PRODUCTIVE MOM COOK + CLEAN + RESET | SAHM CLEAN WITH ME | CLEANING MOTIVATION | MarieLove
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Hey y'all! My name is Marie. I'm a stay at home southern belle mama X4 from Georgia motivating mamas through motherhood. I share videos about homemaking, including cleaning, decorating, organizing, decluttering and motherhood motivation. I don't follow trends and my house is not 100% aesthetically pleasing. My content is realistic, relatable and motivating. UA-cam is my hobby, but also the way I support my family. Thanks so much for being here! I hope you will subscribe before you leave my channel today. I love this community of mothers and woman uplifting and encouraging each other and so grateful for each and every one of you who supports me, my channel and my family.
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im glad to hear you speak of the Lord, this day in time the Lord has been pushed out of so much, We need Jesus always
Hi Marie! Keep sharing the Word of God. It is such a blessing to all, even if they don't know it...yet. ❤
Yes, Marie, please don't limit your testimony and love of the Lord. God's word is encouragement and love. If someone is offended by that, that says a lot about them. I am here for all the devotionals that you share. I love your content, keep up the wonderful work of supporting other mothers. God bless!
I love that you are unashamed about your faith! That's what made me want to subscribe to your channel!
Aw, thanks for being here girl. I appreciate you!!
I love that you start your videos with a prayer it is so important 🙏 to have God in your life your are wonderful mom please be careful with people that that want to meet like you said and not show you have a kind heart God bless thankyou for sharing 😊😊❤
Marie, I love that you share God with everyone. Keep doing this, it really does help. ❤
I am glad that you share you faith and I really enjoy it. As a Christian we should our faith with others. 😊
my son is a good at keeping his families home clean he does a beautiful job. Him and is wife is teaching their son to keep his toys put away. He is doing better. You can’t start to soon. It will help them when they get on their own.
Girl, I'm totally with you about not paying your kids to help around the house. They make the messes, they can clean it up. There's normal things it's our responsibility to provide for them, but most kids get a lot of extras also. Basically it's as you said, we do what we feel is best for our family, and nobody needs to judge. Plus, chores teach responsibilities. Nobody gets a free ride in life. We never gave our son an allowance. We would give him money if he was going to be hanging out with a friend/s and there were plans to go to the movies or out to eat or on school field trips. There will always be certain circumstances when they need money.
Yes I agree. I never got an allowance either, just handed a chore chart to do. Lol
Thanks for the faith for mommas message!
I think you’re teaching your children responsibility. A trait that is really needed. Thank you for sharing your life with us. I look forward to every post. My season of life is being a nanny to our 4 year old granddaughter. My 2 sons are grown men now. It brings me back watching you and your family. His bless you my friend.
You’re such an amazing mamma! Love that you share gods word in your videos and your kids will love their devotionals! My girls legit ask me to read “what god has to say to them” it’s so stinking cute. Hope you had a great weekend and have a good week ahead xo
I love your videos even MORE now that you are sharing your beautiful faith! Thank you for shining your light ❤
Asking y'all to please pray for me. I've had sinus infections off and on the past month and a half, which have been causing severe migraines. I have another sinus infection. I have a CT scan on the 27th of this month and to see a neurologist about the migraines. I'm nervous about the CT scan. I ask y'all to please continue to pray for me. Thank you in advance. God Bless.
Lord, bless my friend and heal her suffering. 🙏 I pray she feels better and comfortable. Get her through this tough time with lots of good rest. ❤
@MarieLoveAsbury thank you, sweet friend.
Prayers
Continued prayers for you!!!
Try sea moss I heard it’s good for sinuses
Love your little devotions you’re putting in your video’s! You’re doing a wonderful job with your kids, you have a lot of wisdom for someone your age!🥰Have a great weekend Marie💕💕💕💕
Thank you so much!
I enjoy your devotions❤
Girl, you don't even know how much I needed this video today. I literally was sitting here crying because I'm so overwhelmed with my 2 year old today! She seems to be having some anxiety issues with going out in public and it's awful. I can't go in a store with her or go out to eat as a family anymore because she just kicks and screams the whole time which gets my anxiety going through the roof. I just go out of the store or restaurant in tears every time. I know God has me in these moments and that's the only thing getting me through right now. I love your videos and it motivates me to keep going, thank you so much❤
Sending big hugs your way mama. It's just a chapter/season of motherhood that will pass. ♡
Happy Saturday Marie, so nice to hear you speak those wonderful words of our Lord. Great video!!!😊
Marie, I admire you for talking about your faith and relationship with Jesus. Never apologize to anyone for your beliefs. You are a wonderful wife and mom and I love 😍 and support your channel. God bless you. 🙏❤️
These vedios are wonderful young mommies thing's they need to hear and thing's there not sure about I think people forget being a young mommy it can be over whelming thank you Marie for speaking on so much even sharing God that's so so important 😊 God Bless All 🌹 🌹 🌹 🌹
Keep speaking your faith. That was the commission Jesus gave his disciples. Our world needs more parents teaching their children about Jesus. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your message about Mothers. I am a grandparent who adopted her grandson & am raising this still very active but loving 11 year old child. But, sometimes Nonna gets tired & wondering if I'm doing right by him & if, I will survive this adventure in my older years, much older years! I often find ur videos incredibly inspiring & encouraging. Thank you!!!!
You are my hero. I do the same w my kids for breakfast/lunch at school and I honestly felt mom guilt about it. But it saves me so much
Yes, I was feeling mom guilt about it. I'm glad I made a dedicated day for lunch boxes. 😌
I love the devotional at the beginning, Marie!
My twins are 13. They do have chores which basically amounts to one easy chore every day during the week and then on Friday afternoon they do a large chore such as cleaning the bathroom. They get an allowance of $20 per month and they are expected to buy anything extra that they want for themselves out of that. It is not strictly tied to doing the chores however. And if they want extra allowance, they can also do extra chores for cash. As your children get into the teen years, I believe it is important that they have some money of their own that they can learn to budget with. Teach them to pay a tithe of 10% to God, and how to save some money, and set some money aside for spending.
So we are vegetarian, we don’t eat any meat, either. There is a lot of research that shows that not eating meat is healthier for you than eating meat. Addie will be fine as long as she gets protein in other ways like peanut butter, cheese, etc
Oh yes, she likes peanut butter and cheese and she will eat honey ham and eggs. She loves fruit and has select veges she will eat and also loves salads. 😊
Keep speaking God's word it is truth and what you are saying at 3min. In is golden. Thank you
My 10 year old played soccer last year and loved it !!
We just signed him up again and my 8 year old daughter decided she wanted to play also! So they’re both signed up and they’re so excited !!
Never apologize for sharing God
Blessings to you Marie, my family and I are Seventh Day Adventist Church was such a blessing today❤ I always love how you express your love for God in your family. Without God none of us would be here, he's the very breath that we breathe. So our lives depends on him only❤ you're an amazing person❤🙏 your daughter is healhty, meat is not good for us at all even though we eat it.
We are gods ambassadors we are supposed to spread the word everywhere we go , continue to do that don’t let anyone change that , if it’s ur page do what god wants not what others like or don’t . Ur blessings come from god he sees and knows he heart. Ur my favorite girl . Wish I was closer to u it’s hard to find others who love god like us and want to live right by god and his word . 🩵🩵🩵
Amen! Yes, agree with this. I wish I lived closer to all my UA-cam friends. ❤️
I am in total agreement with you. My youngest is so tiny, and does not always eat what we eat. The pediatrician told us to just give him what he will eat and that's what we do!
It is so refreshing to hear another parent say they stopped giving in to what pediatricians and others say about kids eating. My son is now 13 and still very picky but when he was around 6 his pediatrician told me kids won’t starve themselves and will eventually give in and eat……wrong
Yay for Monday resets!My house is a chaos during the weekend.I also agree with no allowance for the chores,we generally don't do that where I live,I first heard of that from U.S families.I want them to learn that we help and take care of our stuff in the house because we are a family we are a team and it helps us keep up with everyday life with no stress(as much as possible)Unfortunately Saturday posts are not for me but that's ok I watch on Mondays like today💗
Your message was beautifully spoken about God! It really touched my heart!
I think the devotionals are great.
I don't give my kids the land once because nobody is paying me to get my chores done, LOL. But like I told my daughter we help each other around here.
Love that you are a Christian and not afraid to speak the real truth of being a Christian. Could you list your makeup products that were mentioned in the video?
They are all drugstore products. ♡
My daily makeup I usually use are power grip elf primer, FitMe foundation, FitMe powder, L.A GLOW blush pallette, tattoo studio brow, NYX brow setter, Maybelline the nudes eyeshadow pallet, cat eye eyeliner by Maybelline, colossal mascara by Maybelline, Maybelline mauve for me lip.
Hey Friend, Happy Sunday. I agree you don’t have to go to church to be Christian and live a Christian life. As long as you’re devoting your life to god and living a honest life and living from the Bible. ❤ My mom had four children with me being the youngest and it was almost impossible for her to lose her mom poach. 😮 I would be so upset if someone told me to meet them for $5 and they didn’t tell me it’s for the next day. 😮 I love that you teach your kids responsibilities that will help them when they’re older. I love that you will help them out to the best of your ability instead of paying them money. ❤🥰
Thank you for sharing the Word of God. Also thank you for talking about picky eating and it being ok to feed them something else. I am in that situation too and that’s also what I do. I would rather him eat something else than nothing. Have a beautiful day!
AMEN and AMEN!✝️. Great video and great word from Our LORD!
As mothers we also have to remember that our children are a gift 🎁 to US and they are not meant to be looked as a burden!
Yes! Children should have chores as they learn responsibility through them and it invites them to feel being valued helping at home! WE should always use wisdom in what we give them to do but it’s okay! I think kids go through a phase of eating/textures and what they like! One day they will like green beans and next thing you know they gross out!🤭🙃I have one child…a teen and I tell you he is a blessing to me! I am training him up according to what GOD guides me. It’s the only way in my eyes!
❤Bless you Marie! Your family is beautiful and you are doing a wonderful job in your home!
To GOD be the GLORY!💟✝️💟
For doing an amazing job Marie and you don’t have to give an allowance that’s showing them responsibility doing chores and that’s what I do with my children. If they need things, I’ll reward them and God is good I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t have the Lord of my heart, he blesses me every day and he’s always with me and guided me at the right direction like I always say every your amazing mom love your videos, and I’m so happy that I am part of your videos and in your life❤ thank you Marie❤
Thank you sooo much sweet friend.
About the food....girl, YES! One of my kiddos has a Sensory Processing Disorder and I will ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS make her a separate meal if she doesn't want to try what we're having. No questions asked or pressure put on her. Period. She can't help what's going on and I'm not going to try and force her to go against her comfortability with certain food types/textures if she's not ready. Although Occupational Therapy is and has been super helpful, it is a slow process and if she's not ready or doesn't want to try certain foods, THAT'S OKAY. Regardless of what others will say or think 🙃
Usually me and my daughter work together will usually do it in the morning time on the weekends and the evening time before she goes to bed. I don't give my kids allowance my 3-year-old. I just told her to pick up her trash and pick up her toys and she does pretty good.
Beautiful video, loved the start and I'm not even religious but the words hit me hard this morning ❤ x
👍😊😊 you are so right it’s ok for the kids to help out they live in the house to. Don’t make your kid eat something they don’t like you are not. You are right you are the mom.💚💜💙
I truly agree with you on allowances. My parents never paid us an allowance for doing chores I hoped make. IE, laundry, dishes, vacuuming, dusting, etc. If we did our best with school and did extra chores that weren't on our regular required chores, they only allowed us to go hang with friends. My parents could never afford an allowance sadly. Every household had their cap. We just didn't have an allowance. 🤷♀️
Really enjoyed watching today❤️ You always inspire and motivate me Marie. Loved hearing you talk about God at the beginning and how his plans are better than our wildest dreams. So true❤️ The hardships always lead to beauty❤️ Have a wonderful weekend with your beautiful family! Love you lots❤️
I love Wednesday I was so disappointed when I did not see you on Wed. I usually do not watch TV on Saturday s I run around lol. Love all your videos. You are my midweek inspiration. Love you God Bless.❤🙏☘️
I agree, everyone do what's best for their family. I have one with sensory issues and textures. I make him something different if it's something he doesn't like. I'm not sending him to bed hungry!!! Great video Marie!!!
I have a son like that also. And I make what he likes and every so often he will try different things. Mine won’t eat red meat, lunch meat, hot dogs, and cheese. He doesn’t like tea but will drink a sprite sometimes. He basically eats chicken, turkey, and fish. No dairy except a yogurt here and there. I’ve been shamed for giving him what he likes but I just don’t care 🤷🏻♀️
Arabella has sensory issues. If her clothes fit the wrong way, forget it. She won't wear it. She's like that with some foods also.
Thank you for sharing about God! ❤
You are 💯 right for NOT paying your kids to do their part in house work.
Totally agree with you regarding the allowance! My husband and I always disagreed about that and giving money for report cards. I think you're sent to school to learn and shouldn't get paid. I think doing something special for them is fine.
I have 3 kids! I pack their lunches and snacks the night before just in case we run late for the next morning!
They never buy school lunch! They don’t like to buy !!
We do the same ! I’ve had parents ask my kids if they got paid doing chores. And , my daughter says no. However , if they want and need I will get it for them. No questions asked. I did hot lunches Til my oldest fed the whole foot ball team at 150 dollar bill later. lol ❤❤❤❤❤❤
My son was and still is a picky eater. I totally get when you say they would starve rather than eat something they don't like. I was like you and just made him something else. I didn't have the heart to watch him starve. Lol
I agree with you on the chores and allowance thing one hundred percent.
My kids had chores even when they were little they could pick up toys when they were older they did house chores gathering laundry doing dishes making beds ... they earned allowance acording to age and what was accomplished each week or we paid for experiences usually it was around 10 dollars when they were in junior high and high school
Girl I am with you on packing lunches! I never remember, I never feel like doing it in the evening or in the mornings so if my 10 and 11 year old want to pack a lunch they have to do it themselves lol I always make sure I have stuff for them to throw in along with a sandwich. I do have a rule that if they want to eat breakfast at school then they have to pack a lunch because I just can’t afford to have them eat both every day. We just do cereal, Poptarts frozen waffles or pancakes for breakfast. I can’t be bothered to make a hot breakfast everyday. No shame in my game! The way I see it is i cook dinner almost every single night so like you so if I want to take the easy way out for the other 2 meals then I’m gonna do it!
Amen 🙏🏽 ❤
Hey girl, I really enjoy your devotional message and anytime you feel led by God to do something always listen to him,and if someone doesn't care for it they can just keep it moving, thankyou for sharing ❤❤
I think it’s ok to not give an allowance. Doing chores is letting them learn responsibility. You are doing great Marie! Thanks for the video!😊
I started cleaning my neighbors air bnb on the weekend. I have my 12 yo help me and share the money with her. It’s good for us. Thank you for sharing Gods word it’s so important. We need it so much.
Oh that's a wonderful little job for your 12 year old. 😀
My allowance was me buying everything I needed for the week from my dad's paycheck child support givin to my mom for me once every week ever since I was 10 to 21 is when my child support ended
Good morning my dear sweet beautiful friend I’m so excited for your new video and I don’t blame you for been cautious it pays to be these days 😨😨and I’m glad my husky quit barking at me so I can watch this video without her barking at me 😂😂
Thanks so much for being here and watching today friend. 😊
Hi Marie great video thanks for the motivation!
My 11 and 12 year old clean there own rooms and bathroom I do a mama clean once a week but there responsible for it the rest of the week. They also help
Out as needed with living room or dishes. I also don’t pay for those chores but if they wanted to do other things like mow the lawn or clean windows or something for extra money they can 😊
Watching now while I have my morning coffee then getting ready! Happy Saint Patrick’s day! We’re going to a train show w my mom & our kids today! Can’t wait!
Have fun!! That sounds awesome! Jackson is obsessed with trains. Lol.
@@MarieLoveAsbury so is my oldest son! It was a fun day !!
I have a 15 year old and my oldest is on his own. Owns his own house at 21 ! I’m a proud mama. ❤
AMEN AND AMEN! Happy Saturday Marie and family! STTB 2XS
Amen sis!!! I needed to hear that today! Thank you for the lovely video! 🩷🙏
I am the same with my kids and house chores...these are life skills they need to learn I do not pay mine either. They def have what they need and alot of what they want so... I also have a system where they get $ for good grades(since that is their 'job' in my head lol). And that's what I want them to focus on is doing the best they can in school.
Happy Saturday,but I really miss your Wednesday vlog so much. Happy for what ever helps your channel. My kids were blessed that their grandfather always made them breakfast as well drop them off at school. We were a two family income I worked out of town and my dearest in-laws babysitter. I made my kids lunch everyday when I got home from work . Also I Would add a note for them as well. For me since I worked out of town it made me feel good doing this for my blessings. Blessing sweetheart you are doing a wonderful job raising your precious children.
Hi Marie keep sharing Gods word we all need Jesus 🙏❤️
You don’t have to attend each service but it sure is a blessing to attend church it’s just a Much more closer walk with Jesus. I pray you choose to attend at least once in a while ❤
Ohh just wait until you have to pay for drivers Ed ! It was $450 where I live in La. I’m like 😮
I remember I had to take that course and it was expensive.
Great video Marie enjoy your weekend 💖
Loving the devotions and I bought my 8 year old the doodle devotional book.
No chore chart here
They
Clean up their messes w toys bc they make that mess! They set the table, clear the table and help w grocery shopping and unloading the groceries! They help w laundry and put their stuff in the washer! They do earn a quarter if they behave in the mornings bc that’s most hectic for us or at night when they really help! But again, it’s just a quarter and to them it’s a lot !! But hey - they do add up after while 😂
You are such a good mama!❤
Great video ❤️😀👍I’m so old I don’t remember what we did about chores and allowance. I do know that the boys had to do the mowing when they got old enough though. I’m not sure we paid them for that, but we did buy them the things they needed and some things they wanted. Bigger items they wanted had to wait for Christmas and Birthdays😊
I love that you give your kids chores. I want my kids to help because they live here just like us but also I want them to learn to take care of things and to keep their own dorm, apartment, or home one day. You’re right about the food thing I would never make them eat what they don’t like. I do request they atleast try things and I also try to cook things I know they all like and if I don’t I’ll always fix them something else. Hope you have a great weekend.
I do a Monday reset also !! 🙌🏻
Amen
Thanks for sharing….i always enjoy the cleaning motivation and the conversation.
You are so welcome! I appreciate you being here watching today. 😊
Love all your videos. They are so motivating.
hey girl. Love your blue tshirt!! needing this motivation today :D
Hi from Ireland Marie, enjoying your videos ❤
Happy Saturday I love watching your videos and you have beautiful family stay blessed ❤
Thank you soooo much for watching today! I appreciate you. 😊
Hi Marie! I love your channel and you are my favorite UA-cam mama. You are so real, relatable and an inspiration. Thank you for being you!!
Thank you so much!!
Here watching😘❤️🌸
Thanks so much for watching today girly!
I love your idea about fun Friday for lunches!! Next school year I’m going to start that. At the end of the day sometimes I’m SO tired and don’t want to pack lunches.
I was always telling them NO when they asked for their lunches packed, so the fun Friday has been so helpful. 😊
I really enjoyed the devotion
I definitely understand about the mom pooch. What I did to help is started wearing a waist trainer while I’m cleaning or doing things around the house to help contract those muscles and tighten me back up in that area and it’s really helping.
I need to get one of those!!
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤i just love your videos
Loved this one! I’m with you on the kids not eating situation!! I feel terrible when Ollie doesn’t like his dinner so I will just make him something else! He’s good about trying stuff so if he doesn’t eat I know it’s bc he hates it 😂 The fajitas looked delicious!
I won't eat something I don't like, so I'll never make my kids! ♡
💁🏻♀️❤️Luved this video!!
What a nice Saturday surprise! Thanks for the inspo as always. Also regarding chores, I've been trying to come up with a routine there as I've been overwhelmed and don't have a chore chart yet. I have a 5 year old, 1 year old, and one on the way! Curious to see everyone's chore ideas too. I do like the idea of only having an allowance for the extra stuff and not regular, every day tasks we all need to do to run our homes. Have a great weekend ❤
Thank you! You too!
We don't do an allowance as well. My oldest (12) takes care of our dog, takes the trash out and picks up the bathroom, together him and I will team up on laundry kind of like with what you do for dishes. My 5 year old will help feed the dog and clean his room plus help with the toys they pull out. He also will Swiffer the floor and wipe down walls, because he likes to lol. My 3 year old and 1 year old will just help out when we are all doing clean up time. Hearing you talk sounds like I'm listening to myself.. I never want my kids to go to bed hungry. No matter what..
Absolutely love your mom Devo and that your doing Devo/bible time with the kiddos I went and order some Devo books for us to start in august as a part of next year homeschool routine . I normally do vibe with mine while we eat breakfast but been slacking lately need to get back into it . I have my own time before that wake up .my kids have things they help with around the house too just basic daily things to help keep up with e up keep of the home my house gets trashed fast since we home school . And no they don’t get allowance but I do take them to do things all the time .
Growing up, we had chores like helping my mom with her cleaning business, picking up after ourselves, making sure our room was clean and laundry was put up, and our outdoor toys we're put away. We only got paid $5-$10.
I have considered paying them for chores, but I don't want them to expect something for doing basic chores. I'll for sure reward them for good deeds with icecream and other things they ask for. 😊
@@MarieLoveAsbury yes, that's what my mom did. Like the money went towards going skating, bowling, and etc.
Girl, I am the same! I never gave my son allowance but if we were out or he knew I was doing a grocery order and asked for something, within reason, we would get it for him. As for his chores, he's the only kiddo (17 next month) so he has all the time chores like every day he puts dishes away, the stuff I hand wash and unloads the dishwasher but I fill it. He also is responsible for taking out the trash and his own laundry. He's been doing his own laundry since he was little (with help obviously). But other than that he doesn't have many other chores but he helps his dad outside or in the garage if needed or he will help me with wiping high areas that I can't reach, he's 6ft and I'm 5'4 lolol but when he starts working he will lose the dishes chore.
As for the food thing, I was told the same thing sit there and eat it but with him even now, he has to TRY it and I'm happy. If he doesn't like it, he doesn't have to eat it. Him and his dad like things I don't and we like things his dad doesn't so it works out most times lol
I just look at it like, I'm not gonna sit there and eat something that I really don't like, so why would I force my kids? ♡
@@MarieLoveAsbury Agreed! Forcing them will make them resent you and have a bad relationship with food.
Bless you, Marie. I am a Gigi who tries to instill a love for Jesus and others in my grandchildren and children. I don’t comment often but I really enjoy your little snack hacks and meals. They help me save with these little ones.
Aw, thank you for letting me know! I'll continue to share. 😊