I have mixed feelings on this. It's ok to walk away, but why wait so long? If you felt that strongly about it initially, you would not have been friends this long. I totally agree with not wanting a friend like that. I don't either, but I also wouldn't have accepted those benefits... trips and clothes etc. Ppl hardly changes. That's how you met her and chose to build friendship with her nonetheless. So, I'm left to think that it's the resentment you feel towards her maintaining a lifestyle that you can't have despite what she does and what you do that is fueling this need to separate. Idk... my opinion
Yup! You hit the nail on the head here! I wish I would have spoken to some of the jealousy that was pretty obviously there and we did touch on that in emails. It's kind of two fold though because it's like stealing in a way. I stole some stuff when I was a kid and learned my lesson. But if I had a friend that continued to do it through our adulthood and lived this lavish lifestyle because of it, I would be irritated. Also, I would worry that my friend was gonna get caught in something she couldn't get out of.. Jenna spoke quite a bit about worrying for her safety too. She didn't want to see Vicki get harmed by a guy who caught on and decided to be violent. She said a lot. I didn't want to drag this video out but in retrospect I think I missed some key details. I'll do better next time! All in all, I understand the jealousy aspect cuz she's over here working hard and taking care of a family when she could have taken the route that Vicki did but chose to be upstanding. I don't think the jealousy was a as relevant as her fear of Vicky being harmed or not waning to constantly have to lie for her though. It was def a factor that was very obvious to me too though.
My 2 cents: I think this boils down to them evolving as adults. I don't think she should judge that lifestyle when she also benefitted from it in the past. However, I do think she should have a mature conversation with her friend and let her know about the call from the boyfriend, actually listen to her side of the story and encourage her to tightened up. If the friend is still with the shenanigans, I think the writer should then let the friend know her stance and how she doesn't want to be involved in life choices that don't align to where she is now or going. Regardless of how that conversation goes, I believe it could be dangerous to tell the boyfriend. It's the her friend's place to do that. At a minimum, hopefully the friend will respect her wishes and keep the writer out of her drama. Moving forward, the writer should also not insert herself, benefit from, or question that part of her friend's life if she doesn't want anything to do with it and still wants to preserve their friendship. This may also be a sign that this friendship has gone as far as it can go. Best of luck.
Good advice. I use 2 have a best friend who was married and cheating on her husband. 1 day I get a text saying me and u went to the mall after work. I said what? She was letting me know that's the story she gave her husband. She was actually with her side guy. Not only was she lying 2 her husband but she brought me into her lies without even asking me would I be ok with it or not just put me in her mess. At times she could be a good person but she just had this other side 2 her I could no longer deal with. Needless 2 say the friendship ended. Sorry this was so long.
Should we say this lady is hypocritical. It was fine to be Vicky’s friend when it served [her] purpose. The Bible tells us that a friend LOVES at “all” times. The writer may be the very person to help Vicky turn her life around leading by example. She can love from a distance without throwing her friendship away like yesterday’s trash.
My question is..why does what Vicky does in her personal life concern her? It's sounds like she's a tad bit jealous because her friend has had it easy. I agree that sometimes people out grow each other but to walk away from someone because of choices that don't effect you is a little weird to me. Her relationship with her BF should be just that.."their relationship " if you don't agree with her lifestyle..why wait years to walk away? You knew the type of person she was from jump. If you are gonna be a friend be a friend..but it seems as she's judging her and I f that is the case then Vicky should be the one ending the friendship...because the writer of this letter seem jealous. Imo
Girl, you sound like a real hater. Sounds like everything was cool as long as you were benefiting the gift and trips of Vicky. She's not married, and she's free to do what she wants. You resent her because you can't live like her. Stay out of Vicky and her boyfriends business, and don't tell him anything. Stick to the girl code and learn how to mind your business and be a real friend. Your makeup is cute, tho 😊
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I have mixed feelings on this. It's ok to walk away, but why wait so long? If you felt that strongly about it initially, you would not have been friends this long. I totally agree with not wanting a friend like that. I don't either, but I also wouldn't have accepted those benefits... trips and clothes etc. Ppl hardly changes. That's how you met her and chose to build friendship with her nonetheless. So, I'm left to think that it's the resentment you feel towards her maintaining a lifestyle that you can't have despite what she does and what you do that is fueling this need to separate. Idk... my opinion
Yup! You hit the nail on the head here! I wish I would have spoken to some of the jealousy that was pretty obviously there and we did touch on that in emails. It's kind of two fold though because it's like stealing in a way. I stole some stuff when I was a kid and learned my lesson. But if I had a friend that continued to do it through our adulthood and lived this lavish lifestyle because of it, I would be irritated. Also, I would worry that my friend was gonna get caught in something she couldn't get out of.. Jenna spoke quite a bit about worrying for her safety too. She didn't want to see Vicki get harmed by a guy who caught on and decided to be violent. She said a lot. I didn't want to drag this video out but in retrospect I think I missed some key details. I'll do better next time! All in all, I understand the jealousy aspect cuz she's over here working hard and taking care of a family when she could have taken the route that Vicki did but chose to be upstanding. I don't think the jealousy was a as relevant as her fear of Vicky being harmed or not waning to constantly have to lie for her though. It was def a factor that was very obvious to me too though.
@@BEATFACEHONEY oh kool. Yea. Agreed. Safety is a huge factor too.
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My 2 cents: I think this boils down to them evolving as adults. I don't think she should judge that lifestyle when she also benefitted from it in the past. However, I do think she should have a mature conversation with her friend and let her know about the call from the boyfriend, actually listen to her side of the story and encourage her to tightened up.
If the friend is still with the shenanigans, I think the writer should then let the friend know her stance and how she doesn't want to be involved in life choices that don't align to where she is now or going. Regardless of how that conversation goes, I believe it could be dangerous to tell the boyfriend. It's the her friend's place to do that. At a minimum, hopefully the friend will respect her wishes and keep the writer out of her drama. Moving forward, the writer should also not insert herself, benefit from, or question that part of her friend's life if she doesn't want anything to do with it and still wants to preserve their friendship. This may also be a sign that this friendship has gone as far as it can go. Best of luck.
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Good advice. I use 2 have a best friend who was married and cheating on her husband. 1 day I get a text saying me and u went to the mall after work. I said what? She was letting me know that's the story she gave her husband. She was actually with her side guy. Not only was she lying 2 her husband but she brought me into her lies without even asking me would I be ok with it or not just put me in her mess. At times she could be a good person but she just had this other side 2 her I could no longer deal with. Needless 2 say the friendship ended. Sorry this was so long.
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Should we say this lady is hypocritical. It was fine to be Vicky’s friend when it served [her] purpose. The Bible tells us that a friend LOVES at “all” times. The writer may be the very person to help Vicky turn her life around leading by example. She can love from a distance without throwing her friendship away like yesterday’s trash.
My question is..why does what Vicky does in her personal life concern her? It's sounds like she's a tad bit jealous because her friend has had it easy. I agree that sometimes people out grow each other but to walk away from someone because of choices that don't effect you is a little weird to me. Her relationship with her BF should be just that.."their relationship " if you don't agree with her lifestyle..why wait years to walk away? You knew the type of person she was from jump. If you are gonna be a friend be a friend..but it seems as she's judging her and I f that is the case then Vicky should be the one ending the friendship...because the writer of this letter seem jealous. Imo
@@starrchild9182 💯 she clearly jealous and doesn’t realize it.
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Girl, you sound like a real hater. Sounds like everything was cool as long as you were benefiting the gift and trips of Vicky. She's not married, and she's free to do what she wants. You resent her because you can't live like her. Stay out of Vicky and her boyfriends business, and don't tell him anything. Stick to the girl code and learn how to mind your business and be a real friend. Your makeup is cute, tho 😊
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