That entrance was the cutest I’ve ever seen!! Omg he is precious 😂 I hope he overwins his fears and can start to live without anxiety around women ~ fighting!!
he was so polite to the women there even if he was really anxious. like he is so apologetic for what he does, and I hoped maybe the people there shouldn’t have been so hard on him like telling him to “Look at the girl” or “Sit next to the girl” I mean you know he’s scared so why bother lolllllolololl
force him to sit or look at a girl maybe look cruel. but sometime human need force to change. for they own goodness. they force that man to look at hani or sit next to her it's just a one of many treament that used to gain confidence
@@joesama08 personally for me things like this don't help. forcing is not okay, he should do it when he gained the confidence and decided to do that himself.
I cried when his friends are singing for him. It's really a good thing that he has supportive friends whom he can rely. I hope he can confess to the girl he likes and finally overcome his fear to women. Good luck!
I like how everyone is talking about his kind friends but Im over here cheering on his acting. Like its so good, I wouldn't be surprised if I see him in a movie in a few years
When his friends started singing for him, I cried for about 20 minutes. I had to leave my group of friends because they were quite mean and toxic when put together. I don’t have any friends now. I’m hoping I can make some soon. I can only hope they are as loving and kind as his friends.
you'll have more positive friends, just like what the video said, you are a great person that's why you have great friends. you'll have amazing friends, count on it!
I hope you'll find some good friends asap if you feel lonely especially during quarantine if you are doing it you can answer under this comment and I'll give you my IG ;)
i think this is one of my favorite stories of this show... cause 99% of the problems there are selfish or horrible people involved... and while his problem connects to horrible people in his past, he and his friends really give me hope in humanity, they all seem so great and i hope he'll overcome his issues one day and finds the love of his life and lives happily ever after, and his friends as well :D
As I child I (a girl) was genuinely terrified of boys, avoided them in most daily situations and was petrified if I had to sit by them/work with them in school. This stemmed from my own insecurity and fear that they were judging me or looking at me, when really it was usually just a casual encounter. I assume this is similar to what he's feeling in that he doubts himself and therefore is afraid of girls because they are the main example of who he wants to impress and look good in front of. I have faith in him that through life and maturation he may begin to feel better. His self-esteem is definitely a big part of this, and I suspect an anxiety disorder as well. I feel for him, and he's very kind-hearted and adorable in his shyness. With his friends' support, maybe he will improve over time :) He seems like he must be a great person for so many to genuinely want to help him!
Me too. I'd start to get anxiety attacks when I'd see a guy walk by, or walks in at a local place where i was... my mother always assums i like them but doesn't understand that i feel this way bc of myself, not bc of the guy. I worry if they'll judge, but i could care less abt the guy. Does that make sense?
"We are your family and your siblings. We want to see you eat well. Please accept it." Awww i love their friendship. Well I also agree, they really do look like siblings. The guy looks handsome and I hope he'll have great self-esteem like his friends. He doesn't need to force himself to change, and I understand him. He's blessed to have such good friends who understands him. The first time I watched this video, I thought it's hilarious and kinda cute LOL. And he really looks like a real actor. He might become an actor in the future, I can't wait to see him act with girls :D Seo Hwijeong fighting! Edit: 24:22 my reaction when he confessed to Hani. I'm slapping the table, i feel bad for the table xD When his friends sang a song, I started crying but i dont wanna cry, potatoes don't cry xD anyways it was so touching ♥
@@lunaire9268 Like I said, 57 people agree with me. You obviously see it differently so I’ll respect that. And besides, that comment mainly was at that particular moment of the show without disregard of the main context of the issue. You don’t have to be so stuck up about it and dampen the mood like that. That’s just rude and honestly makes you seem like a prick.
A lot of introverts are actually very expressive, but only with their closest families and friends. I think it is kinda frustrating for the non-introverts to see that and they try to change it, but it may make the introverts even more uncomfortable and might shut down. If you want to befriend an introvert, you must be prepared to have only 2-3 other friends in your circle. More than 5 is going to have their personality changed and you might end up having a mute instead.. Also, when extroverts are pulling out funny jokes, don't feel like the introverts hate it. They might very well be the one who loves it the most, but they can't express themselves when it's a big group, so just don't take it too personally.. I don't know, as an introvert, I always have difficulties adapting in a big crowd and have very little to say, not because I don't want to, but my body tells me no. It's not something you can force yourself to change..
Cuupi true. I was also an introvert esp to random people but now i kinda learn to open up and muster my courage. i met noisy and messy friends that's why HAHAHA
The guy showed signs that his willing and so ready to change, He's doing fine with his group of friends since they understand him and love him (and i'm so amazed of how lucky he is to have all of them around him), If his fear toward women changed, his introvented personality won't change at all, he will only get close to the person he loves but at least he will feel comfortable walking in the street and breathing in the subway TT. some introvents don't really find problems talking inside a big group (if you meant expressing their ideas by "talking" cause i'll argee with you if you meant opening up abt personal stuff). The fact is that "introvents don't like to talk much" with ppl they don't have a close relationship with so when you said "Finding difficute to adapt in big crowd" I believe it may be related more to social anxiety not the nature od being an introvent!! ..
OMG. I FEEL U SO SOOOO MUCH. I have this friend and she told me to communicate more with other people and I was like "don't push me too hard. That's not easy"
I think it's the nature of the show to be funny and not too serious. However, I also think it's a flaw of the show because they could possibly get these folks professional help but due to the state of their country, I doubt anyone would actually show up that because they fear how the public will think of them.
I thought I was the only one concerned about that. I have pretty bad social anxiety, so I know what it’s like to do things like get off a train or walk a longer route just because I feel anxious over something. It can be extremely inconvenient and it’s not exactly something that can be fixed with their advice. I wish the best for him.
Tong Chanthapha Through saying "private" I meaned "personal", sorry if I was misunderstanding 🙏🏻 I just don't think so, that he would like to have a lot of people commenting his ig since he isn't famous theatre singer yet. We just should treat him gently, because he still might be shy in some way 🤗
I feel thats little bit stranger 😅 i saw it i find the IG before u tell me (search with hangul) thats little bit fishy/strange for me cause in this show his conditions really serious but how he can turn to be romantic guy around 2 months? He even cant face to face with girls but 2 month laters he even can kissing& hug his GF 😅....i wish this show not set up or he's not lie...cause i really love this show & i like his story
Honestly, I think all these kind of TV shows are only inspired in real-life situations and then acted. Don't be disappointed, just pretend you believe and let the magic happen haha
The way his friends look at him in such a loving way while singing those lyrics 😭😭 and then the way he reciprocates it by mouthing the words back to them without breaking eye contact 😭😭 I can’t. Who’s cutting onions?
hani is everyone's crush tbh and i teared up when they said his friends saved up for him and when they sang for him; it's so hard to find friends like them in this century
This shows how people's little remarks said casually or joking can influence in a bad way a person's condition... So people should think before expressing their mind: not everyone will take those words lightly. He's really a sweet guy and has a really beautiful and caring friends beside him 💕 this story was really touching 😭 p.s. i'm also like him,i become self-conscious of my every action and movement. i don't lock eyes with guys and i'm cold towards them so much that they think i probably hate them + i get cold feet whenever i have to do something in public and i can't speak my mind.
You cannot expect people to be nice to you all the time, there's billions of us... It should be handled and practiced not to take negative comments seriously. Beacuse people won't act differently to you just beacuse you say it, you can't control people.
On the other hand, people can't always be cautious with all they say :( Everyone takes the joke differently. We don't see what's going on in their head :(
h8pe - hxx not to mention that Koreans have many insecurities and complexes to begin with. I was talking to my 29 year old korean teacher the other day and she was telling me how important texting is and that if her boyfriend didn't reply to her texting in 5 min, she would get very angry and break up with him. Of course I laughed hysterically at this and told her texting is for teenagers.. and only an immature person would do that . she got insulted and gave me this look like "What do you know stupid foreigner?" Hahaha... which of course proved my point that she is immature.. Society. Culture. Family.. that's why Koreans ,and Japanese, actually have no intrapersonal communication skills and they are awkward.
Someone protect him please he’s so adorable 😂💕 When he acted out that part in the movie... chills literally he looked so different 😧 Hot shit his voice is amazing to... kill me
At first i thought it was funny because i thought it was silly that he was scared of women i mean we're just normal people but really This is so sad ! you can tell he has a good heart and that he really tries to communicate with women but its so hard for him and his anxiety really hits him. And he has such amazing friends you can tell their special to him and he feels appreciative to have them. i wish him the best and i do hope he gets over this fear.
Thanks for understanding...but that you thougt was silly...still thanks..I'm scared of the opposite gender too so...I hope you could be more understanding and less judgy, just my opinion...
@@Gabrosoft That was probably hard for you... I'm sorry. I get literally the chills when I see a boy my age, because I got laughed and pointed at by boys and then got social anxiety
17:38 He said he wanted to end it all - did he mean suicide!? It looked like they clipped something away. And the guy in the yellow shirt had his head down... woah... I hope he gets help and overcomes his struggles ❤️He is so precious!!
I have a fear of guys. I know it sounds ridiculous but seriously, I get nervous and panic when I'm near with any guys. I even have problems to communicate with my classmates. There's this guy who sits behind me in the class and he sometimes teases me. You know that kind of tease, when someone calls you and when you turn around to that person, he/she ignores you and calls you again? That what he did to me but I totally ignore him. When I walk anywhere and suddenly found a group of guys, sitting somewhere around the place I need to go, I'll pick another route. Don't care if it's far away as long as I don't bump into them.
Omg I du the same exact thing, I'm literally so scared of guys that I sometimes even have panic attacks and I don't know what to do and I'm extremely self-conscious. I thought I was the only one that felt that way and started to feel like a freak
I FEEL YOU. So. bad. There's this time in my class where we had to dance with the opposite genders, I usually wouldn't take my time talking with them no matter how I try to, But I'm doing my best communicating with them because I'm aiming for good grades at school. In the end... I'd say it was a disaster but hey at least the grades were alright xD If it were to be prom (I was in ninth grade and usually here in my country students in ninth, tenth and twelfth grades get to go to prom but oddly enough my school doesn't do proms with ninth graders) HECK I'd probably be absent on that day, Even though it badly affects the GRADES. But since I really don't want bad grades, Then maybe I'll go with a suit and tie because I don't like to wear gowns or dresses or... any girly clothes. I'd always be hoping that I get to have a girl partner or if the amount of students are odd then I'd better be off without a partner at all xD
This actually made me tear up since I feel the same way. I have a fear of men and most of my friends are women or bi and I can't really act normal in the presence of a man, I'm trying to think better of them now. I hope he's better now.
Della he still could.... Most people cheat when they are not happy with their relationship. And if he got over his fear once (to start the first relationship) he could get over his fear again, if he found someone who made him happier than his current realtionship
His friends are so supportive and it’s so lovely to see them come through for their mate ❤️ not gonna lie teared up too when they sang to him x hwaiting Hwijeong !
This is definitely an anxiety issue, and I think it's best to take it to someone professional. It's something very hard for typically people to understand, but having to constantly be socially conscious and anxious can be a serious matter imo! I'm glad he has friends who understands him tho :) Also, this shows that no matter how young or old we are, one's words can be taken srsly or impact another's life drastically, and we should all be mindful and responsible for what we say.
The saddest yet heartwarming story. He's so lucky to have such a super great friends around him. And have a beautiful voices. I've been wondering what's the song title that they sing?
Man I wish I was that talented, good looking and lucky to have amazing friends 😭 He’s also lucky to meet the members from EXID. Literally my favorite group
He's proof that people should always think before they speak, or at least to keep quiet if they can't say anything nice. You never know what another person is going through, so it certainly doesn't hurt to always make the effort to be nice or at the very least civil to everyone you meet. It's good to know that he has real friends who'll stick with him and care about him no matter what. I hope that he can find the courage and strength to move forward a little bit each day towards overcoming his fear so that he can pursue his dreams with confidence. I wish him and his friends happiness and success.
I can honestly relate to him; but rather than being afraid of the opposite sex, I'm afraid of people in general. I am still struggling and this wednesday i have to speak in front of professors for my thesis defense. I had a few panic attacks this week and ended up being physically sick because of it. I hope in the future he and I and all the people like us will be more proud of ourselves and be more confident.
Samee I am in my school’s drama team and whenever we need to perform I just have panic attacks before the performance but I’m slowly getting over it now... I’m just scared of people...
The beginning when he slide down he ran for his life 😂😂😂😂 but he’s a good guy and he has great friends that support him and want to see him succeed I think that’s great he well one day be able to see and talk to women
Guys, I have some good news. it's seems like he asked out his crush and they started dating( they look absolutely adorable) .Woow, I'm so happy for him . I saw this info in Ep-400 of Hello counselor (time stamp - 8.18 ,18.02.2019) ,where Eric nam guested. I wanted to share this news with you guy ,for who are interested.
25:19 - 25:48 Wow, his friends are so damn amazing, and talented. I love how the girl's voice contrasts the harmony of the 4 guys. It's so beautiful! Their voices, so beautiful, that I cried. They're so sweet! This is legit the best episode of 'Hello Counselor' since I couldn't stop laughing and I was so touched at many things.
Damn the way his friends started to sing and that emotion , sync . Damn how I wish I had friends like them 😭 I seriously would love to hear them sing for more ❣️
My friend had a problem like this 😂😂 she would always scream and stuff when guys approached her, she actually had a spas attack when this one dude touched her and she ran away as fast as she could. She’s better now, she’s even dating someone!! I’m so proud of her progress and I’m sure this one dude will get better after time!
Watching these old episodes makes me realise that the hosts may not be experts but they always give sincere advice from their own experience which is very difficult to do to strangers. I am missing this show.They should continue season 2 soon🖤🖤
this was the most touching concern. his friends are so wonderful. I’m glad he has them in his life. When he started acting, I was so shocked! He can definitely succeed. Also, Shin Dongyup’s advice was so heartfelt.
He has good friends that he can rely on, he’ll do better with time, it’s not something he could change in one night.. I wish him a good luck! 😊 Side note: his friend in black sweater looks good 🙈
I envy him for having his friends. They are so good that my heart hurts so much (in a good way). I cried when they were singing for him. I wish I have friends like them 😭
he’s so handsome and cute, he really deserves so much better! his friends are so good with pure heart too i truly wish to have friends like them, i’ll feel so much better ❤️ this episode with these 3 concerns was so beautiful thank you hello counselor ! fighting students from all the world 😊
I found myself crying with Jeonghwa and Hani! I sincerely hope he can rely on his amazing skills & amazing friends to rise to be the best actor he can be! I hope to see him & his friends make it big! They have the talent and the hearts!
I can understand this guy situation. He is same just like me. I'm afraid of a men when in reality. I can't talk well and eye contact them for 3 seconds. I can only look at them from far away. Introverted person always being like this. Feels shy and doesn't have any courage to talk with people. Maybe because I have a bad term with a men so I'm really afraid of them. I feels pity with this guy T_T I know how this feeling. I hope this guy can endure this all.
JWNE Is not sorry yeahh same here.. mostly my friends is girls ㅠㅠ i really wants to talk with male friends but I can't.. that's why they think i'm a weird haha
although I feel many girls are afraid of guys rather than the other way around. Especially after hearing these horror stories about men who rape and murder women. I mean I have no problem being around men but once I'm in a room where there are way more men than women....I feel extremely uncomfortable..or if I am in a place where there are only men.
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“ You are a great person, that’s why you have great friends “
MAN OF QUOTE
kihyuns when?
Sung Min Jin 27:34
kihyuns thank you!
But not necessarily true. I know plenty of great people who have been deceived by shit friends :(
Baako Jernigan yeah that’s true :( Don’t understand why some people are just so fake at sometimes 😪
That entrance was the cutest I’ve ever seen!! Omg he is precious 😂 I hope he overwins his fears and can start to live without anxiety around women ~ fighting!!
Jon1 Yaspapa 2 weeks later and here is the second reply
And is married!!
And with kids!!
Me tki
@@kimantzy omg really I'm so happy for him♡
he was so polite to the women there even if he was really anxious. like he is so apologetic for what he does, and I hoped maybe the people there shouldn’t have been so hard on him like telling him to “Look at the girl” or “Sit next to the girl” I mean you know he’s scared so why bother lolllllolololl
Agreed
Because he want to be an actor , they need to changed him aigooo
force him to sit or look at a girl maybe look cruel. but sometime human need force to change. for they own goodness.
they force that man to look at hani or sit next to her it's just a one of many treament that used to gain confidence
@@notfreddie9285 same! i don't like the way they were making fun of him the whole time.
@@joesama08 personally for me things like this don't help. forcing is not okay, he should do it when he gained the confidence and decided to do that himself.
His friends are literally the best, they're so supportive. Where can I find me friends like that?
J Bangtan same I literally cried
I am here !
“They’re as great as they look “ 🤣
J Bangtan? Jocye K are you an army before?or still?
Just asking I'm an ARMY 💜💜💚💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💞💞😍😘
@@omomiraltee I am an army:)
25:18 when his friends sang to him I cried so hard!!! These are true friends and that was so damn beautiful!!! 😭❤️
Sunny.bias same goes to me.
😭😭❤❤
SAME😭♥️
What song were they singing?
That's All I Have (그게 나의 전부란 걸) (Duet with Ock Joohyun) (옥주현) · Hong Kwang Ho(홍광호)
Lmao they needed Kim Heechul’s expertise for this video dhsjdhjssh
This is the comment i was looking for
Exactly.
Kim Heechul is gonna be loud as hell
omg true😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
true. he’s like a ladies magnet haha
I cried when his friends are singing for him. It's really a good thing that he has supportive friends whom he can rely. I hope he can confess to the girl he likes and finally overcome his fear to women. Good luck!
DentStudent same! 😭😭😭😭😭😭
same, i cried too 😭💕 they are such a good friends to him 😭💕
did you know what is the title of the song that they sang?
That song had too many emotions in it i really wanna know it's name
me too
I like how everyone is talking about his kind friends but Im over here cheering on his acting. Like its so good, I wouldn't be surprised if I see him in a movie in a few years
Cherri do you happen to know where the actor he was reenacting is from like is it from a drama or a show
If I’m correct it’s from the movie Architecture 101
Cherri thats right
Cherri oh okay thank you so much
Same
Imagine having a fear of women and then getting to meet Hani, the queen, on TV
mchras and jeonghwa! another absolutely talented queen
They should have brought hwasa 😀but he would be traumatized 😅
kuro mashin imagine him in one room with hwasa, cl, jessi, Hyuna, and hani.
@@realitycheck1504 please don't kill him :D
kuro mashin I mean... if I was in the same room as them I would probably die too😅😅
He's handsome, tall, sweet, a great actor, and a great singer
LIKE DAMN WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT IN A MAN
Jiminimized RIGHT!!😱
Jiminimized and he is going to be loyal as hell since he can't even talk to women lol
I Stan him already
He reminds me of Jungkook lmao 😂😂😂
가브리 엘라 맞아용ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
Okay but his male friends are all so so handsome tho 😂😂😂😂
You got your 666th line buddy😂
And the girl as well!
Probably because they're training to be actors
that's what i said
@@wehavebiscuits yes she was handsome
When his friends started singing for him, I cried for about 20 minutes. I had to leave my group of friends because they were quite mean and toxic when put together. I don’t have any friends now. I’m hoping I can make some soon. I can only hope they are as loving and kind as his friends.
I was just reading the comments and came across this and just wanted to say, keep fighting! A single true friend is more important than 20 fake ones.
you did the right thing; i applaud you for making that decision. don't worry, you got rid of the negative and will attract more positive friends.
you'll have more positive friends, just like what the video said, you are a great person that's why you have great friends. you'll have amazing friends, count on it!
I feel you. I started blocking them out from all of my social medias and it gave me a peace of mind.
I hope you'll find some good friends asap if you feel lonely especially during quarantine if you are doing it you can answer under this comment and I'll give you my IG ;)
I am envy him for having such good friends.
I bet alot of people do
Why all musical students look so handsome?
101 1007 hahahahahaha ikr!!!!
more handsome than the model students xD
101 1007 I was thinking the same thing. They ALL LOOKED HOT AND FINE 🔥
I have to disagree hahaha I study music 😂😂
And... Well.... Nope xd
I think i should change my major to musical hahahaha
Him and his whole friends group deserves a kdrama on themselves. 🤌🏻
YES
I agree 👍💯
Golden friendship.
Nuha I’m crying right now because you can’t find a lot of people like them these days but I’m really happy , and I really love them # friendshipgoals
i think this is one of my favorite stories of this show... cause 99% of the problems there are selfish or horrible people involved... and while his problem connects to horrible people in his past, he and his friends really give me hope in humanity, they all seem so great and i hope he'll overcome his issues one day and finds the love of his life and lives happily ever after, and his friends as well :D
I agree. This one is the best for me.
This one made my heart swell, in all honesty. They were all so sincere.
AyanamiRei5kyu agree
Yes! This one was the best until now for me, it was so heartwarming to watch!
As I child I (a girl) was genuinely terrified of boys, avoided them in most daily situations and was petrified if I had to sit by them/work with them in school. This stemmed from my own insecurity and fear that they were judging me or looking at me, when really it was usually just a casual encounter. I assume this is similar to what he's feeling in that he doubts himself and therefore is afraid of girls because they are the main example of who he wants to impress and look good in front of.
I have faith in him that through life and maturation he may begin to feel better. His self-esteem is definitely a big part of this, and I suspect an anxiety disorder as well. I feel for him, and he's very kind-hearted and adorable in his shyness. With his friends' support, maybe he will improve over time :) He seems like he must be a great person for so many to genuinely want to help him!
I went through the same thing
I’m going through the same thing and I’ve really been working on it lately. He actually has a gf now, I wish I can be like him and overcome my fear.
I'm dealing with this now
Me too. I'd start to get anxiety attacks when I'd see a guy walk by, or walks in at a local place where i was... my mother always assums i like them but doesn't understand that i feel this way bc of myself, not bc of the guy. I worry if they'll judge, but i could care less abt the guy. Does that make sense?
i felt this
Omg his friends are all good looking wtf
Samira ahmed fr especially the one in the jean jacket 😂💀
I'M HAPPY FOR HIM~
*cries*
that's korea
Thats cos they are all about to become and actors.. btw we have same name Samira😂😁
Squad goals duh
"We are your family and your siblings. We want to see you eat well. Please accept it."
Awww i love their friendship. Well I also agree, they really do look like siblings. The guy looks handsome and I hope he'll have great self-esteem like his friends. He doesn't need to force himself to change, and I understand him. He's blessed to have such good friends who understands him. The first time I watched this video, I thought it's hilarious and kinda cute LOL. And he really looks like a real actor. He might become an actor in the future, I can't wait to see him act with girls :D Seo Hwijeong fighting!
Edit: 24:22 my reaction when he confessed to Hani. I'm slapping the table, i feel bad for the table xD When his friends sang a song, I started crying but i dont wanna cry, potatoes don't cry xD anyways it was so touching ♥
Not gonna lie, that entrance was cute I can’t even. LMAO
no.
@@lunaire9268 Don’t be rude. 57 people obviously agrees with me.
@@nekopii what? they mocked him, made him uncomfortable and terrified. it's not funny or "cute".
@@lunaire9268 Like I said, 57 people agree with me. You obviously see it differently so I’ll respect that. And besides, that comment mainly was at that particular moment of the show without disregard of the main context of the issue. You don’t have to be so stuck up about it and dampen the mood like that. That’s just rude and honestly makes you seem like a prick.
@@lunaire9268 anyway, seeing that you literally only joined youtube, it’s obvious you’re a troll so I won’t be talking to you any further.
A lot of introverts are actually very expressive, but only with their closest families and friends. I think it is kinda frustrating for the non-introverts to see that and they try to change it, but it may make the introverts even more uncomfortable and might shut down. If you want to befriend an introvert, you must be prepared to have only 2-3 other friends in your circle. More than 5 is going to have their personality changed and you might end up having a mute instead.. Also, when extroverts are pulling out funny jokes, don't feel like the introverts hate it. They might very well be the one who loves it the most, but they can't express themselves when it's a big group, so just don't take it too personally.. I don't know, as an introvert, I always have difficulties adapting in a big crowd and have very little to say, not because I don't want to, but my body tells me no. It's not something you can force yourself to change..
Cuupi true. I was also an introvert esp to random people but now i kinda learn to open up and muster my courage. i met noisy and messy friends that's why HAHAHA
That’s me but some people call it social anxiety I’ve had it a while but I’ve been learning to talk to people more
The guy showed signs that his willing and so ready to change, He's doing fine with his group of friends since they understand him and love him (and i'm so amazed of how lucky he is to have all of them around him), If his fear toward women changed, his introvented personality won't change at all, he will only get close to the person he loves but at least he will feel comfortable walking in the street and breathing in the subway TT. some introvents don't really find problems talking inside a big group (if you meant expressing their ideas by "talking" cause i'll argee with you if you meant opening up abt personal stuff). The fact is that "introvents don't like to talk much" with ppl they don't have a close relationship with so when you said "Finding difficute to adapt in big crowd" I believe it may be related more to social anxiety not the nature od being an introvent!! ..
This thread of comments is literally me😧
OMG. I FEEL U SO SOOOO MUCH. I have this friend and she told me to communicate more with other people and I was like "don't push me too hard. That's not easy"
This is a very serious anxiety issue that he has, i don't like how they're not really taking him seriously.
I think it's the nature of the show to be funny and not too serious. However, I also think it's a flaw of the show because they could possibly get these folks professional help but due to the state of their country, I doubt anyone would actually show up that because they fear how the public will think of them.
Yr
I thought I was the only one concerned about that. I have pretty bad social anxiety, so I know what it’s like to do things like get off a train or walk a longer route just because I feel anxious over something. It can be extremely inconvenient and it’s not exactly something that can be fixed with their advice. I wish the best for him.
@@edisonyang3658 I have heard that they actually provide proffesional help.
exactly !! instead of making fun of him , they should hire professionals to come out and help him
24:13 I love his friends' reactions. You can see they really care about him and seeing him overcome his fear is a big thing
Now those friends are worth fighting for.
I don't know why but when I read that I was singing it as if it was the Mulan song " a girl worth fighting for" 😂
*Warning!*
I founded his ig and he has girlfriend now! Let's wish him and his girlfriend everything best ♥♥♥♥
@@tongchanthapha9264 seo_hwi_jeong
Tong Chanthapha Through saying "private" I meaned "personal", sorry if I was misunderstanding 🙏🏻 I just don't think so, that he would like to have a lot of people commenting his ig since he isn't famous theatre singer yet. We just should treat him gently, because he still might be shy in some way 🤗
Tong Chanthapha thank you for understanding ♥♥♥
I feel thats little bit stranger 😅 i saw it i find the IG before u tell me (search with hangul) thats little bit fishy/strange for me cause in this show his conditions really serious but how he can turn to be romantic guy around 2 months? He even cant face to face with girls but 2 month laters he even can kissing& hug his GF 😅....i wish this show not set up or he's not lie...cause i really love this show & i like his story
Honestly, I think all these kind of TV shows are only inspired in real-life situations and then acted. Don't be disappointed, just pretend you believe and let the magic happen haha
Are all student majored in musical studies handsome and pretty? 🤷🏻♀️
Today we learned the answer: yes
I think they pretty much have to be if they want to have a successful career in the entertainment industry in korea.
korean guys
just like in Lookism
TAAERESa Garcia ohh I read that too!
the ending is moving af like bruh i wasnt ready and neither was Jeonghwa
Same I cried :")
what a gold circle you have. you guys deserve each other ; ;
The way his friends look at him in such a loving way while singing those lyrics 😭😭 and then the way he reciprocates it by mouthing the words back to them without breaking eye contact 😭😭 I can’t. Who’s cutting onions?
hani is everyone's crush tbh and i teared up when they said his friends saved up for him and when they sang for him; it's so hard to find friends like them in this century
Yasss right...
This shows how people's little remarks said casually or joking can influence in a bad way a person's condition... So people should think before expressing their mind: not everyone will take those words lightly. He's really a sweet guy and has a really beautiful and caring friends beside him 💕 this story was really touching 😭 p.s. i'm also like him,i become self-conscious of my every action and movement. i don't lock eyes with guys and i'm cold towards them so much that they think i probably hate them + i get cold feet whenever i have to do something in public and i can't speak my mind.
my byul indeed. Small words cab effect stronger than u would think.
You cannot expect people to be nice to you all the time, there's billions of us... It should be handled and practiced not to take negative comments seriously. Beacuse people won't act differently to you just beacuse you say it, you can't control people.
On the other hand, people can't always be cautious with all they say :( Everyone takes the joke differently. We don't see what's going on in their head :(
h8pe - hxx not to mention that Koreans have many insecurities and complexes to begin with. I was talking to my 29 year old korean teacher the other day and she was telling me how important texting is and that if her boyfriend didn't reply to her texting in 5 min, she would get very angry and break up with him. Of course I laughed hysterically at this and told her texting is for teenagers.. and only an immature person would do that . she got insulted and gave me this look like "What do you know stupid foreigner?" Hahaha... which of course proved my point that she is immature..
Society. Culture. Family.. that's why Koreans ,and Japanese, actually have no intrapersonal communication skills and they are awkward.
That is korean culture they always make joke that can hurt someone feeling.
Someone protect him please he’s so adorable 😂💕
When he acted out that part in the movie... chills literally he looked so different 😧
Hot shit his voice is amazing to... kill me
ZadaWho ik I saw it on his Instagram she’s so gorgeous there such a great couple
@@xamariathompson2260 waow really ? What is his Instagram ?
@@xamariathompson2260 can you tell us his ig acc?
@@jaehyuniversity seo.hwi.jeong
@@cosmixtsu thank you so much ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
I was actually crying. He has some amazing friends that really care for him. It's so sweet.
(Side note: he and his friends are super attractive)
It's so touching how they sang for him.
23:32 "it's not one of those four, right?" 😂😂😂
The guy in the black turtleneck is an extremely handsome individual 😍
Ikr
Torch the Sky ikr I WANT TO KNOW HIS IG
I found it! Its zungmin_
Sung Min Jin tysm bruh 😃😄
Torch the Sky welcome!
i think what broke me was him singing along with his friends....they really love each other!!
When his friends started singing, I started to cry. Because once again I realized how valuable friendship is
At first i thought it was funny because i thought it was silly that he was scared of women i mean we're just normal people but really This is so sad ! you can tell he has a good heart and that he really tries to communicate with women but its so hard for him and his anxiety really hits him. And he has such amazing friends you can tell their special to him and he feels appreciative to have them. i wish him the best and i do hope he gets over this fear.
Thanks for understanding...but that you thougt was silly...still thanks..I'm scared of the opposite gender too so...I hope you could be more understanding and less judgy, just my opinion...
Fialova honestly I feel like I get anxious towards men..not to this extent but I think it’s the result of bullying when u was in middle school
@@Gabrosoft That was probably hard for you... I'm sorry. I get literally the chills when I see a boy my age, because I got laughed and pointed at by boys and then got social anxiety
17:38 He said he wanted to end it all - did he mean suicide!? It looked like they clipped something away. And the guy in the yellow shirt had his head down... woah... I hope he gets help and overcomes his struggles ❤️He is so precious!!
Sunny.bias That is what I am wondering.
Yeah the Korean makes it clear he made a suicide attempt.
He I definitely think so
Yes he did attempt suicide and sadly that is very common in Korean youth nowadays.
Same I thought the same too when he said that
Man i cried when his friends sang for him what a beautiful friendship
I have a fear of guys. I know it sounds ridiculous but seriously, I get nervous and panic when I'm near with any guys. I even have problems to communicate with my classmates. There's this guy who sits behind me in the class and he sometimes teases me. You know that kind of tease, when someone calls you and when you turn around to that person, he/she ignores you and calls you again? That what he did to me but I totally ignore him. When I walk anywhere and suddenly found a group of guys, sitting somewhere around the place I need to go, I'll pick another route. Don't care if it's far away as long as I don't bump into them.
Did you see my Jams i feel you too girl
Omg I du the same exact thing, I'm literally so scared of guys that I sometimes even have panic attacks and I don't know what to do and I'm extremely self-conscious. I thought I was the only one that felt that way and started to feel like a freak
Did you see my Jams I feel you girl.
i'm scared of everyone.
I FEEL YOU. So. bad.
There's this time in my class where we had to dance with the opposite genders, I usually wouldn't take my time talking with them no matter how I try to, But I'm doing my best communicating with them because I'm aiming for good grades at school. In the end... I'd say it was a disaster but hey at least the grades were alright xD If it were to be prom (I was in ninth grade and usually here in my country students in ninth, tenth and twelfth grades get to go to prom but oddly enough my school doesn't do proms with ninth graders) HECK I'd probably be absent on that day, Even though it badly affects the GRADES. But since I really don't want bad grades, Then maybe I'll go with a suit and tie because I don't like to wear gowns or dresses or... any girly clothes. I'd always be hoping that I get to have a girl partner or if the amount of students are odd then I'd better be off without a partner at all xD
5 or more years later, i will not be shock if this man is in a popular kdrama
This actually made me tear up since I feel the same way. I have a fear of men and most of my friends are women or bi and I can't really act normal in the presence of a man, I'm trying to think better of them now. I hope he's better now.
Lol,why'd you fear male?
probably trauma
@@jekesan4221
It's not funny there are many people who fear men
@@mirroruniverse9331 In my country lol doesn't mean laugh out loud, the closest thing i could think of is it is like lels or something that.
At least you know he’ll never cheat
Della lol
Della he still could....
Most people cheat when they are not happy with their relationship. And if he got over his fear once (to start the first relationship) he could get over his fear again, if he found someone who made him happier than his current realtionship
@Della But are u
NadiaR Honestly I never heard a case where a shy guy had cheated.
this was the most touching hello counselor concern 😭 i loved it so much
Ain't no Counselor, this episode a legit Drama
His friends are so supportive and it’s so lovely to see them come through for their mate ❤️ not gonna lie teared up too when they sang to him x hwaiting Hwijeong !
My tears just streaming down when his friends sing for him. He is that precious to them. I hope he can live with no worries in the future.
he is lucky to have caring friends such as those guys
i got so happy by his friends reactions when he asked Hani to the zoo!! They really care about him so much!!
This is definitely an anxiety issue, and I think it's best to take it to someone professional. It's something very hard for typically people to understand, but having to constantly be socially conscious and anxious can be a serious matter imo! I'm glad he has friends who understands him tho :)
Also, this shows that no matter how young or old we are, one's words can be taken srsly or impact another's life drastically, and we should all be mindful and responsible for what we say.
The saddest yet heartwarming story. He's so lucky to have such a super great friends around him. And have a beautiful voices. I've been wondering what's the song title that they sing?
Rafa it's called "그게 나의 전부란 걸"
if you search it on youtube there's a video by a channel called musicalheaventv
Rafa yep
20:07 I DIED🤣 But his acting skills are great
Man he gotta start slow, Hani is too much even for the average guy lol
Rubix i think he'd be more nervous with a girl he liked lol
Rubix Trueee
I AS A GIRL WOULD BE AS NERVOUS AS HIM
fr . the other group members can barely handle her lol .
Go big or go home 😂
He’s a sensitive young man who is talented and gifted. Be strong, son❤️ You’re a lovely guy👍🏾
Is it just me or the guy who laughed at 9:00 is SOO CUTEEE
My replay button was literally done with me😂😂
he kinda looks like yeji
Ignore me, just wanna make sure I save this 25:18
Joan Do you know what song it is?
@@kitzelbear4443 i was looking for that song too
hey dude kinda sounds like Words of My Heart by Kim Yeon Ji
exid even cried when his friends were singing sincerely with their beautiful voice
What song is it unnies and oppas 😅😞
Maybe using Hani, one of the most beautiful kpop idols out there was a mistake hahah. I mean, I wouldnt dare to look at her either hahaha
And jeonghwa too
When she got next to him when he had to look her in the eyes I thought the poor guy would have a heart attack and all she did was smile
Hani makes me giggle like laughing gas X3
I would pass out.
Man I wish I was that talented, good looking and lucky to have amazing friends 😭 He’s also lucky to meet the members from EXID. Literally my favorite group
Me too 😭
He's proof that people should always think before they speak, or at least to keep quiet if they can't say anything nice. You never know what another person is going through, so it certainly doesn't hurt to always make the effort to be nice or at the very least civil to everyone you meet.
It's good to know that he has real friends who'll stick with him and care about him no matter what. I hope that he can find the courage and strength to move forward a little bit each day towards overcoming his fear so that he can pursue his dreams with confidence. I wish him and his friends happiness and success.
I envy him so much...his friends circle is gold❤
8:54 I don't have the condition, but it would've been the same reaction I would have done. Looking into Hani's eyes for 5 seconds.. that must be hard
I can honestly relate to him; but rather than being afraid of the opposite sex, I'm afraid of people in general. I am still struggling and this wednesday i have to speak in front of professors for my thesis defense. I had a few panic attacks this week and ended up being physically sick because of it. I hope in the future he and I and all the people like us will be more proud of ourselves and be more confident.
fangirlingfeels same here , i’m so afraid to talk to strangers 😭
same here, I have extreme social anxiety and it is so hard for me to talk to anyone. :/ I hope it went well for you!
Nikki M let’s work hard together to solve this out 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 cheers
Samee I am in my school’s drama team and whenever we need to perform I just have panic attacks before the performance but I’m slowly getting over it now... I’m just scared of people...
Same😭😭
Bruh I was all emotional until that dude sang Up and Down 😂😂😂
what song was that anyways?
Lhyvine Zytthia Up and Down.. by EXID
It’s literally written there 😂
WTF me too...Hani and Jeonghwa were so Cute 😭🤣....
Sameee
7:44 hes so adorbable lmaoo 😂❤
The beginning when he slide down he ran for his life 😂😂😂😂 but he’s a good guy and he has great friends that support him and want to see him succeed I think that’s great he well one day be able to see and talk to women
My God, he is so innocent and adorable 😍, I thought that this kind of guys only existed in animes
Guys, I have some good news. it's seems like he asked out his crush and they started dating( they look absolutely adorable) .Woow, I'm so happy for him .
I saw this info in Ep-400 of Hello counselor (time stamp - 8.18 ,18.02.2019) ,where Eric nam guested. I wanted to share this news with you guy ,for who are interested.
The friends are just..lovely.
They truly care for each other.
I wanna cry
This is the episode of Hello Counselors that I signed up for.
lol his friends reactions after he confessed to hani lmao HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAH
arissa maisarah Lol Yeah and then he suddenly says: I’m so sorry
Shin Dongyup: What are you sorry for!?
😂
Plot-twist: _He was acting the whole time_ ...
I'm agree 😅
LOL I WOULDNT CARE!!!★★
GOOD CONTENT!!★★
Hahahaha i was just thinking this
they are now in a relationship with the girl he brought with him..
@@Juliannez_play_roblox Really?!
He has such a good circle of friends. I hope their friendship last long.
when his friends sang to him yall omggg i teared up i wish everyone has such amazing and supportive friends like them
out of context but the guy laughing with his hands on his chest at 9:01 is so cute hahahahhahahah
Omg I totally agree he’s really cute !
yeah ik.
Ikr
he looks like the male version of Yeji from ITZY
25:19 - 25:48 Wow, his friends are so damn amazing, and talented. I love how the girl's voice contrasts the harmony of the 4 guys. It's so beautiful! Their voices, so beautiful, that I cried. They're so sweet! This is legit the best episode of 'Hello Counselor' since I couldn't stop laughing and I was so touched at many things.
Damn the way his friends started to sing and that emotion , sync . Damn how I wish I had friends like them 😭
I seriously would love to hear them sing for more ❣️
25:18 when the friends sang for him, it was so heartwarming and very sweet
can you tell me what's the title of the song?
Omggg his friends are so wonderful. I'm glad he has such a solid group of supportive people around him to help him. He'll go far!
It's funny how I cried the same time Hani and Junghwa did. lol his friends are the dream friends
My friend had a problem like this 😂😂 she would always scream and stuff when guys approached her, she actually had a spas attack when this one dude touched her and she ran away as fast as she could. She’s better now, she’s even dating someone!! I’m so proud of her progress and I’m sure this one dude will get better after time!
Me tho 😭 I go to a girls school and apart from my family I haven't talked to a boy for years and now I get really nervous around them..
I have a fear of men/boy except my dad
I hope he'll get better too, he has such great friends that could help him overcome his concern ^^
-o- It'sCharli same it's just weird talking to them because I'm not used to it at all.
Khadija H Right?? I don't know how to talk to them anymore
9:44 the guy in the bottom row (3 in from the right) looks so depressed. Everyone around him is laughing and he's having flashbacks or something 😆
Maybe he knows its a serious problem and not to be laughed at 24/7
Maybe he space out a bit...
How did u even notice that😂😂
Watching these old episodes makes me realise that the hosts may not be experts but they always give sincere advice from their own experience which is very difficult to do to strangers.
I am missing this show.They should continue season 2 soon🖤🖤
this was the most touching concern. his friends are so wonderful. I’m glad he has them in his life. When he started acting, I was so shocked! He can definitely succeed. Also, Shin Dongyup’s advice was so heartfelt.
Goodness he has such nice friends. I teared at the end too TT
His friends are so kind, generouse, and loyal
They moved me and made me cry
Their singing was incredible and pretty 🎶
He has good friends that he can rely on, he’ll do better with time, it’s not something he could change in one night.. I wish him a good luck! 😊
Side note: his friend in black sweater looks good 🙈
I envy him for having his friends. They are so good that my heart hurts so much (in a good way). I cried when they were singing for him. I wish I have friends like them 😭
I would also have a panic attack if hani is that close to me. 😂
LOL 🤣
he’s so handsome and cute, he really deserves so much better! his friends are so good with pure heart too i truly wish to have friends like them, i’ll feel so much better ❤️ this episode with these 3 concerns was so beautiful thank you hello counselor ! fighting students from all the world 😊
Bro this guy has some serious talents❤ I would be willing to keep him happy without letting him look at me
He's so adorable and his friends are hot.
2:43 _A Cheetah has appeared on the set_
I feel bad for laughing so hard omg 😂
Megan • my stomach was hurting so bad 🤣🤣🤣
Don't. I'm laughing so hard right now 😁😁
Omg hi why are you everywhere
25:54 When she started crying I felt that. I really felt that. They are such beautiful friends.
22:10 😢
His friends are so kind!!! I wish that they may have success in their career and happiness... And I hope he can improve in the future. :)
I found myself crying with Jeonghwa and Hani! I sincerely hope he can rely on his amazing skills & amazing friends to rise to be the best actor he can be! I hope to see him & his friends make it big! They have the talent and the hearts!
His voice and his friends' voices were AMAZING. His acting was awesome too.
I can understand this guy situation. He is same just like me. I'm afraid of a men when in reality. I can't talk well and eye contact them for 3 seconds. I can only look at them from far away. Introverted person always being like this. Feels shy and doesn't have any courage to talk with people. Maybe because I have a bad term with a men so I'm really afraid of them. I feels pity with this guy T_T I know how this feeling. I hope this guy can endure this all.
Inspirits Monsta X me too ;-;I can only admire men from afar ;-; this is why most of my friends is mostly girls ;-;
JWNE Is not sorry yeahh same here.. mostly my friends is girls ㅠㅠ i really wants to talk with male friends but I can't.. that's why they think i'm a weird haha
although I feel many girls are afraid of guys rather than the other way around. Especially after hearing these horror stories about men who rape and murder women. I mean I have no problem being around men but once I'm in a room where there are way more men than women....I feel extremely uncomfortable..or if I am in a place where there are only men.
Inspirits Monsta X I have same situation like you
me too, i'm afraid to talk to men and eye contact