YOUR 2024 REINVENTION: Let Go of Your Old Self for a New Beginning (Full Guide)

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  • Опубліковано 11 чер 2024
  • This is how to actually change, so you can step into 2024 ready to glow up & create the life you want 💕
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    timestamps:
    00:00-02:15 how to actually change
    02:15-03:11 mindset to support the change
    03:11-04:04 hidden positive benefit
    04:04-06:10 example
    06:10-07:21 take responsibility
    07:21-12:00 exercise: discover and change the pattern
    12:00- why you’re scared of change
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  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani 5 місяців тому +19

    I ❤ you videos. Change is hard for most people. There was a study where a person has to start a new good habit and keep doing it for 90 days to get rid of a bad habit.

  • @fe8600
    @fe8600 5 місяців тому +1

    thank you!!! i wrote everything down and this actually made me reflect and see things i otherwise wouldn’t

  • @motiveperson143
    @motiveperson143 5 місяців тому +2

    I love your videos. Girl, keep educating us❤

  • @JamieRenee101
    @JamieRenee101 2 місяці тому

    This is what I needed ❤ thank you

  • @princelujan
    @princelujan 5 місяців тому +3

    Your videos are so helpful! Thank you so much
    And the light was perfect, please don't worry about that😊

  • @thefadedglory
    @thefadedglory 5 місяців тому +1

    You are literally the big sister any sister would die for❤️

  • @larissaehrbeck2414
    @larissaehrbeck2414 5 місяців тому

    I can take away soo much of your videos! Great work, you can be really proud of yourself! Also it encourages me a lot to see you thrive 🎉👏😍

  • @sarahmonteiro3141
    @sarahmonteiro3141 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for giving such a good step by step plan for bettering myself :) ♥️ I really appreciate your videos

  • @conniechuha3113
    @conniechuha3113 5 місяців тому +6

    More great advice. Such a great way to work through barriers in our lives. You're so relatable. Love your videos!

  • @Smahanne_
    @Smahanne_ 5 місяців тому +4

    your videos are always one of the best part of my weekends ! Sets me up to achieve what I need to do ❤

    • @NikasInnerBeauty
      @NikasInnerBeauty  5 місяців тому

      awhh that makes me so happy! Thank you love🥹💕

  • @lilyneva
    @lilyneva 5 місяців тому +1

    I think this was one of your best videos. I relate to you because I am too bubbly and filled with things I have read and insights I want to share, and often I feel I overwhelm myself and anyone I try to help because I have so much I want to say.
    I don’t think you have this problem obviously, I think you come off as enthusiastic and inspiring, but I do think it might not be a bad idea to experiment with breaking things up even more when you can and try to make the videos more focused on a smaller area and methodical.
    You could even parse it down even more and do one video for each sub-topic:
    subtopic #1: understanding how the behavior is getting you something you need,
    subtopic #2: what you might subconsciously be afraid of could change if you succeed in changing the behavior.
    I think for anyone who hasn’t been able to work through things in therapy yet, and there are so many reasons why people might not have been able to, this kind of information can feel overwhelming and intimidating.
    Whenever I watch one of your videos I tend to feel happy and inspired and like I want to get going and dive in, but then in the next moment just the thought of sitting down and trying to answer one of your prompts makes my nervous system activate into a defensive self-protective stance and I feel convinced I am too tired or that I really must lay down and read Helen Fielding instead.

  • @Ornitorrincosmico
    @Ornitorrincosmico 5 місяців тому +2

    Hi Nika! I really want to thank you for your videos, i'm from Argentina (sorry for mi English), and you help me a lot, I love these topics and the way you approach them ❤

  • @user-qj5no9vp1e
    @user-qj5no9vp1e 5 місяців тому +2

    I got sick today, so this was a lovely surprise. Thank you for posting, Nika!!! Wonderfully sound content, as always.

    • @k.6160
      @k.6160 5 місяців тому +1

      I hope you feel better ☺️

  • @sophiaisa6863
    @sophiaisa6863 5 місяців тому

    I love your Videos! Thank you for your hard work!

  • @OnceUponcaAnIda
    @OnceUponcaAnIda 5 місяців тому +2

    I only discovered your channel recently but I've been watching so many of your videos already! 🥰 I also got super excited when I found out that you live in Denmark though Århus is still a little far away from me ☺️ can't wait to impliment your good ideas in my life! ❤

  • @mariatrinidad1370
    @mariatrinidad1370 5 місяців тому

    Loved this video!

  • @la_petite_carotte
    @la_petite_carotte 5 місяців тому +1

    Thank you again for your practical advice. I also believe it is important to deal first with the behaviour if we want to comit to an action. It is just more meaningful. Your prompt questions were so helpful.

  • @Thehungrytravelers
    @Thehungrytravelers 5 місяців тому

    Your lighting looks PERFECT to me lol

  • @k.6160
    @k.6160 5 місяців тому +1

    Great video!!!

  • @Happy_girl3939
    @Happy_girl3939 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much ❤🎉 this support me to make new goals a lot of

  • @lilyneva
    @lilyneva 5 місяців тому +1

    I feel this is such a ginormous topic that is rarely discussed. Not even in environments where you’d think it would be the first thing to bring to people’s attention.
    As an example, I’m currently in a therapeutic group setting once a week that is supposed to teach skills for practicing mindfulness to help with self-harm behaviors.
    So often I feel like these meetings are only making everyone feel even more ashamed and distressed because even for someone who is perfectly regulated and securely attached and lives a stable and happy life, changing unhelpful behaviors is extremely hard.
    Not once in the past three months have the instructors, who are all therapists ‘trained in trauma’, talked about the things you talk about here.

  • @Oliveiraa248
    @Oliveiraa248 5 місяців тому

    I'm brazilian and I watch your videos to practice my english, you speak well end I can understand clearly

  • @sassia2382
    @sassia2382 5 місяців тому

    Great journaling questions. Still thinking about the last. It's a hard one!

  • @Aryel241
    @Aryel241 5 місяців тому

    I just found you and oh my gosh I love these videos 🥹🥰

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 5 місяців тому

    Nice job. Thank you so much.
    Have a good Day 🙂👍

  • @cozyhobbies_
    @cozyhobbies_ 5 місяців тому

    Such a good video wow ❤❤❤

  • @irissweet_7655
    @irissweet_7655 5 місяців тому

    After watch this video, it bring me idea to improve myself 💗

  • @alisiademi
    @alisiademi 5 місяців тому +1

    This topic truly does boil down to healing trauma, psil0cybin changed everything for me ❤

  • @ruebennomura9143
    @ruebennomura9143 5 місяців тому +1

    Good job how to guide your self for 2024 a new beginning

  • @HealthZo
    @HealthZo 5 місяців тому

    😊😊😊😊😊 you are awesome

  • @multiforum2737
    @multiforum2737 5 місяців тому

    Nice video

  • @user-eb6wj6vo9l
    @user-eb6wj6vo9l 5 місяців тому

    Has she shared the notion template on her last video? With the new yr goals

  • @jukio02
    @jukio02 5 місяців тому

    I need to give up porn addiction, lose weight, and a bunch of other stuff. That's my goal.

  • @user-cl5mi3yd9q
    @user-cl5mi3yd9q 5 місяців тому +1

    I hope to learn English. The Iraqi was here 😁

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani 5 місяців тому

    2nd

  • @user-eb6wj6vo9l
    @user-eb6wj6vo9l 5 місяців тому

    Has she shared the notion template on her last video? With the new yr goals

  • @user-eb6wj6vo9l
    @user-eb6wj6vo9l 5 місяців тому

    Has she shared the notion template on her last video? With the new yr goals