic linings make my feet sweat and they don’t have enough give. Please, please, please do more videos like this!
Great advice. My big issue is my bad feet. I just can’t do the sling back shoes anymore. No more pointed toes at age 70 years old. Agony comes to mind.
I have taken to Frye Harness boots….good arch support and lots of toe room. The black ones can go from garden to the theater…with a bit of shoe cream. And when looking down at your feet the toe design makes your feet look slim….and mine are not…Flintstone Feet….not Wilma but Fred.
So happy to see Mango penny loafers were included in your 'good' list. I've been wearing those like almost every second day since the end of the summer, keep getting a ton of compliments. Even a few people thought they were legit Le Loafer Penny by Saint Laurent.. I'm not complaining about that at all 😉
💯 spot on about everything EXCEPT.. my Dr Martens AND my western boots ! Will never ever EVER give them up 💯 I do, however update them regularly ! Docs are a must for any concert 😉 (Btw.. the long chic pony is very cute !) Try the Moroccan Serum- in a small square pump bottle for flyaways.. You're welcome 😊
Agreed! I think the shape and size of a persons foot and one's height play a huge part in the style of a shoe. I agreed about shade of shoe though some colours just make certain items looks cheaper. Only thing I don't agree with her is the jimmy choos they always look elegant and Dr Martens are timeless!
I found an affordable ballet flat with the Mary Jane strap at Old Navy for $24. It doesn’t have the little bow and has the square toe. They’re comfortable with cushioning
Thank you, very interesting! I would have liked to have pictures, exemples of how you wear them. Jeans or pants out or in, because I’m not that good in this. 😂
Yay 🎉 totally agree 👍..too many times loafers have been touted as the go to shoe, but they can age you, and in middle age please don't add on any more years. Also can cheapen very easily. However get the right pair and you have a very versatile wearable shoe...thank you for your styling advice...❤ thoroughly enjoy your take on style 🦋👌🌿🐨 also..always been a lover of docs ❤❤ the heavy lifters of 😎 💗💗
Thank you for reviewing all the different styles Lydia. And I think Vivaia does the job too. (well I am in love with the brand haha) 😀😍💥💯Greetings from Belgium.
This was really helpful. I’d love a video on which boots and shoes to wear with different shaped/coloured trousers and jeans for autumn and winter. With a limited budget I struggle to find the most versatile pieces when I need them to keep me warm and when walking distances. Thank you!
Very helpful tips there Lydia. Thank you. I like a refined classical look although I do own a pair of DMs cos sometimes life calls for an old comfy classic!
Been watching your content for a while, but this is a first time that I have something you shared. I agree with that slingbacks from & other stories. It is so soft and elegant. I have it in beige. ❤
Interesting I never paid much attention to what "looks" cheap or not vs what actually is. I guess I assumed that if an item costs alot if money it won't look cheap. Thanks for calling my attention to these details.
Very interesting format of video, Lydia, thank you🙂, of course everything depends on a personal style, but I can relate to everything you said here and I will agree with many others who asked for more of these videos for different types of pieces, for me it is about coats and in general about autumn winter jackets, thank you❤
Unfortunately if you are a size 42.5 or 43 you just don't have the luxury of choosing something that you like. You just have to put up with whatever you can find that fits you. Unfortunately more and more shops seem to have made the decision lately to only stock up to size 41. I love those Other Stories slingbacks, especially as they have a low heel. Unfortunately they only go up to size 41, despite OS stocking other styles in a 42. And as they are a pointed toe I'd probably need a 43. I'm so jealous of people that are able to buy shoes based on what they like! Luckily trainers are fashionable at the moment so I can live in mens trainers.
I like how you have added what to replace instead - very helpful. I was looking for a boot that would last year without going “out of style” and chose Dr. Martens however these have the black stitching as I wanted something minimal.
This is what it's like to watch the younger generations fawning over something old that died hard! I am watching Gen z go crazy over the early 2000s styles that are too hilarious for us millennials to take seriously. In the early 2000s, my mom asked me why I was wearing old fashioned "pedal pushers" and I said "ma, these are capri pants!" Now they are called "cropped kick flare" pants.
I had a feeling the dr.martens highlighted would be a little controversial for some haha BUT I decided to sell a few pairs of mine (the platform ones) as they have been in a box for a year, i try them on, create an outfit and then won’t go out in them.. but I like the look of them! Instead I’ve ordered a simple, plain leather pair of Chelsea boots from M&S after watching this and I feel better that the wardrobe is minimising and I’ll have a daily pair of Chelsea boots I won’t have to ‘work’ so hard to make work for me in my wardrobe x thank you Lydia
Currently I am stalking a pair of pointed toe slingbacks with a medium height block heel. Pretty specific, huh? But I will keep looking until I find them! Thank you, Lydia, for putting me onto this idea. I know it's something I will wear for years once I find them. ❤
enjoyed hearing your opinions as usual, but this was an interesting watch for someone who picks shoes specifically to stand out and be the focal point of the outfit😂
I love my Docs, never giving those up!
I was thinking the exact same thing!!
Just bought the Audrick Mary janes ❤
Same ❤
I think it’s important to note that her style is very classic and of course her recommendations are geared to her style. I personally love my docs and the more little details, the better for me. So you just have to look at why she might feel these shoes look “industrial”. I think they give an edge that she doesn’t try to portray in her own looks.
Out in the ruggedness of the rest of America, these frilly shoes get eaten up quick. I’m gonna hang on to my boots.
Doc Martens started as an industrial boot, however, fashion history shows us there are no boundaries in style. 😎💅
I love this format. Details to avoid and particularly those to specifically seek that separate and elevate were terrific . Soooo helpful. More like this, please.
I’m so pleased that it translated and you know what I mean! Thank you for the feedback ❤️
I think the top part of the shoe is called the vamp
Docs will always be a fan favourite and timeless classic piece. Disagreed with a few of the styles you mentioned on the don't's list. Interesting video.
Your videos are also helpful to us older ladies who want to know what's stylish and keep current. Thanks Lydia. ❤
Means a lot, thank you 🤍
Exactly! I think I've bought a lot of the "avoids" (white stitching, wrong toe shape") and couldn't figure out why it didn't look quite right. You have a gift, Lydia!
I truly appreciate your take in fashion and trends without making us feel as though we are always doing the wrong thing. Thank you.
@@LydiaJaneTomlinson high heel tryon collection?
Yeah I'm here for the fashion guidelines and lydia
I like a do's and don't presentation. It is also very useful when you put the do and don't side by side. Would love to see styling videos with using outfits with loafers and ankle boots.
Canadian here... Chunky Dr. Martens is a MUST!.. the Canadian Winter Snow doesnt play.... that plus Blundstones. If you want to have any chance to survive winter over here... those two shoes is a necessity. Everything else on the list i think its a thing of preference... and i somewhat agree with them.
Don't forget black ice - chunky sole all the time, unless you want to land unceremoniously on your butt.
@@EvelynM-vlogs gurl!!.. Chunky sole all the way! ✔️
Great tips Lydia 😊 Depending on your lifestyle of course. I like the video format you used.
That's something that I find about her video. The practicallity. Don't get me wrong, I like her videos and tips, and they actually help me tremendously to build my capsule wardrobe. However, her shoes recommendation is always a miss for me since we have different lifestyles and climates. I love my ballet flats and heels, but at the end of the day I will always opt for my trainers because they are more comfortable to wear 3 - 4 hours of walking and constantly have to move. And it will not ruin our feet. The examples on this video are not meant to wear when you have to rush to catch the earliest commute and stand all day in your workplace. I just wish that she incorporates it more and take it into consideration of her styling because someone in my job would also like to look stylish without missing the practicality. I hope you can understand what I mean since English is not my first language.
@kaphy - I so agree! When Uggs were in style, the Toronto salty slush destroyed them & when Hunter (rubber) boots were in style, they were slippery and my feet were always freezing. Meanwhile, my docs have been workhorses. Practicality trumps fashion sometimes, eh?
I absolutely loved the format of this video! For us who's working on building our wardrobe staples, its so easy to not really notice those details and end up not happy with our buy. And for me, as someone who moved from a country with hot weather to a country with cold weather, those deeper inputs are really new and being all learned now. Thank you so much!
Life hack: you can go over contrasting stitching on a shoe with a black permanent marker pen. I’ve done it on shoes, bags and a leather jacket and it works well if you’re careful x
Oh snap Ty for this idea 😂 going to save some shows rn
Or you just have to polish them from time to time with same color shoe-polish. I've used to change the color of entire boots by using simple polish in desired color, if I couldn't get a pair in a shade I wanted - i.e.oxblood booties became dark brown after one application of brown shoe polish. Light stitching stands no chance against it. Polish polish, polish. ;)
@@blueice011 That polish is waterproof? Or how do you take it off? Does it leave stains if I touch it?
Thanks
@@ninav1522 Hi! Well, it depends on various factors - type of leather and polish you use. Do you have experience with shoe polish? They usually come as cream polish that you need to live in for a while and then polish with a brush or cloth - or as more liquid instant polish with sponge applicator ant the top that you use in between two 'proper' polishes to refresh your shoes and to give them quick, instant polished look. Those polishes dry fast, are not very nourishing for the leather and don't need polishing once they set. Both will do the same job - they'll dye contrasting stitching. Now, if you want to change the color of the entire shoe, you can go only the same color value (lightness/darkness) of darker. For example, you can't shoe polish for light shoes to make dark shoes lighter. You can do what I did - change the shade of equal value (from oxblood to brown) or make shoes darker. Depending on type of leather or faux/vegan leather used, the effect might vary I presume. Mine were from genuine calf. Once you treat your shoes with darker polish they will become darker and darker each time you apply the polish until they become the shade of the polish itself (for example, if you have green, tan or brown shoes and you use black polish on them, eventually, depending on leather, they will become rather dark or even fully black. You can't go back, I'm afraid. Regarding staining, if you used shoe polish before, you know it might be sticky if you touch it before it's set or absorbed and polished. They can stain your fingers or clothes if you don't let it set/dry or absorb/polish - depending which type of polish you use. Most shoe polishes nourish or/and give shoes a polished look while offering slight protection from the elements. However, if you need waterproof effect, you might want to look for a shoe product that has such properties. They usually come in form of thick, greasy, neutral shade and do decent job making your shoes waterproof. Perhaps you might find waterproof polish where you live. If you can't find neither, just use thick layer of petroleum jelly (Vaseline) let it sit, take off the excess and you should be good to go. Best of luck!
Edit: If you just need to cover/blend in contrasting stitching you can use a marker in the same shade.
This Alberta girl is never giving up her cowboy boots! ‘berta proud❤
I got hooked on your videos a year ago and have learned so much. You have truly helped me develope my style and curate my new closet. I'm 60 years old and finally feel polished, sophisticated and more myself. I retired so I needed to go into new phase in my wardrobe and you have certainly helped me get there. Keep up the great work and I loved this fall shoe video!
Lydia Style Personality is clearly a ‘Classic’ - however this isn’t everyone’s style type; for those of us who suit more ‘Dramatic’ styles, the constant neutrals would be bland and boring … but on Lydia they look timeless and elegant. You can have brighter & bolder colour & styles which are not cheap and tacky!
So true! I was almost offended when she knocked on the Doc Martens. IMO this "industrial" type of style looks great on Natural and Gamine types and probably some others too
Completely agree. Not everyone wants to wear things that don't stand out. I am so bored of boucle jackets and neutrals. Dont get me started on blazers.
Totally agree! Bright & bold, “dramatic”( I will never (🤘🏼😜) stop weaving a touch or two of “punk”into my outfits, even on my most “classic/elegant/timeless attire” days😉), is not only great fun, but if done right, it can look both “expensive” and elegant (as opposed to “cheap and tacky”😉).
But I do feel that getting the wrong “hue” for your skin tone - especially with bright colours, as well as “settling” for certain types of reeeally synthetic fabric, that are often used for bright & bold clothes, can quickly take things from “dramatic” to “decidedly dodgy”. It’s not easy getting it “right”, especially when shopping online or in shops with bad lighting😏.
Completely agree, it had to do with personal style, plus I think black does not suit her, she should look to adding more colors
And the trainers , only white and minimal no way
Really like this kind of detailed explanation of the nuances. Super helpful. Thank you!
I bought a pair of combat boots with laces and zips. I did it because I was tired of coming home and struggling to get my boots off. Getting them on wasn’t a walk in the park either. The leather is gorgeous too. (They cost an arm and a leg at net-a-Porter.) They style up with just about anything. On AND off in seconds, and so edgy. I’m not giving these up. I can see the attraction to a minimalist plain pair of Chelsea boots, but I’d get a classic style in brown. Other than that I love your videos Lydia. You’re really helping me with a number of style conundrums and this one has been helpful too.
Thank you, Lydia. This kind of video is extremely informative to me. Sometimes when I am cleaning out my closet, I ask myself "Why did I purchase this?" It is so helpful to know what a quality is basic, so that you don't go out and waste your money on so many trends that you might not have thought was a trend at the time. Even some of the embellishments I am guilty of purchasing. I think I have a pair of dress shoes with a Diamonte square buckle on it, thank God they are black, and it is a more subtle dark stone on the toe. I like good quality clothing and am so over trend clothing. I feel better in neutrals and basics. But as I get older, I am interested in keeping modern (not younger) but it is so hard to know modern from trendy.
What makes your loafers so cool is the overall design of the vamp. Little details are what makes them so special. 👍🏼
Very helpful video! Thank you! Wait for the series =)
Omg yes the exact video I needed! For the last couple of months I’ve thought about what to get to update my shoes
Yay so pleased to hear that this will be useful! ❤
I love hearing different style opinions, I live in Canada so this is refreshing.😅 Love your jacket!!🩷
I really loved this video, so doable and no clicking other places ti find where you bought items from. Yes, more of this thanks
Love this!! Slightly disagree about avoiding the doc martens, though I agree about the style you showed being a little much. I have them in the regular (less chunky) soles and love wearing them with tights and some skirts, or with black skinny jeans and a slightly chunky sweater (jumper)!
Yes I think maybe it depends on the exact style! Also this is just my opinion and that’s the beauty of style, we all love different things and wear them differently! ❤️
Agree.
Agree Completely! Exactly how I like to style them too. And so comfy once broken in.
Exactly 😊
I’ve been watching deconstructing videos of famous makers. A better boot without the yellow stitching can be had for less money. You’re paying for the name…these are not your mother’s Doc Martins…which she probably still has from the 80s. I have a pair of Timberlands that I’ve had since the late 80s and the soles are flat but the upper is still great…still waterproof. The newer ones mostly made in China just don’t compare. This is true of Docs as well. Even the Made in England variety don’t compare.
Ballet flats are great for those with ballerina legs! If you've got cankles or a fuller calf, best to be avoided I think .Great content always ❤
Great formula for a very informative post! Please continue this way: coats, jackets, pullovers etc just everything😁 Your arguments against are more Important than you can imagine. You are teaching us to choose a good style. Thank you!
So VERY helpful! By showing the "no" and the "go", you definitely teach great lessons! Thank You!
I love the old classic penny loafer and ballet flat. I really like the oxblood color for loafers. Goes with everything.
Love the video but I have to disagree with the Docs. They’re timeless and always cool.
Love love love my docs. They are their Chelsea version with yellow stitching. Totally not an issue. I wear them on cold rainy/snowy days. I care far more that the quality is absolute top notch than if there is stiching details personally.
Cowboy boots will always speak to Americans. They are part of our heritage. I can't wait for Fall season so I can get mine out. We live in Arizona and it's a way of life.
Yes we were ours year round in Northern California but everyone here usually lives on a ranch except for the SF folks moving in.
I so agree...
Your videos are the best ever ❤ the way u introduce ur topic is so much interesting and ur content is inspiring 😊
Thank you so much 🥰 that’s so lovely of you to say and very much appreciated!
Your detailed explanation of what to avoid and why, followed by suitable replacements, was super helpful especially when you explained the reasons behind your recommendations. Looking forward for similar videos ❤
As a country American girl living in the south, we absolutely adore western boots and they are a staple in our wardrobes. Ankle, mid calf and tall cow girl boots! Are must haves!!!!
Same! From a PNW girl!
Immediately had the same thought.
I have seen western boots coming in hard as a trend or micro trend… But I understand what you’re saying… Western cowboy boots will never be out of style, depending on where you live, and what you love!
I recently bought an embroidered western boot. It’s lovely and I don’t feel like a caricature. But I live in America so maybe that helps.
Right on
Interesting ideas. My younger son bought me a pair of Docs for Christmas two years ago after I said I liked his (not platform soles). They have been perfect for the rainy west coast winters here in Canada. Four years ago my older son bought me black leather Van loafers, again great for our rainy fall and winter. In the spring and summer I wear a pink or black ballet flat with criss cross ankle detailing (I have skinny ankles). I don’t like heels of any kind so the ankle detail is nice. It all comes down to what works for your feet…and your climate 😊
Love a platform, edgy look. As you get older , looking typical to me ages you. Karen Britchick wears lots of chunky shoes and has for years, they look great on us taller ladies. Platforms as also good if you don’t want to wear heels ( perfect for those longer flare pants)
I agree 100%, your body and personality dictate your style, not your age. I just bought a pair of chunky white sneakers and I'm 37.
@@oldtimesongFlats just look horrid on me.
yes I absolutely love this format Lydia! Please give us more ! also when you are decluttering some of your pieces, maybe you could show us what didn't work for you and why and some alternatives? Thank you 💜
Ohh I so second this! Love that idea for a video!
Great video. I would love to see one on how to pair footware to clothes. For example, the ankle boots with a few different bottoms that work with them etc..
I loved this video! 💕 Great criteria to evaluate or build a fall shoe wardrobe. The elegance and timelessness of simplicity was right on point. I would love to see a video on blazers in the same format. Thank you!
Dear Lydia! This is unbelievable! I was about to head over to your channel and search for a video on fall loafer advice!!! My feed served your video right when I needed it!! Such great content!! Love your channel!
A great new format! Sooo helpful 🔥 Please, include knee- high boots next time 🙏
Noted! 🥰🥰
This sounds like your personal opinion not “fashion” guidelines
There are no laws in fashion, so it is her opinion
You are my "go to" stylist on UA-cam. I love your style and presentation. At 54yr old, i dont want faddy trends that last a few month, i much prefer simple ageless outfits that look stylish rather than trendy. 🤗🥰 thankyou
A big YES to this video format. Quite helpful tips on how to look modern. Keep these coming!
I also love this community here.. esp when I hear ppl talking abt their must haves whether it be Western Cowboy boots, Dr Marten’s or Chelsea boots!
I think it’s such a reflection of our environments and even cultural influences!
I also respect how Lydia stands her ground on no Barbie core and no red 🙂.
For me pockets of red and animal prints are neutrals! 😊 And so are delicate print blouses. That’s where I feel me!!
No Manolos for me as well. Sling back kitten heels with socks..it’s dope! 👌
Much love Lydia…❤
It's sooo useful to me, explains what I could not get before. Thanks to you it's been a while since I started changing, minimalizing my word robe and as I age I look better, thanks to you and your channel!
Love this style of video Lydia! You were clear these are simply your opinions about certain items, so I do not understand the negative comments and I hope it doesn’t put you off this type of video in the future.
This is a style channel, not a political campaign one, you do not need to please all of the people all of the time 😂. I for one prefer honest opinions versus “nice” ones when it comes to style and the beauty of an opinion is I can consider it and still make my own mind up about my preference 🙌🏻❤️
This video was very helpful. I watched it yesterday, and today purchased several pair of shoes according to the guidelines and they honestly look so good . This video saved me a lot of time . I want to see other similar guiding video about bags, knits, pants, jeans and outwear
I feel that your style is classic and timeless, which means that what you buy is an investment that will stand the test of time, saving money in the long run. It’s also ok to buy something trendy every now and again if you love it. Very useful advice in your video, enjoyed it.
Too late. Already bought my chunky loafers 😆
Enjoy ! I love chunky loafers
I appreciate hearing your thoughts on a very detailed level. Helpful to consider these specific elements when shopping for similar styles. Sometimes these types of “fall shoe trend” videos are too generic. Thank you!
I found this video very helpful and I would love a series like this. One suggestion would be to do one about handbags. Thank you!
Lydia, you wear your clothes so well and I do agree with you about this video.
Thank you ❤
This is very helpful Lydia. You did a similar one a few years ago showing the difference between black versus navy trousers that I’ve never forgotten. Happy to see more examples contrasting what doesn’t work with what does. Maybe something on knit outfits as I find them hard to put together properly.
Very good segment, would definitely like more of these. Now I have details to think about while purchasing shoes. I would also love a video showing how to pair boots with skirts, pants etc. I’m especially having trouble figuring out what to wear with fuller midi skirts for fall and winter
Love your videos..First one I’ve really been - nope! disagreed with over 50% of the content especially around white trainers…it’s a bit ‘general’. What goes around comes around in fashion and it’s how you style things. Apart from this do love your videos Lydia. Said with love x
Love this new twist of video with more specifics of why certain style doesn't and does work. Very educational. Thanks
This is exactly the kind of information I need. I excel at buying things that are “not quite right” and I struggle to get the looks I really want.
One of my favorite videos, thanks Lydia! This was incredibly useful for people like me who are looking to elevate their wardrobe. It is very important for me to invest in pieces that I know I will be able to wear a lot. Please make more videos like this 🤍 looking to invest in a coat this season so I would love your recommendations.
Always look forward to your videos. I believe the term is "vamp," which is the top portion of the ballet flat that covers the toes.
Oooh I’ve never heard that before! You learn something new everyday! Thank you for sharing!
From what I can see here, mainly this is what you are personally attracted to, or not. You make a couple of good points but mainly this is just your personal opinion! Many of the items would be perfectly fine for someone else’s taste. You don’t mention that at all during this video.
I cannot do ballet flats. They just look out of place on my feet. Love a good loafer
Your shoe examples and explanations are so helpful! I agreed with everything you said, but needed your help to know what details to avoid and what styles to look for. Shoes are especially difficult because comfort is a real issue for me. I find that my feet do best in quality shoes made with 100% leather. Synthetic linings make my feet sweat and they don’t have enough give.
Please, please, please do more videos like this!
Love your videos! I'm also so thankful you reminded me about pulling out my docs for this fall LOL. I love your more simple suggestions as well!
Great advice. My big issue is my bad feet. I just can’t do the sling back shoes anymore. No more pointed toes at age 70 years old. Agony comes to mind.
I have taken to Frye Harness boots….good arch support and lots of toe room. The black ones can go from garden to the theater…with a bit of shoe cream. And when looking down at your feet the toe design makes your feet look slim….and mine are not…Flintstone Feet….not Wilma but Fred.
So happy to see Mango penny loafers were included in your 'good' list.
I've been wearing those like almost every second day since the end of the summer, keep getting a ton of compliments. Even a few people thought they were legit Le Loafer Penny by Saint Laurent.. I'm not complaining about that at all 😉
I like the helpful hints here Lydia ❤
💯 spot on about everything EXCEPT.. my Dr Martens AND my western boots ! Will never ever EVER give them up 💯
I do, however update them regularly !
Docs are a must for any concert 😉
(Btw.. the long chic pony is very cute !)
Try the Moroccan Serum- in a small square pump bottle for flyaways.. You're welcome 😊
Sounds very personal 😮
Controversial one but love it!
Haha do you think? 🙈 Hopefully more useful than controversial 😅 but glad you like it!❤❤
Agreed! I think the shape and size of a persons foot and one's height play a huge part in the style of a shoe. I agreed about shade of shoe though some colours just make certain items looks cheaper. Only thing I don't agree with her is the jimmy choos they always look elegant and Dr Martens are timeless!
I found an affordable ballet flat with the Mary Jane strap at Old Navy for $24. It doesn’t have the little bow and has the square toe. They’re comfortable with cushioning
Love all of your videos but this one is particularly useful because it is so specific. Thank you
I throughly enjoyed this video- thank you! More like this please ❤
Oh no! I have a pair of trainers with gold detail. 😮 I do love them and they are too comfy to give up. 😅
Thank you, very interesting!
I would have liked to have pictures, exemples of how you wear them. Jeans or pants out or in, because I’m not that good in this. 😂
Yay 🎉 totally agree 👍..too many times loafers have been touted as the go to shoe, but they can age you, and in middle age please don't add on any more years. Also can cheapen very easily. However get the right pair and you have a very versatile wearable shoe...thank you for your styling advice...❤ thoroughly enjoy your take on style 🦋👌🌿🐨 also..always been a lover of docs ❤❤ the heavy lifters of 😎 💗💗
I clocked on this video bc I value your advice and I was happy to see this type of video on your channel.
Her introduction is important for yall complaining
Thank you for reviewing all the different styles Lydia. And I think Vivaia does the job too. (well I am in love with the brand haha) 😀😍💥💯Greetings from Belgium.
This was really helpful. I’d love a video on which boots and shoes to wear with different shaped/coloured trousers and jeans for autumn and winter. With a limited budget I struggle to find the most versatile pieces when I need them to keep me warm and when walking distances. Thank you!
Very helpful tips there Lydia. Thank you. I like a refined classical look although I do own a pair of DMs cos sometimes life calls for an old comfy classic!
Been watching your content for a while, but this is a first time that I have something you shared. I agree with that slingbacks from & other stories. It is so soft and elegant. I have it in beige. ❤
I would love a video on how to style these types of boots, I always find boot season really tricky to figure out.
Lydia,
PLEASE write a quick guide/book for those of us with no fashion sense!!!❤❤❤
Yes to watching this type of content but then wearing whatever you want anyhow 😂
Interesting I never paid much attention to what "looks" cheap or not vs what actually is. I guess I assumed that if an item costs alot if money it won't look cheap. Thanks for calling my attention to these details.
Very interesting format of video, Lydia, thank you🙂, of course everything depends on a personal style, but I can relate to everything you said here and I will agree with many others who asked for more of these videos for different types of pieces, for me it is about coats and in general about autumn winter jackets, thank you❤
I really enjoy your content. Thank you so much for all your hard work!
brilliant - you are so STYLISH!!!
Unfortunately if you are a size 42.5 or 43 you just don't have the luxury of choosing something that you like. You just have to put up with whatever you can find that fits you.
Unfortunately more and more shops seem to have made the decision lately to only stock up to size 41.
I love those Other Stories slingbacks, especially as they have a low heel. Unfortunately they only go up to size 41, despite OS stocking other styles in a 42. And as they are a pointed toe I'd probably need a 43.
I'm so jealous of people that are able to buy shoes based on what they like!
Luckily trainers are fashionable at the moment so I can live in mens trainers.
"Vamp" Lydia....the top of the shoe is the vamp! Great video - agree with ALL (now to find a great ballet flat )
I will paint the stitching
I like how you have added what to replace instead - very helpful. I was looking for a boot that would last year without going “out of style” and chose Dr. Martens however these have the black stitching as I wanted something minimal.
I've been debating about buying a loafer, and after this I know i'll feel more confident about my final choice :)
Love this! A follow-up with how you’d style these would be so fun!!
Your black ballet flat with the strap remind me of the ballet shoes I wore for square dancing 60 years ago. They cost between $3-$6.
This is what it's like to watch the younger generations fawning over something old that died hard! I am watching Gen z go crazy over the early 2000s styles that are too hilarious for us millennials to take seriously. In the early 2000s, my mom asked me why I was wearing old fashioned "pedal pushers" and I said "ma, these are capri pants!" Now they are called "cropped kick flare" pants.
Wonderfully formatted video! Please make more like this ❤
I had a feeling the dr.martens highlighted would be a little controversial for some haha BUT I decided to sell a few pairs of mine (the platform ones) as they have been in a box for a year, i try them on, create an outfit and then won’t go out in them.. but I like the look of them!
Instead I’ve ordered a simple, plain leather pair of Chelsea boots from M&S after watching this and I feel better that the wardrobe is minimising and I’ll have a daily pair of Chelsea boots I won’t have to ‘work’ so hard to make work for me in my wardrobe x thank you Lydia
Currently I am stalking a pair of pointed toe slingbacks with a medium height block heel. Pretty specific, huh? But I will keep looking until I find them! Thank you, Lydia, for putting me onto this idea. I know it's something I will wear for years once I find them. ❤
… I DO BELIEVE that a nice updated classic Oxford will be making the scenes as well … 👍🏻
enjoyed hearing your opinions as usual, but this was an interesting watch for someone who picks shoes specifically to stand out and be the focal point of the outfit😂
Loved this format! So straight forward and educational! Thank you! ❤❤❤
More of this helpful format please Lydia ❤