BECOME THE WOMAN MEN WANT TO SPOIL

[@Hautemomlife]

I’ve been single for 4.5 years now after a baby and divorce. It’s time….. I’m retiring the mom bun and sweat pants. I will become her and BE HER.

[@angellydiaofficial]

Yes Ma’am😊🥰

[@audreanaburgess8371]

Amen 😊..I need to do the same

[@rbias7]

You certainly look like wifey type. It looks like you can cook also, :) ha

[@Hautemomlife]

@@rbias7 Aweee thank you haha I started the channel for my kids. But I haven’t kept up with it.

[@tipswitht]

Show up as the woman who is spoiled and you will find your provider 📝

[@angellydiaofficial]

😊 yes ma’am

[@Lisatheecreator]

I agree

[@luzluna6808]

❤❤❤❤

[@kimpossible5939]

I’m 48 and I’m always put together I preach this to my daughters. It works and it feels good!

[@CMcgires]

DECENTER MEN, THATS ALL IMA SAY. DRESS FOR YOURSELF , RESPECTFULLY LOL

[@nameunknown1519]

Right. Like what in the pick me is this? 😂😂😂

[@Godspit6066]

@@nameunknown1519 lol

[@CMcgires]

You're absolutely right lol IM NOT LOL. However, I don't feel women should put so much emphasis on trying to get spoiled. ANY SMART WOMAN KNOWS WHAT COMES WITH THAT. ITS NEVER" O HES JUST SPOILING ME." YOU END UP DEALING WITH MEN AND THEIR BS. BECAUSE IF THE SPOIL IS GOOD. A WOMAN IS MORE RELUCTANT TO LEAVE. MAKE SURE YOU POST THIS SOMEWHERE MY LOVE.

[@IceChampakaWolf888]

​@@CMcgires exactly 💯.

[@celestialextraterrestrial305]

Everyone will come some sort of baggage whether if you dress completely for yourself or are mindful about the kind of men you want to attract like. If this doesn’t apply move on.

[@elizabethiheosonye5457]

Yeah, well said. You need to learn to spoil yourself to get someone to spoil you.

[@awuorochuodho6394]

Let me start that challenge today and come back after 30 days with my results!

[@user-bc1bx3ql3b]

How is it going so far ?

[@awuorochuodho6394]

@@user-bc1bx3ql3b I have noticed some good looking men smile my way, two to be precise. That is new. I think what I need to work on is my 'resting b*&%£ face'...sigh😂😂. I think it makes it a little 'challenging' for someone to approach me.

[@sweetmisstea]

I wanna know toooo.

[@lifestylecomderciaparruque1001]

I can't believe how incredible this is! I watched your video last week and decided to try out the tips. Let me tell you, it really works! Guys started offering to pay for my taxi, my meals, and even some high-value men wanted to strike up conversations with me. Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

[@angellydiaofficial]

Fantastic! I love this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@deborahboko5988]

Thays whats upp👏

[@4Simon-Says]

I would like to add to what you have said. Emphasis on loving YOURSELF ladies

[@angellydiaofficial]

😊😊😊

[@theConsciousMamaCollective]

"I can tell you love yourself," such a beautiful compliment 🥰

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you 😊🥰

[@LadyCharity]

I believe intention is a big part of it too. Yes, look presentable but do that for yourself and also cultivate inner peace.

[@angellydiaofficial]

😊 yes @LadyCharity

[@starbabylight7879]

This is the comment right here 💯💯

[@luzluna6808]

Yes!

[@tsitsih15]

I need a friend like you in my life because when I tell my friends that this is what I believe in they say I’m being delusional in the 21st century, no man will be willing to provide. I’ve been provided for in the past so I know he’s out there looking for me.

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you🥰, yes he definitely is 😊

[@2cherries]

They are willing, just a lil harder to find in this day & age.

[@Sasha-ws6gv]

I look amazing and these men just stare at me like an art piece lol 😆 But in all seriousness, I take very good care of myself, mentally physically and spiritually

[@angellydiaofficial]

Yes ma’am the right one that can afford you will approach you 😊

[@faiththikazi154]

😅😅😅

[@ba8501]

From my experience, providers like when you are put together, healthy and that you pamper yourself. You don't have to break the bank to do it either. Do it for you. It will show and they pay attention.

[@ellebelle222]

Men can tell, affluent men appreciation a woman that takes care of herself.
It also shows how you would care for the children i feel in their minds 🎉
I like how you dont talk to men that talk to you when you are dressed down.
Period

[@angellydiaofficial]

Yes ma’am 🥰

[@9xFriend]

I started wearing hats more, (not baseball caps, but low key derby hats. Men do not allow me to open ANY door or pick up anything I've dropped, and acknowledge my presence when I wear them, and yes, a red lip and a smile must go with that hat.

[@ninawestlake14]

I absolutely love and agree with this. I only attract providers and contrary to popular believes, they are not controlling. At least not to me. I guess it's my aura.

[@angellydiaofficial]

That part 🥰🥰

[@KaylaNoelle1]

YES! Broke men are controlling. My provider man was like “you should honestly manage the money and I’ll ask you for an allowance if I want to go out.” 😂 which is traditional in a lot of cultures!

[@KishiKae]

“I don’t care if you work underground” 😭😭😭 …the bats will admire too

[@angellydiaofficial]

🥰🥰🥰

[@ndonwisandrangum225]

Attract what you want. An believe you can get it.
Thank you girl🥂

[@heartlogo2023]

YUP Dress how you want to be addressed...and dont settle for less or 2nd best. Go queen.

[@angellydiaofficial]

🥰🥰🥰

[@shekinahfire5936]

I like how you're covered up! So classy, thanks for sharing 💕.

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you! 😊

[@deanna660]

I have never had a man provide for me. I wouldn’t know how to act if one was to ever provide for me

[@angellydiaofficial]

Welcome to the channel, I hope you get some tips on finding your provider 😊

[@mercywangui9777]

Same here😂😂😂

[@LuyandaSindiswaMyende-oz4kw]

Oooh girl I also pray a man would provide for me. ​@mercywangui9777

[@SharonUd]

Definitely feel you. It's pretty much same with me, and it's becoming a pattern

[@iyiokechinaza2382]

Me too even my husband find it hard to take care of my needs

[@TheRealMyracleGarcia]

That make up non make up look . But my skin so clear I can do blush , lipgloss and mascara or natural looking lashes . I never do too much. Definitely a really good night routine and morning routine and gym !!!! And I attract a provider man for sure. These are all facts ❤

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thanks for sharing!!🥰

[@Godspit6066]

@TheRealMyracleGarcia what kind of routine u have for sleep,and morning please.thank u,always trying to improve my routines

[@heymisswest]

Bingo

[@TheRealMyracleGarcia]

@@Godspit6066 yes I’ll send to you !

[@zephomalunga5251]

You know...
I wish we would rather see more content on women being beautiful, feminine, but also providing for themselves. In that way, you attract few but actually legitimate providers that match your level. Too many women become victim to men abuse because they solely depend on them....
The new trend should be options...

[@nomfundokumalo7964]

I think you speaking volumes whar I learnt is that Men can sense desperation afar If ur the one they want you don need to try hard

[@javireyes7333]

Thank you. But I think just self love and self respect does it all, even when not put together

[@FaithFashionFinances]

It seems possible. I am recovering from a lot of abuse and bullying so I don’t like myself at all, I won’t give up though I just need to work through this pain

[@irenehamilton2981]

You got this girl

[@powerdynamics4life]

You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. You are beautiful.❤🙏🏾

[@mimismegalife4976]

I am turning 61 next week. I have been a widow for almost 6 years and not one date or even approached! I am a beautiful woman. I look ten years younger than I am. People think I am my daughter's sister! I dress very nicely but I only seem to receive compliments from other women. Oh .... I HAVE had several MARRIED men quite bluntly wanted to see them on the sneak!!!!! Which I shut down even threatening to tell their wife!!!

[@mimismegalife4976]

@@angellydiaofficial I love this idea! Thank you so much 😊

[@rainetravels1410]

I accept the look put together challenge 😊 I do look, put together at work. Two days in the office full makeup pressed perfumed wig looking natural. I just have to expand it to outside of work.

[@jtaylor1551]

You gotta have the right attitude, too. Some women look well put together but an unapproachable look on their face .

[@spadesstory7906]

I’m at a place in my life where I NEEDED you to create this channel and Never knew it existed! Right on time!!! First time viewing your channel and I’m here to stay!!!!

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you and welcome ☺️🥰

[@ririfaye145]

Great straight to tha point advice 🙌🏿

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you 😊

[@LADYDIVAful]

I was taught that anything spoiled belongs in the garbage; it’s parasitic.

[@msbrisimmons]

I agree u should always look out together. However when I look a fool the men still be in my face 😅😩😩

[@angellydiaofficial]

😂

[@newwineskin5494]

Love this advice. But till when will you put up the fake act?.That said,i love nice, expensive stuff. But cannot afford them now, as I've got loads on my plate.This guy walked in my house and said,his surprised I'm such a simple,unmatrialistic girl,it doesn't match how i talk.😮😮.Then I told him,wait till i get money then you can judge lol.
That made me think,please be materialistic,because incase the relationship ends,you are left with an expensive gold chain you can pawn off for money.Or something. Other than been left just with a harsh heartbreak.

[@tipswitht]

@@newwineskin5494 💯 agree with you, I went through something similar when I was younger and less “experienced” in life I guess you can say. Now I love to receive from men, it’s our birthright as women✨ so take the gifts 🎁 🥰 I also sold some designer purses from my ex after a bad break up and put the $ in my savings

[@2cherries]

Work on getting the things you like yourself. Then a man can see that you are about that life. It took me a while but now I’m good with having nice things in my home & driving a luxury vehicle.

[@mluhyahalisi6486]

Become a woman of God.

[@creativephebecooks]

Girl, I listened to your entire video and loved every bit of it. What a timely video ❤. Thank you

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you 🥰

[@ZaneleIvoke-gx2mu]

Lovely ❤, the reality is "Real man doesn't like fake/ artificial ...stuff, they most like look natural and being proud of yourself as a lady that real man🎉🎉🎉

[@virtue1495]

I love your mind girl🙌🏾 Just found your channel and I'm here for all your wisdom. Subscribed🤎🙏🏾

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thanks 🥰

[@seirin250]

Or, just make your own money and spoil yourself???

[@FeliciaStands]

Humans are social we are not created to be alone so why not allow the masculine energy to be a force in our lives and vice versa let us be in our feminine energy and btw she’s still talking care of herself because she has self love ❤

[@mamconteh6025]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@baecationn6876]

Sprinkle sprinkle ✨

[@juditheze9161]

My Nigerian man said "you love yourself too much that I'm afraid if you will want to have a baby for me after we get married" 😂 Now I'm not sure if its a compliment or not. I love babies but not the body you have after having them😊

[@dominiccynthia695]

😂😂

[@justmo2023]

Very true. Did it and got approached. True vibes!! 😁😁

[@BlissfulNMindful]

So very true! Men are literally simple creatures.
~ New Subscriber. ✨

[@angellydiaofficial]

🥰 thank you

[@moniquecozza3888]

Agree with all of this, i slowly figured this out and once i started fully being who i wanted to be with my sexy, masculine daddy came to me. Literally obsessed with me before i even noticed. Ladies if the man u want ain't obsessed first he ain't it 👏🏽I went from Fboys to my KING. I get princess, baby energy ALL the time, this thinking works

[@angellydiaofficial]

😊😊❤❤ I’m very happy for you, I honestly want this for all women

[@MissMelFit]

Love this video!!💜 I work in a warehouse and ALWAYS look put together. Guys approach me all the time. Some women don’t care how they look but I do lol!

[@angellydiaofficial]

Yes ma’am 🥰🥰

[@jeffcee9457]

A few good point but successful men are successful for a reason they can spot a gold digger a mile away from the finish line.As a man the biggest mistake i see women make they don't look approachable.The most important advice be nice make your own money and never never never plot a way to get someone else's money.

[@angellydiaofficial]

Really successful men have no problem providing for women in fact they prefer it, unless he’s one of the stingy type of men and I spoke of that in MY video Titled CHOOSE MEN THAT CHOOSE YOU 😊

[@jeffcee9457]

@@angellydiaofficial After 27yrs on wall street you know the women who has their arms out or hearts out.

[@christabelkatuta5367]

Thank you for the timely word 🙏

[@angellydiaofficial]

You’re welcome 😊

[@theresarhodes8142]

This man woman convo is so redundant now.

[@masterprophet8378]

Everything in life worth its weight in salt is redundant.
That's been a given for thousands of years, Theresa.
You've been eating the same foods, breathing the same air, basking in the same sunshine, throughout the tenure of your life - that's redundancy.
Redundancy is a good thing provided you are being redundant about things that nurture and sustain you.
Peace and love!

[@chanellemckinney1436]

Period and most aren't even married or headed there like have a successful relationship first the men too just find who likes you and and want something in life a go forward this is basic hygiene 🙄

[@Godspit6066]

Beautiful 💜 video. Do u have any knowledge on why some men approach women when they are plain?What i have been experiencing i got approach most of the time when,im going to the gym,no makeup,hair up,stretch 👖 pants and sneakers, i got compliments that im beautiful. When dressed up,and makeup, men would be nice to hold the door,but not approaching.

[@angellydiaofficial]

I will make a video for you 😊

[@Godspit6066]

@@angellydiaofficial thank u sis💜

[@bettylegal]

Because they like natural beauty

[@user-jp7wb4de6d]

This is my story. I meet the rich ones when am not dressed at all😂

[@TheRealMyracleGarcia]

My male best friend said he rather see a girl out regular and she’s attractive and then she gets dressed up vs the other way and she removed everything and she’s not cute without all the makeup etc . And he’s a really successful type man

[@christiandeniz]

SUCH A GREAT VIDEO

[@angellydiaofficial]

@@christiandeniz thank you ☺️

[@masterprophet8378]

Good wisdom, Angel.
Peace and love!

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you 😊

[@masterprophet8378]

@@angellydiaofficial, it was fantastic.
I hope you become a published author.

[@MainlyInLove]

Thank you Angel Lydia!!🦋🌸
This is happening for me💞💝 Thank you for your faith🌟🪽

[@angellydiaofficial]

You are welcome, I’m happy for you 😊

[@rosequartz7939]

I’m single mother that’s going back to school looking for a real provider that allow me to relex my nervous system only focus on school not have to work…

[@tipswitht]

@@rosequartz7939 ❤️

[@angellydiaofficial]

😊 I hope you find a good one 😊🥰 to help you start your soft girl lifestyle

[@rosequartz7939]

@@angellydiaofficial thank you so much ✨

[@cheryljonas282]

Thanks for the advice .. this morning I decided to spend a little more time on myself to go and run some errands . And guess what😮 you were right. ... plp were approaching me and even my female friends complimented me on the way I dressed . Tks again❤

[@angellydiaofficial]

You’re welcome 🥰🥰

[@cetteolga]

Exactly🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤ thank you for this reminder

[@22Tabie]

Love this video. Thank you for the advice, sis! Look feminine and believe!..
😍❤

[@suzettewilliams1758]

Sounds like more mental effort than it's worth.

[@tallulahdozier]

This is good but would be been great. One small critique…you mentioned several times to look the part but failed to provide actual examples. I think elaborating more would be more helpful in the future 😊

[@angellydiaofficial]

Okay no problem and thank you 😊

[@dorispatrick462]

Key word always look put together

[@angellydiaofficial]

Always 😊

[@9xFriend]

Thanks!

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you 🥰

[@HealingJasmin]

you are stunning! 😍😍

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you!!😊🥰

[@Dawndaboss]

I alway tell people that men are more intuitive than women, they see things in an instance… that’s why men become excess when you are happier personally

[@angellydiaofficial]

😊 on point

[@Gagagames302]

I totally agree with you 💯

[@SachiLaSenya]

nah hard to find good man...
all is abt mind games no more love

[@Godspit6066]

@@SachiLaSenya where u meet them,ur right.

[@user-ye1eq5hp7x]

Your target Will always find you❤yeah you preaked my intrested.😊

[@angellydiaofficial]

They do 😊😊

[@CupcakeChan2611]

Can i be honest 😭i struggle to gave spoilt enery because i grew up in struggle homes and i struggle to keep up a look cause i love comfort 😭

[@MsYoYo76]

I have the issue of them staring but wont approach or say anything. Thats annoying sometimes 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@annstewart8506]

I have to tell you that you must be looking like an expensive piece of art work in a gallery. They look in awe and know they cannot afford you. Stay true to yourself. You will attract when you are not looking. Goodluck

[@MsYoYo76]

@@annstewart8506 thanks for THAT! I will remain positive in thoughts and let the MOST HIGH do his work 🙏🏾❤️

[@jacquelinealexander9808]

This my first time looking at your video love this I've had a bad habit not getting myself together

[@angellydiaofficial]

Welcome 🤗 You can do it!

[@idanjie6850]

This video is so amazing, Sis 👌 I can read through the lines now. Thanks alot 👍

[@angellydiaofficial]

You're welcome 😊

[@HarliLover]

When I wear more natural looking styles I get the most compliments 🔥 I realized the extra dramatic lashes and bold bright eyeshadow colors, look like drag queen makeup.

[@mbetubom8539]

Thanks, angel 🙋❤️

[@angellydiaofficial]

Any time!🥰

[@ChipoNcube-gx6vw]

Thankyou sis i will try that

[@prettywoke6328]

Great advice sis. love it🙏🏽👍🏽❤

[@Tigerlily_Fresh]

I spoil myself. There's just one life to live and one time around this rock! 😉

[@oreratileitumeleng9464]

You dropped facts

[@Lisatheecreator]

Love your delivery Queen ❤

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you! 🤗

[@preachwellnessplus]

I had to subscribe this was such a good video 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@essraamoustafa8021]

Greetings from Egypt! Loved your video, thank you so much. Would you please a make a video about how to be inconvenient and how to make him wrapped around your finger? How to keep challenging a man without losing his interest especially if he's wealthy and women throw themselves on him? and yes please we need a video about how to ask for things from a man. Thanks again

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you and yes I will make some more videos to answer your questions😊❤

[@dorispatrick462]

Work on how u look
Look good be neat keep up to your hygiene
Put some effort take care of yourself love yourself put yourself together

[@angellydiaofficial]

Yes, thank you

[@Beyou-2000]

This is true n not true.. there are lots of men who love simple women who dont go over the top.. they're men who meet women who dont even wear an ounce of makeup and fall in love with her n wants to spoil and keep he. It all depends on what the man wants

[@dorcaswanyua4417]

Can someone guide me on how i can change my wardrobe on a budget.. I feel horrible about my dressing especially now that I've lossed weight..i want to get some elegant clothes for myself

[@tonirand6011]

Try going to thrift stores.

[@khadhrikhan1549]

You must have a person you go for all your clothes alterations. It is a game changer when your clothes actually fit you. Mix timeless pieces and affordable ones. Really take care of your clothes i.e. if you can, use profesional clothes cleaners.
Me personnally, I work in a male dominared environment, and the risk is that as a woman you might fall into the trap on bieng in your masculine energy all the time.
So I have decided to keep a healthy weight. I only wear dresses, no trousers. I wear colors and accessories. I do my nail. I have sisterlocks. I always wear nice make up. I wear nice fragrance.

[@CupcakeChan2611]

​@khadhrikhan1549 no because this is real. I studied IT but what I did was I moved to UX so that I'm less masculine and having a female boss has helped me be more feminine sometimes

[@HelpedbyGod-o2z]

I don't do make up I don't do my nails and I only wear heels when am going to church,will I not get a provider this way?

[@mercybassey3877]

You will 😂! But y would you want a provider when you don’t need provision!

[@HelpedbyGod-o2z]

@@mercybassey3877 I need to go on vacation that's my provision😊

[@janetnjeri4266]

​@@mercybassey3877😲😲😲😅

[@chimakalu41]

8:29 See she is beginning to laugh.She knows how that sounds

[@impreciious]

New subbie🎉❤ love it here already

[@NinaOseiMensah-il7ly]

Very true sister

[@meagain9649]

Lovely video but this is why we are getting darker and lower level souls as a human race ... please let us focus on the soul the internal traits and NOT EXTERNAL AND MATERIAL.... men give women they don't love material things and women they do love THEIR TIME & LOVE & THEIR HEART & SOUL.... it is an insult a man wanting to buy me.... please let us better as a human race

[@user-ic6we2vq4o]

U said it all 😊❤

[@Joazil]

I like this, and I'm gonna set the part

[@user-se3oh8pk9h]

Lol that title is giving ancient vibes

[@faithshimoomba7261]

What happens if u already have a man whom u know is a provider but not providing to u, can u change the narrative?

[@user-nt5fi7om2q]

Nice first time here am here to stay ❤thank u

[@angellydiaofficial]

You’re welcome, and welcome 😊

[@julieenelson9199]

Absolutely 💯

[@DestinationDionna]

First of all, you are gorgeous and I love your speaking voice.
2nd of all I’ve only heard the first tip and yes I agree!
Before I go all in, are you married to a man who spoils you?

[@hakimNaci]

I will spoil myself …thank you tho

[@NdohMel]

I always look put together still men don't provide me they always think I have money.

[@jazzydavis7668]

Yesss make one on how to not ask

[@SistahJay27]

I agree with you

[@JosBa-zo8pz]

You are so beautiful😍

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you!!🥰

[@valeriedavis5647]

Thank you

[@alessiajoy2906]

I've given some thought to the statement the creator made that she doesn't talk to men who are dressed down.
Here's a perspective: what if the dressed down man is actually the CEO of a multi-million/billion dollar company & b/c of his humility & love for the work, he chose (on this particular day) to step in and help the workers?
What if he knows women out here "trappin" & trying to get spoiled and he desires a woman who will show same respect to a CEO as well as the cleaning crew?
Sometimes we interact with angels unaware.

[@angellydiaofficial]

I love this perspective😊 and it is soo true you can meet the right man anywhere, even the grocery store, but I said I don’t talk to men who would approach me IF I AM not looking right .

[@alessiajoy2906]

@@angellydiaofficial you certainly did! My bad for misconstruing your statement. What if he sees the beauty IN you, rather than on you?

[@angellydiaofficial]

@@alessiajoy2906 if he’s the right man for me, he won’t let me go he’ll persist ☺️☺️

[@libgurl01]

Character matters a lot

[@naomingwono1606]

You are soo beautiful✨

[@angellydiaofficial]

Thank you ❤️