I totally get what Bart is saying. we want to be apart of conversations, group hangouts, etc but when we actually get to doing it, it ends up feeling way more draining on us having to consistently communicate and keep conversations going siGH
you're describing my life. I'll literally watch JKP & think "I wish I had a large group of friends", then I'll be in a situation where there's many of us, and I'd just get drained and wanna go home back to my bedroom. I think 80% of the time I want to be completely alone, and 20% of the time I want to be with people. Conversely I do sometimes get drained if I'm by myself for a little too long
authenticity and investment is how social interaction becomes 'easy' over time...if bart's always in his head trying to think of the most impressive/funniest/coolest way to do/say something, he'll always feel like he's forcing it...like he missed an orientation class or something. kinda like when bart says someone's 5 second old punchline as though he came up with it himself...that is because he was so in his head trying to think of what to say, he forgot to listen to everyone else in the room. ignoring people to think of what you'll say next is a surefire way to make interaction more difficult and awkward. think of all the curiosity bart had for working out...all that time and energy both physically and mentally invested...the reason the gym is comfy and easy is because you took such an interest in it....if you want social interactions to be easier, you'll need to take a similar interest in those around you...which will most likely not come naturally for someone like bart...but that doesn't make it any less possible.
I love the introversion conversation! I feel like nobody fully gets in-depth about it. I feel Geo on feeling and being told like no one fully understands you and having that mystery complex.
Introversion and extroversion is something your born with. It’s your upbringing that determines weather your overall personality is defined by these two types.
As a 20-year-old introvert, my FOMO factor is almost nonexistent. Of course every now and then I'm like 'let me hang out with family/friends and enjoy the bond/connection', but I realized I don't necessarily need to be in the middle of the moment to feel connected. For example, my Grandmother turned 82, May of 2019, and for the first time in two years our immediate family (cousins, uncles, aunts- maybe 20 people max) came over to our 3 bedroom apartment and hung out. There was cake, food, a little bit of music but mainly just family interacting with one another. I only came out into the living room for the singing of Happy Birthday and grabbed myself a plate of food, but after that, I went right down the hall to my room and watched UA-cam. My door was open the entire time, but that was all I needed. Listening to everyone enjoy themselves selves was all I needed to feel connected and involved. I discovered years ago, just like my mother, I don't need to go to parties, family 'get together's' for holidays or the mall with friends to get my energy and recharge like your average extrovert. I'm a homebody. I'm perfectly fine with staying at home and spending weeks on end doing nothing but working from home and watching UA-cam on my off-hours. That's how I get my energy and recharge. And I'm perfectly fine with that.
Im so Geo! Ive never met someone who can explain themselves and I am like "thats me!" To the t! I wish i knew more Geo's! I feel like i just found myself
What Bart’s describing doesn’t really sound like being introverted. Introverts like being alone, that’s how they recharge and it’s very much a happy place for them. Feeling like your on the outside looking in, sounds like being lonely to me. Being alone is a choice, being lonely is a shitty feeling. Two different things.
There’s different levels to being an introvert. Indeed what you said about him being outside looking in seems lonely or it could mean he longs to be more comfortable in the setting he is in. However when he does go out he doesn’t like staying out for long interacting with people and does like his alone time because he has many things he can do and it does drain him to be out and about with people. So yes he is introverted but to a certain degree. :) hope that makes sense
Mitski There’s nothing selfish about enjoying your alone time. As an introvert myself, alone time is important, it’s how I recharge. Without that it I find myself getting anxious and it makes the social anxiety I already have even worst. Also, you’re right, my description of introverts isn’t true for all introverts, because there are levels to being introverted and extroverted. Some people are extremely introverted, were they go out and see a couple people and then there good for the rest of the month on human interaction (this is an over dramatic example.) and other introverts have weekly or even daily limits were after a quick recharge (their alone time) they can go back out into the world and interact with more people again. There’s nothing selfish about wanting to be alone or needing space.
I feel like I’m very much a balance between both being an introvert and extrovert. Like Geo I prefer to stay home at all times with the exception of the occasional outing but once I’m out I do enjoy interacting and want to continue the fun for as long as possible!
I'm like the most extreme introvert ever. There's days when I don't even talk to anyone verbally because I'm in my room (like now) just doing work or chilling. I have 1 proper friends & I talk to him about everything. I WAS in a friendship group in high school but I felt like they were tryna cut me out so I just made it easier for them (& myself) by removing myself from them. I don't go/get invited to parties or any social events. At social events I feel like an outsider & all awkward. Despite all this I love being introverted because it means I get time to learn about myself, less distractions & nobody to backstab me. Quality > quantity
I feel like it’s about being understanding of someone else. It seems even introverts compare whose “more introverted “ but it’s not about that it’s learning, introversion shows up differently in each person. I think if we learn to accept others and let them be who they are, we will help each other’s confidence and all get along better. This is a great topic, I loved it! It was very thorough and thought out 💭🙌🏽
As an introvert when I hear someone describe introvert The first word to pop up in my head is : insecure. Even tho I love to party I do get worn out but I’d much rather party than stay ALONE 🤔 idk maybe I’m a mix. Oh hey yeahh Bart also brought it up feel smart
Gio im exactly like you! I'm Happy being a wall flower... N being high while people watching... It's the best... I was told introverts are just amazingly weird but super high intellect people... So don't trip.. You need Bart to get you out of it.. Perfect fit...
Its scary how barts thought patterns in social situations is soooo similar to mine. Especially the "ill talk to this guy and within 30 seconds i know if we click or not" and if i dont click with him i dont even try to socialize with that person anymore. So i dont have 100s of friends or contacts in my phonebook but everyone i hang with we are very very close and never run out of sht to say like u would with some1 u dont have much in common woth. I feel like my brain and barts brain work exactly the same its so weird
I can be alone, but still have fun watching people have fun. E.g I can be alone in a room but watching you guys on JKP having fun is fun for me. I guess it's second-hand fun lol
9:15 - 9:31 difference with me is I wouldn't "make it pop off" and I'd be all awkward in the club just waiting for my housemates to get bored so we can go home
Lol Geo & Bart talkin bout going to FRIEND'S PARTIES. 1 I have like 1 friend, 2 I never get invited to any sort of social activity (and even if I did, I wouldn't really want to go)
Bart may be introverted, but it's ok in his case because it seems he has TONS of friends. Try being introverted and having one friend, like me lol. And my friend is an ambivert (introverted & extroverted) so he socialises with others so well, leaving me alone.
Lol Geo thinks she's introverted, Bart doesn't think he's introverted. But it seems Bart is more introverted than Geo. I feel like Geo just doesn't like small talk or making new friends.
You're NOT an Introvert, you're Insecure. An Introvert knows who they are as a person. You don't do well socially because you are always worried about pleasing the public's perception of who you would like them to see you as. You have no idea who you are as an individual. You only know how to adapt your personality to compliment those of your friends. Heaven forbid you ever actually had an Honest relationship with yourself. You are Definitely missing out on life. You don't have any honest connections with anyone but Bart. Bart thinks you are overcomplicating and overreacting social events. Bart is care-free, and you are not. Like I've said before, Quit social media. Stay Home. Reconnect with your son. You can be you, with just him. And you can figure out who the F you are. You're missing out on a connection with Taika, because again, you're too focused on how you want the public to perceive you. The public will always praise you, but the REAL people in the world are going to tell you the brutal honest truth, you're Empty. You're filling it with nonsense and when it comes to substance, you're all talk. Cut the crap. Take time AWAY. Hire a life coach. A REAL one. Get to refocus on the Things that matter, and figure out who you are and how you want to impact the world. You need a life coach, or a therapist, to talk you through the circles you be running every day.
I think i know exactly what is going on here. You two are losing your sense of self. It could be because y’all are not made for each other or y’all spend too much time to make each other happy and not enough to self care. Introvert could he a result of your relationship and how you run it.
I dont think you know what and introvert is. Being in a relationship can't cause you to be introverted. Geo always says that she is introverted and get burned out from being around people but the one person she can always be around is bart.
Well, because Bart is her husband and she is very much in love and happy being his wife. Also, they been together for almost 11 years and that is a long time. If you watch Beaws channel they have no problem or feel awkward showing affection. For sure this two love birds are genuinely in love and not doing it for the views or for show. True love! Lol!
I totally get what Bart is saying. we want to be apart of conversations, group hangouts, etc but when we actually get to doing it, it ends up feeling way more draining on us having to consistently communicate and keep conversations going siGH
That shit is spot on.
Yeah, I can't be assed. It's like, why would I want to chill out at a friends place when the best place that I prefer to chill out at is at home. 😊
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you're describing my life. I'll literally watch JKP & think "I wish I had a large group of friends", then I'll be in a situation where there's many of us, and I'd just get drained and wanna go home back to my bedroom. I think 80% of the time I want to be completely alone, and 20% of the time I want to be with people. Conversely I do sometimes get drained if I'm by myself for a little too long
6:20 loooool, I relate so much. I literally never know when to go for the dap or the fist bump
authenticity and investment is how social interaction becomes 'easy' over time...if bart's always in his head trying to think of the most impressive/funniest/coolest way to do/say something, he'll always feel like he's forcing it...like he missed an orientation class or something. kinda like when bart says someone's 5 second old punchline as though he came up with it himself...that is because he was so in his head trying to think of what to say, he forgot to listen to everyone else in the room. ignoring people to think of what you'll say next is a surefire way to make interaction more difficult and awkward. think of all the curiosity bart had for working out...all that time and energy both physically and mentally invested...the reason the gym is comfy and easy is because you took such an interest in it....if you want social interactions to be easier, you'll need to take a similar interest in those around you...which will most likely not come naturally for someone like bart...but that doesn't make it any less possible.
Which means, ultimately Barts true being, even tho he is very very friendly, is that he's actually a loner, and a comfortable one at that.
@@bucketsniper5488
Oh, ouch!
Damn, who hurt you bro.😁
I love the introversion conversation! I feel like nobody fully gets in-depth about it. I feel Geo on feeling and being told like no one fully understands you and having that mystery complex.
Y’all should read “The Introvert Advantage” by Marti Olsen Laney. Such a good book that breaks down everything about being introverted.
Introversion and extroversion is something your born with. It’s your upbringing that determines weather your overall personality is defined by these two types.
As a 20-year-old introvert, my FOMO factor is almost nonexistent. Of course every now and then I'm like 'let me hang out with family/friends and enjoy the bond/connection', but I realized I don't necessarily need to be in the middle of the moment to feel connected.
For example, my Grandmother turned 82, May of 2019, and for the first time in two years our immediate family (cousins, uncles, aunts- maybe 20 people max) came over to our 3 bedroom apartment and hung out. There was cake, food, a little bit of music but mainly just family interacting with one another. I only came out into the living room for the singing of Happy Birthday and grabbed myself a plate of food, but after that, I went right down the hall to my room and watched UA-cam. My door was open the entire time, but that was all I needed. Listening to everyone enjoy themselves selves was all I needed to feel connected and involved.
I discovered years ago, just like my mother, I don't need to go to parties, family 'get together's' for holidays or the mall with friends to get my energy and recharge like your average extrovert. I'm a homebody. I'm perfectly fine with staying at home and spending weeks on end doing nothing but working from home and watching UA-cam on my off-hours. That's how I get my energy and recharge. And I'm perfectly fine with that.
Good for you. Do you 😊
That's all great till you need to move out or get a real job
I'm super introverted and really shy but if I have a few drinks I'm I can do anything and talk to anyone but after I have to recharge for like a week.
Are you secretly spying on me?😁
i love how real they are
Im so Geo! Ive never met someone who can explain themselves and I am like "thats me!" To the t! I wish i knew more Geo's!
I feel like i just found myself
What Bart’s describing doesn’t really sound like being introverted. Introverts like being alone, that’s how they recharge and it’s very much a happy place for them. Feeling like your on the outside looking in, sounds like being lonely to me. Being alone is a choice, being lonely is a shitty feeling. Two different things.
Yup.
There’s different levels to being an introvert.
Indeed what you said about him being outside looking in seems lonely or it could mean he longs to be more comfortable in the setting he is in. However when he does go out he doesn’t like staying out for long interacting with people and does like his alone time because he has many things he can do and it does drain him to be out and about with people. So yes he is introverted but to a certain degree. :) hope that makes sense
That's selfish to say that. Your perception of introverts dosen't stand true to all of them.
Mitski There’s nothing selfish about enjoying your alone time. As an introvert myself, alone time is important, it’s how I recharge. Without that it I find myself getting anxious and it makes the social anxiety I already have even worst. Also, you’re right, my description of introverts isn’t true for all introverts, because there are levels to being introverted and extroverted. Some people are extremely introverted, were they go out and see a couple people and then there good for the rest of the month on human interaction (this is an over dramatic example.) and other introverts have weekly or even daily limits were after a quick recharge (their alone time) they can go back out into the world and interact with more people again. There’s nothing selfish about wanting to be alone or needing space.
As an introvert I resonate with most of what you speak of geo 💛
This was awesome! I resonate a lot with Bart growing up.
I feel like I’m very much a balance between both being an introvert and extrovert. Like Geo I prefer to stay home at all times with the exception of the occasional outing but once I’m out I do enjoy interacting and want to continue the fun for as long as possible!
I'm like that if it's party time.😊
Everytime Geo says “Like” during the Best fiends sponsor message take a shot.
*passes out*
Barts jacket is dope 👌🏽
Hehehe, we're Geo's babies 😇💕
I'm like the most extreme introvert ever. There's days when I don't even talk to anyone verbally because I'm in my room (like now) just doing work or chilling. I have 1 proper friends & I talk to him about everything. I WAS in a friendship group in high school but I felt like they were tryna cut me out so I just made it easier for them (& myself) by removing myself from them.
I don't go/get invited to parties or any social events. At social events I feel like an outsider & all awkward.
Despite all this I love being introverted because it means I get time to learn about myself, less distractions & nobody to backstab me. Quality > quantity
Watching this as an introverted person as well, this was so insightful! Definitely relatable
I feel like it’s about being understanding of someone else. It seems even introverts compare whose “more introverted “ but it’s not about that it’s learning, introversion shows up differently in each person. I think if we learn to accept others and let them be who they are, we will help each other’s confidence and all get along better. This is a great topic, I loved it! It was very thorough and thought out 💭🙌🏽
As an introvert when I hear someone describe introvert The first word to pop up in my head is : insecure. Even tho I love to party I do get worn out but I’d much rather party than stay ALONE 🤔 idk maybe I’m a mix.
Oh hey yeahh Bart also brought it up feel smart
Are you drinking when you party?
Gio im exactly like you! I'm Happy being a wall flower... N being high while people watching... It's the best... I was told introverts are just amazingly weird but super high intellect people... So don't trip.. You need Bart to get you out of it.. Perfect fit...
Its scary how barts thought patterns in social situations is soooo similar to mine. Especially the "ill talk to this guy and within 30 seconds i know if we click or not" and if i dont click with him i dont even try to socialize with that person anymore. So i dont have 100s of friends or contacts in my phonebook but everyone i hang with we are very very close and never run out of sht to say like u would with some1 u dont have much in common woth. I feel like my brain and barts brain work exactly the same its so weird
Thank yall so much for talking about this! I'm such an introvert and a lot of people don't understand. But I totally relate to you Geo! 💓
Lil Intro Vert 🎤😂
I can be alone, but still have fun watching people have fun. E.g I can be alone in a room but watching you guys on JKP having fun is fun for me. I guess it's second-hand fun lol
Omfg EVERYTHING Geo explained and said is so me too! 😭😭
Love the beaws, happy holidays 💛
9:15 - 9:31 difference with me is I wouldn't "make it pop off" and I'd be all awkward in the club just waiting for my housemates to get bored so we can go home
Lol Geo & Bart talkin bout going to FRIEND'S PARTIES. 1 I have like 1 friend, 2 I never get invited to any sort of social activity (and even if I did, I wouldn't really want to go)
6:09
Lmao social anxiety in a nutshell
3:28 I felt this on a deep level, I always knew Bart was my father
Wow. Geo. Is legit. Me.
I'm like Bart, Text response time should be a couple hours (ideally within 30 mins), emails a couple days, phone calls within an hour
I'm introvert i know what Bart is talking about, i always feel the same way.
I'm playing Best Fiends while listening lol. Anyone else?
wow geo hasn't cleared her throat 5 times at the start of the podcast? who is this?!?
Love you guys
Bart may be introverted, but it's ok in his case because it seems he has TONS of friends. Try being introverted and having one friend, like me lol. And my friend is an ambivert (introverted & extroverted) so he socialises with others so well, leaving me alone.
I love geo. ❤️❤️❤️
I want Bart to be my mentor !!!
any sort of prolonged human interaction drains me. I literally NEED to be alone more than with people
I love Best Fiends! At level 413😂
8:50 really cracked up for no reason
Send merch ❤️
missing the bbbbeaw cast
Bart is 2006 Jordan Pruitt
Meeee switching the first and last word because in Spanish it’s switched 🥴🥴🥴
Lol Geo thinks she's introverted, Bart doesn't think he's introverted. But it seems Bart is more introverted than Geo. I feel like Geo just doesn't like small talk or making new friends.
Geo sounds bipolar lol 😂
She literally said: "I KNOW, I DON'T KNOW....!"
True
homework>podcast?
🐻🎙
geo ur an awesome woman and mom and wife i hope you see how beautiful,strong,and reslient you are!!!
You're NOT an Introvert, you're Insecure. An Introvert knows who they are as a person. You don't do well socially because you are always worried about pleasing the public's perception of who you would like them to see you as. You have no idea who you are as an individual. You only know how to adapt your personality to compliment those of your friends. Heaven forbid you ever actually had an Honest relationship with yourself. You are Definitely missing out on life. You don't have any honest connections with anyone but Bart. Bart thinks you are overcomplicating and overreacting social events. Bart is care-free, and you are not. Like I've said before, Quit social media. Stay Home. Reconnect with your son. You can be you, with just him. And you can figure out who the F you are. You're missing out on a connection with Taika, because again, you're too focused on how you want the public to perceive you. The public will always praise you, but the REAL people in the world are going to tell you the brutal honest truth, you're Empty. You're filling it with nonsense and when it comes to substance, you're all talk. Cut the crap. Take time AWAY. Hire a life coach. A REAL one. Get to refocus on the Things that matter, and figure out who you are and how you want to impact the world. You need a life coach, or a therapist, to talk you through the circles you be running every day.
Stop projecting yourself
I dont think geos introverted, maybe a bit of both, an introextrovert haha depends on the situation.
Oof
I think i know exactly what is going on here. You two are losing your sense of self. It could be because y’all are not made for each other or y’all spend too much time to make each other happy and not enough to self care. Introvert could he a result of your relationship and how you run it.
I dont think you know what and introvert is. Being in a relationship can't cause you to be introverted. Geo always says that she is introverted and get burned out from being around people but the one person she can always be around is bart.
Well, because Bart is her husband and she is very much in love and happy being his wife. Also, they been together for almost 11 years and that is a long time. If you watch Beaws channel they have no problem or feel awkward showing affection. For sure this two love birds are genuinely in love and not doing it for the views or for show. True love! Lol!
Uh? they were introverts before they met tho.
Next.
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I'm not a game bro. Snap out of it dumbass. 😁
@@salotesua9480 looking at all the comments you posted i can conclude your brain is full of dust, homie.
I mainly listened to bart this podcast, geo had absolutely nothing interesting to contribute (like always) #incominghaters #itsthetruththo
You sound like you want attention. 😁
@@salotesua9480 speaking the truth is wanting attention?
@@salotesua9480 just because she's a woman doesnt mean she's allowed to get a pass for everything she does
@@bucketsniper5488
Blah blah, you sound miserable as fuck dude.😁😂
@@salotesua9480 nah not miserable homie 😂 you're blind to the truth, thats miserable