Gesshhh...Ben is an ex alcoholic in an event full of people driking and the smell of alcohol around everywhere. His levek of anxiery and wanting to leave is understandable. I'm not a Ben Affleck fan, but geeeshhh give the man a break.
Leave Ben alone. Y’all don’t know…he may have had a migraine and the noise was a Bish. Or just plain tired. Celebs aren’t super human. And he’s sober. The last place you want to be is around a party.
That must be why you clicked on this pathetic nothing. I’m so glad you can now carry on. It’s not like everyone who clicked on this had their own particular reasons to feel completely empty and like life wasn’t really worth living.
Many don't realize that former alcoholics have damage to the pleasure center part of the brain and when sober it us hard for them to feel happiness..due to lack of normal dopamine levels. He is struggling
So upon more research, as long as he stays sober, they can be fully restored in the LONGEST, 14 months. Things like excersize ect help to restore the levels quicker! 😄
It's called being human. Not sure if everyone knows by now, but human beings have good days and bad days. For the vast majority of human beings who are not famous, this has no consequences. For those few who are famous, it makes it to the media.
He IS an actor. SO, he needs to learn more about acting. That's what you do when you love someone, and it's THEIR thing. He was an "embarrassment" to JLo. If I didn't know better (OR do I?) I'd say he had a hangover OR on something . She is such a lively, vibrating personality any time she's on camera. I think he's a SCHLUMP.
@millie alvardo I get it..I love both, though there are times I don't want to be out. even family things, if I commit to going I don't act like pouty baby. People just growup, no don't want to go, fine cause the event will go on without you. Are they men or babies, please. I'm talking about those who do it then act childish...
0:12 Ben's feeling tired and Jen bossing Ben around and criticizing Ben again...I feel sorry for him hope he doesn't become with depression again, not healthy to be around bossy people.
The gammy? Dude you need to worry about your grammar. Not how Ben feels about Jen. And they're doing great. But why would a straight male know that? Maybe you should get a life.
There going on two years together. The amount of bullying on these two people is disgusting. I'm glad they've out grown comments like yours. The is a recovering alcoholic and probably struggling. Your gonna learn today that when life throughs hard shit to you will see how your going to handle that. Karma your way.
@@travet1000 it's not bullying... it's an observation and one that many people have. He used to appear just as miserable with Jennifer garner.. when he 1st broke up with jlo, he blamed being with her for his career slump.. when he broke up with Garner, he blamed his drinking on being in that relationship... he needs to grow up and realize the problem is him
Their relationship would benefit greatly if each of them just "allowed the other" to be as they naturally are without trying to change the other. I hope Jen learns to just let Ben be his real self. No adult likes to be scolded, it's off-putting.
How stupid can you be? The media is assuming too much. Hiring a lip reader?WTF. Ben is a recovering alcoholic and this bullying the poor guy is going to drive him to drink again. Just leave them alone and get your own life.
i think Ben was not in his environment , i mean the movies, we can tell when he spoke to the other actor his face was happy , i mean the music industry people is not the same as the movies where Ben knows mostly all the people there
She used to say that when she was with ARod, showing how much in love she was, meanwhile it was falling apart at the seams.. Its possible that is whats happening with Ben and Jen.
He was whispering to her he wanted to go home early so he could give her a full body massage because she was making him excited in that dress💯🔥 Y'all don't know what in love looks like
My husband can’t get on any form of public transportation without making a fuss. He’s such a homebody; it gets on my nerves. I can’t take him anywhere to parties, weddings, worst church or the mall. 🤣 And he’s the worst at concealing his boredom.
It's a shame that Jen keeps picking the wrong men. She thrives in the spotlight and Ben hates anything public. When you meet someone, you have to accept what they are. Trying to change a man is like raising a child. It's also rare that the second try works.
The man has 3 young children, he probably realizes he should be with them and all that stuff. They may have mistaken a great friendship for a marriage, but either way it looks like sadly they may have married in haste. I hope they make it but looks like a divorce is most likely. He maybe needed to sort his demons out first. His life in that scene doesn’t really fit but I wish healing for all.
Let’s think of the most meaningless thing to do today, hire a lip reader to try to hear what her and Ben are saying. No relationship is perfect, just because they may have had a disagreement doesn’t mean they have issues in their marriage
Guess every couple has those moments.We just don't choose ,those fancy functions to have a melt down at.J lo needs to stop dragging her man with and find herself another date to take along.This marriage ain't gonna last to long either.So sad.She needs to be ok ,with being by herself.
That disturbing telling her husband to sit up strait and act motivated wtf is that. He’s a grown azz man. She needs to just stop. Feels abusive. She should be happy he showed up.
OMG leave the guy alone! Ben would have probably preferred being home on the couch chilling after a long day!! I am feeling that Ben fully supports Jen! They have zero marriage problems. He was tired people & did not want to be there but was bc it made his beautiful wife happy! Let his lack of enthusiasm go…..the world has gone wacky into reading in to every silly thing!!! Argghhh. Enough already!!
@@realestatetvsgb Really???? The man has been miserable since marrying her go and look at the photos of them he hates the camera and the spotlight he has never had a happy face or seems to smiles at all while he's with her
@@violetgurl80s60 Hating ‘the camera’ and/or spotlight is not the same as not being happy or unhappy in his marriage. With that being said, I respect your opinion and I can certainly see where your observations come from ~ as my opinion is also merely observation 👍🏻. My belief is that we as a society, have become so quick to judge & critique. It’s honestly gotten goofy!
How awful..! they only criticize them... they love to separate couples with their criticisms. What toxic people! Let them have their relationship in peace, don't live by destroying people's lives... how horrible!
The only thing I don't like about Ben is how he talks about his marriage to Jennifer Garner...how he felt trapped...and that's why he drunk. I hate to say this but she likely would be there for him even after JLO drops him
If J-lo was at one of his events, she probably would present herself in an engaged manner. I'd say, if the event is not something Ben can engage with, just go alone, or bring a friend instead. Everyone has different comfort levels.
Don't think Benifer is going to last. Good sex and physical attraction is a very small part of building a solid relationship. They are too different from one another.
You don't need a lip reader to see how being with jlo makes you age (not well), and how ben doesn't look 100% happy. I don't buy the fake pda. Jlo appears like it's her way, or it's the high way. I don't see them lasting. There is only so much a man can take.
@@panthergal7399 Be fair! She was married to Marc Anthony for 10 years and engaged to Arod for 4 years. Think about Pamela Anderson who’s been married 5 times and still wants to get married again.😮
It's sad that the media has to focus on there relationship bc this was supposed to be a night for Grammy winners I guess Ben and jlo won the most awards for there relationship bc that's all that's going viral lmbo SMH just ridiculous
Ben being sober n not wanting to be around fake people is understandable
He’s the fake.
exactly! especially that sam smith performance. jlo should just allow ben to stay at home.
He had the option to stay home what else do they do at awards?
Lol, imagine thinking he's better than them because you've the hots for him😂😂😂😂
👹 Illuminati
We've reached such a low that the media has hired a lip reader to know what Jen and Ben are saying...
How about the devil warship ?
I know right, so dumb 🙄
So stalkerish
Yep ...its all quite pathetic and just wrong what has this sad world come to
😂😂😂😂😂
Y’all need a hobby. Who cares if he was mad, or sad, or happy. Leave people alone. Some people have nothing better to do. 🙄
Then don’t watch it 🤡
Agreed!!!!!
Gesshhh...Ben is an ex alcoholic in an event full of people driking and the smell of alcohol around everywhere. His levek of anxiery and wanting to leave is understandable. I'm not a Ben Affleck fan, but geeeshhh give the man a break.
not to mention his anxiety wondering who J-Ho will replace him with next year.
I saw somewhere, I think it was lizzo who said, that they don’t let them drink at the grammys apparently
@@judigemini178 o see wine glasses on all the videos released from the grammys
@@judigemini178 well Lizzo lied lol
are you a friend of him so you know what he wants and needs? i dont think so
Nobody even watches the Grammys no more 😂😂😂😂😂
It's a joke just like the rock and roll Hall of Fame is a joke
Truth.....It used to be all political, which was tiresome. Now, it looks like a night at the devil's campground. I'm scared to watch...lol.
I did so
They did this year lol
Leave Ben alone. Y’all don’t know…he may have had a migraine and the noise was a Bish. Or just plain tired.
Celebs aren’t super human. And he’s sober. The last place you want to be is around a party.
Please. The guy is perpetually miserable.
He must 24/7 have that migraine
@@angelanarvaezgovea9430 I do and it’s not fun.
My point is…give people the benefit of doubt until proven otherwise. 🤷🏻♀️🙏🏻
@@LisaKayOGQueen m
Ben is a alcoholic
He’s acting like a HUSBAND at an event he doesn’t want to be at😂😂😂 My husband has the SAME look at the mall😂😂😂
He wanted to be home watching football
😂😂🤣😂
Same here
Leave Ben alone 🙂he’s a good actor 😅
I feel his pain. That was a down to earth reaction. I can't imagine sitting through the Grammy's live.
He represented the " WTF is this shit"? In everyone one of us.. Good on you Ben!
😂😂Truth!!
Don't act like he's one of you. He could easily not be staying among them and attending these events
@@vb8428 I mean with a wife like that, he's gotta play the part, you know..
This man wasn’t just tired.
Everyone must stop sugar coating it
Tired of her keeping his balls in her purse
I am so relieved to find out what they said to each other. Now I can live out the rest of my life!
That must be why you clicked on this pathetic nothing. I’m so glad you can now carry on. It’s not like everyone who clicked on this had their own particular reasons to feel completely empty and like life wasn’t really worth living.
Many don't realize that former alcoholics have damage to the pleasure center part of the brain and when sober it us hard for them to feel happiness..due to lack of normal dopamine levels. He is struggling
I instantly thought of that when I saw him.
What?? The human body and brain are incredibly resilient. I've been clean almost 15yrs, and you better believe I experience happiness! 😂😉💜
So upon more research, as long as he stays sober, they can be fully restored in the LONGEST, 14 months. Things like excersize ect help to restore the levels quicker! 😄
Bull crap
@@mommyof3_908 yes but we don't know how long Ben has been sober..it takes time and healthy living to recover from addiction
It's called being human. Not sure if everyone knows by now, but human beings have good days and bad days. For the vast majority of human beings who are not famous, this has no consequences. For those few who are famous, it makes it to the media.
Ben is human 😏 😳🫣?
He sensed the 😈 energy in the place.
❤
Even Harry said the turntable started turning in reverse for no reason. Serious 👿 energy
Probably why Ben and Jennifer work so well together. She seems the dominant one which he obviously needs to be kept in check.
Publicity stunt well
She's always the dominant one... That doesn't work for long which is one of the reasons her relationships don't last
They do excellent work together they have made billions for the CIA War Machines.
Or she could be another Meghan.
@@pearlford121 their both bossy Leo's lol
It's not his scene, he's an actor. Maybe if it had been the Oscars he'd have been more excited.
He crazy
He IS an actor. SO, he needs to learn more about acting. That's what you do when you love someone, and it's THEIR thing. He was an "embarrassment" to JLo. If I didn't know better (OR do I?) I'd say he had a hangover OR on something . She is such a lively, vibrating personality any time she's on camera. I think he's a SCHLUMP.
@@dorothykrcmar4606 I love the fact that he wasn't acting at the Grammy. He wasn't getting paid for that.
it's the same damn thing this is funner coz there's music
Ben was the only sane person in the room
I can relate. My husband is not the social type when he's not in his element or exhausted... lol!!!
@millie alvardo I get it..I love both, though there are times I don't want to be out. even family things, if I commit to going I don't act like pouty baby. People just growup, no don't want to go, fine cause the event will go on without you. Are they men or babies, please. I'm talking about those who do it then act childish...
Do you know how many times I've given that look to my husband 😆
Exactly! I don’t get why this is news. Many men have this same damn face at family gatherings, kids birthday parties, church, etc. 😂
Because they're celebrities 😂
He never looks happy. This marriage won't last. She needs to learn how to be alone. She's needy
He probably said, " can I leave " her, "No"! Hahaha... 😂
I hope Meryl Streep decides to join the cast for a possible Mamma Mia 3. It won’t be the same without her. 😊
Haven’t u heard that
Meryl Streep is a Pedo?
They killed her off so doubt it
@@audreyb1935 good
@@audreyb1935 WAIT SHES DEAD?
@@M.A.Ortiz021 yes her character is not in 2nd movie because she has died
Geez. Leave them alone. I can’t even imagine that kind of pressure. ❤
Do you think they would be happy with that 🤔The more we talk … the more 💰 they have 😏
The lip reader 😅😂 I feel like he was way off
Seriously lol that's not what she said
Why would she say “Look motivated” lol
I agree!
Yeah … that was funny…😂 And we are all clicked on that bs 😂
0:12 Ben's feeling tired and Jen bossing Ben around and criticizing Ben again...I feel sorry for him hope he doesn't become with depression again, not healthy to be around bossy people.
Jlo is getting what she signed up for! His facial expressions is priceless at the gammy she's gonna learn today that u can't fix someone like him.
Nobody cares
The gammy? Dude you need to worry about your grammar. Not how Ben feels about Jen. And they're doing great. But why would a straight male know that? Maybe you should get a life.
No woman can fix any man and no woman should try.
There going on two years together. The amount of bullying on these two people is disgusting. I'm glad they've out grown comments like yours. The is a recovering alcoholic and probably struggling. Your gonna learn today that when life throughs hard shit to you will see how your going to handle that. Karma your way.
@@travet1000 it's not bullying... it's an observation and one that many people have. He used to appear just as miserable with Jennifer garner.. when he 1st broke up with jlo, he blamed being with her for his career slump.. when he broke up with Garner, he blamed his drinking on being in that relationship... he needs to grow up and realize the problem is him
They must've found that lip reader on Craigslist. It didn't look like what they said @ all 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 Or Angie’s List
@@kimking5928 🤣
Stop😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I can’t 😂😂
Their relationship would benefit greatly if each of them just "allowed the other" to be as they naturally are without trying to change the other. I hope Jen learns to just let Ben be his real self. No adult likes to be scolded, it's off-putting.
That's why they weren't a good fit from the start. JLo is all about the glamorous life and Ben is more at home watching a game and drinking beer
Give it up people. He probably had a headache, migraine, was tired etc. Not everyone can smile on prompt when they feel under the weather.
JLo shouldn't make Ben go to these boring events. She is a party girl. Ben is a home body. They knew that 20 years ago.
How stupid can you be? The media is assuming too much. Hiring a lip reader?WTF. Ben is a recovering alcoholic and this bullying the poor guy is going to drive him to drink again. Just leave them alone and get your own life.
i think Ben was not in his environment , i mean the movies, we can tell when he spoke to the other actor his face was happy , i mean the music industry people is not the same as the movies where Ben knows mostly all the people there
She used to say that when she was with ARod, showing how much in love she was, meanwhile it was falling apart at the seams.. Its possible that is whats happening with Ben and Jen.
He was to totally his usual self though 😂
He looked happy and always smiling with the actress who played Marilyn Monroe
@@Bunny11344 Ana De Armas! I agree! A lot of the paparazzi photos of him and her, he’s smiling a lot and look so much more relaxed.
He was whispering to her he wanted to go home early so he could give her a full body massage because she was making him excited in that dress💯🔥 Y'all don't know what in love looks like
Why bring him then? Leave him home & take a friend or family member.
Read my lips "I don't care!"
Some lol
That's their story and they're sticking to it!!
I don't know why I find this so damn funny, but I do. Thanks for the entertainment, Ben and Jen. 😆🤣😂
Hello 👋how are you doing today?
Being dragged to a satanic Granny Award, can imagine how Ben must have felt... 🤦🏻♂️
Awww poor baby ben 😢😢… just had to support his wife 😩😩😩
Ben seems more real than many in that scene and he's probably over it. Many would love to go to the grammys. For me it'd be hell.
Hello dear friend , hope you day is going smoothly for you over there with you .
My husband can’t get on any form of public transportation without making a fuss. He’s such a homebody; it gets on my nerves. I can’t take him anywhere to parties, weddings, worst church or the mall. 🤣 And he’s the worst at concealing his boredom.
It's a shame that Jen keeps picking the wrong men. She thrives in the spotlight and Ben hates anything public. When you meet someone, you have to accept what they are. Trying to change a man is like raising a child. It's also rare that the second try works.
Its not rare at all. Two people can have differing tastes and styles while at the same time being madly in love with each other
@@Beatleslvr4ever agree
Jlo HAS to the attention. Ben cannot stand the attention something is going to give
Can we just leave them alone! Come on ET ... you don't need to get this low !
The man has 3 young children, he probably realizes he should be with them and all that stuff. They may have mistaken a great friendship for a marriage, but either way it looks like sadly they may have married in haste. I hope they make it but looks like a divorce is most likely. He maybe needed to sort his demons out first. His life in that scene doesn’t really fit but I wish healing for all.
Diplo need to focus on them allegations against him relating to young black women ,and humble herself, and be blessed that he ain't canceled ( yet).
Ben fine as hell
From body language experts to lip readers
He looks like he didn't feel well
Need a translator for the lip reader 😂
I hope Ben tidy up himself. Don't messed up this time, JLO deserves better afterall these years
Now I need an interrupter to tell me what that British lip reader said. He spoke so fast. Any takers??
😂 😂
Now we need another lip reader to understand what the hell he said
What's an interrupter?
Funny comment 👍😂
Let’s think of the most meaningless thing to do today, hire a lip reader to try to hear what her and Ben are saying. No relationship is perfect, just because they may have had a disagreement doesn’t mean they have issues in their marriage
Guess every couple has those moments.We just don't choose ,those fancy functions to have a melt down at.J lo needs to stop dragging her man with and find herself another date to take along.This marriage ain't gonna last to long either.So sad.She needs to be ok ,with being by herself.
@@vyvyienewalser6798 she wasn’t having a meltdown 😂 does that video look like a meltdown? Looks like slight irritation.
I love them together. Wishing Jen and Ben the best today and always. #ContinuedHappinessBennifer
Gullible people
Why should you care?
That disturbing telling her husband to sit up strait and act motivated wtf is that. He’s a grown azz man. She needs to just stop. Feels abusive. She should be happy he showed up.
Totally agree she didn't have to tell a grown man to sit up like he was her son instead of her husband.
one of the seat fillers on tiktok said they were really cute and holding hands. he even lifted her skirt up a lil i think he was just flirting w her
He probably just didn't want to be there and she was just trying to get him to at least look happy, there's nothing wrong with that.
Can we get a lip reader for the lip reader
Nah, she said "Don't do it" twice... he must've whispered something funny and she's like nooo lol... normal couples-in-public stuff lol
Ben's like - I have to go to the men's room.
Jlo - Just hold it.
Ben - But it's number two.
Jlo - Just hold it.
Ben has been making those sad faces since the 90s. This isn't new.
OMG leave the guy alone! Ben would have probably preferred being home on the couch chilling after a long day!! I am feeling that Ben fully supports Jen! They have zero marriage problems. He was tired people & did not want to be there but was bc it made his beautiful wife happy! Let his lack of enthusiasm go…..the world has gone wacky into reading in to every silly thing!!! Argghhh. Enough already!!
👍 AGREE 💯
@@tarawalsh2195 Thank you Tara! You give me hope that we haven’t all lost our common sense! 🙌🏼
@@realestatetvsgb Really???? The man has been miserable since marrying her go and look at the photos of them he hates the camera and the spotlight he has never had a happy face or seems to smiles at all while he's with her
@@violetgurl80s60 Hating ‘the camera’ and/or spotlight is not the same as not being happy or unhappy in his marriage. With that being said, I respect your opinion and I can certainly see where your observations come from ~ as my opinion is also merely observation 👍🏻. My belief is that we as a society, have become so quick to judge & critique. It’s honestly gotten goofy!
@@realestatetvsgb Don't respect this idiot's opinion, he only knows how to assume shit.
Ben is incapable of bs. He cracks me up.
Ben was just missing a cigarette 🤣
what one dipped in alcohol
@@honesty2476 😂🤣😂💯
How awful..! they only criticize them... they love to separate couples with their criticisms. What toxic people! Let them have their relationship in peace, don't live by destroying people's lives... how horrible!
Listening to an "expert" lip reader like listening to a "psychic". NEXT! 🙄🙄🙄
The grass is always greener until you get there 😂. Jen doesn’t play and suspect she chastised him in Spanish!
He's had enough of her. Soon he'll be back on the bottle or file for divorce.
The only thing I don't like about Ben is how he talks about his marriage to Jennifer Garner...how he felt trapped...and that's why he drunk. I hate to say this but she likely would be there for him even after JLO drops him
He blamed Jlo for his career ups and downs but that’s forgotten yet I’ve read where many want to blame Jlo if he starts drinking again. 🙄
He just wants to take her home and go to sleep😂 Look how both of them are in love. That is what he whipers in her ear..come we go!🥰😇
If J-lo was at one of his events, she probably would present herself in an engaged manner. I'd say, if the event is not something Ben can engage with, just go alone, or bring a friend instead. Everyone has different comfort levels.
Don't think Benifer is going to last. Good sex and physical attraction is a very small part of building a solid relationship. They are too different from one another.
Agree. He seems unhappy the whole time. Mismatched.
@@BerryBerry1465 mind your business...
@@joanelulu8785 Why? You're not.
@@BerryBerry1465 u dont Know this people so u better care about your own relationships !
@@joanelulu8785 😂🤣😂🤣Yet here you are.
Me and Ben are sooo alike... I'm a homebody too.
Are you a professional actor too and married to J Lo… who is in the music business 😮? Homebody 😏
I hate when ppl act like everything is ok when it’s not, smdh❗️🙄🤦🏻♀️
Once a Sadfleck always a Sadfleck.
You don't need a lip reader to see how being with jlo makes you age (not well), and how ben doesn't look 100% happy. I don't buy the fake pda. Jlo appears like it's her way, or it's the high way. I don't see them lasting. There is only so much a man can take.
She doesn't last long with anyone..
@@panthergal7399 Be fair! She was married to Marc Anthony for 10 years and engaged to Arod for 4 years. Think about Pamela Anderson who’s been married 5 times and still wants to get married again.😮
She said, "no drinking" "you smoked weed" 🙈🤣
J Lo is likely the most high maintenance wife ever. I can't image why he would do this to himself!
And a true Diva
A lip reader who can't read lips. Way to go, ET.
How can the lip reader read anything if camera wasnt showing their lips fully ?
She was saying you're not supposed to be drinking
I give it 5 years MAX
1 year
@@adiyagama 1-2 years max!!!
4 years max. Sexual attraction gets old when you have nothing substantial in common. Even a alcoholic wakes up eventually.
1 year or less
really ben was trending since the grammys lol
It's sad that the media has to focus on there relationship bc this was supposed to be a night for Grammy winners I guess Ben and jlo won the most awards for there relationship bc that's all that's going viral lmbo SMH just ridiculous
Looks like when I whisper something naughty to my wife around company and she responds by saying "No dont get me started" 😋
Can we talk about why tf harry styles looks drugged out and doesn’t feel comfortable in the dress I’m praying for him so sad 😞
@4evershad0wbann3d I don’t know he looks so uncomfortable
Let people be people. I really don’t think it’s a big deal!
Wrong, he asked her if they will go to bed later and she responded in your dream world!!!
I wouldn't even bother trying to explain anything if what people are saying isn't true.
They( Ben and Jen) have the right of privacy... Hope lip reading of personal moment doesn't become a thing.
Wow they actually looked like a couple here.
Harry deserves the world so happy for him👏🏾🎉
Well why is she dragging him everywhere if she knows he hates it? Seems kinda cruel
The point ben realizes he's left sweet jennifer and his kids behind so he could worship satan with j-lo 🤣🤣🤣
@Chas LMAO 🤣
You realize that her children are still in her life.
Looks like the honeymoon is over.....and reality is setting in
She definitely said sit up straight
She just got married and they’re trying to break them up 🤦🏻♀️
Hello dear friend , hope you day is going smoothly for you over there with you .
It was cringe how awkward Ben looked . He was so bored out of his mind.
Lol leave the guy alone. Any guy wouldn't wana be there if they didn't have to.
What ….Ben doesn’t like watching devil worship?! 😂
Latinos know what they're really talking about LMAO ❤️🔥. All these squares have no clue