Harrison Butker Shocks Graduates With Speech
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- Опубліковано 7 тра 2023
- "Get married and start a family." 👏 Wise words from #HarrisonButker
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HIS life began when she became a wife and a mother. THATS the truth.
And your life came from a man's rib from the hand of the one and only living God.
I did not hear him tell anyone In particular to get married and have kids. Just to do so. What is all this up roar.
This isn’t the speech the uproar is about
I wonder how long this comment section will stay up
The original video doesn't even have the comments up. They are just eating this stuff uppp😂😂😂
It is so stupid that goodness is what gets censored in American culture. Sickening!
I'll be honest, I lived the first 25 years of my life believing that I needed to get a good career, get married, have kids, and then I would be happy. I spent my whole life doing what all of the adults, like Butker, told me. Then my fiance broke things off with me and I realized that I never really stopped to think about what I want for myself and what kind of man I wanted to be, I had always trusted the advice of my elders and just went on autopilot. All of this to say that getting married just to get married is a terrible idea. Not everyone's plans will accommodate marriage and rushing into marriage with the wrong partner is only going to give you more trouble. What we need to be teaching young kids (and many adults) is introspection and mindfulness. Spend time getting to know yourself so that you can be the best version of yourself possible. Then you won't have to rely on luck to get the perfect marriage or the right career because you'll know exactly what you want and what you have to offer.
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Beautifully said!! This speech is stupidity at its finest. I'm married but I would ask a single person to just get married for the sake of it and be unhappy. Also women have come a long way it is absolutely terrible the way he said all women should stay home and have kids. It's a choice. Let people be who they want to be . Not every body wants the same thing. A lot of married people r unhappy.
He is using religion to try and brainwash women into giving their unpaid labor to a man. (Unpaid labor in homemaking, childcare, s*x servant, emotional labor, maid service, at home nurse)
But religion has been doing this to women for centuries so it’s nothing new here.
I agree that relying on luck isn’t the way to plan your life. I think what Butker didn’t emphasize is that doing all these things must be accompanied by prayer. Changing your plans, have your fiancée break things off, and having to shift gears, was very difficult for you, I’m sorry you went through that. Getting to know yourself better and what direction you want to go is admirable. It sounds like you’re recovering from this painful time. As you move forward, ask God for guidance with your steps. You’re off autopilot now, lean on your faith to guide you as you explore. If you’re still desiring marriage, pray for that. Our paths change in an instant and it may take a lifetime or more, to see where God intended for us to be.
WOW! Thank you very much for sharing such a personal view. CORRECT! "Getting married just to get married is a terrible idea". May you be abundantly blessed.
Great speech, what's all the drama about?
What drama? This speech is 1 year old
@@Jindsing. Are you serious. Pay attention to the news.
@biggiesmalls3083 this speech is one year old
"I'm not sure the root of this." [3:15]
The reduction of the community, which includes the extended family, the neighborhood, and organizations within the community. This has been happening for 6-7 decades, predating both the pandemic and social media.
Amen.
Thanks for the words that indeed the katholic priest should teach his people!
Yall remember "shut up and dribble"?
Oop!👀
No.
They sure didn't, though🤔
Right!? But he has the complexion for protection.
@@rgirl1243 not sure that I would go racial about it but it's at least political hypocrisy
Amen
Anyone that says "but" before they say something else it usually means they never meant the first thing they said and actually meant the second thing more
I often use it to state a reason the first statement isn't a current reality.
You can’t “never mean something” and then “mean something more”. Please clarify which one you meant.
2 things can be true.
Watch....
I am pro- bortion.
BUT.... I am not ok with 3rd term bortions.
See?
@DuelyusSeazer why do you believe 3rd term bortion is fine?
Na people just speak differently. Not everyone has the same comprehension. Not everyone can express the same way we all think and speak differently that's why every single person is unique
Where’s the rest of the speech? I wanna hear the controversy everyone is talking about!
This is his speech from 2023 to Georgia Tech where he graduated from.
@@johantrenier1685 Hah Tricksy
This is not the speech everyone is talking about. The speech given at Benedictine College was wonderful. I love this beautiful young man. We stopped watching the NFL back when they started kneeling in protest against the flag. Now I am going to watch the KC Chiefs! This brave man is a voice crying out in the wilderness of sin. I pray our church leadership gets the courage to pick up this hot football and imitate Harrison.
That IS the controversy 🙄
@@johantrenier1685 the greatest Engineering School!
I would love to have my wife stay at home and take care of the kids like you could during the 50's and 60's when men were paid enough to be able to buy a house and a car and go on a family summer trip to a national park like older celebraties say it was back in the old days. Unfortunately, sadly today if we want to buy a house and a car you definitely need two incomes. It's funny, because I would guess that most rich corporate CEOs who are most likely very conservative inadvertently destroyed the conservative way of living by not paying fathers a one household income anymore like they did during the 50's and 60's. Yet they are angry about why the husband and wife are both working. I say bring back the one household income salaries like it was before and I will guarantee you I will love to keep my wife at home!!! She will love it too!!!
Not all women will though. I want to have kids but I have never had the desire to be a homemaker or a stay at home. People have passions as well that usually don’t fall into strict categories that others assign for them. But you’re definitely right about not being able to afford one parent staying home! I feel for those like your wife who do want to be homemakers that can’t because of financial reasons.
It’s great how you want to go back to how things used to be when women were even more suppressed but how can you assume woman don’t want to work outside the home? Money is not the only reason women choose not to be homemakers. I’ll give you a clue, it’s the same reason most men don’t want to be homemakers 🤔
I want to have a stay at home husband, but I would be happy to just have a partner who does the majority of cooking and cleaning.
Taking a 30,000 foot view of this, women joined the work force in earnest in the 70's so now they probably make up 45%? of the work force.
Over that same time period real wages (with regards to purchasing power for food housing, cars etc not trinkets) have halved, So is it a case of twice as many people, half the wage?
Also in the same time period, the birth rate has dropped below replacement. There are more brown illegal immigrants every year than there are "American indigenous" babies
We are reaping the harvest that we have sown.
No, its called learning to live within your means and being frugal. My husband and I raised 4 kids in the 90's to early 2000's on one income, his. I stayed home and taught the kids, and we were all blissfully happy and still are. We were never rich, but not poor either. 2 of my daughters do the same thing. One of them has 6 children. She helps her husband run their family business, but mostly she is home with the kids, and loves it.
Is the controversy that he said he doesn't care how much money they make?
Excellent job Harrison!
There is nothing shocking in his speech. He's just speaking the truth.
Get married! What a concept.
NASTY!
“I think it is you, the women, who have had the most diabolic lies told to you. Some of you may go on to lead successful careers in the world but I would venture to guess that the majority of you are most excited about your marriage and the children you will bring into this world.
“I can tell you that my beautiful wife Isabelle would be the first to say her life truly started when she started living her vocation as a wife and as a mother. I’m on this stage today, able to be the man that I am, because I have a wife who leans into her vocation.
“I’m beyond blessed with the many talents God has given me, but it cannot be overstated that all my success is made possible because a girl I met in band class back in middle school would convert to the faith, become my wife, and embrace one of the most important titles of all. Homemaker.”
@@criticalthinking1712 Sounds like she is his backbone of his life.
marriage rate has dropped a lot in the pass decade.
You can see right when he begins the controversial part… the men on the left laugh and the women on the right wince a bit.
As an atheist i commend Harrison Butker for speaking his mind and sharing his beliefs, which sound a lot better than the leftist dribble I've been fed my entire life. Being raised by a single mother has done me no favors in life. She was a horrible roll model and I'm worse off. It's been a struggle to undo the damage of not having a father figure to look up to. I believe everyone should be more upset over how hard it is to live off of one income and actually consider a one income family than the fact that a religious man spoke his mind at a religious school.
Well said. You can't undue being raised by a single parent, but you can make kids and change the trajectory by being the man you didn't have
Jesus is real repent
@@LegoLegends4Life 👍
Atheist here and I think he is right about basically all the advice he gives.
Beautiful
Jesus is real repent of your sins or you will be damned to hell
Dude ur moms a professional at Emory UNIVERSITY ........A FCKIN PHYSICISTS .......NICE PEDESTAL TO STAND ON......😊
Professor* he never said don't have a career. He just said don't abandon your duty to start a family for said career. Clearly his mother didn't do that.
@Knekten666 Yes it’s what keeps society going.
Obviously he think all of these folks are NFL kickers make a mil or so a year. Rents way up these days.
@rd3914 we have a duty to start a family? 😂
Recognize the Real Presence and you will be successful eternally.
Horraaaaaaaaaay for Butker!!!!…..100% stand behind him just wanting to be, well, normal?…..🤷🏽♂️👌🏾👍🏾😉😉🎓🏈🏉🏉🏈🏆
The fact that this is considered a controversial speech is mind blowing to me.
The US is soooo fucked man.
This is not the controversial speech - the controversial one is from 2024 at Benedictine College: ua-cam.com/video/-JS7RIKSaCc/v-deo.html
I know... It's senseless! Some people are just miserable asf!
I seen both speeches... Both are ok... He speaks on truth
Shocked? They all rose in a standing ovation
So did the crowd at Jim Jones rallies. :\
@@GG-vk4us 💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
@@GG-vk4us CONGRATULATIONS to Harrison Butker for saying that for which worldly culture drips with derision and condescension.
As the Apostle Paul said : For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek. [Romans 1:16]
Mr. Butker is pointing out the perspective of eternity of this mortal earthly life because "for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also".
1 John 4:16, We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us.
19 We love, because He first loved us.
Matthew 6:19 “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal.
20 But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves do not break in or steal;
21 for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
“Don’t understand why young people are depressed” rent unaffordable, pay below a livable wage, interest rates extremely high along with the fact that majority will never own their own home, baby formula locked up and extremely expensive..
His solution: get married and start a family! 😂 dudes got jokes
And he makes $4M per year...
Yeah. One income works great if you are in the NFL!
I mean two incomes are better than one… rarely do people start at 100k a year with their first job but two 50k jobs makes things a lot easier.
@@gavinbeard4026but according to him woman should be stay at home moms.🤔so one income in todays society is supposed to support multiple children ?
@@ryancoo3968 that’s not what he said that’s what you said he said but he never said that in the speech. His wife is but their situation is different. Statistics don’t lie. If you want to be well off or at least not struggling don’t have kids till your married go to college and then get married Google is free if and you won’t believe me
🙌🏻yes!
He restores my hope.
Glad he's happy. I don't recommend anyone getting married right out of college. Take time and get to know what you really want in life.
I’m sure Harrison Butker would agree with that! He didn’t say anything to indicate that he believed women should get married right out of college!
I wouldn't either. I mean why would anyone think they have to go to college?
They weren't shocked. They were cheering him on.
Awesome speech where is the controversy?
This is not the speech that sparked the controversy. The controversial speech is the one he gave at a graduation.
I see what hes trying to say theres some people that are successful and unhappy but there's people that aren't as successful and happy. It just depends on the person do what makes you happy.
We need more of this worldview on the public stage.
who approved that speech?
What's wrong with it? He's telling people to start a family is the best thing a person can do. Which is true.
@@havu2236he’s downplaying the hardwork that the women who graduated from that college put into their degrees. He has no right telling them right from “wrong”, he has no right to bring religion into a speech. Its a commencement speech, not a speech done at a private catholic university but to a public college. He is a privileged male and has been from the start of his life because of the hard work his mother put into her own education.
His beautiful mind /j
@@sachipatel1485 I think you got the wrong speech😂 This is from another University from last year
@@havu2236he only told women that they should put their family before career not the men.
None of it will matter if you're unemployed
Great speech. MAGA 2024
@@socalrocks9082
It's pathetic
Pride goeth before a fall. He will not fare well during the Chastisement. He should be ashamed of himself..
Very uplifting
It was the most watched superbowl because Taylor Swift decided to make a career for herself and all her fans watched. None of this speech even makes sense 😂
OK, so I listened to the whole thing. He gave his advice that family can be fulfillment. Feminists give their advice that a career and no family is fulfillment. So why do feminists get freedom of speech/opinion and he does not? What is all the fuss about?
I never heard him belittle anyone.
May the Lord open...🤐
Ha! Under his eye!
John 15:18-21 "If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. [19] If you were of the world, the world would love its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.
Well done Butker. God bless you, his faithful servant. 🫡🤍
This is the speech that's getting so much hate? All he said was having a family is the greatest accomplishment one can make, if you don't agree with that then don't agree, why is he getting attacked for this?
Obviously it's not, this was posted a year ago
@@wpsiamtwimnot oh this isn't the right one? damn his speech is getting so much coverage why do i have to put effort into finding the right one lmao
@@IanHMcQueen 😄😅😅
The recent one was in Benedictine College, it's 20 minutes long
@@wpsiamtwimnot well damn, i'll look there. Thanks for the info!
Wait no they left out half the speech!
Did they?
this upload is form 2023 at GA Tech. he did the commencement speech last year there. the one making the news now was at Benedictine (2024)
Not this Catholic channel even joining in in the what the hell happened wagon❤😂
This was a post of his last year speech. This isn't the current one that has peoples underwear riding up.🤣
They posted this a year ago.
How is this controversial? I was waiting all the way until the end, we have grown so soft...
Because youre looking at the wrong speech.
Continue to speak the truth!!😊
One of my Best speech ❤
Did I miss something?!?!
This is not the controversial speech btw the speech from 2024 is closed to comments
This is why before you make a speech the college tells you to hand them a copy of the speech before the graduation so they can keep you from saying something crazy in our normal world.
Who said he didn't. Their beliefs are pretty much align with his.
Or they should just let him do this...bro pracically out himself lmaooo
Our world is far from normal
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We Support You ❣️ God loves tou DO NOT BACK DOWN THE WORLD !! 🌎
I stand with him
BRUH
I support your right to stand with this 🤡
Imagine given a speech in church & saying alotta you love to prey, but I bet most of you wanna party. It's a bit awkward no ? Even tho it was a Catholic University, it wasn't a church. It wasn't a family counseling seminar. Essentially these students just completed an educational boot camp & they wanted to celebrate & we're excited to use what they learned. Butker might as well have said; now that you've waisted your time learning, forget about it & have babies. Even the Dean had to be thinking. Woo Silver, don't negate the prep, it's our revenue. Butker forgot that he was their to connect, congradulate & assure them of the possibilities that are now open to them.
What you expect from him, you already have it with GEMINI or COPILOT ... This address was a man speaking, not a computer or a media or a program... Butker is not the type of fellow who issues the cliché mottos that you are expected. This is a man's talk not a robot's speech. Butker wants the students to raise their head and their look and their lifegoal. Unfortunately not everybody caneven understand that ... Butker is a kicker, not a licker so he kicks hard and that's so good !
Nothing wrong with the speech. He was reminding them life is short & to really think about which goals to pursue & to remember the importance of marriage & family amongst the pursuit of other goals.
That's not what he said. He literally said women had been "sold a lie," that a woman's biggest achievement was as "homemaker" and that a woman only starts living when she marries and has children. He's completely diminishing the achievements of every single female graduand at the college.
@@Pianokityes. And that is the official Church stances and teaching. He got a 20 second standing ovation at the end. He was speaking at a Catholic University
@@PianokitThis video is of last year’s speech-I don’t think he said that here.
@@crimsonthumos3905I grew up in that thinking. It was hell. Cooking, cleaning and being a mans servant while he gets to live his full potential is soul sucking. Some of us women are brilliant, smart, artistic, etc and being told that all we are only worth is child rearing and house keeping is SOUL SUCKING.
@@Pianokit you feel it like that-
That’s it? I thought he said something like “women know their place” or whatever
Travis Kelce making it sound like Harrison told women to stay in the kitchen, and never peak around the corner. I can’t stand yes men like him haha him and Swift are perfect for each other.
This isn’t the video. This is a year ago
How precious! Amazing! And at the same time sad that society has come So Low in their sense of morality and search to accomplish human success..”which is bottom line..family” where have we allowed us to be! 🤦♀️ May God have mercy and allow us all to repent! And go back to His design. Not ours.
Good for you!!
Shocks
what was shocking about that
am i the only one who doesn’t understand why people are hating on this. he said nothing misogynistic. if fact it was all very uplifting and it seems like he really loves his wife
Wow where are these men?! Didn’t know they’re still in existence 😢😢😢😢😢😢
We are out here and there are lots of us. Most of us are just tired of the way society has made men the "bad" "guys". We are all over just seldom speak due to everyone being insane.
Some just have extraordinarily low self esteem.
And I love how he goes home to a happy home, and leaves so many people here miserable in a comment box… get a grip people and maybe learn from somebody with a different opinion
He could of just said "Make those in person connections" i think that would of been better lol some people don't wanna get married or have kids if they personally don't want to however you can still make a human connection with anyone and be happy lol
Oh, snap... when there's so much to tackle in life, you won't catch me getting coached by a kicker. I pass!
Bravo!
Wedding ring is his most important ring - I love it!! ❤❤
Wow. Interesting choice of Georgia Tech for a speaker at their graduation ceremony!
He played there.
@vigorwoods I think it was for Benedictine College. Was graduation just held at Georgia Tech?
@@diandie1838 This video was uploaded a year ago, and it says Georgia Tech on the podium. The recent one at Benedictine is a lot more worse...
@@xilingsinquesoNo it's just as great. Time for all to wake up and embrace the TRUTH! God doesn't put anyone in hell. People put themselves there by not living a good holy life. I pray for all to repent for their souls.
@@xilingsinquesoyou mean a lot better
That was the most Handmaid's Tale speech I've ever heard. He's looking forward to being a Commander in Gilead.
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Harry But
my exact thoughts… so scary
Handmaids tale was an allegory of Islamic rule
I love that he didn't take away from truth!
This is the best commencement speech I've ever heard. Good bless you!!
He seems genuinely happy with his marriage. However, 50% of marriages in the U.S. end in five years or less, and women initiate divorce 80% of the time. These aren't promising numbers. Marriage has become a toss up.
His wife can stay home because of his salary however not everyone has a husband who makes a lot of money for kicking a ball. For some, it is a matter of survival that both people work. His speech just shows how out of touch with regular people's issues.
Especially in an economy driven into the ground by BIDENFLATION and SHRINKFLATION.
100%! This is my biggest issue with this speech. Most households with kids need two income earners. I watched the whole speech too, not just this clip, and there's a big emphasis on the fact that being a wife and mother is the most fulfilling role for a woman, without any mention of the practical realities that most women face, regardless of what we might like to do.
@@rebeccag8589considering this was a completely different speech, are you sure you watched it?
@@rebeccag8589he made that claim about his wife not everyone else. What he said was "ONE of the most important", not "THE most important", and not "the ONLY important". People are literally inventing things to be upset about.
May God bless him and his family, and all families who want to serve Him.
Its 2024 NOT 1924
Sounds good
Incredible speech! ❤
He even looks like the guy off Handmaids Tale.... Yikes
And yet how many miserable people have been in the wrong marriages, realized after giving birth it wasn't for them. Or, been brought into miserable broken families, or unwanted and abandoned. Don't just get married to get married, marry the right person. Have kids when it is the right time for both of you. Or...don't have kids if you feel that's right for you
I don’t understand what’s controversial
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Non-Christians really seething in the comments today. EMJ's book's premise, "Libido Dominandi" is vindicated by this anger.
Why did he only tell the women to put family above career and not the men to do the same? That doesn’t seem fair.
He is using religion to try and brainwash women into giving their unpaid labor to a man without any safety net for themselves if the man decides to leave or dies or becomes disabled. (Unpaid labor in homemaking, childcare, s*x servant, emotional labor, maid service, at home nurse)
Would you want this speech at your daughter’s graduation?
Shocked because it was so good! What an amazing speech about his own Christian values and love for God, his wife, people, and church! Beautiful ❤
Not
Barefoot and pregnant? Then why go to college?
Who falls for this yitt?
VOTE, VOTE, VOTE!
did he really say that the most important vocation for a woman is a homemaker
It's what the bible says lol. There are millions of people who live this way and prefer. Just because YOU don't doesn't mean everyone else shouldn't either.
@levilively8643 I dont care if that is the life YOU choose. But why is this guy telling both young men and women this is the best or maybe the only option. Its a commencement . The speaker is supposed to inspire you and your future.
Religion and freedom are two different things. Religious beliefs are personal and American freedom is for all of us. They both can exist.
you aren't smart enough to vote.
@MrRlwiley excuse me ma'am I have a 98% voting record. I missed one primary that was local. Registered voter since 1987.
When its controversial to say "get married and start a family " because love and relationships is what brings true fulfillment and happiness, not worldly success and material things....we are screwed as a society.
Time to fix our culture everyone!!
not everyone wants a relationship or kids, there are many people who are more fulfilled by close friends and a career. acting like everyone needs to have the same goal in life is terrible
@kazzymiller5539 then his speech wouldn't apply to those people. He'd saying most people will do those things and the human element of it is more important than the material element.
@kazzymiller5539 I've known all my life that friendships, family, human bonds, love and relationships are more important than anything else in life. This shouldn't be controversial and it just shows how materialistic our culture has become. It doesn't have to be marriage and kids, but having human relationships that are a priority over things like money. Money is a tool. Not a life goal.
@@Hunter-2689 of course human bonds are important.. what he said was specifically "get married and have a family". that is definitely not referring to friendships
this is a 2023 georgia tech graduation speech. this isn’t the speech that’s controversial
What is so shocking about his speech?
It goes in against the agenda of the real owners if the USA to destroy the family structure and masculinity
Don't see what the uproar is. Didn't hear anything wrong. Said more to life than a successful career. Family is most important. Whatever that is for you.
A conservative Catholic exercising his first amendment right to free speech on his own time oh the outrage
What’s the problem with his graduation speech..
“ A Man without a Family can never be a real Man”
Love it when people whose only accomplishment in life is the ability to kick a pumpkin choose to pontificate. Absolutely hilarious. I await his divorce and bankruptcy. Guesthood on the 700 Club is his future. Prayer Cloths = $20. :D
He said he loves his wife and that she changed him in the best way possible. He points at the wedding ring and says “This is the most important ring I own.” He even state that the women there worked hard and were amazing throughout his speech. He got a standing ovation when bring up the family first idea. He was allowed to speak and he even said it was because god gave him the ability to kick an oddly shaped ball. Maybe you actually pay attention to his speech and the over arching message instead of negatively attacking someone for their views.
His accomplishments is that he perfected a skill that allowed him to earn such a living , it gave his wife the option to stay at home. Instead of speaking about his accomplishments, how about you reveal yours. I'm would guess you aren't as accomplished financially as he is, else you would not be making the comments.
I'm married have been 10 years and have been with my wife 20 years. Have 3 kids. Best thing I ever did. I'm a nurse and I see so many people in there later years suffer alone from failure of not prioritizing and nurturing a family in their youth. So many stories for men and women so focused on making money and being successful and at the end lonely with no spouse nor children to care for or check in on or be with them in their later years.
Maybe the legacy that you could stay home and let your wife shine in her vocation?
Great speech brother.
Yes. As a fellow homophobic misogynist, I think this speech really spoke to all our hearts.
Based Catholic Football player! 👏🏻👏🏻❤
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I like his comment about the most important ring 💍
Amen🙏💯💯
He did great!!!!! And he stated FACTS!
Emphasing meaning of a family - okay
But as a purpose when you’re depressed, in a void, without your own path? That’s a simple recipe for devastating your kids life.
Every simple sentence for life is never a good answer for life issues.
You dont say this stuff at a celebratory speech. This is just weird.
Great speech. Great man. Haters will say it’s better to look up to the athletes twerking in the club, toting pistols, smoking on that Mary Jzzzane. But people with values will see Butker is a man of integrity who won’t be swayed by the wokey pokey dance!
GOD Bless you Harris, we are with you 🙏 ❤️
No we ain't lol