Coping with Problems & Failures -- Unemployment, Low-paying Job, Unsatisfying Marriage & Family Life

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  • Опубліковано 22 тра 2024
  • #lifeadvice #career #job #personalfinance #finance #marriage #copingstrategies
    VIDEO DESCRIPTION BY SANTOSH BHAT @MrBlackjack456 ON 24 MAY 2024
    Coping with Problems & Failures - Unemployment, Low-paying Job, Unsatisfying Marriage & Family Life
    Introduction:
    The video discusses the challenges and struggles that people face in various aspects of life, such as unemployment, unsatisfying jobs, financial difficulties, marital problems, and family conflicts. It acknowledges that everyone experiences problems and difficulties at some point, and it is natural to feel disheartened or overwhelmed.
    The main points covered in the video are:
    1. Societal Pressure: There is often societal pressure to portray that everything is fine, even when people are struggling. Admitting to problems or seeking help is sometimes seen as a sign of weakness.
    2. Types of Problems: The video highlights various problems people face, including unemployment, low-paying jobs, unsatisfying marriages, family conflicts, infertility, health issues, mid-life crises, and financial burdens like loans and debts.
    3. Coping Mechanisms: The video suggests several coping mechanisms, such as:
    - Maintaining balance and perspective
    - Having faith and patience (shraddha and saburi)
    - Expressing emotions and discomfort appropriately
    - Introspecting and making necessary adjustments
    - Enjoying simple pleasures in life
    - Persevering through failures and setbacks
    4. Self-Awareness: The importance of self-awareness and understanding one's needs, emotions, and thought patterns is emphasized. Individuals are encouraged to reflect on their actions and communication styles to improve relationships and manage their mental well-being.
    5. Alternative Perspectives: The video presents alternative perspectives, highlighting that everyone's struggles are valid, and it is essential to avoid judging or labeling others as "losers" or failures.
    Conclusion:
    The video concludes by encouraging viewers to maintain a balanced outlook, persevere through challenges, and find joy in life's simple moments. It emphasizes that life is a journey with ups and downs, and it is crucial to adapt and make necessary adjustments while maintaining faith and patience.
    The summary encapsulates the video's main points; however, for a detailed understanding, watching the entire video is recommended.

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  • @MrBlackjack456
    @MrBlackjack456 Місяць тому +22

    Coping with Problems & Failures - Unemployment, Low-paying Job, Unsatisfying Marriage & Family Life
    Introduction:
    The video discusses the challenges and struggles that people face in various aspects of life, such as unemployment, unsatisfying jobs, financial difficulties, marital problems, and family conflicts. It acknowledges that everyone experiences problems and difficulties at some point, and it is natural to feel disheartened or overwhelmed.
    The main points covered in the video are:
    1. Societal Pressure: There is often societal pressure to portray that everything is fine, even when people are struggling. Admitting to problems or seeking help is sometimes seen as a sign of weakness.
    2. Types of Problems: The video highlights various problems people face, including unemployment, low-paying jobs, unsatisfying marriages, family conflicts, infertility, health issues, mid-life crises, and financial burdens like loans and debts.
    3. Coping Mechanisms: The video suggests several coping mechanisms, such as:
    - Maintaining balance and perspective
    - Having faith and patience (shraddha and saburi)
    - Expressing emotions and discomfort appropriately
    - Introspecting and making necessary adjustments
    - Enjoying simple pleasures in life
    - Persevering through failures and setbacks
    4. Self-Awareness: The importance of self-awareness and understanding one's needs, emotions, and thought patterns is emphasized. Individuals are encouraged to reflect on their actions and communication styles to improve relationships and manage their mental well-being.
    5. Alternative Perspectives: The video presents alternative perspectives, highlighting that everyone's struggles are valid, and it is essential to avoid judging or labeling others as "losers" or failures.
    Conclusion:
    The video concludes by encouraging viewers to maintain a balanced outlook, persevere through challenges, and find joy in life's simple moments. It emphasizes that life is a journey with ups and downs, and it is crucial to adapt and make necessary adjustments while maintaining faith and patience.
    The summary encapsulates the video's main points; however, for a detailed understanding, watching the entire video is recommended.

  • @ravit6223
    @ravit6223 Місяць тому +17

    Terrific krish 👌🏻🔥 in one line irrespective of who you are you may fail miserably so get up gather courage and keep fighting no matter how bad the situation is.

  • @anjanpatel6385
    @anjanpatel6385 Місяць тому +11

    Highly matured personality !!!

  • @karthikmohandas3587
    @karthikmohandas3587 Місяць тому +5

    Rao ji. The worst part is we gotta feel for those who have no one to open up. The silent sufferers

  • @user-zb8yv6ns2q
    @user-zb8yv6ns2q 15 днів тому

    Good observations.

  • @stacydoval8403
    @stacydoval8403 Місяць тому +10

    Very nice video. No matter what you achieve materialistically in life, if you won't maintain a certain core level of mental balance, you will never be happy .
    If we cannot be happy with small things of life then we will continually be deceived by the materialistic lure of life .

    • @stacydoval8403
      @stacydoval8403 Місяць тому

      @@milanpatadiya6686 good luck as your on the pursuit of quenching your thirst with salt water

  • @Pushpul.Pandey.PP007
    @Pushpul.Pandey.PP007 Місяць тому +7

    Wonderful Advice. I really loved this video... The World looks at me as a Loser, since I have been jobless for a no. Of years....This Society only values Men by their Network, Profession, Social Status....etc... If ones slips from this Mark, the very Same Society Will turn its back on You. End of the Day, Lage Raho Munnabhai is the Only Solution

    • @princeofheaven19
      @princeofheaven19 Місяць тому

      As Rao ji said things change in an instant don’t give much bhav to society

  • @chiranjeev4804
    @chiranjeev4804 Місяць тому +2

    Ek hi toh Dil hain Krish Sir.. Kitne baar jeetenge aap. After hearing this video.. I feel it sums up almost all difficulties and the answers to it😊

  • @suchitrahegde1662
    @suchitrahegde1662 Місяць тому +2

    100%true, jo mila hai, usi may khush raho 🙏🌹🙏

  • @aadityashaw6771
    @aadityashaw6771 Місяць тому +3

    आपका ये शरीर एक बेहतरीन टूल है इसका उपयोग आप सर्वश्रेष्ठ को पाने के लिए करिए । और ये भी याद रखिए आखिरी इम्तहान मृत्यु ही है इसमें पास होना जरूरी है।

  • @rohitbhati5805
    @rohitbhati5805 Місяць тому

    Brilliant video Sir.

  • @anitachawla6184
    @anitachawla6184 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks

  • @MrKurupt5
    @MrKurupt5 Місяць тому +1

    Awesome Video Krish, really a lot to learn from this.

  • @samirbhalerao5579
    @samirbhalerao5579 Місяць тому

    Excellent insights Krish.

  • @aadityashaw6771
    @aadityashaw6771 Місяць тому +3

    एक बात याद रखिए संसार में सुख नहीं है ऐसा लगता है सुख मिलता है संसार में पर ऐसा नहीं है। सुख केवल भगवान के चरणों में है।

  • @anjanpatel6385
    @anjanpatel6385 Місяць тому +1

    High intellectual person !!!

  • @Vishal-xp8ft
    @Vishal-xp8ft Місяць тому +1

    This video is just "SPOT ON"
    Thanks for being a guiding light always..

  • @rohitaryavart9823
    @rohitaryavart9823 Місяць тому +3

    Krish what is your take on Pune Hit and Run Incident? Plz make a video on Indian Judicial system today as you have already experienced How rich ppl twist and trun the system with Money power.

  • @aftabmohd7235
    @aftabmohd7235 Місяць тому

    at 15:19 the quote you added was truly remarkable

  • @ayaankhan3347
    @ayaankhan3347 Місяць тому

    Sir zindagi ki haqiqat ko aayine k treh samne rkh diya apne

  • @Aditya-4_4
    @Aditya-4_4 Місяць тому +3

    Schooling, entrance exams, college, job hunting, marriage, children, home, car etc etc
    Why this set pattern ? Who said these are compulsory ? Where is your freedom ?
    Plz make a video and discuss these things.

  • @user-nb6wt7io9k
    @user-nb6wt7io9k Місяць тому

    thank you sir

  • @3206732067
    @3206732067 Місяць тому +3

    Listening from DEHRADUN,,,24MAY 2024

  • @chadester001
    @chadester001 Місяць тому

    Sir Eak video AI par and IT industry ? Mere hisab se low offers/placements ho rahe hai no new intake and layoff and retriement to ho hi rahe hai. Or election ke baad bahut jadaya layoff honge Abhi government rokh ke rahe hai.

  • @JohnSmith-sl6eg
    @JohnSmith-sl6eg Місяць тому +4

    Main dukhi hoon kyunki mere paas dukh nahi hain 😢😂

  • @JackK-gg1co
    @JackK-gg1co Місяць тому +1

    Request you to make a video on upcoming MARKET CRASH. There is no doubt that Indian housing market is a bubble which has been waiting years to burst. All thanks to banks , developers & FOMO this has been successfully avoided.
    However come 2024-2025 the western economies are collapsing due to UNEMPLOYMENT, JOB LAYOFFS , INFLATION. With AI & robotics coming into play slowly. How will people pay the LOANS , pay EMI's if there are no jobs ?
    BANKS will begin FORECLOSURES as a result of people faulting on monthly payments.
    Not just STOCK MARKET but REAL ESTATE too is about to get badly hit.
    Nobody is paying attention but TSUNAMI is on the way

    • @bravewarrior1218
      @bravewarrior1218 Місяць тому

      #JackK
      The ongoing conflicts in Ukraine and Gaza, coupled with rising tensions over Taiwan, have significantly altered the geopolitical landscape and increased the risk of a potential World War III scenario.
      The Russia-China-Iran-North Korea bloc is challenging the traditional US-led Western hegemony. Russia's invasion of Ukraine and its growing ties with Iran have strengthened this alliance, while China's support for Russia and its aggressive stance towards Taiwan further solidify this emerging bloc.
      This polarization of global powers into opposing camps raises the stakes for a broader conflict.
      Russia is exploiting the Israel-Gaza war to divert attention from Ukraine and undermine US influence in the Middle East. By supporting Hamas and criticizing Israel, Russia aims to position itself as a power broker in the region while straining US resources and focus.
      The US is grappling with the challenge of maintaining support for both Ukraine and Israel simultaneously. Any perceived weakening of US commitment could embolden Russia and its allies, escalating tensions.
      China's potential invasion of Taiwan would directly pit it against the US and its allies, risking a major confrontation between nuclear-armed powers.
      China may see the current conflicts as an opportune time to act on its Taiwan ambitions.
      While all parties likely want to avoid a full-scale world war, the risk of miscalculation or escalation remains high given the complex web of alliances, proxy conflicts, and competing interests.
      A wider regional conflict in the Middle East could further strain global resources and increase the potential for direct confrontation between major powers.
      The realignment of global powers into opposing blocs, coupled with multiple regional conflicts and the risk of miscalculation, has heightened the chances of a broader world war, although all sides currently have incentives to avoid such a catastrophic scenario.

  • @centuryexplained9179
    @centuryexplained9179 Місяць тому

    Song link?

  • @suchitrahegde1662
    @suchitrahegde1662 Місяць тому +1

    👍👍👍👍👍🙏🌹🙏🌹🙏🌹

  • @wizcactus
    @wizcactus Місяць тому

    Serious naukri mein bahut stress hey zindagi hi depression se bari hogi

  • @MrSatadal
    @MrSatadal Місяць тому +6

    Being born itself a curse

  • @maxwellmiles2430
    @maxwellmiles2430 Місяць тому +1

    Mr. Roa, time to proof your willpower and discipline by losing weight

    • @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal
      @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal  Місяць тому

      Right. And in whose eyes do I have to prove this? Who according to you will certify that I have adequate willpower and discipline?

    • @maxwellmiles2430
      @maxwellmiles2430 Місяць тому

      @@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal I am big fan of yours, its unfortunate you took my comment offensively... I myself am on a weightloss journey, and thought would be cool to see you get in shape as well... I didn't mean to trigger you... I look up to you, and know you have great will and determination, and sharing really important advice and a lot of people need to hear.... just thought it would be nice to show what you can accomplish now, as compared the successes you had in the past

  • @Roshan75532
    @Roshan75532 Місяць тому

    answer to aap kaisey hain?? hum system k ghulaam hain!

  • @TUSHAR1hi7ev
    @TUSHAR1hi7ev Місяць тому

    Bobby groups at all jobs industrialists are grow

  • @Notorious160
    @Notorious160 Місяць тому

    Can we become self employed through the skills

  • @consequencescreed5346
    @consequencescreed5346 Місяць тому

    Look bro all this you're saying this so wisely you'd do the same thing

  • @passionandcommonsense
    @passionandcommonsense Місяць тому

    Sir ji… I appreciate your message. Thank you for it.
    But if I may say so, your negative experiences and your general resentment is clearly apparent. This is why many experienced people don’t take the initiative to talk to less experienced people. Because doing so will lay bare their own state of mind.
    In any case the number of people who will listen to your advise and respect your journey are next to nil.
    Please don’t take my words as disrespect. I am just stating out loud what I am thinking.

    • @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal
      @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal  Місяць тому +1

      I don't need anybody's appreciation or respect. If somebody wants to make inferences about me like "general resentment", that is all right. I don't need to be considered a great guy or a successful guy. If someone benefits from my experiences by even 1%, my work here is done. Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @passionandcommonsense
      @passionandcommonsense Місяць тому

      @@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal Sir ji… everyone needs appreciation and respect. EVERYONE. Even the ones that say that they don’t need it and in fact especially the ones that say that don’t need it. This is my experience.
      My words aren’t meant to take anything away from your important message which incidentally is something that everyone knows, but finds hard to digest and implement.
      If I may offer one more thought; it is my observation that today’s young people don’t need any advice. They are living in a golden age when all the wisdom that was inaccessible to most generations before them is now available at their fingertips. Most youngsters today are more financially informed than previous generations ever were. They are extremely tightfisted with their money and will gauge every step in life in terms of the benefits for them in the short, medium and the long terms. In so many work environments I have not seen them put a foot wrong with regards to their personal progress.

  • @lradhakrishnarao902
    @lradhakrishnarao902 Місяць тому

    All this low paying jobs in India is because of the high population, and extremely poor education.

  • @santos8146
    @santos8146 Місяць тому

    Don't get married. Solves most of the problems 😂😂😂

  • @Notorious160
    @Notorious160 Місяць тому

    Modi be like sab changa si

    • @AkashVerma-hq8nz
      @AkashVerma-hq8nz Місяць тому +4

      Modi is responsible for your Birth also 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AkashVerma-hq8nz
      @AkashVerma-hq8nz Місяць тому +3

      Because of Modi @Mohowk was Born in this World 😂😂😂😂

    • @Notorious160
      @Notorious160 Місяць тому +2

      @@AkashVerma-hq8nz Abe oh chapri berojgar

  • @kaceobrwa7039
    @kaceobrwa7039 Місяць тому

    you should make a video on things you regret or advice you like to give to 20 year old man .

  • @Hazara26
    @Hazara26 Місяць тому +1

    Most of the jobs will finish in future due to AI and robots and the population of humans. So reduce the population and it is not necessary to have kids just enjoy your life.

  • @kaceobrwa7039
    @kaceobrwa7039 Місяць тому +12

    how to live good life in india :
    1. be highly materialistic , don't but sprituality garbage , indians have already suffered a lot due to their abstract pseudscientfic spiritual masterbation .
    increase on wealth building
    2. go to gym ( non negotiable ) , increase your body size , increase strength , make friends who are intersted in dieting , exercising , outdoor activities .
    3. don't contribute anything to india , your religion or your caste , because they have give you nothing , be selfish , look after you family only . get married , have kids . create beautifull family , don't believe in stupid idea of brahmacharya , or any other bs given by acharyas and gurus

    • @rb-ct4ri
      @rb-ct4ri Місяць тому +2

      practically best
      well said

    • @ashwinvk4124
      @ashwinvk4124 Місяць тому +3

      If you be a good human being, work hard and earn money without doing llegal stuff you will invariably contribute to India.
      I agree with everything else you said

    • @suresh7436
      @suresh7436 Місяць тому

      50k a month or year ?

    • @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal
      @KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal  Місяць тому +5

      Except the the hatred or rejection of India and all things Indian, I agree with you 100%

    • @rb-ct4ri
      @rb-ct4ri Місяць тому

      @@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal Sir, I have been researching about real estate industry. I need tips from you about what change would you like to see in new projects of real estate. (I'm looking at Kalyan Dombivli region currently as it's more affordable for middle class citizens). In future, I also wish to start an affordable housing project.