Ghirardelli should hire you to appear randomly at their candy stores when their peppermint is in season. They should pay you the EARTH to do this. You would be the ultimate peppermint lady!
"I can't with this project anymore, I just want this DONE!" Me: Looks down at the blanket I've been crocheting off and on for over a year and am running out of yarn AGAIN. "Mood."
I feel like the bows made all the difference with the sleeves. They really bring the sleeve and the dress together into a beautiful whole, and I kind of love them.
In which Lady Rebecca accidentally makes a perfectly serviceable fez. I was hoping, this whole time, that you would make a cockade, AND YOU DID! This came out very nice! Love your music choice at the end! YAY!! Stay well.
Woohoo.....a hat! Loving that...I did giggle re traffic cone comment. Great on thinking forward re use-again and storage. Decorating's always tricky for proportion ...totes loving that beautiful braid and looking forward to the reveal. Thank you Rebecca for making a bright bubbly vlog to wake up to and begin Tuesday with....hrah. Now back to the daily grist.....L.
Nicely done. May I recommend the book "From the Neck Up". As a milliner it is one of my go to's on a regular basis. It has great techniques for buckram hats as well as straws, felts, and wire frame hats.
When I want to alter the shape of a straw hat, I put it in a tub of water and saturate it. When the straw is soft and wet I use bowls and/or a little bucket to shape it and then let it dry out.
Miss Rebecca. For future reference - instead of hand sewing the bias stripe band on the hat, since it will be removable, you could have wrapped it around with right side facing in and pinned the back seam. Then machine stitched the back seam. Then turned the band right side out and slid it onto the hat. Just saying. Lovely ensemble by the way. You did a fantastic job.
It looks amazing!!! I don't say this to say hahaha, but I am glad to see I am not the only person that gets burnt out on a project and loose interest and getting the last bit of give a shit to finish it. Thank you as always. Love what you do.
I know you were over it by the time you got to the hat, but I really appreciate you seeing it through. I enjoyed the hat making process, and I love the finished product. Really looking forward to watching the reveal.
Thanks for showing the edge-melting on the polyester velvet, I have done it with many things but never considered doing it for fabric! And the iron surprised me, I'd have put the hat over my electric kettle :) Or maybe in the steamer basket in a stock pot... I'm used to making headwear out of metal, it's far less forgiving but the advantage is when it ticks you off you can smash it with a hammer. And an inside edge curve vs an outside edge curve is similar to your hatmaking, they get treated differently because they react differently depending on whether you're expanding or reducing although the cool thing is most of the time I don't need to cut crenellations, because you can stretch or shrink metal! :) ...and now I want to make a metal tophat, thank you.
Im sorry the hat part was so annoying for you, but it is one of my favorite things about your channel. I love that you make coordinating hats! Overall I think the project came out VERY well, good job! I cant wait to see it all together in the reveal!
In more of your videos reminding me of previous Castles in the Air playtests: The first playtest had some INTENSE tiny hats vs. tall hats discourse. There were also some Veritable Maiden Aunts still wearing the 1830s fashions of their youth (from your previous videos, we seem to have very similar tastes in fashion eras) who were very scandalized by the new fashion of women wearing hats (like a man!) instead of bonnets.
I've recently acquired a family heirloom: a 1885 wedding dress! Watching your videos is really helping me envision what my great-great-grand parent (in-law?) would have looked like on her wedding day
I’ve had a really great laugh! You REALLY don’t want to make this hat, do you? 😂 ‘I’ll just cover it with feathers’ phrase of the day, for me today... If I could do more than one 👍 I would!
Tips for hats... (I'm a milliner). Wet straw - soak it in water, and it will soften it, even if it has stiffener in it. It also prevents it from cracking and splitting when you shape it. Just make sure if you're blocking it or using a former, you let it completely dry before taking it off, or it won't keep the shape. For the buckram hat - if you draw a circle on the buckram where the wire needs to be, and make sure it's *just* inside the line, you should be ok (use the wire loose, instead of making it into a loop first, which is technically the wrong way to do it, but it much easier than joining first). For the fabric covering, don't try to attach the fabric to the buckram and then sew together. Make up the tip and crown of the buckram. Then make up the tip and crown of the fabric layer separately. As long as you're careful with the measuring, you can get a perfect fit, and it's a lot easier. it also gives a cleaner, neater finish, because you can do the sewing by machine. Then you do the brim and finishing as you normally would. (You can also cover the brim in the same way, so you can skip the hand sewing, and get a clean edge, if you don't want a binding.)
My husband just came to see what I was doing, and we both waved goodbye to you. Thanks for another interesting vlog you work really hard to create these beautiful costumes.
So an easy way to make cockades is to just gather one end of the ribbon until it forms a circle shape! You can make the gathers as small or big as you want and it's SUPER easy! Otherwise I love this project and cant wait to see it done!
Hi,sneak peak of your beautiful ensemble on the thumbnail image, I'm amazed at how you make making the hat look easy ,it's not I know I've tryed in the past ,and that was just a simply Easter bonnet. The dress is beautiful and now we have to wait ages,well till Saturday, to see you all regal in your dress. One day when you are not so busy could you do a deeper level of instructions on how to make a hat, please.
Thank you for showing the steps of making this hat (it looks lovely by the way). Have been wondering how to make a hat. Also, I loved the addition of the braid on the cuffs.
Look at all that stripey goodness! I love it and I can't wait for the reveal! (idk if it's a theatre thing but I was taught to do spokes of millinery wire on the brim if it needs to curve, although it does definitely make it harder to the fabric smooth over it. I made a buckram hat with a pretty heavily curved brim in undergrad using that method and it's held up pretty well even after the roughly 400 years since.)
@@LadyRebeccaFashions You probably know this but you can also give the bottom edge of the crown a bit of a curve if you're wanting a top hat like curve. The other buckram hat I made was a Mad Hatter inspired top hat and I used that method for it. Memories are slowly filtering back in after 15 years and man I loved making buckram hats but I don't love wearing hats so I haven't done any in ages. (Cardinal costuming sin, not liking to wear hats. Oh, well.)
I didn't have any buckram for the hat I just made for my Foundations Revealed entry, and I was trying to be super thrifty, so I used a Cheerios box! 😄 I glued the fabric to the pieces, then sewed everything together by hand and I have to say, I'm extremely happy with it!
Time to go show off this dress. It's obvious that you need a vacation. I hope you get some time off. The dress turned out perfect in my opinion. Take a day or two off.
I wonder if the wire ends up too big at the top of the crown because the original pattern has a seam allowance on the top of the 'sides' buckram piece that makes it taller, and with the taper on the cone, makes the opening smaller. You would almost want separate pattern pieces for the buckram and fabric parts to make sure that the seam allowance was included or not included as needed for each part.
I love this!! The whole outfit looks amazing. Makes me want to order all the stuff and start making hats!!! In stead I will go back to the latest batch of masks and toques (winter hat) I have on the table. Oh and I’m really looking forward to seeing you all decked out!!!
Seriously though. Or even more than that, depending on the project. (like my velvet ribbon dress from last year that wound up taking 5-6x what I originally estimated)
@@LadyRebeccaFashions neat! I guess that would work fine for something that won't get washed much, if ever. Doesn't it get sticky though? I remember dying my hair with koolaid in the 90s and it was not a nice texture
a ladies bowler hat would look beautiful you can have both the one you made and then make a red one but a ladies bowler its just smaller version of a mans bowler hat decorated please make one it would be so beautiful
@@LadyRebeccaFashions yeah, that's judt how it goes sometimes 😔 But it's still an amazing garment you've made. I could never! Nor would I ever have that kind of patience 😁
Do you have any suggestions about getting the shape of the crown to properly fit your head? I notice your ovals look perfect. For example, the base of the crown where the brim meets the crown (headband) ? Even with a template I can not get the base to fit properly..
+LadyRebeccaFashions *How many days' wear out of a nail paint job?* I see that the shade blends well with the red portion of the peppermint striping; but modeling the bustle dress indicates a re-paint. I have considered and rejected the false-nail option, as Vintage Doll® Round Rita Nails (promoted by our fellow UA-camr +LauraMitbrodt) will interfere with the gloves.
I totally have a scissors box full of scissors 😊 there's my 2 fabric scissors, paper/ string scissors, sharp detail scissors, "nice" all purpose scissors, 2 very crappy all purpose scissors that I let my husband use lol, 2 blunt tip kid scissors, and then my 6 super crappy pattern making scissors that my son and I make pretty designs in paper lol... oh and my rotary cutter and exacto knife...then there's the 2 scissors in the back of my mind to get someday......I just realized I might have a scissors problem 😂
@@WhimsyCourier LOL, that sounds like the scissor basket mom & I have. Except our 2 good fabric shears need to be sharpened so badly. Using my old paper scissors almost works better to cut for some fabrics now.
@@GiraffeLoverJen love the scissor basket 💛 I also have a basket problem lol! Yeah I totally get that. One of my fabric scissors are also in desperate need of sharpening. Lol yeah it's pretty bad when the paper scissors cut better
Where did you find the fashion plate you based your dress on? A book, Pinterest, or online resource. I just bought 17 3/4 yards of 60” stripy fabric to make my own bustle dress. I need to find inspiration dresses that are Historically accurate that use stripe patterns to their best effect!
I found this one (and most of my inspiration plates) on pinterest. I just generally do searches for things like "bustle dress" etc, but this is a fantastic board with all kinds of stripey dresses: www.pinterest.com/victoriankat/striped-dresses/
So did you know that "ensemble" means together in French? When you said "I am not gonna show you the whole ensemble together?" I did a little chuckle. P.S. My first language is French.
This is true, but clip on earrings dont give me infections in my earlobes like getting them pierced did. My ears just do not take piercing well at all. So they must suffer the consequences. (Screwback earrings, on the other hand, are the most comfortable things on the planet, and i have to keep touching them to check that they are still on)
Ghirardelli should hire you to appear randomly at their candy stores when their peppermint is in season. They should pay you the EARTH to do this. You would be the ultimate peppermint lady!
What is Ghirardelli?
Oh my gosh, I love that idea! ;)
@@lornas-w4661 it's a brand of fancy-ish chocolate from San Francisco.
@@LadyRebeccaFashions @Roxie Poe I love that idea. I'd be more excited to see you in a department store or mall than a Santa Claus.
I absolutely LOVE this dress!!!! If I ever find the right striped fabric….. I am madly jealous. Thank you for showing this!
Thank you! This fabric is actually still available at Joann's!
"I can't with this project anymore, I just want this DONE!"
Me: Looks down at the blanket I've been crocheting off and on for over a year and am running out of yarn AGAIN. "Mood."
I feel like the bows made all the difference with the sleeves. They really bring the sleeve and the dress together into a beautiful whole, and I kind of love them.
In which Lady Rebecca accidentally makes a perfectly serviceable fez. I was hoping, this whole time, that you would make a cockade, AND YOU DID! This came out very nice! Love your music choice at the end! YAY!! Stay well.
The ribbon at the bottom of the bodice is YESSSS!
Thanks! I feel like it really ties everything together. :)
Woohoo.....a hat! Loving that...I did giggle re traffic cone comment. Great on thinking forward re use-again and storage. Decorating's always tricky for proportion ...totes loving that beautiful braid and looking forward to the reveal. Thank you Rebecca for making a bright bubbly vlog to wake up to and begin Tuesday with....hrah. Now back to the daily grist.....L.
Everything I know about millinery, I just learned from you
Aww, thanks! ;)
Nicely done. May I recommend the book "From the Neck Up". As a milliner it is one of my go to's on a regular basis. It has great techniques for buckram hats as well as straws, felts, and wire frame hats.
Thanks! I'll look for that one.
This is why I always hoard and buy more trim than the pattern says i need.
It's Tuesday! It's Tuesday! I just realized this and virtually ran over here to see if you had posted. 🍬🍬🍬
Aww, that makes me so happy! :)
When I want to alter the shape of a straw hat, I put it in a tub of water and saturate it. When the straw is soft and wet I use bowls and/or a little bucket to shape it and then let it dry out.
I've never tried fully wetting it before, but I might have to give that a go.
I loved the lavender with the red. It really helped take away the "traffic cone" feel of the hat.
Miss Rebecca. For future reference - instead of hand sewing the bias stripe band on the hat, since it will be removable, you could have wrapped it around with right side facing in and pinned the back seam. Then machine stitched the back seam. Then turned the band right side out and slid it onto the hat. Just saying. Lovely ensemble by the way. You did a fantastic job.
It looks amazing!!! I don't say this to say hahaha, but I am glad to see I am not the only person that gets burnt out on a project and loose interest and getting the last bit of give a shit to finish it. Thank you as always. Love what you do.
I know you were over it by the time you got to the hat, but I really appreciate you seeing it through. I enjoyed the hat making process, and I love the finished product. Really looking forward to watching the reveal.
You need to create a support group with Noelle of Costuming Drama for people to put off doing hats (her yellow bonnet). Beautiful job!
Traffic cone . He he he ! Priceless. It is a beautiful hat.
You definitely don’t look like a traffic cone.
Haha! Thanks!
You've done an amazing job. I think the velvet binding on the bottom of the bodice is just right. And the bows are scrummy!
Thanks for showing the edge-melting on the polyester velvet, I have done it with many things but never considered doing it for fabric!
And the iron surprised me, I'd have put the hat over my electric kettle :) Or maybe in the steamer basket in a stock pot...
I'm used to making headwear out of metal, it's far less forgiving but the advantage is when it ticks you off you can smash it with a hammer. And an inside edge curve vs an outside edge curve is similar to your hatmaking, they get treated differently because they react differently depending on whether you're expanding or reducing although the cool thing is most of the time I don't need to cut crenellations, because you can stretch or shrink metal! :) ...and now I want to make a metal tophat, thank you.
Look up the bar code for your ribbon online. You should be able to find some that way (hopefully!) The whole ensemble turned out AMAZING!!
I tried that, but it was off their website. And thank you!
Im sorry the hat part was so annoying for you, but it is one of my favorite things about your channel. I love that you make coordinating hats! Overall I think the project came out VERY well, good job! I cant wait to see it all together in the reveal!
In more of your videos reminding me of previous Castles in the Air playtests: The first playtest had some INTENSE tiny hats vs. tall hats discourse. There were also some Veritable Maiden Aunts still wearing the 1830s fashions of their youth (from your previous videos, we seem to have very similar tastes in fashion eras) who were very scandalized by the new fashion of women wearing hats (like a man!) instead of bonnets.
Lol!! The end of a project always is the worst. The hat looks great!!!
Being done with a project just before it is finished is such a mood. Good done finishing it. :}
I've recently acquired a family heirloom: a 1885 wedding dress! Watching your videos is really helping me envision what my great-great-grand parent (in-law?) would have looked like on her wedding day
Wow, what a wonderful piece to have!
I’ve had a really great laugh! You REALLY don’t want to make this hat, do you? 😂 ‘I’ll just cover it with feathers’ phrase of the day, for me today... If I could do more than one 👍 I would!
Haha! I was just so done with this project.
Tips for hats... (I'm a milliner).
Wet straw - soak it in water, and it will soften it, even if it has stiffener in it. It also prevents it from cracking and splitting when you shape it. Just make sure if you're blocking it or using a former, you let it completely dry before taking it off, or it won't keep the shape.
For the buckram hat - if you draw a circle on the buckram where the wire needs to be, and make sure it's *just* inside the line, you should be ok (use the wire loose, instead of making it into a loop first, which is technically the wrong way to do it, but it much easier than joining first).
For the fabric covering, don't try to attach the fabric to the buckram and then sew together. Make up the tip and crown of the buckram. Then make up the tip and crown of the fabric layer separately. As long as you're careful with the measuring, you can get a perfect fit, and it's a lot easier. it also gives a cleaner, neater finish, because you can do the sewing by machine. Then you do the brim and finishing as you normally would. (You can also cover the brim in the same way, so you can skip the hand sewing, and get a clean edge, if you don't want a binding.)
Thank you! I will have to try that on my next hat!
Entertained from start to finish. More like this would be loved. Thank you.
Your outfit at the beginning reminds me of the children’s character Madeline. 10/10. Your project looks nice.
Ooo, you need a little red and white crocheted purse, and the other clip-on earring could be the closure on it!
It looks wonderful, Rebecca, what a triumph! Love the chevron on the hat. Can't wait for the final reveal.
Thank you so much!
My husband just came to see what I was doing, and we both waved goodbye to you. Thanks for another interesting vlog you work really hard to create these beautiful costumes.
Aww, thank you! :)
So an easy way to make cockades is to just gather one end of the ribbon until it forms a circle shape! You can make the gathers as small or big as you want and it's SUPER easy!
Otherwise I love this project and cant wait to see it done!
It looks amazeballs! I adore red. And velvet. Love this project. Brava!
I love everything about this outfit cannot wait for the reveal!
Yay I learned so much about making hats! Thank you for showing even though you were over it.
Hi,sneak peak of your beautiful ensemble on the thumbnail image, I'm amazed at how you make making the hat look easy ,it's not I know I've tryed in the past ,and that was just a simply Easter bonnet. The dress is beautiful and now we have to wait ages,well till Saturday, to see you all regal in your dress. One day when you are not so busy could you do a deeper level of instructions on how to make a hat, please.
Love love love the amazing progress your making!
Hatmaking is one of those things I have yet to tackle. You make such beautiful chapeaux!!
Very well done. This looks absolutely amazing!
Thank you for showing the steps of making this hat (it looks lovely by the way). Have been wondering how to make a hat.
Also, I loved the addition of the braid on the cuffs.
Thank you!
Omgoodness I'm so excited to see it all together! It looks spectacular!
OMG I want to make this in purple and black!!!
Ohhh.... That would be pretty!!
Ooh, do it!
When I have close to the sewing skills that Lady Rebecca does, this dress has made my list!! Purple and black stripe saten!
I can’t wait to do the reveal dress and hat are amazing
You have the shape for the era spot on,.......they were called plant pot hats....
Look at all that stripey goodness! I love it and I can't wait for the reveal!
(idk if it's a theatre thing but I was taught to do spokes of millinery wire on the brim if it needs to curve, although it does definitely make it harder to the fabric smooth over it. I made a buckram hat with a pretty heavily curved brim in undergrad using that method and it's held up pretty well even after the roughly 400 years since.)
Oh, that's such an interesting idea! I've never seen that before, but it makes a lot of sense.
@@LadyRebeccaFashions You probably know this but you can also give the bottom edge of the crown a bit of a curve if you're wanting a top hat like curve. The other buckram hat I made was a Mad Hatter inspired top hat and I used that method for it. Memories are slowly filtering back in after 15 years and man I loved making buckram hats but I don't love wearing hats so I haven't done any in ages. (Cardinal costuming sin, not liking to wear hats. Oh, well.)
I didn't have any buckram for the hat I just made for my Foundations Revealed entry, and I was trying to be super thrifty, so I used a Cheerios box! 😄 I glued the fabric to the pieces, then sewed everything together by hand and I have to say, I'm extremely happy with it!
Oh wow, creative thinking!
You can use bowls of different sizes to shape hats. I have done this many times. It just takes a little patience to find the right one.
Yep, I've done that a lot, but it doesn't work for sharp edges!
Time to go show off this dress. It's obvious that you need a vacation. I hope you get some time off. The dress turned out perfect in my opinion. Take a day or two off.
Thanks! I gave myself a little break from sewing last week, and now I'm excited about my new project! :)
It's beautiful! Nicely done 😊
Thank you! 😊
The hat is so pretty and the whole entire ensemble is gorgeous. Well done you!
Thank you!
I love this red dress!
Looking forward to som relaxing sowing hat making content😊
When your whole outfit is on if you look like a traffic coné it will be a pretty and tall traffic cone. I like watching you
for binding buckrum to fabric consider using quilting spray baste
You look sooooo good in this cut of dress❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wow I LOVE that hat! And thanks for the hat tips!
Thank you!
The whole outfit looks great can't wait to see you wear it
Thank you!
So excited to see this!!
I wonder if the wire ends up too big at the top of the crown because the original pattern has a seam allowance on the top of the 'sides' buckram piece that makes it taller, and with the taper on the cone, makes the opening smaller. You would almost want separate pattern pieces for the buckram and fabric parts to make sure that the seam allowance was included or not included as needed for each part.
Totally awesome! Thank you!
Came out beautiful 🤩
I love this!! The whole outfit looks amazing. Makes me want to order all the stuff and start making hats!!! In stead I will go back to the latest batch of masks and toques (winter hat) I have on the table.
Oh and I’m really looking forward to seeing you all decked out!!!
Thanks! And there's not too much specialty stuff you need - just heavy buckram and millinery wire!
Beautiful!
I am so wanting a red striped top hat for this dress
Oh, yay!!!! 💗
Note to self - calculate trim needed, double it, add 20%, purchase.
Seriously though. Or even more than that, depending on the project. (like my velvet ribbon dress from last year that wound up taking 5-6x what I originally estimated)
fiy, you can dye feathers with fabric dye made for silk or wool. treat it like a protein fibre fabric
I've dyed them with koolaid before, too!
@@LadyRebeccaFashions neat! I guess that would work fine for something that won't get washed much, if ever. Doesn't it get sticky though? I remember dying my hair with koolaid in the 90s and it was not a nice texture
@@spiritussancto I've only done it once, and it was several years ago, but I don't remember it getting sticky!
a ladies bowler hat would look beautiful you can have both the one you made and then make a red one but a ladies bowler its just smaller version of a mans bowler hat decorated please make one it would be so beautiful
Such a lovely dress! ^^ How do you burn the ribbon ends so evenly? I've never seen that before.
Thanks! And as long as it's poly ribbon, just holding it to the edge of a flame really briefly will melt the edge and seal it up.
The stripes on the sleeves does go in the opposite direction on the design picture, so maybe it would look better if you did the same on yours? ☺
Yeah, I didn't realize that till after I had sewn them on. Too late!
@@LadyRebeccaFashions yeah, that's judt how it goes sometimes 😔 But it's still an amazing garment you've made. I could never! Nor would I ever have that kind of patience 😁
Do you have any suggestions about getting the shape of the crown to properly fit your head? I notice your ovals look perfect. For example, the base of the crown where the brim meets the crown (headband) ? Even with a template I can not get the base to fit properly..
Honestly, it's something I still struggle with! Luckily, most historical hats are meant to perch on the head, so I don't worry about it a ton.
+LadyRebeccaFashions *How many days' wear out of a nail paint job?* I see that the shade blends well with the red portion of the peppermint striping; but modeling the bustle dress indicates a re-paint. I have considered and rejected the false-nail option, as Vintage Doll® Round Rita Nails (promoted by our fellow UA-camr +LauraMitbrodt) will interfere with the gloves.
Me how do you make a hat? 2 hours later, Lady Rebecca makes a Hat, are you a mind reader????
Apparently! ;)
Hooks and eyes or snaps for the hat band?
No closures at all - it just slides on.
Hat pins! Giggles.
"slightly newer crappy scissors" I feel like that describes ALL of my scissors right now.
That definitely describes all of my non-fabric scissors. Four pairs of not so great scissors!
I totally have a scissors box full of scissors 😊 there's my 2 fabric scissors, paper/ string scissors, sharp detail scissors, "nice" all purpose scissors, 2 very crappy all purpose scissors that I let my husband use lol, 2 blunt tip kid scissors, and then my 6 super crappy pattern making scissors that my son and I make pretty designs in paper lol... oh and my rotary cutter and exacto knife...then there's the 2 scissors in the back of my mind to get someday......I just realized I might have a scissors problem 😂
@@WhimsyCourier LOL, that sounds like the scissor basket mom & I have. Except our 2 good fabric shears need to be sharpened so badly. Using my old paper scissors almost works better to cut for some fabrics now.
@@GiraffeLoverJen love the scissor basket 💛 I also have a basket problem lol! Yeah I totally get that. One of my fabric scissors are also in desperate need of sharpening. Lol yeah it's pretty bad when the paper scissors cut better
Where did you find the fashion plate you based your dress on? A book, Pinterest, or online resource. I just bought 17 3/4 yards of 60” stripy fabric to make my own bustle dress. I need to find inspiration dresses that are Historically accurate that use stripe patterns to their best effect!
I found this one (and most of my inspiration plates) on pinterest. I just generally do searches for things like "bustle dress" etc, but this is a fantastic board with all kinds of stripey dresses: www.pinterest.com/victoriankat/striped-dresses/
So did you know that "ensemble" means together in French? When you said "I am not gonna show you the whole ensemble together?" I did a little chuckle.
P.S. My first language is French.
Hahah! That's wonderful - I didn't know that!
Rebecca- I have 2 spools of 1 -1/2" wide Red ribbon or a 1 - 1/2" wide Burgundy ribbon I am willing to give you. Let me know. I am happy to help!
Remember I live in Tacoma
I'm set now, but thank you!
there's no piercing needle on earth as painful as 20 mins in clip-on earrings..
This is true, but clip on earrings dont give me infections in my earlobes like getting them pierced did. My ears just do not take piercing well at all. So they must suffer the consequences.
(Screwback earrings, on the other hand, are the most comfortable things on the planet, and i have to keep touching them to check that they are still on)
I have two hat projects that don't look hard but they just are. I'm tired of them.
Aww, you can do it!