What Does It Mean To Be INFJ? The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people. 00:00 INTRO 00:20 10 They easily get frustrated by irrational people 01:36 09 They are often left alone 02:44 08 Their responsibilities can sometimes overwhelm them 03:39 07 They will sound arrogant when they are just asserting their opinions 04:46 06 Society expects them to be the bigger person all the time 06:11 05 They get quickly drained 07:14 04 People often view them as experts 08:29 03 They experience a lot of pressure 09:24 02 They are constantly misjudged 10:36 01 They want to justify and rationalize almost everything Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... ♥♥♥Help Us Serve You Better!♥♥♥ Show us love and support through our Patreon: www.patreon.com/ON_TRACK Share This Video Right NOW: ua-cam.com/video/lFuddSNtk9E/v-deo.html ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! Are you an INFJ? What more would you like to add? We would definitely love to know! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT that notification bell to get the latest updates! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2LY533N Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. Caption Our Video To Your Language Here: 👉👉👉 bit.ly/3gBgWbU ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Videos You May Also Like: 10 Ways That CAN TURN ON AN INFJ ua-cam.com/video/9C_hjpv5Whg/v-deo.html 10 Reasons Why The INFJ Stands Out From The Rest ua-cam.com/video/dRYZI9crnbs/v-deo.html Here's Why YOU SHOULD NEVER MESS With An EMPATH ua-cam.com/video/42CKb6wGZr4/v-deo.html Is The INFJ The TRUE ALPHA Of The MBTI? ua-cam.com/video/CBgu8SnxxHI/v-deo.html 10 Shocking Confessions of A TRUE INFJ ua-cam.com/video/iliHHAtMhm4/v-deo.html How TABOO Is The INFJ Personality? ua-cam.com/video/jIHFIBeXNr0/v-deo.html
The only time I am lonely is when I'm in a crowd, when I am alone I am farthest from lonely, though I do enjoy good company. exploding is sometimes the only way and can be very effective to get people out of my life. I'm sure I am not alone when I say I am surrounded by people who are loaded with beliefs and think they know it all, I can tear apart all of their beliefs leaving them looking stupid and full of revenge, I thrive on it
I recently came across two quotes (I can't remember where or from who they were), which helped me a lot dealing with the situation I'm in. I'll write them both in my own way but I won't take credit for them: "I'd rather spend time learning to understand myself, instead of explaining myself to someone who won't understand." and "Pick one: feeling lonely when you're with company or feeling accompanied when you're alone." I could say so much more about the situation I'm in and maybe some of you feel the same way, feel free to msg me if you feel the need for a good conversation. Being an INFJ is certaintly a lonely life, but there's no need to feel alone. Keep doing what you do, the world needs it :)
Management of a place or job is a skill. My rawness for example is something I subdue in dealing with co-workers. You can ask or tell or demand something to be done. I've learned when you ask someone to do a task and include others and ask politely for their recommendation or way of doing things is way more productive rather than just telling or demanding it be done. This is where the skill part comes in.
I love engaging in honest conversations with people who see the world differently than me. This expands my knowledge. I gravitate to people from all different cultures. But because I am so open minded, I have learned to be careful with whom I share this knowledge with. Not many people know my feelings or views on things.
These are certainly relatable to me on all points but at the same time, it hurts. Being... what? The sane one when everybody else going insane? becoming the bigger person when everybody else going nuts? Being the responsible one because of highly skilled and the smartest in the room? Being left alone just because you can deal with the problem by yourself? And resounding NO! echoes through my mind.... I can't help it if chaos is brewing the workplace, I need to keep order for the work to continue. I can't help but took up the responsibility because the company is bigger than just one person selfish desire. I can't help it but deal with the problem or workload because the work must continue to fill in the order of the day even if I have to go at it alone. The clients are waiting. Yes, I can do it. But that doesn't mean I like to do it that way. I'm not superman or Hercules that have the strength of 100 men in my arms and mind to bear the burden by myself. I'm just a normal guy with a very human ability, even if I'm an INFJ. People just don't get it. Being smart-shamed, being laugh at because I worked too hard, is a normal occurrences in my daily lives. Sometimes i just want to leave it all and let them have at it and see how they deal with it, you know. Why should I care? Why must I care? They don't care if I was under tremendous pressure because of the insanely heavy workloads that was meant for a team, not just one person. They don't care if all that stress and pressure put my health and mental at risk. But me being me, I just can't put the weight down. I just can't not care about the company just because of the action of a few. Was there ever an instant that being an INFJ is fun and enjoyable? And then they asked me why don't you have any friends? Friends? Who? Where can I find them? Those people who are around me are only there to take benefit and advantage over me, using me as their stepping stones even if they are all smiles and friendly while being around me. Hard for me to trust when I know for certain a person wouldn't hesitate to stab me in the back when I'm no longer are of any use to them. Being strong and intelligent also comes with being on guard and shields up all the time, because you're essentially putting up a target face square in the middle of your back. People are envious and intimidated by you, feeling small and inconsequential whenever you are around. People don't like that. Especially when it is proven that they cannot match your output even if they came at it together. That's why they always leave you alone dealing with stuff. Everyday is a battle to be fought.(not really, but INFJs likes that sort of metaphorically speaking LMAO🤣) and it's very, very tiring. It's a real struggle, but as the saying goes, when going gets tough, the tough gets going!!!
I know exactly what you're saying. While I'm not sure it's something I can ever turn off, I do believe this comes from a negative psychological state of mind and requires an overhaul to my thinking. How do I deal with others? I have to open my mouth and voice my displeasure when I know it's needed. I have to become an effective communicator and stick to my guns, even if I hate having to do it. It's a process, but a needed one.
I think over analysing comes to us whether we want it or not as a sign and mechanism to say there is an issue to be resolved. Because of our dogged determination to see things through it will keep playing on our minds until we can settle a problem. On the other hand saying that, we have to learn to see that we can only control what is in our power to do so, everything else is out of our control and trying to fix what cannot be fixed is just getting blood out of a stone.
Point 5 definitely resonates as, despite hearing other videos saying how valued we are in the workplace and promoted, I never found this but was exploited then looked over as I would never conform to the corporate hierarchy and self - promotion, stepping on others or butt - kissing. Always have to tell the truth and be true to myself.
What u said are all true for me. Thanks for the exact reading. It's indeed, the hardest for me when I'm misunderstood, as someone as wanting to be superior, that I just cannot express at all averything about it, because I believe, the talk is just going to turn completely awful. I don't want to elaborate that part of me that others find as my strength, yet they can't accept it because they find it strongly awful. It's not my fault if they can't accept my naturality. It's their problem, not mine at all. Besides, I'm tired and almost exhausted of walking on eggshells just to be able to fit in. It still ends up with being seen negative. Well, the best thing to do here I guess, is to remain my natural self. That's it, because in this, I feel like I'm not losing my true self by adjusting too much for people who don't actually understand me. And that includes even my beloved family and friends. They simply can't understand enough of our differences and put respect to them. God bless to everyone who is hear, too, wanting some light. :) You're not alone. I'm with you my friends. Stay strong. ;) End of sharing.
As an IFNJ do I often overanalyse things? 🤔Is the sky blue? 😂😂 Goodness me, I often have to tell my mind , enough already!!So many true points in this. Last I talked to my sister in person she looked totally bored, and was looking for an ‘ escape’. Yes, it can be very lonely and hurtful.
It's not just the intelligence but also a superior memory.. I've won chess tournaments but I've been beat plenty of times however I've never met another player who can play blindfold let alone beat me at blindfold chess. Memory is key.
I think some of these titles are misleading. Typical intelligence is equated with other types like INTPs. We are intelligent, but our intelligence is also a bit different than the other types. I think we are best when we are balanced with others. ❤
Even the Bible has this to say about intelligence. “For in much wisdom is much grief, And he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.” Ecclesiastes 1:18 NKJV
Oh boy, I just wish I could share this with whom I would hope would understand but yea they'd hone on the "intellectually superior" aspect of the title and conclude that im just trying to be boastful. Lol fun times.
I think we do have very much no. Of times have regular ego breaks like a lot and it's just not a bad thing anymore it's entertaining actually although if someone who is completely depended on pride and if their ego hurt it scars them which is sad but it think it's helpful
It's not just the intelligence but also a superior memory.. I've won chess tournaments but I've been beat plenty of times however I've never met another player who can play blindfold let alone beat me at blindfold chess. Memory is key.
@@Susweca5569 Yes. I described the left hemisphere version of eidetic memory. What you described is the right hemisphere version of eidetic memory. I have both. We are very hard to gaslight. I believe these are the attributes of very young children. I believe our trauma started very early, I know mine did. This forced self awareness before growing out of these abilities. You say you can see where the air was moved? Can you see the mental pictures people leave behind?
What Does It Mean To Be INFJ?
The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people.
00:00 INTRO
00:20 10 They easily get frustrated by irrational people
01:36 09 They are often left alone
02:44 08 Their responsibilities can sometimes overwhelm them
03:39 07 They will sound arrogant when they are just asserting their opinions
04:46 06 Society expects them to be the bigger person all the time
06:11 05 They get quickly drained
07:14 04 People often view them as experts
08:29 03 They experience a lot of pressure
09:24 02 They are constantly misjudged
10:36 01 They want to justify and rationalize almost everything
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intelligence is about understanding ideas and being able to piece things together. no wonder infjs are intelligent (dom ni)
Our genius comes from the Spirit world primarily but has a strange symmetry with the carnal world..knowing without knowing why or how is common
I think INFJ'S are the 144000 the bible speaks of.
The only time I am lonely is when I'm in a crowd, when I am alone I am farthest from lonely, though I do enjoy good company.
exploding is sometimes the only way and can be very effective to get people out of my life.
I'm sure I am not alone when I say I am surrounded by people who are loaded with beliefs and think they know it all, I can tear apart all of their beliefs leaving them looking stupid and full of revenge, I thrive on it
I bet it's tremendous
@@sciwiali3503 you would be surprised
I recently came across two quotes (I can't remember where or from who they were), which helped me a lot dealing with the situation I'm in. I'll write them both in my own way but I won't take credit for them:
"I'd rather spend time learning to understand myself, instead of explaining myself to someone who won't understand."
and
"Pick one: feeling lonely when you're with company or feeling accompanied when you're alone."
I could say so much more about the situation I'm in and maybe some of you feel the same way, feel free to msg me if you feel the need for a good conversation. Being an INFJ is certaintly a lonely life, but there's no need to feel alone. Keep doing what you do, the world needs it :)
I am in full agreement with you and the quotes. Those quotes define who I am.
I hear you
Management of a place or job is a skill. My rawness for example is something I subdue in dealing with co-workers. You can ask or tell or demand something to be done. I've learned when you ask someone to do a task and include others and ask politely for their recommendation or way of doing things is way more productive rather than just telling or demanding it be done. This is where the skill part comes in.
I love engaging in honest conversations with people who see the world differently than me. This expands my knowledge. I gravitate to people from all different cultures. But because I am so open minded, I have learned to be careful with whom I share this knowledge with. Not many people know my feelings or views on things.
These are certainly relatable to me on all points but at the same time, it hurts.
Being... what? The sane one when everybody else going insane? becoming the bigger person when everybody else going nuts? Being the responsible one because of highly skilled and the smartest in the room? Being left alone just because you can deal with the problem by yourself? And resounding NO! echoes through my mind....
I can't help it if chaos is brewing the workplace, I need to keep order for the work to continue.
I can't help but took up the responsibility because the company is bigger than just one person selfish desire.
I can't help it but deal with the problem or workload because the work must continue to fill in the order of the day even if I have to go at it alone. The clients are waiting.
Yes, I can do it. But that doesn't mean I like to do it that way. I'm not superman or Hercules that have the strength of 100 men in my arms and mind to bear the burden by myself. I'm just a normal guy with a very human ability, even if I'm an INFJ. People just don't get it. Being smart-shamed, being laugh at because I worked too hard, is a normal occurrences in my daily lives. Sometimes i just want to leave it all and let them have at it and see how they deal with it, you know.
Why should I care? Why must I care? They don't care if I was under tremendous pressure because of the insanely heavy workloads that was meant for a team, not just one person. They don't care if all that stress and pressure put my health and mental at risk.
But me being me, I just can't put the weight down. I just can't not care about the company just because of the action of a few.
Was there ever an instant that being an INFJ is fun and enjoyable? And then they asked me why don't you have any friends? Friends? Who? Where can I find them? Those people who are around me are only there to take benefit and advantage over me, using me as their stepping stones even if they are all smiles and friendly while being around me. Hard for me to trust when I know for certain a person wouldn't hesitate to stab me in the back when I'm no longer are of any use to them.
Being strong and intelligent also comes with being on guard and shields up all the time, because you're essentially putting up a target face square in the middle of your back. People are envious and intimidated by you, feeling small and inconsequential whenever you are around. People don't like that. Especially when it is proven that they cannot match your output even if they came at it together. That's why they always leave you alone dealing with stuff. Everyday is a battle to be fought.(not really, but INFJs likes that sort of metaphorically speaking LMAO🤣) and it's very, very tiring.
It's a real struggle, but as the saying goes, when going gets tough, the tough gets going!!!
I know exactly what you're saying. While I'm not sure it's something I can ever turn off, I do believe this comes from a negative psychological state of mind and requires an overhaul to my thinking. How do I deal with others? I have to open my mouth and voice my displeasure when I know it's needed. I have to become an effective communicator and stick to my guns, even if I hate having to do it. It's a process, but a needed one.
I think over analysing comes to us whether we want it or not as a sign and mechanism to say there is an issue to be resolved. Because of our dogged determination to see things through it will keep playing on our minds until we can settle a problem. On the other hand saying that, we have to learn to see that we can only control what is in our power to do so, everything else is out of our control and trying to fix what cannot be fixed is just getting blood out of a stone.
This is the BEST Description/Example of the INFJ I've Ever Heard!!! Just- WOW!
Point 5 definitely resonates as, despite hearing other videos saying how valued we are in the workplace and promoted, I never found this but was exploited then looked over as I would never conform to the corporate hierarchy and self - promotion, stepping on others or butt - kissing. Always have to tell the truth and be true to myself.
What u said are all true for me. Thanks for the exact reading. It's indeed, the hardest for me when I'm misunderstood, as someone as wanting to be superior, that I just cannot express at all averything about it, because I believe, the talk is just going to turn completely awful. I don't want to elaborate that part of me that others find as my strength, yet they can't accept it because they find it strongly awful. It's not my fault if they can't accept my naturality. It's their problem, not mine at all. Besides, I'm tired and almost exhausted of walking on eggshells just to be able to fit in. It still ends up with being seen negative. Well, the best thing to do here I guess, is to remain my natural self. That's it, because in this, I feel like I'm not losing my true self by adjusting too much for people who don't actually understand me. And that includes even my beloved family and friends. They simply can't understand enough of our differences and put respect to them. God bless to everyone who is hear, too, wanting some light. :) You're not alone. I'm with you my friends. Stay strong. ;) End of sharing.
As an IFNJ do I often overanalyse things? 🤔Is the sky blue? 😂😂 Goodness me, I often have to tell my mind , enough already!!So many true points in this. Last I talked to my sister in person she looked totally bored, and was looking for an ‘ escape’. Yes, it can be very lonely and hurtful.
Struggling with this, need to get this one flowing. Thank you
I wish we didn't have to justify and over rationalize just about everything, as it really Rules our lives.
So true. I am constantly evaluating instead of just enjoying.
I've never struggled with my intelligence, everyone around me did and does. 😀
😂 true that!
It's not just the intelligence but also a superior memory.. I've won chess tournaments but I've been beat plenty of times however I've never met another player who can play blindfold let alone beat me at blindfold chess. Memory is key.
I can totally relate to all all the above mentioned topics.
I have a preference for my own company 😊
I have a strong sense of justice ⚖.
Well I hope your practicing in law then :)
I practice the law ⚖ of karma.
😂 it's so true
Well an Infj is an Infj no true or false infj and alot of times are not ego puffed up. They live and let live..
This is so true.
I think some of these titles are misleading. Typical intelligence is equated with other types like INTPs. We are intelligent, but our intelligence is also a bit different than the other types. I think we are best when we are balanced with others. ❤
In a very destructive mental way literally you become paranoid forever Until you sleep sleep is like the only thing that calms it or cold shower
Even the Bible has this to say about intelligence.
“For in much wisdom is much grief, And he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.”
Ecclesiastes 1:18 NKJV
True
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Lolol things are always working out for me
Intelligence is a bad thing for me as infj
Oh boy, I just wish I could share this with whom I would hope would understand but yea they'd hone on the "intellectually superior" aspect of the title and conclude that im just trying to be boastful. Lol fun times.
Sounds like ego candy 🍬 🤣
I'm not amused at all.
tis a bit but we're always being brought down so a bit of ego fuel is good
I think we do have very much no. Of times have regular ego breaks like a lot and it's just not a bad thing anymore it's entertaining actually although if someone who is completely depended on pride and if their ego hurt it scars them which is sad but it think it's helpful
It's not just the intelligence but also a superior memory.. I've won chess tournaments but I've been beat plenty of times however I've never met another player who can play blindfold let alone beat me at blindfold chess. Memory is key.
My short term memory is terrible, but my long term memory is quite good; I think that is a trait of dyslexia, and I am slightly dyslexic.
@@Susweca5569 Yes. I described the left hemisphere version of eidetic memory. What you described is the right hemisphere version of eidetic memory. I have both. We are very hard to gaslight. I believe these are the attributes of very young children. I believe our trauma started very early, I know mine did. This forced self awareness before growing out of these abilities. You say you can see where the air was moved? Can you see the mental pictures people leave behind?