Desperately Begging for Friends // EP 26 - Pretty Lonesome

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  • Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
  • In this episode of ‘Pretty Lonesome,’ Madeline is still in LA, and she’s currently seeking friendship. She discusses being starstruck at the Alo Gym and the appearance of baby abs, which she hopes to show off at Coachella this year. Then, Madeline discusses her inclination to switch from wine to tequila and defends JoJo Siwa’s driving skills before giving us an update on her acne journey, as well as insight into her painful experiences with PCOS.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 144

  • @TheGreatDreamer1937
    @TheGreatDreamer1937 5 місяців тому +105

    I’ve never heard of this girl before, one of her videos just popped up in my feed and now I can’t stop listening to her, she has this manic energy that’s really engaging. 10/10 subscribed

  • @user-om6sp8nn2i
    @user-om6sp8nn2i 5 місяців тому +218

    Madeline spending time in LA just to be in her house for a week and a half😭 so Madeline of her, love it

    • @nihachus9200
      @nihachus9200 5 місяців тому +2

      the way i’d do the exact same thing

  • @natalii8366
    @natalii8366 5 місяців тому +79

    the way that we are very similiar and you easily and honestly speak about your feelings and thoughts made me feel more comfortable in being more authentic ♡

  • @ALee-si5ix
    @ALee-si5ix 5 місяців тому +27

    The STARE I gave to the iPad when she said she’s trying to get fit for Coachella.. babes you look like a supermodel hello??

  • @siiiilvia
    @siiiilvia 5 місяців тому +37

    seeing u do all the influencer stuff in LA is so fun it’s like i’m there with u 😭😭 cant wait for coachella

  • @raniahamoudi1618
    @raniahamoudi1618 5 місяців тому +35

    Speaking of friends,I don't have any and I'm happy with it at this moment it's like I don't know myself around friends it doesn't matter how much I'm fun and good company....I don't recognize myself anymore,I want to say words and it's weirdly come out different from what I really wanted to say,or act maybe it's an ADHD thing or something but the best company is when by my self doing my own shit,also it's not weakness but I feel like I'm always in someone's shadow .....knowing me better now,I'm my best friend,cause at some point u just need friends for specific reasons and more importantly for support and if u don't feel that then fu** it .
    U just need to laugh,be happy be fun with them and that's how u treat yourself perfectly.....and madeline gives me those vibes toooo may God bless your soul you are such a beautiful soul

    • @minaa6952
      @minaa6952 5 місяців тому +1

      girl same, i relate as a fellow adhd girlie 🤍

    • @failedcaptcha
      @failedcaptcha 5 місяців тому +1

      This is exactly my situation rn

    • @Maryampahl
      @Maryampahl 5 місяців тому +1

      same here honestly. i blame pandemic as well.

  • @nadashehadeh5877
    @nadashehadeh5877 5 місяців тому +11

    you are the only person that i can listen to without being bored after 5 minutes. u made my day

  • @auriniu
    @auriniu 5 місяців тому +28

    The way her videos actually make my day ❤

  • @vicvessells
    @vicvessells 5 місяців тому +32

    Girl don’t negatively affirm u look horrible literally I was thinking how perfect ur hair and eyelashes r. And ur skin looks flawless. Negativly projecting how we feel by saying “I look horrible, I look ugly, my hair this my skin that” just ruins self esteem. Treat urself like a flower, cus if u told that all the time to a flower it’s die faster… or something like that you’d have to look it up. I think it’s a plant

  • @RedhairedShanks09
    @RedhairedShanks09 5 місяців тому +17

    You are one of the most prettiest girl I have ever seen. I wish you love and joy ❤

  • @melina8149
    @melina8149 5 місяців тому +11

    Madeline is SWEAR listening to you is therapeutic for me bc it's just like listening to myself without having to actually think on my own

  • @Emeliaalkerson
    @Emeliaalkerson 5 місяців тому +17

    Girl you made the Forbes 30 under 30!!!!! What an incredible accomplishment- keep shining bright!

  • @lauraturford
    @lauraturford 5 місяців тому +11

    New episodes from u on a Monday morning always brings me so much happiness....already looking forward to the next one 💖

  • @bellajli
    @bellajli 5 місяців тому +78

    7:58 'the first time was ssssss-eightteen' 😂

    • @sp.2778
      @sp.2778 5 місяців тому +5

      really i was like girl you not slick 😂

  • @ahmadalimi9784
    @ahmadalimi9784 5 місяців тому +15

    I loved the little readjusment at 7:59 when she almost said 16 instead of 18😂

  • @keziahmay3549
    @keziahmay3549 5 місяців тому +46

    Im so happy I just made pasta and now you’re here

  • @anonymousana7109
    @anonymousana7109 5 місяців тому +10

    Mad for the driving portion of the video I can probably clarify this for you as an American. They teach us to think ahead per se when we’re driving so if we know we have to do like a right turn or whatever or switch lanes. I’m gonna be in that lane that I need to be in to exit a couple blocks advance like I don’t switch lanes when I see the exit sign. I’m already in the lane.

  • @jasminapaczkiewicz2877
    @jasminapaczkiewicz2877 5 місяців тому +3

    I don’t live in LA but i literally want to be your friend af, the right ppl and relationships come at the right time, just be out there and everything will be fine❤️

  • @maryy9939
    @maryy9939 5 місяців тому +6

    It’s raining and I’m watching Madeline I love thisss

  • @celestia___xo133
    @celestia___xo133 5 місяців тому +5

    “Desperately begging for friends” bby girl same 😂

  • @AsmaTebourski-c7z
    @AsmaTebourski-c7z 5 місяців тому +2

    the fact that i can listen to madeline for hours

  • @lucabrandozzi8867
    @lucabrandozzi8867 5 місяців тому +13

    You and Brooke are a match FOR SURE

  • @Matt-nf2lo
    @Matt-nf2lo 5 місяців тому +15

    Is it me or is Madeline seem more happy? 😮😊

  • @Suziumy
    @Suziumy 5 місяців тому

    Omg I totally understand your situation with the feeling of loneliness in another country😭 I moved to Thailand like a 2 months ago, and it is so difficult for me to find a friend with who we could spend everyday just laughing and enjoying our lifes. I moved here from the Netherland, where I moved 2,5 years before, for study at uni where I for the first time in my life felt that I have that one friendship where you live literally 2 min from each other and you just come by each others houses to have a dinner and talk about what is going on in your life. I miss it so bad, but I totally understand that it was my choice move to Bangkok and now I just have to deal with it, I still try to work on it every day, communicate with people in order to just find one with who we will match with a vibe, but I take it as a lesson to get myself from a comfort zone and develop myself in it! Thank you for reading my therapy message lol and if you want to know if I'll find any friends here just follow my UA-cam channel hahaha

  • @floatx86
    @floatx86 5 місяців тому +4

    best 37 minutes of the week!

  • @nihachus9200
    @nihachus9200 5 місяців тому +2

    the playlist thing kills me 😭 i need one of those

  • @alexiaasf
    @alexiaasf 5 місяців тому +1

    Aritzia is a Canadian brand!! I’m from Toronto and I’m so happy to hear you shop there toooo literally my whole closet is Aritzia after shopping there since my teens
    they just have everything 😔❤️

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 5 місяців тому +5

    Thanks girl for sharing.
    Have an amazing wonderful day. ❤

  • @18kayyy82
    @18kayyy82 5 місяців тому +14

    You're so pretty I cant. 😍

  • @zackeryroper
    @zackeryroper 5 місяців тому +6

    You're also famous, Madeline.

  • @jennifersanchezmarin9990
    @jennifersanchezmarin9990 5 місяців тому +3

    Don’t worry about it b**** got me 🤣🤣🤣 love listening to your podcast & how you don’t censor yourself
    Sending love from Sam Francisco 🫶🏼

  • @ae-thena
    @ae-thena 3 місяці тому

    Hi Madeleine, what triggered terrible PCOS pain for me was the vaccine for covid. The next period right after was another thing entirely. And from what you said it could be around that time. Anyway I hope it improves.

  • @jadeocallaghan
    @jadeocallaghan 5 місяців тому +1

    your hair looks so good in this video

  • @chickenspy1854
    @chickenspy1854 5 місяців тому +1

    Also another crazy idea: the Ren Faire is happening in So Cal this month. Maybe that’s a good place to make friends?

  • @maximherremans7142
    @maximherremans7142 5 місяців тому +1

    congrats on 500K!!

  • @anghellamilian1772
    @anghellamilian1772 5 місяців тому

    If I lived in LA, I would 1000% hang out with you. Sorry it’s been hard, totally know the feeling. Hang in there. Hopefully going to Coachella will help!

  • @MsLoveDance1
    @MsLoveDance1 3 місяці тому

    Lewis Capaldi and Sasha Sloan are my comfy spotify artists

  • @Danstarr13
    @Danstarr13 5 місяців тому

    yeah people literally cannot handle someone else getting ahead of them in traffic, it's like they've just lost their entire self-worth if they let someone cut them off, tragic really

  • @Julianabanana12
    @Julianabanana12 5 місяців тому

    If your acne comes back I would recommend going to a naturopathic women’s health doctor I have been thru the ringer with acne and the prescriptions drugs lasers topicals have all been just a temporary improvement that has made my skin and mental health worse in the long term

  • @phenovision
    @phenovision 5 місяців тому

    you gotta try a drum and bass festival, electronic music in general is so euphoric (depending on the subgenre & the dj playing) but i'd say liquid drum and bass, if you go to liquicity in the netherlands, i think you'd love it! The people are always so nice too

  • @yeahnah4303
    @yeahnah4303 5 місяців тому

    love this episode! i completely agree and find myself also not trusting medicine for women. so sad

  • @puremovementhd8974
    @puremovementhd8974 5 місяців тому

    madeline you have the best personality.
    I love how you are from the UK and live in LA for a bit now and you don't switch up
    on the accent and it all, love from Canada have a good day. (if you see this tell mr. central cee aka okaley aka goat aka nyc goat aka london goat aka worldwide goat. big cench supporter since april 2020

  • @starlouise397
    @starlouise397 5 місяців тому

    I found you on a drive with me vid, you're awesome 🎉 now you're recommended 😅

  • @user-np8yf8fj2w
    @user-np8yf8fj2w 5 місяців тому

    different kinds of alcohol actually all have the same effect on us! it’s just in our heads how it effects us differently

  • @sophiadelpapa7227
    @sophiadelpapa7227 5 місяців тому

    I feel the wine thing I stg it makes me so fucking emotional and deep it’s such a thing

  • @serenity__now
    @serenity__now 5 місяців тому +4

    You re staying at alex’s place, is she not your friend / someone u can hang out with?

  • @nisakini8762
    @nisakini8762 5 місяців тому

    listening to this in 2x speed and its still slow madz

  • @afellowhomosapien3052
    @afellowhomosapien3052 5 місяців тому +3

    I’m in canada, and for pcos they gave me progesterone pills to balance by adding instead of taking away---idk if that helps or not but i figured id mention

  • @chickenspy1854
    @chickenspy1854 5 місяців тому +2

    This might sound crazy but we do have social meetups tailored for people who want to make friends. I’ve made a few that way. You’d be surprised how many people in LA are looking for friendship!
    All my friends are climbers. If you want to be active and make friends (the girls at my gym are all super cool), lmk! We have guest passes. I can take you or if you’re not comfortable with going with a dude, I can connect you with one of my friends!

  • @Sss23333
    @Sss23333 5 місяців тому +7

    Which products is she using on your skin? Hot girls don’t gatekeep 😂😭

  • @sweatynachos1422
    @sweatynachos1422 5 місяців тому +4

    This girl got the most insane face card ever. Im a guy

  • @crazyylion
    @crazyylion 5 місяців тому +1

    Lol ive had the same experience with the tequila 😂

  • @brinichole9536
    @brinichole9536 5 місяців тому

    i think the jojo slander is for not like preemptively being in a closer lane, instead of 4 left of where she needed to be, like if you need to turn get in a close lane so the merge isnt so unsafe (which i do think cutting across 3 lanes is pretty unsafe), to me it seems like most of the discourse is bc jojo is already on a bad list of people that will be made fun of bc she defended Colleen ballinger and abby lee miller and the car that she cut people off in has her face on it like if you drive a car like that and drive like that people think you’re basically asking to be made fun of

  • @graceannemaynard9054
    @graceannemaynard9054 Місяць тому

    you are so pretty it kills me

  • @Mrym_.2
    @Mrym_.2 5 місяців тому +3

    I think she wants to move to LA 😂❤

  • @sydneyweber546
    @sydneyweber546 5 місяців тому +4

    Where the fuck is Caitlyn Ray and Sara Baska y’all need to be friends

  • @myamygdala7
    @myamygdala7 5 місяців тому +1

    babe just tell us you’re moving to LA, it’s okay ☺️

  • @Noahcrusade99
    @Noahcrusade99 11 днів тому

    Friends are liars that want money.

  • @annalaporte6977
    @annalaporte6977 5 місяців тому

    Omg can you please talk about your trip in NZ pleasee

  • @halesalman620
    @halesalman620 Місяць тому +1

    Girl PLEASE tell me the brand of this jumper

  • @cad_0of502
    @cad_0of502 5 місяців тому +4

    Girl no why are you vaping? 😭😭

  • @erinkswart
    @erinkswart 5 місяців тому

    avia and madeline? YES PLEASE.

  • @timinri
    @timinri 5 місяців тому +1

    No HIPAA violations at Pilates

  • @mats7642
    @mats7642 5 місяців тому +1

    hello this was entertaining

  • @pascalemartinnn
    @pascalemartinnn 5 місяців тому +1

    ME. ME. I VOLUNTEER!

  • @meghanathota3136
    @meghanathota3136 5 місяців тому

    Okay, I love you!

  • @olga-jz7tj
    @olga-jz7tj 5 місяців тому

    well now i’m really thinking about trying tequila 😭

  • @lynda7488
    @lynda7488 5 місяців тому +1

    Home goods with Brooke please!

  • @alicepfeifer9693
    @alicepfeifer9693 5 місяців тому

    I've never been to LA
    But I have a bunch of AL
    ☘️

  • @LeahKathleen
    @LeahKathleen 5 місяців тому

    There is scientific evidence why Tequila is the best!!

  • @jadefaragher6137
    @jadefaragher6137 5 місяців тому

    Please become friends with Brooke. She loves you !

  • @John_Conner222
    @John_Conner222 5 місяців тому +4

    Was listening to you talk about wanting friends, and I thought aren't you friends with Avia? Then you said you were and I thought perfect! Then you said I don't want to bother her. No no, Avia is good people. I would prefer that you hang out with her and get introduced to her friend group than a bunch of druggies at Coachella. Maybe even do a video collab with her. You have everything you need within you. Alcohol is actually an old arabic word for Al-gawhawl (not sure on actually English spelling) which translates "Spirit Eater". Alcohol literally suppresses your spirit, allows negative energy to come in, and allows parts of you to come out that are not you, like going home with a random stranger.
    Also I wouldn't consider Coachella a place to find quality friends. It's fun to go but its literally a hippy fest. You want to build your online brand and network to meet high quality, like minded individuals. It takes work and its not fun at first but once you find some traction it gets really awesome, which is why i suggested you hang out with Avia as much as you can. LA is the City of Fallen Angels. You must take care of yourself out there. Everyone is traumatized. Just relax and keep present as best you can.
    Be careful moving forward as you are a very pretty. Other girls will view you as competition (especially in LA) for guys and will smile to your face but try to sabotage you behind your back and boys? Well boys want to "get" with you. Don't believe me? Message one of your guy friends and tell him you want to hook up. He will say yes and you will say "what?! no ewwww" and you will lose that friend but you will gain perspective. Watch this video again and listen to yourself talk. Alcohol hurts you and makes you not yourself and is preventing you from finding high quality friends and you want to stay inside. Why do you want to stay inside? What is the fear? Look for places that interest you that are not bars and concerts.

  • @bernardc9726
    @bernardc9726 5 місяців тому

    Tequila is pretty good. You should try bourbon whiskey next. It REALLY f’s you up and gives you an amazing buzz. I would say better and more potent than tequila. A new saying of mine is “you aren’t drinking properly until you start drinking liquor”. Wine sucks and isnt as cool as people think. Beer is OK. But ya liquor just blows the mind away in a great way. I’m glad you are enjoying the tequila - next time try drinking only bourbon and see what you think, hahahaha it will be hilarious, it’s definitely a different high, and I would argue a better one. Interesting to see that you are staying in the USA. It’s a good country even though it has it’s own unique set of problems socially and culturally - I’m sure you’ve noticed. Probably better than the UK though from what Ive seen. I just found out recently how downtrodden the UK is. Blew my mind. Anyways, stay safe out there, the US has it’s own brand of dangerous people that you will have to learn about. Take care from USA, maybe maybe not see you around.

  • @eshanatiti1733
    @eshanatiti1733 2 місяці тому

    U get me

  • @НаталяМороз-ж5х
    @НаталяМороз-ж5х 5 місяців тому

    First Madeline the best 🎉

  • @Alessia-ld6dh
    @Alessia-ld6dh 5 місяців тому +3

    love u mads💋

  • @amandinebechet7691
    @amandinebechet7691 5 місяців тому

    12:27 i personally need some girlies in London PLEASE girls I am on my kneees begging

  • @Scarzce
    @Scarzce 5 місяців тому +1

    🖤

  • @vanessamanrique3489
    @vanessamanrique3489 5 місяців тому

    i take zinc capsules and inositol powder to help with my PCOS! it's helped a lot

    • @vanessamanrique3489
      @vanessamanrique3489 5 місяців тому

      i see a naturopath who specializes in hormonal imbalances and PCOS, and there are so many natural ways to lessen symptoms of PCOS!

  • @userfiteenhundredandzevent7225
    @userfiteenhundredandzevent7225 5 місяців тому +2

    where is your hoodie from?

  • @nexusmediaworld
    @nexusmediaworld 2 місяці тому

    I like you say: Do you know what I mean..

  • @chantalbarazarte
    @chantalbarazarte День тому

    If u ever come to venezuela you have a frienddd, meee

  • @kelseyelizabeth01
    @kelseyelizabeth01 5 місяців тому

    I feel like naturopathy could help with the cause & effects of pcos

  • @Vvik.aa__
    @Vvik.aa__ 5 місяців тому

    She is literally so me

  • @jadalee9846
    @jadalee9846 5 місяців тому

    I feel like you and Luna Montana would be great friends

  • @divineenitan
    @divineenitan 5 місяців тому

    ily

  • @ashhhley31
    @ashhhley31 5 місяців тому

    icon

  • @valentinaperez3379
    @valentinaperez3379 5 місяців тому

    Girl you need to be friends with ysabelle Wallace

  • @AsemaB
    @AsemaB 5 місяців тому

    Come here I’ll be your friend Madeline

  • @fcgllegend6696
    @fcgllegend6696 5 місяців тому

    niceee

  • @brodie4189
    @brodie4189 5 місяців тому

    Butthole cramps r the fucking worst girl I usually put my hands against either side of the wall and silently scream into my shirt 😭😭 I feel seen

  • @23shantii
    @23shantii 5 місяців тому

    Best

  • @vianeygonzalez4176
    @vianeygonzalez4176 5 місяців тому

    Literally me I am LA girly! let's be friends :)

  • @kardrek2461
    @kardrek2461 3 місяці тому

    You look better without make up BTW

  • @bobalvr777
    @bobalvr777 5 місяців тому

    literally.

  • @HelloKittyUwW07
    @HelloKittyUwW07 5 місяців тому

    Same people on the roads are so mean in America

  • @robertmclaughlin7750
    @robertmclaughlin7750 7 днів тому

    You have the greatest friend ever. He,s there always. Open your eyes. He s smiling at you him his angels are there. Clear your mind so you can see him. Those demons want to keep your mind tangled u.p when you acept jesusand the holy spirt enters your life. Its like getting the greatest orgasm of your life. Snd just like it when you get off you get pieces and calm laying there with such passion. And his blessings will follow..

  • @nananazoo
    @nananazoo 5 місяців тому

    love u

  • @victorbustos2392
    @victorbustos2392 5 місяців тому

    Where's the djs?

  • @MEUOPP
    @MEUOPP 5 місяців тому +1

    Hii 😂❤