Tik Talk: HUSBAND GOES VIRAL FOR HOW HE PUT AWAY LEFTOVERS
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- A man was asked by his wife to put away the leftovers. He explains how he carefully put the pots and pans in an organized way into the refrigerator. He doesn’t understand why his wife would be upset because if she wanted the task performed in a certain way she should have been more specific. Here’s why I believe his argument is disingenuous. #datingadvice #relationshiptalk #dating #datingtips
There’s no way he’s actually THAT stupid. He’s seen how leftovers are stored in the refrigerator before - many, many times. 🤦🏻♀️
A lot of men are, but also he’s a grown adult, there’s no way any grown up should be this incompetent. They’re so disappointing smh
Honestly , whoever cooks shouldn’t have to clean up . Some of these men are worse than kids
Definitely are because more is expected of them but they give the least amount of effort
They sure are! I realized this a long time ago smh Children can be taught, trained, etc. They know their place as a child and if you raise them right they will improve over time. Not to mention they carry on your lineage and will take care of you when you get old. Men don't want to be told anything, think they know everything, untrainable, and will usually leave you when you get old or sick. Children are worth the investment most men aren't.
Try that thinking on the job and tell your boss "next time. be more specific..." 😂
Right he don't need step by step directions at work after years.
Yep. Weaponized incompetence.
I did this when I was like 11. My mother made sure I never did so again.
Need a step by step for leftovers literally made me chuckle. What he did is what a child would do because they never pay attention to how their mom puts away leftovers. Thats exactly how my 10yo nephew wouldve put the leftover up. Smh. Im happily single. That kind of behavior is just sad and ridiculous.
Weaponized incompetence to teach her a lesson. Cause guess what? If she made dinner and left it in those pots instead of putting them in a plate for him to eat, he would be mad. The fact is, he’s selfish. The last statement you made is the entire point for me. He looked like a buffoon with point that he THOUGHT that he made.
Great perspective 😅 he'd be pissed if she did that 😂😂😂
I thought she was going to say: oh, you meant dinner for YOU, I thought you meant dinner for me and the kids...😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Me too
He knows that was just plain ole lazy. He didn’t want to be bothered with transferring the food to storage containers or being responsible for the dirty pots.
does your boss need to be more specific when they ask you to do something? or do you put two and two together to keep your job? I'm just saying. stop playing with these low bar, minimum effort, selfish, weaponized incompetence DUDS, and they'll stop playing with you.
@@mooniebo2752 Exactly! He can figure everything else out but as soon as he’s in the house he needs a list or a tutorial. 🤦🏾♀️
And all he had to do is communicate to her that he didn't feel like transferring the food in the Tupperware at that moment.
mhm cuz that's really what was going on. he has un-metabolized passive aggressive emotions and a default setting of minimum effort towards her.
I'm so glad he didn't say, "He didn't feel like transferring the food on the Tupperware." 👀
I thought I was wrong for having the perspective as most of you on here. I was told that i was being too hard on him, well i see now i was apart of the wrong community
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I love the way you always break it down and analyze the Weaponized Incompetence with reminders about what they would be doing if they lived alone.
He didn’t want to do it.
you are spot on, sis. actual leader men don't think or act this way, lol.
Him not admitting he has NEVER seen a lot in the refrigerator. He Also Has NO IDEA where the Tupperware is, because he has never even had to put for away in his own home. How useless do you have to be for that to happen? 😔
I put my food away in Tupperware always; I do not like pots in my fridge!
For the ones who says "I do the same thing,. Generally everybody does this sometimes. HOWEVER THIS MAN KNEW EXACTLY WHAT HIS WIFE WANTED.HE KNEW EXACTLY HOW THE LEFTOVERS ARE STORE IN THEIR HOME. He didn't want to do it and acted out when he all 4 damn pots in the refrigerator. HE BY NO MEANS NEEDED A STEP BY STEP INSTRUCTIONS. He's a WHOLE FOOL.
@@oceaniamonarch5404 Why would she even ask him
“Why did you put the pots in the fridge” if that’s how they do it. He was being willfully obtuse and so are the men defending him.
Some of these comments are exactly why a lot of women are preferring to be single. Even if their moms. Because who want to deal with people who are this effing exhausting. And then some of these women are acting like it's not a big deal okay sis... Imagine someone deeming themselves to be so smart and logical but can't figure out something as simple as putting food in storage containers so you can have clean pots and pans to cook again... It's like y'all don't realize the correlation between a man who doesn't take You serious and the type of man that will leave you because he says you're nagging...Men are never going to progress if we do not start putting our foot on their necks to be better partners. I'm not saying this is behavior worth breaking up over. But this is the little things that we talk about that doesn't cost anything and they still are acting like it's too much. Men can open up their mouth about being hungry but y'all think consideration when putting dishes away is asking for the world, child I can't.
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Saw this was so annoyed 🤦♀️. He knew what she meant. These men want a mamma not a wife
He knew exactly what he was doing
Everyone has their own system in their home. I’ve started putting the pots in fridge to reduce washing 😅 but i do it neatly and organized.
@@anonymoususer4866 It’s fine if that’s what you do in your household. But if you know she usually does it another way why take the shortcut after she asked for help?
@@lifewithshawnda absolutely especially if they have a gas stove and dont routinely clean it. The bottom of pot or pan might be nasty from old build up on gas stove. I have electric and clean it everyday. 😅
Me too sometimes I do that
No one taught him that, yet he thought it would pass as the norm. Thank God they are exposing themselves so now nobody can play ignorant.
He also did want to put the effort in cleaning the pots and put it in the containers😢
Agreed. I had the same issue with an ex SMH. I swear he would do stuff like this on purpose. That's why he is an ex.😅
Why isn't he embarrassed admitting that he did something that childish and literally stupid?
he definitely knew what he was doing. he was probably offended and felt tricked deep down that she asked him to put the food up only to realize there were more steps than he envisioned when he first agreed (because that's how low bar, minimum effort, 'taker' men think). he thought she left him the last step only. he didn't realize there was more and he was probably upset she felt bold enough to ask him to do like 5 steps to complete the task. so like a toddler he chose a tantrum. if she behaved the way he did, she should've left him raw noodles on a plate for his next dinner, looked around confused that he's upset, and went and got her some lovely takeout. I'm just saying lol.
My 19 year old son knows to put the leftovers in Tupperware before storing in the fridge. 🤷♀️
That last line. Drops mic.
Boy bye.
I put pots in the fridge a lot of the time. This is probably the one and only time I’m with the male on this one. NOT A BIG DEAL. If someone asked me to do something and I didn’t do it the way they prefer to do it…and they were MAD at me??? Just let me know, why are you acting like I’m dumb or intentionally trying to piss you off?
Yes. The internet has a way of taking the smallest thing and making it into a capital crime.
You sound as lazy as that guy!
@@garmtpug except I’m the one who did all the cooking and cleaning. So i can put pots in the fridge 👌
Were the pots cold? I can see him putting still warm pots on glass and plastic shelves in the fridge.
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I feel like it’s not that DEEP 🤣 at least he put it away like she asked 😭
Did you miss the very last part of what she said That's a grown man acting like he's a child that doesn't know how to put food away. Sheesh no wonder these men are so delayed these days because y'all just keep believing whatever they say while also seeing the complete opposite of their actions. Men are leaders but can't figure out how to store food? This would make sense if this was a child but the task is too damn simple
He needs to go back in time and learn from his grandparents or mother lol
Thank you! He knew she dont put them pots in the fridge he did how ever he seen fit to do it. This why i dont ask my husband to do nothing. He usually does not do it right and says i need to be happy w/ how he does it, and i think he is right, so i do it myself. Im not nagging him like im his momma
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I guess you ain't learning s*** 😂😂😂😂
I do the same thing 🤷🏾♀️😅
He didn't want to wash the pots that came with the leftovers is all
@@TannyYem Exactly but he wants her to be grateful as if he did.
Girl!😂
😂As a man I put the pots in the fridge too
Well men need to be smarter. Lawd!😩
She told him to do something, and he did it.
Thats like me telling my wife to cook, and then getting angry when it's not a 3 course meal because "thats what im used to".
Get a grip.
Exactly. Ramen noodles in the microwave will suffice and there's no cleaning later. 👍
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I just don't understand being unkind to my spouse. If he puts away the leftovers in pots or in Tupperwares, it doesn't matter. If he has a good soul, that's what matters. Be kind. Talk to a widow who has lost her beloved, and ask her if the way that leftovers get put away actually MATTERS.
Stop giving this man an excuse to be lazy and selfish. Men want you to baby them but when you ask for their assistance because you need the help, they want to only do the least.
Of course a widow wouldn’t care about this. Neither does she TBH. And by the way, she didn’t post this, he did. He was obviously more bothered than she was to get on a podcast and air their dirty laundry. The point is she asked for help with cleaning and instead of being authentic and admitting he didn’t want to do it, he just half-asses it. He said she went to bed early, maybe she was just tired and this one time requested help from her husband. In marriage there is compromise and doing something this small for someone you’ve committed your life to isn’t a big ask.