When my wife chooses to treat me like a king, by trusting me and respecting my decisions, i take 5 times more attention and care with the decisions i make for us to ensure i am truly treating her like my queen. Confrontational couples will never know the loyalty a woman can gain by choosing to give hers first.
I was praying for an answer to my marriage and found you. I so needed this my marriage was getting really bad but I'm willing to surrender all now. Thank you❤
I don’t know a thing about being a wife , as far as examples in real life ….never seen a successful marriage in my family so I have no one to teach me. Glad I found this video !
It’s also the curse of Eve. To have the desire to rule and yet the husband must rule over her. We must realize God made Adam and then later said he needed a helpmate, a rib. We are a part of him. To support, love and protect HIM. He is before us after he submits himself to God. When I really got this and became filled with the Holy Spirit, God has put all of this on my heart. And I’ve been training myself to be a wife, although I am not yet married.
Thank you for this because my bf and I speak on forever under God. I fight with practical wifely duties and meanings to give and submit. Reading this makes me feel understood and okay to fulfill those thoughts into genuine actions.
Very true! My grand father married 8 times and the only one he respected and ended staying with forever was my submissive grandmother. He left her with everything so that she could keep the family together. She was able to keep the family together and today even though she passed away the family is united under her grand parenting
“Fuss or follow” wow! That’s a message. This was helpful. The part about studying the word on your own instead of fussing about it was a great reminder for me.
Couldn't agree more. My husband's biggest turn off is when I defy his authority, when I defy his leadership. He always does right by me, I trust him with my love and I see him being such a great leader in our relationship, I willingly submit to his authority because he knows best what is good for me and for us.
It is true!! There are ups and downs , but yes, when I am happy, productive , respectful and serving my husband my husband is his best because it makes him feel good seeing me feeling good ...!!
I make 6 figures; as does my husband. He’s literally helped support all of my dreams. I will never let anyone in my space. He’s everything to me. We’re almost 20 years in. I’m 40 years old; he’s never been anything but kind, and supportive. I will never think he’s deserves anything short of gratitude, love, adoration or affection and attention.
I am so glad to hear this from a believer woman. Many church women today operate just as unbelievers, since their husbands are believers they are being tortured internally since they can’t go outside of their marriages for comfort. I love this.
Your example of Thursday and how that naturally flows us into seeking the Kingdom first was absolute gold for me today. This is my first time seeing your content and I immediately subscribed. Thank you beautiful woman of God! I look forward to learning more from you.
Listen I am the queen of reminding me to submit!!! I have seen my hubby become all that I have ever wanted. And people say we are goals but we are literally just submitting to one another. It is not that hard lol.
Ashlyn, its Danny Hernandez from Zomorano and SCPA..... An argument with my wife last night led me here. Super proud of you and your wisdom. This is far more valuable than rubies.
God bless you thank you so much for this word am a new wife marriage of nearly 4months but we are so distant but after listening to this your words everything has changed for the better God be praise
Do remember one thing... if either spouse is hurting a child sexually or sending them to the hospital from violence it is your responsibility to get out. There are battery shelters for men as well as women. Some of the shelters have had to take men due to the wives beating them. Do not put up with abuse. In some countries there are absconding services to get you to safety.
Oh thank the Lord for this wisdom, i was so ready to walk out, my husbands daily negativity towards work and life got the better of me. I was so ready to just go and be in “peace”. I love him so but its destroying me
This is the best advice I’ve ever received! You are amazing! Im married and I want to be the best wife I can be. I had no guidance so I’m seeking for wisdom and your advice helped so much ! Thank you Queen 🙏🙏
God help me to be the best wife to my husband , help me to be the submissive,encouraging,supportive,understanding,mature wife to the man you ordained for me . Let him find peace in me and not outside the home . Lord bless me with a man who is willing to work on us till we become the couple that glorifies God . I love you my husband ,I pray to meet you soonest 🎉❤❤❤
I’m so glad that I ran across this video. I love my husband and I’m ready to learn and apply everything into my marriage for my husband and our marriage.
Amen! I just want to say to spoke what I too have experienced! Bless you for teaching others the path to a blessed marriage. We are going to our first church service this Sunday. It was his idea! This man that was once an atheist. 😮
I recently started on my journey of being a submissive wife and it literally was the most joy I have ever ever had in my marriage it blew my mind as well. Thank you Jesus!
@@nikiwenhlapo2978 I am praying for you. I started because The Holy Spirit convicted me. Reading scripture for encouragement on being the wife The Lord wants me to be helps me. Knowing the Trinity also helps me. The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit all have different roles. The Lord created men and women to also have different roles. Both equal roles just different. Realizing that our family was struggling when I was trying to lead and then I would get frustrated when my husband did not have the confidence to lead because I was always trying to lead and take control. For me it was a pride issue. I pray this helps and I will keep praying for you. God Bless you and your husband.
I’m not a wife yet but I need this advice I’m still young and grew up being taught to be independent and never let a man control you and it ruined a good relationship for me and I’m so hurt about it
I really needed you at this point in my marriage/life. I have always been a women who has been let down, betrayed, and have spent alot of time in solitude because of it. Also, like alot of other women my age, came from a not so good childhood aswell and have not had any good role modles on how to be a good wife let alone a submissive one. Ive never seen a submissive women before only in movies or tv, the women in my family are too strong minded, but i am READY to break this generation Curse and obey to the divine and surrender 🙌🏼 so what i am trying to express is my most high gratitude for you. Thank you🙏🏼 you are my first step in this new life change/journey to become the wife i am designed to be 🙏🏼💛🌟
Glory to Jesus!! Thank you for sharing your heart. I pray that God who is perfect in strength will be that for you and help you. Allow Him to make sense of things and to heal things, may He become more and more as flesh becomes less and less 💜
Yes!! I sought God for so long in how to end the fighting in my marriage, and yes, Got taught me that. aka I was the quarreling wife. But God has taught me so much more than just that. This really isn't about ending the fighting. that is simply a biproduct of doing things...an end to the inner rage within us for wanting our own way in marriage. submission to our own husbands as unto God is about God's leadership. we submit to our own husbands..which means that each of our lives will look different because it's in accordance with who our husbands are. God then will lead each wife differently. it wont look the same for everyone. Thank you for sharing!! x
Thank you for such a beautiful informative post. My boyfriend wants to get married. At first, I was very excited, because I've waiting for a long time to meet the right one. I've been married before, but things ended terribly. Lately, I've had anxiety because I'm truly worried about what type of wife I'll be. This is because I've had so many years to myself to be independent and do I please. Getting married to the right one has been my heart's desire for a very long time. I have an amazing man and great provider. Lastly, I worried about how short or long our life spans may be after coming together and we'll have a lot of good years together.
I absolutely loved this I wish I could’ve worked on all these things when I was married. I went through so much in my marriage but no one has ever explained being submissive like you did. I can’t wait to get the chance of being married again but this time doing things the right way
For me,I find it’s who I’m submitting to. I didn’t really trust my husband’s judgment. He made some errors that signaled warning signs and hadn’t regain his strength. Looking back, there were questions I hadn’t asked, and overall i discovered I didn’t know my husband which is why submitting to him was hard. I married the idea of him. Once I started getting to learn him, it made it hard to submit. Lol I was more willing to submit in my ignorance of him.
Amen my sister! God will continue to bless you and your family for being led in how to handle things. You two will continue to be a blessing to one another in Jesus name.
I really needed to hear this im not married yet but i am manifesting it will happen with Gods will🙏 after two years of being in a relationship with my boyfriend im learning that i nees to change myself and how i approach him and speak to him and once he sees that i have changed he will then follow and change as well thank you so much for this 🙏🙌❤
I tried submitting. When I did that, he hazed me like crazy. Demanded I stop wearing a bra, and made all these crazy demands that ended up hurting me. He became obsessed with seeing how far he could push me and how much he could get away with. I wanted to be a good Christian wife. He went from being a nice good boyfriend to a demonic husband as soon as I submitted as a wife. It works in theory, but in my experience it doesn't work in real life. Be extremely careful to who you submit to. There are lots of grifters out there.
IF YOUR CHRISTIAN HUSBAND GOES TO CHURCH, HE SHOULD BE IN THE HABIT OF SUBMITTING HIMSELF TO OTHER CHRISTIANS. 21 Submit yourselves to one another because of your reverence for Christ. (Eph 5:21) COMMON SENSE SAYS, IF HE IS SUBMITTING TO OTHER CHRISTIANS WHO ARE MALE AND FEMALE, HE SHOULD HAVE NO PROBLEM SUBMITTING TO HIS WIFE. HE'S ALREADY BEEN PRACTICING SUBMITTING TO BELIEVERS !!! 🔥THE WORD MAKES IT PLAIN🔥
Glory to God praise the Lord 🙏 So glad Abba Father led me to find your channel. Peace and blessings to you as a Christian woman and wife so delighted to hear your godly advice 🙏 thank you Shalom
My husband is very fearful of everything and had me in the house with my baby for like a year. He also won’t let me get a job, won’t let me visit my family while he works, cusses at me, won’t let me see friends “in the name of safety”. How do I submit to this?
That's worrisome. Please seek wise counsel on whether this could be abuse. Or your husband has a mental heath issue? Either way, what he is doing is NOT normal or healthy. Praying God works in your situation 🙏
This is not godly leadership at all and it is very concerning. This level of “fear” is demonic tournament and not wise. If you desire to get a job, see family, have friends, leave the house, there is nothing wrong with these things. Additionally, him cussing at you is very unloving. I would advise couples counseling right away. Pray for God to intervene and give you wisdom on how to get help and to establish a change.
I wish my husband would ask to spend a WHOLE day every week just with me! He’s always too busy for me and I crave more time with him. You are a lucky woman
That is something that I had to learn to be thankful for. I am normally the busy one and so I did not always see that as a blessing. God had to really mature me and I see it now as a blessing. I encourage you to keep praying for more time to open up for you and your husband and maybe even ask your husband if you can plan a staycation with him soon. 🙏🏽 God bless you! And thank you for your comment 💜
This is a great video for people to learn how to live a better holy life married before the Lord.. I’m so sorry that I got married to this woman she hates hearing my voice and plays little mental games to defeat me and cut me off from her heart….
Could you make a video about how to be a submissive wife while your husband is learning how to lead? We are young and we really need help with this. Thank you so much ❤️
I seriously would love to pick your brain! I love your enthusiasm and honesty! I feel like I need guidance in this area and making both our wants and needs met. 😅
I will be sending out an email soon to all the email subscribers on a new program that includes weekly calls together! Hopefully we will be able to connect there! You can subscribe at spicedwife.com
I have a beautiful marriage but I feel her lack of submission separates me from her a ton. I enter into this topic with her quite often, I just sent her this video, maybe listening to the same thing from another person makes her understand. Our marriage is really good compared to many, but I know it would be exceptional if she submitted. I am eager to give more out of myself, but It doesn't work if she doesn't submit, even though I have tried, but it simply doesn't work out without submission from her side.
👏🏽 👏🏽 At first I thought amen I need to be submissive in my future marriage. Then I realized this can be used in all relationships, work, family, friends, serving allat
Idk how i can upon your video but ma'am. God told me something last night and you said it verbatim. Wow. That was my yes. Thank you for this. You just helped me save my relationship 💕 🙌
I struggle with being submissive when it comes to money. I work hard to make money. I tithe, and give and I have to consult with a non-believer on what to do with My money. I also can't treat my self to certain luxuries and he wants me to save all this money. No, No, No. I don't wanna do this but I have to.
I ASK FOR YOU ALL PRAYERS, PLEASE! I sent my wife this video. Not sure if she watched it. I assumed not, as we are separating now. I love her but she is so disrespectful now. I come home to fussing, accusing, blame, others are better.....etc. I'm done. I work 6 days a week, allow her to handle the money, she has 2 new vehicles (Jeep Wrangler - Ford King Ranch), just gave her control of almost 100k that she blew, she had new everything. She doesn't work....but stated that I can only have sex a certain time of the day, and she does not feel that she should have to cook all the time for me. When I asked to have special time like coffee mornings with breakfast (and volunteered to help make it, she refused), when I get up to work, being very quiet, she gets upset cause she says she needs sleep. So I see all these wives, many who are not Christian, and they are humble and sweet. I think I deserve that. We all have our flaws and I've been praying, fasting & reading to be a better husband. But I listened to you and heard the songs "It's in God's Hand Now" by Anointed and "You Just Don't Want To Know" by Marvin Winans that's what's getting me thru. I'm tired. I want a Godly wife so bad....but I question. Thank you and Jesus blessed the women who listen to you
God took a rib from Adams chest to create Eve. Why the rib? For it is under man’s arm, for a woman’s protection. It is by man’s side, for a woman to walk. And it is close to man’s heart for woman to be fully loved.
@latishaconey5883 but it's his wife he chose. The only one he loves, the only one he mantioned. His asking for prayers to mend his marriage not destruction to a family his invested in. Can we pray for this wonderful man. Only a few left in this world, and if another women gets a chance at love, im happy and I will celebrate with her. Well yes even if it's not me. You are in my prayers brother 🙏 ❤️ 💙
Absolutely Queen your correct and I also send prayers 🙏..as I apologize for my short notice I was at work at the time but you perfectly said it all My love
Feminism says compete with him.
God says complete him.
A word
AMEN OKAY!!!!!
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I noted! Thank you 🎉
Hm. Ok.
The Lord has lead me here because whew!! I needed this talk!! 😭😭😭
Yesss!!! Glory to Jesus!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
She is awesome, right ‼️‼️
Same here sis! 🙌😓
Hello Sis. Please I need your help. I feel like am loosing focus. How may I reach you privately please
Me too!! Thank you Jesus ❤
When my wife chooses to treat me like a king, by trusting me and respecting my decisions, i take 5 times more attention and care with the decisions i make for us to ensure i am truly treating her like my queen. Confrontational couples will never know the loyalty a woman can gain by choosing to give hers first.
I was praying for an answer to my marriage and found you. I so needed this my marriage was getting really bad but I'm willing to surrender all now. Thank you❤
Hallelujah! Glory to Jesus!! 🙌🏽
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I don’t know a thing about being a wife , as far as examples in real life ….never seen a successful marriage in my family so I have no one to teach me. Glad I found this video !
Me too. Noone in my family ever had a good marriage. War zones.
Same. Marriage is a joke to my family
It’s also the curse of Eve. To have the desire to rule and yet the husband must rule over her. We must realize God made Adam and then later said he needed a helpmate, a rib. We are a part of him. To support, love and protect HIM. He is before us after he submits himself to God. When I really got this and became filled with the Holy Spirit, God has put all of this on my heart. And I’ve been training myself to be a wife, although I am not yet married.
Amen!
Thank you for this because my bf and I speak on forever under God. I fight with practical wifely duties and meanings to give and submit. Reading this makes me feel understood and okay to fulfill those thoughts into genuine actions.
You're forgetting that Christ overcame the curse.
Very true! My grand father married 8 times and the only one he respected and ended staying with forever was my submissive grandmother. He left her with everything so that she could keep the family together. She was able to keep the family together and today even though she passed away the family is united under her grand parenting
Amen!! 🙏🏽💜
“Fuss or follow” wow! That’s a message. This was helpful. The part about studying the word on your own instead of fussing about it was a great reminder for me.
Couldn't agree more. My husband's biggest turn off is when I defy his authority, when I defy his leadership. He always does right by me, I trust him with my love and I see him being such a great leader in our relationship, I willingly submit to his authority because he knows best what is good for me and for us.
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The first thing you said before it actually started was on point
Thank you!
It’s crazy how I clicked this video first! I definitely needed to hear this❤
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Listening to this makes me feel like I’m on the right track… changing mindset and learning to follow God’s Instructions
Yessss amen!! You are on the right track!!
It is true!! There are ups and downs , but yes, when I am happy, productive , respectful and serving my husband my husband is his best because it makes him feel good seeing me feeling good ...!!
I'm almost 3 weeks married now. And this is so encouraging. It's an encouragement for me to build on good foundations. Thank you for this ❤
Amen! Glory to Jesus. Thank you for your comment.
Congratulations
I make 6 figures; as does my husband. He’s literally helped support all of my dreams. I will never let anyone in my space. He’s everything to me. We’re almost 20 years in. I’m 40 years old; he’s never been anything but kind, and supportive. I will never think he’s deserves anything short of gratitude, love, adoration or affection and attention.
Amen! Many wives can benefit from hearing your love towards your husband! It’s very encouraging. Thank you for sharing.
I am so glad to hear this from a believer woman. Many church women today operate just as unbelievers, since their husbands are believers they are being tortured internally since they can’t go outside of their marriages for comfort. I love this.
I looked up "How to be a great wife to my husband" and your video popped up. So glad I found your channel 💯
Amen! Glory to Jesus! 🙌🏽🙏🏽💜
God definitely blessed me with this video because this was my biggest struggle
Amen!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Your example of Thursday and how that naturally flows us into seeking the Kingdom first was absolute gold for me today. This is my first time seeing your content and I immediately subscribed. Thank you beautiful woman of God! I look forward to learning more from you.
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Your husband is blessed to have a wife thats a woman of faith! I know God will continue to bless yall and keep you united.
Listen I am the queen of reminding me to submit!!! I have seen my hubby become all that I have ever wanted. And people say we are goals but we are literally just submitting to one another. It is not that hard lol.
4 in the morning and this touched my spirit 😩🤌🏽
Ashlyn, its Danny Hernandez from Zomorano and SCPA..... An argument with my wife last night led me here. Super proud of you and your wisdom. This is far more valuable than rubies.
Hi Danny!!!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 God is so good!!!
The first sentence of this video is EVERYTHING!! I thank God for everybody who is out here spreading knowledge💯
Thank god for me stumbling across your post. Omg I'm in tears!! This really spoke to me!!! Thank you for this!
OMG this is what i needed to hear. God Bless you and you spoke the truth. This Should be a prerequiste before anyone gets married!!!!!
God bless you thank you so much for this word am a new wife marriage of nearly 4months but we are so distant but after listening to this your words everything has changed for the better God be praise
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Amen!!! Thank You Jesus!! I praise Him with you 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
If God is calling me to do something. He is going to complete the work. 👏🏽 Amen
Do remember one thing... if either spouse is hurting a child sexually or sending them to the hospital from violence it is your responsibility to get out. There are battery shelters for men as well as women. Some of the shelters have had to take men due to the wives beating them. Do not put up with abuse. In some countries there are absconding services to get you to safety.
Thankyou for this! My marriage is suffering but I know My God Jesus will restore all
Every woman need to see this video and play it on repeat and take notes
Oh thank the Lord for this wisdom, i was so ready to walk out, my husbands daily negativity towards work and life got the better of me. I was so ready to just go and be in “peace”. I love him so but its destroying me
Thanks!
This is the best advice I’ve ever received! You are amazing! Im married and I want to be the best wife I can be. I had no guidance so I’m seeking for wisdom and your advice helped so much ! Thank you Queen 🙏🙏
God help me to be the best wife to my husband , help me to be the submissive,encouraging,supportive,understanding,mature wife to the man you ordained for me . Let him find peace in me and not outside the home . Lord bless me with a man who is willing to work on us till we become the couple that glorifies God . I love you my husband ,I pray to meet you soonest 🎉❤❤❤
Thank you for being so transparent. Keep preaching submission message!!!
Amen! Thank you! Glory to Jesus!
I am so happy the Heavenly Father guided me to this video. Thank you for making this video.
I’m so glad that I ran across this video. I love my husband and I’m ready to learn and apply everything into my marriage for my husband and our marriage.
Amen! I just want to say to spoke what I too have experienced! Bless you for teaching others the path to a blessed marriage. We are going to our first church service this Sunday. It was his idea! This man that was once an atheist. 😮
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I recently started on my journey of being a submissive wife and it literally was the most joy I have ever ever had in my marriage it blew my mind as well. Thank you Jesus!
Hi, how did you start that journey....I seriously need it
@@nikiwenhlapo2978 I am praying for you. I started because The Holy Spirit convicted me. Reading scripture for encouragement on being the wife The Lord wants me to be helps me. Knowing the Trinity also helps me. The Father, The Son and The Holy Spirit all have different roles. The Lord created men and women to also have different roles. Both equal roles just different. Realizing that our family was struggling when I was trying to lead and then I would get frustrated when my husband did not have the confidence to lead because I was always trying to lead and take control. For me it was a pride issue. I pray this helps and I will keep praying for you. God Bless you and your husband.
I’m not a wife yet but I need this advice I’m still young and grew up being taught to be independent and never let a man control you and it ruined a good relationship for me and I’m so hurt about it
Yeah..this uber independent, boss babe, I don't need no man stance is detrimental.
Omg thank u I needed to hear this. I’m a new wife and learning how to become a better wife by surrendering
Wow ! You are so blessed, so wise, I pray God increase you.
I really needed you at this point in my marriage/life. I have always been a women who has been let down, betrayed, and have spent alot of time in solitude because of it.
Also, like alot of other women my age, came from a not so good childhood aswell and have not had any good role modles on how to be a good wife let alone a submissive one. Ive never seen a submissive women before only in movies or tv, the women in my family are too strong minded, but i am READY to break this generation Curse and obey to the divine and surrender 🙌🏼 so what i am trying to express is my most high gratitude for you. Thank you🙏🏼 you are my first step in this new life change/journey to become the wife i am designed to be 🙏🏼💛🌟
Glory to Jesus!! Thank you for sharing your heart. I pray that God who is perfect in strength will be that for you and help you. Allow Him to make sense of things and to heal things, may He become more and more as flesh becomes less and less 💜
"When we think we can do marriage better than God then we fail" Whew! That was a mouthful. Studying your channel to be a better wife
Amen!! Glory to Jesus! 🙏🏽💜
A submissive wife is a powerful woman she can get her husband to move mountains for her submission is power under control
GIVE ME ADVICE ❤
Well said! ❤
Yes!! I sought God for so long in how to end the fighting in my marriage, and yes, Got taught me that. aka I was the quarreling wife. But God has taught me so much more than just that. This really isn't about ending the fighting. that is simply a biproduct of doing things...an end to the inner rage within us for wanting our own way in marriage. submission to our own husbands as unto God is about God's leadership. we submit to our own husbands..which means that each of our lives will look different because it's in accordance with who our husbands are. God then will lead each wife differently. it wont look the same for everyone. Thank you for sharing!! x
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Thank you for such a beautiful informative post. My boyfriend wants to get married. At first, I was very excited, because I've waiting for a long time to meet the right one. I've been married before, but things ended terribly. Lately, I've had anxiety because I'm truly worried about what type of wife I'll be. This is because I've had so many years to myself to be independent and do I please. Getting married to the right one has been my heart's desire for a very long time. I have an amazing man and great provider. Lastly, I worried about how short or long our life spans may be after coming together and we'll have a lot of good years together.
Anxiety and worry come from the pit. Enjoy your engagement. It's ok to be vulnerable & tell your man about your weak areas.
I absolutely loved this I wish I could’ve worked on all these things when I was married. I went through so much in my marriage but no one has ever explained being submissive like you did. I can’t wait to get the chance of being married again but this time doing things the right way
For me,I find it’s who I’m submitting to. I didn’t really trust my husband’s judgment. He made some errors that signaled warning signs and hadn’t regain his strength. Looking back, there were questions I hadn’t asked, and overall i discovered I didn’t know my husband which is why submitting to him was hard. I married the idea of him. Once I started getting to learn him, it made it hard to submit. Lol I was more willing to submit in my ignorance of him.
Amen my sister! God will continue to bless you and your family for being led in how to handle things. You two will continue to be a blessing to one another in Jesus name.
Amen! In Jesus name! 💜🙏🏽 thank you!
Surely......the silent killer of marriage!!!!! I really need total submission. I really needed this!😭😭😭
Glory to Jesus for your growth and willingness to obey God! Many doors open when we submit to God! 🙌🏽
I am almost losing my marriage cos i keep forcing things, i pray God help me restore my marriage
Feminism ideology is destroying family units designed by God. I am blessed to have watch this video.
Right on! It's called respecting your man just like Bible says.
I really needed to hear this im not married yet but i am manifesting it will happen with Gods will🙏 after two years of being in a relationship with my boyfriend im learning that i nees to change myself and how i approach him and speak to him and once he sees that i have changed he will then follow and change as well thank you so much for this 🙏🙌❤
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This made me cry! I really needed to hear this thank you 🙏🏽
I'm getting married soon, I need this I always believe in being a submission thanks very much for this, because my dream are to be a great wife
I'm gonna have to watch more of your videos! Thank you for this
I tried submitting. When I did that, he hazed me like crazy. Demanded I stop wearing a bra, and made all these crazy demands that ended up hurting me. He became obsessed with seeing how far he could push me and how much he could get away with. I wanted to be a good Christian wife. He went from being a nice good boyfriend to a demonic husband as soon as I submitted as a wife. It works in theory, but in my experience it doesn't work in real life. Be extremely careful to who you submit to. There are lots of grifters out there.
Sis, thank you! Genuinely
My pleasure! Glory to Jesus!! 🙌🏽💜
This was awesome, thank you ❤
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Definitely needed to hear this ❤❤
Jacki Angel at Ascension Presents has a great short on this too.
Ine thing, you are never required to submit to anything sinful.
IF YOUR CHRISTIAN HUSBAND GOES TO CHURCH, HE SHOULD BE IN THE HABIT OF SUBMITTING HIMSELF TO OTHER CHRISTIANS.
21 Submit yourselves to one another because of your reverence for Christ. (Eph 5:21)
COMMON SENSE SAYS, IF HE IS SUBMITTING TO OTHER CHRISTIANS WHO ARE MALE AND FEMALE, HE SHOULD HAVE NO PROBLEM SUBMITTING TO HIS WIFE. HE'S ALREADY BEEN PRACTICING SUBMITTING TO BELIEVERS !!!
🔥THE WORD MAKES IT PLAIN🔥
You got it completely wrong and added your own words too…
God Bless you everyday of your life!
Thank you!! Glory to Jesus!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Feminism is a lie , thank you for being here with this message ❤
Girl, this video ate! Thank you woman of God!
Glory to God praise the Lord 🙏 So glad Abba Father led me to find your channel. Peace and blessings to you as a Christian woman and wife so delighted to hear your godly advice 🙏 thank you Shalom
This is true.
You look a lot like Bindi Marc, shes a Christian womanhood UA-camr
I love Bindi.
My husband is very fearful of everything and had me in the house with my baby for like a year. He also won’t let me get a job, won’t let me visit my family while he works, cusses at me, won’t let me see friends “in the name of safety”. How do I submit to this?
That's worrisome. Please seek wise counsel on whether this could be abuse. Or your husband has a mental heath issue? Either way, what he is doing is NOT normal or healthy. Praying God works in your situation 🙏
This is not godly leadership at all and it is very concerning. This level of “fear” is demonic tournament and not wise. If you desire to get a job, see family, have friends, leave the house, there is nothing wrong with these things. Additionally, him cussing at you is very unloving. I would advise couples counseling right away. Pray for God to intervene and give you wisdom on how to get help and to establish a change.
Thank you. Great word
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I wish my husband would ask to spend a WHOLE day every week just with me! He’s always too busy for me and I crave more time with him. You are a lucky woman
That is something that I had to learn to be thankful for. I am normally the busy one and so I did not always see that as a blessing. God had to really mature me and I see it now as a blessing. I encourage you to keep praying for more time to open up for you and your husband and maybe even ask your husband if you can plan a staycation with him soon. 🙏🏽 God bless you! And thank you for your comment 💜
I’m enjoying your video and it’s not even done yet. Well said.
This is a great video for people to learn how to live a better holy life married before the Lord.. I’m so sorry that I got married to this woman she hates hearing my voice and plays little mental games to defeat me and cut me off from her heart….
Wow! I got an education today. I really enjoyed this video. It was very informative for me. Thank you so much. God Bless!
Thank you for sharing!! Glory to Jesus! 🙌🏽
God bless you ma 🙏 ❤ 🎉
This was intense and I feel every woman who loves Jesus and Fears God needs this
Of course the world will antagonise this
Thank you!! Glory to Jesus!! 🙌🏽
This truly blessed me.
Could you make a video about how to be a submissive wife while your husband is learning how to lead? We are young and we really need help with this. Thank you so much ❤️
Yes, I am writing that one down now. Great question! Keep a look out for it in the next few coming up. 💜
@@spicedwifelove it! Thank you!
I seriously would love to pick your brain! I love your enthusiasm and honesty! I feel like I need guidance in this area and making both our wants and needs met. 😅
I will be sending out an email soon to all the email subscribers on a new program that includes weekly calls together! Hopefully we will be able to connect there! You can subscribe at spicedwife.com
I needed this also. I believe that God will help me and him change for a stronger Godly relationship. Thank you 🙏
Thank u. I needed to hear this
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Thank you - I needed this.
I have a beautiful marriage but I feel her lack of submission separates me from her a ton. I enter into this topic with her quite often, I just sent her this video, maybe listening to the same thing from another person makes her understand. Our marriage is really good compared to many, but I know it would be exceptional if she submitted. I am eager to give more out of myself, but It doesn't work if she doesn't submit, even though I have tried, but it simply doesn't work out without submission from her side.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this! ❤
i think God sent me here.
I love when you used submission in a normal everyday life 👏🏾 Yup! We either are submitting to God or everything else 💕
I needed this!!
Thank you ❤
👏🏽 👏🏽 At first I thought amen I need to be submissive in my future marriage. Then I realized this can be used in all relationships, work, family, friends, serving allat
I needed this so much, thank you love 💕 blessings ✨
Idk how i can upon your video but ma'am. God told me something last night and you said it verbatim. Wow. That was my yes. Thank you for this. You just helped me save my relationship 💕 🙌
Glory to Jesus!!!
Thx for this video❤
Thank you so much for this talk 🙏🏾
I struggle with being submissive when it comes to money. I work hard to make money. I tithe, and give and I have to consult with a non-believer on what to do with My money. I also can't treat my self to certain luxuries and he wants me to save all this money. No, No, No. I don't wanna do this but I have to.
Thank you for your comment. The next video to be released will be to help in this area. God bless you!
Amen this is powerful
Amen! Glory to Jesus 🙏🏽🙌🏽💜
The inner desires are called the passions which are fine unless they run amok
I ASK FOR YOU ALL PRAYERS, PLEASE!
I sent my wife this video. Not sure if she watched it. I assumed not, as we are separating now. I love her but she is so disrespectful now. I come home to fussing, accusing, blame, others are better.....etc. I'm done.
I work 6 days a week, allow her to handle the money, she has 2 new vehicles (Jeep Wrangler - Ford King Ranch), just gave her control of almost 100k that she blew, she had new everything.
She doesn't work....but stated that I can only have sex a certain time of the day, and she does not feel that she should have to cook all the time for me. When I asked to have special time like coffee mornings with breakfast (and volunteered to help make it, she refused), when I get up to work, being very quiet, she gets upset cause she says she needs sleep.
So I see all these wives, many who are not Christian, and they are humble and sweet. I think I deserve that. We all have our flaws and I've been praying, fasting & reading to be a better husband. But I listened to you and heard the songs "It's in God's Hand Now" by Anointed and "You Just Don't Want To Know" by Marvin Winans that's what's getting me thru.
I'm tired. I want a Godly wife so bad....but I question.
Thank you and Jesus blessed the women who listen to you
God took a rib from Adams chest to create Eve. Why the rib? For it is under man’s arm, for a woman’s protection. It is by man’s side, for a woman to walk. And it is close to man’s heart for woman to be fully loved.
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@latishaconey5883 but it's his wife he chose. The only one he loves, the only one he mantioned. His asking for prayers to mend his marriage not destruction to a family his invested in. Can we pray for this wonderful man. Only a few left in this world, and if another women gets a chance at love, im happy and I will celebrate with her. Well yes even if it's not me. You are in my prayers brother 🙏 ❤️ 💙
Absolutely Queen your correct and I also send prayers 🙏..as I apologize for my short notice I was at work at the time but you perfectly said it all My love
Sounds like she's not saved. Oh Lord Jesus! Do warfare. Ephesians 6. I would hope your getting good fellowship? The loving care & support of others?