What Disappearing For A Year Actually Looks Like

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  • @IssaIbrahim1
    @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +214

    Guys I hope you understood that the mother comment was a joke.. I promise I love my mother to death ♥️

    • @KaGeeSandamukal
      @KaGeeSandamukal Рік тому +14

      I was like "Yo... That's your mom bro"😮

    • @sand9687
      @sand9687 Рік тому +7

      Thanks for clarifying

    • @teamhop
      @teamhop Рік тому

      Hey I’ve got some really great news to share with you, Jesus Christ, the Son of God, died on a cross and resurrected on the third day so you may all have eternal life. If you believe and repent of your sins and put your faith and trust in Him as you would a parachute jumping off a plane at 25000 feet up in the air, He will give you eternal life in heaven as a free gift and I promise you, He will change your life forever as He did mine. He is the ONLY way to heaven and He loves you all. Please think deeply about this with urgency because this is your eternal life and soul, you don’t know when you could die, meaning you could die at any moment, so please consider this with all your heart. If anyone tells you that Jesus isn’t the only way, they are lying to you and they don’t care about your future.

    • @a82748
      @a82748 Рік тому +1

      Alhamdulillah

    • @JoshReally
      @JoshReally Рік тому +5

      Jesus loves you 🍀🍒💙🐟🪺🪻💮🌼💖🌿🪷🐠🥀🌾🦋🏵🌷🌸🐝🎁🌺⚘️🌾🐞

  • @thatguyoverthere2217
    @thatguyoverthere2217 Рік тому +51

    "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. "
    - African Proverb

    • @martavionhamilton3634
      @martavionhamilton3634 Рік тому +3

      How you going to get far with a lot of people that knows nothing

    • @thatguyoverthere2217
      @thatguyoverthere2217 Рік тому +1

      @@martavionhamilton3634 people learn and grow. One that can't get that isn't fit to lead

    • @martavionhamilton3634
      @martavionhamilton3634 Рік тому +2

      @@thatguyoverthere2217 so why wouldn’t I duck off to get right so I can teach them

  • @Jed_Herne
    @Jed_Herne Рік тому +195

    "Every single day you ignore your higher self is another day wasted towards fulfilling your soul." Love that.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      I know you feel the same bro, we’ve been on the grind together! 💪

    • @Jed_Herne
      @Jed_Herne Рік тому

      @@IssaIbrahim1 absolutely man

  • @martinkravchenko398
    @martinkravchenko398 Рік тому +110

    Amazing energy, brother. Was very surprised that you still are such a small channel, the production level was top notch. Thank you for creating amazing value!

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +5

      I’m glad you enjoyed the production value bro, it really means a lot 🙏🏼

  • @LaMarcusBeethovenJr.
    @LaMarcusBeethovenJr. Рік тому +174

    Aint no way he just told me to enter my villain arc

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +15

      hahaa sometimes we gotta be the villain bro 😂

    • @TERRELL_GASKINS
      @TERRELL_GASKINS 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@IssaIbrahim1 this will be long but I will do it bro I'm only 22 years old and I've lost family members ghosted by friends cheated on/played by women disrespect by other men and I was even shot at by gang members
      So I realized if I want reality to be mines I with the weight N buried of existence on my shoulders I have to do it my way & these next 21 months of grinding will make it my way N I'll return as the monster

    • @ofanning06
      @ofanning06 7 місяців тому +1

      @@TERRELL_GASKINS21 months, or 12? 🤔

    • @TERRELL_GASKINS
      @TERRELL_GASKINS 7 місяців тому +5

      @@ofanning06 21 I'll go the extra mile for my grindset

    • @601marcusable
      @601marcusable 5 місяців тому

      I have to enter the Villian zone

  • @2gj906
    @2gj906 Рік тому +721

    Just to be clear, going ghost mode is letting go of distractions but disappearing from the face of the earth in the true sense isn't particularly good because as much crap as you feel inside you there are still people that truly love you like your family, you just don't let their opinions impact your final goal.. but you can still have some type of communication with them.

    • @StephensonGC
      @StephensonGC Рік тому +77

      Yes cutting everyone out is seriously not healthy. Young men esp need to realise this with feelings of loneliness increasing in the modern world

    • @mrjohnson140
      @mrjohnson140 Рік тому +8

      Eat the meat and spit the bone bro

    • @Smithiesgg
      @Smithiesgg Рік тому +13

      Loneliness, Solitude we have to get used to this for a reason

    • @Forll
      @Forll Рік тому +5

      Yeah I'd say not to completely cut off close family/friend members but interact less than you normally would, and then once you've gone through this journey, resume however feels natural

    • @lampyrisnoctiluca9904
      @lampyrisnoctiluca9904 Рік тому +4

      yeah, people often confuse things here. to me the real meaning is to be only around good people you are close to, while ignoring not so good ones and those who are just there, no matter what kind of people they are. to me it is about limiting social media and less socialising, but working on your health, improving your life and making your dreams come true instead. it is about rejecting conformity for something better. also, it is about not telling a single soul what are you up to, and then surprising them with the results.
      i hope that i will last for a year this time. I tried to disappear for the entire year of 2023, but in the march some bad things started happening and dealing with them became a top priority. i still accomplished so much in the two and a half months that it surprised me. I am not telling a single soul about it all yet because I am not done. Tomorrow is my birthday and I am starting again. Hope that the life won't trow another huge bad thing at me this time.

  • @yanaloet4076
    @yanaloet4076 Рік тому +76

    Bro soon I'll turn 20 this year, time just go by. I used to care what others think about me, I suffering and anxious for a few years as I am growing up I learn and improving myself by listing to podcast ,meditate and reading . I am glad that's I am past thoses rough situation there. This is a great message for me and other people out there Thank you ♥ ♥

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @zwebsjnr
      @zwebsjnr Рік тому

      What do you read? Looking to get started on reading

    • @AyushSharma-hx9sw
      @AyushSharma-hx9sw Рік тому +3

      I'm going to turn 20 this year as well so I suppose I am in the same boat as you, more or less. I had already deleted all my posts on Instagram, and basically use it minimally for watching memes and staying in touch with long-distance friends now and then. I am in college away from my home country. I mostly live by myself, trying to juggle study, chores and work while also trying to hold onto and maybe improve upon my hobbies.
      In a way, I have disappeared too. I consider this time as a student as my exile. I have no interest or will to take pictures of myself and post them online. In fact, I have nothing to post as well because I think that I have nothing to show for. My pfp on my Instagram isn't even mine. It's a picture of an eclipse, as they symbolize a 'great period of change or development'. As long as it may take.

    • @yanaloet4076
      @yanaloet4076 Рік тому

      @@AyushSharma-hx9sw that's good on you mate!

  • @charlyb7231
    @charlyb7231 Рік тому +14

    Man, thank you so much! I have recently just realised this myself. Quit my job, once again, a few days ago. Not only did I quit my job, I quit my entire industry. There's more, but point is, I have been looking for this confirmation. So I love this!

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Glad I could help! I've also quit an entire industry I devoted 8 years to so I know how you feel

    • @charlyb7231
      @charlyb7231 Рік тому +1

      @@IssaIbrahim1 Even more inspirational! I know you target mostly men, but I am a woman, obviously, so just know you are talking to females as well. We all support you!

  • @jakevinmar2069
    @jakevinmar2069 Рік тому +7

    It’s crazy because you’ve gone ghost and worked on yourself for a year and came back with enough clarity and passion to break through the UA-cam algorithm and go viral. Crazy how hard work pays off. Ride the wave brudda, here before 200k subs

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      It’s because of people like you that it is all possible, thank you for your support 🙏

  • @bluecrusader
    @bluecrusader Рік тому +51

    I think this is a neccessity for any young man. I made the most progress at the start of the 2020 lockdowns when I went ghost and grinded. I did see it important to return somewhat when I had got most of the way there, it can be easy to disappear forever and keep solo grinding but its important to phase back in the people who really care about you after a few months so the friendships and relationships don't burn out or keep close friends close.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for the input bro, couldn’t agree more 🙏

    • @AsifRaza-oq4nb
      @AsifRaza-oq4nb Рік тому +1

      Yes. Bcz after the ghost mode is tuned off, you'll be looking for people back in your life for any kind of emotional/social support. We aren't animals or machines. We're social beings, and we need human company in different times of life.

  • @KashifHanif-kq3do
    @KashifHanif-kq3do Рік тому +12

    Subhanallah, my 5 month old son's name is Isa also with one S, and this feels like him grown up telling his father to be more resilient. I had him at 26, I wasn't ready and things got complicated very fast. I became homeless due to money issues at home, I moved 3 times in the space of 4 months with a new baby and my wife and I'll say this. Through the tears and uncertainty it made me stronger than ever. I still battle with depression and anxiety but I became a beast in the gym, I learnt how to properly love a woman, how to be a father, a husband and what you have said is all true, if you're going to disappear then come back different, everyone is waiting to see you fail (maybe not close family members) but you'll be surprised at who doesn't want you to succeed. I hope my son grows to be like you, aware of the things that actually matter.

  • @ghostrecon3834
    @ghostrecon3834 Рік тому +21

    Great video man. After I went and watched some of your older videos, now subbed. The ‘Nobody Gives A Shit About Men’s Mental Health’ video hit me like a freight train, nothing but pure unadulterated truth in there.
    Really hoping I’m able to get out of this deep rut I’ve been in since 2020 soon. Things really start to seem pointless after awhile of trying and getting nowhere. But I guess you just have to keep going or die trying.
    But thanks for being a light in this dark ass world man, all love.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Hey bro, this message really hit me personally. Thank you so much for sharing this message. The fact that I can impact you positively on any way means a lot. The men’s mental health video is one of my personal favourites on my channel so I’m glad you saw that. Please feel free to book a free call with me if you wanna talk about any of your problems!

  • @Lakeiran
    @Lakeiran 2 місяці тому

    The way you talk my guy you will become a leader of the inspirational community if you stay creative. Proud of you boss

  • @journeywithnikole
    @journeywithnikole Рік тому +58

    I am a woman but I feel you in almost everything you have said. Thank you so much for your content. I sent this to my son but I wanted to tell you that I needed this 💪

  • @hollowedboi5937
    @hollowedboi5937 Рік тому +27

    I agree with the sentiment of, “if it works for you then it works.” So if this works for you then awesome. For me personally, I agree with working out, spending time on things you prioritize as actually important rather than what others say is normal or what you “should do.”
    Though part of that for me is being open to try new things and be more honest with the people around me and understand that I can’t control their actions but only my own. It’s also in cherishing all the small moments, including those times with your mom for tea before she’s all of a sudden gone. Maybe rn I can say, “sorry mom I’m busy today, but I’m free on these days I’d love to see you again.” And prioritize enjoying and focusing on that one thing.
    I guess what I’m saying is I don’t want to live in regret. But part of that is truly cherishing and living in the moments I currently am in. Enjoy all the side journeys with the main quest.

  • @divanarnoldi
    @divanarnoldi Рік тому +4

    Inspirational, besides the rejecting your mom part - good outways the bad in that scenario.

    • @sand9687
      @sand9687 Рік тому

      ignoring your mom isn't the right thing to do

  • @Yomomma1467
    @Yomomma1467 Рік тому +5

    Doing this as we speak,also working out I deleted all my socials in October,ngl gets lonely but the pain,MY pain, and the reasons why I workout makes me go harder and sometimes clearing my mind too while I’m at it-new sub🤝🏻

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      The journey is tough but very much worth it 🙏🏽 keep at it bro!

    • @Yomomma1467
      @Yomomma1467 Рік тому

      @@IssaIbrahim1 love you dog, no homo lol

    • @Yomomma1467
      @Yomomma1467 Рік тому

      @@IssaIbrahim1 dog I swear it couldn’t gone better today I saw my ex from when I was 16 she frr thought she was gonna make me sad or some and she had her new nigga too😂 and I’m laughing bc how would you feel if your girl tells you to workout next to her ex, that’s literally what happened😂 so if anything that man should feel dumb, that zyzz song frr help me go harder today forsure

  • @oscarbeltran8513
    @oscarbeltran8513 Рік тому +3

    Hey man I appreciate you making this video…going through a breakup and your advice helps a lot for me and all the fellow kings

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Hope you get through that breakup man!

  • @chillmeisterk8699
    @chillmeisterk8699 Рік тому +25

    Really good content! Checked your other stuff too, actually impressive, thanks for the motivation! Hope you will blow up soon for others to realise the lies this society brings.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Bro that means a lot! Thank you for your support 🙏🏼

  • @CookieChannelMaestro
    @CookieChannelMaestro Рік тому +6

    Crazy quality for the amount of subs, keep up the great work brother

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Thanks, will do! Appreciate all the support I can get 🙏🏼

  • @ermac384
    @ermac384 Рік тому +1

    Bro this video is literally Gold.

  • @stephen-michael
    @stephen-michael Рік тому +11

    Man. You’re killing it bro 💪🏻 looking forward to next week’s episode!

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Let’s keep posting brother 💪🏼

  • @RyleyMasman
    @RyleyMasman Рік тому +3

    this an amazing video. very good content, im grateful for this wake up call. thank you sir

  • @DG-EditsYT
    @DG-EditsYT Рік тому +1

    Best video i have seen in a while, straight to the point, no messing around

  • @H12457
    @H12457 Рік тому +70

    I applaud you for your hardwork and I liked this video. But one thing I want to say is that "having tea with your mother" is priceless and is probably worth your time.

    • @TomGirshovsky
      @TomGirshovsky Рік тому +2

      True

    • @BandanaBandieto
      @BandanaBandieto Рік тому +1

      So true

    • @williamflyckt76
      @williamflyckt76 Рік тому +3

      Yes, also you never know how long your parents are with you in life. I would understand if you have a bad situation or problems with your parents but otherwise you should not be that disrespectful to your parents.

  • @daeclipse03
    @daeclipse03 Рік тому +9

    I needee to see this. Just got out of a narcissistic relationship that really messed with my mental health.
    Deleted all social media, dropped 24 lbs in the last month working out 2x a day and focusing on my diet and seeing a therapist now.
    This battle for the next year is me vs me.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Looking forward to seeing where this next year takes you bro! Keep up the grind! 💪

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 11 місяців тому

      Good for you man you deserve to be happy

  • @nicksorenson
    @nicksorenson 10 місяців тому

    You a real one bro! You can’t put a price on peace and good health. Starting up my channel and learning from you on this journey 💪🏼

  • @ConsoleAuthority
    @ConsoleAuthority Рік тому +17

    Ghost mode is not sustainable and if do sustain it, what a sad /wasted life. Coming from a guy who actually did this for more than a year. Not worth it. Balance of everything is what i found made my life rich. It's a personal choice.
    If you think really hard, it's terrible advice to go into this kind of mode where your ignoring important people in your life. You have limited time with parents and your loved ones and you came to this earth naked and you will leave naked. All the achievements will stay on ground.
    If you live like this you will just end up depressed alone , successfull maybe but it's not worth having success if there is no one else around to share your success with.
    This is only my opinion, everyone can make up their own minds but the whole point of ghost mode should be to refocus on your goals and this should be done daily in specific time frame so that you keep everything balanced.

    • @abhinav7321
      @abhinav7321 Рік тому +2

      totally agreed, I too was in a "ghost mode" for quite a long time and came out with massive ego, selfishness and feeling utterly disgusted. I do not regret going ghost mode but what I've realized is that its better not to take that approach as you'd only be getting farther away from your goals. We must not get stuck to that vicious cycle of perfectionism for it brings ruin to you and your surroundings. Try approaching your goals with more social exposure, who knows maybe you'd find a better goal along the way or it'd be much easier and fruitful to reach there. Also most people who encourage this "ghost mode" are the ones who have goals such as: greater wealth, being rich, beating competition, narrowing mindset to only one particular thing and other such materialistic goals.
      remember the difference between working hard and working like a donkey.

    • @janicewinston8696
      @janicewinston8696 Рік тому

      Even once successes are achieved, you’ll still be lonely because even though you made a meaningful effort to add value to your life (mere existence) doesn’t mean that those around you have. My entire family are resentful towards me now that I’m a fully functional adult. It’s like they are upset with me because I grew up. I don’t relate to anyone professionally (most are NPCs) and even traveling I find so many people are broken and envious and always want something and incapable of being self resourceful. Yes it’s lonely being alone but sometimes it’s a means to SURVIVE.

    • @jaysouthmusic8230
      @jaysouthmusic8230 11 місяців тому

      I been in ghost mode for 3 years since 2020 and it hasn’t affected me if anything I cutted a lot of people off and I gained my peace and happiness back I lost years ago to the point I love being in ghost mode and it doesn’t affect me whatsoever cause it taught me who actually cares about me and that’s my mom and god (and the engineer I work with at the studio) other than them screw everyone else I use to know I don’t mind meeting new people but people from my past fuck em

  • @Bunny-cm5qp
    @Bunny-cm5qp Рік тому +3

    I'm 17 and i really needed this

  • @karlomorf2151
    @karlomorf2151 Рік тому +48

    I turned around my path half a year ago, I started training seriously and changed my diet, I turned down girls that crushed on me because now after quiting my job I started putting all my focus on learning coding and working out. I do go out every other weekend just to blow off some steam but I am feeling in top form and just gotta keep grinding toward my goal to be coder one day. People who see me now say: You have changed.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +3

      I love to hear that bro. Keep at the grind 💪🏽

    • @matthewtlapanco9705
      @matthewtlapanco9705 Рік тому

      Happy for you bro! How do you like coding? I’m at the point where I’ve been contemplating doing the same thing I already work out but I need a better job can’t seem to get ahead. Debating between coding and accounting. Any feedback would help tbh

    • @karlomorf2151
      @karlomorf2151 Рік тому

      @@matthewtlapanco9705 Thanks, so far I love it, I find it very interesting, mind you I have a degree in marketing communications but I found out it is not a job for me, so decided on this course, in my opinion its better to dig in the IT, more job opportunities if you are good at it and better working conditions.

    • @prasitsingh6713
      @prasitsingh6713 Рік тому +1

      I’m going through same journey but it’s hard to find people with same goal in real life

    • @karlomorf2151
      @karlomorf2151 Рік тому

      @@prasitsingh6713 just work on yourself, the right people will come when they need to.

  • @alexvalmont7310
    @alexvalmont7310 Рік тому +4

    bro I relate so much. this is what's happening to me right now.

  • @jameswalker4704
    @jameswalker4704 7 місяців тому

    This video is part of my daily routine. 🎉❤

  • @g.-o.2243
    @g.-o.2243 Рік тому +43

    I'm so blessed that I found your channel bro! I started 2nd month of my monk mode (s-retention 3rd week bc of relapse), exercising daily and writing my journal. While I started this routine, two things dropped off,- drinking coffee and friends. But what came back was my desire to finish my mission I gave up many years ago. Battling with my inner demons most of my 20s , I'm finally shedding my skin from the past and ready to go full ghost mode for the summer. Thank you for inspiration, Issa! Let's get s*it done!🔥

  • @victor_formerchallenger
    @victor_formerchallenger Рік тому +2

    Bro... thank you for the reminder.
    Say no to instant gratification.
    F**k that shit... 😤

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Delayed gratification > Instant Gratification
      You got this bro 💪🏼

  • @Charlate
    @Charlate Рік тому +10

    I know this came out 2 months ago but this week is my lowest point so far. I need to change and that unrest in me to change is flourishing because of this video. If this isn’t a sign from god and the youtube algorithm, I don’t know what is.

  • @Acestrykerplotagonfilms
    @Acestrykerplotagonfilms Рік тому +2

    Went ghost at 16 left high school friends big family I’m now 18 turning 19 nice job dream truck best shape of my life leave the distractions better yourself

  • @BjornSummer
    @BjornSummer Рік тому +15

    Have done the exact same thing for the past year now. Quit drinking & drugs, quit social media, left my toxic work, left my fake friends and created a new yt channel. I didn't even know this was a thing before I just clicked on your video! Excellent stuff man, Would you be interested in doing a video together?

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Wow that’s amazing bro! Hopefully sometime in the future 🙏🏼

  • @lewismountstephens7955
    @lewismountstephens7955 Рік тому +31

    I'm approaching the year mark of doing this, and I've loved it. Just knowing you're working your ass off in the shadows and coming out a whole new person is powerful as hell man.💪
    I can't wait for people to be like 'Woah, you've changed'. Damn right I have, where do you think I've been the past 12 months!🤣

  • @chaitanyabhargava7603
    @chaitanyabhargava7603 Рік тому +1

    Raw af. Man! You just earned a subscriber. Keep it up.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Respect bro I appreciate your sub & support on this channel!

  • @renebleu8711
    @renebleu8711 Рік тому +3

    Everyone should do this- just ghost for a year especially if you’re young, no major responsibilities but yourself.
    Stop finding an excuse to do hard work.

  • @dhmtube4454
    @dhmtube4454 Рік тому +3

    This video got me through my workout today! 🙏🏽

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      hahaa I'm glad to hear that bro, keep grinding 💪

  • @KDRusha
    @KDRusha Рік тому +2

    Technically, I was a ghost for like 4-5 years once I moved from my hometown. Moved back and everyone thinks I’m hotter shit than I really am 😂 I love it.

  • @tomengland299
    @tomengland299 9 місяців тому +2

    Careful not to cut off ties with people who love and care for you, have tea with your mum because you’ll regret it when you can’t

    • @TheBhaiFriend
      @TheBhaiFriend 3 місяці тому +1

      My man you've spoken nothing but truth.. ghost mode is okay but parents and family must not be compromised.

  • @Cambridge_Recs
    @Cambridge_Recs Рік тому +1

    Awesome video! That's the right mindset!

  • @azamvlogs2886
    @azamvlogs2886 Рік тому +1

    Broo how did I just come across this awesome guy!!

  • @Razberrylol
    @Razberrylol Рік тому +1

    This seriously gave me the motivation i need thank you brother

  • @Jimmy-yw9jr
    @Jimmy-yw9jr Рік тому +76

    That’s some real stuff. The path of most resistance is often the most fruitful

  • @hacksvitae
    @hacksvitae Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this. I needed to hear this. 💯 More power to you my friend! 💯

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Glad it was helpful! You got this bro 💪🏼

  • @deeshotts
    @deeshotts Рік тому +1

    needed this! i was on the grind now im grinding

  • @laksuh6926
    @laksuh6926 Рік тому +2

    Only thing that this will grow is the chance of loosing all your friends and social life

  • @ivaniii5699
    @ivaniii5699 Рік тому +4

    Hey man, just wanted to thank you because lately I have been distracted and confused if I should just cut off from the world or keep wasting my time, after this video, I am convinced that I will disappear for 1 year and when I return everybody should be like, "woah is that you?"............But guess what my idle and lazy mind is already telling me you don't need to do this and that it would be very difficult and I would fail. Wish me all the best, I will try my best.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Bro you're gonna kill it! If you ever want to talk about it, book a free meeting with me and I'll try my best to help! Keep in mind why you're doing this and how you're gonna come out of it. Next week, I have a really powerful video coming out on how loneliness is part of the journey.

    • @ivaniii5699
      @ivaniii5699 Рік тому +1

      @@IssaIbrahim1 I am going to write a short note with two sections : section 1 will talk about everything I will have if I achieve it like good physique, girls, money, respect and section 2 will talk about everything I will retain if fail for example, regret, no dignity, skinny body, no money. Whenever I would feel like quitting I will just look at the note.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      @@ivaniii5699 that’s a great idea bro. Going through both processes is very powerful and something I personally do myself!

  • @SnaXxz
    @SnaXxz Рік тому +15

    Ive been in ghost mode going to the gym since november of last year losing almost 100 pounds and toning up and focusing on eating right and mental discipline. Best thing i have ever done. But lately i have been dealing with a whole bunch of drama from people and even women and the fact i have felt alone for the longest but that quote you said hit different, i gotta replay that part again. Being alone is actually a blessing in disguise. This video was the best thing i have watched in a minute. Thank you brother.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +2

      Glad to hear you find it helpful bro, get back on the grind and crush it 💪

  • @pacificnorthoutdoors8424
    @pacificnorthoutdoors8424 Рік тому +3

    I quit watching the video immediately as soon as I saw you doing deadlifts in a Smith machine at planet fitness. Now I could never take you seriously ever 1:58

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      LOL I promise you I switched gyms 😂

  • @damtewn
    @damtewn 2 місяці тому

    Thank you man! I shall try this one at least for a month.

  • @doronergas8078
    @doronergas8078 Рік тому +24

    Id say i have a rare case in which i have somewhere around 15 friends (separated in to 2 groups) that are all actually lifting me up. And i say that after a real assessment (ive been on self improvement for a year or so and my dads passing 276 days ago really improved my judgment) about people) i am also 20 and have already found my purpose in life. I wanna get that ghost mode effect but without actually leaving my friends and my purpose.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +5

      I’m sorry to hear about your dad bro, you must be taking a lot on your plate. In that case, continue to grow with the people around you!

    • @doronergas8078
      @doronergas8078 Рік тому

      @@IssaIbrahim1 thank you Issa, means a lot. Id say my biggest problem rn preventing myself from progressing in life is discipline and structure. I dont think i should completely disappear but rather start working on my goals in a more structured and focused way (i mean i already know that im just struggling to do that)

    • @KrunchyMemes
      @KrunchyMemes Рік тому

      Dawg how did u find your purpose in life at 20 years old. I’m 20 and I just go from job to job, making just enough money to pay the bills.

    • @doronergas8078
      @doronergas8078 Рік тому

      @@KrunchyMemes id say im lucky in a way but it was inevitable...ive been searching for it since i was 7-8 years old

  • @johovlogs
    @johovlogs Рік тому +59

    This is exactly what I’ve been going through for the past month. Really needed this right now. Thank you Issa.

  • @King212_
    @King212_ Рік тому +1

    Never . Cut off . Your . Parents.
    Other than them, everyone is replaceable 🤗

  • @dominikplaskota2549
    @dominikplaskota2549 Рік тому +18

    I could listen to this every day, I think what makes your content so great is that anyone can relate to it. I started my journey 5 months ago - I put on some muscle mass, started boxing and my own self-employed business. Video like this made me motivated even more that I took the right decision.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      I'm glad you can relate to this! It sounds like you got your life together, keep grinding bro!

  • @mantis5090
    @mantis5090 Рік тому +1

    i needed this video
    Thank you Issa

  • @hinglemccringleberry9494
    @hinglemccringleberry9494 Рік тому +7

    Damn I been in ghost mode since Corona in 2020. I’m 27 now. I didn’t get back in the gym, but I went from a low income job and food stamps with a baby busting my ass working 6 days a week sometimes 16 hour days of labor to 6 figure income, 2 well taken care of children and a homeowner in 3 years. I still haven’t even gotten my mind and body right yet to be honest, I’m not close with any of my friends anymore and need to make new friends to push me which is tough to find today, but I will get the gains back and build tf out of a passive income to retire on young and something to pass down!

  • @sagivshamilov7238
    @sagivshamilov7238 Рік тому +2

    Bro I just wanna thank you
    you don’t understand what you did to me

  • @blueheart9873
    @blueheart9873 Рік тому +1

    For me it sucked. I was locked up for over a year and when I came out again it looked like people just forgot me. Small mention, I never got visits either

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Sorry to hear that man, must’ve been lonely but hope you’re doing better!

  • @UnknownUser-fg3fs
    @UnknownUser-fg3fs 9 місяців тому

    I had 2 good close friends like this 1 year ago. I'd got constantly used and I gave them my all until one day I had enough and moved on. Yes, I've been alone a full year some days are so hard but I seen it was going nowhere. They were toxic and holding my back in life. Used me for my money the whole time with no appreciation on how I was doing or the hardships I was going through. I would've given these 2 guys my life. I treated them like a brothers except that was never reciprocated back to me 😔

  • @masoodr971
    @masoodr971 Рік тому

    Toxic people will, unbeknownst to themselves, tear down everyone around them. Shockingly, it often comes from a good place, it comes from love. But their shallow desire for your safety will ruin you.

  • @SilentEagle2029
    @SilentEagle2029 Рік тому +9

    For too long, I've been settled in mediocrity. For too long, I've been held under by those around me. For too long, I simply looked the other way. Not anymore. I'm tired of being less than great. Today starts the beginning of the new me. Today, I become a ghost.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Love to hear that bro! I’m looking forward to your growth 💪🏼

  • @vivekpratapsingh3512
    @vivekpratapsingh3512 Рік тому

    Perfect timing .

  • @Lone_Star86
    @Lone_Star86 24 дні тому

    You should call it Ninja Mode ..your working from the shadows ⚡☯️

  • @Avakita
    @Avakita Рік тому +13

    I honestly needed this video, so many people are holding me back from what I dream to do and I've been considering this for a really long time. I need to disappear because my goal is to be someone new.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Let them go and do yourself the biggest favour 🙏🏼

  • @skatzz121
    @skatzz121 Рік тому

    Really inspirational, thank you

  • @mssr1792
    @mssr1792 Рік тому +8

    I found the hidden gem. Perfect video and videos. I totally believe you are going to grow your channel very fast. Salam from Turkey

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      I'm glad I have you as a subscriber, thanks bro 🙏

  • @id7834
    @id7834 Рік тому

    You can also improve yourself and your life... in a healthy way

  • @kaankaan9402
    @kaankaan9402 Рік тому

    Ghost mode means for me that u focus on yourself Face your demons and the things u hate. Go for a Walk alone learn new things and forget Friends because Most of them aren‘t even real Friends ( don‘t forget your Family).

  • @Officiallyniuul
    @Officiallyniuul Рік тому +1

    Thank you, Toomorrow is day 1 insh'Allah

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Good luck bro! Keep us updated on your progress 💪🏽

    • @Officiallyniuul
      @Officiallyniuul Рік тому

      @@IssaIbrahim1 dAY 1 going good... I still have all my socials i jus't went ghost mode on there and stopped posting for now, i still see the same group of guys...

  • @MrPaulroberts1975
    @MrPaulroberts1975 10 місяців тому

    Getting ready to go ghost mode!

  • @Forll
    @Forll Рік тому +1

    Great inspiring/motivational vid👍

  • @lsi3585
    @lsi3585 Рік тому

    Keep the family close guys, screw everyone else but keep the family close pls.

  • @adrianjowers7234
    @adrianjowers7234 Рік тому +1

    Good shit

  • @ahmedguled7828
    @ahmedguled7828 Рік тому +8

    I really needed this video. I actually came to realization that I need to improve my life for the better around last year but I didn’t act upon it until 6-7 weeks ago. I was in a good flow, sleeping and waking up early, actually making myself breakfast every morning and hitting the gym 4 or 5 days a week. That was until I damaged my car and was told I need to pay $2.3k out of pocket. On top of this new bill I had to cover my car note, rent, insurance and a plethora of other things. I fell into a hole of depression and stopped working out much, I started staying up late again and sleeping till past noon. I was missing appointments and promises I made with family. I went right back to square one.
    This video made me realize things won’t always go my way. I can’t let 1 obstacle stop my progress. I’ll start over again today by going to the gym this evening. The gym is also what helped me sleep early but without it I’ve been staying up late. I WILL get back to the grind starting right now. Thank you Issa. Wishing you nothing but blessings.

  • @yvangelist568
    @yvangelist568 Рік тому

    Awesome video bro!😊

  • @TrillWallets
    @TrillWallets Рік тому

    Inspired ⚡️💫

  • @topg7218
    @topg7218 Рік тому +6

    Bro for first time in my life after I lost my everything absolutely nothing left in my life family friends my girl my money all gone and more importantly myself I was wrestler for 16 years I have 2 gold medals in my country ( iran) but suddenly I became drug addicted I suffered from everything but this video was like a punch in my face.
    Thank you bro I am going to be disappear from now and I will be the person who I was but much better I promise I will do it I am so tired of everything 🙏

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      Wow bro thank you for sharing this story.. it goes to show you that life will ALWAYS have ups and downs no matter where you are, but we MUST get up every single time! I'm rooting for your success bro!

    • @topg7218
      @topg7218 Рік тому +1

      @@IssaIbrahim1 thank you so much bro your video was honest and just hit me hard wish you all the best and hope everyone get at top much respect 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sainttren
    @sainttren Рік тому +1

    I accidentally went “ghost mode” I didn’t know that’s what it’s called. It’s very great

  • @silversoul5285
    @silversoul5285 Рік тому

    6:38 cracked me up lol, thanks for this though. Things have been unimaginably hard.

  • @calvinnatanael5905
    @calvinnatanael5905 10 місяців тому +1

    Love your video, im just start 6 month challenge

  • @anaghavarma3331
    @anaghavarma3331 Рік тому +39

    A seventeen year old about to turn 18, ive already begun my self improvement journey, last year, it took me a long time to realise how brainwashed i was and how deeply the people around you can leave an influence on you. It was only when i stumbled upon these type of videos(tho they were mainly focused for young men, (im a girl)) that i actually started to reevaluate myself, now im going to take a gap year to prepare for an entrance exam, and i will make sure to make every second count, thank you for this video brother 💪

    • @judeperez7629
      @judeperez7629 Рік тому

      I’m turning 18 on June 8th!! Definitely gonna make a big change myself

    • @aether491
      @aether491 Рік тому

      ah same...
      preparing for entrance exam too
      17 about to turn 18 soon

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      I wish I had the courage and bravery at your age to take a gap year. Wishing you the best on your journey 🙏🏽

    • @AlreadyhadJuice
      @AlreadyhadJuice Рік тому

      🔥

    • @Dielawn69
      @Dielawn69 Рік тому +1

      The reason these types of videos are usually targeted at men is because society seems to push a lot of men to the background. That doesnt mean self improvement isnt just as valuable for women and girls. Id say it's just as important for the opposite reason. A lot of women and girls are taught to have a falsely inflated sense of self. Which is just as unfulfilling as being made to feel like you're nothing. It might not seem that way on the surface. But deep down id say it's just as painful.

  • @thenotorious.mb7
    @thenotorious.mb7 Рік тому +12

    issa thank you. I wanna thank you for those words, for your time, for everything. I was down so bad after I struggled with my life, no contact with my family since a young age and the death of my father 2 years ago. The gym was the only point that gave me strenght and everything since I'm 15. Still, the demons got bigger and I had suicidal thoughts on a daily base. Bro, this video, when I saw your eyes when you said those things, everybody can see how bad you mean those words and how true you are about yourself. I literally had tears in my eyes because those words, those things you went through and the things you said were exactly those words that I needed to hear. Thank you so much for everything
    Greetings from switzerland

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Wow bro thanks for sharing your story and I hope you can continue to summon strength to endure anything that comes your way 🙏🏼

  • @squurdixplays8137
    @squurdixplays8137 Рік тому +8

    I want disappear and improve so badly. But my friends and family are just not on the same path and they are just bringing me down every day. I am so bad to say NO to my friends when they want to drink and go out, and i find it extremely hard.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +2

      It will be worth it in the end bro, you can do it 🙏

  • @naturaledward
    @naturaledward Рік тому +1

    I haven’t talked to anyone since the pandemic. Focusing on my craft. I also haven’t shaved since the movember challenge 2020. When I make my reappearance, I am literally coming out of my cave.

  • @jojoinyourhoyo
    @jojoinyourhoyo Рік тому +5

    Wallah I needed to hear this I feel like how you did i work everyday 14 hours and i’m just mentally drained everyday, I have no time to do things I love anymore, no more hobbies, no more family time, just straight work.

  • @Baggens.
    @Baggens. Рік тому +11

    amazing video. You know its not fake when you see the enthusiasm and the look in Issa's eyes

  • @lingeshwarb3990
    @lingeshwarb3990 Рік тому +2

    You said no to your mom when she wanted you to sip tea with you ? If i heard it right your overreacting, we are social beings and we need people , you just don't shut everyone like that and spending time with your mom can be valuable coz they age too and won't be here longer than we think . Instead can ignore the negativity, maybe start from there and slowly work out distractions .

  • @Lil_Kelly
    @Lil_Kelly Рік тому +6

    I feel like all my life, there's been people holding me back and i'm sick and tired of it...all it did accomplish is pain, stress, fear, lack of motivation. But after seeing this video about going in "Ghost mode" it really clicked something inside of me..I felt for a brief moment actual peace and peace is something I haven't felt in very long time.
    So I got a plan and not really sure how it's going to go but
    First: cut off all communication and let go of stress
    Second: Do something I love for example "music" "writing a book" etc and let go of fear
    Third: Start to workout and train my breathing level and let go of pain from either past, present or future
    Fourth: Get my motivation back and accomplish all my goals in life

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому +1

      I’m rooting for you bro! Let’s get on this grind 💪🏼

  • @Jonathan-zu3gb
    @Jonathan-zu3gb Рік тому +6

    And remember your gonna fall, but can’t stay down. Get back up, and keep moving forward.

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      Just like Alfred said, "Why do we fall?" "So we can pick ourselves back up" 🙏

  • @allthebenjamins5399
    @allthebenjamins5399 Рік тому

    Shalom, Issa Ibrahim, if it's not for Jesus Christ, then it's nothing and its vanity. Jesus is the only one that can invoke a change in your heart and soul. True peace comes with Jesus, Don't fall for the trap of the world brother. If you own a Bible, start reading in John, you'll grow and become a reckoning for the Kingdom of the Lord most high. I pray you seek Jesus Diligently, it's for your soul bro, for your eternity and that's what truly matters. Jesus gave his life for you, taking on the sins of the world, There's no need to go ghost if you're living with, for and through him. I love you brother and so does God! Glory be unto him forever and ever, amen!

  • @chance-w9n
    @chance-w9n Рік тому

    had no intentions of ever doing this. 3:46 in and i no longer have any social media. I dont have a set date but i need this, i cling too much to my phone and my dreams of being in the UFC will only be slowed down by distractions.

  • @jorgek92
    @jorgek92 Рік тому +1

    5:04 Idk if it is sarcasm, but that is too much. Actually it is ok to disappear for a while, but why not keeping good relations with the closest people? Family is important

  • @christopherwilliams5912
    @christopherwilliams5912 5 місяців тому

    Bro I am 56 yrs old and this gave me an epiphany!

  • @Yoa-cc7bo
    @Yoa-cc7bo Рік тому +1

    At 6:26 as soon as u said change I look at the clock and it says 555.. I needed this video

  • @Vivi-xn9iz
    @Vivi-xn9iz Рік тому +5

    I was already planning to stop studying after the end of the (school) year.
    Before going to university i already felt like it wasn't for me. I wanted to do something else.
    Your video came at the right moment. I'll finish my year, go back to my hometown for a month (it was already planned long before and I didn't see my family for a year) and in August, as soon as i come back, it's grind time

    • @IssaIbrahim1
      @IssaIbrahim1  Рік тому

      You got this, keep us updated on your journey 💪🏽

    • @Vivi-xn9iz
      @Vivi-xn9iz Рік тому

      @@IssaIbrahim1 Working out, dropshipping and Combat sports during the week, 9-5 during weekends to invest on dropshipping (i already have living expenses covered, i'm lucky to have a dad that pays that)
      How does that sound ?

  • @nigelhenriques1893
    @nigelhenriques1893 Рік тому +5

    Thanks for this video! I actually did go ghost mode- I didn't realize that was the term. But for sure I feel a lot of the comments echo the correct sentiments- you learn who your true friends/family are. I will say though its important to not completely cut people out. I am battling loneliness and its healthy to try and seek solutions to that. Some of us need people to support us during the tough times, but also celebrate the good times with.