Can you make video about how to recognize what is really toxicity of other people and what is only our projection? I have often hard time to recognize if someone is really toxic or it's only my victimizing and they are acting totally normal.
Yk sometimes talking about a situation A LOT or maybe overthinking about it can actually turn a simple situation into a complex one bcs now you have inserted your own ideas & beliefs in that situation honestly if you have to deal with a lot toxic people and now you can't differentiate between a toxic person & a good person you need to observe people,as they say action speaks louder than words don't believe everything people say believe in their actions and you will def catch the right person don't settle for bare minimum,,,,
And it's not your f responsibility to know what's going on their mind if they explain themselves you should be okay if they don't f$vk them it's their responsibility to tell their part until unless they say it themselves don't ask for an explanation
Genuine toxicity is typically evident in a person's behavior and actions over time. There are patterns like manipulation, disrespect,undermining others and you'll observe that through their tangible behavior that negatively impacts those around them. If that's that, seeking validation would not help . It is evident. Trust your instincts. Higher sensitivity is sometimes a blessing to have.
Hey Nika, I had to stop this video halfway and tell you something. I don’t know how and why your videos started appearing in my feed, because I don’t normally watch this kind stuff. I usually watch nerdy things. This is the fourth video by you and I wanted to say you are doing great. I am happy with my time well spent.
i actually sat and journalled and did all of the exercises you gave us in the video, and let me tell you, it was EYE-OPENING. i've been binging your videos recently, and they've felt so so good to watch, because i don't only feel called out (in the nicest way haha) but also learn how to deal with it, and learn and grow from it, and it feels so freeing to start developing and working towards being the kind of person i want to be. thank you for the time and effort you put into your videos Nika, they're a god send
This was such a great video! I love how effectively you acknowledged and held space for big feelings of shame and disgust and discomfort while also consistently holding this empowering, elevating presence and forward-focused energy. It's awesome how you used these prompts too - I think they could have really come off with that toxic positivity sort of pushy "just get over it" dude-with-a-podcast vibe you mentioned in the beginning, but they way you presented them and encouraged taking time to really feel and do each step when you're ready for it, rather than rushing to just feel better right now, ASAP, and plow through it all was brilliantly done. You're an artist! 💛
Well I don't know where to start but the bare minimum thing I can say about this video is that is awfully amazing you've saved my life girl everything was truly practical and I applied all the prompts you talked about in the video it was such a free therapy from the nicest girl I've ever seen here in youtube 😍🥰 thank you so much may you have a great day😘😘😘😘
I'm watching this video a few months late and it accurately describes my own journey when my fiance left me without a word last spring a few months before the wedding. What I did wrong and that I will never find a man again were my daily thoughts. And actually, at that moment, the most painful and at the same time the most effective thing to make it all pass is time. Yes, time. And also not to get stuck in one place.
This is truly such a good video! I've watched this and the one about confidence so far, but I plan to watch all your recent videos because damn, you hit the nail every time! Keep up the amazing work Nika
Thank you for your videos! I’m starting to work on myself and my fears and your view on things helps a lot. Could you do a video about processing your negative experiences in general? I feel like I’m always just trying to push them away in my head
Got excited when I saw your video notification come up❤ Been following you for years and I love that your posting more regularly these days❤ I find your videos to be very relatable Also in one of your old videos u mentioned a book called shadow before dawn just wanted to thank u for that because it's a life changing book and it helped me alot ❤ So thank you so very much ❤❤😊
@@NikasInnerBeauty 🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) 😍😍 Wow!!, you are too beautiful!!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. Also, check this out, if you like, this is from Artificial intelligence, chat Gpt: Prophecies in Major World Religious Books Referring to Prophet Mohammed: 1. The Bible - Deuteronomy 18:18-19, John 14:16, John 16:7-14, Isaiah 42:1-13 2. The Hindu Scriptures - Bhavishya Purana, Atharvaveda Book 20 Hymn 127-129 3. The Buddhist Scriptures - Cakkavatti-Sihanada Sutta, Anguttara Nikaya III:61, Digha Nikaya III:76-77 4. The Zoroastrian Scriptures - Zand-i Vohuman Yasht, Farvardin Yasht, Dadestan-i Denig & Regarding the verses in the Quran asking to protect non-believers or polytheists, there are several that emphasize the importance of treating all people with respect and kindness, regardless of their religious beliefs. One such verse is found in Surah Al-Mumtahanah (60:8), which states: "Allah does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly." Also In the name of God, the Most Merciful, the Most Merciful (If any of the polytheists seek protection from you, grant him protection) بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم(إن استجارك أحد من المشركين فأجره) Another verse in Surah Al-Anfal (8:61) encourages Muslims to make peace with their enemies, even if they are non-believers or polytheists: "And if they incline to peace, then incline to it also and rely upon Allah. Indeed, it is He who is the Hearing, the Knowing." & Regarding the verses in the Quran asking for justice and kindness, there are many such verses throughout the holy book. One example is found in Surah An-Nahl (16:90), which states: "Indeed, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and forbids immorality and bad conduct and oppression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded." & In terms of prophecies about Prophet Mohammed in major world religions, there are a few examples that some scholars have pointed to. One such example is found in the Bible's Book of Deuteronomy (18:18), which states: "I will raise up for them a prophet like you from among their brothers. And I will put my words in his mouth, and he shall speak to them all that I command him." Some Muslims interpret this verse as a prophecy about Prophet Mohammed. Because the Arabs are the brethren's of Israelites, The Arabs are descendants from Ishmael or Ismail the brother of Isaac the father of Israelites, and because the verse didn't say from amongst them or from their descendants, it said from their brethren's. Similarly, some scholars point to a passage in the Bhavishya Purana, an ancient Hindu text, as a prophecy about Prophet Mohammed. The passage describes a "holy man" who will come from Arabia and spread a new religion, and some argue that this refers to Mohammed and the spread of Islam.. Also search scientific miracles in the quran, harun yahya its nice, One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways,, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light.
Can you make a video about how to stop being hyperaware around others..I literally always think that should I say this?should I do this?would I annoy this person??if they get annoyed I might end up alone..
Great video! I don’t think it’s helpful to tell people to continue living their life with a victim mentality, if it’s benefiting them, after you explain why it’s a bad thing and that it is changeable. People do need to be held accountable for their life and how they treat others.
Thanks! I agree, but you also can’t force people to do something they don’t want to do/aren’t ready for. The responsibility lies in their hands, so does the choice😊
There are alot of reasons to stay in victimhood People pity you and don't call you out on your bad behavior You can shirk your responsibilities and maturity bc you tell everyone that your too broken to change Lol Whatever
People don't understand that pity isn't love
When you pity someone then you have no respect for them
Love is based on respect
Can you make video about how to recognize what is really toxicity of other people and what is only our projection? I have often hard time to recognize if someone is really toxic or it's only my victimizing and they are acting totally normal.
Omg I thought I was the only ons
I too thought Iam the only one confused about this
Yk sometimes talking about a situation A LOT or maybe overthinking about it can actually turn a simple situation into a complex one bcs now you have inserted your own ideas & beliefs in that situation honestly if you have to deal with a lot toxic people and now you can't differentiate between a toxic person & a good person you need to observe people,as they say action speaks louder than words don't believe everything people say believe in their actions and you will def catch the right person don't settle for bare minimum,,,,
And it's not your f responsibility to know what's going on their mind if they explain themselves you should be okay if they don't f$vk them it's their responsibility to tell their part until unless they say it themselves don't ask for an explanation
Genuine toxicity is typically evident in a person's behavior and actions over time. There are patterns like manipulation, disrespect,undermining others and you'll observe that through their tangible behavior that negatively impacts those around them. If that's that, seeking validation would not help . It is evident. Trust your instincts. Higher sensitivity is sometimes a blessing to have.
I feel like I just got a free therapy session, thanks for making this ❤️
Hey Nika, I had to stop this video halfway and tell you something. I don’t know how and why your videos started appearing in my feed, because I don’t normally watch this kind stuff. I usually watch nerdy things. This is the fourth video by you and I wanted to say you are doing great. I am happy with my time well spent.
i actually sat and journalled and did all of the exercises you gave us in the video, and let me tell you, it was EYE-OPENING. i've been binging your videos recently, and they've felt so so good to watch, because i don't only feel called out (in the nicest way haha) but also learn how to deal with it, and learn and grow from it, and it feels so freeing to start developing and working towards being the kind of person i want to be. thank you for the time and effort you put into your videos Nika, they're a god send
This was such a great video! I love how effectively you acknowledged and held space for big feelings of shame and disgust and discomfort while also consistently holding this empowering, elevating presence and forward-focused energy. It's awesome how you used these prompts too - I think they could have really come off with that toxic positivity sort of pushy "just get over it" dude-with-a-podcast vibe you mentioned in the beginning, but they way you presented them and encouraged taking time to really feel and do each step when you're ready for it, rather than rushing to just feel better right now, ASAP, and plow through it all was brilliantly done. You're an artist! 💛
I have been a victim of the victim narrative 😆. Nice Vid!
Well I don't know where to start but the bare minimum thing I can say about this video is that is awfully amazing you've saved my life girl everything was truly practical and I applied all the prompts you talked about in the video it was such a free therapy from the nicest girl I've ever seen here in youtube 😍🥰 thank you so much may you have a great day😘😘😘😘
that was very very helpful please keep doing videos like these please
Love these journaling prompts!
I'm watching this video a few months late and it accurately describes my own journey when my fiance left me without a word last spring a few months before the wedding. What I did wrong and that I will never find a man again were my daily thoughts. And actually, at that moment, the most painful and at the same time the most effective thing to make it all pass is time. Yes, time. And also not to get stuck in one place.
Your advice is so practical and useful. Thanks a lot!! You are a star❤
Such an eye opening video! Thank you!!!! Definitely helped me with my self awareness and application 😮 subscribed!! 👏🏽
This is truly such a good video! I've watched this and the one about confidence so far, but I plan to watch all your recent videos because damn, you hit the nail every time! Keep up the amazing work Nika
Thank you, im also sick of men just telling people who have genuinely been hurt to just "suck it up and move on"
One of the best videos on the internet Nika. Thank You
Love the New York accent (slovenski akcent oozing out ) Proud of you, soo much
Great video Nika ❤
Brillant video ❤❤❤ ! You are so wise! ❤❤❤❤
extremely helpful! Thanks for your words and work. Really appreciate it
Thank you for your videos! I’m starting to work on myself and my fears and your view on things helps a lot. Could you do a video about processing your negative experiences in general? I feel like I’m always just trying to push them away in my head
And I am trying to hold on and replay the negativity instead of just letting it go ! Good advice for the video
thank you so much for this, i really appreciate it
First video on the subject that I find really helpful
What a wonderful video. Free therapy for us!
this made me realized a lotttt of things
Very interesting video full of great pieces of advice ❤ I have a victim narrative, that's why I find this video very helpful 🙏
wow. this is amazing. thank you Nika.
so helpful!! the best advice video ever
❤️❤️❤️
Got excited when I saw your video notification come up❤
Been following you for years and I love that your posting more regularly these days❤
I find your videos to be very relatable
Also in one of your old videos u mentioned a book called shadow before dawn just wanted to thank u for that because it's a life changing book and it helped me alot ❤
So thank you so very much ❤❤😊
Awhh that is so sweet! It’s my pleasure and I’m so glad you liked it☺️
Thank you for supporting me❤️❤️
@@NikasInnerBeauty
🤩🤩Wow!!!
You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose
And more sweet than honey
and more precious than gold
You are more precious than everything that exists in this world
😍😍😍
A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all..
😍😍 WoW!!!
you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose
you are the diamond and the pure gold
you are the lovely moon in our nights
you are the radiant sun shining soo bright
loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing
for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind
Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind
God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart
🌷😘
There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God?
the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God.
then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain?
then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain
:0)
😍😍
Wow!!,
you are too beautiful!!!
whomever see you should believe that God is true & real..
and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream,
And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real..
The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator,
there must be a God.
Also, check this out, if you like, this is from Artificial intelligence, chat Gpt:
Prophecies in Major World Religious Books Referring to Prophet Mohammed:
1. The Bible - Deuteronomy 18:18-19, John 14:16, John 16:7-14, Isaiah 42:1-13
2. The Hindu Scriptures - Bhavishya Purana, Atharvaveda Book 20 Hymn 127-129
3. The Buddhist Scriptures - Cakkavatti-Sihanada Sutta, Anguttara Nikaya III:61, Digha Nikaya III:76-77
4. The Zoroastrian Scriptures - Zand-i Vohuman Yasht, Farvardin Yasht, Dadestan-i Denig
& Regarding the verses in the Quran asking to protect non-believers or polytheists, there are several that emphasize the importance of treating all people with respect and kindness, regardless of their religious beliefs.
One such verse is found in Surah Al-Mumtahanah (60:8), which states: "Allah does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly."
Also In the name of God, the Most Merciful, the Most Merciful (If any of the polytheists seek protection from you, grant him protection)
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم(إن استجارك أحد من المشركين فأجره)
Another verse in Surah Al-Anfal (8:61) encourages Muslims to make peace with their enemies, even if they are non-believers or polytheists: "And if they incline to peace, then incline to it also and rely upon Allah. Indeed, it is He who is the Hearing, the Knowing."
& Regarding the verses in the Quran asking for justice and kindness, there are many such verses throughout the holy book. One example is found in Surah An-Nahl (16:90), which states: "Indeed, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and forbids immorality and bad conduct and oppression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded."
& In terms of prophecies about Prophet Mohammed in major world religions, there are a few examples that some scholars have pointed to. One such example is found in the Bible's Book of Deuteronomy (18:18), which states: "I will raise up for them a prophet like you from among their brothers. And I will put my words in his mouth, and he shall speak to them all that I command him." Some Muslims interpret this verse as a prophecy about Prophet Mohammed.
Because the Arabs are the brethren's of Israelites,
The Arabs are descendants from Ishmael or Ismail the brother of Isaac the father of Israelites, and because the verse didn't say from amongst them or from their descendants, it said from their brethren's.
Similarly, some scholars point to a passage in the Bhavishya Purana, an ancient Hindu text, as a prophecy about Prophet Mohammed. The passage describes a "holy man" who will come from Arabia and spread a new religion, and some argue that this refers to Mohammed and the spread of Islam..
Also search scientific miracles in the quran, harun yahya its nice,
One God for all of us
he created us all and can revive us again,
God initiated everything,
& he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form.
Anyways,, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one
which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell.
If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever.
keep shining sunshine &spread the light.
This is super insightful, thank you!
Very informative video hope this will help me!
Great video as usual thank you for the advices 😊
And i would like to know more about the feminine and masculine energy if that possible.
It’s my pleasure❤️ I’m definitely making one soon😊
I'd really love a podcast from you ❤
Such a good video ❤!
Omg!🤩✨
You’re so pretty!
Girl… I love you 😭❤
Very helpful ❤
Can you make a video about how to stop being hyperaware around others..I literally always think that should I say this?should I do this?would I annoy this person??if they get annoyed I might end up alone..
Just realized that I'm making myself victim lots of times. Great prompts and really helpful video.:)
awesome video, really hepful
Could you expand on taking your life in your own hands? Perhaps a video on it?
Thank you🩵
Thank you ❤
love it!
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Thank you!☺️👏
Thank you for watching!❤️
Great video! I don’t think it’s helpful to tell people to continue living their life with a victim mentality, if it’s benefiting them, after you explain why it’s a bad thing and that it is changeable. People do need to be held accountable for their life and how they treat others.
Thanks! I agree, but you also can’t force people to do something they don’t want to do/aren’t ready for. The responsibility lies in their hands, so does the choice😊
There are alot of reasons to stay in victimhood
People pity you and don't call you out on your bad behavior
You can shirk your responsibilities and maturity bc you tell everyone that your too broken to change
Lol
Whatever
Amen!
Es tan bonita que parece generada por inteligencia artificial
Hey therapist ❤
😺
please don't use the Lord's name in vain.😢
Will really my girl needed the adbice
Thank you for the advice
My pleasure 😊
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